The conversation discusses the history of the Islamic culture, including the birth of the first child, the death of a woman, and the confirmation of Islam's conversion. It also touches on the importance of women in the church and the lack of diversity. The conversation then touches on the difficulties of the story of the Prophet sallavi alayhi wa sallam, the importance of human nature, and the need for responsibility and empathy. The discussion also touches on the negative impact of divorce on couples and the importance of praying for good deeds.
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hamdulillah Isla De Niro
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Al hamdu Al Hamdulillah Al Hamdulillah Camden Kathie Lee Banila Bullock
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delta and Cooney noir urbanna Masada tuber slim Elon Musk global Kareem
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de la Salatu was Salam ala rasulillah Allah Allah He was happy woman
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souterrain shallow tada we will be doing our mother house saw Binti Romano Cotabato the Allahu Allah
and and she is obviously indicative that we are doing and in the 13th or the order of the marriage
she is the fourth wife of our prophets of Allah while he was send them after now all of you should
memorize one by one by hoping that by the time we end the series, that all of you have memorized the
names of our mothers so how digit of your loved one and then number two, so they've been D.
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so the minty minty over here, Shalom, Shalom, sheltered, Masha Allah, Allah adek, so divinities
Emma, and then number three is Ayesha winter Viva Cristo de now we have number four have slept been
to the Allahu taala and who have saw her mother was Xena, Binti mother own. And Zeno is the brother
of the very famous habit with money had been more grown and Kodama even more grown. This was a whole
family. I've already mentioned Earth might have been Muldoon a number of times and he is a very
prominent figure of early zero, but he passes away in the time of the Prophet system. So we don't
have Believe it or not a long story about him even though he is very prominent in many stories. So
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he is the hall he is the uncle of health sort of the Allahu taala on her. We don't have any
information about her early childhood as is to be expected a girl being born in the McCarthy era.
But we do know that she was born the year that the GABA was being rebuilt. Therefore, this is five
years before the Prophet hood. Therefore, she is essentially roughly the same age as felt him
according to one report or five years younger than Fatima. Remember we mentioned Fatima was born
either five years before the prophet or the year of the Prophet hood. So she is essentially at the
time of the hedgerow she will be 18 years old. So she is five years before the Prophet hood had 13
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to that so at the time of the hedgerow She is 18 years old. She was also the eldest of Bob's
children, or might have had many children. We went over that, too when we mentioned the story of
Omar, how many children he had, we don't know exactly how many but he had a lot of children. And the
eldest was half sort of the last one and a half. And he took from her his cornea. And his cornea was
Abu hafs houses the masculine name, and it even to it is allowed to have the cornea of your eldest
daughter, but it is also allowed to basically change the daughter's name to the sun. And so Omar is
Konya was able house because of house saw, because house houses the masculine of health saw, and of
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course, hafsa had many brothers and sisters, her closest brother, both in terms of age and in terms
of companionship and in terms of sharing the same mother and father, a full brother was the famous
Abdullah had been Omar and I gave his biography very early on when we did the biography of the
Sahaba. So Abdullah had been oma is her full brother from the same mother, even even though he was
obviously younger than her so she is the eldest of all of the siblings, so have settled the law.
Perhaps she was married at some point in time to a Sahabi by the name of honus. Eben, who's alpha
honus Eben who's alpha and this honus we don't have any reports about him, except that he was one of
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the first batches of converts to Islam even before the conversion of the Allahu taala and hence, it
is an opinion that I have derived and Alan knows best if one is converted with the first batch he is
mentioned in a long list of converts after urban Mr. rude. So this is very early on. If one is
converted that early on then the assumption is house also converted that early on, and hence the
assumption is that hafsa converted before her father or motivated bla bla the Allahu taala and
holidays and have said they both migrated to Habesha, they came back from Habesha and then they
migrated to Medina. So she went to Medina so she attained the two hedgerows, she is a Maha Jota to
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Habesha and a Mahavira to Medina, and her niece participated in the Battle of budder. And so her
niece is of the highest level of Sahaba. He is a buddy and he is a Mahajan, and he has a Mahajan of
Habesha. He basically checks all of the boxes that you have to be in the elite of the Sahaba. But
there is no story
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All about him because he passes away right after the Battle of butter. And we don't have, he doesn't
die from butter. It seems like he dies in natural causes or just as it was back then the timespan or
the frame was usually smaller, and people died of natural causes or diseases, he simply just appears
to have died right after birth, but not because of other Why do I say this because everybody who was
injured at whether there's a specialist for them, everybody who died as a shahida, whether there was
a specialist of them when he was named does not come on that list. Therefore, from this, we infer
that he died a natural death, but he died after the bottle of butter. And the two of them did not
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have any children. And so half so remains childless for her entire life. And health sub becomes a
widow at the prime of her age, she is 20 or 21 years old. And hafsa is now a widow, and she does not
have a husband.
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House was the timing of the widow like when she became a widow. It is roughly a few months after
earthman as well became a widower, and that is because he passed away, as you know, you know, after
the Battle of butter. And so it seems that there are two debts were in a very similar timeframe,
whether a few days or a few weeks or a few months, we don't know. But it appears that basically in
the same timeframe, little IE passes away, and holidays as well passes away. And so O'Meara De La
Hoya and logically concludes the obvious conclusion. Is that okay? earthman is now single. And so he
is the ideal candidate for my daughter, and so are a model of the Oh, sorry, model, the LA one goes
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to Earth man. And he says to Earth man that, as you know, my daughter is, you know, sharp, but she's
a young lady, and she has become a widow. And if you're interested in marrying her, then I would be
more than honored to do that. So earth model of the law when I said let me think about this. And he
came back in a few days. And he said, that I have decided to not marry at this time as a gentle No,
I have decided to not marry at this time. Omar said, Rothmans, rejection hurts me. He knows he's a
single man. He knows he's wanting to get married. And the way that he's phrasing it, basically, he's
saying, I don't want to get married at this time. Of course, he wants to get married, but he's just
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a polite way of saying no. And so Omar felt like what is wrong with my family or my daughter? Why
doesn't he want to my daughter hafsa. Then he decided to go to Albuquerque. And he went to
Albuquerque and said that Obamacare, as you know, hafsa is a young lady, she has become a widow. And
she, I'm looking for a husband for her. So if you're interested in I would be honored if you will be
her husband, if you marry her. And Abu Bakar simply turned silent and did not say anything. And from
what I understood from this, it's a no and his shyness. obaku couldn't say anything. And Omar said,
I will buckers rejection was more painful to me than Earth man's aboubaker his rejection was more
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painful to me than Earth man's. And this irritated him so much that eventually he not complained.
But you know, as friends, you talk to your friends, and he's one to the profitsystem as a friend, to
kind of just get it off, you know how it goes like, you know, you you you're frustrated, you want to
just express your feelings. And so in a few days, he goes to the process of the law where I sent him
and he explained and he says yada, yada, do you know what happened? I want to Earth man, he said no,
I want to occur. He too, you know, said no. And you know, I find this very difficult. And so at this
point, he understood now why what is going on because the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said,
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What if I were to make a better offer, I will give my own daughter to Earth man, it is better for
him. And I will take house for myself and it will be better for her. Okay, so more of the law one,
of course, agreed immediately. And then later on when he met Abu Bakar, acidic, Abu Bakar then
explained to him that perhaps you felt hurt when I said no. And he said, Yes. And so he said that I
had heard the prophecy, I said, I mentioned hafsa.
