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He stepped inside his home he was so
an angel came with words from God. Things were still
saying read read, but he could not read amazing words that he heard.
A trembling deep inside is confused by word.
There was only one could comfort him to help him see
his face to reassure
him his wife, he said, some melone some melone Duffy, Ronnie, the
task is come with me I need you here with me.
hamdulillah salatu salam ala rasulillah
salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato. Now Allah Subhana Allah tada bless this gathering. May Allah subhanho wa Taala bless all the sisters and brothers or whoever is here in this room. And may Allah Subhana Allah Allah bless this endeavor started by the sisters, the Sunnah, sisters or sisters. And it's a it's an SOS it's an interesting name. It's a It's a beautiful name, sisters. So now as soon as SR or SLS, it's really very interesting, very beautiful. May Allah make you on the path of the sun? And Allah subhanho wa Taala make all this in the Book of Records of the sisters and brothers who have initiated this project and make it in unison hessonite inshallah. Tada.
So, something about, you know, the the topic here about leadership, you know, especially for the sisters, because always, always the sisters, they wonder, you know, what's our role, we hear a lot about, you know, female companions, when oftentimes, you have these
speakers or she, you know, talking, giving lectures, they talk a lot about, you know, male companions. So we hear a lot about abubaker, we hear a lot about Arma. We hear a lot about a man and he, he and the like, and we heard about their sacrifices and efforts. But we don't hear much about women commitment, companions.
So sometimes sisters do wonder, do we have any role?
Well, and that's our topic today. So that to let you know that these male companions that we tend to talk about that some of the scholars talk about, there are products of women. And if it was not for Allah, then these women, then those men wouldn't have been here today or wouldn't have been there, then, or these neither means that you see today, they are all the products of women. And this is why I want to concentrate on some of the some of the female leaders that left a legacy so that we can come back here today and ask ourselves, as sisters, as women as wives and daughters and mothers and aunties, what's my role reading now that I know what these women have done? So me now what is my
role? What's my obligation? Do I have any, any play or any say in the whole thing? Allah subhanho wa Taala says that that would be lamina Chautauqua, Jim,
on Tom hire Ohm Ohara. Jacqueline,
you weren't the best nation that came out to mankind. You are the best nation that came out to mankind. So go to her alma is he talking to the male companions? Is he talking to his family? Is he talking to, you know, to only the family of the parent?
is Allah subhanaw taala talking to only you know, uncles and fathers and brothers going to highlight Oh, man, you were the best nation that came out to mankind come to you here you means men and women.
Understand, I don't see you, but I hope you get it. You know. I mean, I'm, I tried to interact a lot with my audience. I'm so subtle here. I cannot really because I can't see I can't interact with you. But we'll work something out in Charlottetown because I need to engage you here.
You are, you know when Allah Subhana Allah Allah says, Yes, I wish to toss candy.
What I can do right here, I'll throw out oh yeah wireless hugs Navy.
So, you are the best nation what Allah says you are that includes men and women, men and women. So, sisters you are part of this nation. And listen, you know in the Adobe, we say the saying or this phrase a list from which they say that women are half of the society and I always tell them that you are wrong. I always say that this this saying or this expression is is wrong. Why? Because women are not half of the society women are the entire society is like lockout assistance of a male I bless you, I can't I cannot throw water but the only thing I can do is maybe maybe some wireless hogs or or something at the end of the show. I love that.
So sisters, you've got to be a role model, you know?
Why do I say the entire society because you are the mother, you are the MC You are the wife You are the sister You are the daughter you know, you are in fact the entire society. If you see these men out there, they will not be successful if it was not for a lot then you so you are the one sister who can produce the future Ayesha, which we'll talk about the future Abubakar, the future among the future and in the future, Khadija, the future, Fatima, you are the sisters, you are the ones who can produce these, these women and men who can, who can leave a legacy and who can, who can drive this into this mother into the Renaissance that we are in need, especially at this time and eight sisters
who are listening to me here today. So you've got to be a role model, you've got to be a role model for for every for every wife out there, you've got to be a role model for every mother out there, you've got to be a role model for every bar out there. For every sister out there, you've got to be a role model. And this is the question and inshallah, before I end this talk tonight, or today
I would ask you a question because I don't want you to go to sleep to make sisters I don't want you to go to sleep tonight until you decide actually have a plan. And that plan is what is my role. And what I'm going to do starting tonight in shallow data to serve is that to serve the Muslims to serve the community to serve the society not only Muslims, you know, in but in general to serve your society, you know, what is my role? What can I do so inshallah Allah before you go to sleep tonight, we need to work on a plan, I'm gonna help you what kind of plan and and do something for the sake of Allah subhanaw taala, so that you can leave your fingerprints behind you. You know, I was taking a
course in the US. I remember a long time ago when I was doing my masters.
And it was a psychology course at the end of my, you know, one of the courses that I was taking, and at the end of the course the teacher says,
what is it that you want to say?
What is it that you want people to say about you after you die? These what the teacher said he was not a Muslim. He said, What is it that you want people to say about you after you die?
