Adnan Rajeh – Post Isha Khaterah – The Best of You #2

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The use of the phrase "verbal" in opinion expression is important in various settings, including the use of the phrase "verbal" in opinion expression. It is important to learn from past experiences and practicing to become more effective, and protecting people's legal rights is crucial. The speaker emphasizes the need to prioritize one's wife's priority over their children and family, and to read the Hadith of Islam for reference.

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			wasabia Jemaine Oh God Yahweh. The man was dealing with E or V Jamia Hebrew center, they also had an
issue to me and the Allahu anha Pilate fall into the use of Allah Allah Who early he was sending the
Hadith and a collection you I'm giving me the right to us by a shadow the LaWanda is an authentic
Shannon narration.
		
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			The theme is the theme of the usage of the Prophet alayhi salatu salam of the word higher welcome or
heroism, the best of you. And he used the phrase salatu salam in a number of around 10 Hadith or
more.
		
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			And he put them all together they're quite nice they kind of paint a picture on a saw to associate
the best of you who do this the best of you who do that and I like those a hadith where they just
kind of you just take them. So yesterday, he said, Hey, you're welcome. Okay.
		
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			Paula, the ones who make the best judgments when they are judging a dispute or they always give the
benefit or the advantage to the other party when they are trying to figure out a dispute. Instead of
trying to take it for themselves make try to make sure that they're fair and then they give the
other party a little bit more. This hadith tonight is a famous one and if you listen to the verses,
you may have already figured out which one it is. Or he said to him salatu salam in this I actually
told tells us this and Paula haidakhan Play it only early he won't know how you will commonly
actually what our inner Mohammed Mr.
		
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			Rocco Rocco Minister him so the Hadith I was like two narrations, the one that I enjoyed more is the
first one where he said all your thoughts on the best of you are the best of you. Yeah, holy him. So
the word is sometimes miss translated to his parents, because if you're single, and I asked, okay, I
look, you're gonna tell him you're my dad and my mom are fine. And that's just slang. It's just
slang. And proper Arabic Is your wife, and whoever you burden her with having later on, from your
seat, that's that's that's, that's why if you go especially go like to the parts of the legions,
Saudi, those they'll use that term more appropriately. They mean their wives. But I come from Syria,
		
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			we don't use it that way. I usually use my parents. But it's wrong. In terms of the context of this
hadith to understand the Hadith, you can continue to use that in your daily slang fine, but in terms
of understanding this hadith, you understand the context. So Cradle to Cradle can be at the best of
your the best to you towards your spouses, and their families, their children. And he said one
hydrocone Early on, and I am the best of you towards them. Now, he is not bragging, but Allah Allah,
you also have to sell them. And even if he did, he would have the right to do so. And I'd be happy
with it. But that's not what he's doing. He's trying to explain to you who to follow. The who is it
		
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			that you should be looking to act to emulate is telling you the best of you have the best view
towards your family now do as I did towards my family, so that you don't end up making things up as
you go along. Because if you don't have an example, then that word, the best of you towards your
families or your spouse's, you may misunderstand or misinterpret that or go beyond what is actually
required and what is actually appropriate. Because the best of you towards your spouse, it doesn't
mean the ones that don't say no to anything, or don't know when to point out that your protection
and their safety comes before their leisure. Like there are certain things that are actually a part
		
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			of being the best you can be towards your family. How do you learn that you watch him at least to a
certain you see how he was with his spouses, you find the leniency you find the love you find the
service and you find the protection as well you find the teaching and the mentorship and the
leadership that he offered his family to yourself to them so that's why he's saying Why don't you
		
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			even in this one, emulate me, don't go rogue because if you do then you'll end up thinking that
you're doing well but you're not. And then to make the other How do you see our company our company
set up the best of your the best thing you towards their women and their word women. Now it makes it
a little bit more abroad. It broadens this a little bit more like this hadith, I could have honestly
made this hadith on its own. It brought him to the whole topic. But it because there's a lot of
these Hadith I want to take this this series to take forever. I want to get through over two weeks
or so. The women in your life your spouse, obviously but also your mother, and your sister, and your
		
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			daughter, and your and your aunt, your grandmother and the women in your life the women that your
mom do that depend on you that you are required by illegal law, Islamic legal law to protect and
provide for when needed. You don't have to provide for all of them. You have to protect all of them.
You provide for your spouse and then whoever is in dire need like your your mother's in need of
wealth and it comes out of your pocket if your sisters in need of wealth, it comes out of your
pocket legally suddenly comes out of your pocket if she if she's in dire need. If she can't take
care of herself is from your pocket. She could take it to an Islamic judge and he will pull it out
		
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			of your pocket against your will. Just so you know that yes I understand that women in your life
you're mad and you are legally responsible for doing the best you can with them. The best you can
you provide for them and you protect them. So the best of you are the best view towards those whom
Allah subhanaw taala has made you a warm up on those who that you are going to continue to be a
caregiver for and it's a very important topic within within our deen to understand.
		
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			The Prophet alayhi salatu salam is giving you a measurement
		
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			And
		
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			he's measuring the best of you. You want to be amongst the best Muslims. And then I just don't.
Well, how do I know? To rank Muslim is impossible obviously, as individuals to rank Islamic behavior
is also very difficult. It's a very tricky thing to do. It's not simple. It's complex. But I just
talked to somebody uses the word Jairo from the best of you, he's making a little bit easier, cuz
he's kind of prioritizing for you a little bit. Right? The best of you, when it comes to when it
comes to Muhammad Ali, when it comes to transactions is the one who makes sure the other party is
taken care of and are satisfied when it comes to relationships just a bit ones or the best towards
		
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			their spouses and their families.
		
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			He's racking things, this is the best, this is what you should be aiming for. Not the one who's most
strict, not the one who's everyone no is the one who's the best, who's the kindest, who's the most
in service towards and those who dedicate their time and their lives towards them. And this is
important because we tend to forget our priorities as men, for sure. We tend to forget that women
don't need this hadith. They don't. A woman who is married with children, she knows her priorities
are a straight as an arrow. A woman who was married with kids does not need anyone to remind her of
her priorities. She knows what her priorities are as her husband or children. She knows that it's
		
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			comes naturally. It's like very, it's like one in a billion. They wouldn't be clear on that. But
men, no men, you can easily hear. We're very distractible creatures. It's easy to distract us we can
easily get follow and forget know
		
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			Islam tweeted a bit for performing your duty as a Muslim has your your priority starts with your
wife and your children your family and then after that other things come Don't get distracted. Pyro
completo cumbia he that's the best of your the best of you towards your spouse. This is a reminder
because we can easily kind of lose that and I think it's a beautiful Hadith to contemplate. You'll
read emammal autonomy the eufy Jamie he he said it they'll say Hey hon, Aisha to me. Allah Allah
call it Barnaby your Salah Allahu Allah Who early or seldom how Eurocom hydrocone early he will
enter Hallo community. What are ama do? Female study Hebrew seven dosa. CHIARA come clear. RUCO
		
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			Malini
		
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			Allah Allah.
		
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			Allah Allah