Ibrahim Nuhu – The Disease And The Cure #183
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march 12 2024. So even like as the agenda we continue from where we stopped in this book of Dawa
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So you're calling Molly for him? Allahu Allah Faust loon. So this is a new chapter that we'll be talking about. And while Mohab
the best type of love sure is the best and I guess through his statements you can understand what exactly is he trying to establish here
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you remember the last the last type of love of data in the dunya
which is the love that is not really linking you to Africa and also it is not depriving you from the akhirah right.
But sometimes, it reduces the value of your Accra because it leads you to waste of time. Unless if you have good intention and use it in the proper way as the prophets Allah Azza wa said.
He says
the LAO in a plane
The gap and the difference between them is so is so big. That's why he says you cannot understand or comprehend even how big is the gap between one person
and another in this type of hub.
Carla from habitude Holly Lainey muhabba to a very Hema Mulvaney he says verbatim habits and Kaladin are habits of any human well being.
What do you think about them habits?
Ibrahim alayhis salam and Rasulullah sallallahu SallAllahu
in relation to our mHUB the lions
you will not be able to comprehend the difference between the two
there is no even room of comparison. The way Allah loves the way Rasul Allah sama loves a lot there's a real love and the way Ibrahim loves a lot as we love
slaughter your son he's he's he did not even say why.
It even he did not see that in
I mean, physical
yet when he was awake, you know, it came to the dream and Allah to just slaughter and he said yes
why did he accept this as a habit in your life?
Yeah, let's go to your Salah Salah somehow so you find the same
that's why number nobody qualifies that hola that Allah smart Allah give them except those to
the rest of the prophets and the messengers of Allah Swati, they also like that. But the qualities you have in these two, you don't find them in any other place.
So this muhabba that the person has is the one that is making life easy for you.
Are there people in this life who cannot pray to Allah? I mean, who doesn't pray to Allah and you have all others also they pray but they find it very difficult. You need to do a lot to convince them to pray to Allah subhanaw taala through how
Was it possible that you find it very easy, very simple for you to go on pray? That's my humble Illa has Majan it is the one that is making it easy for you to do it.
Every technique every technique
that you are able to do is because of this you have this strong muhabba so you're able to read and you find it very simple for you to please Allah smart in that regard where as the rest are not
you have stingy people. He doesn't want to give back because of the love of Allah smart Allah hate us. You have somebody who is so coward but he find him in the middle of the enemy's fighting.
Why is he doing this? Because he wants to come closer to Allah smart Allah. That's muhabba
so this is the one that those people who have it they will enjoy it when they meet Allah subhanaw taala yo Metropolis Sara.
Your Metropolis Sarah is a way in which the secret will be will be revealed last month to protect us. Carlo have you here let it you know we'll watch what Sasha has Sadra
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or to heal and makes your heart alive.
And the same goes to them habit to cannibalize.
Most of us the book of Allah subhanaw taala is only in
Ramadan.
Now everyone is with the Quran Alhamdulillah Alhamdulillah hamdulillah there's still good in that better than the one who doesn't look at the Quran even in Ramadan.
It most of us we remember Quran in Ramadan
Yeah, we come back to it in Allah. So Allah says, the same goes to a habit to clinical tabula rasa.
Because one of the signs that you love Allah subhanaw taala is loving the Quran, the book of Allah subhanaw taala How can you claim that you love Allah smarter and even like his words? If you don't listen to
God, tell your wife that you love her, but you don't want
to listen to her to her talk?
Yeah, does that work?
Salah does that work? How do you guys know and
I have to have some time to knock on your head so that you will repent tomorrow.
That doesn't work. Doesn't work, she would never agree.
And the same goes to that husband, any person that you said you love him, but then when He speaks to you, you don't want to listen to him.
You know, it is a joke to him that claim that you you're always telling him so if you claim that you love Allah subhanaw taala we should find you loving his his book. And how to love Quran. I love your Quran. Yeah, what do we do with the Quran folder? We take it and kiss it right and tomorrow we disobey all of His commandments.
Yeah.
As soon now Rasul Allah Azza is not to disrespect it
for us to go for kissing and then we give the scholars a job, is it halal to kiss or not halal to kiss respected at the first place and what is the best way to respect the book of Allah to apply it?
Apply that which is in in the book. The law came says if you want to see the level of human habit to Allah subhanaw taala look at your relationship with the book of Allah.
Yet look at your relationship with the book of Allah subhanaw taala and look at how much you enjoy listening to the Quran.
