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The fourth hadith of the Prophet's book describes the actions of Allah and his followers, highlighting the importance of kinship and the need for people to avoid cutting their way to the holy eye. The speakers emphasize the importance of showing kindness towards parents and being considerate towards them, as it is crucial for everyone to spend time with them. They also discuss the benefits of serving parents and listening to their parents, including the reward of having good relationships with people they know and their family members. Finally, they emphasize the importance of distributing belongings and resources to others, and stress the importance of being a good partner and friend.

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Karim while he was social media ah
		
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			mine, my bad.
		
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			And have you heard that or the
Allahu Anhu Paul?
		
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			Allah rasool Allah He sallallahu
alayhi wa salam in Allah Allah
		
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			Allah Cunha have a look at that
either photo Amin comma t Rahim
		
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			for coilette other more Kamala EDB
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			kala now I'm a mother lane, and
I'll say lemon wa Solek will
		
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			affirm and KatataK call it by
Allah
		
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			subhanho wa Taala further like,
like, for makalah Rasulullah he
		
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			sallallahu alayhi wa sallam a
thorough in Cheatham for her
		
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			Lightsey tomb in our late and to
see to fill out the or to cut to
		
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			your Warhammer calm hula you can
leadin Allah Anna hula hula for
		
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			Osama whom the surah would have
opened Isley or theory whitening
		
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			Buhari for God Allahu Taala among
masala key was on to woman kata
		
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			Aki Cotabato
		
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			This is the fourth Hadith of the
chapter. Barrel validation was
		
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			similar to Rahim.
		
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			significance and importance of
		
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			kind treatment towards the
parents, as well as the relatives,
		
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			the people who are related to you
and your kinship.
		
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			So last week, we went through some
ayat of the Quran, and some a
		
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			Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam that Imam and
		
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			novi rahamallah quoted in this
chapter.
		
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			So we come to the fourth hadith of
this chapter that is rated by say
		
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			you don't Abu Huraira or the
Allahu Taala Han, who says that
		
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			the Messenger of Allah and His
salatu salam said, in Allah to
		
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			Allah holla call Hulk atta EDA
Farah Amin whom Kamata Rahim
		
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			Verily Allah subhanho wa Taala
created all creatures had that
		
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			either father I'm in home when
Allah subhanho wa Taala completed
		
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			the creation of all creatures,
Alma del Rahim. Then a Rahim, the
		
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			ties of kinship, stood up for call
it and it said hada Muqaam. Allah
		
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			EDB communal Korea. Oh my Lord,
right now I seek refuge with you
		
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			from severing me.
		
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			And as a Prophet sallallahu alayhi
wa sallam said, A Rahim the ties
		
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			of kinship stood up. How did it
stand? We do not know we cannot
		
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			imagine.
		
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			We can only believe in the
statement of Rasulullah sallallahu
		
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			alayhi wa sallam. And this is the
level of Eman that is required
		
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			from a Muslim from a believer.
Whatever the messenger sallallahu
		
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			alayhi wa sallam says you have to
accept and you have to believe in
		
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			it.
		
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			The main point in this hadith is
that the ties of kinship set to
		
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			Allah subhanho wa Taala Oh Allah
you have created me, but right now
		
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			I seek refuge in you. And I beg
you that you protect me from those
		
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			who are going to cut me those who
are going to seventh me.
		
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			Allah subhanahu wa taala replied
and he said, Nam, yes.
		
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			I give you protection. I provide
you refuge Amata dying and assalam
		
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			wa Sala ko Klarman kata
		
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			will you not be happy by the fact
that I will treat with kindness
		
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			everyone who treats you with
kindness. And I sever and cut
		
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			those who cut you and those who
seven
		
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			Arlette Bella.
		
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			The ties of kinship replied, they
said, why not? Oh my Lord. Then
		
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			Allah subhanho wa Taala said
further Alika luck, then this is
		
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			yours, meaning this is something
that is confirmed. Whoever
		
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			strengthen the ties of kinship,
Allah subhanho wa Taala will.
		
