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This session

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is focused on

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the Muslim

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establishment

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maintainence of a most of all

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the

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environments that we spoke about as a six obligation

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parents

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which they are required to provide

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for their children

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and environment which is

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the place where they will spend a large portion of their time

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we said in the very beginning

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that

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only conscious Muslims are going to be able to establish

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people who are conscious of what it is thing that they're most of all

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is one

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where

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were you first get it you get a holy man to come and pray in the house

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to house

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your family

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as I said,

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Commonly, people think

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when you get a new home in order to make it possible

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you should get

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a shift

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from owning

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and make

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some cultures this is

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basically

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getting started

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maybe you don't pray you are afraid.

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But as long as

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you know

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then

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a Muslim

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on the walls of your home, pictures of

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calligraphy

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from the behind

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oftentimes the calligraphy the same somebody

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and

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for most of us, that's basically as far as the most simple goals. Some things being on the wall

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or on their shelf somewhere which has been taken down.

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Rest of the year it stays in the shelf protecting all

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as

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well the reality is the forces that these practices have nothing to do with

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the pictures we put up on the wall of the Kaaba,

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the prayer matches in a corner with our audience that only reinforces in the minds of the novelist. Visit us worship the

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neighbor they asked us why do you worship

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with songs how to explain to them

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because

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the direction

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is on the

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second worship

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and for sure this is not from the SUTA

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for sure 100 to 10% Sure this is not

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So, then if this doesn't make

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if the husband the wife

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who are

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probably waiting longer

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Lord

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Lord

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if they themselves are not

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profitable students practicing

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then you can have

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to start from there

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and practicing Muslim means as we said before

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not just somebody who does

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the external rituals

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of

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fasting is easy

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who gains weight and

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has the variation

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so, these external practices

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are not really connected with

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consciousness of the law

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we will be back those

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who have not listened the last year about

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Asians

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mentioned to me you know the swearing guys do

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you guys do

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our manager

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Oh, we see a midday spray afternoon friend

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but

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he's still Jesus

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we came here on contract when we got married James

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the provisions of the contract and told us if you want this ticket if you don't want to go out

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he overworks us

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so, no anger evils that are coming from the manager who they see grain regulating

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what is the purpose of this prayer? What is the value what value does prayer out

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prayer that man is doing really as

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far as I was like prayer man

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then we cannot create

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only created with

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Islam which wasn't inherited from our four parents.

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Because it is impossible to inherit

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you can inherit nationality

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the parents

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are Egyptians

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once you get the marriage is

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good inherit your wealth.

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You can inherit the game.

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So many things you can and

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cannot be

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why because Islam means submission to the will of the law

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and that is something which

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cannot be

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cannot be added submission, submission is an individual

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which each person has to do himself

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or herself, nobody

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each person has to accept all

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the true God and worship

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and Whose commandments

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each individual has to make that decision

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without that decision

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without that

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particular commitments

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then we are

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counterfeits

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we are going through the motions

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externally,

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but internally there is a vacuum

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spirit's

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understanding

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the most at home begins

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when both members

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or at least one of the members decides to submit their wills for law

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this is an issue

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and

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from there

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the relationship

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what makes the Muslim hole is that

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it is a hole which functions in accordance with the laws of Islam the Sharia

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is home is governed by

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a force today even saying this you know you can be able to live

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he wants to go on his own why should he

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needs my chalk to handle this

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sort of wire something like this

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is

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implementing laws commandments in our day to day lives

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meaning everything that we do in the home should be in accordance with what is pleasing to Allah

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and we should be actively engaged in removing from our owners What is this

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if we do that, we have implemented it to the degree that we are

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we are not garments

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to rule that somebody had with the job offer somebody else

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so, what is required of us is that whatever it takes place in the home should be in accordance with was pleasing.

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So,

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we said in the previous lecture that that Muslim home is critical for the children that we seek to raise

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it's critical to them without because the more they are in a greater

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the likelihood of them growing up worship

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is

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So, we have two very low

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our daily life

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and take each and every appointment

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and place it

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under

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guidance all.

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So,

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if you look at that

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First and foremost, as

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marriage is supposed to be

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an environment of

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it shouldn't be comforting

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not a stressful environment in which the other than and why are

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they there

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this is not

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this

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is not

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characteristic,

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yes, there will be disagreements.

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However,

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those disagreements should be resolved not in the presence of children,

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young people growing up

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to grow up in a peaceful

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abode of peace

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as man and wife have issues, there is always

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a wave of the ears the sight of the children

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because the children as we said earlier learn from their parents, they imitate what they see their parents do they do.

