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The importance of faith in religion and finding one's faith in Islam is linked to their actions. They stress the need for acceptance and understanding of death as a consequence of life, avoiding distractions, being gentle, and following a game plan to achieve success. They emphasize the importance of gratitude and avoiding evil behavior.

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			Bismillah Alhamdulillah Salaam Alaikum Peace be with you. Thank you for tuning in to another episode
of the D show. We have a exciting episode for you today as always, so don't go anywhere shake. Omar
salema is with us. We're going to be talking about gratefulness, thankfulness. And at the end,
you're going to ask yourself, Am I really being thankful? Am I being grateful? We'll let you decide
at the end of this show. We'll see you in a little bit. Don't go anywhere.
		
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			Welcome to the deen show and 100 Allah praise that accredit and heavens on earth this week on a deep
show, we have my brother in your brother Shaykh. Omar Suleiman. How are you? Great to be at
hamdulillah good about yourself at 100 It seems like Muslims are always praising God. hamdulillah
all fine, through good and bad. Absolutely. But someone might say, Look, man, even through the bad
times, even when you got a flat tire and look, your wife is giving you problems. And you guys are
saying, Oh hamdulillah or your husband's giving you or your husband's giving you problems. You know,
you having a bad day. And you know, let's say you lost all your money and you're still it's like you
		
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			see the Muslims always like go sane and humble enough. And that's about being grateful, isn't it?
Absolutely. So that's what we want to talk about today being grateful and thankful. And this is how
we can God willing, beyond the way that's pleasing to the Creator, because Shakedown, he was
ungrateful, and we don't want to follow his way. Is this correct? Absolutely. Tell us a little bit
about yourself. You're also an instructor at another Institute. We don't want to go too long into
it. People are going to go to the dean show and read your bio, but you're in. So I teach with a
magnet Institute with Mischka University and Islamic learning foundation. So you've been teaching a
		
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			long time.
		
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			Since 2008, I started under my mentor Dr. salata solly Mischka University, what got you motivated to
do this?
		
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			That's a long story, you know, but a lot of blaming, I think I had my wake up call in high school.
And afterwards, I, you know, I did not grow up a very religious youth at all, but I had my wake up
call in high school and I, you know, Hamdulillah, I was motivated to go overseas to the UAE and to
Jordan, other places, was studying him that I had my the support of my family, and it was a
wonderful opportunity.
		
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			So at what point in your life you mentioned high school now, right? And it's about being grateful At
what point did you realize that I need to there is a creator? what point did you realize that there
is a creator and I need to be thankful and grateful for the blessings, my eyesight, my hearing, you
know, my tongue that I can speak with all these faculties that he's given us? When did you conclude
that you know what Islam is the way of life that is the truth based on proof, and I need to follow
it and be grateful? Well, actually, it's funny because I, I grew up, you know, I always knew that
there was a God, and obviously having Muslim parents and hamdulillah devout Muslim parents. It was
		
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			something that was consistently in the back of my mind, but I think, you know, obviously, growing
up, sometimes in a public school, I was also playing basketball, though I'm not very good right now.
I used to, you know, I was so into basketball, I was into many different things. And I think that I
was just distracted. And then once I started thinking about religion, and I started, I realized that
I needed to draw close to Allah.
		
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			Me and my best friend who was not Muslim, Joshua, we decided to become either Muslim or Christian
together. So we were kind of in an agnostic phase slash, I don't know if you could say that I ever
went through a full atheism phase with through an agnostic phase. And Hamza de la blaw mean, we read
the entire Bible, I still got that original Bible where I went through you went through the whole
Bible, the whole Bible attempted anon the whole quarter and
		
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			and we chose this Nam together. So Joshua now is useless and handed in law, and, and handed it out
was a wonderful change in my life. best decision I ever made and 100. And so were you. You were you
were Muslim. But you came to a point where not just because your parents are Muslim, that Now by
default, you're like, someone who's you have to make that conscious decision that you made?
Absolutely. I mean, I think faith is one of those things, obviously, that no one can, no one can
instill in you, you know, you you've got to have that that birth inside of you. You've got to have
that in and we as Muslims already believe you have that inclination to believe in one God. But
		
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			you've got to nurture that inclination to believe in one God and whenever you start paying attention
to the law, Allah subhanaw taala guides you to the truth. is the truth something nebulous. Is it
something hazy, where you know what, it's it's confusing.
		