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And I did not want to expose the secret of the Prophet salallahu alayhi wasallam. And so I kind of
didn't know what to say, basically, I was stuck. I couldn't say, you know, no, I couldn't say yes, I
didn't want to say anything. He didn't know how to respond. So that's why, you know, I was acted the
way that I did. And this is the story of how hafsa was married to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam, and that is basically he himself is proposing to the hand of house or directly to Bob. And
of course, the story is very beneficial. A lot of morals can be derived from them, and especially in
that culture and timeframe when women did not go and do you know, a hunt for a husband themselves or
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there was you know,
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likelihood to get married by interacting with others that was a very reserved society, especially in
those societies, the fathers have to take charge, and the fathers have to see who is suitable for my
daughter. And this is the eagerness of the wealthy to find the righteous husband and to take an
active role in finding the righteous husband. And this is especially in societies where that active
role is not taken by the young men and women also look at their own model. The law I'm thinking of
the most righteous people are with man and abubaker because he wants a person of taqwa and a person
of a man. No one will treat a person with the dignity and respect that comes from taqwa that comes
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from the fear of Allah subhanho wa Taala. Also notice here as well, that the prophet SAW Selim, even
he is the Prophet, he is a pseudo law. So I said, I'm still he is asking abubaker an earth man, what
do you think of how so for me, and this really shows us the importance of much shorter of Shura?
Whenever you undertake a big decision, you ask somebody, and he is Rasulullah saw some still, he's
asking abubaker and he's asking Earth man, and he knows because abubaker on earth man are the
closest to Earth Omar, and he knows they know the ins and outs of the family of aroma. So he gets
the Matura or the the advice of aboubaker and earth mount of the lowland before proceeding to
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propose to aroma. And if he is going to take advice before undertaking a task, how about me and you
what we should be doing? As the saying goes, the Islamic saying that the one who does is the harder
and the one who does is the Shara will never go wrong. Okay. The one who does istikhara we all know
is the harder and the one who does is the shadow. And it's the shadow means to ask somebody to get
the advice of people. So whenever you want to do something, you ask that people have knowledge that
people have experienced the people who know whatever field that you're going to go into, get their
advice, bounce ideas off of them, and then also pray is the harder as well. So this incident the the
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marriage, it took place in shabaan, of the third year of the hijra in Shaban of the third year of
the Hydra.
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And this shows us the mistake of those who say that the marriage took place after or should. It's
very common in many books of Sierra. And it is perhaps possibly even I myself in my 100 plus
episodes, I might have slipped accidentally because I looked up and today I discovered that actually
there are many books of Sierra that make this mistake and many correct this mistake, and that is
that quite a lot of books say that hafsa was married after the Battle of oil and her husband was a
sheet Shaheed of oil. No, this is a mistake. Her husband died after butter. And auto takes place
show one of three years and she was married Siobhan of three. Not sure what and Siobhan is before.
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So she was married Siobhan and all her takes place show one. So she is not married. After all her
there's a very common mistake. And I feel I might have subconsciously said it. But in my excuse in
defense, many books of Sierra that are just replicating, they say the same thing without making the
tape without really looking into deeply she married was married in Siobhan and not sure what and her
husband did not participate in. So houses marriage is from the third year of the hedgerow at the age
of 21, roughly, and she remains obviously, his wife's till till obviously, he passes away. So from
the age of 21, up until the age of 2728. That is when the process was alive, and then he passes
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away. And of course, after this, she is his wife in this world and the next. So what do we know
about her life with the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, we know a few anecdotes and stories,
and I'll go over the most of them today. And her love for the Prophet system is well known. And
there are many incidents that demonstrate this, the famous story of the honey, the process of being
fed honey, and his other wives getting jealous. This story has been narrated with two people in it
and both of them are in Bahati. So a big controversy in the classical is called those of Heidi, who
did it happen to in the one version, which is the more authentic one, it is Zeynep who feeds him the
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honey and the other version also in Bahati, it is hafsa who feeds the honey. Okay, so we have both
of these reports. Obviously one of the narrators made a mistake and in deep introspection and we'll
get to that story when we talk about Xena, it is insha Allah pretty clear that it was Xena. However,
some authors when they mentioned have said they mentioned the story of the honey, it's not their
fault because this rewires also found and this shows us that the Hadith collections are not like the
Quran. The Hadith collections even if they're behati and Muslim, they might have hidden defects,
very small defects. There is nothing major wrong in Bahati and Muslim but what you do have sometimes
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these slips, and the authors knew it so Buhari has both of these and he knows most of them.
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has these both he knows. And he's showing you look, I'm just telling you, both of these are there.
And in further inspection, we find that in fact, the incorrect one, we can look at through the it's
not what it is. And inshallah it's pretty clear that it is in fact Xena that fed the honey and then
he was delayed. And then what happened happened it wasn't as well in our last class when we talked
about I showed the lohana. I mentioned, I should have saw what happened when they were on the
journey. And both of them got the lots to go on the journey and helps in her own way because she was
older than Arusha, and she was more mature than Arusha. She kinda sorta in a tactical maneuver,
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let's say, she situation herself to be with the Prophet salallahu it he was setting them. And she
was very irritated because she walked into that, and she agreed to what she couldn't blame anybody
but herself. And I mentioned that story last time. And this shows us that she wanted to be with the
Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. Also, there are a number of ideas. We're going to go over some
of them today, where she is questioning the process of about fifth about theology. So she is an
inquisitive lady. She's asking him specific things. And we benefit from that in our books of 1500
books of theology as well. For example, when they were performing hedge, she was the one who asked
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the Prophet so set up the yellow pseudo law, why did you tell all of the Sahaba to take the eardrum
off? And you didn't take it off? Why are you still in Iran and the rest of the Sahaba are not in
Iran. And he then he said that that's because I sent the animals with the heavy and I have the with
me and I cannot become any more healthy. I cannot remove my harem until the animals are sacrificed
basically, from this we learn that there's a type of hedge which is called Karen and in the Quran
hedge, you are not allowed to get out of your home until the animals are sacrificed whereas in
tomato, you get out and as Hubbard did to mature so we learned from this that issue of hedge that
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that the firm has to be remained in until the new soccer daddy is done. Also in sunitinib, the
manager. The processor was said to have saw that I hope that no one from budder or from holiday BIA
will ever enter the fire of help. And he said this to her and she replied but doesn't allow say in
the Koran one in men come in to do her every one of you will pass through
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and the Profit System then said and didn't you read the next verse somos una de La Nina taco one
other volume if he had you Thea We will then save the people of taqwa and leave the volume in there.
Now of course, the verse also doesn't refer to jahannam per se, what it doesn't mean to enter
jahannam while it can also mean to go over or to see and of course, this verses about the set off as
we're going to be going over the Surat analyzer which then mentions that all of you are going to
pass over the slot, and then the token will be saved from the slot. Another incident narrated in the
books of Hadith regarding hafsa. And remember last time, I said that the wives of the process were
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divided into two camps. Contrary to popular perception, hafsa and Arusha were on the same camp.
