Ibrahim Nuhu – The Disease And The Cure #185
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The importance of the Prophet sallamer's words, "has been there" meaning "has been there," is discussed in various narratives and their significance to the day. The struggles of men in their roles as mothers and their importance to their lives are also discussed. The segment emphasizes the need for caution and avoiding heavy work, as well as the importance of preserving a marriage and finding a good partner. The segment also touches on the benefits of taking the price of gold to benefit one's financial situation and a college program for students to learn about cutting the price of gold.
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So today inshallah we continue from where we stopped in this book of the day when
Allah subhanaw taala grant is good and Tofik and accept whatever we do for his sake.
So last time we talk lastly, what the COSATU Zaynab into Jash. In we spoke about the truth of the matter mentioned by the Quran, which is a bit different from that which is stated by you know, pay doesn't matter this matters of understanding, intercede.
So, it says, While Arabia and the Nabi sallallahu alayhi salam, I could have been a nice help. Come up with FSI. See, there is no doubt the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
the Prophet sallallahu sallam said
Habiba Ilya in the near community said what the YJ let's call it add Salah Celeste a lawless Allah Allah subhanaw taala cause the love of woman in his in his heart as he said Allah subhanaw taala made me love from your dunya sisters and in the perfect
world what's your edits? Kurata nev Salah and Allah subhanaw taala make the Kurata irony you know I relaxed and I enjoy when when I pray to
Allah subhanho wa Taala
this hadith is not found in Sahil McCarty also he Muslim according to them I look here
I think we talked about it last last time
okay, I have not only ticklish what exactly the comment given by the commentator, but is a Hadith you know that
he sees this as authentic given that the prophets Allah Azza wa said help with the Ilia I mean dunya commonly said of the very famous Hadith, Allah subhanaw taala put in my heart the love of these two
women and and the poor few and also Allah subhanaw taala. Grant me
tranquillity when I pray, so when he prays he relaxed, that's the middle of Quran a
coldness of an eye but it means perhaps a long summer relax whenever he prays to Allah subhanaw taala
Karlova love the Hadith.
Lama Yahweh Heba Avraham Habiba era Yeoman duniya calm Farah, it says is not this is the one that came from the Prophet sallahu wa sallam Habibollah in Mindanao calm and they said what the sisters, women and and the perfume.
There is another narration even came or rejected
which says last week I wrote to Allah cast in me the love of theory.
This one according to the commentator, the one that says three La Silla who
doesn't have any origin is not authentic. Was that an Imam Muhammad if he could have his sword if he hadn't had it? As an F bomb was shut up? Well, elsewhere on Hoonah Well, Mohammed added, you know, the statement that says I, I
can be patient with food and drinks, but not with those words.
I can't recall this also passed last time I can't recall the reach of this in say
in the Muslim female Muhammad
in law came quoted to support the idea that a loving woman is not deficiency is okay. Because Rasulullah sallallahu selama. According to him, if this hadith is authentic, he says I cannot be patient when it comes to the woman and preview but I can be patient when I didn't have food or drink,
whether it is authentic or not, it doesn't affect Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam in any way negatively, you know?
And it has a good interpretation and he mela Mahajan has an A not like what the enemies are saying that the profit and loss of mine doesn't have anything except thinking about woman. Yeah, that's false life of the prompts a lot. Someone confirmed that he wasn't like that. You know?
What could have said who are there Allah Helia who? Allah that he can, you know, the hood they, they were jealous of the prophets, Allah sama concern and that's what he accusing Kalu Muhammad Allah Nica doesn't have anything in his life except marriage, except to marry.
But Allah subhanaw taala Allah rasool Allah is Allah is someone who will call me as soon and as Allah. Allahu
Allah Ibrahim Al Kitab al HiQ, Metro Atlanta home moluccana Vemma. He says, Alas, my hotel refuted them and defended the Prophet sallallahu Sallam he says, they have been jealous, jealous of what Allah subhanaw taala gave the Prophet sallallahu sallam.
He is referring to the Prophet sallallahu Sallam and people in general they are jealous of us. You know there are so many things confirmed by the prophets, Allah Azza which did you jealous of us? Because we have them from Allah subhanaw taala Salam is one of them.
In the afternoon Anessa Allah Allah Allah Allah Amin fatherly fucka attina Our neighbor human Kitab will Hickmott Latino American or Viva la smartglasses before Sula Salah Salem, the family of Ibrahim Allah Subhan Allah to Allah give them the book, the wisdom
there's wisdom, sunnah or any statement other than the books given to those Prophet, prophets of Allah subhanaw taala. To add a normal kind of Eman we grant them also milk in our view, and this is what makes the Prophet sallallahu Sallam
unique and one of the explanation given by the scholars concern and the reason why we are seeing Allahumma Salli ala Muhammad
Ali Muhammad comesa later Allah Ibrahim Allah al Ibrahim,
which one is is
Better Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam that you're asking Allah to make Salah for the prophets Allah sama like the way he did for Ibrahim is supposed to be the other way around Salah Ibrahim Kumar Selita Muhammad Sallallahu sallam.
