Yasir Qadhi – The Infinite Adab & Wisdom of Dialogue of the Prophet

			Subhan Allah look at the infinit a dub and wisdom of dialogue of our Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam. Well Allah He it is mind boggling. Our Prophet system is having a dialogue with a pagan an
idol worshiper Acorah sheet, and in the course of this dialogue, he is being insulted to the highest
degree of insults. This is an insult of the highest magnitude and what is he doing? Woman
		

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			one of the beautiful incidents of the Sierra, which occurred after our Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam went public with his Dawa. And it is a well known incident reported in all of the books of
Sierra was when the Prophet systems preaching became known to the Quraysh. And it started causing
tensions within families. Brother was pitted against Brother Uncle against her cousin so it became
an issue of the entire city getting involved. And one of the senior members of the college by the
name of Raja tipner Robbie. He was in the delegation of the the network that was their parliament if
you like he was one of the senior MPs. The kurage did not have one chieftain after even Abdul
		

			Muttalib. They didn't have one king one. They had all of the chieftains basically in a parliament,
and one of the members was responsive in Arabia. And he asked the delegation, he asked the Congress
the network, he asked them, Do you authorize me to negotiate on your behalf and to make some
conditions so that we can end all of this tension? They said anything as long as he stops preaching
this message, so Rootsweb neuroglia went to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam found the time
and place that there was nobody there in front of the camera, by the way, who is relatable, or
intuitive? neuroglia he is the father in law of Sophia Sophia and his daughter is Hynde. And the one
		

			that you know the Hamza incident hint, this is the father of hint, or ultimative, notably as the one
that when the incident of thought if happened, rutabaga was the one that said to the Christian
slave, go and give the grapes that was the garden that belonged to Aruba, outside of thought if when
he saw the prophecies, and he saw what happened, he had a merciful moment that this is my nephew,
who is from the Qureshi is, you know, the second cousin of the father of the Prophet system. So he's
from the kurush, but he is not from the exact lineage. And by the way, it also is the one in the
Battle of budder, in the Battle of budder, when the Prophet system was lined, and he saw the Quran
		

			on the other side, and they saw a man with a turban around his face, and he was on a red camel
winning a very expensive, very beautiful camel rushing in the front of the ranks, and they couldn't
hear what he was saying. But the prophet system knew because Allah told him to breathe, he told him
what the man is saying. The Prophet system said, if there is any good in the people, they will
listen to the man on the red camel. This is expletive neurobiol okay, if there is any good, they'll
listen to the sensible advice of the man on the red camel. Later on, they found out the man on the
red camel was Earth was not Obeah. And what was he telling his people? He was telling his people? Oh
		

			my people, why are you killing your own blood? These are your own cousins who's gonna benefit let
them believe in another religion, who cares? You're killing them. So he was advising them to not go
to war because he felt it to be petty rutabaga was we would call him a very, you know, right wing
nationalist. He was a proud of his tribe. And yes, he didn't like the religion of Islam, but he
wasn't wanting to kill the Muslims because they're of a different faith. He wanted to be a Torah,
she pure Karachi, and he wanted stability over theology, right? He cared about the prestige of the
Quraysh, over the religion of the Prophet system. So anyway, back to the story. So he goes to the
		

			Prophet system. And he says, and by the way, by is maybe two decades older, the process is now 4142
years old, 43 or whatever is in his late 50s, early 60s, Aruba. Is this one of the senior members,
he's seen the Prophet system as a child, he's an elder of the Koresh. Another point where he brought
the words of Fidel to an end. If you remember the days of Joe Helia. That civil war that took place
Ruth Bo was the one who brought it to an end. He's a very respected member. So he goes to the
Prophet system. He says, hey, my nephew, my nephew, Isn't this enough? Haven't you caused enough
problems? You have divided our own? Look, his paradigm is very different. What is he worried about?
		

			He's not worried. He
		

			wants to have unity. He wants to have what we call that national sentiment. He wants to have the
pride of the courageous who he is. You have divided our people you have caused families to be broken
up. You have made one Karachi against another Cora sheep, you have considered our icons to be
ridiculous. We need the gods, right? These are our Icons. Imagine if you know an American disrespect
the flag, right? That's this is our icon, you know how they react. Similarly, he's saying you have
considered our icons to be ridiculous. And then he asked him, Who is more knowledgeable? You are
Abdulmutallab, meaning Abdul Muttalib, who he is your grandfather? How could you be correct and he'd
		

			be wrong, who is more knowledgeable and are you more knowledgeable than your own grandfather, and
the Prophet CISM was silent. Then he said, I am coming here to negotiate and then the famous thing
if you want wealth, we will give you all the wealth in the world. If you want power, we will make
you a member of the shura of the network. And no decision will take place except with your veto will
give you veto power, you will have the power of veto. And if you want you know if you have a
disease, we will get you the best doctor and if you want marriage name Eddie woman, make sure she
marries you. Whatever bribe we're willing to give you. Right? The Prophet says, remain quiet. Then
		

