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The importance of Islam is discussed, including the end of disrespectful comments and fasting. The Hadith statement that individuals cannot sit on any grave for their health is discussed, as well as the use of plastering graves and building over them. The importance of understanding Islam and giving gifts and priority to others is emphasized, as well as the expiration of the period of mourning after a death and the importance of maintaining peace in Islam. The speakers emphasize the need for individuals to be mindful of their actions and avoid sexual references.

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			Bismillah R Rahman r Rahim al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil alameen wa Salatu was Salam ala Sayyidina
Muhammad wa ala le he was happy he h main Assalamu alaykum warahmatullahi wabarakatu.
		
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			All praises to to Allah May the peace and blessings of Allah be upon our beloved prophet muhammad
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and upon all those who follow his way who follow His guidance, his
sooner his creed, until the last day.
		
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			Today inshallah to Allah we are continuing on as we approach the end of the book of prohibitions by
a man who never wear a hammer hula hoop to Allah, whereby he dedicated many chapters, a number of
pages, about so many prohibitions in Islam that many Muslims should take heed of, and should be
aware of, so that they are not transgressing the limits that Allah Subhana with Allah has set either
through the Quran or through the Sunnah of Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.
		
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			In our last lesson, we looked at the Hadith, whereby the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he
said, either Okay, Mata Salatu Fela salata lol maktabah that once the farmer once they have karma
for the prayer is made, then there should be no other prayer taking place except for the pray with
the mm. We did however, talk about if you have already commenced a prayer and you are beyond the
first Raka you are beyond the record of the first protocol, continue your Salah.
		
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			Continue your Salah, and then join the Imam. However, if you are joining the Imam, if you are you
have convinced your son that prayer, you're nothing to pray. And then the Imam has commenced and you
haven't completed Erica, then give you a test limb. Leave the salah and join the Imam based on this
Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam who said when the Dharma is called no prayer
should be performed except for the obligatory prayer. So it's very, very important that you join the
gemera that you joined the gym era when you walk into the masjid even though you haven't prayed to
hit the masjid. So even though you haven't prayed to here to the masjid,
		
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			the greeting of the mercy of the tour occurred then you still must join the Gema if there is a Jama
in place. Now the next chapter that mmm no Rahim Allahu taala. Included in this book is the
abomination of selecting Friday for fasting. Friday for fasting. Here we have the Hadith that is
collected by
		
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			Sahih Muslim, the hadith of Abu huraira about the Allahu anhu Allah, Allah messenger sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam he said do not choose the Friday night among all other nights for standing in 200
pray and do not choose Friday among all other days for sown for fasting except that one you have
accustomed to. So therefore
		
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			when it comes to jhamora later to the Juma, so Thursday night or Friday, Eve
		
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			or the eve of Friday, okay, then one should not dedicate that day for 200.
		
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			Likewise, we find some people they want to get married on the eve of Friday. And there is no
specific Hadith that encourages getting married on the eve of Friday. Likewise, Friday fasting on
Friday by itself without coupling it with either Thursday or Saturday is not acceptable. And here we
have also the hadith of Abu huraira radi Allahu Allahu Allah, that we find in Bihari, and that we
find in Sahih Muslim, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he said laya Suman, hadoken, Jamar
Giamatti, Illa, Yeoman tabla who are bad, he said, none of you should observe fast on Friday except
that he should observe fast either one day before it or one day after it. So what we learned from
		
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			this hadith is that, as Muslims we are not allowed to single out our weekly, our weekly weekend or
which is Juma for the Muslims. The day that we are required to go to Salah to geomancer to offer the
congregational prayer, we shouldn't single out that day.
		
