Yaser Birjas – The Secret Of Prophets His Daughter February 19th 2012

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The importance of garden secrets in publicity is discussed, with some figures being considered figures, while others being used for personal reasons such as sadness or upset. The loss of family members is also highlighted. The speaker describes a woman named Karla Fatima who died in a family and was given a deadline to share her secret with people. The woman had a secret about her mother and her father and was asked about her brother's views on Islam.

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			Alhamdulillah wa Salatu was Salam ala nabina, Muhammad, wa ala alihi wa salatu salam and
		
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			some other
		
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			data
		
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			in the book of manners
		
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			chapter the secrecy of private matters, which means guarding seasons, dedicated garden season and
the importance of garden secrets if someone asked you, I mentioned earlier many sessions before, the
meaning of assessment with one very simple way of defining a secret. If someone wanted to say
something to you, and they look behind,
		
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			it means that
		
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			because the reason this person look behind, like that's the reason they've
		
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			done themselves, they want to see
		
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			that and if someone else was listening, that means they're going to become more private, more.
		
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			So now, again, to recognize that the person does not have to listen.
		
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			They don't have to say, you can just simply pronounce it and say, Do you mean okay, making sure no
one else is listening. So here's now remember number of data, your data is
		
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			a nominal meaning it
		
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			could not be some Obama, it was seldom, and it says one now one day, one occasion, all the wives in
the last messenger, sallallahu alayhi, wasallam were women. And that was during the end of his life.
So
		
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			when the Prophet sallallahu Sallam was, was ailing, and he was basically
		
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			he was able to rotate, do the regular rotations visit the houses of the wise.
		
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			So I showed you a lot of the product was always asking, Where am I gonna be next day when I'm gonna
be tomorrow. So the other ones I realized was being too physically ill right now and physically. And
he wasn't able to keep rotating. She was suggesting and asking if you could stay without right. So
there is that gesture from him.
		
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			So they said,
		
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			Why don't you just announce it? And we came up, we come up with a visit. So
		
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			for the last few days, before he passed away,
		
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			it was actually over a week over almost 10 days, or 14 days. So then, one of these occasions
		
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			they came over to this
		
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			random farm what Fatima Fatima his daughter wrote a long
		
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			term sheet.
		
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			She says, Then his daughter 14 Atilla who walked up to the style of her father. She says that
		
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			she is our
		
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			mission.
		
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			Which means you can walk in and somehow a lot the walking style was like,
		
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			you know, in English, they say Like father, like son. And in this case, it's a problem. The problem
is our son, his daughter, she looks like him and the way she walks on the line and even they say
about her on the candidate
		
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			is just the closest resembles the father or the children he had. She was the most assembling to him.
		
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			So he says to her, so she said actually, about her that she wasn't sure what exactly
		
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			it seems that
		
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			she hadn't seen she had not seen
		
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			for a while because he was lying in bed.
		
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			So
		
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			it looks
		
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			like
		
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			she looks exactly like your father on the
		
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			phone.
		
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			So imagine a father.
		
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			Can
		
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			you see your older daughter younger daughter in this case? was younger daughter was coming into his
house and his his solar cells? How would you receive your daughter she comes in, specially in front
of your wife.
		
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			Well, you have one mic
		
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			around him and his daughter's cousin. How do you explain
		
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			the process of a woman who immediately caught up
		
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			when he saw he won't come immediately. I have a walk on so I do not have a minute. Welcome my dear.
		
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			Welcome materialy Allah,
		
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			even the prophets are the Messenger of Allah, still assuming this role as a father, he never learned
this was he was on his deathbed. So a lot of Salah, and he sees his beloved father maratea.
		
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			Father, she comes in, says,
		
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			Welcome my dear daughter.
		
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			So even in a position like this, some people might be reserved and the way they might show this
graph, integrating specifically that this daughter, she's not the daughter of his wife
		
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			was on the line. So, there might be some sensitivity, some issues still
		
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			favor his daughter. So you might have
		
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			some reading on she meant, she says then the next
		
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			chart actually she forgot.
		