Yeah, and he, you know, in other words, what's your what's your legacy? How do you want to be remembered? That was like 15 years ago, and I still live with that question. How do I how do I want to be remembered? What is it that I want people to say about me after I die? Did I make a change? Did I did I? Did I do anything good in my life the people so that people can remember we would or or? Or if if I were to leave if I were to die and then and then my name is mentioned with even even when people say oh
Listen, yeah if I'm lucky, would they remember me to say May Allah bless him? Allah saw his mercy upon him. Yes, he did so much for the community. He did so much for the society Mashallah he does he did you know well that is not what I want to hear inshallah clear I hope so now, but
who is the Sharia who have never heard of him? I don't know who this is. This sister Society of sisters. So now whatever SOS SOS Yeah, I need help SOS that's all I need. Sisters. I don't know whose sisters so nice. Never heard of it.
You know? So is that is that how do you want to be remembered? No, as soon as I'm done, I know sisters like getting to know people getting to know In fact, you know, when I when I was in the UK, I was getting the sisters out there now but sisters
about the one second I'm sorry.
I was standing the you know, the community out there and some of the sisters about the about this program. And so the question here really is
I want to do something really for the sake of Allah Subhana Allah data for the sake of you know,
The community for the sake of the society, but sisters enough for you to do something, you need to have role models. So who are your role models? Who can I who can I take as a role model? So today inshallah I'm going to talk about some women role models so that we can compare and contrast women role models now the first
and here's the thing here's the thing here's an expression we say not only
is our T and daddy fee in the law Hema Palmer key from Billy FEMA I'm lucky
Let me repeat either our anti free in de la Hema Tamaki from Laurie crema Tamaki you guys speak Arabic If you speak Arabic type in one
type to them.
Oh man. Okay. All right. So let me translate it for you to hear me 0.5 0.5 I speak English
a little bit in English I English. Okay. Okay. I'm matchy matchy I don't have no problem. Or bottomless bottomless. I speak Polish. Okay, that's fine. France. Okay. masala masala. I was talking about Arabic. You know, keep your French and keep your Polish though. I'm just joking. I'm just joking. I found one say Oh, no problem. No problem.
All right. No problem. So here we go. Here's his This is what it says.
Okay, okay. Okay. Okay. Thank you. Thank you.
So much. Brianna says the summer I told you last time anyways.
Here's what it says here is
in the lahemaa karma key from COVID FEMA calm it is very, very important. If you want to know your status in the sight of Allah jesters. If you want to know your status in the sight of Allah, look at yourself and see what you're doing for the sake of Allah.
Now, this is what he says. If you want to know your status in the same in the sight of Allah, you level in the sight of Allah, where you stand in the sight of Allah, look at yourself and see what are you doing? For the deen of Allah? If Allah is utilizing you for you, then that's your, that's your level.
And if Allah is using you, is employing you for his Deen, then that is your that is your level.
Now, absolutely. If you're doing nothing, then I'm sorry to say maybe your level is is nil. You know, you need to do something for a second.
That is your that is your level and Allah Subhana Allah with that. So some illustrations from from the best of the women in the world, as the Prophet Mohammed.
He says, the best of all women in the whole world, Marian. The Prophet Mohammed also says Maria Maria Mary
Khadija been to Hawaii
and popping up into Mohammed, the Prophet says the the four best women in the entire world.
Marian Milan, Mary, the daughter of Mr. Khadija Khadija
asiyah, the wife of a lamb and Fatima, the daughter of the Prophet Mohammed Ali salatu salam let me take the first example. Let me take a Mr. Mr. Prince instance let me take just a moment.
Before we even want to marry and others, the wife of Emma
she, she pledged she dedicated what's in her womb for Allah subhanho wa Taala
for me in
the work of Mr. Xi says so a lot identity gate, what's in my whoo in your service for the company who made me accepted from me? Yeah, I mean, as if she says more luck, the best I can give you it's in what's in my wall. So please accept this gift from me what she's saying, Oh Allah, whatever comes up from me from my wall. It will be in your service.
And then she pledged she did dedicated her baby to Allah.
peloton and the service was a was
a lovely medium. Ladies and gentlemen, the millions and the millions of the Christians today they are in the book of deeds and the Book of Records of Marian.
No, before that she they are in the records of the wife of Enron. And then she passed on that legacy dominium who passed on that legacy tree? Sorry, Sarah. All the questions are in the Book of Records of, of
the wife of a man or
a woman. She's a woman. And she gave birth to a woman.
She gave birth to a woman
who gave birth to her Isa, and they worked and described and they struggle and they made so much effort. Can she be like her sister? Can you be like the wife of a man? Or can you be like Miriam? Or can you be you know, like these women who have left a legacy? Khadija Khadija Whalen Allah subhanho wa Taala selected her Khadija she you know what, ladies and gentlemen or ladies, I don't know if the gentlemen are here, but maybe ladies
you know this woman Khadija.
Ah, if you look at the Arabs at the time of the Prophet Mohammed is a cylinder pollachi
you will you compare him with you know, not only with the best of men and they will bring in the best of men and you will not find somebody a smart Khadija. She was so smart. She was just that very strong intellect of your love and she had so much wisdom about your lover and who Khadija Khadija been to Korea. She had she possess so many qualities Mashallah. She was beautiful.