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			For fasting if we do want to fast Friday, we must have fasted Thursday or there needs to be an
intention to fast The following day, as we will see in the other narrations. Now here we have
another Hadith. Mohammed even at the end of the Allahu anhu. He said I asked jabber Ravi Allah one
who did Allah's Messenger so alone while he was selling prohibit fasting on Friday? And he said yes.
And the Hadith is found in Bukhari and Muslim. Now also, Julia binte, and Harris, radi Allahu unha.
She's a woman what meaning the wife, the mother of the believers, meaning that she is the wife of
the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
		
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			she visited and she, she allows messages Hello, Selim II visited her on a Friday, and she was
observing the fast and the professor while he was so let me set that up fast yesterday. And she said
to him, No, he said to her, do you intend on fasting tomorrow, meaning Saturday, and she said to him
No. And so, he saw along while he was selling he said to in that case, give up your fast today give
it up. So the Hadeeth is found in Buhari. So therefore, as I have said earlier, one should not be
fasting on Friday by itself without either Thursday or Saturday. The next chapter is prohibition of
extending fast beyond one day. Now this is what's known in Islam as Elvis on Elvis on a continuous
		
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			fast whereby you will fast for example, and not only until Muslims of the same day, but until the
mass * of the second or the third day. This is quote we find now we have a Hadith, Hadith,
whatever the Allahu anhu about that is found in Bukhari, and it's found in Sahih, Muslim, the
Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he says here and I'd be willing to try it should also be Allah,
one whom Allah Allah be pleased with them both. And then nebia sallallahu alayhi wa sallam nanda and
we saw Naha Anil we saw the prophet SAW Selim prohibited observing continuous, voluntary fast beyond
one day, another Hadith, the hadith of Ibn Arabi Allahu anhu man that the prophet SAW Selim
		
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			prohibited he prohibited observing continuous fast beyond one day. So the Sahaba they said, but you
do it. And he said, I'm not like you I'm given to eat and to drink from Allah azza wa jal. And have
you found them because a Muslim said the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam from his Casa is from
his special characteristics and a speciality that was given to him is that he would observe Ellucian
he would at times observe Ellucian fasting beyond one day.
		
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			So
		
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			through this hadith we learn that in certain matters, the prophet SAW Selim had some specific
injunctions, he is specific to him, which were obligatory for him, but not for his own. So he had
these special distinctions and from amongst these things was Psalm Ellucian.
		
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			Where he would find several days without actually eating or drinking, since Allah subhanaw taala had
granted him special power and patience, he could observe fasting continuously.
		
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			And the followers of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam are not given this blessing. So it is
something that is specific to him. And he actually said, I am not like you. I am not like you. Eight
does not mean that I'm not a I'm not a human being like you. Of course he is the processor. let me
acknowledge that he is Abdullah. He
		
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			is a messenger of a light base, and is a messenger of Allah first and foremost, and he is Abdullah.
He is the servant of Allah azza wa jal, he's a human being he eats, he drinks, he goes to sleep, he
gets married.
		
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			So he does not have any divine attributes.
		
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			So we come back and he says, I am not like you. That doesn't mean as I said, that I'm not a human
being or not a man like you because such an interpretation goes against a categorical statement of
the poor and to the effect that Allah subhanho wa Taala he says in the poor and that was the prophet
SAW Selim said in social care have in the manner bash our own myths lucam and a bash our own myth to
come, I am a Bashar. Bashar is human being. I'm in the shadow Mr. Kuhn, you have Ilia say he's
Bashar that he has way. So it makes him Abdullah. This is the passion aspect. And the Y aspect is
the prophethood that he's a Abdullah water suli. And that's why when Muslims give their Shahada
		
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			The declaration of faith I say that in the in the law or eyeshadow and La ilaha illallah wa shadow
Anna Mohammedan had to do who was Sulu Abu he says add and his Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi
wasallam.
		
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			So, what the statement Jani I am not like you really means is you do not possess that special power
which Allah subhanho wa Taala has granted me
		
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			the next chapter the prohibition of sitting on graves. Okay the Arabic word for grave is copper
father and the plural is COBOL COBOL
		
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			we have the Hadith
		
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			we have the hadith of Abu huraira
		
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			Allah's Messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he said it is much better for one of you to sit on a
live call. He said
		
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			learn learn how to kumala jamara alive co you know a heat bead fire bead
		
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			for the Harry Potter Harry Potter, Thea who Fatah Hello saw ella jld here highroller hoomin, an
ageless Allah. He said that to sit on a live call which will burn his clothes and get to his skin
then then to sit on a grave it's better to sit on the left column than to sit on the grave. Now some
of the earlier met they gave some some Tafseer or interpretation of this hadith. And one had the one
some scholars basically in light of the
		
