Mohamad Baajour – Message in a Passage #13 Allah has heard the statement of the one

Mohamad Baajour
AI: Summary © The transcript describes a segment where a woman tells her story of her husband's divorce and how he lost his job. She also talks about her desire to have a relationship with her husband and the importance of learning from her past. The speakers discuss the history of Islam, including legalization of divorce and jokes to address couples. The importance of not divorce and taking back a wife after divorce is emphasized. The speaker emphasizes the need to avoid divorce, not give up on one's children, and not resort to a previous marriage.
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What is the reason for the liberation of this as

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a woman as a habia female companion by the name of cola bint Thalassa, Hola, Binta Alaba,

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who is married to a man whose name is Ivana Sarmad outwardness Summit. So one time

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she said she's narrating the story. She said one time we had an argument and I was told his wife Cola, you are to me, just like my mother. This is something they used to have in Asia Helia called the heart and you what we call right now divorce. So you to me now is just like my mother, Yanni. I cannot approach you I cannot do any kind of intimate relationship with you.

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So when he told her that he left the house, he was very upset and he left the house. Few hours later, he came back and he wants to do you want to have a relationship with his wife? She told him No way. You just told me that I'm your I'm like your mother. So you cannot approach me Allah he will not touch me until I see Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.

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Koehler went Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and she told him what happened? Or Salah Salem. You know there was no ruling yet so he waited till the revelation came Subhanallah she told him I'm not leaving here. You're Allah Ya Allah. I am complaining to ya Allah but my situation. I married this man. And he I was young, and we had many children with him. And she told her so Allah salAllahu salam ala Rasulillah I'm telling Allah subhanaw taala third Kati, where should that Hurley? When the LI subarea 10 souhan in downtown LA though when the Hmong term Malaysia, I have few kids. If they stay with me, they're gonna be hungry and if they stay with him, they're gonna get lost. Subhanallah

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so yeah, Allah helped me and Allah subhanho wa Taala heard her and he revealed the first Iron circle McGeady law even though there is it's called just a consumer. And we were Allah subhanaw taala said called the semi Allah Who colon 82 Jacques De Luca Fiza G. whitish Turkey Allah he will know who yes now to have Allah come in nulla her Sami on the three, Allah has heard the statement of she who argued with you concerning her husband, as she complained to Allah and Allah heard your conversation. Allah has all hearing an all seeing Subhanallah so then they are yet after that.

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indicated how can this man get out of this oath that he made? He has to say

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A free a slave. The wife told him, he had a solar he does not even own one, then he told us you are given an option to fast 60 consecutive days. She told him he's a very old man, then he has to feed 60 people. So there are so Allah is very poor. I'm telling us, all of us find the way out for them by helping them give in, in charity. So what are some of the lessons we learn from from this story? First, my beloved brothers and sisters.

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When we have any kind

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of

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argument, misunderstanding, for do in Allah wa solo, always go back to Allah and His Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam any kind in any matter of our life, in business, in a family in inheritance in any issue. We have to go back to Allah and His Prophet because this book, the Quran, is to be an unluckily shade. Everything is clear in there. You will always find the solution in the Quran. This woman went to Rasool allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and he is the best man to go back to and ask for a solution. And rasool Allah SallAllahu sallam, he waited for Allah azza wa jal to give a ruling on this on this matter. And since that they have a heart was prohibited in Islam.

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Second, look at this. The mercy of Rasul Allah says Allah the wisdom of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he did not when she came to him complaining, he did not tell her, you know how busy I am? You know, you're coming and telling me what happened between you and your husband go somewhere else, ask somebody else now, you know, I am spreading the deen I have bigger problems, the kufr have Quraysh this that SubhanAllah? No, no, he listened to her. And he addressed her concern Subhan Allah that shows us that every person who is in that position of being an Imam, or being a leader of community, take the time and listen to everybody. Listen to everyone and try your best to find the

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solution for for their problem. Subhanallah

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there is another issue here that we have this problem, it's very common these days, which is the problem of

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anytime there is any kind of misunderstanding or argument between the couple. The first thing that comes to their mind is divorce.