How much you enjoy, listen to the Quran.
Nowadays we are busy with music right? Yeah. Hello Hello
Um Halal haram, we're still debating what it is. Is it halal or is it haram? This one says mcru If you listen to it a little then it's okay if you listen a lot then it's not okay.
So let's Allah Azza wa says no okay?
But
even if it is okay
which one is the best word for you to listen?
Look of Allah subhanaw taala and in the companions of the prophets, Allah so my said there is no way for the book of Allah and the musica to remain in one heart, one of them has to go out.
It said you in between the fact that it grows in the fog in the heart.
And what does it benefit you? It kills your heart. Yeah, it grants you that comfort? You know, it takes you heart naturally. Yeah. And that's the reason why we call it
a drop.
You have kids, young kids, if you have musical music being played their body react?
Who told them to do like that?
You get it. So that's, that's means it is going to the heart it is affecting the heart. Yeah.
So just my personal advice to all of us, we do have a lot of alternatives. True.
What is that? Quran?
That's the best alternative you have.
Go to the Quran Alhamdulillah. Nowadays, how many resources you have for the Quran?
On the internet, how many?
hundreds if not 1000s of them.
Even the incorrect one also are there with good and beautiful voice, which I asked you to
stay away from them.
You do follow the voice. You didn't follow the letter G then the content.
Look for somebody who has correct approach in the text read. And also good voice. We have a lot
Hamdulillah you listen to them, they take you to another world. Yeah, you listen to it, you get reward, praise about last 100 to Allah. And also alas monitor will grant you tranquility of the heart, peace of mind. The other one, there is no tranquility of the heart. Because he's shaking your heart in the way you don't realize, which is going to result in a pain that will come you know, stress and depression. You know, we see them always depress.
Yeah. And in a state of stress. But unfortunately, they don't understand. And this is very dangerous. Because if you are to be punished by Allah and you don't get the punishment, this is very dangerous.
Okay, that's why the painkillers when the Doctor Doctor asked you to take them?
Is he going to tell you just take them as much as you wish? They said when? Necessary? Yeah. When necessary? Yeah. Because you have to understand that these are called pain killers, not kill. They don't remove the disease. But they just make you believe that that disease is gone. But where is it? It is still there?
Yeah, eating you from inside, but you don't realize it. That's very dangerous.
That's why if you don't need it, don't take it. If the sickness is not that bad, then go for it. Yeah, there are circumstances you have to go for it.
Otherwise, you might lose your consciousness or it might lead to death. You went for surgery. And those things that were given to you. Now, they don't work anymore. Yeah, really suffer a lot. So they give them the painkillers to help them to sustain the pain.
They want us okay, but in the normal circumstances, then go for them.
So back to this matter that we're talking about because sometimes you are punished by Allah subhanaw taala. But unfortunately, the person doesn't realize that last time I quoted for you the statement of
evil Josie, he said, there are some people who are punished by Allah, and they don't understand the punishment.
So this is one of the worst type of punishment. You punish by Allah and you don't understand.
Like who? Like the one who is taking rebar and he doesn't know. Because when I commit sin when you commit sin, is that a punishment? From Allah?
Yes, it is. Because Allah subhanaw taala says Masaba Masaba Camino Civitan Fatima Kesava ID kumbaya
One can feel any calamity that most animals see where that happens to you it is because of what you did.
Sins are the calamity.
Number one calamity, and we'll see right in your life. Yeah. So Josie says it's, it's really bad for person to be punished by Allah subhanaw taala. But he doesn't understand that Allah is punishing.
And this is the situation of many, many of us, unfortunately. And he said, we have some other people who are worse than them. Who are these ones? These are the people who are happy with the punishment.
And still his his example is the same as if you live in our time, is it these are the people who are taking rebar and they're happy with the rebar?
Yeah, person who built a house from rebar bought a car from Reba and he's happy.
So these are the words
who are punished by Allah subhanaw taala and they are happy with the punishment. What do you have the villa. So please stick to that which Allah subhanaw taala let you enjoy and that's the book of Allah subhanaw taala it says you have to test yourself and look at your heart how much you enjoy listening to the Quran, how much you enjoy that
you get it, that enjoyment has to be greater than the enjoyment of those people who are listening to useless things.
Again, it useless songs that are not taking them anywhere.
So you cannot claim that you love Allah subhanaw taala and you you stay away from from his book. And Carlos might have been a fun poet says you claim that you love me but why did you stay away from my book? When I wrote something to you? We don't reply.