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			mystical Some people think like religion is something that you know it doesn't have to make sense
you just blindly accept it is this the same thing with Islam? Well see the beauty of Islam is that
it's an evidence based religion evidence based absolutely a last monetize US federal level and the
hula hula Allah know without a doubt that he is only one God. So Allah subhanaw taala challenges our
intellect In fact, he tells us to use our intellect to come to the conclusion of faith. And in
essence, for the most part, almost everything in Islam is explained with you know, in a way that
appeals to the intellect however, of course, there will be certain situations where you need to
		
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			submit yourself and you need to, you know, just trust your faith but but as far as the foundations
of the deen you definitely Allah subhanaw taala calls you out to use your intellect flr tampilan the
statement and put an appears many many times don't you think? So? Absolutely. That's the beauty of
it that once you nurture your football, your inclination towards God, it's it's as clear as nine day
hamdulillah. So what was it about Islam? What was it about this way of life, that we know that it's
the same way of life that was sent to all the messengers of God, have a direct connection or direct
dialogue with the one who created you know, intermediaries, you're not praying to dead people in the
		
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			grave to angels, to saints, to monkeys, to elephants, to the sun, the moon to a messenger, you're
praying to the one who created creation, and you're striving your best to obey Him to be grateful.
Right? So what was it about it? What were some of the evidences I know, you can, you know, talk on
this for the whole show? But what are some things for the viewing audience, someone who's like, why
should I be thankful? You know what I mean? Why should I have to pray five times a day? You know,
what was it to give them this firm conviction that you found you got from, you know, investigating
Islam? What were some of the proofs and evidences? I think that, you know, first and foremost,
		
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			again, the the issue of using the intellect, there was proof to it, there's proof to the court and
being a revelation of God, there's a proof to the messenger ship of Muhammad Sallallahu wasallam.
And at the same time, you know, I I think I firmly had a belief that there was a god. Okay, but but
I was kind of in that phase where, why would there be an organized religion? And then I thought to
myself, well, why would God create us without giving us a religion in a way to get to him? It
doesn't make sense, that's, that's just as illogical, as you know, as saying that, you know, somehow
you you, you create something like a system, a very complicated system or complex system that's
		
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			meant to serve you and then you give it no directions or instructions whatsoever. So I said, there
must be instruction. And then I found that that other faiths that claim monotheism, unfortunately,
are not you mentioned some examples, some reasons why but are not 100%, monotheistic. There is some
there are some flaws there. So I found that Islam was the only monotheistic faith and the true sense
of the word and I think that any professor of religion would agree.
		
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			It centers around monotheism, not just monotheism, in our worship, but monotheism in the way we
carry ourselves monotheism in every aspect of our lives. And that is the essence of gratitude, that
you worship God the way that he wants you to worship Him. That is, that is gratitude. That's the
greatest expression of gratitude, the, you know, and subpanel lots, it was just an amazing thing.
Because when I looked in the Bible, I found that even a sadness and I'm Jesus peace be upon him, was
inconsistent, you know, gratitude and worship of his Lord falling on his face and prayer, as as
mentioned in Matthew, and when I saw all of that, and I said, you know, that then why should I need
		
