Karim Abuzaid – IslamQA TV Call in Show 03 Sept. 2014

Karim Abuzaid
AI: Summary © The segment discusses the importance of privacy and privacy in Islam, including not being able to disclose personal information and not wanting to be yelled at by a woman who wants to sell her home. The speakers emphasize the need for men to be the center of one's love and privacy, and provide advice on what to do after the sale. The segment also touches on the importance of not breaking someone's financial situation and leaving the area of the Police Department, and mentions a potential opportunity for students to learn the religion of Islam.
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Illa Illa la wahoo la sharika. A shadow ana Muhammadan Abdo who wore a solo, the viewers, brothers and sisters in Islam as salam alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh. I'm your host Kareem Abu Zaid and this is another edition of Islam Q and A life a call in real life right now actually, if you're watching, we're live and we do have a phone number for you, inshallah, the technology to place that phone on the screen is going to be produced soon. So we don't have to say the number but the number is 800. So if you if you have a pen and a piece of paper handy 800-587-9075 800-587-9075 1-800-587-9075 the viewers, brothers and sisters in Islam like we did last

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night, we're gonna take some of your questions and list them in sha Allah and gradually begin answering those in a half hour time. Assalamu alaykum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh

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we do have a caller Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah de

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colo Salam alikoum. All right.

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Let me see here. salaam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato.

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Salam alikoum.

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Kohler Salam aleikum.

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Somehow I'm not hearing them a Salam Alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh

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masala moto moto lahi wabarakatuh name state and question please.

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This is Misha calling

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from Canada

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Alhamdulillah sister Misha, how are you doing? Did you manage to hear the answer yesterday I understand that you were not watching.

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I wasn't watching but I got a line to watch night after that. So Mashallah. Mashallah, go ahead? Do you have a question tonight for us? Yes, I do have a question. And my question is for a man

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and the ugly of ligature to responsible for their expenses to get their sister getting married.

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You mean they're sisters? They're like sisters blood sisters, right? Yes.

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Is the father alive?

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Okay, Jacques Lacan and I'll answer you inshallah, sister Misha inshallah you're watching today.

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I'm watching how is the channel looks like? I'm curious. Okay. How does the channel look like does it look good? The channel I mean, it's, it's streaming. Okay. It looks nice. It looks more like you're an old camera. Okay, inshallah. We're gonna improve that inshallah. zeca lokalen. Thank you so much. You're welcome. salaam aleikum.

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Okay Salam aleikum. wa

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rahmatullah. How are you? Name state and question, please.

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I'm calling from Mexico. Sister Saba, how are you tonight? Good. How are you? Alhamdulillah. I have a question for us. Yes, I have a quick question. Sure. Yeah, and like then, like, there's arguments that happened in the mosque, which is dissatisfied between two people.

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And so I was like, ouch. I tried to send the like, solve the problem between the two people. You know, in Islam, you have to solve the problem. tcaa but then there are all the windmills are like, I don't know exactly. What should I have gone?

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The owner gets into some of the details of that argument. Like it's about religious issue or about personal or, yeah, it was actually really a shoe egg. So let's say the mom, she had her daughter with her and she was

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like another woman and was praying and her daughter wife passed that person. I was praying there.

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And the mom said, The girl is young so she doesn't know nothing about it. But the woman was really yelling at the little girl. Okay, now you want me to address that issue or you want me to

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Just talk about how to go about between those two old sisters and make peace yeah like how I can solve like when it happens again probably are you know hopefully not but I couldn't solve the problem Jazakallah head and I will try sister Saba has not easy these days to make peace between Muslims I'm telling you it's very challenging but I'll try inshallah. inshallah

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salaam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato.

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Alhamdulillah. Can I ask you kindly to turn down your screen TV? Go ahead

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and mention names, data and questions is

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Daniel from Virginia? Yes, Daniel, how are you Daniel?

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Thank you my question. Allah bless you, sir jack ma Farah Daniel Baraka Luffy. Do you have a question for us tonight?

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A second question in Sharla.

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My wife and I will go ahead and try to sell our home. So a question regarding that now. We had a down payment that I put when I bought the home. And and then I think that the house itself in the past few years made additional money. I was wondering what what do I do with that, in that scenario, what is holiday for me? Why would be around for me, when I do sell this house, I will try to help you. But

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there will be a lot of gray area there. But I'll try to help you. I'll give you some sort of a way to figure out what you should take as pure earning from the sale of the house. And what you should try to purify because the chances that got mixed up with

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unlawful earnings are high. So I'll try to help you Daniel insha Allah May Allah help us all.