What happens is that loves Allah has wanted to give you the best book, the best book you know, which contains everything you need in this life. But you don't take it
you don't take it or color from I'm in love with the horrid Kulu guna lemma ship admin Canavalia Swami. Even I find said, if our heart
is our hearts are pure and clean, lemme ship admin columella will never be satisfied. You know, from reading the book of Allah smarter meaning you will keep reading. You read, enjoy reading, you cannot stop reading.
But he says we have a lot of disease. That's why when we read the book of Allah subhanaw taala once
we close everything
with my buddy Allahu Anhu used to read Quran a lot, a lot, even actually when he died, he they kill him while he was reading Quran.
Even Larbi said, you know that there was a person who managed either him or somebody else he said, he managed to see that Quran they preserve it. And Subhan Allah, when,
when they they kill him, you know, the blood, went to the Quran, and it fell on a verse, What is the verse? For say, Kigoma? Allah Subhan Allah, the blood went from him to that verse, forsake Feeco Mala? What is specifically come Allah. Allah is not for you. Allah will take care of them. Don't worry, you know Subhanallah and for academic account,
they got what they deserved. Although the one who brought this idea kept on, you know, subhanAllah putting those evil behaviors and beliefs in the Muslim communities. Who was that? They live in a suburb and yahoodi? Yeah, they live in a suburb. He was the mastermind, the one who was behind the assassination of both Mandra de la Huang was the Jew pretended to be to be Muslim.
was a Jew who pretended to be to be Muslim.
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kala has book alpha alpha alpha Edina Rasulillah he said Allahu Allah He was celebrated very fondly. Minella Buka. What kind of Sahaba to either stemmer for him Abu Musa Musa the kid now Robina Felco homeless well.
Even Kim says How is it possible for somebody who claims to love another
One, you know, you claim to love another person, but then
you are very selective in the letters and the statement that he is sending to you.
Yet, so you claim to love Allah subhanaw taala How is it possible that you would like to hear from from his words
of God bliven Massoud was asked by the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam to read Quran for him. So he said, Yeah rasool Allah, how can I read Quran for you? Well, you are the one who received the Quran from Allah subhanho wa Taala I read Courante
the prophets Allah Azza wa said yes, please read it because I like to listen to Quran from others.
Sir, I like to listen to the recitation of the Quran from others. So the live Massoud started reading Surah to Aneesa for him,
and he kept on reading the books allows humans enjoy until the time he reaches the same of Allah subhanho wa Taala for KFA that genome in Colombia hidden in Coloma Timmy Shaden wodgina Rika Allah Allah Shahida
What do you think the situation will be?
When we brought every nation and along with them we brought Shaheed somebody who will be the witness, you know, for or against them? The presence of Allah subhanaw taala we're G Narikala. Allah Shahida and you will be brought, you know,
together with these ones, is referring to their Muslimeen so let's Allah somebody be brought along with the Muslim. As a Shaheed, he will confirm whether we did or is not.
Allah says yo maybe you're delayed in a Cafaro will also rosulip Lotus awaba He will argue well actually when Allah had etha on that day, you will see the kuffaar and the non Muslims who went against the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam they will wish that Allah subhanaw taala will turn them into dust, just like the animals right?
And that will never happened. That will never happen.
Allah subhanaw taala says well, actually what Allah Hadith so the live in Massoud said I reached this place and then I heard the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam are telling me Hasbrook has spoken means stop No. Housework I mean stop.
This is how to stop a person who is reading Quran
that's why many scholars said you don't need to say
Sakalava lovey,
you read you finish you finish that's the only disease
if you claim actually this is the Sunnah of Rasulullah Salah Zuma then it will be innovation. You know, so last summer he did not say circle all
those people who believe in that they say because Allah says pulsara Kala
but that another context
so we don't need to synthetic Allah Allah
what is that Allah Allah
Allah spoken this was right
by the many things that
somebody was telling me that a person who doesn't
doesn't know Arabic language so he asked about something you know, so that man tried to convince
Yeah, that the thing finished and he doesn't
he told him finish not finish into doesn't understand into into math he doesn't understand.
And then he mentioned the name of the thing he said him circle Hola.
Anyway, though this story, Allahu Allah.
So Allah is Allah sama said Hasbrook has spoken means enough. Yeah, it tells somebody who is reading Quran, you know, no need to say cerca Allahu Allah. As I said, if a person thinks that he is pleasing Allah with that, and this is what a soulless Allah sama used to do, then this will be innovation.
