Maryam Lemu – Marriage Gems #05

Maryam Lemu
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The speaker explains that the goal of being at home is to be at peace and love, rather than war or Alright. This is important for couples to avoid annoyance and embarrassment from their spouse. The ultimate goal is to achieve peace and love, rather than war.

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			The whole point that people fail to realize when you have a misunderstanding is that you are working
to be understood. So you work on making sure that my concerns my worries, my feelings are properly
communicated without insults without denigrating your spouse without condescension and contempt and
contempt. And without using what you're told in confidence against your spouse, they confide in you
in a problem they ever had with someone, when you get angry, you use it to hurt
		
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			to poke at them. So I want couples to realize the whole purpose of being at home is to be at peace,
and in love, not at war and in contempt. So this is important where you pick your words you know the
words that have a tendency to annoy or upset or trigger or trigger and you avoid them Because
ultimately, the objective The ultimate goal. Let me repeat this but our ultimate goal is peace and
love.