Nouman Ali Khan – Amazed by the Quran – S02 – EP02 Fake Smiles

			Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato. everyone welcome to amazed by the Koran a series in which
I like to share with you things I find amazing about the Quran today something about just life.
Allah Allah says, has he been Latina? pupu be modern Allah new fridge Allahu Atlanta home? Or is it
the case that the people who have some disease in their heart have, they assumed that Allah will not
bring out their hatred, and their spite and their resentment, the word ablon comes from Don or Dylan
in Arabic, which linguists would argue means that Hackard will Ba Ba, da da, which resentment ill
feeling, you know, a spite towards somebody. And ally is saying in this ayah, that people that have
		

			these kinds of sentiments, they tend to hide them, like somebody meets you with a smile, and they
say Salaam to you, and they give you a hug, and they ask how you're doing, but yet they're harboring
inside them, these ill feelings towards you, they have this grudge against you, they're holding
something you said for a long time, and they don't, they don't tell you that. And that you'll never
get an idea, you won't have a clue that they're holding this against you, right. And as a matter of
fact, it comes out in other people's gatherings and when they're among their other friends or
whatever, they'll talk about you. And they'll say things about you, but when they meet you, it's all
		

			good. You know, it's just, they're just gonna pretend everything is just fine. And a lot calls them
out on this. And first of all, he describes this as a disease of their hearts. It's a spiritual
disease. It's not just you think the disease of the heart is when somebody doesn't remember a lot,
or when someone is heedless, or they become greedy, or they become materialistic and they're not
spiritual enough. And yet in this is actually part of the meaning of people who have a disease in
their heart is actually people who have resentment towards others in their heart, people who are
harboring ill feeling towards other in their hearts, Allah, that's a spiritual disease. And then not
		

			only is that a disease, do they really think they're gonna be able to hide it, Allah will allow will
be the one and then you reach Allahu Allah home, Allah will bring out all forms of their resentments
in one way or the other, doesn't matter how much they try to hide it, and how much they try to, you
know, conceal it because of some agenda or some advantage they want to take, or they don't think
it's the you know, it's going to be best for them to let people know how they truly feel. And yet
Allah will actually bring it out, you don't have to bring it out and somebody else doesn't have to
expose it, it will be Allah himself, who will present the opportunity or create the circumstance
		

			where they're grudge and their their resentment and their spite is going to make its way to the
surface, you can see it for what it is, on a level create those situations. Now, this is not just
about some people, like as you're watching this, you're like, I can think of someone who's holding
these grudges. And Allah will bring it out one day, well, Allah hasn't brought it out, which means
you shouldn't be making assumptions, you know, but this is about you and me ourselves. Something I
learned in life that actually was inspired by this idea of policy. I, you know, sometimes you have
friends and they say things and it hurts your feelings, and you don't say anything back, you just
		

			kind of hold it in. And it doesn't let you go a long time goes by and you still hold on to what they
said, you know, and it, it does put a crack in your relationship with that friend or with that,
whoever that relative, but you don't bring it up to them. I have a policy that I'd even like to
recommend when it comes to this stuff you shouldn't hold back, you should actually be loving and
transparent and honest in the relationships that you're you have in life. If somebody did say
something that hurt your feelings, and you've been harboring it for a long time, don't let it turn
into a disease inside your heart. Just let them know, look, you said this, it really hurt my
		

			feelings. I've been holding it but I don't know if I should hold it anymore. I really wanted to let
you know. And I actually did that. More recently. I did that with some friends and some, you know,
some associates that they did say something or do something that hurt my feelings personally. And I
held it for years. And then they eventually came back and said, you know, you don't call me as often
as you used to. And before I would have said something like oh, you know, I'm busy this that. But
actually I decided you know what? Yeah, you're right. I don't call you because of this one thing
that really hurt me. And I just felt like I shouldn't call you as much. You want to talk about it?
		

			Yeah, let's talk about it. And we have a 3040 minute chat. And things would get resolved. And
actually our relationship would become better than it ever had been before. Just because you came
clean, just because you didn't let it inside. That's not patience. That's not you being righteous.
It's just you allowing for some sickness in your heart to get bigger and bigger and bigger. We're
not angels. We don't forget this stuff. We have to resolve it. It's okay. It's okay when people
resolve things with each other. And we have to find healthy ways of doing that. May Allah make us
courageous enough to have openness in our relationships in our communication without being offensive
		

			and male allies that will keep us from those who harbor these kinds of ill feelings until Allah
Himself brings them out barakallahu li walakum wa salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato.
		

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