Yahya Rhodus – Knowledge & Wisdom Imam alHaddad #24

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The speakers discuss the importance of balancing jealousy and love in relation to the culture of the United States. They stress the need to be mindful of one's words and actions to avoid damaging their religion and reputation, and to respect their religion and lineage. They also emphasize the importance of respecting one's religion and lineage, and being a good person for everyone. The speakers stress the need to be mindful of one's words and actions to avoid damaging their religion and reputation, and encourage others to follow their values and do their best.

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			Bismillah salatu salam ala
Rasulillah while earlier he was
		
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			talking beheading woman, Wallah
		
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			the next Hadith in the collection
of Kotova Faheem an MB
		
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			hereditarily Allahu Anhu and the
Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
		
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			and who call in Allah to Allah
Yahara Wahida to La he and yet to
		
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			me know Maha Ramallah whatever
Karla.
		
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			So this translates as, or at least
a partial translation, Allah.
		
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			Indeed Allah has a Hydra and I'm
gonna leave that word untranslated
		
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			because we'll come back to its
meaning, indeed that Allah has the
		
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			Veda in the hater of Allah relates
to a believer doing something that
		
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			Allah has made unlawful for him.
		
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			And so this is a Hadith both in
Makati and Muslim, the word hater
		
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			linguistically, is probably best
translated as jealousy.
		
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			And that when we speak about being
jealous here, it's not in the
		
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			negative sense that is most often
referred to in our culture, in the
		
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			sense of having envy for someone
because of something that they've
		
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			achieved or something like this.
Well, Ada actually, that means and
		
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			this is even in an English
dictionary, this idea of fierce
		
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			being fiercely protective or
vigilant of one's rights or
		
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			possessions. And you also will
find in the dictionary that it has
		
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			in parentheses of God demanding
faithfulness and exclusive
		
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			worship. So even in English we
have this sense of jealousy
		
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			relating to Allah subhanho wa
Taala and that we were hesitant to
		
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			translate it as jealous as we'll
come in we'll explain why
		
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			inshallah Tada. So that indeed
Allah to Allah has the data. And
		
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			the hater of Allah to Adam,
relates to a believer doing
		
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			something that Allah to Allah has
made unlawful for him.
		
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			And another narration is that it
says, The indeed that Allah has
		
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			IRA and the believer has IRA and
that the Veda of Allah relates to
		
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			that a man doing what Allah Tana
has prohibited for him. And yet
		
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			another narration, it states law
had a Yoda woman Allah, no one has
		
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			more ADA than Allah, fully there
for this reason, how Romans Allah
		
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			He shot that he has made all x
indecent acts haram, unlawful
		
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			MALBA haram in HIM ON button, the
outward manifestations of them in
		
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			the internal and so that we
understand that the hater of Allah
		
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			relates to doing what he is
prohibited subhanho wa taala. So
		
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			let's look a little bit deeper and
seeing that how that there's a
		
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			connection between the way we
understand the Haida in terms of
		
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			human beings and then how we
understand that in relation to our
		
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			Lord subhanho wa taala. So that if
you would say in the Arabic
		
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			language, a Hara Rasool, Allah,
Allah He, you would translate this
		
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			roughly as is that a man showed
jealousy? That that a man that
		
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			that was jealous in the sense of
being fiercely protective that
		
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			over his family in relation to
someone else. And someone else in
		
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			this sense, is someone that wanted
to do something inappropriate, or
		
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			someone that wanted to harm them
or something of this nature. And
		
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			that the Hydra that in its
balanced form, is considered to be
		
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			a noble thing. And yes, there's
two extremes. One is where it goes
		
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			too extreme in one direction,
where someone ends up doing
		
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			something that is haram as a
result of being too jealous, it's
		
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			imbalanced. And that a lack of
jealousy. According to s&m is also
		
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			considered to be that something
that is blameworthy what we want
		
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			is really that balance in the
middle two that want to protect
		
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			your family, including your
spouse, and your children, and
		
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			those that are beloved to you
those that are close to you. This
		
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			is a noble trait, and that it also
relates to you
		
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			that closely this idea of modesty
and the importance of modesty, and
		
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			that, that knowing how to be in
public and having proper
		
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			comportment in public and knowing
how to be in private.
		