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on the same page, the gray area I'll stay away Do you want to make sure whatever you know, he's not an aquarium. You know, I walk away with jack aloka and Daniel and May Allah subhanaw taala bless you with a lawful earning and bless your family Baraka Luffy Amin.

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Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato.

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from Georgia again.

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How are you doing? Well, I have been talking about something you said last night You helped me with your answer and thank you so much does that Hello Helen, may Allah subhanho wa Taala make it easy on you go ahead.

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whatnot. Question is tonight but you said

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that you enter Jannah for your husband, your husband is the daughter Jana? Well, I like there all night like and where am I going to go to Jana? Because I'll tell me now is divorced

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with when do you live there?

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Angela, you're married, you're married again and you you that that husband will be a way to get to Jenna. If not inshallah, we will have a husband and Jenna What about that

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July I will try to help you inshallah. inshallah.

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Okay, thank you.

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No, no, no, you know, there are many Allah subhanaw taala sister, Pam. May, Jenna has eight gates. So, there are a lot of things that you can do. And at the end of the day, you know, these are encouragements for us to engage in righteous deeds. But at the end of the day, we intergender due to the mercy of Allah subhanho wa Taala as I'll explain to you this inshallah, in the light Allah, but

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I'm telling you, a sister just hope that Allah will give you Jenna and Allah will always fulfill the way that you expected him to be. The way that you hope to be delighted about our philosophy.

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And you may have lost some things but I'll never lose out alive. So that's that's true. Take care. Thank you. Bye bye.

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salaam aleikum wa rahmatullah catch.

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This is a Shuja calling from Ottawa Canada. Masha, Allah, how are you doing?

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I'm delighted We missed you. I missed everybody. I You sound so familiar. I used to call them goddess TV, don't you? Yes, I used to watch all your life. Yes, right me theories. Oh, Mashallah. Mashallah, Mashallah, how are you doing? I'm not just video with my colleagues at University. I'm joining Islamic online university.

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Okay, I'm teaching.

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I'm teaching then inshallah we'll catch up with you somewhere then inshallah. inshallah. inshallah, do you have a question? I have two questions. Sure. Go ahead. One is regarding a woman or the woman who is mentioned. Sure. And she she comes in a situation where she doesn't want to disclose that she's in our mentors and there's demand already for prayers. Can she so continue with the prayers because she doesn't want to mention to anyone that she can't

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Okay, I'll answer him alone. Sorry about the answer. The answer is no, she cannot be praying

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and I'll answer you. I'll answer I'll answer hopefully, she's watching and i'll answer in detail that we should not shy away from such a thing. This is something that Allah ordained upon the daughters of Adam. Shall I'll explain maybe in details and shall I be

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okay inshallah and the second question is regarding the false nails Is it the same ruling of nail polish for the making will do

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that they will do have to be done then put the what nails nail polish what nails now? I'm sorry, what kind of nails you said Saul's nails. What is that?

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Your house Oh, artificial, artificial, artificial. Okay, okay, sorry about that. Okay.

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Okay, I'll answer you inshallah.

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Okay. Hello, hello Baraka Luffy Jacques Lacan for calling. Call us again. Okay.

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Brothers and sisters in Islam. Just a reminder, the phone number is 800-587-9075 800-587-9075 and you can always if you don't feel comfortable

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talking over the phone, you can always post your question on Facebook page, and we'll get it or send me an email to carry metadata TV. That's fine. Assalamu aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato.

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Y equals Salam O Allah to lay out the name state of question, please.

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Hi, this is from Ico calling from Canada. Okay. And I have a question. I called her here too. And I forgot to mention another question that I have.

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I'm sorry. I know a lot of people are still waiting. But I just curious to know all the questions right now. As a daughter, his daughter, she's responsible for looking after her father.

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He, she's not even able or that her husband is not allow her to do it. Something like that. Okay, I got you. inshallah, we'll answer both questions at the same time, because they are somehow related in sha Allah in the light.

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And I heard like in Islam, the dream actually has meaning. I saw your dream a couple of years ago and it's actually bothering me if I can ask to you if you don't mind. I don't do dreams. I'm sorry. I just don't do interpretation dreams. I'm sorry.

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I also want to show the phone number again is 58790755879075 and you get to add one 800 at the beginning 97058 No, no, no, that's that's messed it up here. 5879075 salam aleikum wa rahmatullah cat.

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This is Amina Mirza from Minneapolis. Sr. Amina, what is your question tonight?