Okay, so they got along relatively better than the other wives not this doesn't mean that minor
disputes didn't happen between them, where they already mentioned the story of the traveling. But
overall, there were two camps. And I shouldn't have said on one camp, and Zayn Evan oma selama were
the leaders of the other camp. So I shouldn't have saw like their fathers were friends, the two
daughters were friends as well, like Abu Bakar and Omar were best friends. So to the daughters were
also best friends, even though sometimes even amongst best friends, trivial things happen. Same
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thing over here, especially in the case of CO wives. So in this case, there was nothing
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negative that happened when they were together. And they were both fasting outside the days of
Ramadan. And they had not eaten food for many days. And this day, they were fasting. And it so
happened that somebody gifted them some luscious food, some luxurious food. And the both of them did
not have enough patience, except to eat the food right then and there. And Subhanallah this really
shows how hungry they must have been that four days they are struggling to eat and then that day
they happen to be fasting. Now some delicious food is gifted, and the both of them just ate the
food. Now this is not Ramadan, obviously it's, you know, outside of Ramadan. And the both of them
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after eating, then they felt guilty. What do we do now? So they're wondering what is to be done,
what is to be done? And in the meantime, the Profit System returns and it shows narrating the
Hadith. And she said house stood up and rushed to confess what we had done. And she was the daughter
of her father. This is a phrase of Ayesha, what kind of similar to ob her. She was the daughter of
her father. What does this mean? Who can tell me?
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She had the courage and the bluntness. Like, it shows
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A bit scared of it what not? And half says the one she just confesses and says, Yeah, no sutala we
were hungry, we hadn't eaten food came, and we broke our fast now what do we do, right? And so the
Prophet system told them to make it up without any other penalty than this. And that is, in fact, we
learned from this the fifth, that when you are fasting, enough, fail fast, when you are not,
something is not the fault of the party, there's no sin to break that fast. But still, you should
just make it up any other day. So there's no sin to break a fast outside of a normal bone. That is
just enough. In fact, this is enough and fast, right? And nothing fast is much more lacks than
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thought fast. And so the process of said, there, you know, there's no scenario but make it up and
other day and this is the also the default that when we're doing any good deed, even if we have to
not do it, then we make it up on another day. But the key phrase here, issue is praising hafsa by
saying, and she was the daughter of her father. So we learned some of the characteristics of how
soft sometimes which also got her into trouble as we were going to see in some of these incidents,
and her 04 the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam it indeed did get her into some trouble, perhaps
more than some of the other wives and some of the other mothers and of them is the incident where
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she became angry at Sofia Binti.
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And she then said to her, yeah, vanetta yahoodi. Okay, so she then said to her or daughter of a
yahoodi. And so Sophia urbanity a hoody. And so Sophia then began to cry, and she complained to the
Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam that he called me or daughter of a yahoodi. And, you know, the
process of consoled her, and said, How can I help you claim to be better than you? For Your father
was a prophet and your uncle was a prophet? And your husband is a prophet? How can she claimed to be
better than you? Your father, meaning most of your uncle, meaning how long? You know your husband,
all of us are prophets. So how can she be better than you, then when he met half son next, he said
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to her, it tequila, half saw fear, a lot of this was not appropriate what you had done. And so this
is some of the you know, the zero that happened in hafsa. So one of the definitely one of the more
difficult and problematic stories. And again, I gave my disclaimer at the beginning of this era of
the world not to see the beginning of art, the cedars of the mothers of the believers. And I'll give
it again, now, that, you know, these are the stories that typically you do not hear, for valid
reasons, no problem and not narrating them. But in a class like mine, I think it is always best to
be blunt and fair and to give all of the details. And I'd rather you hear it from me than any other
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source so that you can contextualize and I keep on saying this over and over again, that sometimes
we form an image of the past of the Sahaba, of even the Prophet system that that images in our mind
is not in reality, then when we discover reality, we find the drawing contradiction. And the problem
is in our image, the problem isn't what we constructed. And that's why it's best to be very academic
and Frank in this regard. And one of the problematic stories is the story of hafsa. And Maria bint
ultimately, Maria, sorry, not Maria been to Sharon deliberately, and Maria, as we know, and we're
going to come to Maria.
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When we come to her at the end of the series, we're going to talk about the milkier mean of the
Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. Maria, of course, was one of the Milka mean of the Prophet
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and an incident happened because of which Allah xojo revealed sudut A
to headin yeah una Vu Lima to how to remove ma hella la Holika tablet le model water as logic. So
this incident, so first and foremost soda to hit him is very clear that something major happened in
the household of the prophets of Allah Allah who was settled and two of the wives of the Prophet
system did something they should not have done into tuba Isla la he forgot the socket Hulu Kuma if
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the both of you repent to a lotta tuba. So the two wives there's two wives that have done something
they should not have done. And in this surah as well we learned that the Prophet system had confided
in one wife and told her not to say anything to any other wife. And this wife broke that oath and
did confide in the other wife. We also learn Yeah, you want to be you limit to her remote? Hello
Hola. Hola. Oh, Prophet. Why do you make How long? What Allah has made Hillel in order to please
your wife? So we learned that the Prophet system had made something haram that Allah had made Hillel
and so Allah azza wa jal revealed in the Quran, why are you making haram what I have made highlight
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for you. So these are clear facts. What happened?
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There are two narratives that one of which is sounds better to our minds, but it doesn't fit the
suta as well as this. And that is the story of the honey, the honey story that the process of ate
some honey and then I shouldn't have said they conspired to say the bad smell coming and whatnot.
That is a opinion and it is found in some of the classical books. I'm not saying it's wrong, it is
there. Nonetheless, it doesn't appear to be matching the verses fully. There are so the fact that
Allah Zoysia is saying Why are you making out on what Allah has made highlight in order to please
your wives, he did not give up the honey to please his wife, he gave the honey because bad smell is
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coming from him or he thought and other things that just just don't match up. The strictness of the
verse of the heading and the fact that the processing don't tell anybody to one of his wives, what's
the honey, it doesn't fit at all. The honey story does not fit the verses at all. To be brutally
honest, it is because some medieval people and the scholars whatnot, they wanted to make it look
more sanitized. So they take version B and it doesn't fit version a which is Madea ultimately fits
110% and it fits the verses. But to the sanitized ear, it is a little bit harsher. So this is the
difference that we have here. And a quarter Toby clearly says that this story matches perfectly with
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diverse hypno Josie as well of poverty is the one narrating it in detail and all of this. So it is
very clear in my humble opinion. And any academic I think will say the same if you really study it
with an unbiased mind frame, it's very clear that sort of the heading was revealed because of hafsa
and Madea not because of the honey story, which is Yeah, not not even a few tries to say maybe both
of them happened to the same timeframe. It's a bit of a stretch I need the verse came down for one
issue. I've been Kathy says maybe they both happen in the same month or something. Okay, well, maybe
they did. But the reason really is the issue of Mario. So what exactly happened in this incident of
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muddy and hafsa. So the story goes as follows. And it is mentioned in a number of books of poverty
mentioned that a lot of detail had been cited has references to it. avanti has it many books of
Hadith, many early books of Tafseer. Because the Quran is about this, where you will find it in
books of Tafseer as well. And piecing it all together, a very clear narrative emerges. And that is
that one of the days that was belonging to have saw that the process of voting should have been
withheld. So have saw excused herself and asked permission to leave the house. So the profitsystem
is there she is excusing herself and saying that I would like to go visit my parents or whatever. So
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she has her reason to go. And so she is going to be gone for the whole day. And therefore the house
is not there. And so the profitsystem calls media and one half so returns, media is in the house,
and she understands what has happened. And she becomes extremely agitated and angry, which is
completely understandable. She becomes very irritated and frustrated. And she expresses her
frustration in very harsh words to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Yasuda law in my house on
my day in my bed Yato pseudo law you would not do this to any of your wives. It's only because I
have such a low status. So she's very now she's she's visibly irritated, understandably irritated,
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and she is very angry. And the Profit System now is calming her down. And in the course of calming
her down, he says that, Okay, I will not be with Mario ever again. Okay, so to please to placate
hafsa he says to myself saw that okay, I'm not going to go to Marty ever again. Okay to make you
happy halus I'm not going to go to my dear. So hafsa says How can you not go to her when she is
highlighted for you? How can you not go to her? So he gives a custom by Allah.