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So, though we might be telling them one thing,

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if our actions tell them something else, as they say actions speak louder than words

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they will follow what we do

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because what we do is reality

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it is very important

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that I want to have

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in the Muslim home the mother

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should be an obedient wife

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she shouldn't be outed her husband's face every minute

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arguing about this and argue well this is why this and why not

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he should see

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this the girls are supposed to learn

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that

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I ideal woman

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is an obedient wife

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the ideal

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Lebanon said

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that the rights of the husband over his wife is that he be obeyed

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Western civilized civilization

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that said the man and the woman are equal

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you know this idea is

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pumped into the hands of people going out living in this society this sounds like you know male chauvinism

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but,

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it is necessary components for

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a piece

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because if

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she has an opinion

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and has the say the same as

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then when they disagree on what basis do they resolve the disagreement

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So, you have conflicts which are unresolvable which in the end only end up in divorce

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that's why the rate of divorce is so

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and we're catching up with

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Muslims are catching up

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Red is rising,

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especially Muslims that are coming under Western influence, whether it's through the media or

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radio force is increasing.

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And this is one of the key

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concepts of the obedient wife is

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obedient wife, she doesn't live with a husband and she does, you know, that's like like a slave

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Jasmine

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proceeding

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she is required to obey as long as these instructions don't go against

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the instructions at all

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there's no obedience due

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to a lot of scriptures.

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If it involves this obedience to the law, without the limit, it's not unlimited whenever you demand

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this is displeasing to Allah

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so

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obedience is not unrestricted, unlimited

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is obedience in what is

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acceptable, permissible as he instructs

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she is required

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on the other side, he is required to provide

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to provide for her to provide for the family.

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So, it is not that she does and then she also has to provide rules. That is his responsibilities her responded, arrived at that she provided for

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the responsibilities

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she is not required to walk and work at all.

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If she agrees to go and do so, to help look after the family, it is solid,

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solid

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you can say

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you know you're working

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you gotta keep working.

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But I heard you already.

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Now you have a few kids you want to quit working on oh

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you can't make ends meet with other

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means he has to take on another job and

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she says I don't want to work anymore. I want to stay home and focus on

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that is the example that the males and the

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males should see, they should see a responsible father

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who is the provider

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and the protector of the whole they see obedient mother, they see a responsible father.

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This is the

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responsible father who at the same time is doing whatever is

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avoiding what is.

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So these two

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components make the foundation of the Muslim

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husband

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who is providing as it should be

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and the wife who is

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obedience looking after.

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So it is very important

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Regardless of the circumstance

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where this agreement takes place

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that

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the husband should never insult his wife in front of the children

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but the worst case scenario is insulting her in front of

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the children and

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it's okay it's your wife consultors more nude outside is your job whatever

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Oh, you are the master

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it shouldn't happen anyway

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so

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as we said in the very beginning all disagreements should be worked out

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in private between husband and wife

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not

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as they shouldn't be in agreement in terms of what goes on in the home

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there should be an agreement

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because children

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quickly pick up

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where dad doesn't quite agree with Mom Mom doesn't right agree with that particular issue then they will explore those differences

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they know Dad's going to go to him

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we're not

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developing a slide

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slide knows who to ask

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even though he knows he shouldn't be doing it

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but he knows mom's Okay. Easy.

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Started way Wait

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what's wrong?

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Don't try to find ways this way.

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What happens again

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is that our children

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may learn this from another perspective.

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They see us wanting to do something

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and every time we come to Islamic referee's

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residence we see they see that asking can we do this and the sheriff says

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well the mothership comes

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in gives us the into the mind a chef who comes along and says

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in some circumstance

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that's what he was waiting for.

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Noodle looking for instead of just sitting around the stick is wrong.

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Don't get back to the finish and

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know is looking to find some way

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to find some way

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the bottom line is that what is a lot of assets

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these are assets about one what we view to the right

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and not what we got approval for.

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Because if we got approval for something and in our hearts we still deserved it wasn't right

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we have to be very careful with the environment. We don't

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send the children mixed messages.

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will tell them you know this is wrong.

