Hatem al-Haj – Hadith 20

Hatem al-Haj
AI: Summary © The speakers discuss the importance of protecting one's identity and reputation in the face of fear and uncertainty. They emphasize the need for leadership and taking initiative to avoid embarrassment, trustworthiness, and balancing interests. The speakers also emphasize the importance of creating a "hasha" in one's body to avoid war and avoid damaging others. The importance of avoiding scratching the first barrier and balancing interests is emphasized.
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Road in Nepal Battaglia Marina

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de la

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Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam in

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a false

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video allows you to see

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what's coming so we're going over today.

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So you know, I personally did not remember so I have to

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call some brothers

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last leaf we went over is coming from Java 45 plus POW okay with that in mind,

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we are going to teach you a few for a few words, say a

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lot of the suffixes or few

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names from our will go over produce number 20. And how many are producing Oh, yeah, before the outcome is.

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Now 4240 are actually 42. So there are a lot of times where we're not yet very

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precise or finished out of the way

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that the memory chose those needs to be the most important for families

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to basically form form is your understanding of the

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master important for the parties to

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understand and then you will come to an understanding of the Dean of the future.

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Now that the discoveries are concurrent with each other, from knowing the phone, to Socrates to be truly,

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you know, the most important for the two of us

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mostly, you know, sort of certainly these things you can't you cannot be completely absolute about

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his muscles were pointed out of view

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42 This is the understanding one of our greatest scholars that have been received by acceptance

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by the scholars customers is congressman follow the moment it is extremely important that we have a good understanding of

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those hobbies before the two of us put together this particular collection of our hobbies later explained by a variety of scholars

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that operated on by a variety of scholars.

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This is referred to by party

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and it is reported from MEMS

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So it is reported from me muscle that is different from emissary to the muscle is the famous

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kaboom. So is the kuhnian elements of how he was pronounced. His name is an alphabet in Ireland, and he was answering the also say 100 because, you know, certainly being a country is distinct status to suffer but recognize the

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loss of one to witness to the Tower of Babel

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to be of the highest ranking of the Sahaba. So this is a remedy. This reporter was convinced

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that his Korean alphabet alarm is apparently someone who went to battle with the messenger of Alaska last night. Some of the people to whom Alaska do as we wish I have forgiven him because that is what the province of

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our country for those who witnessed that.

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yeah, 2% of the profits on the body and 7%

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in the member company,

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Can NASA mean Can I mean what in Gula is the staffing for our medicine

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Finland, that means we're very interested in you certainly

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like an article for emphasis, minima

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of that which which the people are nice to people and not which has reached the people, many Can I mean, and what he will approach the speech commands the speech and boom are profitable all at the first classical meaning of the speech of the earlier prophets, the meaning of the speech of the earlier prophets, event and the setting for

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that, if you feel no shame you do as you please do as I wish to wherever you're at, if you feel no shame, you do whatever you want.

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And this is an extremely important trapeze because we will talk about you know, the status of Fiat modesty and come Fiat is actually your most important

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defense against the St. Paul, this is your front most defense against the shape of higher higher means

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the feeling of shame, embarrassment,

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why don't we not translate the parenting styles

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of basketball

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you know, so, all of those, but why are we not translating the science of basketball

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which could also be an N word

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encompasses not only

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our also our our parents gave us ideas, you know, reservations against, you know,

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you know,

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is basically a quality of the quality of the interior that prevents the possessor of this quality from anything that is painful, anything that is getting worse than anything that is only fitting

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to person complete morality in complete integrity. So, it is a it is a quality of the quality of the interior,

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the position and the prisoner which finds himself averse to any act that would compromise his moral standard

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or compromise his integrity. So, it is

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it is a personal quality as a personal quality, it is not just an action, but it is a quality

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that is inside you, that prevents you from actions that are defensive.

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The highest moral standard

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the word sign isn't bashfulness they do have some negative connotations in

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So, China's advantage for us may mean that you are too shy to forbid that person is evolving that purchase.

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They actually sometimes referred to timidity

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in automatically by people that are timid, too timid, to speak too timid to, you know, advise others or address issues of concern for the community to commit to do much to them and to to commit to a project

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or to basically presenting their opinion. So shyness immediately bashfulness Oh, that is not the hand

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talking about

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prophecy the last time

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About to be fired.

