Zohra Sarwari – Women Around the Prophet Muhammad – Asma Bint Abu Bakr 1A

			Bismillah Alhamdulillah wa salatu salam ala Rasulillah Salam alaykum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh My
dear sisters and brothers, inshallah everyone is doing excellent.
		

			We are in a new course this course is called women around the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam,
and it's actually an amazing course and it's one of my favorite and I'm going to be sharing with you
guys stories of 10 Amazing woman's I have yet to wear around the province of awesome and what made
them amazing, Masha, Allah and who were they? Because we tend to know a lot of the Sahaba the men
Masha the bulk of their stories, but we don't really know the woman and so I wanted to share their
stories and shalom Tala. All right, we'll get started. This is going to be module one A, and we get
every module is going to have an a part and a D. So one a one b two, a two B like that. And this
		

			module is all about Osama bin Abu Bakr and we'll get sort of similar in Alhamdulillah in Cameroon as
the you know, when I started when I was a bit lame we should do the and fusina woman say at their
Molina, Maya, they love Allah mandala. Mama Yerlan fella had Isla or Chateau
		

			ilaha illallah wa Taala she was shadow under Mohammed Abdullah swim, a method that ambitiously said
yes, certainly. Well hello octet Amelie Sani yufka who called it up? Is it me?
		

			I mean, me me, in the name of Allah, the Most Gracious the most magnificent, All praise is due to
Allah, Lord of the universe. We praise Him and we seek His help and his forgiveness, and we seek His
protection from the curse. See, whoever Allah guides will never be misguided, and whoever he allows
to be misguided will never be guided. I've ever witnessed that there is no deity worthy of worship
except Allah who's one alone and has no partners. And I bear witness that Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam
is a servant and messenger May the blessings of Allah be upon him his family's companions and the
righteous will follow them until the Day of Judgment
		

			All right, so who was a sama bin Abu Bakar now as well but Abu Bakr belonged to and by the way I
just really want to hit on this really quick is the stories I'm going to be sharing with you are
going to be from different authors and I'm going to be adding my own perspective to it but this
story is going to be coming from Abdullah why had Hamid he's the one who actually wrote it so I'm
going through his narration and then obviously I'm going to add my own two bits to it and shallot
Allah, but I wanted to just to let you know it's from his book inshallah Allah. So Asma bint Abu
Bakr belong to an amazing, amazing, you know, family, Masha, Barack Obama. Her father was Abu Bakr
		

			Siddiq read the law on who is the best friend of the Prophet sallallahu sallam, and he was also the
first Khalifa after the death of the Prophet sallallahu sallam. Her half sister was at Isha was the
wife of the Prophet sallallahu sallam, and one of the Ahmed al mumineen which is the Mother of the
Believers Mashallah.
		

			Her husband was debated even aware, and he was very close companion of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam
as well. And her son was Abdullah bin as the way he was also known for being honest and truthful and
devoted to this lead mashallah Baraka so she came from an amazing family. We're looking at we're
looking at her father, we're looking at her son, her husband, her sister, there are so many amazing
people mashallah botica in this family
		

			I smarter the Allahu Allah was actually one of the first people to accept the slum wash at work.
Before her there was only 17 people, including men and women who became Muslim. So she was number 18
Mashallah demotic Allah, number 18. It's upon Allah. She was one of the few people who knew of the
plan of the Prophet saw the lesson, when he was going to leave for Medina to this was like a high
secret plan, right? And nobody knew because he planned to murder the Prophet sallallahu sallam, and
she was one of the few people. And on the night of the departure of the pastor Sam, he came to
Bucharest to fix house and he was living with a vaca syndicate your loved one, right? And on that
		

			night, the boss's son was with him. That was the night that asthma de la ha ha. She prepared a bag
of food and a water container for their journey, but she could not find anything to tie the
containers with. So what she did was she took out her waistband, which was her belt, and she cut it
into half. Well what got us to do her father suggested kind of get to half and then she tied each
one of them with each half mush at the bottom. And then from then on, she was known as the one with
the two waistbands that was her nickname, Masha, Allah Barak Allah when the final immigration, you
know came to from Mecca to Medina, and the departure came, Asma de la Juana was pregnant.
		