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Here we are

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One of the important components of the system

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is the

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we spoke about it earlier number one we put on the wall

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yes

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yes

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yes

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very fancy yeah and then the rest of the surah small letters again you read it

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you pick a microphone you often see what's

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out there for you to read and remember

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it's out there

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even hanging on the wall is going to bring good luck

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we have no such things in

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the other religions

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another

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just to clarify this

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there are no offense

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not even one single attendee

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speaks about the virtues of gas

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Yeah, I know you all heard

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the famous saying

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anything

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and the heart of the Brian Yes

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I know you also heard

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radiosity for your dying

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there's not one single authentic

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is Revelation all

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three but if you're reading and believing in desire

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if you're religious for the death

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your religion is the only source that you need

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because we feel that the US has special narratives

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the rest of the

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it's all good.

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So, the inside home and abroad is not the one on the wall nor that are on the shelves. So

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where is

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where is the

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well

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wherever he is surah Allah

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Shavon says it

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will be driven from the home for three days and nice.

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JSON is the leading force behind the other side is the one feeding. Whispering suggesting beautifying?

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So

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resource doesn't mean really short, does not mean that we buy a tape

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of the channel

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There's no shortcut you're looking for shortcuts no this is a problem every time we find out something we try to find a

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notion

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the path to Paradise is one of struggle

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I mean there are people out there selling shortcuts

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out there and that's what attracts

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a number of people

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sharing all the

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famous individual

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us

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he tells his followers

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that if they

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are true followers meaning they are married

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and the Marine

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in that philosophy

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is supposed to be as they describe

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like the dead body in the hands of a

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relationship with this

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is like the dead body in the hands

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so, he says if you are a jury

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when the time of death comes

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the angel of death will not take your soul

00:37:02--> 00:37:04

I will be there to take your

00:37:07--> 00:37:08

angels

00:37:12--> 00:37:13

further

00:37:15--> 00:37:19

when one pair and the he'll come to you with the grace

00:37:26--> 00:37:28

you know Batman and Superman

00:37:31--> 00:37:31

this is a problem

00:37:33--> 00:37:35

this is a big problem

00:37:37--> 00:37:39

this is a big problem

00:37:44--> 00:37:46

this is Brian and the problem

00:37:47--> 00:37:59

is all know Batman Spider Man every other man but if you ask them about their gear they have no idea that you treat

00:38:13--> 00:38:14

well

00:38:16--> 00:38:17

last year

00:38:19--> 00:38:20

all

00:38:23--> 00:38:24

young people

00:38:25--> 00:38:28

know the figures heroes etc.

00:38:29--> 00:38:30

in the mass media.

00:38:31--> 00:38:36

But the real important figures article for us, we should know.

00:38:40--> 00:38:41

So when we had

00:38:43--> 00:38:45

our two angels

00:38:47--> 00:38:50

describe them as new black

00:38:51--> 00:38:56

angels will come to each and every one of us when we are

00:38:57--> 00:38:58

in the state of

00:39:02--> 00:39:10

your body burndown charts whatever you enter when you die into the state of the brain.

00:39:11--> 00:39:15

We're doing a physical location or in

00:39:17--> 00:39:19

the next time you're in the states

00:39:24--> 00:39:25

to angels

00:39:27--> 00:39:31

they seek us out and we'll ask questions

00:39:39--> 00:39:40

first question is

00:39:43--> 00:39:46

What is your religion? No, that was the first one that's wonderful. Okay

00:39:54--> 00:39:56

What is your religion? What's the third one?

00:39:57--> 00:39:58

Oh,

00:40:01--> 00:40:03

These are the key questions

00:40:05--> 00:40:06

social

00:40:07--> 00:40:08

and some people call it the snake

00:40:11--> 00:40:14

he claims that he will be there with you in the grave

00:40:15--> 00:40:17

whispering in your ear

00:40:18--> 00:40:21

When the moon came to hear us

00:40:28--> 00:40:31

when they asked what was your religion we didn't say

00:40:35--> 00:40:37

what the outcome was referred

00:40:53--> 00:40:53

to

00:40:59--> 00:41:02

it's sold as a cheap ticket to paradise and it's very interesting

00:41:05--> 00:41:06

because he only

00:41:07--> 00:41:10

designed for features

00:41:12--> 00:41:13

that many people will believe it is

00:41:15--> 00:41:15

incredible

00:41:20--> 00:41:25

and the promise has been said you will follow the ways of the equals before you

00:41:26--> 00:41:32

inch by inch foot by foot until they went into the hole of a lizard

00:41:33--> 00:41:35

lizard role you will follow them

00:41:36--> 00:41:37

and they asked me the question

00:41:41--> 00:41:43

you know back in the Middle Ages

00:41:46--> 00:41:47

with

00:41:51--> 00:41:57

used to give certificates they're called papal indulgences I

00:42:01--> 00:42:16

would say the bearer of this certificate has a place in paradise signed by someone so that the sound is sealed and you pay your money tificate Mashallah.