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			But she remembered remember one important thing that he brought here, next, right next is even if
anyone else is there, he would he would move a little bit.
		
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			He brings me as close as possible. That is the daughter Fatima
		
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			tada
		
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			when she sat next to the Prophet,
		
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			the prophet SAW the
		
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			current through masaba he whispered something, you know, when you have, you know, the wants to this
is your doctor, you want to say something special is okay. It was first interview. So it was for
some something to Fatima
		
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			when she heard that she thought
		
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			she refused the service.
		
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			So panels on the processor, so again, it was a fun. How can he be the reason causing so much pain
for his daughter, the
		
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			father,
		
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			when he saw what she was planning and how she she was crying, unhappy, basically, because what he
said to her
		
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			massage,
		
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			he was
		
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			whispered to her quality for the hecate to start smiling or giggling.
		
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			So the first time she cried, the second one Sheila and I wanted to be in the position of all the
women on the
		
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			newspapers to Fatima. She cries then three seconds later, he was for something else or her to drive
out. And she started smiling.
		
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			Everybody's gonna be thinking What happened? What did he say? What What was that all about? so
forth. And
		
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			once she finally
		
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			as she was leaving
		
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			her she was taken
		
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			to the hospital.
		
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			II Samantha. So she told us she said this,
		
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			your part of
		
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			the message
		
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			has made his has favored you over everybody else among his wife, by giving excuses. I was presented
to you and you should be happy. What would you cry for? So for
		
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			some of the brothers or some that I told him, I said this even when she was younger, why would you
cry?
		
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			You know, they want to sympathize with
		
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			you mean look, the professor has just given me specific attention from all the ways he's been given
a special attention. Why should you try? When actually when when the professor was when she told him
		
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			what did you What was it? What made you cry?
		
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			matutu Lucia.
		
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			She says, I cannot I can't tell.
		
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			I cannot disclose the secret of the profits.
		
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			Because you saw him whispering that he wanted you to know he would have said that.
		
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			But he was reluctant
		
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			to disclose that. So she left for a while firma
		
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			after some time, the prophets of Allah Allah wa sallam passed away.
		
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			She met Fatima some other occasion afterwards, and she said solid
		
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			beam and he
		
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			never had any mozzarella.
		
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			She said to her after a while, but after that. Now when I was messengers as fast as I want, she said
to her, actually.
		
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			What was missing the first thing I said to her
		
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			not ask you buy the rights I have in respect of you to tell me what was taught. Basically, you know,
		
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			this the widow of your father,
		
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			mother, and I'm also concerned the mother would
		
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			you call these lights at this you know, please let me know. What are the profits or loss
		
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			for Fatima she told her now that the prophets of Allah Allah has passed away. I can tell. That's it.
It's not now I completely
		
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			forgot an answer. Now I can tell you
		
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			when I saw one, hula Bharani unnaturally.
		
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			She said,
		
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			the first time he told me when he whispered to me, he told me, Jabri used to listen to my citation.
		
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			And then recite his back to me once a year, into the months they, and this time of the year Ramadan
he did in his life.
		
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			So every time he comes once a month, no, hold on. But this time, he comes twice.
		
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			What does that mean? What do you understand from this falcata hustle a lot of salon. So he told her,
why we la la, la la hora de la,
		
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			he told her, and because of that, I perceive that my debt is approaching
		
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			the Rosa MC. And the reason it came to me twice in this particular it's in the army about today. So
that's why you want to make sure double check that a citation for handling. So he did that. So it's
always a fact of the law was busy. It's over. Therefore, I'm giving you the advice. The patient
experience time with a beautiful drama, and English, which means I'm dying, I want you to be
patient.
		
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			And that is we learn from this other family member of the household, the father, to make sure that
before he was basically reached that age that they give advice to their parents or their children to
the staff behind them after them that they feel lost.
		