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			to go to anyone else to get to God? You know, it's just, it's, you know, compare having to ask
someone else, to what says in an operable Alaykum inhabitant worried that Allah is closer to you
than your jugular vein, he's right there, you can just call upon him and Allah Subhana Allah will
certainly answer your call. So that was that was really the most appealing aspect. He's a one God,
he's one god that is most merciful, Most Gracious, Most Compassionate. And he's also one that's
accessible, you can call upon him at any time. So you develop a direct relationship with God and if
your entire purpose is to center around God, then it's only befitting that your relationship is only
		
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			with God and not with anyone else. The car has an instruction manual, the computer has an
instruction manual mentioned instruction that the cell phone has an instruction manual. And that
makes sense you were looking and you were like there's got to be an instruction manual for the human
being you found this little occur on is that instruction manual and have the lead on and then the
son of the Prophet slice alone. The fact that you have an application so you have you know, the
beauty of Islam is that not only is our text our scripture, preserved so flawlessly, but the
interpretation of the Scripture is preserved so flawlessly which is the prophets of Allah audio
		
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			cinemas example the Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him, as I showed the alojado May Allah be pleased
with their explained, you know, explained he was a walking or an which is so if I can't understand
this word, I can just go to the property
		
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			It's like someone's life and I can, I can see even the sun not has been preserved flawlessly at home
today, we got to go to break we're gonna be back. So not to disparage against anybody or anybody's
religion but we don't have original text, edit free, tamper, proof tamper proof like we have the
Quran where it's memorized by millions all over the globe, people have memorized his book, it's a
living miracle. Absolutely. Is that a fact not fiction, that is a fact that we don't have there. For
instance, the original Bible, we don't have the original, we believe in the Torah in the NGO and
these books that were given to Moses to Jesus, but do we have those in their original? Because you
		
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			teach a comparative religion class? Right? You've investigated this, right? Absolutely not. In fact,
we would find that there are, at this point, there are over 4000 versions of the Bible.
		
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			And on top of that, there are over 36,000 sects of Christianity. And largely once you open that door
for inauthenticity,
		
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			and, you know, fables and traditions and adaptation to come into the faith and innovation, then
unfortunately, it becomes lost, even though there might be sincerity, the intellect becomes lost.
And so the way to follow and Please, God becomes lost. Awesome. I think we're going to take a break.
I'm excited. And I'm sure you're excited. We're going to be back with some more. No more anywhere,
we'll be back on a de show. I am not afraid to say
		
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			welcome back to the dean show. On the dean show. We are talking about serious topics. And this is
serious because death is a reality. People are sleeping, hollywood, bollywood music, entertainment,
R rated movies, everything is is distracting to people, people are laughing fun and games. But when
the Angel of Death comes to take your soul, if you've been sleeping, it's going to be an
uncomfortable feeling. Is that right? Or is it not? So we want to do as much good as we can. And the
best good is obeying the creator and doing all the good that he's told us to do. Talk about for a
minute, the seriousness of taking depth seriously, it's not obviously we're not constantly be
		
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			pessimistic, and just you know, they can't live a fruitful life, but a balanced life. So I try to
like sometimes get that feeling. You know, because that feeling makes everything else all your
problems go away. When you make gender when you make the hereafter big this dunya becomes small. So
talk to us that moment when death comes and Angel of Death is snatching your soul out of your body.
Is that is that something pleasant? If you haven't prepared for it, you've been ignoring the call?
Well, here's the idea. I mean, what's more pessimistic than non existence and uncertainty. So when
we speak of death, we don't speak of death in a way to make people despair. In fact, despairing is
		
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			is a sentence that you should not despair from your Creator. You know, it's actually the peak of
optimism, thinking about what comes next that there's something better that you know what, you don't
have to be all caught up trying to get your fair share in life and if someone wrongs you, and then
you can turn the other cheek, because you understand that there is an afterlife that you can you
know, you can come to that that peace of mind and that tranquility, understanding that there is
something more than this, because obviously, this world will not satisfy anybody. No One No One has
entered into this world, holistically with their spirits and with their mind, body and soul, except
		
