The Muslim Home
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The importance of finding a home for one's family and avoiding disagreements is emphasized in Muslim culture. Regular reading and understanding the Bible is crucial for a strong home, and guidelines and guidelines for the rest of the day are provided. The use of technology to improve social interaction is also emphasized, along with the importance of creating a meal for the family to celebrate the upcoming weekend. The segment ends with a brief advertisement for a book called "stedtle."AI Generated Transcript ©
This session
is focused on
the Muslim
establishment
maintainence of a most of all
the
environments that we spoke about as a six obligation
parents
which they are required to provide
for their children
and environment which is
the place where they will spend a large portion of their time
we said in the very beginning
that
only conscious Muslims are going to be able to establish
people who are conscious of what it is thing that they're most of all
is one
where
were you first get it you get a holy man to come and pray in the house
to house
your family
as I said,
Commonly, people think
when you get a new home in order to make it possible
you should get
a shift
from owning
and make
some cultures this is
basically
getting started
maybe you don't pray you are afraid.
But as long as
you know
then
a Muslim
on the walls of your home, pictures of
calligraphy
from the behind
oftentimes the calligraphy the same somebody
and
for most of us, that's basically as far as the most simple goals. Some things being on the wall
or on their shelf somewhere which has been taken down.
Rest of the year it stays in the shelf protecting all
as
well the reality is the forces that these practices have nothing to do with
the pictures we put up on the wall of the Kaaba,
the prayer matches in a corner with our audience that only reinforces in the minds of the novelist. Visit us worship the
neighbor they asked us why do you worship
with songs how to explain to them
because
the direction
is on the
second worship
and for sure this is not from the SUTA
for sure 100 to 10% Sure this is not
So, then if this doesn't make
if the husband the wife
who are
probably waiting longer
Lord
Lord
if they themselves are not
profitable students practicing
then you can have
to start from there
and practicing Muslim means as we said before
not just somebody who does
the external rituals
of
fasting is easy
who gains weight and
has the variation
so, these external practices
are not really connected with
consciousness of the law
we will be back those
who have not listened the last year about
Asians
mentioned to me you know the swearing guys do
you guys do
our manager
Oh, we see a midday spray afternoon friend
but
he's still Jesus
we came here on contract when we got married James
the provisions of the contract and told us if you want this ticket if you don't want to go out
he overworks us
so, no anger evils that are coming from the manager who they see grain regulating
what is the purpose of this prayer? What is the value what value does prayer out
prayer that man is doing really as
far as I was like prayer man
then we cannot create
only created with
Islam which wasn't inherited from our four parents.
Because it is impossible to inherit
you can inherit nationality
the parents
are Egyptians
once you get the marriage is
good inherit your wealth.
You can inherit the game.
So many things you can and
cannot be
why because Islam means submission to the will of the law
and that is something which
cannot be
cannot be added submission, submission is an individual
which each person has to do himself
or herself, nobody
each person has to accept all
the true God and worship
and Whose commandments
each individual has to make that decision
without that decision
without that
particular commitments
then we are
counterfeits
we are going through the motions
externally,
but internally there is a vacuum
spirit's
understanding
the most at home begins
when both members
or at least one of the members decides to submit their wills for law
this is an issue
and
from there
the relationship
what makes the Muslim hole is that
it is a hole which functions in accordance with the laws of Islam the Sharia
is home is governed by
a force today even saying this you know you can be able to live
he wants to go on his own why should he
needs my chalk to handle this
sort of wire something like this
is
implementing laws commandments in our day to day lives
meaning everything that we do in the home should be in accordance with what is pleasing to Allah
and we should be actively engaged in removing from our owners What is this
if we do that, we have implemented it to the degree that we are
we are not garments
to rule that somebody had with the job offer somebody else
so, what is required of us is that whatever it takes place in the home should be in accordance with was pleasing.
So,
we said in the previous lecture that that Muslim home is critical for the children that we seek to raise
it's critical to them without because the more they are in a greater
the likelihood of them growing up worship
is
So, we have two very low
our daily life
and take each and every appointment
and place it
under
guidance all.