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First of all, I would like to thank you for answering my question that has asked yesterday. Hello, Helen bollocky. Yeah, and it's because a few that I have joined an Islamic University to gain more knowledge and Islam. So I wanted to thank you on that to make dua for me, please. Yeah.

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My question today is we are actually planning to buy a car. So I want you to know

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that many companies, they provide the financing on 0% interest. So is it permissible to go ahead and buy anything which has, you know, 0% interest because that doesn't count under Riba. So can you clarify that? Sure. I will. I will sister Amina inshallah. de la Ferran for calling Baraka Luffy Jazakallah Fela for calling melody was Salam. Okay, it's 5879075 800-587-9075 587907

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Five, and we get to take the phone calls until 1030 in Sharla and then answer these questions as salaam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato.

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Yes, that's about you have another question.

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Say, yes or no question is missing. Let's say you're in Moscow to polish prayers.

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I'm not clear what you're saying again, what is your question against the sama? prayers, you know, when you go to pray? Okay. Yeah, so like, let's say you make the first line is not finished.

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And the people at the back they start a new line at the back. So difficult to do that. Are you supposed to finish the first line? Well, you're supposed to finish the first line. And that's the beauty of the mmm if the first line is not complete before he begins,

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the Salah, he has to make sure that the first line or at least he alerts the people that the first line has to be completed or filled first, before people starting a second line.

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Okay. Oh, 5879075.

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We're live right now. You can call us. But until we start receiving phone calls again. Let me join in the two questions which our sister from Canada. And so Pamela, we do have a lot of coolers from Canada. I happen to be flying tomorrow in Charlotte to Toronto, Canada. hamdulillah. So I'm visiting Canada tomorrow. I'll be in Mississauga, Mississauga something like that a city of that sounds like this shalabi delight Allah.

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So sister Misha from Canada, I think your question is really related.

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Is the

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I'm sorry, the sister.

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The brother I'm sorry, is obliged to to help a sister getting married? And at the same time, can a wife help her father?

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Meanwhile, the husband is not,

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you know, maybe approving of that.

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All these questions, they fall into the area of upholding kinship ties.

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Brothers and sisters in Islam, we need to realize the importance of this particular subject.

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One of the names of Allah subhana wa Taala are rough man, the Merciful

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and one of his attributes is mercy that Allah Subhana Allah is merciful.

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And you know in order to believe in that name,

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and serve Allah subhanho wa Taala through that name, the Merciful and

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you must characterize yourself with the attribute of mercy.

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And if you want to gain the mercy of Allah subhanho wa Taala you must be merciful to the people around you.

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Rasul sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Hadith Abdullah Mohammed the loss of a loved one Homer and the Hadith for sunon. He said of hammelmann fill out the yarmulke Memphis Emma be merciful to those who are in earth. Allah Subhana Allah will be merciful to you. And another wording of this hadith malayer Hamlet Johan who ever does not show mercy to others, Allah subhanho wa Taala will not show mercy to him. Now, where is the first area where we should practice

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this mercy? Well, we can take category characterize ourselves with this mercy our children

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and our relatives

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especially the relatives.

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Here carefully this beautiful Hadith Khalid Abdul Rahman now of the Allah Juan, Calif is authentic. Allah subhanho wa Taala says Anna ramen and the Merciful, the Most Merciful wirehaired are Rahim and this is the womb

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you know the womb where the baby spends 789 months

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It's called an Arabic Allah him.

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He can tell it's it sounds like ramen, ramen, ramen.

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Mr. Mandela him. So the word in Arabic is called Brahim. The woman Arabic is called Rahim. Allah subhanho wa Taala is saying, Chicago to La hussmann. Minister me. I made the womb. A Rahim derive from my name, amen.

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Here is what I'm looking for. For men was Allah wa Salatu whosoever uphold his kinship dye ties, his his relatives, I will have a relationship with that person. Meaning I will be merciful to that person. Woman, kapa haka, Tato. And whoever severs his kinship ties, I will sever that person. Now, maybe a brother is not obliged to get his sister married. But this is his relative.

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What I want to add and we'll do a taqwa wallet, our new

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one, work together towards righteousness. And certainly maintaining the kinship ties is an act, which is certainly righteous and pious, based on what I just quoted of evidence.

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your wife doesn't have to take care of her father or mother.

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Because especially if she's not working, if she is working, that's another scenario. But especially if she's not working, and you're supporting her, she does not have to take care of her father and mother. But guess what, that is her father, that is her mother.