But they said if you look at this idea, and many i that confirm that he is one of the family members of Ibrahim Ali Salah. So whatever father Allah gave them, he is also included. And he has also another special one. So is that double
mentioning Ibrahim means he is getting double that which is given to Abraham and his family, and he's one of the family of Ibrahim Ali Salah and also he gets the special one also for himself, you know
Karlova karula Ibrahim emammal hood, con endo sera azmol inside al Amina Wahab, Bihar gerotor, sava, Bihar
and now this is imamo Levine you know, Ibrahim Ali Salam
you know, he has Sarah and you know, Saba is very beautiful, very, very, extremely beautiful. And bestill he loves her
weather there that's the reason why is that sometimes you just say Rahim Allah you look at me, you know, because in the narration it doesn't mention all of these. You know?
Saara gave hijab trip I
call us full stop. And Ibrahim Tikka us
with
slave Monica and Monica wife and he got a smile from from that
this did it did he love harder? Yeah, that's very obvious right? That's very obvious.
Well, how that would elicit but if you have time is this bringing these just to conform to all of us that love in wives is not a is not efficient?
Well, how that would come in notice on what is ona emarat and habited camera, what is Cumberland via? The UHD has 99 wives,
but then he
fareharbor Telecoil Mara, he loves that woman.
What is when you have a camellia? And he married her to complete
100 Right. And we mentioned that this story is Bartylla cumulative Nazira ever don't even look I mentioned it as confirming yes it happens but this is Babylon. He also has his own interpretation to it because this is cutter in them when we lay
out did not love any woman there was no case of a man that that would send to jihad, so that he could be killed and then he married his wife. No, that story is fake Bartylla
So, the case was just always the case.
No, those people do people they just jump from the wall. They went to the hole in the Mahara and in the masjid. And they started I mean, he got scared
and fuzzy I mean, he got scared and then they started asking him question one of them said I have
I have one Lotus one what is Renata he has 909 99 She
and I have only one and he asked me to give him that one. So that would
recall reply before he listened from the other
when the cathedral middle Hola, 11 Hebrew malaba Levine Amarula Mila Sol headwork allele uma well then that I would prefer to know for Sephora who are rockin
so that was what happened to this one married and that is what is narrated to us by the Quran. Well how does Raimon iblue Canada to fulfill laity?
Allah TCL ina Marathi
these are the prophets of the messages of Allah Muhammad Allah He used to go around
to see what is the Z 90 But the Hadith says 100 Yeah, so that's the correct 100 Not night. Okay.
So he has night he says I'm going to go around 90 You know amongst his wife, as well as so funny that these criminals they accept this the Christian they accept that
Superman has given 301,000 You know, that would have 700 That was okay. But when merciless Allah so Mary 11 Why do I always think of nothing except why in your book you tolerate
Have
those profit that you think they are your profit married more than more than one and that was that was okay only when it happens with Rasul Allah then it is an issue like this guy so Solomon said I'm going to go around 901 100 wives and the purpose was the idea was to have each and every one of them you know getting
conceived pregnant and to have a child who will be fighting for the sake of Allah subhanaw taala from his family members not from outside
good purpose
and he did yeah, so those are the prophets you don't compare them with any any other human beings as far as well as allows him also sometimes is to go around this nine wives all of them and have relationship with each and every one of them and take one gospel, all
these prophets, the power and ability loss want to give them Nobody has that as well, as well as a lot seller may see in
the Battle of Azerbaijan, they couldn't, you know, 10 people, they couldn't
break that rock. Everyone tried.
And it's like they're not doing anything to it. And so last last summer, take it hit it was
for the parish, Sheriff, I mean, it's possible that
light emerged from it. So when he hit it the third time, cause it was God.
So his ability is not like the ability of any one of us in any sense, you know, that's why I shall I shall set so let's Allah so mechanic come below. Emirati who was I saw I used to kiss his wife while he's fasting. We're like, you know, I'm like cuckoo,
the MP so let's Allah sama he control him. I mean, his emotion. I mean, his feeling his desire more than you.
Why is he Why is he saying this? She wants people to be very careful. Right and go and say Jaroslaw. selasa did
and then you go and get into trouble. Understand that yes, it is halal, but not every Halal should be taken.
And there are some Halal you have to be very careful in taking, taking them so Solomon said I'm going to go around nine
100. But when he forgot to say Inshallah, in some narration Jalisa will Molech sometimes angels come and sit with the prophets. So the angel said you forgot insha Allah.
So he forgot to say that reminded him of don't forget to say sha Allah. So he forgot.
None of them was conceived except one.
And even that one when she gave birth, she gave birth to a part of human being
some sci fi or any part.
So Solomon understand
the mistake he did which is not to say Insha Allah, Allah, Allah Azza wa said had he said in sha Allah.
Each and every one of them will concede and they will bring those kids that he's looking for as an army of Allah subhanaw taala but he forgot wisdom Allah squatter made him forget so that we can learn lesson you know, whatever you do, say inshallah Rasul Allah. Allah somos asked several questions he said, Tomorrow I will give you the answer.