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So now he uses Allah's Name. And that's why the Quran is going to come down. He gives a custom By
Allah, that she is held on for me. Now that the person has been given hafsa is placated. hausa is
happy. Okay, now she has gotten something in return. And that is that no Madea in the picture. Okay,
and the Prophet system and this again, this. So this whole story from beginning to end. It really
shows the human nature of our mothers and our Prophet even sallallahu sallam. And this is something
that we don't typically like to think about. And we have our version of the past when in reality, he
was the best of human beings but he was a human. And he was, say you do one or the other but he was
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still one or the other. And he was flesh and blood.
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He ate and he drank and he married. And he divorced as we will see. So all of this, we it's not
things we like to think about. But these stories, they lay it out in the details that, you know,
perhaps beginning students don't want to study and that's fine. But at this advanced level, it's
something that we need to do. So hafsa is placated, she's calms down, and the Profit System then
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commands her that do not tell anyone, especially Asia, don't tell her what happened. And don't tell
her I gave up my idea as well. Because the issue comes, there's a dual thing here. Okay, there's a
dual thing here. And Firstly,
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the fact that mahdia already is causing so much issues intention with the other wives, it's well
known, okay. And how she herself said when we get to Marty will mention this that I should have self
said. So I quoted you two, three weeks ago that I just said, I was never as jealous as when your
wife has a deja? Well, she has the exact same phrase for Maria as well. Okay. And that's how she has
every right to be, I was never as jealous of any wife as our as any lady as Maddie, because Maddie
is not a wife of any lady as Maria. And that was because she was a young, beautiful lady with long
hair. And so she she describes my idea as being somebody that, you know, the prophet system was
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enamored with, and she was feeling that this is, you know, a competition for me. So she did and the
Prophet system knew that if our issue found out he didn't have to deal with that as well. There's no
need. Okay, I already dealt with one now why deal with the other as well. And then the other issue
comes that he gave up my idea for health saw. And this is going to be a tension between health and
our issue now. Not attention. But a competition. Like is going to be a thing now that Oh, for Madea
sorry for how you gave her up. And when I was irritated, you didn't. So that's another issue. And
this is human nature. Again, this is, you know, raw humanity being exposed in front of us, right? We
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all understand at some level, what is going on here. And the sensitive nature of relations, and the
difficulties, frankly, of having polygamous relations and you know, polygynous situations and, you
know, the brothers like to I'm not pointing any fingers anywhere. But the brothers like to crack
jokes about polygamy all the time. The fact of the matter is that even the Prophet system, it was a
headache and a nuisance and an irritation, these types of things. What am I saying this, whenever
you're in a polygamous situation, whoever has gone through it are prophecies and went through it,
and he has to deal with it. And anybody who goes through it, so all jokes aside, it is a huge burden
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and a huge responsibility. And it brings its baggage that those who No, no. And our profit system
now has to deal with this between the wives as well. And so he tells to have saw that don't go tell
Isha what has happened for all of these reasons. And Ayesha, sorry. I'm hitting now have sub
promises. I'm not going to. Okay, what happens
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hafsa cannot keep it in.
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Because this is a point of pride. Look at what I did, even though they're on the same team. Right.
But still, it's a matter of, I got him to do that. The both of them did not want him to be with
Madea right. But he gave her up for one and not the other, even to Ayesha was also very annoyed,
because eventually we'll talk about this eventually became such a big issue. He had to move Maria to
hourly outside of the household, he had to move her to a special house in an hour. They were you
know, it was like 45 minutes away from me, he didn't have her anywhere close, because the otherwise
would get so jealous of Mario, and especially when she became pregnant. Imagine then, right? It was
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an issue of tension for all of them. And so he moved her all the way that this is before the
pregnancy, obviously. So he promised have saw that he's going to give up Maria and told her don't
tell Arusha. Okay, what happens? She goes, and she disobeyed the explicit command.
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And she said she wouldn't do it. And she did it. And she then tells Arusha, what happened. And that
is when Allah revealed sort of that the Hatim to the Prophet salallahu idea he was setting them were
in a southern Naboo Illa Valley as YG had DITA when the Prophet cism confided with one of his wives
about something which wife did he confide hafsa right. With a subtle Nebula about his YG editor for
them to be he will have heard a whole lot while he autograph about the hula and bow. So she
basically mentioned it, and she mentioned some things I didn't mention other things. She's picking
and choosing what to mention to make the story look better for you.
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her fellow my hubby he when he told her Why did you inform Why did you tell all that man and she
said Who told you that? I said, where'd you get this information? Did I should tell you that I told
her all n n E n r Li Mo Javier Allah Lima Have you told me that you told her Isha? Okay, so this
verse Then came down. And the Quran basically commanded the prophets of Salaam to make the fara for
his oath, right that this oath should not have been given. Yeah, you and maybe you Lima to remove
Matt halala, who like No, you did not have the right to bring a last name and make out on what I
have made highlight for you. The metadata is wider to please your wives You shouldn't have done
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that. I know more, what is beneficial and useful for you and what I have made highlighted for you.
And you should have not used my name in this regard. And into to obey the law, the both of you if
you repent to Allah, then the both is now
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is being directed to them. Now in this story, what the prophet system has done. And this is again,
we have to be very, very frank here. Not only is he Rasulullah system, so he has a certain
concession and laxity that none of us have. But when push comes to shove, did he commit a sin? Or
the builder? Of course not? Of course not. Maria is Hillel for him. And hafsa is not there. She has
excused herself. Now, her house her bedroom. No doubt, it's awkward. And that's why she is irritated
and she has every right to be irritated. But she should have kept your irritation in check. And she
did not do that. And she took it more. And the officers who played to play cater use the name of
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Allah subhanho wa Taala. And so are we the Bella he did not do anything that was Haram.
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He did not do anything that was sinful. But what he did hurt the feelings of hafsa. And that is
understandable and have sudden reacted in that manner. And then he reacted the way that he did. And
then a large xojo reveal V or on and this of course is the when you look at the story. It fits with
the heading perfectly. And it also fits the next incident that we're going to discuss. And that is
the divorce of half son. The fact that half saw was divorced. You all know it now because I've
mentioned this like a gazillion times. But the average Muslim is clueless about this. And I think
this is a big mistake. The average Muslim still believes or the process of never divorced any of his
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wives. And that is blatantly false, blatantly false. he divorced, multiple as we will talk about,
but the only one that he divorced that he was with was hafsa. The others that he divorced, it
happened before the consummation for reasons we're going to come to, or we have a whole lecture
about that. But the only wife that he divorced that he was with was half size. He did not divorce
any other wife that he was with now the divorce of half. So it's mentioned in the books of Hadith
and the books of Syrah. I mean it's well no, no scholar denies it. But there is this myth in the
minds of the Muslims that the process of never divorced and this myth is dangerous and harmful for
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one simple reason. It then stigmatizes divorce even more than it needs to be. And you know, in our
community, divorce is stigmatized, and our community divorces are looked down upon and this is
wrong. Divorce is something that sometimes has to happen and if it happens, the people should not be
stigmatized. The fact that the profits are some divorced is enough of an indication that it is a
necessary exit when there's no other alternative. There should be no stigma attached to divorce. So
here's the other other point. hafsa was divorced, unanimous consensus she was divorced. What is the
reason for her divorce? The books of Sierra are silent.
