Yasir Qadhi – Ramadan 2022 – The Manners of The Believers #01 – Are Manners Inherent or Acquired

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			la hamdu lillah wa Salatu was Salam ala Rasulillah who are the early he was off by a woman who Allah
Hammerberg our Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said in nama birth to Luton Mima Makati mal
o'clock the only reason I have been sent by Allah is to perfect noble manners to perfect noble
manners. The entire message of Islam the reason why Allah sent us a messenger is to perfect noble
manners in this series in sha Allah to Allah for the next 29 days, including today, we're going to
be talking about macadam one o'clock, the noble manners and what it means to be a movement and what
manners are recommended and obligated by Allah azza wa jal, and by His Messenger, the term o'clock
		

			is the plural of hook, and hook is from the same verb as Halacha, which means to create, in fact,
the term hook and hook is from the same root because Hulk is your outer body and hook is your inner
characteristic. So your heart look is your outer shape and form your size your features this is Hulk
and your whole look is how your soul has been created, your mannerisms and the way that you interact
with others. This is the hook and our scholars have divided into three categories, our promises and
came to perfect all three of them. The first is a lot between you and Allah subhana wa Tada
believing in Allah Alone having your Tawakkol in him your Eman your Islamic your marhaba your has no
		

			vision of Allah that is category one you o'clock with Allah and this is discussed by the scholars of
theology. Number two is a hanok with the rest of mankind you're o'clock with how you deal with other
people being patient being just forgiving, having a clean heart and this will be the focus of our
talk in these next 30 Nights inshallah Tada and number three is a laugh with yourself, laugh in your
own private life as love for example, when you do something, do it well make sure you are perfect
when you do it. So these are three categories of a HELOC and our topic will be focused on this
second, which is a HELOC. When you deal with others of mankind and everyday in sha Allah Allah, we
		

			will take a particular hook a particular characteristic, the goal being by the end of this month in
sha Allah Who to Allah, we will have a chart in our minds we will have a table of contents, what do
I need to do to be a better Muslim in the eyes of Allah subhanho wa Taala and realize dear Muslim,
that being a Muslim is not just about rituals. It's not just about a Baghdad it is also about more
amulet. In fact, our Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said that it is likely it is very possible
that a person will reach the highest levels of the one who fasts every day. And the one who prays
tahajjud every night simply because of his o'clock, the o'clock will trump even sometimes your
		

			rituals, our Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, the heaviest matter on the Day of Judgment in
your Hessonite in your scales will be your o'clock the heaviest matter will be o'clock and our
Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said of the things that causes people to enter agenda the most
is your personal homework, so do not trivialize having good luck. It will be the heaviest in the
scales, and it will be a magnificent mechanism to enter Jannah. Now the question arises and this
will be the focus of the remainder of today are o'clock in our control? Or are we born with our
o'clock? Do we control our o'clock? Or is it beyond our control? Every parent here have multiple
		

			children knows that in fact, every child is born with certain types of o'clock, a certain child
might be more patient than another another of the siblings will be quicker to be angry another will
be able to bear a heavier paying load. Every child is born different and this is exactly what we
learn from the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam once a man converted to Islam, a
chieftain by the name of Allah Shechinah case and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam praised
him and said oh a schedge you have
		

			Two manners that Allah loves. Number one, you control your anger. And number two, you think before
you act, and he'll move on and that we'll talk about this in the rest of the 30 days. And Szeged
asked a very intelligent question. He said, Yeah rasool Allah these two manners, did I acquire them
with my own skills? Or Did Allah subhanho wa taala? cause me to already have them? Is it in my
Jumilla? Is it already within me? And the Prophet system said No, Allah blessed you to have them. So
Asha said Alhamdulillah, to the one who gave me two characteristics that Allah and His Messenger
loves. And in the Hadith in the Muslim demand, Muhammad, our Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
		

			said that in Allah to Allah Azza wa ala kakum, gamma kasama or Zakum. Allah has distributed your
luck, like he has distributed your risk. Some people are born wealthy, others are born the children
of of kings, others are born in socioeconomically deprived circumstances. Some people acquire wealth
very easily, others acquire difficult all of this Allah has a portion. So the Prophet sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam said, Allah has assigned your o'clock like he has assigned your Azoth in the Hadith
and Timothy, our Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, Allah created bunu, Adam, Allah Tabarka
other Toba Coushatta in different levels, some of them he said, they get angry quickly, and they
		

			forgive quickly. Some of them get angry slowly, and they forgive slowly. Some of them get angry
quickly and forgive quickly and they're forgive slowly and some other get angry slowly and forgive
quickly all four combinations are mentioned. And then he said the best are those who get angry
slowly and forgive quickly. So the point being Allah created created you either Tobiah Coushatta in
different categories. Now, if that is the case, somebody is going to say, well, then it's not my
fault. If Allah created me to be impatient, then I'm going to be impatient. If Allah created me to
have a tamp temper, to get angry quickly, to be able to, you know, use my tongue in a quick manner.
		