And she was rich. Yet she was very Weiss.
She had a very strong intellect. She was a great businesswoman. None she was she was a very great businesswoman. Though the best love history of all time. The best long history really it's not about you know, the love history or the love story of Romeo and Juliet or ice ya know?
And all those, all those, you know,
The best love story of all time is the story of the Prophet Muhammad Ali sought to slam with Khadija.
Yes. Did they know love or about you? Of course they knew what love was. They knew the best form of love. the cleanest love and the Prophet Mohammed has so much love for her Khadija
Mr. Hara his last rule of law don't want the best of all in this event A lot of people are not doing today, the better called meditation
the better of
meditation he would go into
and then his wife those of you that may ask your sisters type in one How many of you went to Makkah one if you have gone to Makkah
So maybe on if you
were up in US history, those who have gone to Mecca you know that Hara Hara some people they go to Mexico to climb to go up to her Hara, it takes them two hours for a man, a man to walk up the mountain from the bottom to the top.
It takes two hours.
Understand, two hours to walk up. Now I'm not Khadija imagine Khadija every day with him at the time. She would take her daughter and then they would look up to bring food to us on the last lesson.
Before the Prophet was a prophet. Every day she would come with her husband isn't doing a better she would walk up every day bringing food to her husband. She would not come to complain to her husband. Oh, what you're doing here. I'm here with the guy. I'm here with the kids. I'm here with this complaint and I got bills to pay got started and now you're sitting here doing nothing. You should come home and help me You should come home and look after the kids you should come home and cook you should come home and do this and that no she did not do that ladies and gentlemen or ladies out there she went every day bringing food to her husband she put in her husband
that's what Allah selected her.
Ah, Allah subhana wa tada selected her and she was older than the Prophet Muhammad is supposed to them. The Prophet today is 14 years old and she was 55 when the Prophet Mohammed
got the the
The The, the the the way, the revelation.
The Prophet got the way and then what happened was he got a salatu salam. When he came down he came down he was he went to his best friend he did not go to infect Abu Bakar he did not go to other other other of his friends know he went straight to his best soulmate who did he go to he went to
have deja deja deja de Nino Nisa, Milan is a Milan e commerce e commerce Cover me cover me Oh, Khadija Khadija came. And then she hugged the Prophet Mohammed it says so she covered it. And then she hugged the Prophet Mohammed Ali Salatu was Salam. She tried to conflict and it's up to them as if she's saying, Don't worry, happy be happy. Don't worry. You're okay. You're right. You're gonna be fine. You are. You're a good man. You're kind man. I will not let you down. She's comforting. She's comforting her husband.
Did she take him to? She took him straight to him. She took him to her uncle because she wanted comfort. rasulillah is really terrified.
Very terrified. Let's talk about his petrified restaurant. Why scared? Who's this man who came hugged me so tight?
shigri an angel.
And then he went down is scared. He does not know what's going on. Then she came in. She says let me take you she took him to her uncle.
She cares. She took him to what I have. No, no, no, no. I know what that I know. That is a nemos that is the she believe that is the that is the a the angel she been sent out. And then and then as you start to comfort him and her to comfort him.
She did not leave him alone. She did not say that. You're crazy. That was just a dream. That was just a nightmare. You lost your Mohammed, you lost it. You're crazy. No, no, no.
That's why I wasn't chosen and selected her. And then we are real. She had started the real sacrifice started. Sisters, she would she would protect him during the day. All the money that whatever she accumulated, she invested on the Prophet Mohammed Ali Salatu was Salam.
What did she do to protect him in the morning? And then at night, she would hire someone to go and follow Him and
she did not want anyone to harm him.
Who is this? Khadija showed her somebody at night and she would follow him in the morning and she would prepare she would make sure that his home is serene. Whenever he comes home, he will find a serene place a happy place. No complaints, no complaints. She never complained. So much. So when they went into that siege, and she was 63 years old sisters in the sense of of shine,
shine. When they went to shine a bit on it. They put the profit and the Muslims under siege. She was 63 years old. For three years.
In a siege, no food, no drink, orange, they had like a blockage. They did not send no food. No nothing was permitted for the Muslims. They went to Khadija, Khadija. No, Your Honor amongst us go back to your home.
Go back to your home. Khadija, and you were staying at home with my wife says that we will look after you. You don't have to stay with them. What did she say? What did she say? She says no, no, I want to stay with my husband. He goes, I go he comes back I come back. I stay with my husband. Thing is what did she do within those three years she would go and around distributed food for the Muslims. Whatever she had, she would distribute and give for the sake of Allah for the Muslims supporting her husband, she put in the Muslims and who was with Fatima Fatima
was with her little girl and her mother looking what her mother was doing and helping. She would she would starve herself and give and give to the Muslims and give to the Prophet Mohammed Ali supposin so much.
Down to congratulate her and to convey the Center for Allah subhana wa Tada. Oh Khadija Allah is conveyed, he sent them to you. She started crying. She started crying, saying Allah, Allah is convinced to me. What should I say? I don't know what to say. What should I say? Allah another Prophet told her say Allah hum antecedent.