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On both reports both reports from

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the profits of

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the fire,

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the fire finance does not bring the power anything but good. So failure is not timidity. triad is not bashfulness in the sense of being too afraid of speaking up. When you see something is wrong, you are

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right. You're too afraid of writing the wrong because you are too timid, too shy to export that is higher and higher that will prevent us from exchanging advice in terms of winning the evil and ordaining the good, is being worthy or not praiseworthy, is being lazy, because it would be higher that prevents you from

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feeling an obligation

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towards Allah subhanaw taala one of you right, the right some of

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you and one of your obligations towards your community, your family yourself is the ordain that which is good and to prevent that which is bad.

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So, that is not fair that is mentioned the recipes

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that are mentioned in this hadith may be translated as

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because the word immodesty also refers to a particular set of accidents, a particular set of behaviors. modesty relates to how you dress, modesty relates to how you address the other gender, for instance, modesty relates to, you know, your attitude, our modest attitude, but it does not encompass everything acquired accomplices, in fact, that he said that the word the highest comes from the word higher or higher, comes from the word prayer, which is life, because it is the life part that has higher and the day the heart does not have any higher. So, the word affinia comes from life. So, it is the characteristic of the Hawaiian part, the alive part would have hyack would have

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this quality that will keep it from you know, inferior behavior, inferior conduct, inferior matters, all kinds of inferior matters behavior

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would be included from others.

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So either understanding the process of observing

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what's going on that have different words from the words or the speech of the or their profits that treats the people today is this is out of the stuffing, if you have no empathy, no shame, must not do as you wish. The scholar has said that this means one of two things.

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If you have no same if you have no training, do as you wish as a as a threat has almost

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nothing to

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do as you wish is all aware of his own sphere, he has encompassing sight of that

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he sees all the tissue so do as you wish. This does not mean really do as you wish it is a threat

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comes in the inherited form. See about the armor? Not that Allah tells you really go ahead and do so. But a lot of things you do is huge. Right? You see, you know enough to see apparently he is old.

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Welcome to PCs OVA, which

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means that you're you're ready to destroy your lungs.

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Because you're done, you're destroyed. So it doesn't matter anymore.

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Because we will see now why. And if

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you know if it has taken away from us, one we are on the path to destruction. We're on path construction. But first, some of the scholars said this is what it means it's a threat. And it comes in the imperative form. Do as you wish

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In the imperative form, as a form of threat has been a loss of our power that says

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you know,

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he sees all that you do, he sees all that you do and as the profits on the loss of themselves

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a new self discipline as far as he let him let him move sells wine also cut up for for you know, come up work meaning to you know, sell the pork, you know, be like a pork bender for commercial. So, that's also manpower hungry for yourself as a franchisee let him go sells while also

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afford because this is protected, he can afford it, you know, so you're selling wine for him and so forth.

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So that is what it means here is kind of an office type of format, if you have no seen do as us as read.

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But the other scholars said some of the other scholars in the meaning could be both because both are in person meaning is not a person. They don't conflict.

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They are both of the two meanings.

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And in this case, we could say that the hobbyist means both are the means both interpretations, when the meanings are comparison, not diversion, not conflict in zen, yes, one anger could mean several things. And every interpretation by every professor, Professor could be right. Because a lot of verses are like the sun, they have so many different rays. So every interpretation is right. As long as the interpretations are not divergent, they're not conflicting with each other. So here some of the scholars said that the Prophet sallallahu wasallam is threatening those who don't have shame, the feeling of shame threatening, do as you wish, meaning your destroyed. Some of the other is

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commerce. If you feel no shame,

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do as you wish or start a partnership.

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It is not a threat. It is actually connected.

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What does it mean? And what

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if it is not a shameful act, do as you wish.

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If it is not a shameful act, it is not if it is not something that you should be ashamed of.

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Go ahead and do don't stop because of concerns about you know the people or lesser than if it is not a shameful thing to do or even to proceed. So it's about it is an encouragement to put

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forward this progressiveness assertiveness, courage, taking the initiative,

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you know, take the initiative. In fact, the moment he himself said that this is what it means.