00:42:30--> 00:42:31

drove us to HELL

00:42:32--> 00:42:33

NO ONE

00:42:36--> 00:42:39

So, we have to

00:42:41--> 00:42:42

tackle issues

00:42:45--> 00:42:45

accordance

00:42:50--> 00:42:54

reading for means reading so

00:42:57--> 00:42:58

you read

00:42:59--> 00:43:00

you don't

00:43:01--> 00:43:02

you don't understand it.

00:43:04--> 00:43:07

You read the Arabic you read English

00:43:12--> 00:43:13

you want to follow the way

00:43:16--> 00:43:18

and don't talk about taking long or short

00:43:21--> 00:43:22

there's only one way

00:43:25--> 00:43:26

if you understand

00:43:28--> 00:43:31

the law, you don't have to be the translation but

00:43:33--> 00:43:34

the other day that you speak

00:43:36--> 00:43:38

only gives you about

00:43:39--> 00:43:42

70% 65% of

00:43:43--> 00:43:45

the other 35%

00:43:47--> 00:43:48

So it's not enough

00:43:55--> 00:43:56

good one

00:43:59--> 00:44:02

all the time. Once a one is reading

00:44:11--> 00:44:12

this is the minimum

00:44:14--> 00:44:16

This is the minimum at least

00:44:22--> 00:44:24

before you see my knife

00:44:25--> 00:44:32

in the hole, the boss said that we should be the three poles

00:44:34--> 00:44:35

on wall

00:44:36--> 00:44:37

without.

00:44:49--> 00:44:50

blowing our hands

00:45:00--> 00:45:03

So at least we resigned

00:45:09--> 00:45:10

and

00:45:11--> 00:45:12

last week

00:45:15--> 00:45:24

and of course, in the home we should be reading or reciting the Quran in our prayers.

00:45:25--> 00:45:38

So at least the first row, in fact, we're reading or is being read, if we don't live reading the warming selasa law should be established in your role

00:45:44--> 00:45:49

and the meaning of Abrahamic just as we said and so, we should understand.

00:45:51--> 00:45:54

So, to have the impact that is

00:45:55--> 00:45:56

similar similarly,

00:45:57--> 00:46:01

we are residing in sala, we should also know

00:46:03--> 00:46:05

as much as the software

00:46:09--> 00:46:13

and if we're able to establish that regular reading

00:46:17--> 00:46:17

with

00:46:18--> 00:46:19

understanding

00:46:21--> 00:46:22

we have

00:46:24--> 00:46:25

the lights

00:46:29--> 00:46:30

this is the basis of

00:46:34--> 00:46:35

ourselves

00:46:39--> 00:46:40

and

00:46:41--> 00:46:42

those who have been

00:46:43--> 00:46:44

positively

00:46:47--> 00:46:50

because the foundation and this is

00:47:00--> 00:47:00

what

00:47:01--> 00:47:01

we have

00:47:06--> 00:47:06

first of all

00:47:18--> 00:47:19

So,

00:47:20--> 00:47:21

how do we

00:47:24--> 00:47:26

make the Sona

00:47:27--> 00:47:30

no in the hole it means that we need to

00:47:31--> 00:47:36

read it in gatherings you know either is

00:47:37--> 00:47:40

for kids guanfacine

00:47:42--> 00:47:43

we read somewhere

00:47:46--> 00:47:56

or on Fridays on weekends Saturday, Sunday, at least some time is set aside where we do some reading from

00:47:57--> 00:48:02

So, the children become familiar with hearing the words

00:48:06--> 00:48:10

and the forest is heavy we should read them not just about

00:48:14--> 00:48:18

the read and the formatting. So, the same way that

00:48:20--> 00:48:20

we won

00:48:25--> 00:48:27

before you really take

00:48:32--> 00:48:35

all kinds of rituals that are associated with

00:48:36--> 00:48:39

no envisage the quality of

00:48:43--> 00:48:46

someone who can save the home on the shelf

00:48:47--> 00:48:50

you cannot turn your back on the bride

00:49:02--> 00:49:03

sitting in the master million

00:49:04--> 00:49:06

dollar lab from Caterpillar

00:49:15--> 00:49:17

You put the bride on the ground and

00:49:23--> 00:49:27

all of these women must work a job

00:49:41--> 00:49:46

when people lost contact with the real

00:49:47--> 00:49:48

then

00:49:49--> 00:49:59

they made up these other rituals which made them feel that they were giving the addicts students rights kisses