So,
if you look at that
First and foremost, as
marriage is supposed to be
an environment of
it shouldn't be comforting
not a stressful environment in which the other than and why are
they there
this is not
this
is not
characteristic,
yes, there will be disagreements.
However,
those disagreements should be resolved not in the presence of children,
young people growing up
to grow up in a peaceful
abode of peace
as man and wife have issues, there is always
a wave of the ears the sight of the children
because the children as we said earlier learn from their parents, they imitate what they see their parents do they do.
So, though we might be telling them one thing,
if our actions tell them something else, as they say actions speak louder than words
they will follow what we do
because what we do is reality
it is very important
that I want to have
in the Muslim home the mother
should be an obedient wife
she shouldn't be outed her husband's face every minute
arguing about this and argue well this is why this and why not
he should see
this the girls are supposed to learn
that
I ideal woman
is an obedient wife
the ideal
Lebanon said
that the rights of the husband over his wife is that he be obeyed
Western civilized civilization
that said the man and the woman are equal
you know this idea is
pumped into the hands of people going out living in this society this sounds like you know male chauvinism
but,
it is necessary components for
a piece
because if
she has an opinion
and has the say the same as
then when they disagree on what basis do they resolve the disagreement
So, you have conflicts which are unresolvable which in the end only end up in divorce
that's why the rate of divorce is so
and we're catching up with
Muslims are catching up
Red is rising,
especially Muslims that are coming under Western influence, whether it's through the media or
radio force is increasing.
And this is one of the key
concepts of the obedient wife is
obedient wife, she doesn't live with a husband and she does, you know, that's like like a slave
Jasmine
proceeding
she is required to obey as long as these instructions don't go against
the instructions at all
there's no obedience due
to a lot of scriptures.
If it involves this obedience to the law, without the limit, it's not unlimited whenever you demand
this is displeasing to Allah
so
obedience is not unrestricted, unlimited
is obedience in what is
acceptable, permissible as he instructs
she is required
on the other side, he is required to provide
to provide for her to provide for the family.
So, it is not that she does and then she also has to provide rules. That is his responsibilities her responded, arrived at that she provided for
the responsibilities
she is not required to walk and work at all.
If she agrees to go and do so, to help look after the family, it is solid,
solid
you can say
you know you're working
you gotta keep working.
But I heard you already.
Now you have a few kids you want to quit working on oh
you can't make ends meet with other
means he has to take on another job and
she says I don't want to work anymore. I want to stay home and focus on
that is the example that the males and the
males should see, they should see a responsible father
who is the provider
and the protector of the whole they see obedient mother, they see a responsible father.
This is the
responsible father who at the same time is doing whatever is
avoiding what is.
So these two
components make the foundation of the Muslim
husband
who is providing as it should be
and the wife who is
obedience looking after.
So it is very important
Regardless of the circumstance
where this agreement takes place
that
the husband should never insult his wife in front of the children
but the worst case scenario is insulting her in front of
the children and
it's okay it's your wife consultors more nude outside is your job whatever
Oh, you are the master
it shouldn't happen anyway
so
as we said in the very beginning all disagreements should be worked out
in private between husband and wife
not
as they shouldn't be in agreement in terms of what goes on in the home
there should be an agreement
because children
quickly pick up
where dad doesn't quite agree with Mom Mom doesn't right agree with that particular issue then they will explore those differences
they know Dad's going to go to him
we're not
developing a slide
slide knows who to ask
even though he knows he shouldn't be doing it
but he knows mom's Okay. Easy.
Started way Wait
what's wrong?
Don't try to find ways this way.
What happens again
is that our children
may learn this from another perspective.
They see us wanting to do something
and every time we come to Islamic referee's
residence we see they see that asking can we do this and the sheriff says
well the mothership comes
in gives us the into the mind a chef who comes along and says
in some circumstance
that's what he was waiting for.