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This is what it means. If it is not shameful, do as you wish go ahead do. So don't be too timid. So this idea is courageous. According to the German army and other scholars. it discourages immunity, extra bashfulness extra shines, the prophets also can say and tries to figure out if the sinful or not. If it is not shameful, go ahead and do it. Don't stop, take the initiative, pioneer lead the way etc. So it was an encouragement

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of, you know,

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Leadership and things of that nature. And then and in both of these, in both ways, are important for us to teach our kids from early on, from early on. Both interpretations are important for us to instill in our kids as early as possible. The first and the second interpretation in our study for foundation been a threat that you should have the feeling of shame, you should you know,

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have higher in the feeling of shame.

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Because if you don't you will be destroyed. But the other interpretation also if it is not shameful, do we take the initiative lead the way be the pioneer and be the first one to do.

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Okay, so why did I say that hire is your former foremost, foremost

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defense against the shape or this is your defense the first defense line against the Shakedown is higher.

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Because as the profit was as it was reported from the profits, or some even though the

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Other chain here is questionable can likely event weak button has been corroborated by

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this particular piece was reported by dimension about dilemma where the chain of this particular police is somewhat questionable, probably weak and has been corroborated by other reports and it has been corroborated also blame on both

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of these from some manifesting

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means what?

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What does that mean what profiling stood, meaning it stops or stop, you know, meaning stop.

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So much, meaning it stops, where does it stop it stops short to the purpose of Southern criminology discoveries of these mapu is where it stops at the level of the Sahaba. So, if it goes up to the safavi, but it's not it, you can trace it back to the profit all the way, if you can trace it back to the profit and some of the code as well mark for my for from some from a referral means raised, like it could be raised up all the way to the proper use of it, which shows you that the etiquette of the scholars and the smart use of the scholars, so they call it marfo because it's raised as if the scholar as if the prophet SAW Solomon sitting higher above everybody. And anything that is from

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him, is not simply traceable back to him. It is it could be raised up to him motherfu it could be raised up to him. So my point is when you trace it back to the proper assertion, now proof is when it stops short.

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So this nongpoh from Southern fallacy corroborate some of the phrases the one from the Prophet salsa.

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And in this particular Hadith,

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which which was a statement from some men for this, as well.

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It was narrated by more important that the Prophet sallallahu Sallam said, given arabba Bhagwan you

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NASA Meanwhile, higher

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Latif makeathon munakata

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Makita Makita Nakata Lucy army

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is Allah Peter who fought for one

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newseum in lieu of Rama

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Rama Rama four

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is a new car

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new car man oh man, that is

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a man Latina who regime and voila. Okay. So, it isn't important you know concept because we understand that because it will tell you where higher belongs in terms of the qualities of the interior, the qualities of the interior, where it belongs in your struggle against the shaitan in the defense of money in a cheap that you build that you raise, you know, salad before the same time or in the face of the same time you build one after another so that to prevent the Satan from conquering your heart. So the first time that he said that, right refer to Brennan there you know as the front line is that higher is the process of

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when one wants to destroy a servant and

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then when Allah wants to destroy a servant knows the Army or NASA

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NASA meaning that he will take away Fiat from him.

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modesty you know the feeling of safety and

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integrity could be translated as a bunch of words. Okay, so what you take away from him, so when he takes away I asked for him

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to Nikita who Makita McCotter you will find them hateful and heated by others

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or you find them

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deserving of hate and hate by others. You will find them deserving of a market

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much better and hated by others.

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For a very

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lucky pattern when you find that you know deserving of hate and hate but others

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in the

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active voice

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mazzer amin, Allah will take away from him, man. Hello and thanks away from him.

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trustworthiness, honesty, honesty, trustworthiness. So he first a lot of things away first, your first offense might against the same color of hair.

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Then when that Satan mixes through the ranks of the first line,

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then Allah subhanaw taala if Allah intense destruction for you, then Allah subhanaw taala will

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drop your destroy your second line of defense, Amanda trustworthiness

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is another woman, Amanda Latina, who found in a new one, you will find him for him, meaning trader, deceitful more for one and pulled such by people considered to be such considered to be a trader, or, you know, this see deceitful person, by the people.

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So Amanda has been taken away from a person that you won't line you will find that this, you know, this typical progression, this typical succession, you won't worry you will find them

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you know,

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let's finish first. So, the problem was

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work was reported with the focus on some self

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awareness on a lot of things trustworthiness and honesty for a man, you will find him a trader, that is considered to be sanctioned by the people

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for his alopecia.