One in Santa Barbara.
Allah said that you are the source of peace and from you comes to please
grant Glory, Glory be to You Subhana
Allah imagine, imagine what is conveyed his sentiment to a woman Khadija, and and congratulating her would work with a house of Shanna house, a palace in Geneva.
And the Prophet did not forget about this, ladies and gentlemen, the prophet was so loyal, so many years after her death.
So many years after the death of the Prophet Mohammed Ali Salatu was Salam. He never forget, forgot about Khadija.
Even though he was with Ayesha
Ayesha, and then he will talk about Khadija mentioned. One time somebody came and knocked at the door and then he rushed. He was sitting with honey.
And he says honey, honey Khadija you open the door, and then who was on the door? It was Khadija sister, how did your sister came to see them? And then he smelled the smell of Khadija from incises.
He was so excited to hear about Khadija to see the Khadija his daughter, a sister who is to remind him of Khadija one day with the Sahaba was an old woman and then he went to her. And then he was talking to her. He took his his son, Adam, he gave it to him. He gave it to her. And then I was looking
and then and the Prophet was listening. And then and then when he came back ISIS jasola who's the old woman?
Yeah, I know what it is. That's how it is. I know. That's how it is. You know, this is all I created women. Even I she's just been jealous. She says Who is she was that old woman. The Prophet Muhammad is awesome says she is just friends. She's having this friend we were talking about last time she reminded me of Khadija. We're talking about Allah. We're talking about the good times.
We're talking about the awkward time. We're talking about the time of Khadija.
Hola Hola. Hola.
This is our solomani SelectUSA
but this woman who left history and she gave him she gave him Fatima. She gave him a mocha.
She gave him she gave him the air that he breeds he gave him she gave him you know, he's he's daughters and sons, you know how you know, you know who *ed him up?
When you see, you see the Prophet Mohammed I used to love her so much.
bring in another example. Because you know, if I were to talk about Khadija I would need I would need
maybe lectures and lectures but
let me talk about
quitting. Another role model
for you sisters for women leaders. Alicia was leader Look at her Asia, Russia.
She did not live too long with the Prophet Muhammad Ali Hassan.
When the Prophet died, she was only 18 years old.
When the Prophet died, she was only 18 years old. She married him when she was nine. And then she died when she was 18.
The Prophet consummated the marriage when she was 11.
Mm hmm. He says about I shot he says
if I were to compare
the knowledge of older men, the knowledge of Alisha would supersede
she had so much most of the law and how ba Ma Ma used to say about the kind of value of kindness. She used to have. She used to be the most cocky in terms of in terms of the dean. She used to be the most knowledgeable about
She had a sister by the name of snap. right smack she married Zubair and this is our daughter was the son of the son of a snap, you know and and her brother, the brother of Ayesha
He has to say what
he said he says
more knowledgeable than I
used to say he got
either a scholar, you know, Obama says if we have any disagreement about a certain hobby or discrepancy, we will go to Arusha. And I shall give us the solution.
Obasanjo Muslim, no 1200 in Africa.
If you look back at a mosque in a Muslim, there's about 1200 Howdy, just about the loneliness just
alone ladies and gentlemen generated more than 207 Jedi. In fact, only
one fourth of the story is narrated by Ayesha
understand one fourth of our *ty one foot of the ACA are only reported by shalom.
Now she used to go to masala and
she goes, sisters, I know I know. I know. I know. You know. And I know if you brothers are listening if your husband and listening. I she she used to go to the salon.
And she tell him Do you love me?
You love me? And the power to tell you why I love you.
And then she would tell him how do you love me how much you love me? Just like all women out there, you know? Oh, honey, you love me? And you say yes. And then you and then she says How much?
I just love you. I just love you know how much you love me. I just used to ask the same question to her husband. Do you love me? And the promises Yes. I love you. How much do you love me the puppet to say I love you like a not in a in a in a in a in a rope? You know the nuts in a rope? Is how much I love you. And you know not in a rope like this.
And then from time to time I should go back and she says oh that's how tight is that bro? Is that not? how tight is it? The Prophet would say very tight. Very tight. Yeah, I still love you. I love you. Yeah, I love you very much. And then she goes back from time to time. How much do you still love me? How much? what's what's not Yella sama? How is it? The perfect would say? Very tight. Very tight. Yeah. And yeah, I shot my love for you is still the same
Holla Holla Holla Holla. Yes, Allah. Who is this?
In fact, I'm a mouse. I'm a mouse.
He went to law school
after they were so he was so happy after the battle. And he was coming excited to us a lot. And he came he says, Yeah, I'm gonna come and tell us all this good news. And he says,
who's the most beloved person to you? And then he said, The Prophet says, Ayesha.
and then and then and then and then it says, jasola No, no, no, from the men from the men who is the most beloved you know, person to you from the men. And then the Prophet says,
her father, that you know, her father cuz he thought he's gonna tell me he thought, he thought he said, he thought that the family was saying no.
But then the Prophet says, I shot and number from the men, and then from the men the purposes her father, your father and honey. Abubakar
said Who's next? And then he says,
Who's next? And then
he says the prophet in the rate that he gave him 1020 names 20 names, but my name wasn't there. But the first name was
the Prophet did not forget Khadija did not forget the loyalty that he had for Khadija, but this is accidental. He says, we have to now just I shot my wife.