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			that they've been disappointed. So you know, Hamdulillah, we have something to look forward to and
the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he actually said something very powerful. He said that
whoever loves to meet Allah, Allah loves to meet him. And whoever hates to meet Allah, Allah hates
to meet him. So I saw the law and the wife of the Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him, she said, but
on messenger of Allah, you know, we all hate death. And he said, That's not what I'm talking about.
He said, verily, the believer whenever he's given the news of the mercy of Allah, and his bounties
and his blessing, then he loves to meet him. And at the same time, whenever the the person who has
		
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			angered his Lord is given the news of the anger of his Lord and his and his own wastefulness and his
own heedlessness, then he hates to meet God because He hates to be held accountable. So how did he
laugh for us we are we are consistently looking forward to meeting our Creator although we are the
most We are the most afraid of possibly falling into in gratitude and, and things of that sort
because we understand the bounties and the blessings that he has bestowed upon us, but at the same
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			Meet him. It's like when you go to the airport, and you've got, you know, you've got departures and
arrivals, I always noticed this, you know, you go, you go on one floor, and everybody's sad and
everyone's crying. And then you go on the other floor, which is arrivals, and everyone's happy and
rejoice, we are, we're missing a lot. We can't wait to meet him. We love God, you know. And that's
why the scars that even when you go to your prayer, go to your prayer with a column that has more
staff with a heart that is longing for Allah, I miss you a lot, I can't wait to talk to you, I've
been missing you, I want to talk to you again. You know, so we can't wait to meet him and to see him
		
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			in sha Allah, to have that blessing and that bounty, so we're looking forward to it.
		
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			So that's amazing. We want to see our Creator and that is what gives us motivation, there's hope.
There's light at the end of the tunnel, through all the hard times, through all the good times, you
know, we not, we're not getting attached to this life, because we're gonna have to say bye bye. But
those people now and that's part of being grateful, isn't it. And that's what we're going to go on.
From here. I want to give a live example I know somebody, people know certain people and we can kind
of critique again, a person's life. And again, this is not to disparage against anybody, but for
that person that we love. Because Islam says love all mankind. And if we don't share, we don't care.
		
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			So we are sharing. So in sha Allah, the person can see that we really care and a lot cares about you
to most. So be grateful so you can be successful. We know many people are coming to Islam is the
fastest growing way of life in the world. Some people now they're coming to Islam, but now they're
having a very hard time establishing the prayer. The call for the men on Friday is, you know, the
Juma. So we know we need to be gentle, and we need to be understanding with many of those who are
coming to Islam, and they're having a hard time. But how can we motivate not only the new Muslims,
but many 100 law, they're jumping right into it. They're establishing the prayer to come into Juma.
		
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			They're trying to leave off the things that are displeasing to the Creator, you know, around people
of knowledge, and it's producing good results, their characters getting better. They're leaving off
drugs, alcohol, lying, deceiving, cheating. Islam calls the good and it produces good, but not
others. They're struggling their feet, and they're not taking these things seriously. Is that a sign
of ungratefulness on thankfulness? Well, the challenge of shape on the challenge of the devil in the
first place was that Oh Allah, you will not find the majority of your servants to be from those who
are grateful for my shacking. Now, it's the reason why shape on comes with that message. The devil
		
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			tries to inspire in gratitude is because this obedience is born out of in gratitude and obedience is
born out of gratitude. You know, think about your your your worldly relationships, your relationship
with your parents, why is it that we have kids at 18 years old, telling their parents to shut up and
go away and you don't know it's because they forgot the 18 years. And even before that, the nine
months in the belly and even before that, the anticipation and things of that sort in the
preparation they forgot. They were ungrateful, and because of that in gratitude, they were able to
disobeyed. Now for us, there's a great scholar of Islam by the name Ibrahim, no Adam, may Allah be
		