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			Allah subhanahu wa taala will
shower His mercy on him and Allah
		
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			subhanho wa Taala will treat him
with kindness and whoever severs
		
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			the ties of kinship, he will be
caught
		
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			From the Mercy of Allah subhanho
wa Taala and then Rasulullah
		
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			sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said
it Kuru in Cheatham read if you
		
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			want the ayat of the Quran, from
Surah to Muhammad in which Allah
		
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			subhanahu wa taala said for Allah
say tune into our Latham and to
		
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			see do fill out do to cut through
our hammer comb, would you people,
		
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			if you are given any kind of
authority authority, would you
		
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			people then do or cause mischief
in the land what to cut through
		
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			our hammer comb and you will go
ahead and you will sever the ties
		
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			of kinship if you have any
authority
		
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			hola equal Latina hola Anna Humala
in the following ayah Allah says
		
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			such people are those who are
cursed by Allah
		
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			and the cursing of Allah subhanho
wa Taala means that these people
		
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			are deprived from the Mercy of
Allah. Allah subhanahu wa taala
		
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			does not show his mercy towards
them. Although it can lead in
		
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			Alana hula, they are the ones who
are cursed by Allah for Osama whom
		
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			they are cursed by Allah to the
level that Allah subhanho wa Taala
		
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			made them death. Well, I'm I saw
him and Allah subhanahu wa Tada
		
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			has blinded this site.
		
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			And this is from these are the two
I had from Surah Mohammed,
		
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			he were to pay attention to the
meaning of this ayah Allah
		
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			subhanahu wa taala is calling
those people who cut the ties of
		
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			kinship as the mischievous people,
		
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			those who cause mischief in the
land, the facade and corruption in
		
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			the land. We talk about all other
kinds of sins and corruption. But
		
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			the biggest mischievous are those
people who cut their ties with
		
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			their own kinship. Do who sever
their ties of kinship,
		
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			and they cut their relationship
with their relatives. They are the
		
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			ones who actually cause the facade
and the corruption and mischief in
		
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			the land. And they are cursed by
Allah subhanho wa Taala for Osama
		
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			home, they are cursed by Allah.
And then the sign of the curse of
		
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			Allah upon them is for our summer
home that Allah subhanahu wa taala
		
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			made them deaf. What does it mean?
That Allah made them deaf? Meaning
		
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			they recite the eye of the Quran,
they recite the ayat of the Quran,
		
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			they read, and they hear the ayat
of the Quran. They hear the Hadith
		
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			of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi
wa sallam with regards to the
		
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			significance and importance of
keeping the ties of kinship. And
		
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			they also here and they do
understand the severity of, of the
		
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			sin of cutting the ties of
kinship, yet
		
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			they are so heedless, and they do
not want to change themselves. For
		
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			Osama whom it is as if they are
deaf.
		
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			It is as if they never heard
anything. What are my Apsara whom,
		
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			and Allah subhanahu wa taala has
cursed them so that Allah has
		
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			blinded the sight. Meaning,
although they recite the Quran,
		
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			they read the Quran, they read the
Hadith, but nothing goes into the
		
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			heart and nothing affects them and
they do not rectify the problem.
		
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			And they do not rectify the
mistakes and they do not repent to
		
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			Allah subhanho wa Taala
		
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			and this is a sign of the curse of
Allah Azza wa Jalla the kalam upon
		
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			them,
		
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			which shows that severing the ties
of kinship is one of the major
		
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			sins. And in the next chapter in
mama now we will Rama Allah has
		
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			quoted some a Hadith of the
Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa
		
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			sallam that highlight the
highlight the sin of cutting the
		
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			ties of kinship.
		
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			So in this particular chapter,
Imam unknown rahamallah has gone
		
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			through the Hadith
		
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			of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi
wa sallam highlighting the
		
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			significance and importance of
keeping the ties of kinship.
		