And he was proud to say Arusha he didn't say
the mother of the kids. Our lead
yo Her name is yo
who the mother of the kids Yanni my my wife, whatever Yeah. Oh, that was oh man. Oh, that.
The mother was mother. Yeah. My wife my wife. Yeah, no, the prophets.
Hi Sasha Anisha he mentioned her name he said he shot
some time he used to say
ash I wish I should I use you, you pump her
you know hi Sheila and Nicosia well good luck
used to love her so much. But she was known you know, she was known she was Arima, let me tell you about something about
it you know I said about 1200 Heidi, if we look at the about no bones generated most Hadith of the Prophet of Islam most heavy when directed by number one
number two of the love mama
number three and as pneumonic number four
You see, let me repeat one more time. The most most hobbies are reported by this format. Number one, most of the profit are reported by number one.
Number two and number three is nomadic awake after Ennis comes out I shall I shall address both of them. She narrated so many Hadith of the Prophet is at the center. She learned so much from him. That's why she married him when she was very young, so that she can leave that legacy and teach.
Teach she was teaching. You know, so many men are in the Book of Records of eyeshadow.
And she was at the time you know, she was you know, over 40 years old.
But she left a legacy.
She left a legacy behind her. She was
she was yellow. Can you be like Ayesha sister.
Why are we not be Sophia? He has to say
I'm sorry. Yeah. And he was meaning she used to speak she was so eloquent in her speech. Now it was known to be
eloquent speakers. I shot she was such an eloquent speaker. She knew how to speak
she had so much I needed so much on the level Hannah sisters who is this I'm talking about?
What is the Cheeto
and in terms of
m of n, l of Hades and have the RV and have shed
anything you name it she had it
if you talk about any type of knowledge, I show you the line that she had that type of knowledge Mashallah, no No, no don't ask don't don't don't just say what am I gonna do? I'm just the woman What can I do? There's so much you could do
so much if you know Arabic Why don't you teach your sisters Arabic If you know why don't you teach sisters or
any skills that you have if you know Mashallah a good leader you know how that you know leadership skills and whatnot teach leadership skills teach about you know, if you know about goal setting, change goals, whatever it you know, just don't stand still. You understand? I told this to my sisters and brothers in when I was in the UK, I say the SS don't stand still. Don't stand thin just do something. Take no take an action do something, do something for the sake of loss of data. Leave something to be remembered with.
You know, what can I do this so much you could you know English Mashallah teach me English. You know, science Teach me you know, you know, math, teach math, you're good at it. You have some time, spare time, go to a mission, go to the library, go to a bookstore, go to hospital, do something for the sake of Allah subhana wa unsane here, you know, in general, I don't have to only you know, pitch in in the Muslim committee also Muslim society now, we need your help. But also it could be in when you're not in the hospital, or the library or bookstore. We just shot the CO working this year doing stuff and then you in yourself you're giving our injured hour with your ship with the way your dress
interrupts our for the sake of a muscle.
So you have no reason to tell me. I'm a woman. There's nothing I can do. My my job is just to produce kids.
Really? Yes. Yes. My job is to get married. Once my husband comes. I'll cook for him. I'll clean him. I take a makeup taking a bath. Take him to take a bath. If he comes back from the bath. I'll give him a massage.
And then read the story for him before he goes to sleep and then sink for him when he goes
To sleep, and then and then after, after that, I
make him sleep. And then I will go back and prepare breakfast. And that's enough for my
kids. And I make kids make kids. That's my job to make kids. And that's it. That's all.
They're all like, if that's what you think your job is, yeah, really? Really? Really? What that's what you think and really
just Oh, honey, she's saying Really?
I don't know, maybe in some country that how No,
no, she's saying was the share. So let's just assume that was the ship that you're bringing to the activity. That's to just make kids. And maybe that's what she was wondering. I'm being sarcastic.
I'm not telling you that you should just take and then produce, you know, kids and then and then and then Cobra husband and then go and train him and, and then and then the best thing for him and, and, and tell him a story before he goes to sleep.
Twinkle, twinkle little star, you know what I'm saying? Yeah.
No, that's not what I'm saying. And I'm saying, you know, I'm telling you, you've got no reason today, and I'm gonna talk about more. Um, I yeah, do pumper. Your men do pumper him because he was bumper, you know, as well. No, not. My frame is what do you have to pay for your husband? Look, what have you God, I just used to pamper, you know,
manager so that they would go they would, you know, take shower together, they would take a bath together.
They would race together. Yeah, they would do sports together. You know, so this is it. So I'm sitting here, don't don't just say I'm a woman, what can I do for the second? What can and there's so much that you could do so much. Let me talk a little bit about you know, some other women and what they can do and so you can take them as examples as well. May Allah subhana wa Taala bless you all, I hope I'm not boring you or you're bored. And I know you can't and I cannot see you but I don't know how you seen there.
May Allah bless you. Is that Kamala Harris? Why don't you Why don't you stand up and give me 10 jumping jacks, sisters.