Carla Farah Farah who pray die now Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam at a very fun so he raised his head to see the prophets Allah Asuma he found the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam cried
you So last summer really reflect when he hears the Quran? Yes, this is very simple and very easy for soulless Allah someone to cry when he hears the book of Allah subhanaw taala
and if you look at him says the companions of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam whenever they sit in a place and Abu Musa luxury is one that Sula Salah sama center. Autumn is Mara Mimosa media that would, they said he has a very nice and beautiful
Dubois
as well as the last time I said you have been given ms Mar what is Ms Ma
is mad is a Geeta, Geeta Geeta there's some musical instrument called Gita right yeah. Yes Ms Ma by Rasulullah awesome is not talking about Ms. Mar given to the root seconded by the good voice. Yeah. Because that would when he when he decides who even birds also come and listen to him
see birds have beautiful voice right? What makes them forget their voice and come and listen to this one definitely is. is really nice so Rasul Allah so nice to tell him that you have been given by Allah subhanaw taala nice voice like the the family of the hood la Santa.
So the Companions whenever they sit in a place when Abu Musa actually was there, they used to tell him is the kid the kid now aeroburner Please remind us about Allah subhanho wa Taala
and then he will recite the Quran to them and they will be there'll be listen.
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Yeah, because the nice and the beautiful voice makes Quran which sometimes you don't want to listen that much you know, but because the voice is so nice egoless Yeah, that might be the reason why you become amongst the lovers of the book of Allah Samantha who listen to to eat every time.
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it says those people who are reading Quran they have this natural feeling and the taste
and the enjoyment and the sweetness of that which they are reading from which the book of Allah subhanaw taala and the happiness that comes to them and he will lie this is true. Try yourself to be familiar with the book of Allah subhanaw taala and to read it a lot you will understand the truth of what time is mentioned.
It is the only book that you cannot get bored of reading.
It says they have much more better than what those who are busy with the sound of shaytaan what is the sound of shaytaan music and any other thing that is wrong in that regard.
Is this when you see a person even a claim says when you see a person you know who doesn't have a taste except towards nasheed and Cher. And here he is even talking about the halal songs.
Not the Haram one. You know so let's Allah Azza and say Bukhari he says it is better for one of you to to fill his heart with alcohol.
You know what is
the past the that white water that comes from the injury, it is better for a person to fill his heart with that than filling it with than a sheet with the shape.
And he's talking about the Khaled share.
Then the scholars said since he himself also listened to the share and try to repeat what the child says. Then we learn that it is halal. But he is talking about making your life all about machine.
This is very wrong. Yeah, making your life all about machine although it is halal Halal to do, but this is very wrong
for a person to do so if this is the situation of the machine that is halal. What do you think about the Haram one? Yeah, listen to the sheet. Listen to shake this Hallett a person can do it and it's okay for you to do. Nobody can tell you that you have to always just go with the Quran. Yes, it's true what he's saying but not always. Allah never said that. Rasulullah sallallahu never said that. It makes it halal. So that means we can listen to it the companions of the prophets, Allah Azza used to
is to say the ship right? Yeah, on the way when they back to Medina during one of the battles, as well as a lot of sama said
Can we have somebody who can do the machine for us? Yeah. Do Lana and Heather they said the machine the shell.
So they they told they told him Yeah, so that that is one. And this companion undershot. I guess his name is Amir and Russia. So the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam told him, go ahead, we're looking for somebody to give us some.
Yeah. So they do. They used to use this type of these type of machines in the past for, for the camels.
Yeah, you see them just like that, you know, they understand all the things they see use them for the camels to give them some relief, because they have been, you know, carrying you for long, you know, journey for so many days. They need some relief. So they used to sing the song to them.
So now Anisha started reading, and he has a very nice and melodious voice. Yeah, the companions are enjoying that. Those share, but he's seen good words, but in his own way.
So they said, according to some of the scholars, the camels that are going like this,
are Allahu Allah.
They said the camel started going in the wrong way. And who was on top of the camels? The sisters? Yeah. Because in the past, they have the How did you how did you smoke small room? The sister will go in? Yeah, you should tell this to those
feminists who think that Islam, he will lie to Allah, they need to see this, you know, if their communities oppressing women, they should talk to the community, not Islam.