			he said ferrata Abell Walid Are you now done? Oh, absolutely. Because his son is what he did. When
are you done are overloaded? He said yes. So then the Prophet said, listen to what I have to say.
Then he began reciting Surah facilite ha Meem transilluminator Rahman Rahim, Kitab and facilite. To
and he recited, recited, recited until he came to the verse and I will Walid Aruba. He had put his
hands back and he's now sitting listening as an older man, he's sitting with the, you know, with the
restaurant, his back with his hands like this, and he's listening and his face is changing,
changing, changing. By the way, I always mentioned the Subhanallah when we listen to men, shall we
		

			Abdullah Basotho sorry the mashallah the king of Aurora? How we are affected right? Can you imagine
if we heard the Tilawat of the Prophet system what would have happened? Can you imagine hearing his
recitation May Allah grant us that agenda to for those insha Allah to Allah so rudabeh is listening
to the Prophet systems did our his whole face is changing until finally the prophets ism comes to
the verse for in our or do if they reject this message for call under Tecumseh cotta Metro saya
today I don't know what the mood I'm warning you of a lightning bolt that will destroy them, like
either the mood were destroyed. And it's a crescendo it's building up. If you read the verses,
		

			they're powerful, they're powerful by this time, but jumps up and he puts his hand on the mouth of
the prophet system. And he says I beg you by Allah stop. This is a threat. And I'm worried I beg you
by Allah stop. Don't go further. Hi, just stop here. So the prophets have said, Okay, you have heard
what I have to say for Antonio Schatten okay, it's up to you what you want to do, then the story
goes on. So many benefits, but the point I wanted to just bring here small benefit Subhanallah look
at the infinit a dub and wisdom of dialogue of our Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. Well Allah
He it is mind boggling. You know, when two of us Muslims get involved in a debate or a dispute. We
		

			don't even show a fraction of wisdom of Russia of common sense. Our profit system is having a
dialogue with a pagan an idol worshiper Acorah sheet, and in the course of this dialogue, he is
being insulted to the highest degree of insults. You want money will give you money. What an insult
to the honor and dignity of our prophets. Allah Allahu Allah, he was selling them. Do you think he
wants money? You want power you want to women are older Biller, this is an insult of the highest
magnitude. And what is he doing? Quiet? Go ahead. More asked me more. No problem, right. And the
question as well. Are you more knowledgeable or abnormal buddy? Now we are insulted. But from his
		

			paradigm. It's a common sense question. Who are you? Oh, grandson of Abdul Muttalib You're a nobody
compared to him from his paradigm is different. And notice the wisdom not to single one of these
insults the prophecies and responded to why? Because it's hopeless. Do you expect the process to say
I am more better than my grandfather and a bull will lead or else was going to understand his
paradigm is so different. That to merely say the Profit System is better is going to be falling on
deaf ears. This is what you call wisdom. You choose your battles and you choose when to speak and
when to be quiet and you choose what to say. And he didn't even respond to all of those bribes, out
		

			of dignity not even responding just complete ignoring and this is the sign of a dignified critics.
		

			panela and then what did he do? He presented to him go resurfacer we don't have time to go into
that, go read it. He presented him the message of Islam. And the first page and a half of sort of
Fossella talks about Tawheed. It talks about rissalah. It talks about an era and then it ends with a
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			is there and that's when I would have already jumped and said enough is enough. From this, we
learned and inshallah with this, we conclude, dear brothers in Islam SubhanAllah. What a beautiful
manner here that when you are engaging in dialogue, understand the goal is not the Jew show that you
are better than the other person. The goal is to genuinely convinced the person and how you convince
the person, generally speaking, is by respecting the dignity and the time. In fact, he even asked
about what are you done now? He let him go on and on. And on. Next time you see a debate between two
Muslims, you will see they will not even let the first person finish the sentence before the other
		

			one interjects and thinks he's refuting they won't even let you finish the sentence. And here the
Prophet system is sitting. Go ahead, quiet. Go ahead more, more and more when he's done. He even
asked him anything else anything left? This shows you simple common sense. And then also the wisdom
and how you respond right? The paradigms are so different, that the Prophet system would not even
have been, you know, successful if he tried to negotiate with everybody. I don't want money that
would be insulting to even say that, Oh, I am better than Abdul methodic that would not fly on his
ears. So you just ignore that and you move to your solid points and the solid points are what the
		

			Quran Tauheed the salah. In any case, this beautiful anecdote is full of wisdom and it shows us the
dignity of our prophets of Allahu alayhi wa sallam and it shows us some etiquettes of how we debate
and dialogue May Allah subhanho wa Taala causes to benefit from the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam and Sharla will continue later on so make one
		

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