Send up some jumping jacks, yellow gamma
1-234-567-8910 10 jumping jacks give me 10 jumping jacks. I like that. All right. All right. All right.
have seven trauma.
How sad the daughter of Ahmad the wife of the Prophet Mohammed and his son Justin. You know her nickname in her nickname is Asana.
Asana and karma.
You know, that means how she was known to, to fast a lot.
she was known to do too much PML at any point at night, and also too much crane. So her nickname was a woman a woman. I chose the same now. I just used to give too much, you know, in terms of charity. She used to give so much of the law and how about she used to love to give charity. So much so that one day she had so much money that she gave all in China. She was fasting came to her her maid who told her Oh, didn't you do anything for yourself? Because you need to break your fast. And then she says Oh, why didn't you remind me? Yes.
Why didn't you remind me? She's telling her, her? Her me? Why didn't you remind me that I needed to break my fast. Yeah, she forgot. She forgot the fact that she loves to give charity. She loves to give charity she would choose you know, whenever she had some money, she would put it in some some Musk, you know, she had some coins, she would take those coins. And she would put them in some apple like some musk. And then she would give the fruits I believe that you know why just I want to give this money. I want to make it smell nice because it's gonna go for the sake of Allah. So I want to give this money with a beautiful smell. So whenever she have some money, she had like a pistol or
some some some cologne or perfume, and then she would dip it into the mask. And then then she would go and give it to the second one lots of parallel with that.
Whatever. She had one date once one date, and then she gave it to me sebelah Why? She says
whosoever makes a good deed or does a good deed as small as trivial as an atom, an atom it should see it and go save it as a baddie as trivial, as small as an atom. He or she should see it so I'm you know, never understood
estimate no she says I haven't I have a date that's all I have. She gave it for the sake of Allah
that's that's what I have the date I give it for the sake of the last panel that she did but under estimates
she's the love giving sadaqa how far
she's to know and like I said to do pmla sisters do you like pmla
emulator like prayer? When was the last time you print the Emily
Ramadan is coming are we gonna wait for Ramadan? Did you wake up your husband? Those of you who are married that Lucha sister sama mela bless you never received a coffee did you wake up your husband sister summer to pray with you
sister fat and lovey good sister summer did you wake up your husband to pray with you
the other sisters did you wake up your husband's to pray with you?
Okay handling common law then do that wake up her husband's nicely Mashallah those of you who are married and then an old stand up together and pray for the sake of Allah subhana wa tada because you'll be you don't know no no no bucket of water just easy easy to work and then you just you know have you been on my on the My this my journey know how that was just like this you know you know don't don't put the whole water just leave it you know splash the water wake him up and revive that shouldn't even house to invite off the invite sisters invite interest to come to your home. We sometimes when she's from sisters they call me but then this issue we have voices in our homes. And
I say What do you mean? Maybe we have gene
gene in our home? I say yes. Okay.
in your home, you know do you do you have to listen to music in your home? Do you pray do you what do you
say no, no, no, no, no, no, that's okay. What I think you have a bit of genius. Why don't you invite the angels to your home
invite angels so how do I invite angels pray in your home Do you think in your home especially with your kids would your husband's you know even by yourself unless I know data really blessed you with the with your soulmate, inshallah hota Anna, so that was how some of the Aloha. There's so many other examples that I want to share with you today. inshallah, the other example that I want to share with you is the example of
almost, also the wife of the Prophet Mohammed Ali Salatu was Salam.
She used to love to make fun of Allah subhanho wa Taala.
She still wants to make Vicar. One time the Prophet Mohammed Ali sought to set up, he entered, you know, he went to visit her. And then she was making the case of Allah subhana wa Tada. And then he came back, he came to visit during the morning, this was like before, and then he came back after.
And she was still making the COVID Watson Hana. Tada. So he told her, oh, yeah, I'm gonna teach you something very nice, better than all this. And then he taught me so say three times. So Pamela he will be hanging out of the house a while. He was in the top. So he want me dad that can be Matty. He says if you say this three times, it is better for you than this old IQ that you have made the whole day.
Now, I'm also saying I will talk about seniors when there was another study, but
I will talk
about as well.
So this is a beautiful thing. You can find this in, in the book of
Muslim, you may find it I think in the Muslim, the fortress of the Muslim, you could find this do you know about the decay of Allah subhanho wa Taala and
Xena, if we talk about Zenith, Zenith the
sisters, here's another beautiful example about Xena, Xena brijesh you know,
after the death of the Prophet Mohammed is then used to give an allowance to the wives of the Prophet Muhammad
used to give allowance to the wives of the Prophet Mohammed is at the center. So her her monthly allowance is 100,000 let me write it for you. 100,000 that
is how much each wife used to get from America after the death of the Prophet Mohammed.
Bin to Josh, that that that that that you know that 100,000 dirhams choose to spend it all for the sake of Allah.
One day, there were so many spoils of war, she got 100,000 of them in one day.
Gave her 100,000 in one day. So she took that 100,000 and then she split it into different small pockets. And then she started giving away and you know, at night when she came back to sleep
She did not have one single dime in her pocket or for the sake of Allah.