00:50:04--> 00:50:06

This is a high place

00:50:13--> 00:50:16

and of course if you get one of those pictures where

00:50:17--> 00:50:20

a building gets burned down and the only thing not worth it was

00:50:25--> 00:50:28

the externals because the externals are

00:50:31--> 00:50:32

easy to

00:50:34--> 00:50:36

easy to put in place

00:50:38--> 00:50:40

easy to go through the ritual just reading

00:50:42--> 00:50:42

it's easy

00:50:46--> 00:50:47

to read

00:50:50--> 00:50:51

and apply

00:50:55--> 00:50:56

this is what was missing

00:51:01--> 00:51:05

how many of us have that established

00:51:09--> 00:51:09

where's the

00:51:15--> 00:51:18

also part of the Muslim hole

00:51:19--> 00:51:20

is

00:51:21--> 00:51:22

that those

00:51:24--> 00:51:26

materials that people commonly read in

00:51:29--> 00:51:31

magazines books etc

00:51:32--> 00:51:39

These magazines and books should be magazines and books which are pleasing

00:51:43--> 00:51:46

or at least not displeasing.

00:51:50--> 00:52:03

I have a reason to allow for at least not this meeting for us we have books and magazines and novels which are displeasing to Allah we have underlined

00:52:06--> 00:52:07

we are so verted

00:52:12--> 00:52:16

So, we have to remove from our owners those things

00:52:18--> 00:52:19

is not easy

00:52:23--> 00:52:25

and of course

00:52:27--> 00:52:28

the biggest

00:52:35--> 00:52:37

danger to the Muslim

00:52:39--> 00:52:40

is the TV

00:52:42--> 00:52:42

television

00:52:54--> 00:52:57

television is like a two edged sword

00:53:05--> 00:53:06

but on the other hand

00:53:07--> 00:53:10

the majority of what is on television is evil

00:53:14--> 00:53:23

and as a general principle in Islamic law when the evil far outweighs the good what happens

00:53:30--> 00:53:30

unless

00:53:32--> 00:53:33

unless there is a real

00:53:35--> 00:53:39

or unless you have controls

00:53:41--> 00:53:48

you have a way to lock the channels and the only things that come on those channels are PCB

00:53:52--> 00:53:54

other television channels

00:53:56--> 00:53:58

gonna wait to do that okay

00:54:04--> 00:54:08

and most of the time not able to

00:54:09--> 00:54:10

monitor

00:54:18--> 00:54:19

devastating

00:54:21--> 00:54:22

devastating

00:54:24--> 00:54:30

the simplest things that you think are harmless tools.

00:54:32--> 00:54:34

I do know

00:54:35--> 00:54:36

they show

00:54:37--> 00:54:40

that in the cartoons is from my time

00:54:46--> 00:54:47

my time when I was

00:54:49--> 00:54:53

popular practice was the Road Runner. Right he

00:54:59--> 00:54:59

still around

00:55:02--> 00:55:06

So in this cartoon

00:55:08--> 00:55:09

there is a bird

00:55:16--> 00:55:20

and he's always being chased by this fox

00:55:23--> 00:55:23

JC

00:55:26--> 00:55:26

outside

00:55:29--> 00:55:30

again

00:55:36--> 00:55:36

anyway

00:55:41--> 00:55:42

time and time again

00:55:44--> 00:55:45

the

00:55:46--> 00:55:47

wolf

00:56:01--> 00:56:02

and some have

00:56:07--> 00:56:09

committed the acts of violence against

00:56:10--> 00:56:11

fossils

00:56:12--> 00:56:17

they show that in comparison

00:56:19--> 00:56:26

to a an average Schwarzenegger movie is shorter

00:56:33--> 00:56:33

Terminator

00:56:34--> 00:56:35

The Terminator

00:56:37--> 00:56:41

which we think this is a violent movie Terminator one

00:56:43--> 00:56:45

they showed that

00:56:48--> 00:56:55

the amount of violence permitted, it's far exceeded that on average.