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			And so that really what later is
that if we look what happens in
		
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			the human beam, is that you find
that they are bothered by
		
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			something, and it causes them to
change internally. And it leads
		
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			them to take outward action, that
is preventative by nature. So it
		
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			really relates to what is called
minute provision in the Arabic
		
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			language. And so insofar as it
relates to the human being, this
		
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			process is taking place internally
in the heart, and it leads to an
		
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			act that is done outwardly, some
type of preventative measure is
		
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			taken. And that, obviously, this
process that relates to human
		
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			beings is impossible. We don't
attribute this to a lot to other.
		
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			It's similar to when we talk about
a lot about mercy, mercy for human
		
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			beings. It's a process whereby
which we have brittleness of heart
		
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			and you have empathy towards
someone, and it leads you to do an
		
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			act of kindness outwardly, when we
talk about mercy, that in relation
		
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			to our Lord, it relates to the end
result of that which is a showing
		
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			of benevolence, that an act that
is done that of goodness from our
		
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			Lord subhanho wa taala. And so
similar to that, is that when we
		
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			talk about a Haida in relation to
Allah subhanho wa taala. And if
		
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			we're going to use this word,
jealousy, jealous or that
		
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			jealousy, we have to understand
exactly what that means. It's not
		
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			anthropomorphic in any way. It's
not related to how human beings
		
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			become jealous, as for Allah
subhanho wa taala, that it relates
		
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			to that when someone does
something that is unlawful, that
		
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			consequences that happen as a
result. So some type of
		
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			punishment. Other scholars say
that it relates to that Allah's a
		
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			hubbub His wrath to botica, to
Allah. And so how do we understand
		
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			that the human dimension and how
that relates to Allah to Allah and
		
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			what he's prohibited. So just as a
human being that has the Hydra, he
		
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			has this jealousy that leads him
to or her to fiercely protect
		
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			someone that is close to him or
her, and that they end up taking
		
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			preventative measures as a result,
likewise, is that Allah subhanaw
		
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			taala has made certain things
unlawful.
		
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			And that if anyone crosses the
goes beyond the bounds, and ends
		
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			up doing something that is
unlawful, is that now they have
		
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			done something that is going to
have a consequence with Allah
		
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			Jalla Jalla Allah. And so this is
very helpful, because that we
		
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			realize is that what Allah Tala
has forbade us to do is that we do
		
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			not want to go near that.
		
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			And there is that deep wisdom and
Allah subhanaw taala, making
		
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			certain things permissible and
certain things unlawful. And part
		
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			of that was done relates to what
we discussed in the last.
		
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			That just That's it, oh, I've been
setting the cognitive frame, if
		
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			you will, in relation to that acts
of obedience and acts of
		
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			disobedience. The whole purpose of
this ultimately is to refine the
		
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			self to draw near to Allah
subhanho wa taala. But when you
		
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			bring this to mind, is it things
that Allah to add it has deemed
		
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			unlawful? Is it to go near those
things, yellow teeth, and that
		
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			could bring about the Wrath of
Allah to Allah, if He doesn't
		
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			forgive you that that could have
severe consequences, just as in
		
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			that the Human Sphere is that if
you go near inappropriately, that
		
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			someone's family in a way that is
that not proper, is that there
		
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			could be severe consequences, that
in relation to the people that are
		
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			protecting that person. And this
is further clarified by a hadith,
		
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			that side of an Obeida.
		
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			One of the unsought is that he
said, in front of the Prophet
		
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			salallahu Salam is that, that were
I to ever come upon my wife and
		
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			there to be a man with her. He
says that I would have pulled out
		
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			my sword and that killed him and
never pardoned him ever.
		
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			And that actually sorry, this was
in front of the province I sent
		
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			him. This is what he said that
were I to have come upon someone
		
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			and see them with my wife is that
I will
		
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			pulled up my sword and I would
have taken their life. This
		
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			reached the Prophet sallallahu
sallam, and he says attack
		
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			Jerusalem and availity Sad. Are
you amazed at the Raider of sad?
		
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			Right the jealousy of sod and he
says will lie Ilana earlier. He
		
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			says by Allah I have more jealousy
than he will allow of yo Mini.
		