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He becomes a trainer that is considered such a better people a lot nicer I mean, who,

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what what is next?

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He will take away from him mercy

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from Allah Peter.

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And if he did when he takes away from him, mercy, you won't you'll find them in some report regime and

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in some report regime and monana and in some reports

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in some reports the purpose or

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the manager in particular that is traceable to the profits of the company. So someone said lotto big man manana, you will find him rejected in a curse rejected and occurs

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and in the report that is that is traceable only to some manual the other manual you will find in the body of stern

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anything whatever.

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You will find Mr. Owen Hart who suffers

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you find them to be staring at arms but both are close to each other.

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But then the other hobbies that is traceable to the proper from Seaman marine and rejected and occurs

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and then once you find them

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even using some man's report

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once you find them for example, you've been staring on fires a while will take away from him the bond of email that says you will be completely to district alone will take away from him. The bond of email

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is an event and hobbies SMM takes away from him the Bongo event, you will find him line and Mona Anna you know so you will find them deserving of curse and a curse like oh people deserving of the Wrath of Allah Allah in deserving of allows wrath. mala in a curse by all people.

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So this progression tells us exactly what happens when our defense minds start to form one one after the other.

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You know, the first defense line which is the defense line of modesty,

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integrity when that falls. Remember when I was talking to those that were in Africa, and I was talking to you about

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wearing shorts and salah and I told you it's absolutely cannot wear shorts.

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As long as your shorts are below your knee

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but in terms of your relationship with them

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when you come to the Jamaica prayer, if you're in a hurry, if you are at home and you're in your bedroom, or you're in a hurry, or on the battlefield, or something like this, that's fine too insurance. Also, if you're coming to the restaurant, right from the, from the battlefield,

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and you

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come back from a basketball tournament, because that's, that's as much as we do.

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So when you come back from a basketball tournament, if I grew up with views or coming back from the basketball tournament wearing shorts, which brought me to critical effect, right.

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But if you are coming to the masjid dressed up, like you're coming from Houston, so, that this, this integrity, you know, at the moment

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is is there because it is your first line, he said that people who have integrity, the watch, for the best conduct, best practice for people who are too far away from fooling around,

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they already have a large cushion of safety between them and around a large cushion a large margin of difference in barrier, but as a

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white white barrier, or buffer zone between that then and that which is harder.

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Because higher is the front line. In once this drops, the shaytan works on the next line.

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Onwards works on the next line. And the next time the prophet SAW Selim said America is the next line, trustworthiness, honesty, and trustworthiness is a lemma.

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And a Canadian is about the halaman Hara

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is in front of the learner, because kayak is about complete integrity. Not only watching that which was around

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but the best conduct at all times in all places and all circumstances must come. So when when you're not watching the misconduct anymore, and you're lacs about it, the truth one works on the second barrier, which is that

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you know, in

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Java, right

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we offer the America the heavens in the earth, you know,

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the mountains in so the fear from the rejected acceptive and the fear from the burden of this Amanda. Amanda is

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a technique Asana is the religious obligations. It is commitment to your religious obligations, it is your commitment to religious obligations. So that is what America means for Madeline's trustworthiness and trustworthiness and honesty but here it means trustworthiness in carrying out in carrying out your commitments to all of your religious obligations, do's and don'ts Hello, Iran. So you're very careful. But before command there was Claire right there. When the same time

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opens a gap into the second barrier, which is Amana, your trustworthiness, trustworthiness and observing everything that is around and around.

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One find the way to the next barrier. Next barrier. You know, the next barrier is praqma mercy

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because now we are not watchful You know, you're not watchful of Hara Hara Hassan. The next thing that we found we'll make out of you attire.

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Most wicked person, a person that does not have mercy in his heart, he starts to learn from us. Once the mercy is taken away, Luciana boo, boo, a man in the pond that the man will be taken away from him. His hobbies tells you that is the first line of defense for the last line of defense. So people will have no mercy for this close to having no face. That is the last line of defense. If you have no mercy in your heart, you're this close to having no face.