Noodle looking for instead of just sitting around the stick is wrong.
Don't get back to the finish and
know is looking to find some way
to find some way
the bottom line is that what is a lot of assets
these are assets about one what we view to the right
and not what we got approval for.
Because if we got approval for something and in our hearts we still deserved it wasn't right
we have to be very careful with the environment. We don't
send the children mixed messages.
will tell them you know this is wrong.
Here we are
One of the important components of the system
is the
we spoke about it earlier number one we put on the wall
yes
yes
yes
very fancy yeah and then the rest of the surah small letters again you read it
you pick a microphone you often see what's
out there for you to read and remember
it's out there
even hanging on the wall is going to bring good luck
we have no such things in
the other religions
another
just to clarify this
there are no offense
not even one single attendee
speaks about the virtues of gas
Yeah, I know you all heard
the famous saying
anything
and the heart of the Brian Yes
I know you also heard
radiosity for your dying
there's not one single authentic
is Revelation all
three but if you're reading and believing in desire
if you're religious for the death
your religion is the only source that you need
because we feel that the US has special narratives
the rest of the
it's all good.
So, the inside home and abroad is not the one on the wall nor that are on the shelves. So
where is
where is the
well
wherever he is surah Allah
Shavon says it
will be driven from the home for three days and nice.
JSON is the leading force behind the other side is the one feeding. Whispering suggesting beautifying?
So
resource doesn't mean really short, does not mean that we buy a tape
of the channel
There's no shortcut you're looking for shortcuts no this is a problem every time we find out something we try to find a
notion
the path to Paradise is one of struggle
I mean there are people out there selling shortcuts
out there and that's what attracts
a number of people
sharing all the
famous individual
us
he tells his followers
that if they
are true followers meaning they are married
and the Marine
in that philosophy
is supposed to be as they describe
like the dead body in the hands of a
relationship with this
is like the dead body in the hands
so, he says if you are a jury
when the time of death comes
the angel of death will not take your soul
I will be there to take your
angels
further
when one pair and the he'll come to you with the grace
you know Batman and Superman
this is a problem
this is a big problem
this is a big problem
this is Brian and the problem
is all know Batman Spider Man every other man but if you ask them about their gear they have no idea that you treat
well
last year
all
young people
know the figures heroes etc.
in the mass media.
But the real important figures article for us, we should know.
So when we had
our two angels
describe them as new black
angels will come to each and every one of us when we are
in the state of
your body burndown charts whatever you enter when you die into the state of the brain.
We're doing a physical location or in
the next time you're in the states
to angels
they seek us out and we'll ask questions
first question is
What is your religion? No, that was the first one that's wonderful. Okay
What is your religion? What's the third one?
Oh,
These are the key questions
social
and some people call it the snake
he claims that he will be there with you in the grave
whispering in your ear
When the moon came to hear us
when they asked what was your religion we didn't say
what the outcome was referred
to
it's sold as a cheap ticket to paradise and it's very interesting
because he only
designed for features
that many people will believe it is
incredible
and the promise has been said you will follow the ways of the equals before you
inch by inch foot by foot until they went into the hole of a lizard
lizard role you will follow them
and they asked me the question
you know back in the Middle Ages
with
used to give certificates they're called papal indulgences I
would say the bearer of this certificate has a place in paradise signed by someone so that the sound is sealed and you pay your money tificate Mashallah.
drove us to HELL
NO ONE
So, we have to
tackle issues
accordance
reading for means reading so
you read
you don't
you don't understand it.
You read the Arabic you read English
you want to follow the way
and don't talk about taking long or short
there's only one way
if you understand
the law, you don't have to be the translation but
the other day that you speak
only gives you about
70% 65% of
the other 35%
So it's not enough
good one
all the time. Once a one is reading
this is the minimum
This is the minimum at least
before you see my knife
in the hole, the boss said that we should be the three poles
on wall
without.
blowing our hands
So at least we resigned
and
last week
and of course, in the home we should be reading or reciting the Quran in our prayers.