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My brothers and sisters, you know, subhanAllah the people my generation, and maybe older, you know, that was the last resort and this is the way it's supposed to be. Divorce should be the last resort. Now, anytime anything happened, no divorce ColorSeal I cannot stand him anymore. I cannot stand her. We cannot live with each other patients. Patients. Discuss talk, bring a person from your family, a person from her family, a consult, marriage counseling, all kinds of stuff that are available these days. But do not immediately go to divorce and destroy your family, especially when there are kids involved and destroy the society in general. And rustlers SLM told us three things, three things,

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being serious about them or joking about them as serious. There are three things you cannot joke about.

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Marriage, Divorce, and bringing somebody back after divorce, marriage, divorce and taking a back wife after a divorce, which is not final. These things you cannot joke about. If you tell somebody if a wife or a husband is joking with his wife, oh, you're divorced. She's divorced. It's considered as as one divorce. There's no joking about these things. And we always hear or, you know, I was, I was very angry and I divorced my wife And subhanAllah why, why the thing comes to your mind. But this was I said, I'm told us what to do when we were angry, and do not challenge each other. My sister if your husband is very upset and mad, do not keep pushing him.

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In order to say these words, leave them alone until he till he calmed down. And similarly my brother, if you feel like you're angry, or this or that, you just leave the house until things calm down. And then you discuss it when when things are things are better, but do not utter that word. That's where this word is very, very dangerous. You know, Subhan Allah, Allah subhanaw taala absolutely permitted divorce, but after everything has been tried, and any kind of reconciliation has been attempted to, and then we discuss that issue.

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My brothers and sisters, another thing we learned from this woman Subhan Allah is that the obedience of the husband has a limit.

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You know, he came back to approach her after he was mad he was after he told her that you are like my mother. And now here, that's it. You made an offer of ALLAH SubhanA wa taala. And you now you're asking me for something after that oath, you're not you're not permitted to have it, you know, at that time. So she said, we stopped, we have to go to the zoo, allah sallallahu sallam, you know, sometimes, Allah subhanaw taala gave the husband

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authority, he gave him many things. And some some of the men they take advantage of this authority given by Allah subhanaw taala and sometimes they might ask the wife to do things that are against against the deen. We have a formula that is very clear. Latha Lima Luke Fiamma Seattle Holic, there is no obedience to any creation by disobeying the Creator SubhanAllah. So let's not abuse the rights given to us by Allah subhanho wa taala. And every one of us the husband should do his dues to the wife and the wife should also observe the husband rights and also provide for him. And this only way this is the only way we could have a peaceful home full with love and mercy and tranquility. When

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everybody knows their rights, and everybody respects the other party and give them the right then Subhanallah the mercy from Allah azza wa jal will descend upon that that household Subhan Allah that that woman, this was the Sahaba

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she is a very special woman, she is the same woman, that when Ahmadiyya Lavon was mean, and he was with a group of of men, they were going for a meeting and she stopped resorter She stopped Amirul mumineen. Amara are the Alon, and she started talking to him and asking him questions. And this was

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a took a while. And so the men started getting annoyed and said, I mean, you're holding us all to listen to a woman

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Subhan Allah, so Allah Allahu Allah and she said, Well, Allah He, this is the woman that Allah, Allah subhanaw taala listened to and answered her in an AI and the Quran that will be recited to the day of judgment. I will stay here if she asked me that all night talking to her Subhan Allah, so this is that's a hobby. How are the Allahu wa Alba? And I ask Allah subhana wa Taala to fill our homes with love and mercy and peace and tranquility. And they ask Allah subhanaw taala to make us control our anger to make us from the people who control their anger. And we ask Allah azza wa jal to bless us with with with offsprings that are adhering to the Kitab and to the Sunnah of Rasulullah

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sallallahu alayhi wa salam, may Allah make our last deeds our best these and make our last words La Ilaha illa Allah, I love you for the sake of Allah Subhana Allah Allah, masha Allah Allahu Allah and stockfeed Roca wanna to Willick

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