Who is on the ground suffering from the sun, all the brothers, and where the sisters were in the room and during their life? Yeah, all the way they don't come on work with the people.
And that's Islam. You know, if you see this, these things are not taking place, then who is to blame the community. But unfortunately, since the hatred is on Islam, you know, everything Islam, Islam, Islam, a few years ago, around, I think
17 years ago, I heard that there are a group of losers, they were looking for somebody to reinterpret the book of Allah subhanaw taala for them, re interpret the book of Allah, they weren't new to see
that time I think $10,000 They will give him Alhamdulillah they couldn't get that
coffee, you know, to do that for them. Because what they want is, whenever Allah talk about a woman or a sister in the Quran, they will tell him what to say.
Not what Allah smarter wants, couldn't find somebody with that courage to come and do this for them. So these type of things should be set to them, you know, and somebody should convince them to read. Because while I'm telling you those people are totally ignorant of what Sharia is all about.
Yeah, as we always mentioned that are Bayesian today. Go and do your research. You know, from now, until the day of judgment, there is no system. No is no religion that ever respected a woman accept Islam. Up to date, no religion is respecting woman accept Islam.
Any place where they claim the freedom, okay, let's do whatever we want. Do we have this in Islam?
Absolute freedom doesn't exist in Islam. You're always restricted to that which Allah Sparta wants.
Yeah, but now many sisters, they want freedom. And they want happened in return. They lost what Allah has been prescribed for the nation to survive, which is the marriage. What is it better for a man and a woman than the marriage after Islam? Nothing. He will Allah, she cannot be comfortable and he cannot be comfortable when there is no marriage, you know, in her life and his life. But unfortunately, the enemies managed to convince us that that freedom is the best. So we have in the Muslim committee, territories nowadays, the marriage, I'm sorry that the rate of divorce is increasing.
Are they happy? Like they're not?
Whoever tells you those people have a happy Allah, he's lying to you.
From the activities and the actions, you understand that this person is not at ease.
So we don't apologize to anyone. And we believe the correct approach is ours. You can call read the history and see how much Allah subhanaw taala gave a woman a noun she said she doesn't want it. She got what she is looking for.
You know, you go what is she looking for Islam chose who had the best and accept for her none other than the best. She has full protection.
One of the most valuable entities that live with us is a woman.
No muhabba This is how it this
is how it is somebody was right when he says a woman in Islam is half of the community and they give birth to the other half of the community.
And I will leave you with this statement, which I believe is that lack of application of this statement is the reason why is in the situation where we are nowadays.
Yeah, there is a job, only one person can do it.
Oliver McKennitt, which is to create a leader,
a person who can lead a nation to success.
Trust me, all you can do is go and read books written by our scholars about Omaha Robina are the
mothers that produce great leaders, Imam Shafi who gave him Serbia,
his mother, Imam Malik go to all of those great scholars who put them into that way. Some of them the Father, in one of them, his father traveled, it came back after 30 or 40 years Subhanallah he gave his wife, his wife money to spend, you know, whenever she needs, when he comes back, looking for his money, if in case he had not used it, she told him because before we talk about anything about what you left with me, go pray for us because this is a time for the prayer. And then when you come back, Inshallah, we will discuss what exactly happened, I will tell you in detail. So Hala, these are the smart people, even the way she speaks, you know, it knows that that person was living
with a smart person. So he went to the masjid when he came back, it will Hala I saw a very young person
who
never saw a person at that age with that capacity of knowledge like this one.
He was so happy.
She told him this is where I spent that money that you get.
He wished that if he has more actually he gave he gave her you know.
Nowadays Which Imam Malik reproduce,
you allow we need to ask ourselves this question, you know, what are we producing for the OMA nothing, because I have no time for my kids. My family also have have no time for the kids. I work she works. So who is there to give the Tobia for the kids. Nobody. That's why somebody was right. can also take a note I'm not saying working is not halal. Both can work. male and females okay, as long as the place is conducive to either one of them is fine.
Yeah. But if you neglect the real job that allows me to put on your shoulder as a father and as a mother, Allah, you'll be in trouble in hereafter because this is a man given to you by Allah subhanho wa taala.
We're not talking about halal and haram here, but we're talking about who is there to take care of those whom Allah has been to ask us to take care of them who will be responsible for leading the OMA to to the success.
One of the thinkers says, If you want to destroy a nation,
convince the people not to respect knowledge, convince the people not respect the scholars come convinced the woman to believe that taking care of a child is deficiency
is that the and this person isn't even religious. You see, we don't even see but these are the realities.