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			the wording of this hadith he is not allowed periodically, that's it period, categorically
prohibited to sit on to sit on graves to sit on kobudo
		
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			even harder and hate me and others. However, they regarded this activity only macro, it's
undesirable,
		
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			and maintain that the warning contained in the Hadith is for those people who sit on them for the
sake of urinating or defecating. That's what the intended meaning is. But the what the safer option
is to follow the the basic wording of the Hadith that we don't have anything unless we have another
Hadith to suggest otherwise. And then we can consolidate between the two Hadith will love what Allah
Allah Allah knows best. The next chapter is the prohibition of plastering and building over the
graves. So you know plastering graves, making them into structures. We have a Hadith, Hadith,
Jabberwocky Allahu Allahu Akbar that we find in Sahih Muslim. Here we have a last messenger
		
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			sallallahu alayhi wa sallam forbidding that the graves should be plastered, or made into permanent
structures used as sitting places for the people or building over them. So what we learn from this
hadith is that it's not allowed to construct permanent graves, because this is this is step zero.
This is extravagance, this is extravagance, especially that there will not benefit the deceased no
matter how beautiful the grave is, it's not going to benefit its occupier. What benefits that
occupier is his arm and his actions that he did in this dunya we took with him and that's the only
thing that will really benefit us in the grave is our actions not our wealth. You know, some so many
		
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			people like you know, there's been so many attempts to put so many luxuries inside the grave just in
case you wake up and you know, you've got at least
		
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			you know a television well I saw I saw well I sorted massive grave once they had a bit of a full
bedroom and the television and a fridge and it's just in case he wakes up
		
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			so
		
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			11 was done. So yes, they don't they don't really benefit the deceased. It is also Yanni when you
start to build these graves, some people that are ignorant they might think hey, out of respect this
looks like a really you know, divine in like a really you know out there grave and
		
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			maybe we have to worship this person maybe can lead to shift people think that this person is a very
is a saint is somebody that should be you know,
		
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			maybe worship, but we know that of course there's no such thing as grave worship, this is a form of
shit. This is not allowed. This is from the debate of Islam.
		
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			So, likewise, you know, people construct constructing domes over the graves. This is all not allowed
in Islam. Okay, it should be just a hand spent.
		
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			It should be you know,
		
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			no, just just a marking just to acknowledge that there is a grave there so people don't sit on that
people don't walk on it. You know, that's about it.
		
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			But as what for what people do with these fancy, you know, fancy graves 11 Mustang the next the next
chapter that inshallah huhtala is that
		
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			that is to do with Hadoop. Now Hadoop is the plural of head of the Islamic punishments for certain
crimes. So, Islam has set certain punishments for certain crimes, these punishments are known as
Hadoop. So, the head for the one who drinks alcohol, the head for the one who commits adultery or
fornication, the head of one who steals for example is to have his hand chopped off the head for the
one who
		
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			you know, commits a certain wrong that the Quran and the Sunnah have stipulated as the head the
punishment okay. So, here we have
		
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			a chapter which is the undesirability of intercession in Hadoop. So, where there is a head where
there is a a prescribed punishment by Allah azza wa jal for a certain crime then there should be no
intervention there should be no intercession okay. Unless in certain cases whereby for example, in
the case of where somebody has killed
		
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			somebody else, premeditated murder, then the family of the murdered may have the option okay for for
them to say we don't we want certain compensation which is called D blood money or they can they
might not do that and he may be executed. Okay. So, the undesirability of intercession in produce
now here we have an idea from the Quran from sort of the nor verse number two Allah Subhana Allah He
says as near towards any federally do quillaja he didn't mean whom me it was well
		
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			be Hema veteran Fie de la in kuntum Minami la Hey, while y'all May,
		
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			Allah subhanaw taala says, the woman and the man guilty of illegal sexual * flug each of
them with 100 stripes, let not pity you with hold you in their case, in a punishment prescribed by
Allah, if you believe in Allah and the Last Day, if you believe in Allah and the Last Day
		
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			so this is an example of a head of a prescribed punishment mentioned in the Quran with regards to a
Zani a male fornicator okay. And a female fornicator which is 100 lashes 100 lashes.
		