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			pleased with him, a man came to him and said, You know what, give me permission to sin. Sin is
making me feel guilty. So why don't you just give me give me an excuse to sin. He said, Okay, if you
want to sin against a law, if you want to disobey your Creator, then this obey your Creator, in a
place where he can't see you. And he said, Well, wait a minute, Allah sees me everywhere. So sorry,
let's try something else. He says, Well, if you want to disobey Allah, at least have the courtesy to
disobey Him in a place that doesn't belong to him. He said, But It all belongs to Allah. This is all
his his universe universe in his creation. In fact, the limbs that he's giving me, which I'm trying
		
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			to disobey Him with, you know, that's that, that in and of itself, that belongs to a lot all belongs
to a lie says, Okay, well, at least if you're going to disobey Allah, then don't eat from his food
and his drink and his sustenance and he said, but everything is provided by Allah. Right? So those
are some how to love you really think about that? You know, and you really give that some extra
thoughts. How can I bring myself to use the capacity or the qualities that Allah has given me? You
know, whether it's fame or popularity or wealth, or it's, it's, you know, intellect, or it's public
speaking? How can I use that against a law? My hands might my eyes, my, my feet? My How can I use
		
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			that against a lot? And so we should be saying, Alhamdulillah we should be thanking Allah for the
blessing of being able to think a lot because not everyone can think a lot. Right and one great
scholar, Chicago's Hakan, huraiti, may Allah be pleased with him, preserve him, great scholar in
Egypt. He said, If Allah allows you to die, saying Alhamdulillah then you have died in debt because
you still owe him and hamdulillah for allowing you to say Alhamdulillah before you died, you still
owe him one Subhana Allah because you're able to thank him that in and of itself is a great blessing
being able to speak and thanking so what
		
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			I'm trying to say is that
		
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			and you know, that's why gratitude is the total package, the Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him, he
said that whoever is not grateful to people will not be grateful to Allah grant, you know, just
recognizing the blessings and the bounties and the favors that people have done for you. And Allah
says in the Quran, or intero, do not miss a lot. That's what if you were to count the blessing in
the singular, the blessing, not near the blessing of Allah, you would not be able to do so because
from one blessing, every blessing that God has given you, you can extract hundreds and 1000s of
blessings. Think about the blessing of the hand. It's not one blessing. What is all that you? What
		
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			is it that you do with your hand, think about the blessing of your mother, the blessing of your
parents, the blessing of your spouse, the blessing of your children, the blessing of your eyes? You
know, I had I had one I know a brother that lost his ability to blink his eyes. He had a minor
paralysis, he could not blink his eyes anymore. And he realized somehow just the blessing of being
able to blink keeps your eyes moist. Yes. And so his he was constantly in pain afterwards because he
had to keep on putting eyedrops and that's something do we actually thank Allah for? Every time we
blink? We don't even think about it. Are we actually able to thank Allah subhanaw taala for the
		
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			1000s of processes that are taking place in our body at this moment, right now we're not able to so
all we do is we submit ourselves in humility and say, Oh Allah, I can't thank you enough. But here's
my best shot. Now show me mercy. This is the best I'm trying. But at the end of the day, I know I'm
not going to be able to repay you. So please just show me mercy upon Allah say, Alhamdulillah thank
God, thank God for everything that we have only got the one God that Jesus called the people to
worship that Mohammed called the people to worship all the messengers called people to not worship
themselves, but they call people to worship the one God and we'll be right back with more here on
		
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			would go to my room, lock the door prostrate and cry saying God, you know me better than myself. So
me the right way. And I will leave everything behind
		
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			includes everything intelligent to be.
		
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			Back here on the show. Thank you for tuning in.
		