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We can just be stuck at some

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ego or some personal issues, or some societal norms or some cultural practices you love your father more than me. You love your family more than me. No.

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Husband and wife, they got into that relationship to help one another. Make it two gentlemen.

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That is what we're here for.

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I should try strive to help my husband to go to Jenna. And for sure. If my husband helps his sister in getting married, this is

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the vehcile Allahu Allah Allah mentioned that a sadhaka Allah Al Karim, Allah the ad run, when you give a sadhaka to someone who is a relative eager to rewards Scylla was sadhaka that he ended up maintaining or upholding your kinship ties and at the same time you receive the reward of your soccer.

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either want to stay there or nag about this and that, how come you're doing this and how come you're doing that? Certainly we can find the common ground where we can where we can help one another.

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You know, there is an amazing story, which is mentioned in the sooner

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regarding a companion, whose name is Jabir ibn Abdullah Ravi Allahumma.

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jabber is the son of Abdullah hypno harem

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just just pay attention to this is a very interesting story

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of the lion harem is one of the companions who was killed in the Battle of

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the night of the battle. He called upon his son Jaden. And he said to him, yeah, boonie my son

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avuto and nanny mokulua nevadan. I think I'll be killed tomorrow in this battle. I can tell.

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And I do have nine girls. Imagine nine girls nine daughters. jabber was the only son now my son take care of these girls.

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Take care of them. And not only this, I have a debt.

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I have a debt, pay my mind my debt, take care of my debts.

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he was killed the following day in the battlefield for you.

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later on. Rasul sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was

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coming back from one of the expeditions or one of the battles

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and he spotted jabs beating his Camel Up because

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You want to go home quickly?

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For Rasul Allah wa sallam asked him, Why are you rushing? I mean, take your time. Why are you beating your camel? Why do you want to go home earlier Javed? He said, Yasser Allah in the Hadith.

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I recently got married and I want to go and you know, I left my wife and I want to go spend some time with her. Then he asked her, he asked him, whom did you marry?

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Whom did you get married to?

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You know what he said, am? I get married to a woman who was previously married, divorced? An old woman. Then the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam said to him, I'm going to lay a will have to lay a book. Why didn't you marry a virgin so you can have more fun? You know, Jared said, Look, you're rasulillah or messenger of Allah. In Abbi, Tara Kelly. This Abernethy

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my father left for me, nine sisters. Now if I go and marry a virgin, that means she's going to be young. She's not going to take care of my sisters. But I married this older, mature women, more experienced women, so she can help me raise the girls. Imagine, imagine this is the generation. That's why we're sitting here 1400 years later and talking about them and admiring them. As if this is a sci fi as if this is not real. Because of what we see now. People boycotting one another and brothers do not talk to one another sisters do not talk to one another.

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That is why we're having issues. I don't want to sound harsh here. Maybe this is an extreme, but we need to help one another to maintain our kinship ties. With this I have answered two questions. Let me go to sister Saba

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from Salt Lake City de la Hara. First of all,

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when we try to arbitrate basically here is the the case scenario that we have.

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I think a sister went to the masjid with her daughters or with her kids.

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And the kids will walk in front of another sister. The other sister got upset and certainly yelled at her and problem started repeating that phone call inshallah we'll carry on answer Sister Sara Sara Monica Mercado Libre cat.

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Yeah. Is that your sister? Saba again? No. Abroad abroad. Mashallah. You sound like sister Saba. Okay. Oh, no. Okay, what is your question? What are you calling from a question?

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My question is that, you know, I go to Sunday school. And there's a man that teaches us and basically, he was telling us watch what you put on, like the internet, like your pictures and all that. And so all the girls are talking about right now. He made his facebook account. And he started calling all the girls. And do you think he went too far?

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So he follows all the girls like what like? Yeah, and he's the man like all the girls are talking about it. Do you think he wants to fly?

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That's I will I will do that. Like follow the I mean, I mean, I mean, you're asking me whether this is too far. I mean, first of all, let me answer you inshallah, I will do answer you I will talk in general about Facebook and and how can we protect ourselves from it? Let's be constructive tonight. inshallah I will do I'll take care of your question abroad. Okay. Okay.

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Why Yeah, Kumara cola.

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So, since that's about the the issue here is his

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children in the masjid.

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This is what caused the whole issue. There is a misconception I have to say that.

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In the minds of a lot of Muslims, especially those who came from overseas.

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What is the misconception

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that children cannot be in the masjid.

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And this is a mistake. This is the worst thing that you can see in a community that you look around you do not see youth nor children.