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And people who have higher people who have this quality, internal quality of modesty, integrity,

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feeling of shame for people who are farthest away from

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the heart of Lucifer

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And as long as the stand guard of the post of air, they'll be fine. Because there's a time usually does not,

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you know, go around those obstacles or those barriers, those are very immune barriers. In order for Tom to get

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to get into or to get

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to the second barrier, you will really have to make a hole in the first one, he will really have to get through the first one. The barrier of fire is an encompassing barrier, it surrounds all of your team from the outside. See on the outskirts, surrounding both your team and then the barrier commandment is next to it. And then the barrier is the closest to your heart. And then when you're fighting just stay merciful.

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When you're fighting as a front just stay merciful. It means at the same time have already jumped over to major fences and he is a few feet away from your heart you know a few feet away from devouring the rest of your email.

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So once again, this is a view of of hobbies. Just go over quickly. is another one when you already have the leviathans destruction preserving NASA CAL FIRE he will take away from him higher

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in favor and as Amina Nikita who Makita Nakata. So, when he takes away from Empire, you will find him deserving of hate and heat by all people

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deserving of hate and actually make people

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better. So, if you find them hate, hateful and the hated by all people,

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Allah will take away another man Allah will take away from him in a manner and trustworthiness. He will not be watchful anymore of para la aromas he should be

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away from him amount of trustworthiness honesty when it comes to the commandments of a law firm in a manner so when he takes away from him in a manner you will find them like either who found him for what a trader that is considered as such by all people.

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And then for either lucky to find him for one as well if you find him to be a trader that is considered a researcher by all people, NASA alone will

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allow and take away from him.

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Mercy and even if he takes away from mercy, you will find the demon Ravana rejected and occurs as a result the Prophet Forrester the heart as in the statement of some of your

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favorites as

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he takes away from him. Rockman varies a lot even from Hungary. So if you find the regime in Milan rejected and occurs or for Eva, Simon first for low and take away from me reported Eman, the bond of email.

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if Amazon would have put an email in Amazon

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it stops the year the parties of the profits themselves so if he takes away from him email you will find

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know you will find the wrath of the Lord to be upon him. And you find them a curse by all people there after the law will be upon them. And you will find them occurs by law people. This police tells us that this report from some of them is the prayer is the complaint of defense, drachmas the last line of defense between here and there is Commando. This is your minimum line of defense that goes on the phone gets to your inner lines of defense. The more in danger, you become higher is your first line of defense. Those who want to release his advice. Those who want to really to succeed, those who want to really come first, they need to work on their first line of defense, their first

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barrier, that higher build up this player, the press player, because hyah as the Prophet sallallahu Sallam said is the signature characteristic of this man has a special position in the religion of Islam in particular. It has a position in all religions. You know, and the beauty is that the province of Southern told us the prayer and the position holder in this release. He tells us that this statement is from the statements of the earlier profits in the board rule

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financial reporting. This is a statement teach the people of the statements of the earlier profit booths or earlier protests. But the prophet SAW along some of them also said, in a number of these important buy,

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from Amazon, in the liquidity been in full power, we're hooked horrible Islamophobia. For every religion, there is a follow that is so particular to naturalism, a homophobe, that is the hallmark of naturalism,

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a quality characteristic that is a signature characteristic of that religion for every religion, there is a signature characteristic, and the signature characteristic of Islam in particular is and prayer. This kind of what we're talking about

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is the signature character characteristic of a customer, that is why it was

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so many regulations about you know, the proper conduct amongst men and women, the proper conduct amongst each other, but it is not only about us, is not only about us is much, much larger numbers. So, what is quite

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for for what what are the applications of hire,

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the most important application of hire is your handout kind of muscle

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because there is no higher as either towards Allah, your manifest the higher exercise class towards Allah, your insistence that towards

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your exercise prayer towards yourself. So, when you exercise class towards Allah,

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the Prophet sallallahu

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keiro which means what,

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which means so, you know, shy away from Allah as

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he should be shot away from

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you know, I guess

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he deserves

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the price of harbor

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let us start

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by alarm losses are what we do shy away from a loss.

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So, the purpose or someone said to me, is that, when I can hire

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and maxima

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for a month or

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so, the professor was upset with me shy away from land you should shy away from can be something and we spent away from a lot of Muslims wherever, and he said to them, this is not what I'm talking about.

