Zoheeb Iqbal – Best Advice For Your Child – Khubah – 17-05-2019

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			look, man, it is Allah to Salam, according to some opinions, was not a prophet of Allah. Rather he
was a very righteous, very wise man whom Allah subhanaw taala loved his wisdom to such an extent
that Allah Himself decided to reveal a surah called Surah Lachman for it to be a sole source of
wisdom for the generations and for the mankind to come after Look, man, Eric salatu salam.
		

			Look, Manu, salatu salam, according to another narration learned from Tao Danny salatu, Salam he
studied under the mentorship of the Odisea to salaam he took his knowledge from there. And there's a
there's a story that takes place at the time of look, Manny salatu salam which is became a famous
story.
		

			It was, it is also known that Look, man, if salatu salam may have been a slave according to some
traditions. And his masters master when recognizing his wisdom. He then freed him. Upon freeing him
he became very close to him, he became his friend.
		

			And one day he told Monterey salatu salam, that here's a sheep and go sacrifice the sheep and bring
back the best part from the sheep.
		

			Lokmanya Manelli salatu salam goes there, sacrifices the sheep. And now look manually Salatu Salam
brings back the tongue and the heart.
		

			Know when the master have seen this he gave look money slot to some another sheep. The second time
the master said bring back the worst part. So look while you start to slam the second time no brings
back the tongue in the heart again. The master gets confused and says to look money start to sound
the first time I told you to bring the best parts of the sheep. You broke back tongue and a heart.
Then I asked you bring back the worst parts you brought a tongue and a heart. I didn't understand
what you've done here.
		

			And look, Monterey salatu. Salam through his wisdom said that. The tongue is such a thing. That if
it wants to make make someone feel happy, if he wants to make someone feel motivated, if it can give
someone encouragement it can do so. It can give human beings encouragement and a source of
happiness. The tongue could be a means. But the same tongue can break someone's heart in such a
manner that is unrepeatable. The same tongue can destroy families the same tongue can destroy
relationships. And he goes the heart is such a thing that if the heart is not pure,
		

			then it is misguided. But if the same heart is pure, your heart is able to guide you. So this is
what's his definition. And regards to bringing back the two worst parts. Now Allah subhanaw taala
This is a story of look money salatu salam, but this is not what look man it is salatu salam was
famous for what he was famous for was his Naseeha was his nisi ha within Surah Lokmanya. And who is
he talking to in the Surah he is talking to his son at a very young age. Now this is you know, a lot
of people say to us that what should we say to our son for a piece of advice? What should we say to
our children to make sure that they don't Serato Mr. Kim, the surah has the tools for you to
		

			understand. And remember that look man at the Serato cinema is talking to the son when he was very
young, very young. And look man and he Serato Suriname says to son Bismillah R Rahman Rahim, yar
buena ya allah to Sheikh Billa do not associate anything with Allah.
		

			Lesson number one do not associate anything with Allah subhanaw taala in indeed,
		

			in Shipka Lovefool moon or the moon? Indeed the association to Allah is a great injustice. Yanni is
it's a great grave sin you could say, associating partners with Allah subhanaw taala we know that
know me, look Manelli Salatu Salam is telling his son at a young age yeah Bucha Yeah, Allah to Shrek
Billa do not associate partners with Allah subhana wa Tada.
		

			So we should really look into the matter if our children are attending those places which shift
takes place.
		

			Look, Manelli salatu salam then goes on to say to his son, indeed, if wrong should be the weight of
a mustard seed as an herb done in the US the word for darlin which means mustard seed, and it says
that and should it be within a rock? Even if further goofy Sakura tin officer Murthy Oh, Phil rd
		

			says even if it's within a rock
		

			anywhere in the heavens and the earth,
		

			yet TB Ha, Allah who in Allahu Allah Latif and Hubby,
		

			that indeed,
		

			Allah will bring it forward.
		

			And and Allah is subtile and acquainted. Allah knows everything. Look, Monterey salatu salam at this
moment in time which Allah narrated Alana rates in the Quran and passed it onto the Prophet sermon.
This is an example that the Prophet saw that Lokmanya li salatu salam has given to his son, just in
a hotel on Masada temperature. For example, He said to his son, that imagine a seed of mustard
inside of a rock, or let's just say anywhere in the heavens of the earth, and you hide it and nobody
knows where it is. He said that Allah will know where it is. Allah sees everything it was to teach
your son what one was law to Shrek Billa do not associate partners to Allah. The second one was that
		

			no matter what you do, how you do where you are, where you going, ALLAH SubhanA wa Tada. Ana is all
knowing and he sees everything. This was his second NESEA to son, there's actually 10 advices that
he gives to his son of 10. We'll speak about five today due to time.
		

			Then he says the third time to son. Oh my son Yeah, Bonilla,
		

			our key Musala
		

			how many how many of us, say to our child at the age of 567. A game of Salah how many of us wait
till they reach the age of 1011 12 which in my opinion is too late. Is absolutely too late. How many
of us say to our child to chemo so if you want to see it for your children, this is the best one.
Look Manelli salatu salam sing to his child in a tender age, yah buena yaki masala, what a moto Bill
ma roofie WA, one AHA and in Mancha and he's also added to a chemo Santa that enjoin what is right
and forbid what is wrong. You've also taught me nothing here that pray your Salah and do what is
good for you do what is right and stay away from which is wrong. You need to tell your son your
		

			daughter what is what is right and what is wrong. Look, man, Islam is teaching his son.
		