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			And as you mentioned previously,
that when it comes to keeping the
		
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			ties of kinship, those who deserve
it the most are your parents. That
		
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			is why in this chapter Imamura hum
Allah has quoted various Hadees
		
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			that Hadees that highlight the
significance of fig of keeping the
		
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			ties of kinship, as well as the
significance of showing your
		
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			kindness towards your parents and
being dutiful towards your
		
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			parents.
		
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			And that is why Mama Mama novia
rahamallah is quoted next Hadith
		
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			which is also
		
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			underrated by say you do not have
whatever the Allahu Taala and who
		
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			says da Raju Lune. Ala Rasulillah
he sallallahu alayhi wa sallam,
		
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			a man came to the Messenger of
Allah alayhi salatu salam and he
		
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			said yeah rasool Allah, man or
helpfulness if you sneeze or
		
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			Huberty or messenger of Allah, Who
amongst all the people
		
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			is the one who deserves the most
of my companionship.
		
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			And this is the wording of the
Hadith. Usually we translated as
		
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			who is the one who deserves the
kindness or my fine treatment or
		
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			best treatment. But the actual
word in the hadith is be
		
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			hoarseness about personal Sahaba.
And we all know the word Sahaba.
		
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			Sahaba means what companions and
this is the word that we find in
		
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			the Hadith, that this person asked
a messenger of Allah, who deserves
		
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			my best companionship. The Prophet
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said,
		
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			Oh, milk, your mother. Then he
said foreman, then after my
		
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			mother, the prophets, allah
sallallahu sallam said, Oh, milk,
		
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			then again, your mother, they said
for my man. Then after my mother,
		
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			he said, again, your mother, three
times he said, your mother. And
		
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			then he asked for some time for
mom. And then after my mother, he
		
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			said, some book, then your father,
and then the Prophet sallallahu
		
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			Sallam stopped there. Another
version of the hadith is that this
		
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			person asked me he said, Man, I
help Kunis if you're hosting a
		
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			search bar, who amongst the people
is most deserving of my best
		
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			companionship, the prophets, Allah
Salam said, oh more from milk from
		
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			your mother, then your mother,
then your mother from Abba, then
		
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			your father from back then after
your father, the then after your
		
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			father, the one who is nearest to
you and the one who is nearest to
		
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			you, amongst your relatives. And
then in this, according to this
		
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			hadith, you see way the friends
come actually.
		
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			And the reason i Hi, I emphasize
on the word companionship here is
		
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			that Unfortunately, nowadays we
find people who are more close to
		
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			the friends then they parents,
people who are close, they have
		
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			the closer relationship with the
friends or other relatives,
		
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			perhaps cousins, or other
relatives, then they own parents,
		
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			they own father, they own mother.
		
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			And also another common
misconception we find nowadays in
		
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			our community is that people think
that if my parents are not in need
		
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			of my financial support, then it
is okay. I can you know, and and
		
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			because of this people basically
end up abandoning their parents,
		
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			they do not visit them.
		
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			And the whole focus is on their
own family,
		
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			the spouse and the children and
friends, they have people have
		
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			time for their friends, they have
time for the maids and colleagues,
		
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			and they have time for everyone
apart from their parents.
		
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			We as a Prophet sallallahu alayhi
wa sallam reply to this person,
		
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			the one who deserves your best
companion shape is your mother.
		
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			And when it comes to showing your
kindness and your fine treatment
		
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			towards your parents, is not only
supporting them financially,
		
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			rather, it is to spend time with
them, sit with them.
		
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			And spend some time with them.
Even if they are not in need of
		
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			your financial support, even if
they are Al Hamdulillah. They are
		
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			physically fit and well.
		