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			I said, I know a person who came to Islam. And he used to believe that Jesus died for his sins. And
we got to reasoning with him saying that, look, nobody is going to give you a free ride. You're
accountable for yourself. Jesus never taught this. He never claimed he was God. He never said he's
dying for the sins of the world. This is something of a concoction that human beings have come up
with. There's only one God and you repent to him directly alone. We gave him the evidences the
proofs, and through some dialogue to some, you know, showing the Muslim character and given him to
evidence he accepted Islam. And it seemed like at that point, he was down and out. He almost didn't
		
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			have a dime to his name. And he needed a job. And we know this brother, who actually gave him a job
helped him on his feet. And this is the Muslim character to help to help because this is what brings
us reward from the Creator. So we know that this brother was coming along. He was also in a marriage
that didn't work out. He didn't have access to his son, this was eating them up. Very intelligent
man. And he was striving to want to make his own business. So he didn't have it. He never died. He
was sleeping in his car, you know. So now he started implementing Islam. And he started to be
grateful. I'm telling you, this person, he successfully got his own business started making money. A
		
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			law the creator and I knew you know how sometimes when you have a split in a relationship, and it's
a bad split, he couldn't get close to his son at all. It was driving him nuts. Last soften the
woman's heart. And he kept complaining about this that I want to see my son is even though he was
able to now To this day, he has a relationship with his son. He was going to the fridge in the
mustard. He was making the the Friday hood about praying, praying, you know, but now it seemed like
he got the position. Okay, he got his own business. He got all these things. It seems like now what
we're hearing
		
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			Bottom. He's not even praying, he gets exasperated. He gets exasperated, irritated when he starts
hearing the call. And it seems like he drifted off. Now that he has these things when he was down
and out, sleeping in the car didn't have a dime to his name. He was around brothers. He had a
family. But now it seems like he's being less grateful and thankful. So we want to kind of talk
about in the brief few minutes that we have what is going on? And you can see he's not happy before
it seemed like, you know, he was just full of he was more gregarious, he was, you know, feeling
better. He said, Man, when he took his Shahada was the best day in his life. Now, when you come
		
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			around him, sometimes he's like I said, gets irritated, mood swings, angry. Is this a cause of that
talk to us? Well, I'll just summarize it with one eye on on one verse in the Quran. Allah says in
the quote, analyzed bucola, and Shackleton as
		
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			well in Colorado, in Nevada. vilasa de Allah says that your if your Lord announced, proclaimed, if
you are grateful, I will increase you. And if you are ungrateful, then know that my punishment is
severe. Now, the interesting subtlety in this ayah, gratitude brings about increase increase doesn't
necessarily bring about gratitude. You see, whenever you're a grateful person, your situation could
not be the best of situations, but you see more, you see, you always see the glass half full, not
half empty. And so you're consistently in praise, regardless of your situations. Whereas sometimes,
as the Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him said, Allah might give you a, you know, if the son of Adam
		
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			is given a value of gold, then he'll want another one. And then if he has to, he'll want three, you
know, if you're, if you're after increased, some people think once I have, then I'll become
grateful. But gratitude brings about increase and that's when the Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him
used to make the drought, what was certainly feed Daddy, and grant me expansion in my home, he
wasn't making dua to Allah to to transform his house into a mansion. His house was so small, so the
Larissa learns about nine by for, I mean, it's a very small house. So small, his house was so small
that whenever he would pray, he would have to tap the the legs of his wife, I said, to move her legs
		
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			so that he could make some juice. So was he asking a lot for a bigger house, he could have asked
anybody to, you know, he was the Prophet of Allah slice, and they would have given it to him. He was
saying, allow me to feel like my home is more spacious, meaning what grant me blessing and what I've
been given. And so that's what once you have Baraka and blessing in what you're given, then you feel
the increase, then you feel the increase, otherwise, sometimes increase can be a punishment. Right.
And that's a loss doesn't do not be amazed by their their wealth, the wealth that they've amassed,
and the children so on and so forth. You read the law and your idea of the allowance to punish them
		