00:56:59--> 00:57:03

So what we think, you know, parental guidance, we're protecting them from shorts,

00:57:04--> 00:57:05

but

00:57:06--> 00:57:08

we're exposing them to the roadmap

00:57:17--> 00:57:19

very dangerous

00:57:24--> 00:57:33

because they don't have real moral guidance. They're just about

00:57:34--> 00:57:35

fun.

00:57:36--> 00:57:39

What is fun, fun, bad.

00:57:42--> 00:57:44

No moral guidelines.

00:57:48--> 00:57:48

So

00:57:49--> 00:57:50

if we leave

00:57:53--> 00:57:54

the EU

00:57:57--> 00:57:58

to babysit our children

00:58:00--> 00:58:02

don't be surprised

00:58:03--> 00:58:04

when our kids

00:58:08--> 00:58:11

is doing foolish

00:58:12--> 00:58:13

things you can imagine.

00:58:24--> 00:58:28

So the television has to be

00:58:29--> 00:58:37

carefully monitored, if not removed, you have a whole bunch of non Muslims in the US

00:58:40--> 00:58:42

who have taken television.

00:58:44--> 00:58:44

No television.

00:58:46--> 00:58:47

Not specially religious people.

00:58:48--> 00:58:50

Religious people also

00:58:52--> 00:59:06

religious but they just know that the harm from it far outweighs that. So they removed it. And they've shown that families were in there removed it that the children education

00:59:07--> 00:59:08

are superior.

00:59:09--> 00:59:11

They will read books.

00:59:12--> 00:59:14

You can read a book and then watch it on TV.

00:59:17--> 00:59:17

So

00:59:18--> 00:59:24

it's a huge huge benefit which comes from just turning off.

00:59:25--> 00:59:33

Okay, you tried to go on limited amounts of time for what is you know, National Geographic and the National Geographic

00:59:39--> 00:59:41

even that was the thing National Geographic

00:59:45--> 00:59:46

is really

00:59:48--> 00:59:50

too much. So

00:59:52--> 00:59:53

we do have

00:59:55--> 00:59:58

that we have control over what is in there.

01:00:00--> 01:00:05

What is feeding our children for our children are gaining information from

01:00:10--> 01:00:11

and also

01:00:13--> 01:00:17

the people who come into the home is another asset

01:00:27--> 01:00:30

if our friends are thinking like how easy

01:00:32--> 01:00:35

trying to create they're just

01:00:37--> 01:00:38

friends

01:00:40--> 01:00:41

then

01:00:45--> 01:00:46

because of

01:00:47--> 01:00:48

friends,

01:00:49--> 01:00:59

choose your friends well, because you will be raised on the Day of Judgment with your friends. So if this person you know you would like to raise

01:01:01--> 01:01:02

her

01:01:06--> 01:01:06

revenue

01:01:08--> 01:01:09

one time

01:01:11--> 01:01:14

but don't wait now you're ready to frame

01:01:17--> 01:01:18

this might seem a bit

01:01:20--> 01:01:20

unreasonable,

01:01:22--> 01:01:25

do you have to be social sociable.

01:01:27--> 01:01:31

You can be Have you been suffered the consequences.

01:01:33--> 01:01:34

The consequence,

01:01:36--> 01:01:42

what you're trying to do and creating that can be undermined just by one visit,

01:01:43--> 01:01:44

or a couple of visits

01:01:45--> 01:01:47

and whose homes your children go to visit.

01:01:52--> 01:01:54

If we were at the time of desirable

01:01:56--> 01:01:57

Don't worry.

01:01:59--> 01:02:17

No worries, because we're living in a society where everybody is committed to the same ideals. But when we're living in a society, where we are a minority, a very small minority, and we have to be very careful, we have to be vigilant

01:02:19--> 01:02:28

because there are so many forces introducing the family to other families that think likewise, here comes the problem.

01:02:31--> 01:02:34

I gave a lecture in Toronto

01:02:36--> 01:02:38

on the lives of gangsters and

01:02:42--> 01:02:44

the rise of gangsterism.