			she and she did not let her pregnancy or the prospect of a long journey deter her from leaving. So
everyone had gone before her and this was not she was coming as she wanted to leave Mack as well go
to Medina for safety and security and to have a better life. And it's possible so she didn't let
this difficulty this pregnancy and this hardship leave her. She decided she was going to go and
shallot Bella. And she did much of the work she did. And so she went on this long journey and I
don't know how many of you guys have been on a journey from Mecca to Medina. But Paula, I think in
the bustle was like, four or five hours, it was a long journey. I can't even imagine on a camel or a
		

			horse how long it would take. You know, maybe a couple of days I think it was long journey. Subhan
Allah and then the desert with that being said, and then when you're pregnant Hanalei can't even
handle pregnancy in the car her plane forget. Cow will voice upon Allah. Anyways Alhamdulillah as
soon as asthma reached Cuba, the outskirts of Medina that's when she gave birth to her son Abdullah
which means she was full term pregnancy much of America she was full term she was going to be due at
any moment. It was then that the Muslim shadows Allahu Akbar, that God is the greatest and La Ilaha
illa Allah there's no God but Allah and happiness and thanking him because this was the first child
		

			to be born in you know as a Muslim in Medina, Masha Baraka, right, so this was the first child it
was born from the MaHA Ji, the Saba the Sahaba, who migrated
		

			and Medina so everyone was so excited about that. Asthma was known for her title and her noble
qualities for the keenness of her intelligence how smart she was.
		

			So asthma was extremely, extremely generous person, Masha provided her son Abdullah, one set of her
he said, I have not seen to woman more generous than my aunt, I Isha, and my mother asthma, but
their generosity was expressed in different ways. My aunt will accumulate one thing after another
until she had gathered what she felt was sufficient. And then she distributed to all those who
needed it. My mother, on the other hand, would not keep anything even for the moral Spamalot. This
is how amazing these women were. They This is how generous they were, they weren't thinking about
themselves, they were thinking about others and how to help them and their times of difficulty, and
		

			and how to make it easy for them versus themselves.
		

			I suppose presence of mind in difficult circumstances, was remarkable. When her father left when her
father left Mecca, he took all of his wealth, amounting to maybe about 6000 different, you know,
6000 did a house with him and he did not leave any for his family. When Abu Bakr us dig for his
father cave. And when his father came, who have, he was still a mushrik. At the time, he wasn't a
Muslim yet. And he heard of his departure, he went to his house and he said to asthma, I understand
that he's left you and he's taken all his money with him and he's abandoned you. And asthma Dylon
quickly reply to her grandfather, no grandfather, in fact, is left as much money. She took some
		

			pebbles and she put them in a small bag. And then she put them by the wall, where they use for
money. She threw a cloth over the heap and took the hand of her grandfather, as he was blind and
said, see how much money he has left for us. This was her strategy, Mashallah. She wanted to sit
there and not let her anyone know that they didn't have enough. She wanted asthma wanted to ally the
fears of her grandfather, and for him, to not worry about them, including giving his own wealth.
This was because asthma disliked receiving any assistance from the politics, even if it was her own
grandfather, Subhan Allah.
		