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You see, the issue has two extremes. And the truth is in the middle.

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The two extremes is the one that I just quoted that you're saying that you cannot have children in the masjid. That's an extreme.

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The other extreme that

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You bring kids into the masjid and they end up walking around disturbing everybody breaking down everything they come across, and they don't help the people develop what is known to be for sure. The presence of the heart and mind while praying

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because of the noise they create. So those are two extremes. What is the truth? The truth is in the middle children are allowed to be in the masjid. What is the evidence? Then we hear that a Rasul sallallahu alayhi wa sallam would be praying. And then when he hears the crying of a baby, he would haste in his Salah to finish in order to comfort the heart of the mother, because when a mother hears her baby crying, there is no way her heart will be at peace. That's an evidence that children were allowed at the machine. Didn't we read the Hadith that Rasul Allah needs to carry his granddaughter

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on his hand while he is standing in the Salah, and when he would go down and little Kumar and so God will place her in front of him.

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Didn't we come across the Hadith with rasulillah salam was at one time delivering a hotbar on the bobbitt and he saw al Hassan al Husayn walking into the masjid he actually went down the rabbit and he grabbed them and he said to his companions, it is through an AMA am wailuku Allah to confit now, your children and your wealth are a test.

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Now, this is to establish that the children should be in their mercy. Also,

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you should discipline your children once you bring them to them as they should be next to you. Here is a Rasul Salah was carrying his grand

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you should give your children incentive, you should let them know that the masjid is a special place, you can just do whatever you want to do, you have to observe the etiquettes of the machine.

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So for you, Sr Saba to be able to resolve this issue. You need to present to both of them what I presented.

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You see, when we approach two brothers or two sisters who are arguing, and you try to just let go, brother, just let go Brother, don't do this. But if you come in there, okay, what is the issue of brothers? Why don't we appoint the Messenger of Allah Salallahu alaihe salam to be the judge?

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Willie, you know, don't, don't talk about me. I'm out of the loop here. Okay. I would like you to appoint the Messenger of Allah to be the judge what did the messenger say about this issue?

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And then you present to them what I presented a minute ago

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that their sister, you should not be mad because of her, bringing her children into the masjid. Dear sister, you should not let your children just run around like this. This way, you provided the evidence. And this is something that we really need to be to grasp is the the concept of enjoining good and forbidding evil. You know, when you when you try to stop evil or if you want to enjoy and goodness. One of the keys to this is knowledge. When you dedicate time Rahim Allah says, Love with the men. alemania Yoku woman riff taneous Habu woman, Sabrina yaku. When you want to enjoin good and forbid evil, you must have knowledge before the act, you must be aware of the subject matter, and

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you have knowledge of it. This is number one. And when you do what you do it with softness with kindness. And after you do it, because listen, not everybody is going to accept you. You're not the messengers of Allah. They did not receive 100% approval by the followers. Actually 50 less than 50 so not everybody is gonna clap and say Allahu Akbar here is white Arab just came in and solved my problem. Now, a lot of people are gonna probably be no, it's not your business. Why are you sticking your nose in my business now be patient. And I'm trying to make this as general as possible. System service so we can teach the people the viewer something big Mila Heyerdahl.

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Our brother Daniel de la halen, from Virginia and May Allah Subhana. Allah bless you and bless your wife and bless your family and make your burn always lawful earnings.

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You're going to sell this house. I want to remind you brother Daniel, don't rush the process the fact Alhamdulillah I want to remind you what I said yesterday the fact that you already intended to come out of this

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you already in MLM Albania

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in MLM Albania actions are based on intentions. So your intention now is to leave that haram area and to transfer yourself

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and your family into the local area. Now go about it wisely. Don't break your your your your financial situation break your family financial situation now come out with the least amount of loss that you can afford. Now there is

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a aside of your of your wealth is low 400% which is the down payment and you know, the percentage invested and go ahead and shoot any amount. What is the value of those 30,000 if you pleased them five years ago, you know just go ahead and do around figure but the rest is a gray area definitely. The rest is a gray area definitely. And I advise you to cleanse it, not to throw it all totally, but just a portion of it. Give it for the sake of Allah subhanahu wa tada Jazakallah halen brother Daniel and May Allah subhanho wa Taala plus you

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our sister Pam from Georgia.

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I think I mentioned yesterday that your husband can be your way to gender. Likewise he can be your way to *. So it's really 5050 here. So but she is concerned that she doesn't have a husband and she that's not the only way we go to gentlemen.