So at least the first row, in fact, we're reading or is being read, if we don't live reading the warming selasa law should be established in your role
and the meaning of Abrahamic just as we said and so, we should understand.
So, to have the impact that is
similar similarly,
we are residing in sala, we should also know
as much as the software
and if we're able to establish that regular reading
with
understanding
we have
the lights
this is the basis of
ourselves
and
those who have been
positively
because the foundation and this is
what
we have
first of all
So,
how do we
make the Sona
no in the hole it means that we need to
read it in gatherings you know either is
for kids guanfacine
we read somewhere
or on Fridays on weekends Saturday, Sunday, at least some time is set aside where we do some reading from
So, the children become familiar with hearing the words
and the forest is heavy we should read them not just about
the read and the formatting. So, the same way that
we won
before you really take
all kinds of rituals that are associated with
no envisage the quality of
someone who can save the home on the shelf
you cannot turn your back on the bride
sitting in the master million
dollar lab from Caterpillar
You put the bride on the ground and
all of these women must work a job
when people lost contact with the real
then
they made up these other rituals which made them feel that they were giving the addicts students rights kisses
This is a high place
and of course if you get one of those pictures where
a building gets burned down and the only thing not worth it was
the externals because the externals are
easy to
easy to put in place
easy to go through the ritual just reading
it's easy
to read
and apply
this is what was missing
how many of us have that established
where's the
also part of the Muslim hole
is
that those
materials that people commonly read in
magazines books etc
These magazines and books should be magazines and books which are pleasing
or at least not displeasing.
I have a reason to allow for at least not this meeting for us we have books and magazines and novels which are displeasing to Allah we have underlined
we are so verted
So, we have to remove from our owners those things
is not easy
and of course
the biggest
danger to the Muslim
is the TV
television
television is like a two edged sword
but on the other hand
the majority of what is on television is evil
and as a general principle in Islamic law when the evil far outweighs the good what happens
unless
unless there is a real
or unless you have controls
you have a way to lock the channels and the only things that come on those channels are PCB
other television channels
gonna wait to do that okay
and most of the time not able to
monitor
devastating
devastating
the simplest things that you think are harmless tools.
I do know
they show
that in the cartoons is from my time
my time when I was
popular practice was the Road Runner. Right he
still around
So in this cartoon
there is a bird
and he's always being chased by this fox
JC
outside
again
anyway
time and time again
the
wolf
and some have
committed the acts of violence against
fossils
they show that in comparison
to a an average Schwarzenegger movie is shorter
Terminator
The Terminator
which we think this is a violent movie Terminator one
they showed that
the amount of violence permitted, it's far exceeded that on average.
So what we think, you know, parental guidance, we're protecting them from shorts,
but
we're exposing them to the roadmap
very dangerous
because they don't have real moral guidance. They're just about
fun.
What is fun, fun, bad.
No moral guidelines.
So
if we leave
the EU
to babysit our children
don't be surprised
when our kids
is doing foolish
things you can imagine.
So the television has to be
carefully monitored, if not removed, you have a whole bunch of non Muslims in the US
who have taken television.
No television.
Not specially religious people.
Religious people also
religious but they just know that the harm from it far outweighs that. So they removed it. And they've shown that families were in there removed it that the children education
are superior.
They will read books.
You can read a book and then watch it on TV.
So
it's a huge huge benefit which comes from just turning off.
Okay, you tried to go on limited amounts of time for what is you know, National Geographic and the National Geographic
even that was the thing National Geographic
is really
too much. So
we do have
that we have control over what is in there.
What is feeding our children for our children are gaining information from
and also
the people who come into the home is another asset
if our friends are thinking like how easy
trying to create they're just
friends
then
because of
friends,
choose your friends well, because you will be raised on the Day of Judgment with your friends. So if this person you know you would like to raise
her
revenue
one time
but don't wait now you're ready to frame
this might seem a bit
unreasonable,
do you have to be social sociable.
You can be Have you been suffered the consequences.