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			Now, here we have a hadith to support this chapter, the hadith of Sharia law one.
		
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			The Quraysh were anxious about a woman from bamboo Muslim ban on Muslim is a tribe
		
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			and who had she had committed a theft? And she asked, who will speak to Allah messenger salallahu
alayhi wa sallam
		
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			who will speak to us Mrs. Assad Tell me about about her. Then they said no one will be bold enough
to do so except for Osama bin Zayed Zaid who was the companion who was deeply loved by Allah's mercy
just for the love while he was selling. So now this woman has committed a crime. She has stolen she
has been caught out. The prophet SAW Selim knows of her situation, and she's about to receive the
punishment the head of having her hand chopped off.
		
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			So now people are looking for, you know, connections, who's connected with the prophet SAW Selim,
who's going to be able to impact the province of Salem and try and Yani intercede on behalf of this
woman, so her hand can be saved.
		
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			So then, they said they recommended Osama Osama bin Zayed by the loved one.
		
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			So semiregular one who came to the prophet SAW Salem and he spoke to him and the Prophet sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam, he became angry. He became angry that somebody is interceding about I had about a
punishment prescribed but Allah azza wa jal in his book.
		
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			So what did the prophet SAW Selim said, he said, Are you interceding? He said attached foul,
attached for ofI had The Mikado delay Tyler interceding regarding one of the punishments prescribed
by Eliza gel. So nakoma
		
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			from McCall, when he got up and he said he made a sermon
		
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			Because of this, he said in a helical Latina kubla Khan and noun can either serve coffee him or
sharifa, the Roku. He said, What destroyed the people before you was just that when a person of high
rank among them committed a theft, they sped him.
		
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			And then he said, Well, either Soraka Fie him alive a como la he had, but when a poor person, when a
poor person was afflicted with the prescribed punishment, okay, they actually prescribed the
punishment for him. So if he had a status in the community, if you had a high rank, if he was well
known, came from a noble lineage or family. You know, they said, let him go hard on his comes from a
good family. But if he was from a poor family, not very well known, they would actually give him the
prescribed punishment. You see the injustice, and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam. And he
goes on in this sermon, and he says,
		
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			and he says, we're a Mullah. We're a Mullah Lo, NFL pinata been termed Mohammed in skyrocket. Lakota
to the other hand, I swear by Allah, that if Fatima, the daughter of Mohammed, in other words, if my
own daughter stole, I would do the job, I will cut off her hand in an hour and get somebody else to
cut her hand. I personally would take Yanni take the action.
		
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			This is the justice of the prophets, Allah Nelson. Islam is the Dean of justice and fairness. And
its method out to all people, Arab, non Arab, Muslim, non Muslim, everybody deserves to be treated
with justice, and fairness.
		
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			And this hadith is found in Bihari, and it is found as a Muslim. So we learned a number of things
from this Hadith, we learnt about the hood, we learnt about the head, and that is the punishment
fixed by the Sharia, and which nobody, nobody has the authority to increase or decrease. If it's the
head, and the person is convicted of a crime, punishable, punishable by a head found in the court.
And the sooner then nobody should come and say, can we increase it? Or can we decrease it
		
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			just as in the case of the cutting off of the hand, as a punishment for the thief and the punishment
of adultery, whether it be adultery, in the case of in this case, stoning. And in the end, in the
case of fornication, which is to be flogged, or whipped.
		
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			Also, like Likewise, the punishment for drinking alcohol in a Muslim country is how many whips
		
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			4040 whips, okay, 40 times.
		
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			Now,
		
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			also we learn
		
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			that nobody has the right to intercede or make any recommendations in this matter. There's no
distinction male or female. You know, as we said, we learn from this Hadith,
		
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			or which tribe you come from, what's your nationality? What's your status, that nobody is exempted
from the head. And we also must learn a lesson from the history of past nations so that we can save
ourselves from such misdeeds, which caused them to be ruined as opposed to selling he spoke about
the people before him and how they would let go of the one who came from
		
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			a prominent
		
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			lineage and the one who was given the prescribed punishment if they were from
		
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			somebody that wasn't very well known.
		