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Your parents are away two gentlemen, your Salah is a way to Jenna, your sadaqa is a way to gender your fasting is a way to gender your height is a way to gender

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your your you're taking care of your

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kinship ties, upholding that kinship ties as a way to gender and so forth. And at the end of the day, you know Allah Subhana Allah is merciful. Brothers and sisters in Islam I want to remind you that our social Allah Allah Sallam said in a beautiful Hadith, Lambo, and no hula, hula Hakuna Matata Amelie, rest assured that none of you will enter gender because of your deeds. Harlow, Allah and Allah, even your messenger of Allah, Allah Allah Allah, not even me. Allah tala Madani Allahu Allah, Allah Subhana Allah Allah, bestow His mercy upon me.

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Listen, Jenna is so precious, so expensive. Allah inositol at Allah heavily. Indeed the commodity of Allah is so expensive, and in a city atolla heljan indeed the community of Allah is genuine, there is no way you're going to come up with an act, righteous Act, which can be the price for genuine enough that you will see the face of Allah Subhana Allah engender enough.

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You think you can, the wills of this world can be enough to

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enough that you will see the Messenger of Allah if Allah wills of course, if you'll update at the same level with him.

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So sallallahu alayhi wa sallam told us that there are people in this world Muslims in this world as we live, who loves the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam so much that they would love to sacrifice all the wealth and all their children just to look one time at the face of Rasulullah sallallahu I

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have Lisa here. Imagine and this is the man What about Ibrahim Ali Salah? What about this man Elijah is one of us have what about the aku? Allahumma Salaam all these messengers and prophets? They are in Jenin What about Roma avak of man Ali you've never thought of your mahana Fatima Fatima rhodiola mana. Huh? What about those

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agenda is priceless. Now we don't go to Jana because of what we do. But we got to gender because of the mercy of Allah subhana wa Taala. But now, a lot of the brothers a lot of the sisters now may be invited to drop off

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Acting, because the sheikh said we only enter agenda because of the mercy of Allah. Yeah, but a prerequisite a condition to be entitled to receive the mercy of Allah, that you strive that you act, that you do

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have our agenda This is the

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the lawful, truthful who, someone who act, an act of obedience and he hopes Allah will accept it. And as a result of this, he will receive the mercy of Allah. Hence, or consequently he will enter gender or someone who committed a sin and he repented and he is hoping Allah Subhana Allah will accept his repentance. And because of this, he will go to jail because of the mercy of Allah. So you must strive to act righteously. But don't think that this is what will take you to Ghana, but this will qualify you will entitle you to receive the mercy of Allah subhanho wa Taala. We ask Allah Subhana Allah says the plan to bless you. Even later Allah, our brother from Ottawa, Canada, does

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not allow him and his wife regarding the artificial nails.

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If they do cover the actual nails, you see, the issue here is the ablution the water must reach all the body parts which must be washed. Now this artificial or fake nails, which a female would place in her

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fingernails, even so, this is something that is not recommended. I don't know why we do that.

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In order shaitan when he disclosed his strategies to misguide us, this is one of the areas where he said he would work

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on the human beings, you know what he said, you know, she found when he when he rejected the command of Allah subhanaw taala and he refused to bow down to Adam alayhis salam and as a result of this,

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Allah subhanaw taala cursed him and rejected him and and fro thrown him out of paradise.

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He said, allow me to live until the death resurrection and I will show you that the children of Adam are not worthy of that status which you granted them

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Allah subhanaw taala granted him what is known to be another order despite then he revealed his strategies and this is what I'm going to do. I'm going to do this and that and that one of the things that he said listen to this, Walla

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Walla Omen Nana whom while I am Marana whom, fella you bet he couldn't tell me why la Mora Nahum fella, yo ye Ron Haleakala. Look at this, I will misguide them, I will make them hope too much in this world forget about the hereafter. Many

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people are not mindful anymore of death, people are acting like that they will never die. What a moron now whom I will make them

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simply offer these animals to their idols,

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that they mark these animals by making a hole in their ears. So that belongs to the I know that they will ship here is what I'm looking for what

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are your own Alcala, I will command them so they will change the way

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you created them.

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I'm not happy with my creation.

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We have people they want so far that they said if he's a male, you want to be a female. I want to be a female. And if there is a male, female, female, she want to be a male don't hear that people changing their gender even we're having people or developing a third gender we're having a third gender and they can do in the world. And even the Muslim world right now. is crazy.