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Some books have
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mentioned this is the story of the reason for divorce. And that makes complete sense. Why was hafsa
divorced? We have to be clear and say really Allah knows. But the most obvious reason is this very
incident and her direct disobedience to the commander of the prophets I said them and the fact that
Allah revealed or on about her and warning her that if you continue this way, then know that find
the LA Mola, ojibwa Sawyer and momineen Allah is his ally and jabril is his ally and the righteous
believers are his allies. And if you and if Allah once he can substitute wives that are better than
you Muslim it may not incarnate into a better direction diabetic everybody say no, say hi to the
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bottom of the whole list is there. So it is as if the Prophet sallallahu Sallam understood from the
revelation
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Have these verses that helps I had been criticized by a law, this is interpretation. And so she is
no longer worthy to be my wife. So he divorced half.
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he divorced half sup, based on this entire episode and debacle that had happened. And this makes the
most sense, even though the books of Hadith and Sira do not explicitly mentioned any reason, it
just, it just says he divorced, half saw, and then he took her back. It doesn't mention why. But if
you look at the whole sealer, there's nothing else that happened that was so big of an issue other
than this, and it makes complete sense, because we're going to come to in a while, how and why did
he take her back? It makes complete sense, if you look at it through this story. And of course,
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there is an opinion By the way, there is an opinion
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that he divorced her twice. But I dismissed that, in my humble opinion. It's it to me, there's no
evidence he divorced her once. They base this on a phrase of Omar rhodiola. One that Oh, hafsa. He
has already divorced you once if he divorces you again that I'll be ruined. Okay, so this statement,
they say that Omar said this before, so that it was revealed. But in reality, there's no evidence to
suggest this. And he might have said this after sort of the honeymoon was revealed, which would make
sense. So she was only divorced once, not twice. Also, Omar was always conscious of health status.
And he was always trying to make sure that half sled did not get into more trouble, which kind of
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indicates she had Omar's nature of the law, one indicates that Omar knew this. And Omar knew that
only my daughter might you know, get into this or there's multiple phrases that we have in the books
of Hadith.
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The most famous one that I have mentioned multiple times, that once Omar was getting angry at his
wife, and he raised his voice against her. And lo and behold, she raised her voice back and
responded, the audacity of women. That was a joke, by the way, so.
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So she responded back. And Omar, lost it. And he said, You dare respond back to me. He was not used
to a woman responding back to him. She said, you're gonna get angry at me. Your own daughter
responds back
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to the Prophet system there what you're going to do now?
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Or Omar could not believe this. He forgot the argument with his wife. And he rushed to hofsas house
immediately.
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And he said, Is it true that you respond back to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and you
raise your voice at him? And his wife gave a lot of detail. So then she said, and you sometimes
don't speak to him for the whole day? She said, Yes, all of us do.
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So then Omar became so angry at hafsa. And he said, in a long Hadith is there the phrase that this
is there is that don't be deluded by the fact that your companion gets away with this. She is more
Beloved, and more beautiful than you in his eyes. Don't be diluted by Leia Horan. Nikki, don't be
confused or considered. She's doing it. So don't think you can do it. No, do not ask him anything
more. If you need anything come to me, don't trouble him don't. So she he is now concerned that my
daughter is going to get into trouble by whatever, you know, things that might be happening and
whatnot. So this demonstrates that hafsa is indeed the daughter of her father and our motto, the law
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who understands this. So back to our story here. And that is that
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the prophet SAW said I'm divorced help. So now it's mentioned in the books of Hadith and Sierra that
her uncle's came with mine even more grown. Even more grown, they came these these are hot a while
right? Her mother's brothers, right? So these are mountains, they came to visit, finding out what
happened. Why did the divorce take place? And there's a very, very important phrase which really
proves again that the divorce took place because of what I just said. And that is she said, The
Prophet sallallahu I said them it's a double negative. So pay attention didn't divorce me? Because
he doesn't want me anymore. It's a double negative. Okay. He didn't divorce me because there's no
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feelings. That's not why he divorced me. In other words, what she's insinuating is the feelings are
still there. But something happened that he feels I need to be divorced for an incident has
occurred. Okay. And so it's very clear therefore that the incident is what we have just said that
the Quran came down and the process of interpreted this to be basically asking for divorce and the
news of the divorce
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spread throughout Medina unece narrates that the city grieved when they heard of the divorce. And he
said that you know, when you hear somebody, anybody goes through a divorce, you feel sadness.
Imagine it is your mother it is the Profit System imagine. So the city was in grief that they were
shocked. And they were sad at the divorce of the Prophet of the Prophet system and have saw. And of
course, the person who took it the hardest was on whatever hottub rhodiola. One, it is said that he
said it in house for a few days. In one report, he put sand on his head, and just, you know, put
himself with sand. And he said, you have another hot tub. Allah will not care about you after this,
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like I'm gone now after this, right? So he took it really personally as well, that house I am
ruined. Now, my daughter has been, you know, divorced. And everybody knew the reason and this is so
powerful. And my humble opinions, my HDL completely I could be wrong. Perhaps the reason why the
suburb is not mentioned for the divorce is people don't want to mention too many deeds, they want to
gloss over it. Back then everybody knew.
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By the time three, four generations come, we don't know. And it's really perfection of their job,
that they don't mention these details. So everybody knew that would require says the process of
divorced, half saw, and then he took her back. That's all that he says. No. Sahabi said why and what
and no, it's a very painful time. And you know, as I've said many times, you know, when couples
fight when parents fight, you know, children don't remember the details, neither should they. And if
they do, they don't tell them to the next generation, you don't mention certain things, you just
leave it in, call us forgotten. So this is one of those things that the the, you know, these
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internal issues, they weren't passed down to the next generation. And so we have to try to
reconstruct whatever we can while we maintain our adapt. And so it appears as I said that this was
clearly the reason. So half so was in her ID for how long we have no idea could be one week, it
could be two and a half months, we have no idea what over dozens of books, not a single book gives
how long she was in that depth. But all that it says before they're finished. So whether it's one
month or two months, or two months, in three weeks, because basically that's what they're going to
finish, right? Three months is when they're at the finishes, right? In this timeframe. The
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profitsystem came back to hafsa. And said, or hafsa gibreel came to me
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and commanded me to take you back
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and told me that you are so warm to a warmer tone. You are someone who fasts regularly and prays for
a long period of time, and inform me that you shall be my wife in this world and in the next world.
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So
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the fact that God came back and told the profitsystem to take half saw to me indicates that the
divorce happened because of something Jubilee brought, which is suited to heading. Now Jubilee did
not command the talaq, obviously, but the Prophet system inferred from it that I think I should
divorce.
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And that's why hafsa said he didn't divorce me because we don't have any feelings anymore.
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So it appears therefore, that the Profit System, obviously still loved how so he's still wanted
house, but he felt that the or on is indirectly telling him and that's why God has to come and say
no, Allah is not telling you to divorce hafsa In fact, Allah is telling you to now take her back.