			This was not the only time that US melody Allahu anha, you know, had this kind of quick thinking and
wit. She had a similar attitude when her mother, who was not a Muslim, came to visit her. So her
mother came to visit her Medina, she wasn't a Muslim and was divorced from her father. And her
mother bought her gifts of raisins and clarified butter and, you know, different kinds of other
things, as my first refused to admit her even into her home or accept her gifts, but then she sent
someone to I issued the aloha to ask the province awesome about this. How should she treat her
mother? And should she allow her to come into our house? Does she accept her gifts? And she wanted
		

			to make sure that she was following the path of the show yeah, that she wasn't going to make a light
xojo angry, and that she wasn't doing something that was wrong in the Sharia. So she wanted to get
that clarification, And subhanAllah It was at this occasion that the following revelation came to
the Prophet sallallahu sallam, which is in Soudal Medina is numbers eight and nine
		

			says God forbids you not with regard to those who do not fight you because of your faith will drive
you out of your homes, from dealing kindly justly with them. God loves those who are just God only
forbids you with regards to those who fight you for your faith and drive you for your homes and
support others in driving you out from turning to them for friendship and protection, it is such as
to turn to them in the circumstances that do wrong Subhan Allah
		

			so I just want you guys to reflect on how she behaved and then Subhanallah getting this. And so she
dealt with friends with friendliness and kindness and gentleness with her mother, and respected her,
let her come in her house and let her be part of you know, sitting with them and accepted her gifts
mashallah botica because Islam does allow that, and had Esma Delana not inquire about it asked about
it. Who knows when we would have gotten this revelation and how that would have happened. But look
at the intelligence of these women and men the Sahaba have yet and when they went about wanting to
do the right thing, Subhan Allah Now, I smile, as well as many other Muslims. You know, when they
		

			relocate to Medina, their life was actually very difficult in the beginning, because they were a new
city, they just migrated. They didn't have enough money and wealth, and her husband was quite poor.
And his only, you know, major possessions at that time was a horse which he had bought. And that's
my this is how she described those early days. She said I used to provide fodder for the horse, give
a water and groom it. I would grind grain and make dough but I could not bake while the woman of the
unsavoury used to bake for me. They were truly good woman. I used to carry the grain on my head from
a zoo base plot which the process I'm had allocated for him to cultivate. It was about three four
		

			sacks which is about eight kilometers from the town center. One day I was on the road carrying the
grain on my head. When I met the Prophet sallallahu Sallam and a group of Sahaba he called out to me
to stop this catalyst that could vide behind him. I felt embarrassed to travel with the Prophet saw
some and also remembered as today's jealousy. He was the utmost jealous of man, the process and
realized that I was embarrassed and then he continued to ride on. So Subhanallah My dear sisters and
brothers, here's a woman who's telling you her situation. It is it was very hard for her yet because
she knew her husband, and she knew how he was and she knew that he would be jealous, and that he
		

			wouldn't like it. She she didn't. She took that hardship upon herself and didn't bring it upon. You
know, the officer saw him and didn't tell him and didn't even tell her husband because she didn't
want to you know him to be upset. She didn't tell him until later. And then in later he you know, he
said that he wasn't going to be jealous. Subhanallah you know, when he related the story, when she
related with us relate to a story to estimate exactly as what had happened. He said to her he said
by God that you should have carried the grade is far more distressing to me than you were writing
with the Prophet sallallahu sallam. So he would have allowed it he would have accepted it because it
		

			was so heavy and hard and difficult for her.
		

			But I'm just trying to explain to you what times of difficulty come the husband and wife stand
together. She grew up in a family that had so much money and wealth Abu Bakr Siddiq was rich
Marshall at the bottom yet servants of that time, but from there to becoming someone that does
everything. It's a hard life but Subhan Allah, you know, a laser or don't test for all of us in
different ways and we have to accept it and understand it.
		

			Okay, so with that being said, we are done with Module One A to Zakharova Hayden, and insha Allah
Tala, we'll see you guys in module one be Subhanak Allahumma will be hamburger eyeshadow. Hola,
hola, Stafford acaba to Blue Lake. How perfect you are Allah and I praise you. Nan has a right to be
worshipped except you. I seek your forgiveness and turn and repentance to you. As salaam alaykum
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