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			Okay.
		
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			We move on to the next chapter inshallah, to Allah which is the prohibition of reviling or sorry,
the prohibition of relieving nature on the paths relieving nature. Yeah. And he answering the call
of nature, in the pathways of people. Okay, in the, in the pathways of people. So Pamela, recently,
recently, I heard on radio, how
		
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			there was some work for a telephone company, I worked for a telephone company, who would come to,
		
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			to do a service at somebody's home would knock on the door, nobody was home. If nobody answered the
door, and he needed to relieve himself, he would relieve himself at their doorstep.
		
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			Right. Let's see what Islam has to say about this. Any any doorstep is even worse than the pathway
that Islam teaches us to be considerate of others. Not about being selfish stem is very much against
about being selfish. It's about being selfless and thinking about others.
		
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			So
		
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			we have
		
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			An area from the Quran from sutil Azad, verse 58, Allah subhanaw taala says well as in a zoo and
Alma Nina, what it means to be highly accessible for Katya tamela, Bhutan and wasteman Marina, that
and those who annoy believing men and women undeservedly. They bear on themselves the crime of
slander and plain sin, and we know that the crime of slander.
		
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			We have the hadith of Abu huraira Allahu Allahu Akbar founder Sahih Muslim, the Prophet sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam, he said it taco. Allah He named it the cola in and he said, avoid the two habits
which provoke cursing. There are two things that you should fear Allah with regards to those two
things. They usually provoke people to curse. In other words, to curse the practitioners of these
two things.
		
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			So the Sahaba they said, they said woman Nyan. What are these?
		
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			What are these two things that provoke cursing, and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he
said, a levy yet the caleffi tariqa ness are fearfully him.
		
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			He said it is relieving on the
		
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			thoroughfares or on the roads, or under the shades where people take shelter and wrist. So
		
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			there, these are the places so basically relieving yourself, for example, on a pathway or a flight
of steps where people walk, people have to walk, or where people normally sit under a tree for a
picnic, or for some shelter. You know, people usually sit there don't relieve yourself there. If you
have to do your business and you're out and about in public and there's no public toilet.
		
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			And there's and you know, you have to do what you have to do. Okay, fair enough, but be considerate
of where you're going to do your business.
		
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			This is from the teachings of Islam hamdu Lillahi Rabbil alameen, that Islam is a holistic faith
that takes into consideration that takes into consideration other people, not just thinking about
yourself, and being Yanni Subhanallah as if the world revolves around you.
		
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			In the next chapter, we have the prohibition of urinating into stagnant water
		
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			into stagnant water still water. Here we have the hadith of jabber, Ravi Allah one who Allah
messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he forbade urinating into stagnant water, now have a new
Bell, and you barely feel Meraki. So stagnant water is water that's not flowing. If you come across
a pond, if you come across a tank, and the water is not flowing, there's no movement in that water,
you're not allowed to urinate in it because there are going to be, it's going to spoil that water,
unlike water that's flowing and moving, and it's constantly being renewed. Okay, that animals and
people might be using.
		
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			So again, look at how vast and how comprehensive, the deen of Islam is. That it's not just about
your relationship with Allah. But it's also about your relationship with people, your relationship
with animals, your relationship with nature.
		
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			And this is why it's so important to have this knowledge so that you are not oppressing yourself,
and not you and you are not oppressing others. The next Hadeeth or the next chapter is the
prohibition of giving preference to children over one another in giving gifts etc. You know,
sometimes some parents, what they do is they might give a gift to this child and give a smaller gift
to another child or not even give another child altogether. This is against the Islamic teachings.
We have to be fair with all of our children, if you give to this one you give to that one. Okay, and
here we have the hadith of a normal woman but she wrote the Allah one woman
		
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			who narrates my father took me to Allah, His Messenger. So Allah while he was Selim, and said to
him, I have gifted one of my slaves to this son of mine, he had slaves. I've given him a slave.
		
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			So the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, Have you given such gift to every son of yours? You
gave this one, but did you give to the others?
		