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			And they remain quiet and will remain patient that should remain patient.
		
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			After the death of the beloved not for Karla tequila, I was very excited when
		
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			he told her I want you to be patient and steadfast, for I shall be an excellent call Ron for you.
Which means I'll be waiting for
		
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			just coming after him. I'll be waiting for you.
		
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			Remember what I've done. So be patient.
		
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			When I heard that I
		
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			can imagine for a long time. So you know the painful the situation for
		
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			the first thing she learned when she was very young and very tender.
		
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			She was very young when she saw all the humiliation, all the torture, all the difficulties the
father had to go through when he was delivering the message. And
		
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			she was the one she was the one when
		
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			he saw the process
		
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			was very close to the cabinet. And they knew about some of our sponsoring the cup. So one of them he
was who who can go and take the test the cow from such and such house and throw it on the back of
Mohammed Ali prostrate, and I'm giving them such and such as record.
		
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			One of these guys actually came on, and you got that stuff.
		
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			And he waited for the profit so
		
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			he can do that.
		
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			On the back of
		
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			why he was insurgent.
		
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			And he learned he start running away laughing and making fun of
		
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			the Prophet sallahu wa salam remained in that same position of citizen. He did not even he didn't
know he said in his position.
		
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			Who came to the rescue? That little younger, back then
		
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			she came she started pushing this away from the back of a father pleading his back in his head. Some
of us are crying. She was crying. And she was basically speaking about this. How could you do that
to him and she was crying.
		
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			And
		
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			he didn't say
		
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			he was not given the order to retaliate or to defend himself in another way but patience
		
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			was given back
		
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			Allah subhanho wa Taala
		
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			to forgive
		
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			me, which means
		
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			be patient with them, and is not yet to respond. So that was asked about a lot, she saw that she
grew up seeing her father living three years after a mother as well.
		
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			They both lived the three years of the boycotts ensure
		
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			the value of a lot when they had when they were not allowed to find to muscle food for them, to
trade with them to bring anybody that it has sustained their life so they could not do that. She
lived them. She was one of those who suffer.
		
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			And then she saw how her mother she was affected greatly because of that malnutrition, because of
after three years, three continuous years. And by the end of that season, she died.
		
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			She witnessed the death of her mother
		
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			and sister have siblings. But here are three three brothers, the boys, she was their death, and a
very, very young age. All of them died when their
		
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			father mother in law, she lived long enough to enjoy the companies and our sisters on consume
Rotarian. And
		
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			however, not for too long
		
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			as
		
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			they died,
		
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			and she was she was there, she saw that who was left for her, her father. her sisters are in a
hospital.
		
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			Then her older sister passed away.
		
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			And now she's the only child.
		
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			Imagine nominee for all of this in perspective. Now there are
		
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			two men her entire family is the only one left for her. Except now that she has
		
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			what
		
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			she had her beautiful kids
		
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			is the fruit of the heart of
		
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			the profit and loss. I'm used to so many things in the community just to play with.
		
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			So these are the fruits of the article sola sola, sola. And Fatima is there. She knew how much they
love their grandfather. She knew how much would a prophet comes home. He brings so much fun when I
say look.
		
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			I'm sitting there on his deathbed and it was
		
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			your father in law.
		
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			So
		
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			I want you to be patient. What do you expect her response to?
		
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			She cried. He cried her eyes out. He does what she said.
		
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			Which means she finds so much because of that. And then the birth of Saracen could not see his
daughters like this. He couldn't see out of her iPhone.
		
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			fella just saw when he saw me cried so much. He didn't wanna leave me at that time.
		
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			So he was against me for Karla Fatima. Mr.
		
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			Cooney, so he does and he says,
		
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			Oh, we say either. Mr.
		
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			Caracalla head to the heat.
		