Silla selasa suspects in the way to come and tell him
America was why even two weeks there were high states for two weeks without coming to the province Eliassen
and he was so much and then Allah Sparta blamed him he said to him hola to penelitian ini file and Danica raddon ilani Shala always say inshallah
Yeah, it's a very hard lesson but it's good for all of us. Say Inshallah, because you're not the one who is in in control. And whatever you promise say Inshallah, because if in case you couldn't make it, you don't need to go for Cafaro No, you don't need to go for the kuffaar Because you said inshallah
so when you don't do it, that means Lamia Shayla.
But at the same time, try your best because nowadays insha Allah means
not I will not do
you say to kid inshallah we get very they will tell you, your kids, they're very straightforward.
And Umoja, Mara, big people, they do my dzambhala but kid No.
Inshallah, no, he will do an odd inshallah. No, no, you have to tell me what do you do or not?
I think we also the big ones we should start seeing because it
Somebody says insha Allah cancel him from
the US speculation.
case so, Solomon, I mean, he has this amount of wives. What does that mean?
He loves being around his wife's. What concealer Rasulullah Salah semana had been nasty in a color Asia they asked him who do you love the most are soulless Allah Azza he said, Aisha.
What does that mean? It's okay to love your wife. We're Karla Anna Khadija Ruzic to her boss her Allah. The way he mentioned he says Allah bless me with love in this world.
He take it as far as a fact of the risk from Allah Subhana Allah that He loves Khadija.
I don't think the world have ever witnessed you know, before Fatima, a person like like this.
Khadija very humble person, rich but humble on the best manners. Best example for anyone, any sister who is looking for good for herself.
And all of them. Maria, as you have been to
Khadija and father
Kim Marfil
laser missile video if I'm missing the Honda engineer
I really advise any every system
to read the biography of those ones to see how did they live? Those who married among them how do they live as wives nowadays we have many sisters who believe that serving the house is a deficiency she can't cook and they have some people who lost you know appropriate thinking
sorry to say this because we have some of our speakers and writers and maybe scholars a student of knowledge also spreading this thing. You don't need to cook in the house you don't need to do this and that Subhanallah the rate of divorce is increasing because of this.
And they don't care tomorrow so they keep telling him Life has been good before but now you know what does he lose when she does all of those things which are part of the ritual
it's not even good for her even health wise also to live in that way they are choosing for her
died or him Allah so it's not even good for her to that's why not every halal. You know, I never who says is also key. Because if the cultural practice of the people is like that, then it is mandatory upon even if it is not a culture if the husband says this is what he wants, then she does. She has to and she's doing willingly she get reward from Allah subhanho wa Taala
which one is better than Fatima? Nobody? No sister can claim
that she's better than 1414 Out of the Allahu anha her hand became so harsh because of serving house you know, she used to blend the seat by half. So you know always try to make peace here. You know, because he says faulting Obama too many
Fatima is part of me this lesson as well. And you know, Alan said he never touched heavy silk that is softer than the hand of Rasulullah
escuela is the man hold the sword and fight and do everything but still the hair is so soft. You know? It can imagine his daughter How is he going to be?
Yeah, but still because of heavy work. The hand became so rough
and she doesn't mind
all the time she needed help. She went to the Prophet sallallahu Sallam we never heard that he's complained to Ali Bin Abu Talib is too much.
And Ursula salsa never tell him don't forget this is the daughter of Nabi EULA. Say that in si l Jana, do not ask her to do anything. You have to bring it to her. She cannot work, she cannot do anything. She has to just live with you like that enjoy her life.
In fact, when she even asked for support that he gave her
he did.
Yeah, he
gave a way that will come you know, she was looking for a maid, somebody to support her at home. So let's Allah Azza wa sallam coming
and he went to he found her and she was complaining. How much tough is this life? You know? So the prophets Allah is Allah.
The prophets, Allah, Allah cinema into them. He said, You guys asked me for a support. They say yes. He said,
can I give you something better? I said yes. He said when you go to sleep, Say Subhan Allah
I always imagine that your daughter ask you for support you tell us And subhanAllah
have the life she doesn't tell you that before he left your house you okay? But
For a lot, he gave them that one, he did not give them any physical person to come and help them at all.
So what I'm trying to say is, people should think wisely not everything, you you accept those one they used to work at home, they used to have the husband, and that was part of the life in the house. You hola not very long sister like that. But nowadays,
holy language en La Villa. And the kind of life somebody has chosen for them. This is the first of all the enemy of Allah and their enemy. Does that make them happy? No.
Ever says she's happy, I believe.
Wrong in that statement. We think wisely they will know that yes, that life is the most excellent life, You Allah.
Anyway, last one hoteller Protect but I really, really advise sisters have today to think properly, you know, understand that nobody respect them except Islam. Yeah, and they will never get respected more than in the religion of Allah subhanaw taala marriage is an honor and respect, cooperation, you know, the husband to make healthy and good
what was wrong when she served the family? She does all of those things. What's wrong with that? has never been wrong until the time we believe we are smart. You know,
we reach moreif Yeah, she's in the space and then she comes and cook at home it doesn't match.