You said any civilization that you manage to convince the people in that place to do this? Just leave it you don't need to fight them. There'll be gone.
That's why do you have civilization in the West?
No, there is no civilization in the West. They have what is called an Arabic Macedonia
by any means. They build the place. They make nice building but they're not civilized.
Up to date, civilization exists somewhere else.
Or you have manners and respect. You know, in that place, you don't have those words.
Allah subhanaw taala grant is good. So we digress a lot back to Angelica, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. He told him to do it. So he was making those nasheet and the camels are going in the wrong way. So the sister said to the Prophet salallahu salam ala Rasulillah we're getting into trouble because the houses are going like this.
So they're going to fall down. So the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam I told him
avoidance sorta care you
undershot calorie
you know and this one also has a lot of meaning if people understand it correctly right it says Andy shall please slow down
slow down any reduce reduce the verses to went too far. Yeah because he can reduce us actually that beauty right use another voice
yeah he said show mercy to the calorie
what is the calorie
the glasses you know that cup of the glass
when he hit it so much what happens? It will break
and he also we have a message right? You and your family you live with them like the way you live with your friends.
Yeah, that's what brings a problem right because he lives with his wife. He wants her to be like his friend.
Yeah, that's why we they always clash because we have two different nature here. Soft and harshness,
seriousness, and gentleness. That's the best way to to say it. But then he wants her to be like, like him. How's that possible? It's not. And at the end of the day as the professor like Alyssa said,
If you insist that she has looked like the way you want, then what happens you break
and the breaking of your wife is to divorce.
Well, I realize a lot of Sam Al Hamdulillah he left for us everything. One of our scholars is attending his class he was telling us if
the Obamas Allah sama understand this hadith correctly. It said the vast majority of the clashes between the husband and the wife will be solved by themselves.
What is what is the Hadith? Leia Fukumoto militant inquiry Hamid? hooligan, Rowdy Amin hahaha, a believer shouldn't hate his wife. Because if he doesn't agree with one attitude, the one behavior she has, he will agree with the other one. Because you're not married to shaytaan. Right. And so my life you sit down and see how much she did in the house? You will understand that yes. You shouldn't hate her because of what comes from from her. Good idea. Yeah, he will just understand how much she takes care of your child. This is just one part of the life. How much she takes care of a child.
How much? A lot right, you when the child cries? What do you tell her sister? Or Madame also? I don't know why some people call their wives, Madame.
I hate that.
Anyway, anyway.
So you tell her sister, that's the reason why we have a lot of rooms in the house. Please park your child and go to another room and you make a big issue. So
she's doing all of these. And also the way she is she come to your house where she like that all of the changes that took place in her life who made it like that?
You
get the idea.
And then tomorrow when she did something, you know, which is very simple, it will make it big issue as well as Allah sama said, No, don't think in this way. I'm thinking this way. So please understand this hadith properly before. Before you marry.
Colorful, heavy Aqua. So he says if you become somebody who enjoys music, and he doesn't enjoy the book of Allah subhanaw taala do we have people like that? Yes, You Allah we have people who don't enjoy Quran
but they enjoy any useless statements Culver heavy Aqua so he says if you find yourself like this, you should know that yes, you are not that person who claims to love Allah subhanho wa Taala you want to test your love to Allah.
Test your love to the book of Allah subhanaw taala and listen to the book of Allah subhanaw taala Kalavati min Aquila de la farai. kalbi him habit Allah he will call me one of these one of the greatest and strongest evidence that shows that his heart is empty. Empty from what the love of Allah subhanho wa Taala worker worker lab. You don't have a love of Allah in your heart. And the book of Allah subhanaw taala doesn't exist in the heart
of Allah What are local Hebrew Mohabbat is Emma is shaytan that means your heart is busy. You know, enjoy listening to Vitiate on. You remember my statement last time I said if you have those sounds in your heart, then Quran will go out one of them has to stay. There is no way for both
for them to remain in the heart, either the Quran or the music this is what the scholars have mentioned, while Magoo you're attracted to a no Allah shake a female habits Allah he will kill me water SULI of alpha, the cara
meevo Idol he will mafia mafia. Hey, Bella hubba al Amin who are cooler have been super delicate about Elon, you're in LA, when you show up to La
you remember all of these statements that we spent ages talking about them reading them? They are
you know, set by Amazon
as a reply to a question. What is the benefit of a
Buy Now we already forgot that right? That's
that's okay. You will start something and take you to another world until the time you forget. Yeah, let's call us used to do this and then they will tell you Raj and let us go back to the old topic.