01:02:48--> 01:02:51

Now most people came thinking about

01:02:52--> 01:02:53

us

01:02:54--> 01:02:58

but instead I spoke about others

01:03:03--> 01:03:07

the don't call themselves game associations

01:03:10--> 01:03:11

don't use the term

01:03:12--> 01:03:17

but if you see how they function they are in fact games

01:03:19--> 01:03:21

their function functional games

01:03:23--> 01:03:35

they have rules out a leader you know you don't go away from the game you got to be comfortable abiding by the principle of the game and this game is an ethical game

01:03:42--> 01:03:43

all Moroccans

01:03:47--> 01:03:49

go to the masjid are praying over

01:03:51--> 01:03:51

and over

01:03:55--> 01:03:58

have a waiver we all invite

01:04:00--> 01:04:02

all your various social issues

01:04:06--> 01:04:17

yeah it's natural for the Eagles to be attracted and one of the around people who speak and share common cultures and thoughts

01:04:21--> 01:04:23

is the

01:04:27--> 01:04:29

where that turns into

01:04:32--> 01:04:37

and how they call the gadget live again. You're not allowed to

01:04:40--> 01:04:46

entertain or we see with the members of another day

01:04:51--> 01:04:52

maintains

01:04:55--> 01:04:56

how it shows up

01:04:57--> 01:04:59

in our times you

01:05:00--> 01:05:00

His

01:05:01--> 01:05:07

especially when it comes to issues of marriage is

01:05:09--> 01:05:14

the big one is when it comes out the ugly face of the gang comes out

01:05:17--> 01:05:22

our son or daughter wants to marry somebody from outside of the game No way

01:05:25--> 01:05:25

No

01:05:26--> 01:05:28

you cannot marry that person

01:05:30--> 01:05:34

you got to marry somebody who is a partner escaping

01:05:36--> 01:05:41

from our country from our town of our tribe

01:05:47--> 01:05:48

was

01:05:51--> 01:05:52

asked why

01:05:56--> 01:05:58

this is the day before

01:06:03--> 01:06:04

and this is because

01:06:10--> 01:06:11

we have

01:06:13--> 01:06:13

so

01:06:26--> 01:06:27

driving by

01:06:32--> 01:06:33

what about

01:06:41--> 01:06:41

mosques

01:06:46--> 01:06:47

what was the problem

01:07:00--> 01:07:03

Well, let me look at the board on the

01:07:04--> 01:07:04

board

01:07:16--> 01:07:17

you will find

01:07:21--> 01:07:23

two blocks down there is a

01:07:30--> 01:07:30

and

01:07:33--> 01:07:37

he will drive half an hour to go break

01:07:51--> 01:07:51

this is functional

01:07:57--> 01:08:02

when this mentality arose in the range of motion Muslims

01:08:04--> 01:08:06

we lost faith by this

01:08:08--> 01:08:11

rule save over 700 years

01:08:15--> 01:08:16

and

01:08:18--> 01:08:20

1520 years we lost

01:08:21--> 01:08:32

we lose every last Muslim was driven out of spirit ethnic cleansing on a scale on your previous or after

01:08:37--> 01:08:38

what was the

01:08:47--> 01:08:51

Isolate the non arrows or reserves

01:08:53--> 01:08:54

as

01:08:55--> 01:08:55

rats

01:09:11--> 01:09:11

So,

01:09:13--> 01:09:13

who am I

01:09:16--> 01:09:17

gang members

01:09:21--> 01:09:22

we want

01:09:24--> 01:09:25

to invite

01:09:30--> 01:09:32

those enemies over they go down to the US

01:09:33--> 01:09:42

there are some people who come and they pray resume in the masjid. These are the ones that you want to be your best friends

01:09:44--> 01:09:46

because you're invited in

01:09:51--> 01:09:55

there are ones that you should develop relationships with

01:09:58--> 01:09:59

who your children should

01:10:00--> 01:10:01

Crowne Plaza

01:10:03--> 01:10:05

this is the basis

01:10:07--> 01:10:11

this is how the household has to be managed

01:10:12--> 01:10:12

we

01:10:15--> 01:10:16

choose to rent

01:10:19--> 01:10:20

because though they might be

01:10:23--> 01:10:24

shaped by

01:10:27--> 01:10:30

social level that might seem nice good

01:10:36--> 01:10:38

undermining so much

01:10:51--> 01:10:51

I think in

01:10:53--> 01:10:54

order to

01:10:56--> 01:10:58

opportunities for

01:11:04--> 01:11:06

fun shopping requesting

01:11:10--> 01:11:11

mortgages

01:11:12--> 01:11:13

student loans

01:11:22--> 01:11:23

so, the Muslim

01:11:24--> 01:11:26

This is the riots

01:11:30--> 01:11:33

to establish to maintain

01:11:38--> 01:11:50

and really the mentality which guides us to want to do that should guide us to want to establish a Muslim community

01:11:52--> 01:11:53

because in the end

01:11:54--> 01:11:58

we cannot survive here if we don't

01:11:59--> 01:12:06

go beyond the ethnic issues and come together on the basis of

01:12:09--> 01:12:11

that has to be selfish.