She is a good lady, and she will be your companion in this world and in the next. And this also
shows us as well that the virtues of praying, forgives a lot of things, some how to have some made a
mistake. There's no question about that. But what forgave her mistake in the household dwama to a
woman. She is somebody who fasts and who prays regularly, so never ever trivialize the Salah never
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ever trivialize good deeds, continual Sadat continual good deeds. She disobeyed a direct command
from her husband who happens to be the Prophet says, No, that's not a trivial matter. And it caused
more tension in the household. That's not a trivial matter. But she was forgiven, because in the
household woman to a woman, and this is one more incentive, we didn't need any more incentives, one
more incentive to make sure that we pray and never make our setup although and also our good deeds
as well. And
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this also shows us as we said, that half succumbing sorry Jubilee coming back to me is very clear,
therefore, that the reason for divorce is Jubilee becoming the first place which is sort of heading.
So this is the story of house
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idea and after this the process some took her back and of course then they remained married. Abood
also reports to Sonia Buddha reports that once the prophets list and entered upon, have saw, and he
found with her as she found Binti, Abdullah, who was from her tribe and a distant relative, and as
she fell, by the way, she is a Sahaba.
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Again, I wish we knew more about her, but she's a very interesting story. She was a teacher amongst
the Sahaba yet, and she would teach the Sahaba yet how to read and write.
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You've all heard of the story that Omar appointed a lady to monitor the socks. Right? Right. That
story is, in all likelihood, not true. But the name that is mentioned is Shiva. Is that lady here?
Okay. The story is not really a it's a report in a very later book, and there's no it's not and what
not, doesn't make any sense. But anyway, you've all heard it, because we obviously have to have
equal rights in everything. So we mentioned the stove Shiva, but Shiva was the one who would be the
teacher, for the ladies, what would she teach them reading and writing, she would teach them how to
read and write. And the Prophet system commanded Shiva to teach English and others how to read or
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write and have saw had also learned how to read and write from chifa. So she was a wild Lima, and
she would teach the ladies how to read and write, and she would also heal and perform Rukia. And she
would cure so she was basically any, you know, a lady who was very active amongst the ladies of the
community. And once the processing came and found chifa with hafsa. And so this happened after the
incident of tedium and whatnot. And so he joked, with half saw a very, it's a joke that
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when you have to explain the joke it sees as being a joke. So this is one of those that you have to
explain it in so much detail that it's not funny at all. But it is funny if you understood the
context. It's a very
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it's only a joke that a couple can do to each other, where you put the other one down, but in
reality, you're teasing. That's the type of joke that's happening, right? So he comes in and he sees
Shiva. Shiva is the more I limit the teacher, she teaches writing, and she teaches Rokia. Okay, now,
and again to explain this joke. It destroys all the humor in it, but hopefully go back home and
think about it at night and then maybe in a shell, you get a smile, okay. He sees this teacher and
he sees hafsa and the teacher has taught him how to read and write. The teacher is also known to
teach Rokia. Okay, so I set up the joke Part A, Part B. Now, there's one other thing I need to do
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before I said the joke for you and that is, there was something that was called the rokeya of the
ant, the rokeya of the ant lupia. First of all, what is the omo Rukia is Rokia is to recite the
Quran and something to cure. Right. And there are people that are are artists. They are they are
people who are known to heal and they they're the Rokia is more effective than nuclear other people.
This is in our time to even to this day. There are people who are Rocky's shifa was a rock, Leah.
She was known for this, okay. Now there's something called utopia of the and rokeya to Nirmala. What
is the role of the aunt, the Rookie of the aunt is not a rookie at all. It is a advice that would be
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given to the bride before she got married. So before the lady got married, the woman would teach her
the facts of life you get the point and other things of this nature. And they would teach her
something
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that because they whispered it,
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they called it the rock of the end. Okay, so this isn't Rukia like Rokia but they called it Rokia.
And of that Rokia is that and it rhymes beautifully in Arabic, but of course in English is
completely destroyed is a powerful rap type of thing. You know, it's like the rhythm that they have
over there. So the bride should get ready the bride should put on henna the brush up on the bride
should do everything with eagerness you get the point over there, except she should never disobey
her man.
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Okay, so this is one of the phrases of utopia of the at rocchetta number. Now with this detail
setup, now you see where this is heading. Now you understand the joke, okay? And again, this is one
of those detailed things if you don't understand each and every item, you know, even the average out
of one he recently didn't go over his head, what is this thing and wouldn't understand it. So the
process mc chifa. And he smiles and he says, Oh Shiva, like you taught her how to read and write.
Why don't you teach her that will pay over the number as well. In the context of what happened? What
is he saying? She's not a bride. She doesn't need the Rokia to anomala. But what happened? She
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disobeyed. Right? So he is basically
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teasing hafsa that, you know, if you if she had only followed your advice or the advice of the
rookie to *, then she wouldn't be in the situation we are in here. So it's a very detailed joke
to be set up. But anyway, I hope that I set it up for you to follow. But the point is that how slow
or how are you should teach my wife to obey her husband. And we wouldn't have had all of these
issues. So how subtle the law one has she
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a number of other dimensional mentioned here, but there's nothing major that happened after this.
And after the death of the prophet SAW sent him she stayed in her house, and during the Wars of the
fitna.
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I should try to convince her to come with her. And she was close to coming because I shown her were
very good friends. But it was her brother Abdullah had been Omar, who intervened. And her brother
strongly suggested slash commanded that she stay at home. And so she did not participate in the
wars. And she thanked a lot for that. And one of the biggest blessings that health saw was given
after the death of the prophet SAW a settlement for it, she shall forever go down in history was
that she was entrusted with the first most have ever written. This is one of the biggest blessings
of hafsa that when a worker of the law one compiled the first most have ever, as you know, he was
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the one who compiled it. So he was the one who had it in his house. When he died, Omar took it to
his house. And when Omar was stabbed and about to die, so he didn't know who would be the next
Khalifa. So he entrusted that must have to have saw. And so it went to the house of the prophets of
the law while he was setting them. And for whatever reason earthman and others did not ask for it to
be moved to their house. And they kept it in the Amana of house. So much so that one Ruth man wanted
to make extra copies. And he brought the scribes to write the Quran all over again from the copy of
Abu Bakar. He requested a loan from hafsa. And he told her I will give it back to you. So in the
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time of Earth man, the most half was brought to the masjid. And it was any, you know, six or seven
copies were made. And then it was sent back to the house of health saw, and it was in the house of
house saw until the death of house. And this is the biggest one of the biggest blessings that she
had, after the death of the Prophet sallallahu. I sent him that she was the one who was entrusted
with the care and protection of the first on ever written. And perhaps one of the reasons could be
as well but she was learned and educated she could read and write, unlike many of the other women of
the time and Allah knows best why her 90 Omar never sorry earthman never asked to back permanently.
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And it remained in the house of hafsa until after her death when mode one the was the governor and
then he basically for his own reasons, he decided to get rid of that copy. And that's another story
altogether. But this happened after the death of half saw the law who died on her house that died in
the year 45. After the hero during the reign of Mao. We're at the age of 60.