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shying away from Allah as he deserves, is by safeguarding

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the head and what it contains when but now I'm at Howard in the stomach, and what it contains also, why and how it would be quite standard

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in the in the stomach and what it contains. Well, it does put another one pillar into remembering that and be like to remember the various reflections

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from the three member as well as to remember the reflections that await you.

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What woman or other characters Caracas

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and he wants it after, should abandon should abandon Zenith adonia

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the adornment of the dunya the enjoyments of the 20th but not all of the enjoyments of the journey

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not all of the interesting because we have to understand these companies and react collectively together because I was gonna

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say who forbade the Xena, Papa Baba, he brought forth for the service. So what we'll be doing is not called the duty and that

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is to be abandoned. But what the whole process of the law seven means here is to abandon

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excessiveness excessive, enjoy the exorcism in terms of the venue and to abandon each and every enrollment that will keep you back will keep you behind will slow you down.

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If you really want them to abandon all the enjoyments that will

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Slowing down. If it does not slow you down. If it does not slow you down, then it's an enjoyment and Allah made permissible for you and allows you to enjoy

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for loved ones you would enjoy. But if it slows you down, and that's the difference whenever a year, there is a conflict between the art of a wonder of the profit or the political profit in themselves, your counterpoint is just that we need to understand them correctly. So whenever you hear about enjoying the lessons of a loss of pinata and Rama Lawson, say whoever made for women, the Xena enjoyments that ulhasnagar brought forth for his servants, all of this talk about those enjoyments being around and permissible for us. And there is no condemnation of enjoying these enjoyments enjoying life in such a way, all of these thoughts about the enjoyment that will not slow you down

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the enjoyments that will slow you down or dislike enjoyment that will keep you back or forbidden

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keep you back from keep that will keep you back from observing the commands and provisions of a law those enjoyments are forbidden. But beyond those enjoyments that are forbidden trans women's that are this life.

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This life, such as what

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you know, give me examples like you were talking about forbidden environments, holiday and tournament's

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Just like

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playing cards despite

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no I'm talking about, you actually went into

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this is not what we're talking about.

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The Prophet is not talking about this now. He wants to use out the Zener. He's not talking about this. Now he's talking about

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too much sports. Okay, everybody suffers like the big changes coming out from the side.

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we are playing soccer, if it were if you

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if you miss your prayer, it's

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Playing soccer. If you will miss your routine, we'll

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have some prayers,

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your word, review and the perhaps you have your word, the word word submission online, when is your routine, then there is the word of thick remembrance. We're reviewing the perhaps everybody should have a routine of particular

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morning and evening and somewhere around for yourself of a team that you should observe. And you have your work of reviewing the progress of your routine and reviewing the prior. So playing soccer that could keep you away from the prior to the 24 hours, things like that, that will keep you away from the web.

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When you when your routine, which is

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your routine is this like, that slows you down, slows you down. So it's just like playing soccer. And after you have done your routine and I've done you're aware of this in your brain and everything is permissible, is permissible to have a nice car. This is the same thing. You know, in order if you if you buy an expensive car, and you will need to be

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you need to like struggle too much to maintain the car because once people buy an expensive car, the way they set themselves, we should have the house that is befitting of this car should have the attire that is befitting of this house you live in a month like a neighborhood in a neighborhood that is an upscale neighborhood. So you should have the attire that is fitted. All this is fine. As long as it's not slowing you down.

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It was fine to have a nice car, it's fine to have a nice house. It's nice

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to have, you know, nice suits and

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fire as long as there are many things. It's very conditional. It is fine conditionally, because there are many conditions for this to be fine. But it's not fine now to go over the conditions but I'm saying that it's fine as long as you're observing the conditions, but the having the car that will make you

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that will make you fall in front of

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his home. That enjoyment from the cars around you know

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And having the car that will slow you down, it's going to make you, you know, it will push you into that the vicious cycle of like, you know having to earn money and

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like working too hard. When the Prophet sallallahu Sallam said he might have a heart defibrillator, defibrillate IRA commanded and have different bid lay down during the day, the purposes of this committee was recorded because it was Muslim authentically about the hateful person in the sight of Allah. And of the characteristics is that he is American are different than midnight, apparently, during the day working too hard during the day like a donkey defect with like a piece of meat that night.