			It's not my fault, we say, it is true that Allah subhanho wa Taala has given a section of your
o'clock at birth, it is in our spiritual DNA, no question about it. However, this does not mean that
we then remain in status quo No, because every single hook has a part or a portion that is within
our own control as well. Every single hook we also can affect it. So we come with our DNA in that
DNA is a level of a hillock and then in our lives, we can change a little bit of that as well. And
we can change with the help and will of Allah subhana wa Tada, how can we change our o'clock? How
can we better our o'clock, four things, memorize them? Number one, we begin with everything, always
		

			with knowledge, we begin with him, you have to learn what are the o'clock? What are the categories
of UCLA? What are the blessings of this particular UCLA? What are the dangers of not having it? What
does the Quran and Sunnah say about it? So number one, we begin with knowledge. And for example, in
the Quran, Lokman teaches his son Allah. Yes, his son was born with his own DNA doesn't mean you
don't learn doesn't mean there's nothing you can change. Lockman teaches his son o'clock and that's
the purpose of the seminars in sha Allah, we're going to be teaching each other O'clock Number one
is in number two is you need to have a role model who swap you need to see that o'clock in your
		

			life. And we begin with the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam were in Kerala hooking him your
Nokia rasool Allah or the highest of all, Allah azza wa jal says Lakota, Canada, Confucius Sudler he
swore to an Asana, you have the perfect role model in the Prophet sallallahu ala he was seldom so
number two, how do we better our Aleph we see the UCLA being implemented in the Sierra in the lives
of the righteous in our own lives, we see those that are better than us and how they have perfected
their UCLA. So living examples and examples in the Sierra category number two, so in and then actual
seeing it in in the sc we call it an arabic number three, how do we improve our O'clock Number three
		

			is our own personal experiences. So there's theory and there's practice, we go to university, we
study theory, we get to the job, we do the practice, we do the practicals every one of us has to
monitor in our lives, how we can apply those o'clock we learned from our mistakes. Our Prophet
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said Hadith isn't to me the inevitable move into alum We're in * move
it to help them that knowledge is gained by seeking it acquiring it. Knowledge is not gained by
osmosis. You don't go to sleep with a book of chemistry. You wake up knowing the knowledge No, you
have to gain it you have to study it and him and he'll means to conquer your anger him
		

			is going to be acquired bit to Hallam which means bit by bit you experience anger and you conquer
it. You have to be in the experience as well. You have to actually live a life where you have to
face anger and then you conquer anger. So number three is your own lives your experience. Once you
know the theory, once you've seen it done by the experts by the prophets of Allah, why don't you
send them now you need to apply it in your own life. That is point number three, and you might
mistake make a few mistakes. You learn from trial and error. And then number four, beginning and all
of it you make dua to Allah subhana wa Taala you make dua to Allah of the Duels of the Prophet
		

			sallallahu alayhi wa sallam as reported in the Muslim, the Prophet says and will make dua to Allah,
Allah Who Maggini the asanas o'clock de la DD Asendia in the end was really funny. Say yeah, now
you're sorry for me say, Allah, guide me to the best of all allow, for none can guide other than you
notice, the prophet system is making dua to Allah. Yes, every one of us has a spiritual DNA of
o'clock doesn't mean we cannot change it doesn't mean we cannot affect it. Once we have what Allah
has blessed us with, and we don't have what Allah has chosen, we don't have doesn't mean we accept
it. Rather we strive to achieve it we learn we see the role models we practice in our lives, we make
		

			dua to Allah subhanho wa Taala and that is the goal brothers and sisters. And final point here. And
that is, if Allah azza wa jal has given somebody a certain hook, and not given that hooked up to
somebody else. This means when the second person masters it, when the second person is able to
acquire it, that person will get the higher reward. For example, if Allah created somebody to be
very patient, not get angry hastily, then he doesn't get angry, good for him, he gets the reward,
Allah created another person and by nature, he gets angry very quickly, but through knowledge, and
through seeing the role model and through experience and by making lots of dua, he conquers his
		

			anger. Even if person A and person B are doing outwardly the same, person B has put in much more
effort to get to that level. And so Allah will reward Person B much more than he will reward Person
A so when you don't have a particular characteristic or iron, you all have weaknesses, we know our
weaknesses. When we strive to perfect those weaknesses and conquer those weaknesses. The rewards
will be proportional to the efforts that we put in and that's the goal of all of this series. May
Allah subhanho wa Taala grant us all the best of all the cloud and make us the best role models
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