Yasir Qadhi – Ask Shaykh YQ – Episode 51

			Our first question today sister Natasha, emails and says that is it allowed to do to your mom, when
we are embarrassed about doing will do or when it is awkward to do will do? And if so, how is their
mom done?
		

			Okay, so in a situation where she's wanting a job she's in a place where she cannot do will do. Can
she do? This is our question. Realize that Tim is a divine gift that Allah gave to our oma. He did
not give it to any other oma before us. It is a gift that demonstrates Allah wants to make things
easy for us and not to make things difficult. And Allah subhanho wa Taala legislated to your mum, in
the fourth or fifth year of the hedgerow when in the return of the expedition of the Prophet system
where I show was there and her necklace broke the famous expedition where her necklace broke, and
she went out to search for it. And then what happened happened. This is the expedition where they
		

			among verses were revealed. So when her necklace broke, and she announced to the process and she
doesn't have a necklace, so the process of camped and he sent people to go find the necklace, right.
This is the love that he had for Arusha. Even though it was not an expensive necklace. It has
sentimental value. Turns out the necklace was underneath the camel. So when the camel stood up, they
found that they couldn't find it until the camel stood up. So it had fallen down and the camel sat
on it. Because they were delayed. They ran out of water because they were one stop away from Medina.
And they were supposed to get to Medina within 234 hours. So they had enough water to last them
		

			there. Because of the delay. They ran out of water. And they didn't have water to do will do. So
Sahaba went to Albuquerque and began chastising him look at what your daughter has done because of
your daughter. We're all delayed. And this is the reality of frustrated people. They take their
anger out, firstly when they shouldn't and secondly on the wrong people. And believe me, I know this
all the time. So they always take their anger out on the wrong person. What types of workers did
gotcha it was the Profit System that said we're gonna remain here, but who's gonna criticize so they
go through a worker so look at what your daughter has done because of her necklace we are stuck
		

			here. And when the delay continued and they ran out of water, Allah revealed sudama ada verse six.
And in it Allah says we're going to model our either suffering
		

			from income inequality or damage to UNICEF and MTG Duma and Fatah. Yum, Musab Eden, play yerba
thumb. So I hope you will join us on what a decommit and when this verse came down the same Sahaba
who criticize Abu Bakar they went back and they apologized. And they said, This isn't the first
blessing that has come because of your family or a worker, all of us have benefitted that we don't
have to use water in extreme circumstances anymore. So Allah revealed to me in this timeframe, and
it is in the Quran. And the meaning of time on the linguistic meaning is to intend something to want
to do something. And the reason why we call term momentum is that all we need to do is intend to do
		

			will do and we do the very minimal things and we have will simply wishing to do will do. And then we
have auto, that's why Tom is called to moon, you just have to wish you're into hora, and you just do
symbolic as we'll say, and you're in tahara. That's why Tom is called Tamil. The verse is
comprehensive. It mentions the causes.
		

			It mentions the cases and it mentions the procedure all of it is in the verse. Allah mentions two
things in the verse that were in control mergo Allah suffering and Olympia Juma if you are sick, or
you're traveling and you don't have water, this verse mentions these two cases. Some scholars have
added three which is a part of this we're going to come to and the verse also mentions, whether you
use the restroom, or you have touched women, this is in the Quran, which means they are mom takes
the place of both will do and also this is in the Quran. This is the beauty of the verses so small,
and yet so much is coming from it. When to do to your mom how to do to your mom and the causes of
		

			their mom. All three are mentioned in this verse. So Allah is saying even if you come from the
bathroom, or in the language of the Quran, you have touched women, Allah does not use vulgarities
touching women means you have been intimate, so in your state of Genova and you don't have water,
then what should you do Fatima, Musashi them to yoga, then intend to lift your tahara sorry, lift
your job or state of not taharah with sorry, done
		

			yeva pure sorry, from several Buju hichem ya decom. Wipe your hands and your face, wipe your face
and your hands with it. So this shows us to me now. So hey Buhari mentioned that once our mighty
been Yasser was on a journey, and he had to do also he woke up in a state of Geneva. He had a
night's dream, and he didn't have enough water. So Amar said, I removed my garments in a faraway
location, nobody was there, and I then turn naked in the sand, all over the sand my body to do the
Mo.
		

			And I then prayed. Then I went back to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and told him what I
had done.
		