So he says if you are like this, then this shows that there is no Maha but Allah azza wa jal in your heart, and your heart is busy with the Mahabharata shaytaan and the deceived person is somebody who thinks this is good enough for him.
Yeah, you have been people who will advise you when you are depressed to listen, listen to me is
to go and do something that is as wrong.
If no claim says this is true, for all means exception.
You get it? Yeah. The only place where you find true and happiness is in the love of Allah subhanho wa taala.
So this is what benefits not that which the question I was asking, asking about of ash. He doesn't benefit that this Muhammad Allah azza wa jal is the only muhabba that that benefit you.
If you claim says actually there is no love that is greater than this.
And any love other than this one is bad, it is false would
you get any law other than this one is false.
Especially when it doesn't help you to reach Allah subhanho wa Taala in that lot help you to reach Allah subhanaw taala love of the dunya but it helps you to reach Allah subhanaw taala that love is is good, right?
Somebody who loves his family and he does the right thing that will lead him to the pleasure of Allah subhanho wa Taala
so the next topic and I guess we finish our time the next topic is going to be talking about how Bozo Jia Ming commanded loving the wife
I think next class I should be teaching who then
Yeah
No, no no, no let's
look at this man it's uh we're learning for the future right.
So we should be given knowledge in the places where it could be applied right? knowledge for the future. So anyway, even look at him we talk about the wrong people inshallah the next class based in La Jolla, who knows Hola Hola. Hola, coalition Cadiz by next week. I see other people here right?
Say insha Allah insha Allah Allahu Allah cliche and Kadeem Suhana Colombo we have the guy shadow Allah lanterns thankful to be like you guys shouldn't be bored of my everyday kick on your I knock on your head and tomorrow also you come the same, the same thing right? And always talking always asking questions.
May Allah grant us good and Tofik
any question
we have only 10 minutes or 1515 minutes for the question
but that doesn't go to the Zooms that's only for this hour you want
to be professional, so like me.
Can you read
what the question is,
inshallah Adam just gave him just
if you got stuck, then you fix him.
Salam Alaikum Masha
here How is it possible for someone to be half is in so listen to music
very difficult
very difficult Allah subhanaw taala might test never come across somebody who's like this.
But Allah subhanaw taala might give
the physical memorization of the Quran he has that one, but when it comes to reflecting upon that which he memorize
you have some people who memorize Quran and then they engage in all of those useless things, unfortunately.
So, you will find them being deprived from the correct understanding of the book of Allah subhanaw taala
here's a question from OzAsia Somali Kumar have totally forgot to
send Allahu Allah confit denote
the Hadith where the prophet says believing mentioned on hate the believing woman, if he dislikes one of the characteristics, he will be pleased with another can we apply this hadith to brothers in general as well? Yes, Hamid and other
Yes, we apply this also to any anybody, but the best place to apply it is when it comes to living with the spouses, patient apply this
because the life of the spouses is more important than the life of friends. You know, the OMA cannot be established. If the family life is distorted,
but we apply it in the same way to the friends also.
Because as soon as Allah sama did, right, how to be happy about
that companion with the Prophet sallallahu Sallam who sent a message to the Metcons informing them about Rasulullah Salah so we're coming to find them in MK
what what did he do?
High treason right.
Committed here and as Korea the punishment of this in every nation, what is the punishment death
only in Islam you find
some other approach hard
and fast hamaca is one of the greatest battles everyone is waiting for this because if Maca is conquered is open, so that will be a sign that inshallah every other place also could be. That was center right?
And then this Companion of the Prophet Allah sama send a message to them informing them that rasool Allah sama is on the way.
So the prophets Allah Sama, send alumina Vitaly and, and somebody to go on and bring the sister he sent.
And he told them, it said if you go straight forward until you reach Robert Half.
It said you reach that place don't stop until that place in that farm and this is one of the aisles of the Privacy Law Center. And they went looking for that sister. They couldn't find her on the way until the time they reach that place. They found her
so straightforward. They asked her where is the letter? She said he did not give me any letter.
Even from her statement, you start sensing something she said he did not give me anything.
I live in Abu Talib Tula give us a letter. She said no. So they check anything they can check. Yeah, since she's a woman they cannot touch right. So
they left because they couldn't see
they just left her. I live in Avatar them said no. Allah He was like mocking somebody no lie. He says she has the letter.