01:12:13--> 01:12:14

That's the only way forward

01:12:18--> 01:12:23

that we built we work together on the basis of

01:12:27--> 01:12:28

we made the point

01:12:31--> 01:12:32

that from here on in

01:12:34--> 01:12:37

every time we have a social gallery

01:12:42--> 01:12:48

the first people we invite are those people in the front two lines

01:12:51--> 01:12:53

you give them personal invitations

01:12:54--> 01:12:55

wherever they are

01:12:58--> 01:12:59

after that

01:13:15--> 01:13:16

this

01:13:18--> 01:13:20

Islamic approach

01:13:24--> 01:13:29

should create an environment to help protect our children

01:13:37--> 01:13:39

because we are losing Canada

01:13:40--> 01:13:43

many people many young people

01:13:44--> 01:13:49

have spoken in Toronto you haven't seen it here yet.

01:13:52--> 01:13:55

Toronto young people will come to the master

01:13:58--> 01:14:00

just graduating way into university

01:14:10--> 01:14:14

how many other kids are in grade 12 class

01:14:23--> 01:14:24

how many of them

01:14:29--> 01:14:30

fortune

01:14:35--> 01:14:36

What happened to you this

01:14:40--> 01:14:41

morning, they

01:14:44--> 01:14:45

slid personality

01:14:47--> 01:14:48

views

01:14:52--> 01:14:54

sure there is a law

01:15:06--> 01:15:07

Parents

01:15:11--> 01:15:13

have an answer for every child

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you have 250,000

01:15:31--> 01:15:32

wells

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So, the only way

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that the community is going to be able to establish the malls also

01:15:53--> 01:15:55

is to be together

01:15:56--> 01:15:57

on the basis of

01:16:00--> 01:16:01

the unity of all which

01:16:04--> 01:16:04

is

01:16:11--> 01:16:13

that anyone who strays from

01:16:15--> 01:16:17

his line is straight sheet

01:16:18--> 01:16:20

devoured by the way

01:16:23--> 01:16:25

this is the only way forward

01:16:26--> 01:16:27

for

01:16:31--> 01:16:32

the basis of

01:16:35--> 01:16:35

green

01:16:37--> 01:16:42

Masjid lunch to be built bring it alive is

01:16:44--> 01:16:51

a temporary place which has been established a small town

01:16:52--> 01:16:53

how many people pray five

01:16:57--> 01:16:59

four or five

01:17:05--> 01:17:05

you know

01:17:10--> 01:17:11

why

01:17:20--> 01:17:23

not to mention the whys of

01:17:24--> 01:17:25

reading

01:17:30--> 01:17:31

we can get

01:17:33--> 01:17:37

four or five men to pray

01:17:40--> 01:17:41

that future

01:17:42--> 01:17:47

can we have what is the future where the

01:17:48--> 01:17:49

neglects

01:17:51--> 01:17:53

ation principles

01:17:56--> 01:17:58

we have to make it real

01:18:03--> 01:18:04

for us

01:18:06--> 01:18:08

we have some

01:18:11--> 01:18:11

rain

01:18:12--> 01:18:14

because that is the heart of

01:18:16--> 01:18:17

it is dead

01:18:23--> 01:18:23

so, as

01:18:27--> 01:18:28

to keep us

01:18:30--> 01:18:35

protected from the forces against

01:18:37--> 01:18:42

weather personal individual psychological

01:18:46--> 01:18:48

to bring the surplus together

01:18:50--> 01:18:51

for the sake of a loss

01:18:53--> 01:18:53

of

01:18:54--> 01:18:55

sacrifice together

01:18:58--> 01:18:59

carry the message

01:19:01--> 01:19:03

to the next generation of Muslims

01:19:04--> 01:19:07

born and raised in this

01:19:09--> 01:19:16

as well as the communist message to the models 300,000 Model

01:19:19--> 01:19:19

homes

01:19:21--> 01:19:22

because surely

01:19:24--> 01:19:26

that is a lot easier for

01:19:30--> 01:19:31

us all

01:19:36--> 01:19:37

the way around the world

01:19:41--> 01:19:44

and the land all of us to come here together

01:19:51--> 01:19:52

responsibility

01:19:54--> 01:19:54

this

01:19:57--> 01:19:57

carrier

01:19:59--> 01:19:59

to

01:20:00--> 01:20:01

People often