And then I heard about this and Imani said, Yeah, I mean, he only needs to call her only, you know, all the mothers of the believers, their names, you know, they call the mother, you know, only only the mother, only what did you do for yourself? What did you do for yourself? Then he sent her, you know, he sent her another 1000.
Note and he said, Please keep it for yourself so that you can eat and eat something with it. You know what she used to do? She was a some hammer like a craft craft woman.
She used to take leather, and she used to make stuff from leather. She used to take make things from leather, and then she would sell them take the money and then spend that money for the sake of her life. Why? Because the money that used to give her is not actually her money. So she wanted to take something from her own money from her own sweat. So what did she use to do she would go and take leather and she would make stuff from leather and then she would go and spend it for the sake of Allah Subhana Allah that she used to love Sarah Gibbons. You love sadaqa
When was the last time you gave Saba Nah. So this is the thing you know, there's so many things you could do. Safe masala Mashallah, Mashallah. Khadija masala? How do you met someone they met someone do that. Do that for the sake of Allah subhana wa tada do that with the intention that Allah subhana wa tada would bless you bless your family, guide you and guide your family guide your husband got your children got your parents know with with an intention inshallah tada you know, so it'll be so many women Ladies and gentlemen, they've loved so much and they've done so much. I'm giving you some examples. You know, like you know, floppy metal yellow bar, or even a snap. Look at a snap. I'm
gonna go back a little bit.
But it's not
the this is aqui Saba, it's all it's okay. Because they're just you know, maybe you know, trying to encourage one another like
when he came to the Prophet Mohammed I just remember that the Prophet says today who who gave sadaqa today I went back and said I did roleplay dinner
piano back said it who went and visited sick today I went back and said it so it was just back to to encourage one another you know the Prophet did not you know say troublemaker Why did you say me? You know it was just in fact to encourage one another so for the sister to say I did as long as they just want to encourage the others forgiving and and for you know doing good deeds inshallah second lucky thank you
a smell of the law and you know this is when the Prophet Muhammad as Islam what was what is her brother in with her father in the in the calf? In that you know, in that
in that cave? Who used to bring them food?
Yes, gelato who used to bring them food sisters I come up here you but you can type we used to bring them food
type who used to bring food to the prophet and and and and
the wife and a daughter who
hadisha no honey, no honey, this is I'm talking about this is after the death of the Prophet. Not in Russia. I'm talking about this is when the Prophet was was went hiding when he migrated from Mecca to Medina. And then he went hiding in this cave for three days. Who used to bring them food.
Yes, most of you got it. It was a snap. And you know sisters how how you know there was something about snap number one between America and beach one half of the total store is about 10 kilometers. Okay, it's about 10 kilometers as the ladies she was seven months pregnant.
That means let me type it for you.
Okay, she was seven months pregnant, and she used to walk 10 kilometres to bring foot for the perfect and her father.
So don't tell me sisters, what can I do? A law. Also sisters Don't tell me or if your husband tomorrow says I cannot wake up to Professor in the machine. Tell him look look no Fatima or asthma. She was seven months pregnant seven months pregnant and she used to walk 10 kilometres to bring food to the park. And you can even walk or you can even drive to the mosque
but safe nicely sister don't don't fight with him. With your husband safe nicely. Yeah, baby. No, no. I know why she was seven months pregnant and she used to walk 10 kilometers with a big
big belly like this, you know, sisters when you're seven months pregnant? Is your baby small or big? I think your bed is big. Mashallah. seven month? Yeah, I need two months before you have a baby. Right? Two months. Yeah. So seven months, you know you're carrying maybe six or five pounds, you know, five pounds or six plus, I don't know, seven by seven months pregnant. Yeah. You're carrying Wait, you can wait. Right? You know, not so so. So so I'm trying to say here he's issues carrying that much weight and she's walking 10 kilometers to bring food for the profit. It is watermelon. Not a big watermelon.
Ah, are you kidding me? So sisters, look at what she did.
She did so much. I'm pregnant. I can do it. Find somebody else. I'm tired. And isn't that Lola? No, she. She sacrificed a lot on how a Ba ba ba ba ba ba Oh man.
Oh man, her mother. Her mother came Abu Bakar Kim Abubakar who wanted to migrate free said enough.
Imagine Oh man. Her husband migrated. I snapped my children, my mom and she was so patient.
The wife of Abu Bakar she supported her husband, just like how do you support her husband like I just supported her husband. If your husband sisters, isn't it our work in our field supports him. support him for the sake of Allah subhana wa Tada. Make sure that things are ready ready for him? No problems so that he because he's he's busy. He's working for the oma. So try to provide serenity for him. This is he feeds into this work of you. There's so much you can do for him just as the fact that you spending time with your children does that what he does?
Now, you spend your time with your kids, you're cooking for your kids, you prepare for your kids, for your husband for yourself. This is work for the sake of Allah subhana wa Tada. So everything that you do is for the sake of Allah Subhana Allah
and Allah will reward you. You see, you could be cooking and get and get an Asha. And you could be cooking or not getting
your cooking, and then your intention. I'm cooking for these monsters. I need my kids. I'm cooking for these monsters, and I'm cooking for that monster of my husband, who doesn't deserve it. I'm cooking for him, but I hate his guts.