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So basically, his work keeps him away from the worship of Allah keeps him away from, you know, the various acts of worship and he is completely that at night, so that the car that will push you into this is the slight but enjoyment this, this this light, it's not making you do something that's hot out, but it is me it's keeping you from your aura that is keeping you from your balance keeping you from what you need to do

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to moisten your relationship with Allah subhanaw taala and then it becomes that this life

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I know that some people will come back and tell me what we need to be a strong nation we need to work hard, this is not against working out, this is not against work ethics, because working hard to perfect and get work from being a master at what you do is you know part and parcel of Yes, there is. But this does not necessarily mean that in when ignoring. In fact, you know, most of the successful people are balanced the you know, success comes in balance to be balanced between the rights of a lot, you know, your, your spiritual dimension. And your physical they mentioned rights and a lot rights of the family rights of your body. Right. So it is being balanced that comes about

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with success for them, that brings about success. So this is not against being a strong nation and being advanced nation and being technologically You know, this and that and working hard to get ahead of everybody else and showing that we as Muslims are not Airheads, we actually

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have brains and solving software.

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But, but it is important that all of this is not keeping us away from the remembrance of Allah subhanaw taala and from our commitments towards Allah. So to feel to stray away from about the show higher to Allah. txt exercise towards a boss Nevada as he deserves, is to safeguard the head from what it contains. safeguard your head, and what it contains, contains your thoughts can things your vision institutions, your earring to safeguard all of this, from that person via dislikes, from reputable dislikes, to safeguard the stomach and what it contains in the scanner and said that what it contains also includes the products, the sexual parts, so to safeguard all of this quality, or

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amount of data and to remember this can afflictions.

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are represented Antonia and he truly wants

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the hereafter must abandon some of the enjoyment some must abandon, literally, he says was dependent the enjoyments of the dunya. But we said what one means here what the process of meant in this police must abandon those enjoyments of the dunya that will slow you down from the pleasure of Allah and from the attainment of the highest reward.

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That is what the higher means from Allah. So that is the higher from from Allah and we have from the people, higher exercising kind of towards the people and that should be understood, exercising towards yourself. Meaning that you should be too shy

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to catch yourself doing something that is inferior, something that is beneath your status. Even if you're alone in the middle of nowhere. You You're too shy to catch yourself doing something that is inferior, something that is unbecoming of a believer

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in public

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high status. And that could be like too many things. Remember, when you were in Africa, we talked about some examples of things that are completely color things that are completely for that. But they would compromise your integrity as a believer, they would start to make scratches. Even if we make the scratches in the first line of defense, which is the line of defense of a hire.

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We did not, you know, we didn't get into the second line of defense, which is America, or the third line of defense, which is a workman. But those things if they make little scratches in the first line of defense, as a believing person, that one survivor that wants salvation, that once lost, accepting and to be pleased with her, he should not allow yourself to scratch the first barrier.

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And then there's when we talk about integrity, you know, being in your foot in full integrity to watch my things. Like, for example, the last in a manner that is unbecoming of a believer. That is, that was, you know, scratching

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the barrier. so

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you're scratching the barrier? Because it's I'm becoming a believer, have you ever heard that

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he never laughed.

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And you know, until you see the back is back, like,

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But the outro to now, you know, is unbecoming. Now, if you tell me produce a proof from around and some other business caught on, I will tell you, it's not.

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And I'm not telling you this.

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But I'm telling you that the process.

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If you feel I'm saying Do as you wish, and I'm telling you that this is the first very, and I'm telling you the scars in order for them to enforce that first barrier, they did so much enforcement first barrier. So to sit down with your legs stretched in allopathic, or in, in an allopathic or any discipline down with your next church discovers consider this to be

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a huge

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list, you know, like, no one in his right mind would sit down like this and talk about him, you know.

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So you sit down in the proper way did something with it, or facade like this, or this some proper way?

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Now, did anyone say that sitting with your legs stretched like this is hard on? No one ever said that. But they said that this actually compromises for a lot of things that compromise your integrity, things that makes couches in the in that first barrier. And you don't have guarantees, if you continue to scratch the first barrier, you could

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end up having a hole in the first barrier, and then the same problem can proceed to the second barrier, the barrier of command, irreligious commitments.