As me she has it. So he went back. He said sister, give us the letter, or else we'll take off your cloth.
So
she knows that this this will be the worst thing you know to happen to her in her life. So she said Wait, I will give you the letter.
So she saw seriousness in their face. She said I will give you a letter. So she opened her
hair you know in the braids those spinning things is
she she she puts the letter inside and she do the does the breathing is
Cat muck. So she wrote out letter and give it to them
and even a battalion took it but you can see how much they trust us with less Allah Salam Yeah, that's why they succeed.
And we don't they went to the province a lightly Salam. They gave him the letter, the prophets Allah someone called How to even be belta
Omar was that very angry to see who is that person? When he came? Omar was trying to hit him with the sword. Is the arugula this person is a monastic.
Yeah. He deceiver lost power to Allah and the Prophet and the believers. Let me get him out of the prophets Allah sama block.
And then he asked me said Omar Wait, he asked him how to Why did you do that?
Don't forget where we mentioned in this story, right? Somebody was asking is it can we apply this hadith to our friends in the when we deal with our friends and CDs in the province a lot Some ask, How to Why did you do that? It's your saliva Allah, hey, I'm not gonna fit.
I love Allah Subhan Allah and the Prophet said, like there's so many it's not like what Omar is say? He says, Allah, Allah, Hamlet, a monastic. However else, Allah, there is nobody amongst your companions who left much like me, except that he has somebody in Makkah to protect his family and his wealth is in us who like saved me. I still have family there, but there is nobody to protect them. So I was afraid maybe if we did not win in this battle, they will go and attack my family. So I wanted to do something good to them. I don't want them to win. I want them to lose. But I just want to do something good for them. In case we did not win, they will not attack my family.
The prophets Allah sama said sadaqa Rajan, he spoke the truth.
And his file, his case should be closed. Nobody is allowed to discuss his matter. Omar doesn't want to agree with this.
Jumped also to hit him the prophets Allah sama said, No Yama Why do you want to kill him? It's Yara Salah Hey Simona the prophets Allah Azza wa said, Omar, don't you know that how to when to the better or better?
And he said, Don't you know that Allah subhanaw taala looked into the hearts of the people better?
And he says Yeah, hello, but if aloo mushy to find Nick Cafferty Look, sir Lord, Allah azza wa jal look into the heart he says people but do whatever you want in this life I forgive whatever you
any big chance for the people today right?
Yeah, in the past is not like that. Those people they're the most dedicated person to the to the Sharia, many dedicated people
and still they have the fear of you know, getting into trouble.
That's where Allah says Allah who Allah Muhammad Allah, resell it at Walla who? Hakeem right. What is hikma? While they are che if you mahal his Sahai,
you know, putting things in their proper place this Hecuba al Hakim is Allah, when he said, Do whatever you want, he knows what he does.
So Allah never knew about this Subhanallah when he heard that, the sword that he was holding, he couldn't hold it anymore. It fell from his hand, he cried.
Because he also went to butter. So he was so happy, you know, because of how they've you know, he heard this. So we learn from this story that when somebody did something wrong to you, the best way to resolve this issue before you blame, look into his life first.
Where he was in sha Allah, if you look into his history, you're going to find some, you know,
deed, and some good things he did, which will make you keep quiet. You don't even want to blame him for anything.
As soon as Allah sama did that he went into the history. He found that in the history how did we even be built our mom his deed was the better of but
that made the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam, a quiet so he closed the page between human and that person. So you also want to deal with any any person the best. When somebody did something wrong, look into the history. I'm not saying don't blame him. Sometimes you should blame so that they will understand. But don't hate. You know, and if it is possible, don't punish. Especially good good people when they make mistake. You're supposed to forgive. Yeah, good people, when they make mistake you're supposed to forgive
that we're living in a time where there is no forgiveness.
A righteous person when he does something he's supposed to be forgiven.
You know, Allah grant is good.
Rasul Allah, someone said, Can you do the will hayati? FIATA Rottie.
A Kala means forgiveness overlooking is that they will hire who don't hire good people, people who have good manners because usually when they do something wrong, is it out of mistake or intentionally done? Mistake. That's why if you remind him he apologize.
The bad one they thinks they do have a right over you. Those one shot
You forgive
there was no taking place. But what must you do?
I thought Allah asked you to forgive
me forgive but be careful.
Okay anyway you are right but in the other way