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And marijuana vanille haccombe, who is the governor of Medina, he's eventually going to become the
halifa. He is the one who led the janaza abohar era was the one who was at the front of the janaza
walking into Battier and Abdullah bin Omar, her brother was the one who entered the grave along with
his siblings and children the family of Omar and they were the ones who buried hafsa in Brooklyn
where she is to this day and have settled the low line has she narrated around 60, a hadith from the
Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam three of them are more technically six of them are only in Sahih
Muslim, and the rest of them are found in the various books. And so as I will typically do when the
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number of ahaadeeth are small, without a shot, I couldn't do anything. I have five volumes. What is
the point like what am I even starting as one of the most right so I didn't even do one? Because how
do you even choose? But what helps at least we can do some so this is volume 44 of the Muslim Imam
why 44
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because the women are at the end, all of the women appear at the end, right? So after the men are
done, then the last few volumes is the women. And so volume 44 is where have settled the law one
comes there are 45 actual volumes of Hadith. And like five volumes of indices, indexes, right so
it's 50 volumes, and total five of which are indexes 45 of actual Hadees. So the second to last is
where hafsa rhodiola Juana occurs, and we don't have time to go over all 64 but I'm going to choose
maybe 10 or so just to get an idea. No this is my mom was Muslim. I always do mama has Muslim
because it has the arrangement according
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To the Sahabi. So it's easier for us to do all of the Sahaba that's why it's called a Muslim. They
said this multiple times Muslim means is arranged according to the isnaad of the Sahaba Buhari is
arranged according to topic, these are not topical these are all the hadith of hausa in one chapter
so
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most helps us Hadith are narrated from Abdullah bin Omar as well. But there are others of the tab
your own who studied from behind a curtain. So this hadith from even Omar that hafsa narrated to me
that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam would always pray two rakaat after the event had been
called a ledger, and he would make these sort of cards quick to short record. So these are the two
Sooners ledger hafsa would see them and narrated that every single day he would pray to the gods
after the event and make it very short to before and before going to the messages who would pray at
his house and then go to the masjid
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just FYI for those of you that pray fudger that's you also see me when I come in some of you asked
why don't I pray to hear that I'm following this sooner. So I come in and I lead the Salah, because
the process would pray in his house and then he would come I pray the tusen is some of you wondering
I don't pray in front of here because this is for the one who's leading for the one who's not then
obviously you have to wait for the for the soldier over here. So how subtle the last one I narrated
that I asked the Prophet sallallahu I knew who was sending them that Yasuda law Why did the rest of
the people make a * yeah. And you go out of your home and you did not make a lot after your
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ombre. So he said I was the one who puts the colada on my head it means I'm the one who wrapped the
basically I consecrated my animals. And I put the oil of on my hair before the crown which is what
they would do when they were going into prom. So I will not exit it head on until the hedge is over
meaning until all of the rights are over. I already mentioned this issue as well. Even Omar nary to
that one day I saw even a Sajjad even Assad was somebody we mentioned him when he talked about the
job, there was a fear that he might beat the job. I saw urbanists a yard and one of the alleyways of
Medina. And I began to basically speak to him harshly, and I blocked his way until finally some
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animal shelter or something fighting broke out between the two of us. And I broke his staff. And he
got angry at me then I was told half so what happened have said to me, what is your problem with
him? Why are you making him angry? Don't you know what the prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said
that the jar will only come out after somebody makes him angry
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that the jar will come out when somebody angers and irritates him, meaning Why are you messing with
this person? If he's the judge, you might expedite it. Why are you always gonna, you know interested
in this person, let him be so have sort of the law one who teaches us that something's going to
happen to the judge, and that the judge based on some altercation based on some anger that's going
to happen that's when the judge will become the jam that's when he will appear from the the judge
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house narrated that I never saw the Prophet sallallahu wasallam pray sitting down during the hudhud
except for the year or two before he passed away. And during that time, he would pray sitting down
and he would recite the sutra in a very slow manner, until it was the longest that I had ever seen.
So we learned from this that generally speaking the Prophet system prayed to had good standing up.
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But in the end of his life, when he became old and standing becomes difficult, then he would pray
200 sitting down and when he prayed sitting down he made up for it by making it longer than when he
would when he was standing up. Okay. So this is a very interesting, personal anecdote from hofsas
eyes which he has seen who else is going to tell us this the year before he died. This happened
hafsa narrated that I heard the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam say
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that an army is going to aim for this house the Kaaba in a reservoir until when they reach beta.
Beta is the valley outside of Makkah, you still when you're coming from one area, I want to say it's
the Northwest when you're coming from you will see the word beta over there. So the earth will be
opened up and they will be swallowed from their middle and the first of them will come back to see
what has happened and they too will be swallowed and no one will be saved except a small amount, who
will then tell the others of what had happened. The whole army will basically
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disappear. And this is the famous incident. That will happen after the malady reaches Makkah, and
armies will be sent to fight against the melody. And the melody will not have an army to protect
himself against those armies. And so a lot xojo will intervene and protect the melody by swallowing
up the earth. Sorry, but causing the earth to swallow up the armies that are attacking the mighty.
And when that happens, this is going to be the sign that this person is the Matty.
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Okay. Now in 1979, some ultra fanatic crazed lunatic and honestly he is a lunatic. I know some of
the brothers get exaggerating to say this, but I know his stories. And I know his friends and I know
his students and I have heard enough from him. He was a deranged man, a psychotic person. He
attempted to execute this hadith.
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And he held the caribou hostage. I went over the story in detail. What was his goal? this hadith?
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He thought that he was the MADI.
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He thought he was the MADI. And he thought that when the armies are going to come, he only had
150 200 men. How did he think he would fight against the armies of the royal family? How did he
think so? He thought Allah will help me and the earth will swallow them up.
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Didn't happen.
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You do not play a Hollywood script out of the ahaadeeth when it happens, it happens. You are not a
director. You are not the one who will expedite Alice butter. This is lunacy This is craziness you
don't do this. But the man thought her losses their hair loss I'll be the Maddy and Allah will
protect me. And what happened happened and you know, the cowboy is held hostage as you know for two
weeks and I went over the story in detail and it is also online. But this is the idea that he stood
up and I believe is going to happen. But when it happens the person it will happen to will not even
know what's him. The man he will not even know his the malady. Until this happens is a righteous man
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is a good man. And the authorities are gonna hate him despise him, they're gonna think as a
troublemaker, he's gonna flee for his own protection, and he's gonna flee to the guy but thinking
that the cabinet is gonna put you know, I mean, it's just the cabinet like that had the head on
right, he's gonna go for there. And the evil rulers are going to send people to kill them and that
he's not going to be called them at the at this time, whatever his name is going to be Mohammed
they're, they're going to call him and this will happen, and they won't recognize until it actually
happens.
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helps a narrated that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said it is not allowed for any lady
who believes in Allah and the Last Day that she observes it for the dead for more than three days,
except for her husband, for the husband, then she remains for four months and 10 days. This is a
famous Heidi, that for the expressing sorrow and grief, it should not be done for more than three
days. And what this means and I've explained this in my other lectures as well, what this means is
that, you know, when a loved one dies, any loved one, for a period of time you interrupt your life,
understandably, you know, you're just you don't go to work, you feel sorrow, you know, you just
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can't live normally you're just grieve. And Allah has in his mercy allowed for three days. Let your
life be interrupted if need be, is not wired up to go foot three, but for three days, okay? But on
the third day, you have to force yourself collect yourself. When the three days are up, you can't
continue living in this sorrow, you have to get back you have the living go on living, when our when
we die, we die with the living have to go on living, you can't just live in sorrow that the person
has died. So after the third day, you know, get your act together as the saying goes, the one
instance where not only are you allowed but out of respect you actually show a type of sorrow and
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the meaning here is that you will not be celebratory, you're not going to wear fancy clothes, you're
not going to do anything that is, you know, anything that is not befitting is the wife for four
months and 10 days. She observes that period, as we all know, of Islamic
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hafsa narrated that.