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			You still have the responsibility
and obligation towards them and
		
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			you have to spend your time with
them. And bear in mind the time
		
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			you spend with your parents. And
particularly according to this
		
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			hadith, the time you spend with
your mother is the best time after
		
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			the worship of Allah. As you
mentioned last time, Allah
		
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			subhanho wa Taala mentioned this
in the Quran. In so many ayat,
		
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			after making the mention of his
worship, he highlighted this point
		
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			and this very important issue,
which is the kindness and
		
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			dutifulness towards the parents
after the time yet that you spend
		
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			in the worship of Allah, offering
your Salah, reading Quran during
		
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			the Dhikr of Allah fulfilling your
duties to Allah subhanho wa Taala
		
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			the time you spend with your
parents are the most precious time
		
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			nothing can replace it.
		
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			And that is why the Scholars have
even said
		
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			seeking knowledge is fourth, the
basic knowledge by which you can
		
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			worship Allah subhanho wa Taala
properly by which you can prevent
		
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			yourself from falling into shake,
that is compulsory knowledge you
		
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			have to seek it as for any
additional knowledge, any
		
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			knowledge that is in addition to
that that is not forced upon you.
		
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			If your parents do not allow you
to seek that additional knowledge,
		
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			it is okay. You have to spend your
time with them.
		
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			Because serving your parents and
listening to them and obeying them
		
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			and being at this service is more
important than anything else.
		
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			After the worship of Allah
subhanho wa Taala that is why
		
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			Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam said, he replied to this
		
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			companion when he asked who
deserves my companionship the most
		
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			the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam said your mother, your
		
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			mother, your mother and he
repeated three times and then he
		
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			said, then after that your father
and then after some dinner, then
		
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			those who are near to you, those
who are close to you.
		
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			Next hadith is also the hadith of
Abu Huraira the Allahu taala. And
		
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			that talks about the again the
that highlights the significance
		
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			of, of keeping the ties of
kinship. And this hadith is very
		
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			important in order to understand
the standard that the Islam that
		
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			the religion of Islam has set for
keeping the ties of kinship.
		
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			Above whatever the Allahu Donna
says and Nara Julen Colorado suit
		
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			Allah, a person came to the
Prophet sallahu wa sallahu alayhi
		
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			salam and he said, O Messenger of
Allah in Nellie and Cara button
		
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			also you to whom we are torrone or
messenger of Allah. He was
		
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			complaining about his relatives,
he said almost immune of Allah, I
		
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			have some relatives also you know
whom we have our own money I treat
		
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			them with kindness and they always
cut the ties of kinship with me
		
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			we're all sinners ala him when you
see owner LA's or you always show
		
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			my kindness towards them, and they
are always bad. They are always
		
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			bad to me.
		
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			Well, I Hello more unknown wage.
Hi Luna, Eilish. And I show my
		
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			gentleness and I'm always gentle
towards them, and I have patience
		
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			towards them. Were Aluna ILA, and
they are so rude and rough and
		
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			tough towards me.
		
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			This was his complaint.
		
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			So what do I do?
		
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			I'm dealing with these type of
relatives. There are so bad. I
		
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			always try to be good to them. And
I have a lot of patience towards
		
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			them. But they are always
aggressive and rude, and rough and
		
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			tough. What do I do? The Prophet
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam did
		
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			not say if they are rude to you,
it is your right to be rude to
		
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			them. If they are aggressive to
you, it is your right to be
		
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			aggressive towards them. If they
treat you with kindness, you treat
		
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			them with kindness. If they are
harsh towards you, it is okay that
		
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			you are harsh towards them. No,
no, this was not the reply of the
		
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			Prophet sallahu Salah because the
prophets of Allah Allah Salam
		
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			wanted to set the highest standard
highest standard of o'clock,
		
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			because this was the core purpose
of His coming as messenger as a
		
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			prophet of Allah as he said, worth
to leave me Mama caramel of luck.
		
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			I have been sent by Allah
subhanahu wa taala. So that I can
		
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			take the humanity to the peak of
the mannerism and o'clock so I can
		
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			perfect the o'clock.
		
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			The Prophet sallallahu alayhi
salam set a very high standard of
		
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			the o'clock and he sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam replied to him
		
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			and he said, Let in Kunta Kumar
called if it is, as you said, if
		
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			it is true,
		
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			as you said, then fucka anima to
see for whom will man then you
		
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			should know that it is as if you
are feeding them, the hot ashes.
		
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			What does it mean?
		
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			It means that if you are treating
them with your kindness and
		
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			gentleness and you are good to
them, and they are bad to you, you
		
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			are
		
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			you are doing a favor to yourself
and you are allowing them to face
		
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			the punishment from Allah
subhanahu wa
		
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			because of your treatment
		
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			You continue treating them with
kindness and gentleness and they
		
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			are always bad you and your action
actually will lead them to face
		
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			the punishment of Allah subhanahu
wa Tada to see for him will melt
		
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			as it is if you are feeding them
hot ashes.
		
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			And the scholars have also
explained this word and they have
		
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			given another explanation they
said for kendama to see formal
		
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			means, that it is obviously if you
see someone eating hot ashes, you
		
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			see the person is crazy.
		
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			The person is crazy is denying his
sound state of mind, then, it
		
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			means that this person will be
disgraced.
		
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			Anyone who sees such person, he
will be disgraced, he will be
		
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			disgracing them, degrading them.
The Prophet sallallahu alayhi
		
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			salam said to him, if you are the
way you said if you are if it is
		
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			true, then you are basically
humiliating them, you are through
		
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			your actions you are disgracing
them, so you don't need to worry
		
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			about
		
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			because you are showing your
kindness and your gentleness
		
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			towards them you are good towards
them. And the people who see you
		
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			the people who see your attitude
and your treatment and your
		
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			behavior towards them, they will
obviously appraise and they will
		
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			they they will appreciate your
behavior and your and your
		
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			attitude. As for them, everyone
will dislike and people will
		
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			disgrace them. So through your
actions you are disgracing them
		
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			and you are humiliating them. And
then the prophets Allah Salam also
		
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			pseudo Allah Azza Luma aka mean
Allah He Allah He you don't I lay
		
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			him. Madam Tala daddy. In addition
to this, bear in mind, no matter
		
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			how harsh and rough and tough they
are towards you. You will be
		
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			protected by a divine protection
from Allah subhanho wa Taala Lai
		
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			Azhar Luma, aka here on Ali him in
Allah, Allah subhanahu wa taala
		
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			will always provide a sport or for
you, amongst the people, they will
		
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			definitely will always be someone
who will support you because of
		
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			you because of your attitude
towards them. Let's imagine if
		
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			that person does the same towards
them. Who is going to support him?
		
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			No one people will say okay, your
relatives are bad to you and you
		
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			are also bad towards them. They
are harsh towards you and you are
		
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			also the same. So what's the
point? If there is any conflict
		
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			between you and your relatives,
you will find no sporter but if
		
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			you continue showing your good
attitude and your love towards
		
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			them and your kindness and
gentleness towards them, you will
		
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			always find support amongst the
people from Allah subhanho wa
		
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			taala. And the scholars have also
said this Hadith also refers to
		
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			the sporter from the angels of
Allah subhanho wa Taala that the
		
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			Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam kind of gave him glad
		
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			tiding that as long as you
continue expressing the same
		
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			attitude towards them, Allah
subhanahu wa taala will protect
		
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			them no matter how harsh and rough
they are towards you the on the
		
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			you know, your relatives they
cannot harm you. Rather you will
		
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			be protected by Allah subhanho wa
Taala they may verbally abuse you,
		
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			but they cannot physically harm
you. Rather you will be protected
		
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			by Allah will Jalali kromm Because
of your kindness and because of
		
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			your o'clock
		
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			next hadith is the hadith of Anna
sort of the Allahu Taala and who
		
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			says, another suitor Allah He
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam icon,
		
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			the Messenger of Allah Alayhi
Salatu was Salam said, man I have
		
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			but I knew without Allah Who
furiously when you insert Allah
		
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			who feel sorry for Leah Salah
Rahim. Whoever loves that Allah
		
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			subhanho wa Taala expands his
provision, that Allah subhanahu wa
		
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			taala expands in His provision
that Allah grants baraka and
		
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			blessings in His provision, when
you insert Allah houfy or 30, and
		
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			whoever would like to have a
prolonged life with good deeds
		
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			than failure, so Allah Rahima,
then he should keep the ties of
		
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			kinship.
		
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			So this is the reward of having
good ties of kinship, keeping the
		
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			ties of kinship, that by this
action, Allah subhanho wa Taala
		
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			will increase your risk.
Obviously, part of keeping the
		
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			ties of kinship is that you spend
on your relatives, and especially
		
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			those who are in need of your
sport.
		
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			As Allah says in the Quran, we
develop Kuba haka gave those who
		
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			are later to you there right. If
you know amongst your amongst your
		
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			relatives are those who are
financially struggling
		
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			And they need your support you
should support them this is their
		
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			right. And by doing so, Allah
subhanahu wa taala will grant
		
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			baraka and blessing in your risk.
Allah subhanahu wa taala to
		
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			increase your risk. And likewise,
if you are good towards your
		
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			relatives, obviously they will
always remember you with good
		
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			words and they will be making dua
for you. And even if they do not
		
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			make dua for you, you will get the
reward from Allah subhanahu wata
		
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			Allah and Allah subhanahu wa taala
will allow you to have a long life
		
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			with righteousness and piousness.
		
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			With piety Allah subhanahu wa
taala will grant you prolong life
		
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			and obviously as a human being all
of us who want to live
		
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			long life by the permission of
Allah subhanho wa Taala the long
		
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			life with the piety and Taqwa with
righteousness, may Allah subhanho
		
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			wa Taala give us toll free
accountability. So, if you keep
		
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			the ties of kinship, if you are
good towards your relatives, then
		
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			these are the two immediate
benefits in this dunya obviously
		
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			your reward will be with Allah
subhanho wa Taala immense reward
		
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			on the day of judgment, but
immediate reward in this dunya is
		
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			that Allah subhanahu wa taala will
increase your risk and Allah
		
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			subhanho wa Taala will prolong
your life.
		
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			Next hadith is also a hadith of
Anasazi Allahu Taala No, and a few
		
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			weeks ago, we did go through this
hadith and this hadith of Abu
		
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			Talha, who was the stepfather of
of Anessa, the Allahu taala. And
		
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			who says, I will tell how the
Allahu Taala and who he was the
		
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			richest amongst the people of
Medina, amongst the unsought and
		
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			he had so many, he had many,
		
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			many farms of the palm trees, and
what kind of a habit am Wiley he
		
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			lay he by Iroha. And the and the
dreariest of his wealth of all of
		
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			his farms, palm tree farms was was
the was a particular farm that was
		
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			known as bio Raha. And that farm
was right opposite the masjid of
		
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			Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi
wasallam and the prophets of Allah
		
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			Allah salam after used to go to
his farm and he had his salatu
		
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			salam used to drink the pure fresh
water from the well that was
		
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			inside that farm. Fella manners
Allah Tala when Allah subhanahu wa
		
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			taala revealed the Ireland tunnel
durata don't matter a boon you
		
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			people can never achieve that true
righteousness until you spend from
		
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			the most beloved wealth to you.
When this aisle was revealed a
		
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			beautiful heart of the Allahu
Taala and he stood up and he came
		
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			to the prophets of Allah is
telling me he said O Messenger of
		
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			Allah. I've heard this idea that
Allah said Lenten Irun burrata
		
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			don't matter a boon we're in a hub
Bommali in a year by Raha a
		
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			messenger of Allah, the dearest of
my wealth towards me is this
		
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			particular farm beta Ha, we're,
we're in the HA sada cotton Lulu
		
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			and I give this whole farm as a
sadhaka as charity in the way of
		
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			Allah subhanho wa Taala or do
bhairahawa Hara Hara and Allah
		
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			seeking reward from Allah
subhanahu wa taala and hoping that
		
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			Allah subhanahu wa taala accept
this charity from me and Allah
		
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			subhanho wa Taala Allah subhanho
wa Taala ALLAH SubhanA wa Tada
		
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			Allah Allah subhanho wa Taala
returns in many fold to me on the
		
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			day of judgment for the IRA so
Allah Haydock Allah, Messenger of
		
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			Allah, then I request you to spend
this farm amongst those who are
		
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			needy and those who are poor,
according to your opinion,
		
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			wherever you think it is suitable
where it is most needed. So you
		
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			can spend it and you can, you can
distribute, you know, amongst the
		
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			poor and needy. The Prophet
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said
		
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			back in Dhaka alone, Robbie will
tell her Wheldon Subhan Allah this
		
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			is that this is a very profitable,
you know, charity and the wealth
		
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			that you have given in the way of
Allah subhanho wa Taala because
		
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			you are going to get in return
many fold on the Day of Judgment.
		
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			The prophets Allah Salam then said
what God seminary toma called, I
		
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			have heard what you have said, you
have asked me to spend and to
		
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			distribute the trees, the palm
trees of your farm amongst the
		
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			poor and needy, but we're in the
era and the other half will occur
		
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			Robin but my advice to you is that
you spend it and you distribute it
		
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			amongst your own relatives. I will
tell her the Allahu Taala said a
		
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			Fallujah rasool Allah, I will do
so oh messenger of Allah salAllahu
		
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			Alaihe Salam, then focus on Maha
Butel haffi Akari Biggie were
		
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			burning me. Then I will tell how
to the Allahu dal and we acted
		
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			upon the commandment of fasudil
		
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			Last Allah Salem and he divided
and distributed his his his uh his
		
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			farm amongst his relatives and his
cousins who were in need of that
		
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			which shows that when it comes to
charity as you mentioned
		
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			previously, you should never
forget your own relatives and give
		
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			them preference always look after
your relatives and see if there's
		
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			anyone amongst your relatives who
in need of your support and
		
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			financial health. You should help
them next Hadees is the hadith of
		
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			Abdullah bin Hamad bin Rs are the
Allahu Taala Andrew
		
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			on Houma, who says Aquila
Rajendra, Liliana de la he
		
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			sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, man
came to the Prophet of Allah
		
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			Alayhi Salatu was Salam and he
said, Oba eurocon Allah He gelato
		
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			will Jihad Abdullah Abdul Rahman
Allah heeta ilo messenger of allah
		
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			sallallahu sallam, I swear
allegiance to you for Hijra and
		
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			jihad in the way of Allah subhanho
wa Taala seeking reward from Allah
		
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			due to genetic rom this is my sole
intention. The Prophet sallallahu
		
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			sallam said for Hala coming Wally,
they take her don't hike. Buffy
		
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			salatu salam asked him, Is any of
your parents are alive? Is any of
		
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			your parents alive? He said none
bulky Lahoma Yes, rather my own
		
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			messenger of Allah both of my
parents are alive. The Prophet
		
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			sallallahu sallam said the will
German Allahu Taala you truly want
		
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			to get reward from Allah subhanho
wa Taala he said yes, I'm missing
		
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			you know for Allah. That's why I
said that I say the legions and
		
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			they give back out to you so that
I can gain idea from Allah
		
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			subhanahu wa, the Prophet
sallallahu sallam said, If this is
		
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			true, then further Illawarra
headache for us in Bahama. Go back
		
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			to your parents. Go back to your
parents, and treat them with
		
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			kindness so that you can gain
pleasure from Allah subhanho wa
		
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			taala. And this hadith shows that
being dutiful towards the parents,
		
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			and again, the wording in this
hadith is saying about the Houma
		
00:32:07 --> 00:32:12
			asked him for him Adama be
excellent in your companionship
		
00:32:12 --> 00:32:13
			with your parents.
		