Anyway. So, these are the best ones and if you look at their life, they live a very excellent and decent life in any any any aspect.
He says there was a call from Hubbardton Nisa a min Kamal inside
so this is we'll be happy with this. It says loving woman in the halal way. Being commanded inside is part of the perfection of human being.
Any comment? Okay. columella bass. Okay, this one they will not Abdullah Berset not Ibrahim. He says hi Ravi Omar XL Rohan is the best in this ummah is the one that has more more wives. Columban
Abdullah he live members.
Then go and say oh, Abraham
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Kabletown NASCI. Andrew, I guess this one we already talked about this last time, right? So let's just move. I mean, it's his potion. After the battle. They distribute all the slaves so he got all of it which is extremely beautiful that he cannot it couldn't be patient. It keeps her in front of people.
Sarah de la Juana
okay Hamdulillah
we have the potential Mr. Mohammed Vijay was the listing tribunal must be at a couple of lists Ebro a be ready. I'll be very lovely. The philosophy ama Al Mustafa. And this is one of the reason why also Imam Muhammad said it is halal for a person to enjoy a famously slave given to him after the battle before Instagram
before they serve up
behavioral what not having sexual relationship with them. But any other esteemed estimator is is okay. But not having sexual relationship they fill out
much Mushara this is contrary to the slave that he bought
is talking about the one that the Imam just distributed after the battle he can enjoy whatever he wants to enjoy without having a sexual relationship with with them. That one cannot be permitted because of the hadith of Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam
until after this Deborah after this. Then is okay. What is this
Paula boo Bharati Rahim.
How do does he do it? You wait for her to have height first. When it comes that's one of the clearest evidence that there is no pregnancy with her because the reason why he cannot approach her it is because of the
fear that she might be pregnant and you know, Islam is very sensitive concerning this matter. No mix mixing lineage.
That's why sister when she is divorced, can she just immediately Maddie? No, she has to go for the waiting period when the husband died. Also she has to vote for the way
To repeat it
again so that we will make sure that yes, she's not carrying the baby from somebody else
can we say now this is okay because we have this is very good to talk about this because we have DNA we have those things, you know, we can differentiate which one is the father?
Can we go for this? No, it's still haram.
And DNA also can, can be wrong, right?
Is the system if you made a mistake in whatever you are giving him, give you wrong result.
That's why whatever I found, they said it reaches 98
to 99 and 897 99. There's some percentage of error that can possibly happen.
So we go with the law of Allah subhanaw taala we don't go with with the DNA is haram for him to go for it.
So let's Allah somos informed that somebody was about to have relationship with the with the slave he had Rasulullah sallallahu Saba said I have guru who is if he said that he was sorry.
Is he trying to feed him in his eyes and he's here in seeing the eyesight and his ears are here. He said to her mom to
learn it and telco Luma houfy A company he said I was about to curse.
Chris that person who was about to have relationship with the with the with the slave he got before the stirrup and she was pregnant at the time. So let's Allah sama said I was about to curse him the curse that will go with Him in the grave into the grave also
is a very serious matter with Islam in Islam. It has zero tolerance to this mix in the lineage have a relationship with somebody who's already having a child with a person has to be patient must that's why a pregnant woman cannot marry until she delivered the child first.
So let's Allah Somerset lair to Otto Hamilton had tilba
Well as I wrote that he Hamlin had testability Hamill is the one who is pregnant he said nobody is allowed to have relationship with her until the delivery of the child and the one also that is not Hamid recall how in Arabic ha
this one also cannot be approached until the Estiva after it's the right then a person can go ahead so this is just to give you a bonus in on this matter. Imam Muhammad is using this hadith of the this after the election of Abdullah bin Omar since he kissed that female slave of his that means it is okay because he did not wait for the Instagram is this okay to go for these because they are not sexual relationship or for Kobe Nova and visa al Mulki la
Utah haemophilia must be at BP Laffite Moosejaw for the emphasis will be al al milk very cool. Muslim can be Amitin okay he
because he's trying to tell us the difference between the essays if you buy the slave, the female slave then in this case you are not allowed to enjoy until the stable.
So Abraham is trying to mention the difference between the two that
this connection of the ownership lie Yuta MFI l must be must be
you know we don't expect
this ownership because they already slaves class detached from those people.
In the case of the one that he bought me anything can happen.
You know, those those ones? That that came through the slavery class, the Imam says you own this one class, there is no way for this milk to be taken from you. Unless if you buy the one you bought. She used to be with somebody else. Yeah, anything can can happen. So it's better for him to wait. Because he might be having you know, enjoy enjoying somebody else's sleeve which is not
exactly it's somebody to tokens and sell how many times it sells leaves in the wrong way. Later on, the owner realized that this was the one who bought and then he came to him and asked him
what is he going to do he has to give back to him
and get his money from that person. So by the time he was enjoying he was enjoying the sleeve of somebody because that one cannot be owned at or cannot be be bought.