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			He says she said she said that he told her in whispers of are you not pleased that you will be the
chief among the belief in women, or the crown of women have this
		
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			in another direction, he says, by hand and say that and he said, You will be the fare Ladies and
gentlemen,
		
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			is your man or woman would object to the scarf.
		
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			proposition of this life?
		
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			Of course, everyone would love to be. So far they're all she heard that. She's one.
		
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			Yeah.
		
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			I'll be that lady. And he was given a promise to show me this lady and a gentleman.
		
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			The gentleman, you'd be the third Lady of a gentleman. Some of the comments from the Spanish he gave
are also a subtle message
		
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			that some of the message that you're going to be coming after me,
		
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			which means you're going to be joining me in agenda very soon. So you know, it's okay. And sure
enough, six months after the prophet SAW sounds as though she died.
		
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			So
		
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			that 41 of the time, she took
		
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			that secret
		
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			she kept
		
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			she wouldn't tell anyone, not even
		
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			under the potter's house also passed away when he passed away.
		
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			This is part of the knowledge you wanted to share with your mom. So she said and she said, I
probably am
		
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			Someone's gonna make a shout out the chief.
		
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			You might feel embarrassed, I think I deserve it.
		
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			But
		
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			she was given this from the
		
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			Father, he was the Messenger of Allah. So when she was asked,
		
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			that's what he told me. And I'm proud of her, I'm not going to be one of those things. So thought
about electronics, she kept that secret. It's very important if someone tells you a secret that you
stay, and you keep that secret with you.
		
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			It
		
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			is wrong.
		
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			Any question?
		
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			So
		
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			far the most best answer when she died, actually, she died normal day. It just
		
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			wasn't an accident.
		
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			Again, love
		
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			that she doesn't stay too long.
		
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			Yes.
		
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			Yes.
		
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			If you know something about someone likes Muslims who drink alcohol?
		
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			Does this person is this person doing it in
		
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			this manner?
		
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			Okay, so
		
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			the question is, Are you allowed to go and expose them in front of other people? That's the
question.
		
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			I would say it depends on the circumstances.
		
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			Maybe just to go and talk to everybody about this.
		
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			But if someone comes to you, or you know that this person is going to marry so and so's daughter,
whom you know that their martial art comes from a very good family, and this is you have
responsibility, moral responsibility to tell them
		
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			that I know this person.
		
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			You are allowed to do that. And you're not allowed to do this. So basically, the decision is there.
		
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			But you have more responsibilities of their life, or you know, someone wants to make this person
like a spokesperson for the Muslim community.
		
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			In this case, you're going to tell them by the way, this person is not the best role model
		
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			or a community wants to hire a youth counselor, for example, he applies.
		
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			And this case we have to tell there are specific occasions we are actually obligated by law.
		
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			Yes.
		
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			For
		
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			six months,
		
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			yeah.
		
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			Well, Ah, yes.
		
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			Not
		
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			the law says the government, a
		
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			museum many, many for the perfection, quality, quality and perfection of mankind, human and human
achieved. And he mentioned off the top of his head.
		
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			And he counts for on it. So the last moment, he says
		
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			Khadija is what he mentioned as the wife of ceramic. And he mentioned Mario, the mother of his or
his,
		
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			his daughter. So
		
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			is there a question? Is there any specific ranking for these women who was top number 1234? I don't
remember the process of give them a specific ranking. And if they were mentioned in a hurry, if that
was the ranking, that was my
		
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			last question. Yes.
		
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			I have a whole weekend.
		
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			The profits my
		
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			brother's asking about how the purposes have looked like which has caused
		
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			the normal characteristics of the profit. So
		
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			if you want to read about a subject there is a book in the market you can buy through shala You can
find it online.
		
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			comedy, a
		
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			very famous
		
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			collection of ideas by a famous
		
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			So you can find that in both Arabic and English I think this was available
		
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			but not so terrible Arabic and English in different languages for
		
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			the normal characteristics of the Prophet Mohammed