			And then he goes on, which is a very, very important part for even as adults we can take look, Manny
salatu salam has a spiritual father and in this case, if we want to take this advice from him,
		

			and he goes on Be patient, it was was bid Allah ma saw Ibaka he goes and be patient over what
befalls you in Nevada come in as mill a movie that indeed all that is of matters requiring
determination that anything that befalls you, yet to be good or bad, do sugar to Allah and do not
become my use, you could say do not become disheartened. steed determined. This is an associate to
his son at a tender age. I'll keep on mentioning candidates so we understand who he's talking to
here.
		

			Then he goes on. And this is the last that this was covering three four and the fifth point that
look Monterey salatu salam says to his son is and do not turn your cheek
		

			Wallah to suck it harder Kalin NASCI do not turn your cheek from the people. What does this mean do
not turn your cheek from the people who Allah thumb she fell out of the and do not work in the earth
upon the earth in a manner of arrogance in a modern manner of arrogance.
		

			And then he goes on to say indeed, in Hola Hola, you hippo Kula move in for Hurin Indeed, Allah does
not like anyone who is self deluded, and is boastful. So you learn two things from here. You learn
that don't walk around in the earth, as if you have a chip on your shoulder. Don't walk in this
dunya as if you are something you know, it's quite hilarious you meet someone that's establishing a
business. Upon meeting this person who's established the business while season is beginning stages.
And this person is very humble, that humble make dua my business works in sha Allah, Bethany Allah
wherever the case is, but the minute his bank balances rised to an expectation that he never
		

			realized he is now driving the best of cars, he's now living in the best of areas. Now the same
person will walk in the street and will not even speak to the people that he used to go to once upon
a time. This is why he is faint and illiquid seem to son.
		

			We will recap on these points is that number one do not associate partners to Allah subhanaw taala
number two, do not walk upon this earth and an egg in a manner of arrogance.
		

			and do not an even remember, do not walk upon this earth and arrogance and Allah can see you, here
you wherever you may be, and make sure that you keep your Salah intact. And make sure that when
		

			any type of trouble befalls you do suburb and ask Allah Subhana Allah Allah to grant you suburb
basically. So these are this is the nisi at that look Manone Sonata Salam has given us. I personally
recommend to all the brothers here that open the Surah, read through the surah and give the same
Lycia to your children doesn't matter if they're five years old. If you can teach your son at the
age of five, to learn the full alphabet, if you can teach your son five to read the story, so he
perfects his English, then I'm pretty sure that you can sit with your child at the age of five and
make him understand the basic principles of our deen.
		

			Think about it Luke Romanelli salatu salam was hundreds and hundreds and 1000s of years ago and
Allah subhanho wa Taala and the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, a sudden Allah ism came. Allah
mentioned that in the Quran surah Look man, Why did Allah Allah said that this could this is the
best of advices This is Look man on Hakeem the wise this month. He was known as he was very close to
Allah subhana wa Tada also. So may Allah subhanho wa Taala grant has the ability to fall upon the
nisi heads of Lokmanya li salatu salam and
		

			may Allah subhanaw taala make us identify that if we live in this country then we are able to keep
the Eman of our children completely Mahfouz completely muffles. I had a student in my class not very
long ago, who had finished the Quran four times. He's finished the Quran four times.
		

			And upon finishing the Quran, he comes back to me after two years and I asked him to read a leaf Lam
Meem dialogical kita Bula re Buffy and he said I do not know how to read the Quran anymore. And I
was What are you joking? Did you read the Quran four times? He goes no, no, no, I'm being serious. I
don't have to read it. Because no, no, you're joking. Come on. No, I thought he was actually jokes.
I open up the Qaeda and he didn't even know what Aleve Bata was anymore. And you know where we fail
at this, and I'll say it openly today, you know where we fail at this, as when we send our children
to the local Auntie's to the houses, we send our local children to the Auntie's to the houses to
		

			learn the Quran, Allah Karim. That the dream is not correct according to the out of style. If you
want to talk about the dream in Pakistan as a complete different dream, that the dream is not the
same that we that you get in the Arab world. And what happens is when your child gets to the age of
1314, he is now unable to read the Quran. When it comes to madressa. He is unable to read the
fluency with perfection with the dream, he is unable to understand the words of Allah subhanho wa
Taala because he can't read properly.
		

			So I read, I would advise every single one of you that if your child does attend a home, do not take
them out. But make sure that you are completely content, that the fact that your child is reading
this Quran, which is the essence of our life, which is the guide to our life, which is a guide to
humanity, at least does getting read properly. Because Come on, what would you do? If your child
came home one day, and he opened up a storybook, and he started to go and the man went to the park?
		

			You know what you would do? You would call a tutor straightaway. You'd call the English tutor. The
English tutor will come at home. You'd pay him 25 pound an hour just to teach your son how to read
English properly. But when your son comes home because Uh hum de la he Rob Bell, Lamine
		

			you think Bismillah he knows how to read the Quran. This is not how to read the Quran. The Quran was
taught to us to read it in the most perfect manner. So may Allah subhanaw taala give us an
understanding of this Quran and these nnessee has that look Manelli salatu salam has given us you
child will only be able to read it properly. If he knows how to read the Quran properly. Hey,