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			And so he said, No, there was a sell him said, Take this, take this gift back. Take this gift back.
Another narration is a last message I sent him he said, Be mindful of your obligation to Allah and
do justice in respect of your children. My father came back and revoke his gift to pack his gift.
		
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			So again,
		
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			In every matter, one should consult the Ennis upon law, you should always consult the element. If
you're not sure, seek the guidance and the
		
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			instruction of scholars of Islam, of chefs of imams of very reputable
		
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			teachers who fear Allah subhanahu wa Island
		
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			and parents, you must do with your children with justice and with equity. This Hadith is also
advanced by those earlier met in support of the contention that if a person who wants to distribute
his property among his children during his lifetime, he should not make any discrimination among his
male and female children and should give an equal share to all of them. So, during your lifetime,
you must give males and females equally but after your death, your your, your your wealth should be
distributed in accordance with the inheritance laws, as stipulated in the Quran, and the Sunnah of
Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wasallam. The next chapter is the prohibition of mourning beyond
		
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			three days for women mourning, when a person dies, you are allowed to mourn for them for three days,
three days and not beyond. In other words, you know, if you want to be stay at home, not go to work.
		
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			You know, you want to just you need some time out for yourself just to to weep to cry to be
		
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			to just absorb what's happened to your loved one. Islam gives you that right? Islam gives each and
every one of us three days, three days and no more, except in the case of a wife, that is allowed,
how many days?
		
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			Anybody
		
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			four months and 10 days, four months and 10 days. In the case of a wife mourning over her husband.
Her husband, her husband has died. She's allowed and she heard her before she can actually even get
remarried is four months and 10 days.
		
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			Narrated Zainab bint Abu Salah Marathi Allah one her she said I went to Habiba are the loved one had
the wife of Alice messages are silent when her father, Abu sufian even had died. Habiba sent for a
yellow colored perfume or something else like it and she applied it to a slave girl and then rubbed
it on her own cheeks and said by Allah, I have no need for perfume. I heard Allah messenger
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam saying from the pulpit from the member. It is not permissible for a
woman who believes in Allah and the Last Day to mourn for for the dead beyond three days except for
the death of her husband, in which case, the period of mourning is of four months and 10 days.
		
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			Zeynep said I then visited Zainab,
		
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			the daughter of the loved one her when her brother died, she sent for perfume and applied it and
then said beware by Allah. I don't feel any need of perfume. But I heard Allah's Messenger saw Selim
saying from the pulpit, it is not permissible for a woman who believes in Allah and the Last Day to
mourn the dead beyond three days, except in the case of a husband, for whom the period is four
months and 10 days and the Hadith is found in Bukhari and Muslim.
		
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			The next chapter is the prohibition of malpractice malpractices in commerce. So in your financial
dealings in your financial dealings. It's an interesting hadiths in this chapter.
		
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			We begin in shallow Tyler one of the chapters in one of the Hadith is hadith of Abu huraira Allahu
wa. Allah's Messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he forbade that a man in the city should be the
commission agent of a man from the desert and prohibited the practice of nefesh. Now a nudge is
offering a high price for something in order to alua another customer who is interested in the thing
you know how we say for example, in auctions, there's they call them what dummy bidders dummy
bidding is haraam. So whereby you will have a dummy data bidding for bidding for a an object offer a
thing because you know that there is somebody else in the audience who's interested in it, and you
		
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			will now and there's an agreement normally between the seller and this person Hey,
		
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			You keep on bidding when you see somebody else is interested to bring to inflate the price, and he
will also inflate and then we'll make the price then you back off and they'll make the price fall on
him. This is not just this is haram, that meaning is haram.
		
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			This might also be applicable in another context other than auctions, so not specific to auctions.
		
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			So he said, the prophet SAW Selim, he prohibited the practice of Niger.
		
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			Okay. And that a man should make another offer, or should make an offer? Well, the offer of his
brother is pending. So again, let's say you know, that somebody has entered into a, into a, into an
agreement to buy, for example, a car, you know, that your Muslim brother, a brother in Islam, from
another mother, okay, has entered into an agreement with somebody to buy the car. So I'm interested
in the car.
		