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So examples, persons named friends, and some people do this, in this may not be particularly about you know, amongst mystical people, this may not be known, but what some people consider it funny for, for instance,

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in high school, the human high school here in America, so some people would consider it to be like, somewhat, I don't care he passed when in the presence of people.

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And although although I will not be able to produce all the profits or whatever, have you thought about this or not clear? So the problem is someone for instance, one time said, now that we have

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this report, that someone passed away, and then they laughed, and then he said, Why do you laugh at what you do? But he said, What do you do in advance, say, the hand on the table? He said, Why are you laughing about it?

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And he did not mention it, you know,

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mentioned what it is that you do? He said never authentically African America.

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So why do you love what you do? And he didn't even mention what they did.

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You could hear her say no one in his right mind could ever say that. This belief means his heart.

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But does this compromise the integrity it does compromise integrity. This is an example that you can relate to.

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You know, most of the people would relate to this example. But you know, laughing going a certain way,

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dressing in a certain way.

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If you dress people like dress properly, decent, good looking, all of this is fine.

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But if you dress to who that will compromise your integrity because the way you know what people define as cool particularly for to

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compromise the compromise the integrity, you know, it compromises your integrity to chase, the different facets they come up with every day, chasing the different fashions they come up, every time they come up with a fashion, everybody starts to change the wardrobe. And then you buy new shoes and you buy new

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pants and you buy new shirts, you're a man act like a man, you're changing your wardrobe because someone in some place in you know, some street in Paris or Rome or someplace came up with a new fashion and then it caught fire and then everybody started to dress like this can be changed the size and you know why it becomes fashionable and everybody rushes to buy white pants in and then they try to the pants up and then everybody else has to find these pencil and then wear tight pants and then you do what is happening

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is basically paying attention to this means that you have lost three quarters of your hire, you're almost gone in because that is unbecoming

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of a believer of complete integrity and having you know excellent character conduct, it is really unbecoming. So, that does not mean that you will look to our code, that does not mean that if you go to, you know, places to buy clothes, that you would have to look for things that are particularly awkward so that you're not following the fashion. But paying attention to this. In tracing the fashion is far more

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you know, you know, finally terms of integrity. five acres of integrity. What are the other examples?

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What are

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bodybuilding? What is this going?

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On? You're asking me for this? No, it should not be?

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No, because basically having the you know, perfect bodies to good funerals for for parties is good.

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If you want to play Brazilian jujitsu,

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that's fine.

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One of the brothers.

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So this

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where I have other examples.

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to chew gum, for like a man of perfect character is unbefitting. Think about that. In if we if people are sitting in a meeting, for instance, of the White House, what would you I'm talking about people that are not believers in the first race in Islam. So what would you expect for them to be chewing gum in a meeting in an important meeting? No, because it is really funny. But to chew gum to change the you know, to come times to change the order of your house is not fun.

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But the two comments like the message

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is here is this is just like dude like this is no, this is no crossing, you know, sit down in the muscle chewing gum. That is really

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I'm not saying that.

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But there is that barrier.

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That important barrier of a kayak that we should not come from it. And if you scratch this barrier, you end up having a hole in the Bering Sea one gets to the second period when other examples because examples are important. This is important to mention examples.

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talking to someone while using them as work is also something that

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Basically, when you talk to someone, give him your fullest attention.

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It may be, you know, it depends on the kind of relationship that you have with this person. Because sometimes, if two people are sitting in Africa, for instance, and their two best friends, and they're sitting together Africa for them, and they are roommates or something, and they're talking while they're using the new swag, that may not be an issue, but to talk to someone that is an elder, to talk to teacher, your elder, is someone that you don't know Well, someone that you're meeting for the first time, while you're using them as fact, that certainly isn't as respectful. But also sometimes these issues depend on the context. The people in these circumstances, yes.

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Here's the speech. Useless speech is one of the biggest violators of integrity. People who do not know when to stay silent, are people who are bound to error from

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kosaka evil speeches in excess of his errors or the excessive or really speaks about he speaks a lot cares a lot, makes a lot of errors.

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So some is an indication long periods of silence is a is one of your rates indication on wisdom, integrity, to perfection of character.

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Those moves speak less and less and more.

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And all of these are things that are considered to be violators of integrity, that compromise

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the compromise the first barrier.

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