Yasir Qadhi – Is it Considered A Sin For Choosing Not To Have Children As A Muslim Couple? Ask Shaykh YQ #206

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The speaker discusses the negative impact of bringing children to their parents' views of Islam and the importance of avoiding children in one's life. They also mention the loss of happiness and the desire for fulfillment in a world where evil and evil behavior is prevalent. The speaker warns that children are a loss and that one could have a similar experience.

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			A couple from Indianapolis wants to remain anonymous and says that for personal reasons, not for
religious, not for theological. They have both decided that they do not want to have any children.
But they were told that this is not permissible in Islam to have this intention. So what is the
response to that? One?
		
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			out of Santa Barbara, Nika Illa de Jalan, no, hey, la him. First.
		
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			Recovery.
		
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			The default ruling is that having children is encouraged. And it is something that allies origin has
expressly mentioned as being of the greatest blessings of this world. And malware known as zealots
will hire to dunya and Allah subhanho wa Taala, promises and blessings when we have children. In
fact, it is human desire, it is an urge, in default position in mankind, that they want to have
progeny to love, and to be loved in return, and to pass their legacy down. And to have someone to
take care of them in their old age, and to just make life easier to live. And so no doubt that
children is indeed one of the biggest and the most blessed.
		
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			Blessings, in fact, that Allah is origin has given us, nonetheless, it is not obligatory, to aim to
have children. And the maximum that can be said is that it is makura what you have decided to do,
and you have given up a great blessing that most of mankind want. But as long as you do not bring in
theology, ie, you say for example, that, Oh, I'm worried who will take care of the children,
financial wise, we don't have enough money, you know, you don't bring any some bizarre beliefs that,
you know, there are some fringe movements that think that it is unethical to bring about children in
a world of evil, you know, as long as you don't have those types of beliefs, and you're simply for
		
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			personal reasons, you know, people, people's views and people's perceptions of the world. And what
they want to do and not want to do is different. And some people you know, they might have a, not an
inclination, they just don't want to be involved in children. So if you and your wife have decided
this, and you take those precautions that you know, prevent children being born, the least that can
be said or I say the max that can be shared is that is that this is something that is discouraged.
It is macro, but there is no sin on you. And I have to say that this is something of a loss even of
the joy of living in this world. There is no pleasure after belief in Allah zoa jet and Islam that
		
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			brings more sense of fulfillment than family and loved ones. But if you have decided you don't want
to go down that avenue. There is no sin on you and you're not going to be punished on the day of
judgment and Allah subhanho wa Taala knows best