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Don't we see those people painting the body that's the work of Stefan, every time that I see these tattoos in the airports and traveling around immediately by Allah, My mind goes to that verse. I said, look at this sidebar, when they say that is a look at these guys, their their their body is turning into

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a picture, you know, a picture, the old type of things, and everybody and they placed these tattoos in these sensitive areas and now they have to disclose it.

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And they end up *. I mean it's crazy thing. Why do you need artificial nails sister? Why

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should a nail fitrah or whatever the The sooner they'll filter though the way that a lot of fashion does that we got our nails that we we take the nails off if they if they if they reach a certain

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I believe that the 40 day is applied to the hair but the nails of the if they become tail, you're not all you have now you're booting artificial. I look at it. You see the woman with her with her fingers like crazy, like, like he's here, they bring these things you're afraid she's gonna do like this and then grab you. So we will not need artificial stuff. These sister regarding the menses, you know,

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Allah Allah Salam when he Toka La Mancha

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during Hajj,

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he entered into her room, and he found her breaking in tears. Why? Because she had her period.

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Now, she is concerned that she is not going to do the rituals. She is supposed to be performing ombre and halogen and she's concerned that this may become an obstacle for her to fulfill the rituals of her alma and Hutch.

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This is what I want to say to my sister. This is something that Allah Subhana Allah ordained are both new Daughters of Adam.

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Why should you shy away from it? I mean, I'm not asking you to go out there and tell everybody that you have your period. I mean, that's not what I'm saying. But if you happen to be out there and

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he can be praying when you're having a period, don't even do it.

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You know, this is something that Allah subhanaw taala or dw, maybe maybe try to you know,

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leave the scene before they initiate the Salah.

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This way, you know, you don't have to, to expose yourself I'm not asking you to expose yourself either. Nor you should

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end up praying when you're in your period. And all that is disclosed in order to conceal it. Nor you should be overly disclosing it. Insha Allah tala.

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For you, we cover those two questions Alhamdulillah.

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We do we did the artificial nails. Okay, we have our sister Amina Mirza from, I believe Salt Lake City. She's asking regarding the 0% whether it is a credit card, or buying a car. And the motive here is 0% 0% is wonderful. But we do have

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a side issue that is very sensitive. And a lot of Muslims don't pay attention to it. If you look at this contract, you're gonna find out that if you become delinquent, if you're unable to pay

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your monthly payment, immediately, Riba kicks in

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now and you assign to that, so you as a Muslim, and you as a Muslim, is committing yourself to a lawful business transaction. Because how do you know that you're going to fulfill that contract? Things happen?

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You see. So to start with, you cannot be entering into this contract. Because this contract is invalid, because of that condition. If you can remove that condition and find another way to settle.

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The fact that you should

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pay your monthly fees even if you become delinquent without having to pay interest. That's fine. But 0% is is is is risky from that angle, sister Amina and that's why I'm asking you not to do it.

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We come to our system abrar.

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The last question that we have.

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We have the 800-587-9075 1-800-587-9075 that's the phone number you can call 1-800-587-9075. But let me answer. Okay, we do have a caller. Let me see if we can take that caller we have three questions left Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato.

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My name is Kenny. I am calling from Minnesota. Mashallah on your question.

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My question is

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matter of trying to remain game

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and I'm teaching things my knowledge of Arabic language itself is very militant. And as I read the Quran I come across on the web and I wrote him down

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the command is basically you should not tamper with it or change it in any way and I'm not trying to do that. But for the grace I'm just inquiring if I can see them a certain way for example,

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a weapon that I've been asked

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sometimes Latina as to what

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write right

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I'm sorry quickly assistant if your intention initial intention is to make dua

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there is nothing wrong with that but I'd rather if I'm going to use a verse just use the Quranic do I finish it and then initiate that other one using Wow Oh, do we can just add Where am I? Oh, do we come in fitness? Mahatma mad woman Sharif Nuttall messy head the gel Amina dinar woman, a double top you can do.

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But, you know, your intention in any rate is not the recitation of the Quran. your intention is the making of the law. And if you can just Yani finish the DA which is the Quranic da and then do where and this and that that is fine in Sharla there's like a lot further.

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But like a lot of Yuki Okay, 1-800-587-9075 we still have eight more minutes, enough to answer system Subbu I'm sorry, sister abroad.

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Sister abroad.

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You know, an Imam following girls on Facebook is something crazy.

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We really need to talk to him and hopefully,

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you know, that is not right.