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			And there's, you know, that there is negotiation taking place, and then you come in, and you say,
hey, I want to buy this car, I'm prepared to offer you Yani enough. For example, He was, let's say
that he had it for sale for $5,000.
		
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			Okay, I'm prepared to offer you $6,000. But you knew that there's a there's a negotiation that is
pending, that's Haram, you can't come in, you know, he can't just come in and do that to your Muslim
brother. Because what's that going to do now, it's going to create animosity and hatred between
Muslims. And Islam is all about maintaining that harmony, maintaining that peace between one another
to be able to live harmoniously with one another.
		
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			So, and that a man should make an offer while the offer of his brother is pending, or that he should
make a proposal of marriage while that of his brother is pending, again, you know, that somebody has
asked for the hand of a sister from another mister. Okay. You know that there is negotiations there.
And then you come and ask for this woman's hand.
		
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			And there hasn't been any clear sign that she has refused him or the family have has refused have
refused him. That's not acceptable to come in as well.
		
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			And Islamic
		
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			or that a woman should try that a sister of hers might be divorced, so that she might take her
place. All of this is not allowed in Islam.
		
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			The next Hadith in Amara the Allahu anhu, ma
		
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			he innovated Allah's Messenger sauce lm is saying a person should not enter into a transaction with
his Muslim brother.
		
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			Or or that when his Muslim brother has already negotiated nor should he make a proposal of marriage
when that of his brother is pending, except with the permission of the latter. Unless you have
permission from the other brother. He says Look, I don't really want to go ahead with this. You can
go for it.
		
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			We have another Hadith Allah's Messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said a min he says min min at
the believer is the brother of another
		
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			of another brother of another min. fella. Meaning
		
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			that it is not permissible for a man to make an offer while the offer of his of his brother is
pending.
		
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			Well, yes, Toba Allah. He had.
		
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			Yes. He said, No. Should he make a proposal of marriage while that of his brother is pending until
he wait until he withdraws his proposal?
		
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			Again, all of this so that
		
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			there can be a maintenance of you know of harmony between between the brothers and sisters of Islam.
		
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			Another another chapter here prohibition of squandering wealth.
		
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			And here the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he said,
		
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			in the Lucha de la, de la comme cela son that he said, Verily, Allah, he likes three things for you.
		
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			Well, he said, Why Accra? hula Kwanzaa lesson, and he disapproved the three things.
		
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			And then he mentioned them. He said, he likes that you should worship Him alone, not to associate
anything with him in worship, and to hold fast to the rope of Allah and not to be divided among
yourselves and he disapproves for you. Irrelevant talk, persistent questioning and the squander
		
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			of wealth and the squandering of wealth.
		
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			So again,
		
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			Islam
		
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			does not allow for these matters
		
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			from amongst the Hadees that mmm no we included is what should be said at the end of the salad. Here
we have the Hadith, whereby the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam at the end of the Salat can
afford to feed Aubrey Coulee salette. In October when the Prophet Allah Musa finishes Salah.
		
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			Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah mentor salam, WA Mika salon de Baraka, aka the jela column, and then he
would say la ilaha illallah wa hula Sheree Kela
		
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			loco moco Allahu Al Hamdulillah. Who Allah,
		
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			Allah, Allah Manya Lima update while a mafia, Lima magnate William Pharaoh, they'll just the mean
cultured.
		
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			And the reason why he mentioned this, here, if we translated it means none has the right to be
worshipped but Allah, the One who has no partner, he is the sovereignty, his is the sovereignty and
he's is the praise and he is able to do everything, our law, nobody can withhold what you give, and
nobody can give what you withhold Aloha, melomania, Lima, RP, mafia, Lima monart
		
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			and the high status of a person is of no avail against your will. So again, we know that everything
comes from Allah subhanahu wa taala and we should be mindful of that at all times.
		
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			inshallah huhtala we will continue with
		
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			the remaining hadiths and the remaining chapters that are related to the book have prohibitions in
the week, to come inshallah to Allah as we seal off the book of prohibitions, and we enter some new
chapters that the men will know with a hammer hula hoe Tyler, he concludes his book with and the
last panel who to Allah knows best and may the peace and blessings of Allah be upon our beloved
prophet muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was Salam alaykum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh