Yousuf Raza – How to find fulfilment in life

Yousuf Raza
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The speaker discusses the concept of fulfillment and how it can lead to a state of complete satisfaction and peace. They give scenarios where people may need help, such as in the hospital or in a retirement plan, and how it can affect their behavior. The speaker also discusses the potential for compromise in a healthy life and how it can lead to conflict.

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			But we also do a lot of things
		
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			to achieve a sense of fulfillment.
		
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			For this, people do a lot of things.
		
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			They go on a tour of a country
		
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			or go skydiving.
		
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			People do a lot of different things just
		
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			to get some kind of sense of fulfillment.
		
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			A lot of people want a new and
		
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			big house.
		
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			They want a nice car and stuff like
		
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			that.
		
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			Just to have that feeling.
		
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			So my question is, while living in this
		
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			world, can we achieve that level of fulfillment?
		
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			See, if fulfillment becomes our goal, that we
		
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			achieve a state of complete satisfaction and peace,
		
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			then what?
		
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			Then what will happen?
		
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			Let me give you a scenario.
		
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			There is somebody who is suffering.
		
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			On the road, in the hospital, anywhere.
		
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			And that suffering person needs help.
		
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			Okay.
		
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			And for that help, two people look at
		
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			him and say, this person is in need.
		
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			This person requires help.
		
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			Okay.
		
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			One of the people who sees him, that
		
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			person is also restless.
		
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			Okay.
		
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			He has a pain inside.
		
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			I'm not satisfied.
		
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			I need to do something.
		
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			I need to get out of this state
		
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			that I'm in.
		
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			I need to...
		
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			He is restless.
		
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			He needs to do something.
		
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			He needs to achieve something.
		
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			The other person is in peace.
		
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			Relaxed, chill.
		
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			Which of them is more likely to help
		
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			the person in need?
		
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			Yeah, I think the one who is already
		
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			suffering will tend to help the other one.
		
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			Yeah.
		
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			He knows, yeah.
		
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			He has the...
		
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			He knows how it feels.
		
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			He knows how it feels.
		
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			He has something to, you know, look forward
		
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			to give.
		
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			Okay.
		
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			Versus someone who is absolutely fulfilled.
		
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			That's sort of a retirement plan.
		
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			It's...
		
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			I don't know.
		
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			Some sort of a vacation resort.
		
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			It looks good in their advertisements.
		
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			According to Allama, According to Allama, And
		
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			in this, okay.
		
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			We want...
		
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			We alternate between...
		
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			See, a healthy life, right?
		
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			A healthy, mentally active life.
		
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			We need to alternate these two states.
		
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			Restlessness to do something.
		
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			To get somewhere.
		
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			And then satisfaction with achievements.
		
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			With a relaxation.
		
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			Some break.
		
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			Some, of course, happiness.
		
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			We need both of them to be alternate.
		
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			If one of the two becomes absolute, then
		
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			our functionality compromises.
		
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			What we can do for the community will
		
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			compromise it.
		
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			See, there is so much potential in the
		
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			human being.
		
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			Some of which cannot come out.
		
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			If there is no experience of something.
		
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			You pick up history and see.
		
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			The people who have done any significant work
		
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			for humanity.
		
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			They are people who have suffered.
		
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			Yes.
		
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			Right?
		
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			They didn't do anything.
		
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			They kept chilling.
		
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			And everything was easy for them.
		
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			And they were sitting comfortably.
		
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			And no one ever pinched them.
		
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			You don't find them as having contributed.