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When the Prophet salallahu idea he was selling went to sleep at night, he would lie on his right
side, and he would put his palm on his
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cheek. And he would then say, rub the penny either chiamata battery back three times. And he would
always use his right hand for eating and for drinking and for purifying and for wearing his clothes
and forgiving and for taking and he would use his left for everything other than this and he would
fast three days of everything.
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month. So it's a beautiful hadith of hafsa. She's remembering some things of the prophets I send
them is the antidote that you get from the wives from our mothers that nobody else is going to say.
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hafsa narrated that.
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One day the Prophet system was in my house, and his soap had gone in between his thighs. So he's
wearing like the bottom garment, and the soap had gone in between so the shin and perhaps more than
the shin, like maybe the upper knee, the lower knee is exposed, we don't know exactly. And there's
the famous story aboubaker came in, and he was as he was an aroma came in, he was as he was, it came
in he was as he was, other Sahaba came in, he was as he was, one earthman came in, he took his job
and spread it out, over his feet. And then he spoke to earthman then all of them left, I said, O
Messenger of Allah aboubaker came and Roma came in it came and all the other Sahaba came and you
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were in your state, when I saw with man come, you opened up your throat for him, you spread your
throat for him. So he said as the he movement is the human harmonica, the famous Hadith. So this is
how saw is the one who is reporting that famous Hadith. How so narrated that applauded even a hijab
came with a one of the chieftains of niche with a film made out of silk, and kisara had gifted him
that so. So it was a very, very fine garment, the Persian ruler, had gifted kisara had gifted one of
the the chieftain leaders with this very fine garment. So Omar said or messenger of Allah, what if I
buy it for you? Can I gift you this, I want to buy it for you, but it was made out of silk. So he
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said,
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the profitsystem said, the only people who wear this are those who have no share of the hereafter.
So hafsa is narrating what her father did and saying one more one to two gift to the Prophet
salallahu it who was sending him the final Hadith that will do and it is also the final Hadith in
the Muslim ummah. Muhammad I didn't read all of them I skipped over more than half the final head
that we're going to do that
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half saw was asked about the Prophet sallallahu wasallam his recitation, she said, You are not able
to do that. She was said no, but tell us anyway. So she said he would recite in a very slow manner.
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They are attend terrace Salat fee ha he would recite in a slow manner. They said
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demonstrated for us. So she recited. So a woman's voice is not our she recited to the men, obviously
behind the curtain Alhamdulillah here or below the mean, then she stopped or Rahmani Raheem, then
she stopped molecule Medina and she stopped meaning. And he obviously should have added in to our,
but she's trying to show that he would recite in a slow delta t voice, not the fast zooming that you
guys do. That's why she said you wouldn't be able to do it, he would recite
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Torah see that in a very slow, gentle manner. And she demonstrated this by stopping after every
verse. So these are some of the hadith of have settled the Allahu anhu. And with this, we come to
the conclusion of houses biography in our series. Any quick questions about Hassan? Yes, Mr. Miller,
this incident which happened in
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the US?
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Not at all. That's a very advanced question. I don't want to go into the details. To answer your
question know, that version of events is not found in our traditions at all. It is found in
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a trend other than suddenly trend
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will lie that's a question that I'm not qualified to answer. Is it a mainstream narrative? You have
to realize early Islam it's as if there are two versions of history, one in the Sunni books one in
the non Sunni books and these two versions sometimes they match up but a lot of times they don't
match up so that's what he's asking about that particular thing and you just have to take a you
know, we are coming from one tradition whether that is mainstream I do not know it is definitely
there is definitely found whether it's mainstream I'm not sure okay. is gorgeous.
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Follow the law hula comm
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or the follow the law hula come to hate letter a monocle. Allah
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has made it obligatory on you, that you break your person.
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So Allah commanded him to break the custom see when we make a person
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you are. So this is another common myth, especially for some reason I think it's in our DC culture
more than out of culture, correct me or our brother and but most out of us know that a custom you
can make 200 of it right? It's known in the culture, right? For some reason in our culture, the this
culture, it's as if the custom is like binding and you can never get out of it. And I don't know why
that is the case because filter doesn't teach that even 100 people it does not teach there as far as
I know, because the Oran is explicit cafardo to a monochromator head off to our professor Some said
Whoever makes a head F with a law and then he sees another thing better than his Hanif
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let him make a photo and then do what is better. So the cafaro has to be given right feeding 10
people clothing 10 people freeing a slave it has to be done. And that is the cafaro that you do but
you are allowed to break the cafaro if there is something better we we already given example that I
should not be alone when I made a photo about her nephew and she then made it up and others of this
nature like if anybody makes a photo or promises that if any makes them a cup of coffee I thought I
am breaking our ties of kinship get rid of the co founder don't mean meaning me and not get rid of
the awesome sorry get rid of the person. So Assam should not be done in disobedience to Allah
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subhana wa Tada. And that for sure you need to break the lesson. If Assam is done in something
mobile, mobile and you see that you know what I made a mistake, I shouldn't have made that custom
then you're allowed to break it. In this case the custom was made. In our case there will be mobile,
okay. But in this case, one can say Allah subhana wa tada is giving the prophets or some something.
So it takes on a different status. Okay, in our case it is mobile. But in the case of the Prophet
system, any Allah is saying, This is my Yani color for you my gift for you. You have no right to
then give it up. So this is Allah telling the process of directly Okay. Yes, sister in the back is
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it been abass says headers and body.
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But even abus said that I waited for an entire year
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to ask cromar your question, the exact your question. And that is, which are the two that are
mentioned as sort of the heading into tuba it a lot. Even Abbas said, I waited for a whole year to
see what I could ask or what have no hottub which were those two. And that opportunity presented
itself when we were going for Hajj. And I then took his water to do we'll do he want to do we'll do
he came back and I started pouring water for him to do will do and there was no one other than the
two of us. So I said oh ameerul momineen who were the two ladies that Allah says in the Quran into
tuba it Allahu Allah Akuma so Omar says, oh, son Don't you know
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it was half saw his own daughter and Asia hafsa and Asia. The head it is in body. Okay, so Omar, the
last one was asked your exact question with your exact wording who were the two ladies? your
curiosity is the curiosity of a been a boss. Mashallah, okay. Yes, I hope it's a question I can
answer.
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Why was I asked to repent.
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It appears that there was some conspiring that they were trying to do to get Mario out of the
picture.
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And so this was
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a success from the both of their teams, even if hafsa took the credit, but they were attempting
multiple times to get my idea out. And Allah azza wa jal chastised them that this is not what you
should be doing. And by the way, the ending of the heading is also very relevant here. What is the
ending of
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vulnerable lahoma felon? It's the example of the righteous wives and the unrighteous wives
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or the righteous women and the unrighteous woman. The end there. So this is like a very stark, you
know, story for the for the for the whole incident as well.
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Gannett at the end
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For Han at home,
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this is a key point here right? That they betrayed the trust of their husbands. Find a mutiny.
Allahu shader. Well, he did. Hold on man. Oh my god, okay, this is the wife of
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no hand the wife of loot. So Allah is giving the example. What was the piano that they did they
disobeyed their husbands. The piano is not out of nothing like that. That never happens with the
wives of any prophet. The piano is they disobeyed the trust of their husband when it comes to the
Salah. Not when it comes to the conjugal relationship. So Allah as you're saying dorabella
homothetic and then de la mata delidding, Armin. Variety around is Rob divinity and the cabeza
agenda shall
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they kill no