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We shouldn't be doing that as Imams, you know, but we're weak. But I'm hoping that these girls are not

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attempting the Imam. You know, that's another issue. So about an Imam should not be engaged in this to say the least. There is one very, very important question that I received through email. I hope the sister is watching inshallah and I will email her back and I'm not certain whether she wanted me to disclose her name or not. But please, if you do send an email in the future.

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Let me know if you would like me to disclose your name or you want to keep this as a secret.

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You can use by the way carry metadata TV, or you can use my regular email, Jonathan 70 [email protected] and inshallah very soon be delighted after we come back from Hajj. We will have regular shows on Islam q&a, and we will inshallah have a regular Islam q&a. Email address me when I thought about the sister is asking regarding working in a bank at a bank.

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She mentioned that

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she does not get engaged whatsoever.

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In the Rebbe side of the bank,

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she is doing some IoT or some customer service here and there.

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She said she works from home.

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This enables her actually two volunteers for an Islamic cause.

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enables her to take care of her husband and, and and children enables her to

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to avoid unlawful mixing or being alone with a man and the fact that he's a customer of she is working in a building and and and she she listed all these beautiful advantages behind the job. But I say to my sister and I say to anybody who is in that situation. At the end of the day, you're working for a bank

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and for sure

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a portion

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Have your earning is coming from usury.

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The bank makes money through usury. That's the fact of the matter.

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Let's go into the dictionary and let's see how they define a bank.

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A bank collects money and lends the money and in return, he gets

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a certain percentage from those who take loans and they pay a lesser percentage to those who place their money in the banks. That's unlawful in Islam.

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So, for sure, a great deal of your income is coming from that source.

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Now, maybe the way that you described your profession or your contribution to the operation of this bank, that you're not directly involved in a business transaction, which engages or indulges you in becoming

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a writer of the labor contract or a witness or somebody who contributes to or facilitates the business transaction, which is a lawful which is usually because the profits or loss element that is Allah and Allah horiba lockers is usually the one who pays it, and the one who receives it, which is the bank, and the one who facilitate the business transaction, they usually business transaction that a business transaction, that would would would be the Two Witnesses or the writer of the actual writer of the contract. So

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now, let's assume that you're not part of this, that you're not one of those that you're not directly involved in facilitating a Riba usury business transaction. Now, for sure, a percentage of your earning is coming from Riba. Now the other percentage is coming from

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local because of the nature of your job. So your earning is mixed from halal and haram.

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Now, a lot of the scholars they say that this person has to look for a new job. But until they do find a new job, they may maintain this job, provided that they cleanse a lot of the earnings from the gray area, which is the local half. But at the end of the day, they must migrate from that

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mix of lawful and unlawful earning to a complete lawful earning.

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We have a question and first and Facebook from Mina from Virginia. Some dealership has 0% interest offer for the entire purchase. Is it helpful for me to buy a car this way? Or is leasing the only option? Now? Mina? Again, if the contract

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does you see that the problem with the 0% meaner is the contract itself. It says that if you stop payment or you're unable to make a payment at a certain time, or at a certain month, guess what? They start charging you interest.

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Now that item in the contract, invalidate this contract, the business transaction becomes invalid. We do have a question on Facebook from sister Miriam. I wear hijab but would like to wear niqab in some situations? Is it permissible to go back and forth from hijab or niqab? I don't recommend it Sister Maria. But if you want to avoid certain fitness

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I hope the idea is not to hide yourself because you don't feel like you know beautifying yourself. You know, I don't want to judge your intention here. But I would rather stick to one thing.

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It is very, very, very testing to other sisters. When they see you. Transforming from niqab to hijab, hijab to the cop.

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I found it very testy that sometimes the sisters would be a certain sister would be wearing her makeup and then by all the sudden she takes it off. This is a fitna to a lot of the sisters who are not who are waiting the club or the sisters who are thinking about wearing the niqab.

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So even so your intention is good Sister Maria, that maybe you're trying to handle a certain situation.

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But yet, you will be seen as somebody who's quitting something to something else. And something that I do not recommend at all sister money I'm Joseph manohara

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with this the viewers we sign off for tonight. I really enjoyed those tonight's broadcast.

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special place for all of us to learn the religion of Islam. The viewers, I love you all for the sake of Allah and whatever I said right? Tonight is from Allah and whatever mistake I made is from my cell phone shape, and please realize that there are a lot of people who are more learned than me watching me, please go ahead and send an email and correct me and i'll i'll come on there and certainly say that I made a mistake and here is the correct opinion or view and here is the evidence, but provide the evidence does that come along? With this the reviewers are leaving the care of Allah and I love you for the sake of Allah subhanaw taala until our next broadcast.

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