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			with that, you know, it's a punishment whenever you chase this world, and the things that you've
that you've toiled for, turn their backs on you, your children, for example, and you didn't
instilled in them Islam, you stayed away from being grateful, and you did not teach them Islam
properly. And you were after, you know, making sure that they had a BMW and making sure they always
had, they were always pampered and things of that sort. And then they grew up to tell you, you know,
get out of my life, I don't even know you, that's a punishment, your wealth. When you've spent your
your youth when you've spent your health when you've spent all of that, toiling after it's and then
		
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			you realize at the end of the day, okay, my bank account is Fuller, but I'm not any happier. That's
a punishment. So what I would say to that brother and to others in that situation, understand that
Allah will call you out on your unfulfilled promises, you know, and that's the thing we all make
promises whenever we're in states of vulnerability, and I'm sure he did. Absolutely. And a lot will
call you out on that. You know, it's it's, it's a lot help you know, the prophets. I said, I
mentioned to us the story of a leper, a blind man, and the bald men, you know, who who were all
poor. And the last panel data sent the angel to all three of them, and the angel asked them what
		
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			they wanted. And just to paraphrase the Hadith, I'm really paraphrasing the Hadith. Each one of them
wants it for their sickness to be cured and wanted the value of some sort of animal and Allah gave
it to all of them. Two of them became ungrateful. And whenever they saw a certain person in the same
situation that they were, so the leper saw lepers and so forth. Whenever they saw a person in the
exact same situation as them.
		
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			They acted like they've ever been in that situation. They were arrogant they were, and it was
actually an angel that was posing as a man in the situation that they used to be in to show them
hey, look, this is what you used to be. Don't forget what used to be. Because in essence, when we
become ungrateful, it's because we forgot who we were. And that's why Allah subhanaw taala says, Go
to Insert Mack, follow may man be destroyed. How ungrateful is he? minegishi and Hanukkah from what
was he created a lot of reminds you what you were created from you forgot where you came from. You
forgot your moment of vulnerability.
		
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			You know, a loss is the most severe yes Salah you know, firstly were created from a dirty drop of
fluid then Allah made the path easy for you and even our boss will be alone who said it's not just
Islam the path that was not easy. A lot literally made the path easy for you coming out of your
mother's stomach company children died in labor, how many mothers die in labor? You know, how
miraculous is it when you study medicine that a child can even make it out there. So I'll remind you
of your origin. So when you go back and you remember your state of vulnerability, then you say wow,
Allah gave me all of this and look at what I'm doing. Look at 100 pain. You know, I'm I'm repaying a
		
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			loss pattern only within gratitude and disobedience. So we asked a lot to protect us. We all fall in
that we all fall in that a lot protect us and help us to be grateful so we can get to gender
paradise. I mean, people can look you up at Al Maghrib and Misha cat and Islamic learning foundation
and Islamic learning foundation. What it is a particular website, I lF houston.org Mischka
University comm and mongodump institute.org take his class, take his class, we can benefit from your
knowledge, May Allah increase you. Thank you for being with us. Thank you very much. And thank you
for tuning in to another episode of the deen show. We got to benefit from another one of our guests,
		
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			God willing, you'll take this information, and you will implement it and be grateful and thankful
before death overtakes you. And you don't want to die in a state that you forgotten about the
Creator. So now he's made you forget about yourself, you know where you came from, from a dirty
fluid. And look at you now. God Almighty has answered your prayers, and has given you so much. And
what does he expect from us to be good to do good so we can be the best in society. And you have to
follow the blueprint. Otherwise, you can't do it on your own. You'd be falling your lesson desires
and you'll end up destroying yourself. So don't destroy yourself. Be the best that you can be and
		
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			bring yourself to the full potential but you've got to follow the game plan. The game plan is what
the crater has sent down throughout time. And we have it preserved in the Quran. Last and Final
revelation said to mankind and the authentic saints traditions of the last fundamental part Mohammed
peace be upon him. It's there and if you'd like to pick it up, give us a call at one 800 662 Islam
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