			And the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said in kinda yuck FECA hacker all you needed to do was
this. And then he showed him for bourbon. Maybe you sold a lot who I knew he was selling maybe cafe
hill or whenever huffy, Hema, summer must have been him. I went to a cafe, the profitsystem put his
hands on the sand, blue, and then he wiped his face and his hands because that's all you needed to
do. This shows us a defensible hiding Muslim, this shows us to him is symbolic. Water doesn't become
sorry, dust doesn't become water. You don't roll over. You don't take sand and you go like this. No,
to your mom is symbolic. That's why it is called Tiger mom you intend and so it happens. And Tiger
		

			mom is a gift to this oma that no mama had before. Our Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said,
jewelry that little out of domestication was a hurrah, this earth has been made my Masjid. And this
earth has been made a source of becoming clean. So the headache goes a human, whatever person of my
alma has to pray, he will have his place to pray, and he will have the instruments to clean him with
him. Now, to us, we take it for granted the previous nations and to this day the Orthodox Jews
follow this. You cannot just pray anywhere you need a congregation. You cannot just use any water
you need to use water that is found with a long list of conditions. You know, they're gentle, but
		

			they're hostile, they need to do it in their synagogues. They cannot do it the way that we do. They
cannot do it at home. When the ladies have to do wholesale after the monthly cycle. They have to go
to the synagogue to do hustle, because it's a special type of water that is not just the tap water.
So the Prophet sallallahu Sallam is saying for us our Lord has gifted us what has he gifted us with?
wherever we are, we can pray. We can pray anywhere. When it's time for Salah we pull the car over
and we just pray and it is allowed as long as the earth is pure. And wherever we are we can pure
ourselves purify ourselves if we have watered hamdulillah If not,
		

			this is a gift and a blessing to make life easy for us. It was not given to any nation before us. So
how does one determine goes without saying obviously as usual all of them adapt have minor
differences we can just ignore them. I just want to teach you the basics for now. And whoever's
advanced student can go study within the method. What is their mom done? scholars say three
circumstances in reality it is two as the Quran says the third one is number two. The first one
explicit in the Quran you are traveling and you don't have water. Why did Allah say you are
traveling and you don't have water because it is impossible to live at a location for a timeframe
		

			without water, water you need it. You know within two three days you will die It is impossible to
have life without water. However it is very common that you are traveling and you have to ration
water. So the meaning of not having water is that you have to save water to drink rather than to
just waste this is the meaning here that you don't have water enough for you to purify yourself and
this is something the collective group will decide that look we're this many people we have this
much water and from now till we get to the next stop. We don't have you know four will do this
something collectively common sense and if you err on the side of caution, no big deal because you
		

			need water to live. So this is something you make the decision if you're alone or the group makes
the decision. If you are able to get water so for example you have had an answer three and a half
hours and there is a stop in America basically everywhere you go you'll find water generally
speaking unless you're in the you know Mojave Desert or something and there's four hours with then
in case that you are made with a mo but generally speaking, if you can have access to water, you
cannot do tm if you're going to find water on the way if it is something reasonable for you to
obtain. Now, question if you're going from point A to point B and your house is in that direction,
		

			and water is only in point C and that's 200 miles on the other way, you are not obliged to go
opposite to your house because Allah has asked you to go home if you don't have water you at home,
you have just the water in your
		

			Hard to drink and for whatever reason you forgot to have water to do tomorrow or you thought you'd
get to a gas station and you're driving there is no gas station. Are you required to drive an amount
or quantity that is unreasonable? What is unreasonable you use your common sense what is
unreasonable varies from person to person. If you're with kids in the car, maybe 45 minutes is
unreasonable out of your way. If you're all alone, you have the rest of the day like okay inshallah,
just go you make a decision. It's not a big deal. This is something that is inshallah you make your
personal conscious decision, but you are not required to travel an unreasonable way out of your
		

			journey, as long as it's out of is on your journey that obviously you're going to get there out of
your journey. You're not required to do that. So if you don't have water, or you don't have enough
water to use, number one, number two, Allah says in quantum model law, if you're sick, there are a
few sicknesses that you cannot use water, for example, severe burns. You cannot just pour water on a
severe burn. For example. Hadeeth is in Abu Dhabi. A man was in a battle and his skull cracked open,
they put his wound bandaid it and then he had to do also he woke up in the state of Geneva to do
also so he said, Do I have to do put water supposed to be dry to have to put water one of the people
		

			around him said, Well, you're in the state of Geneva and you have to do also I don't find any excuse
for you. And by the way, this is the problem of literalism and of Johanna is the problem when you
don't study for conditioning and you take level one. If it says it It must be the case. filter is
not copy and paste filter is extracting the laws from the from the text. So one of the Sahaba said
man you have to do job also, let's say you do it so he poured water on his head. It's a festered
wound, what happened. The wound, festered became putrid, and he died. Before they got back to me
they buried him when the process and found out he became angry, and he said they murdered him, by
		

			that fatwa, that fatwa, they murdered him. katello they killed him, I should say katella home Allah.
It's a statement. May Allah curse number seven. So these are legitimate anger, your foolishness and
overzealousness harmed a Muslim, but aloo cartella Humala, then he said, why didn't they ask if they
didn't know?
		