The consequence,
what you're trying to do and creating that can be undermined just by one visit,
or a couple of visits
and whose homes your children go to visit.
If we were at the time of desirable
Don't worry.
No worries, because we're living in a society where everybody is committed to the same ideals. But when we're living in a society, where we are a minority, a very small minority, and we have to be very careful, we have to be vigilant
because there are so many forces introducing the family to other families that think likewise, here comes the problem.
I gave a lecture in Toronto
on the lives of gangsters and
the rise of gangsterism.
Now most people came thinking about
us
but instead I spoke about others
the don't call themselves game associations
don't use the term
but if you see how they function they are in fact games
their function functional games
they have rules out a leader you know you don't go away from the game you got to be comfortable abiding by the principle of the game and this game is an ethical game
all Moroccans
go to the masjid are praying over
and over
have a waiver we all invite
all your various social issues
yeah it's natural for the Eagles to be attracted and one of the around people who speak and share common cultures and thoughts
is the
where that turns into
and how they call the gadget live again. You're not allowed to
entertain or we see with the members of another day
maintains
how it shows up
in our times you
His
especially when it comes to issues of marriage is
the big one is when it comes out the ugly face of the gang comes out
our son or daughter wants to marry somebody from outside of the game No way
No
you cannot marry that person
you got to marry somebody who is a partner escaping
from our country from our town of our tribe
was
asked why
this is the day before
and this is because
we have
so
driving by
what about
mosques
what was the problem
Well, let me look at the board on the
board
you will find
two blocks down there is a
and
he will drive half an hour to go break
this is functional
when this mentality arose in the range of motion Muslims
we lost faith by this
rule save over 700 years
and
1520 years we lost
we lose every last Muslim was driven out of spirit ethnic cleansing on a scale on your previous or after
what was the
Isolate the non arrows or reserves
as
rats
So,
who am I
gang members
we want
to invite
those enemies over they go down to the US
there are some people who come and they pray resume in the masjid. These are the ones that you want to be your best friends
because you're invited in
there are ones that you should develop relationships with
who your children should
Crowne Plaza
this is the basis
this is how the household has to be managed
we
choose to rent
because though they might be
shaped by
social level that might seem nice good
undermining so much
I think in
order to
opportunities for
fun shopping requesting
mortgages
student loans
so, the Muslim
This is the riots
to establish to maintain
and really the mentality which guides us to want to do that should guide us to want to establish a Muslim community
because in the end
we cannot survive here if we don't
go beyond the ethnic issues and come together on the basis of
that has to be selfish.
That's the only way forward
that we built we work together on the basis of
we made the point
that from here on in
every time we have a social gallery
the first people we invite are those people in the front two lines
you give them personal invitations
wherever they are
after that
this
Islamic approach
should create an environment to help protect our children
because we are losing Canada
many people many young people
have spoken in Toronto you haven't seen it here yet.
Toronto young people will come to the master
just graduating way into university
how many other kids are in grade 12 class
how many of them
fortune
What happened to you this
morning, they
slid personality
views
sure there is a law
Parents
have an answer for every child
you have 250,000
wells
So, the only way
that the community is going to be able to establish the malls also
is to be together
on the basis of
the unity of all which
is
that anyone who strays from
his line is straight sheet
devoured by the way
this is the only way forward
for
the basis of
green
Masjid lunch to be built bring it alive is
a temporary place which has been established a small town
how many people pray five
four or five
you know
why
not to mention the whys of
reading
we can get
four or five men to pray
that future
can we have what is the future where the
neglects
ation principles
we have to make it real
for us
we have some
rain
because that is the heart of
it is dead
so, as
to keep us
protected from the forces against
weather personal individual psychological
to bring the surplus together
for the sake of a loss
of
sacrifice together
carry the message
to the next generation of Muslims
born and raised in this
as well as the communist message to the models 300,000 Model
homes
because surely
that is a lot easier for
us all
the way around the world
and the land all of us to come here together
responsibility
this
carrier
to
People often