Or cut Shavon Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
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in hubby movies. But here on the book The Hello. While I'm in LA Baja we're incarnate could burn it mean Hoover in Milan Luca who? It says Rasulullah sallallahu semma tried to seek the intercession for McGriff. You don't remember but you're right. When I have read Rasul Allah so much Oh Ha, she was so happy she got the freedom and she has to be happy score. So Lhasa actually in Islam.
In Islam, you do have a right? If you have two slaves married to each other husband, wife,
the wife has been freed, she has the right to cut off the relationship with the husband.
Who has the right to divorce, man, right. But in the case of the slaves have two slaves, they marry each other. And then the girl was freed. She can divorce.
She can catch the marriage. So Ursula sama told her she says Oh, really? I have this. She said, Sarah
that's the wisdom behind leaving the divorce at the hand of
man because women are too emotional. No need to reply. But I think that's that's how it is right? If you say yes, Adam, I'll ask you how do you anyway get
very emotional. And man also is but less. And also since he's the one who is paying the expenses. Yeah, he knows that if you divorce this one, something is waiting for him in the future. He is going to go you know, especially in those countries where the Mahara is, and as if you're married to who really
we have heard about this in some countries is like,
even Hulin Allah did not ask for this.
And then Subhan Allah and those you hear a lot of divorce taking place, you know, after all of these expenses, and then tomorrow, divorce.
Yeah, Allah somebody told me is a very scary thing, this these days taking place in some of these countries.
Much worse than what we know 20 years ago.
And this is all because of the nature of the life we are taking for ourself. And we still think that everything is okay. This is how it should be done.
Somebody needs to be reminded, and well you need to be smart. There is no place that is better than house of
house off. Husband. Yeah, you Allah. Gonna ask those people who went back to their parent. Her mother will be annoyed, stayed with her. Her father also just because he doesn't stay that much, but he also will be worried.
They are able to do things but she will be like a burden for them. She will be depressed. So patience is is good.
Patience is good. So I just want you to understand the hikma of Allah subhanaw taala in keeping the divorce at the hands of
who the man can she divorce?
No,
she can't. But she can ask for divorce. Through the hole. Even Russia says in the video channel mistake. He says just like the way when husband hates his wife, Allah subhanaw taala grant him a way out. Not like the devil, the liars who say there is no divorce in their marriages. A Christian that there is no divorce. You have to marry only one and they always commit Zina except men have some Allah and also no divorce. And they always divorce.
Yeah. So we don't
lie to yourself. You know, it's marital life is based on comfort and acceptance. Right? If that love is removed, on what base they keep living together, harming themselves, you know?
He's depressed, he's depressed. Why losses for himself can be my roofing out as
a son.
So just like the last motel give the divorce to the man when he hates the woman. How about the woman? Is it possible for her also to hate him?
Is it possible yes.
She also might not like
then he has a way out How about her does she has anywhere else? Yes, she has. Which is the Hello
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swear if that is the justification he has to Grant had a follow.
If he doesn't want that she takes him to the court, the court has to look into her justification. She mentioned good grounds, and the court will grant her that will force him to divorce.
We don't care about his righteousness.
If she's cannot stand that marriage, then she has to go she's not a slave.
You know, but justification is there, then she will be free from any curse from Allah subhanaw taala.
If there is no justification that you will be in trouble with Allah subhanaw taala for looking for this.
I'm saying this because right now I'm telling you, we have cases of people who are keeping their wives who hate them. But they want they don't want to divorce and they know that the wife hate, you know, and he also is no good.
But at the same time, doesn't want to release them.
These are oppressions for life. I have no doubt these are operations and injustice and unfairness in committed by this person.
And what does he benefit his wife says he doesn't want
and he said no, you have to stay.
But is the difference between a slave and this one?
Okay, this is this is our some of our communities. May Allah subhanaw taala. Guide guide us so she can seek for the whole
what does she do in the whole she just returned back the MaHA Ali. Ali the MaHA?
Yeah. That's why it's good. The Mar to be little.
Little secret?
And then go to bizarre bizarre. And then tomorrow when the whole comes, the husband will say give me that Bossa Maha. And then all of the family have to go for donation.
Yeah.
But at the same time, I'm just mentioning this, you know, to support the fact that marriage should be should be reduced to the lowest level they can.
Otherwise, a woman should be optimistic.
Don't be passive, pessimistic.
Don't be like that. We have to show me no marriage. Otherwise, how can you give your daughter somebody and then tell him if you divorce a god?
From day one, before even the marriage, he has to sign this condition that when he devotes, he has to do this and that why do you need to mention divorce in marriage?
Why? Why do we need this? Even any condition just tell him fear Allah subhanaw taala and my daughter finish what else you want. You want somebody who respects your daughter, you know, not somebody who humiliate somebody who loves her and honor her and respect her when he doesn't like, that's it. So she can see it for the divorce, why the why the man has to be returned. Because this is justice, because she's the one who wants to Hickok
in the Talaq, she doesn't need to pay anything, because he's the one who's looking for it. But in the hole, since he is the one when the marriage has been arranged and organized between them, he's the one who paid and suffer. And also tomorrow, he's going to pay money to somebody else, and she will be stained for somebody else to come and pay them. Ah, so it's always justice and fair for her to return back that one too. To him.