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			And your companionship with your
parents is, is nothing less than
		
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			making Hijra in the way of Allah
it is not less than having an
		
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			doing or participating in jihad in
the way of Allah subhanho wa
		
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			taala.
		
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			And this hadith is collected by
Imam Al Bukhari Muslim Rahim Allah
		
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			and there's another version of
this hadith which says that a man
		
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			came to the Prophet salallahu
Salam and he was seeking His
		
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			permission for taking part in
jihad. The prophets Allah Salam
		
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			said, Hi Yun valley that are your
parents alive? He said, Yes, the
		
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			prophets of Allah Islam said for
fee Hema Fauja Hey, you should
		
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			consider you you should consider
serving them as jihad in the way
		
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			of Allah subhanho wa taala. And
the next Hadees is also the hadith
		
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			of Abdullah bin I'm going to be
asked what are the Allahu Taala
		
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			anima who says that the Prophet
sallallahu sallam said lay salwaar
		
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			so you know Bill McAfee similar to
the previous Hadith, similar to
		
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			the previous Hadith, in which he
said that a person came and he was
		
00:33:18 --> 00:33:19
			complaining about his relatives
		
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			and, and they attitude and their
treatment towards him. And in this
		
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			hadith, the Prophet sallallahu
sallam said, Les salwaar. So you
		
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			know, Bill McAfee,
		
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			the person who keeps the ties of
kinship truly is not the one who
		
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			treats his relatives the way they
treat him.
		
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			Lay Sal Watson, Bill McAfee. The
one with Watson Watson is the one
		
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			who keeps the ties of kinship the
prophets of salaam said, keeping
		
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			the ties of kinship is not by
treating your parents by treating
		
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			your relatives the way they treat,
you know, this is not keeping the
		
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			ties of kinship, rather, wala
Kinal Walsall, Allah the either
		
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			corpath Rahim who was Allah. The
true meaning or true essence of
		
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			keeping the ties of kinship is
that when your relatives cut you
		
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			off, you join them and you are
good to them. Which is not easy,
		
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			which is not easy. It's very
difficult. That is why the
		
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			prophets of salaam call it jihad.
		
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			We talk about the jihad other
types of jihad this is true jihad.
		
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			Jihad against your own self, your
own knifes that your own
		
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			relatives, those who are so close
to you, and perhaps your own
		
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			siblings. And this is something
that happens among the siblings,
		
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			your own brothers, your own
sisters. They do not treat you
		
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			well. They are so aggressive and
rude and harsh towards you and
		
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			They even cut ties with you.
		
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			But you are someone who is guided
by Allah subhanho wa taala. If you
		
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			think that you are practicing, you
are acting upon the religion of
		
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			Allah subhanahu wa taala. You
follow in the footsteps of
		
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			Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam, then be true and be
		
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			truthful in your statement and
your claims, then you have to be
		
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			you have to be the harshness and
the rudeness and have patience and
		
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			keep your ties of kinship with
your relatives and never treat
		
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			them the way they treat you. They
treat you badly, you treat them
		
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			with gentleness and kindness. May
Allah subhanahu wa taala give us
		
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			Toll fees and ability to increase
and better our clock. And may
		
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			Allah subhanahu wa taala grant us
patience towards our relatives.
		
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			May Allah subhanahu wa taala give
us all faith and ability to be
		
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			kind and gentle towards those who
are harsh and rude and aggressive
		
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			towards us. May Allah azza wa jal
kromm Forgive our mistakes and our
		
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			sins in the host Amir and Claudio
Mujeeb Subhana Allah Mohammed
		
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			Asha, do Allah Allah heyland A
self