			Why didn't they ask if they didn't know they just give a fatwa? I think it must be the case. And
then the famous Hadith, same Hadith, Allah in Nima she found IE a su al, the cure to ignorance is
asking questions. Allah says in the Quran, first, Allah Vickery asked the people of knowledge, don't
just become mini Google, Mufti fatwa, Wikipedia, don't do that, ask the people who have studied and
they will give you the response that is, so the second reason, if there is a wound or a state that
you cannot put water on it, you have you may do to on top of it, and then some reader might have
added a third, which is under number two, and they have said, if the weather is so cold, and the
		

			water in those days would be freezing, if you have to crack open the ice and the wind is blowing and
you have to do will do, you might actually cause extreme hardship to yourself. In such
circumstances, they said you may do to your mom. Now these days, if you're at home, you can turn the
hot water on, and you don't have the desert when freezing wind blowing at you, I have had to do
this, by the way. And it's a judgment call. Again, you know, between Makkah and Medina in February
and whatnot, sometimes it is freezing cold in the desert, you know, and it's not easy to do will do
if you have the him and you think it's gonna be okay, you may quickly do it. And if you think
		

			especially with a child or lady that's sensitive or pregnant, so you feel this not safe for them. in
that circumstance, you again, it's a judgment call if you think it's not safe. And in reality, this
comes under number two, because you're causing harm to yourself, you're not going to cause harm to
so. So these are the conditions where you may due to him being embarrassed is not one of the reasons
for tail. So if you feel awkward to do will do in a restroom where there's other ladies there or
whatnot, that is not an excuse not to do what you must do, although, of course, you can always take
a cup of water and go somewhere else and you will do as well. And you should all of you should learn
		

			how to do will do from a cup of water, all you need, frankly, is even less than half a cup a one day
I'll show you, you can easily do will do with a small amount of quantity of water. And you can do it
behind your car, whatever no problem. So that is when do you do will do in the circumstance, we'll
do a demo sorry. tiamo is also done as late as possible before the Salah. So you delay the time
until you have to pray. And this is common sense. You don't want to tell your mom and then two Three
hours later you will pray because what if you were to find water? What if you come across you know
gas station like you know you want to pray is like okay, there's three hours I'll just do tambem
		

			now, you don't know what's gonna happen in those three hours before you pray. So the scholars say
you delay your term until right before your time to pray and then you do to mom and then the
		

			is a bit of a controversy Does your mom last to the next Salah if you don't find water, there's a
controversy and you have both opinions and it's just safer. It takes less than two seconds to do to
your mom. So you might as well just do it before the next Salah. So to me is symbolic and the
process then showed I might have been yeah set out to do it. What did the process of do, he hit his
hands on the ground once with the intention to detail more, you just hit your hands. And then he
wiped his in the head. He says his face and then his hands up until the wrists. Okay, so up until
the wrist not until the elbows Okay, so it's just symbolic, okay. And some scholars there other
		

			versions that say he wiped his hand and then his face. So again, both positions are found. Which one
goes first. But the point being the goal is not to transfer the sand to your face. That's not the
goal. The sand does not become water. It's symbolic. In the hadith of Amar, he blew, why would you
blow to even remove even whatever is there? It is an issue of symbolism. And what is their mom done
with? So the Maliki's and the HANA fees? They said that the M bomb can be done with any material
that is on the surface of the earth. Because Allah says Fatima mo saw he done a yoga and saw
everything that's on the surface of the earth that doesn't have to be actual sand. They said a rock
		

			a stone of even the edge of a cliff or a mountain, you can just tap it. And that is your turn
anything that is connected to the earth? And is there my own teacher in earth Damien would always
remark that anything that dust settles on anything that dust settles on, it's symbolic. So if
anything, so you have now the issue comes does dust settle on cloth? That's a good question. I'm not
gonna answer it. But suppose it was not the cloth on here. Suppose it was just this table here. And
it's in the open in public, it means dust is settling on it, our teacher and I think we don't allow
this to do this, that he would say that but if you want to be safe, and you wanted to get the
		

			something soil, something that you know, any type of even rocks or something, that's fine, this
some, some items are more strict about what you do no problem. So you, you put your hand over there.
And then if you want to get rid of it, even blow it off so that there's nothing coming no problem it
is symbolic, and then you just wipe your face and your hands, one or two might have so you should
also do this, some Setsuna and some said is good. But the hadith of Ahmad is clear. The hadith of a
monument which is in Bukhari, and Muslim, the prophet system wiped and wiped and that's it. And this
is inshallah tada sufficient. So once again, tm is allowed when you don't have access to enough
		

			water, or when you are too sick, or it's dangerous to use water. And all that needs to be done is
intention. Tapping once, once again, some others have said once for the hands once for the face, but
these are trivial issues. But tapping once and then you can wipe your hands and wipe your face and
that is done and then you just pray and think about the psychology of them. If Allah had willed, He
could have said just pray as you are. But we would have felt something in our hearts don't have to
and have taharah so to make our conscience at ease, Allah revealed a symbolic term that takes one
second
		

			one and a half. That's it, just to make our hearts comfortable that you have tried to do the harder
and that's why they are mom is called to intend to try something to mumble right. It literally says
what's the verse in the Quran? Tm?
		

			No, the other one the TM mobile habito men who don't feel hoonah
		

			What is it?
		

			Well I tm mumble hobbies I mean who don't intend the hubby for tambem hear me is intent. That's what
I wanted to say the showerhead is that the term is used in the Quran to meet intention. So Allah
revealed to us an ease to ease our conscience. This is the question about
		

			law.
		

			Enough feed dounia Salah
		

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