You get it, somebody might say, but she submitted herself to him, you know, but I will send this person to shake NASA DNL ban.
It said that is no big deal, because both of them are enjoying the marriage. It wasn't him alone, both of them as well. So let's allow some asset. If somebody has a relationship with a spouse, he shouldn't move until the time she is satisfied first. That's mean this is a win win situation, both of them. So we cannot use this and say no, but he is the one or she also is the one.
So it's always justice and fair. It's always just unfair for that Maha only to be taken back to him and he has to grant the permission to go and we said also No, regardless of his
manners, you no matter how much righteous it is, he doesn't matter. He cannot tell her no, no, no, he's very righteous. You have to say no, it doesn't go like that. Far between the case is a really mean out there. But when his wife asked him for the whole, in the presence of Rasulullah, sallAllahu Sallam Rasulullah sallallahu sallam, he knew that this man is really mean Alia elaborate, he asked him to divorce.
And he was he just asked her Can you return back his his farm that he gave you? As Emma has? She said yes. She returned back and then as they got separated, she married again. Also, she asked for the whole
I'm not mistaken So Omar realize he told her this it looks like it. The trouble is coming from you, you know? Because even therapists she says I have no issue with target.
He said is his manners are excellent. And his religion is excellent. But she said I don't want to go back to cover after Islam.
So most likely she is talking about herself, not him.
But anyway, so this one is possible so with the slaves, the wife can divorce so when the prophets Allah similar to how you do have this right, he said, my saliva immediately edibles I don't want him here
as well this man used to follow her in front of people and cry
we see him when we tell him why do you make brothers look like
it's Avila hide presence of people and he doesn't care he Christ. Shetty is Crassula Lhasa pity him and he's to ask please, please please.
As soon as Allah Somato told her he called I said but era please, please let him come back.
She's said Ya rasool Allah, is it a command? Or you just advise it? It said I'm just advising he said yes. I don't want him finished. And then come as soon as somebody's not asked again.
That was his mercy.
He lost the one he loved but the prophets Allah sama never told him Come on Why do you love her like this? She's already DeVos never blame him because this is something that a person cannot control.
Can he control that
he can control the talk in the following this one he can he can do that but the love in his heart. Can he control that? Yes. How?
sincere prayer okay, but that's making dua for Allah to control I mean, did we say that the way to get rid of husband that's true that's true but but how to stop it from coming it already existed? How to stop it from coming you know the thoughts that comes to your mind how to block them you don't even know their conditions appear like that. The same goes to allow
Can I remove it? Yes through the DUA and asking a lot smarter to help and support Yes Can
you get it? Yeah but how to stop it from coming.
I can control visiting somebody I can control going with somebody you know, eating with somebody making a choice you know to take somebody I can control those on but thing that comes to my heart. How do I control them?
That's why and the visa last summer. Kenny so we've been in is that he feel Kusmi were called Allahumma had Kusmi FEMA, I'm like flat eliminate FEMA template columbic Rasulullah sallallahu sallam, this Hadees this week, but they mentioned that Ursula Salah Alyssa used to say that, yeah, Allah, this is what I can do he, I mean, they said it's not worth it for him to divide the night amongst his wives. You can go wherever he wants. But as soon as Allah sama did not do that, so he used to say Allah
this is what I can do. I go every night to somebody.
But there is something which I don't control you control is where Allah don't blame me for something which Adam control you.
And he's referring to the law.
Yeah, they asked him who do you love the most? Yes, eight other wives.
Or it can see
1111 He has nine other wives. But then he said I should.
If that question was asked when Zane who was Emma was there. So he has nine other wives? And they asked you who do you love the most? He said ash
and everyone knows you know, they also the wife they mentioned this Rasul Allah sama can control himself when he meets Aisha, they said whether they're right or right, but this is the jealousy amongst amongst them.
So he said, Yeah, Allah don't hold me responsible for what I cannot control.
Right?
Anyway, so what is wrong is Allah subhanaw taala says, What is wrong is a male coulomb male, he said for let me Lukoil manufacture the rock and voila kawalan tested your anti diluvian and decide what to harass. You will never be able to have this
I mean, justice, when dealing with your wives, he is referring to the law, not the other things. This one you have to
you a person loves one of them so much. And as such, whenever he goes out find something good. He buys for
Whenever he is going to her house, he buys some good gift. The other one Myskina when it comes to our house, no gift.
Yeah. And not only that some of them, you know, save saving energy when they meet the other one. These are the ones that show Kenny says this is a male cool male, that Allah subhanaw taala says is wrong. A person cannot do that as is not obligated that he must have relationship with anyone he goes to is not wajib. But at the same time, he shouldn't deprive one of them her right because he is waiting to meet the other one. That's haram.
That's oppression. And that's injustice. And also can he hurt the feeling of the other one? telling her that I love that one? While he you are dumb, you know? That one is very smart, or whenever he meets her talk to her about the smartness of the other one.
She does this she does that, you know, you can't.