You're not gonna get a job, you just cook it. But the intention is not pure. But here, I'm going to renew my intention. I'm cooking for them for the sake of Allah so that they can inshallah study so they can do well. Also, they can do this, that my husband can work and provide for us that inshallah and then here, you just you beautified your intention, Allah subhanho wa Taala will reward you for your cooking.
I'm not saying that you only you have a job is just to cook. Remember what I said in the beginning? Right? The job isn't just about cooking. I'm just giving you an example here. Right? How you can get easy. So don't don't don't just say
I'm a woman, what can I do? As a leader? What can I do? There's so many leaders are three sisters, you know, I'm giving these examples of his women who have changed history.
Asthma and and you know, when we talk about for instance, we're talking about as a way
as to ban a man equivalent to 1000 men, one men equivalent to 1000 men. So Pamela, he is the product of who is the product of woman who's his mother, Sophia, Sophia.
She's the woman who produced this, this, this this, this mountain, this lion by the name of Isabel
and then we when we talk about sadness when we talk about sadness, the the tone of a lot mood shock when he passed away when he died.
sadness. When he passed away, the trauma
shook the poverties to love him so much. 70,000 angels they came to his funeral. Who is this? It said 70,000 angels they came to his funeral. He is the product of who is the product of a woman by the name of CompTIA CompTIA
CompTIA she's she's the one who produced this man by the name of sadness.
So sisters don't just say women know there's so much you know, these women they lift history, women, women and his teacher, a mother in a Chevy, the teachers, most of them the teachers are their mothers. Now, so, so don't just think, Oh, I'm a sinner, I do so many sins, what can I do? Do for the sake of Allah Subhana Allah God, that's between you and Allah. Do for the sake of Allah.
mubaraka no favor. All these women who have left history, so sisters, you know,
if you if you were to imagine
somehow a law
that you want to come to Allah subhana wa Tada. And then Allah would ask you this question, what did you do for my deed? What did you do for my day? What did you do for my religion? And he said, Oh Allah, I did what I did to Allah. I brought happiness to 100 families 100 families, I made them smile I spent on for years.
I taught 10 women how to do it.
I taught 10 women the son of the Prophet Mohammed Aslam, O Allah, I started the SOS SOS system. So now I started SOS o RA, I started this. I did that. I taught my kids, Oh Allah, Allah would ask you about these things. And then you say, Well, I did. I took one woman, and I focused on her. And I got her out of the Yes, project. 786 are you working on that system? So that's something between me and my students from the UK. Hi, sister Subbu. She knows about you know, Project 786 project, create a project for yourself and work on it. Because I would ask you, what did you do for my D? A family for the men? What did you do for my new man, not even you? What did you do? Well, I focused on my kids,
and I prepared things for them. And I worked for them. And I my concern was that they can learn so I did hamdulillah and I did this and I also did for the UN I pitched in and they went and I volunteered. I volunteered here on a volunteer desk, and I helped here and I was I focused and I whatever I did, I did I did with excellence. I do, sir Allah subhanho wa Taala we will hold you responsible sort of inshallah, to Allah when you did this. You say, Oh, well, yes, I there was some people who are sad, and they put happiness in in their lives. I made them smile, I did something for them and haven't done enough. Or Allah I taught, I'm a parent, and they did and they sacrifice I
make efforts to the best of my ability to the best of my ability. So remember, sisters, remember, I go back again and they say, you are not half of the society. You are the entire society. You are the foundation of our society. You are the backbone of all nations that really repeat this. You are the backbone of all nations. You are the entire You are the foundation of all society. You are a woman, you are a system. You are a system. You are your own my wife, you're the mother, you are the ante. You are the doctor, you everything you are everything. You are everything. May Allah bless you. Now Allah subhana wa Tada, you know, gives you this understanding of the deen so that tonight before you
go home, or before you go to sleep, I want you to think Remember what I said. before you go to sleep sisters have a plan. What can I do for the dinner?
What can I do for the loss of Hannah?
Don't go to sleep until you do this. You hear me? Don't go to sleep tonight until you have a plan on how can you be or you can be utilized.
system. So now they need help. You could pitch in you could volunteer you know your mission, your children, whatever you do, and just do something don't stand still sisters do something for the sake of Allah. And with that in mind, you know, my mind you that you do this, keeping your modesty. Don't use your higher. Don't use your chastity, don't use your modesty, you can still participate you can still do what keeping your modesty in sha Allah tada In fact, that Allah bless you, is that Kamala hair, I've been talking for an hour now. So I'd give it back to sister Amira and
give it back to her inshallah Tada. And I was really happy that I came in and participated in this endeavor and this project, you know, SOS project.
I'm very happy that I had a chance to speak to you today. May Allah Subhana.
Allah give it back to sister Amira.
He stepped inside his home he was
an angel came with words from God. Things were still
saying read read, but he could not read amazing words that he heard.
trembling deep inside is confused by word.
There was only one look good comfort him to help him see
Was Khadija his wife. He said. Cloning. Cloning Duffy, Ronnie. The
task has come before me. I need you here with me.