There was only Rasulullah sallallahu summable for us, we don't
Okay, that was only with the Prophet salallahu Salam and he has separate
what he called
ruling concerning this matter. That's where they asked him what what actually said this and I shall also herself she made a mistake. She told him Yasu Allah, you always think about this old woman, the one who has read mouth.
Read the mouth, she is referring to
Khadija while his mouth she said that she lost her teeth all of them. So nothing left in her mouth except the gums.
She never met known Yeah.
Yeah, she was saying the promise Allah Azza that she has read. She is referring to Khadija which the old age because she did not even see her. She doesn't even know who is
how did she describe?
But that was just jealousy. She said, What can Abdelhak Allahu herramienta
and Allah has replaced her with the best wrestler Salah sama Silla Allah. It says know what Allah Allah never replace Khadija with the best.
That's why the sister of Khadija came one day, knock on the door Salam aleikum wa salaam Salaam Alaikum salaam who is that? She said? Hala into hoilett Rasul Lazarus and he was with Aisha
right she left Aisha even the garment he couldn't fix it properly. He was dragging it he said, what happened here was hula incident you know that sister of Khadija.
You don't do that with your wife
these days because you're going to hurt her feelings and you're not Rasulullah you cannot say that as well as Allah sama did that you know? No, that's that's wrong. So the system to be followed otherwise, you will enjoy your life here in this dunya but in the hereafter the prophets Allah Azza wa set your buddy will be cut into two pieces you will be dragging her feet on the ground just like the we treated one of your wives and you leave her neglected because you have another option there. Allah Samantha will cut half of this person who will be dragging it onto the object.
That's before the Judgment itself. Yeah, and her right is going to be extracted and you know she will never forget.
You will know she will never forget she will take her right. In full so just this just think wisely. Yeah, when you decided to go for the next one thing wise.
You Allah, a person should think a lot
is my advice to anyone who's thinking of this thing qYZ
K so he says Allahumma hadda Kusmi Faema am Lecouvreur let's eliminate feva attempt Licola I'm Nick Akaal Allah Allah azza wa jal lowland tests LTO and ontology lubaina Nissei whatever has to, you will never be able to be just amongst the sisters, even if you
you try to do so. It will claim says he's just talking about being justice when it comes to
recall love and having relationship with.
That's part of the nature of human beings and to be
not not to be able to control this, but as I said, last month says let me Lukoil manufacture the raw carbon lock.
And a smart person is somebody who is a very special politician at home.
Those people who are living with more than one wife, they have to be like that, in a way they keep the feeling the good mood in the house. Otherwise they're not good enough good to themselves. Otherwise, it might be the reason why you have a barrier between his children only not just the wives are fighting each other. Even the child
then also they will have a battle you might say I don't care no you should you should care. You Allah if you care because you're going to leave them after you die not knowing each other. They're from the same father but they're fighting like enemies
because they're having different mothers. That's why I said a person should think wisely
going for this is not like when you first married in that one you can just close your eyes if you want to regret in the future and just take any help but now you don't remember don't forget you have an established family.
You have to think a lot
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very stories nice to listen and wrong to mention you know here even a very long some of them to mention them but we will read the Arabic text.
If you angry go learn Arabic and get the meaning by yourself inshallah.
Inshallah, next class be delight Allah will deal with them. I was planning to finish until the next topic, but I don't think the UK will sustain the hunger until then.
Although this is the topic that brought you here, that whenever we have a lot of faces even the new one also comes.
Mazin says because they are talking about their topic, there we're almost 10 Then we will see who is truly coming to our class and who is not.
Anyway May Allah love you and grant you good and Tofik and put back in your life this woman among you may Allah sweat and put back in your family and make it easy for you to have a very, very, very healthy and excellent family. You Allah is good, it brings comfort if you are in a good mood with your family, and you are having life in the way Allah subhanaw taala already called prescribe. That's the benefit of marriage, you know, to make you satisfied and to give you comfort Allah says Leah's gonna LA.
So please try convert your house. Well, those of you who married into this, and those who did not marry, please aim for this. May Allah grant you the good ones, you know for both and help you to live the life of Rasulullah sallallahu Zomato
Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah?
How much should you pay for?
A portfolio, fancy thing which they said. It makes the voice clear. I don't know how what
are this question?
The first question, sure. May Allah elevate you in ranking shift and you to shift please explain again, the difference between the slave that is bought and, and the one given after vessel in terms of waiting and not are not waiting to approacher? Oh, he's saying that the one that
that you get from the slavery
to detach you from that ownership is not even imagined, you know, something that we imagined.
Okay, this woman was in their country, and she came to the battlefield to fight with how people, the enemies of Islam, and at the end of the day she was captured.
Get it? All the sisters like in the Battle of the time.
They were distributed by the prophets, Allah Salam. And this is how it is in the jihad, wherever is found in that phase will be enslaved, they don't go to the country and just pack everyone but in the Battle of you, whoever brought herself to that phase, that was her problem. That's why in Islam, we don't take woman to the battle. Except in rare cases where the some of the old sisters they go on.
And we know what we do.
Because we don't put them into that danger. Islam value, the life of a woman so much, those are dangerous plays that we don't take risk at all. Stay home, that brother should go and face that consequence.
So when they are distributed, you know, whoever owns a slave
who is the owner of the slave
him Is there any Shabbat milk to her husband to prepare she might be married to somebody
that marriage is gone. Colors finish after the slavery all of those accounts are gone. Now she
is owned by this person 100% Just like his money in the pocket,
you get it the possibility of a mistake happening is not there completely.
But if you buy a slave
is it possible that you will be buying somebody else's slave mean? The one who is selling the slave to you is doing the wrong thing? Yes
that's why he says it's not good for a person to go directly and start enjoying that slave before they stable at least we have a period of time that that goes if when when something you know, if there is something wrong it will appear inshallah within that period of time otherwise, as he said, you will end up when the The truth is been discovered that this is not a slave actually, he's a free person, somebody so, so you will be enjoying somebody else's, either sleep or a person that is not actually allowed for you to enjoy if she's a free person.
You got it. And that's what he was saying.
The next question
what's the difference between Love is a human and love relationship. Love and like, and love and sympathy? I don't know.
Sympathy is more connected to Mercy, right? Like they said, it's not like love.
I like this, but I didn't love it.
Yeah, that's how I heard them saying, Yeah.
Love is a lot.
Yeah, it's like I think can come from the from the tango from the hand just like you
didn't say just love and sympathy, I think is part of the Mercy right.
You might show sympathy to
Khafre, but he doesn't love
you help him support him because he's you will be he is in need a support. But do you like it alone?
You might see a wrongdoer bad person who is in a very critical situation. You show sympathy to him. You provide him with everything.
Like the doctors in the hospital, they even help criminals. Because the concept in the hospital is that hospital doesn't know a person they just no sickness.
That's why you see sometimes in the in some of the
some of the hospitals you see
police
person a sick person with the handcuffs with
come into the hospital for medication.
Yes, and the doctors are there going to tell him Oh no, no, we don't want to touch criminals. No, they give him medicine. And also they will be very honest and treating him
as good to have a system like this. After they give him the necessary medication and then they submit it back to the authority.
I love this. So you might show sympathy to somebody but you don't love
but when you have the love in the hearts then all of those other two will will be will be their sympathy in like
and you will be doing the right thing. Also when you love somebody you will be doing the right thing.
That's why they said the one who loves you will be the one who tells you the truth.
Sometimes if I got a magazine, fix this
we think we'll be fighting back
and if I'm doing the first time he correct if I'm to tell him again, you might start to get annoyed
but the best way is not to get annoyed. She'd be happy. Because naturally the one who loves you is the one who tells you the truth.
The One Who will keep quiet and see you going in the wrong direction. This is your enemy and the one who loves you is the one who tells you this is wrong fix it you Allah He loves good for you that's why he's fixing it.
So whenever somebody tells you fix especially when it comes to the religious
and the weirdest
thing I heard yesterday somebody who has been fixed by another person he told him I think about
this which is the fourth
and the person calling for a debate debate. This is just
because there are so less Allah ism and the guy told me Why do you bring a religion in this matter?
Why do you bring religion?
Sir, that brother get lost. So what does he want me to mention?
This is prayer. This is Salah, and I'm telling him ColorZilla he says you're you're bringing religion in the matter.
Anyway, so it's good to be to accept correction, even though even though hasn't says nobody reject correction except Matthew
indirectly when hasn't been seen that in that age bracket and you hate that correction, you should check your ankle.
Because nobody rejects correction acceptable, you know, who doesn't want to be perfect? The one who's correcting you what does he want
to be perfect to be good?
So definitely check now one of the previous classes we had mentioned with regards to zakaat
Zakka tomal is to be paid when the person's money is. And Secretary fitter is where the person themselves they are.
But what if the person has multiple businesses in different countries. So when you're calculating the nisab, and we're taking the value of gold, we take the price of each country now. It's better to take if let's say you have different countries, this one is silver, this one is not going to deal with every country separately to just judge them based on silver rate. Let's say everyone has gold, everyone, then he goes with one but the price will be different based on every country, right?
Like the price of the gold. If he wants to be more accurate. Yeah, he can just take the price of each country and pay there's a cut of that wealth, which might be difficult. So in this case, for sure, as he takes the price of one country,
I will choose for him to go with the moderate or the highest one, not the minimum one, the one that will benefit the four karamo.
That's the least the least that's the least and that's the list. The list will benefit the focus. And that's why going with the silver is always more beneficial to the forecourt because you'll be paying the car
earlier faster now. Because if you wait for gold to have those
the value of golds sometimes it takes time. But if he's having it in like four or five different countries he can take the average of the gold price average of normal price for sure. Otherwise it will be difficult in that religion
no more question.
Thank you very much. May Allah subhanaw taala love you and grant you good until he can be with you wherever you are. And there will be college a million caffyns 200 Kilometer behind the crusher Allah Allah Allah and staphylococci Laker Santa Monica Murata, Lima.