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			Allah has more Hara than me. Woman
educated de la Hui haram Alpha
		
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			Aisha Hamada Han, Mina Moulton,
and because of the hater of Allah,
		
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			He has made all in decencies, acts
of indecency, that unlawful, the
		
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			outward manifestations of the N
word,
		
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			excuse me.
		
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			And so is that what we learned
from this is, is that this was
		
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			from the height of sight.
		
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			And so height, again, in a
balanced fashion, is something
		
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			that is good. And again, there are
two extremes, one on one side on
		
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			the other, what we want is to have
a balanced sense of it. And that
		
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			most cultures have this and one of
the things that you could say
		
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			is that this is oftentimes not
deemed to being a good trait in
		
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			the modern world,
		
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			in many circles, but even in the
country in which we live at one
		
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			time, is that this was very much a
part of how people were expected
		
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			to be and still in the Muslim
world is that you find very
		
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			beautiful examples of this balance
later. And how it is that we
		
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			should be in relation to that
people that are close to us, our
		
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			families and so forth. Because
again, is that this is considered
		
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			to be a good thing when it's
balanced. It's this idea of
		
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			protections idea of that
vigilantly looking over those that
		
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			are in one's care. And so that one
final Hadith that we can that
		
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			understand that helps us
understand the acts of
		
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			disobedience is when that our
Prophet Salla Sam teaches us about
		
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			the reality of sin and what
happens he says in MENA either as
		
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			another Nikita looked at him so
that if you're called, indeed that
		
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			when a Muslim sins is that a black
spot a rises on his heart for in
		
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			Tableau a stall for Sookie la
Calvo is that if he repents and
		
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			seeks forgiveness, his heart will
be polished, and learn your job.
		
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			But if he does not repent, that
Hatta, Lulu Alba is that if he
		
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			does not repent, is that the
blackness of his heart will
		
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			increase until the entire heart
becomes black. So this is the
		
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			reality spiritually speaking, that
it doesn't mean that it's like
		
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			when you smoke, and you're going
to see like tar like substances, a
		
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			start like substance on your
lungs. This is something in the
		
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			spiritual realm, this is real, it
happens that when you sin, there's
		
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			consequences. And one of the
greatest consequences is the
		
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			effect that it has upon your
heart. This is something that
		
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			happens here in this world, let
alone the consequences in the next
		
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			world. But there's a reality to
this as your heart becomes
		
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			blackened. And the darker your
heart becomes, the harder it
		
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			becomes, the harder your heart
becomes, is that the less mercy
		
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			that it will receive and a long
list of other things and the
		
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			easier that will be for someone to
do further acts of disobedience.
		
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			And so that when the heart becomes
that immersed in blackness, is
		
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			that this is the Ron the rust, if
you will, that is referred to in
		
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			the words of a lot of adequate
data and sorters animal
		
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			trafficking Kela Bell Ron Allah
Kuru being no, they have rust upon
		
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			their hearts, that caliber Ron
Allah Kurumi Magkano Yuxi boon
		
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			from that which they earned, so
that because of the sins that they
		
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			committed, they've earned that's a
part of their CASP is that the
		
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			consequences of that on their
heart are severe, but the
		
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			beautiful thing is that Hampton
Illa, we have Toba, we can repent
		
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			to Allah Jalla Jalla Allah, and
that the purpose of this hadith
		
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			and all of the different warnings
of our Prophet sallallahu sallam,
		
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			we should receive them even if
they aren't Jalali and majestic.
		
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			Why is because he is warning us
out of His mercy. Just as the
		
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			apparent that would warn their
child about doing something that
		
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			could harm them. The Prophet warms
his ummah about things that will
		
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			harm them in this world, and in
the next. So being warned, even
		
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			though it is a majestic thing,
it's under our under lies, it is
		
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			mercy so that we can avoid
anything that will harm us in this
		
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			world and the next man lesson
		
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			Hello daddy give us Sophie.
		
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			So in sha Allah we will look at
chapter 25 from knowledge and
		
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			wisdom by Imam Abdullah now that
Smilla
		
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			Smilla Rahmanir Rahim Al hamdu
Lillahi Rabbil Alameen wa sallahu
		
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			wa ala Sayyidina Muhammad in early
he was somebody who was salam in
		
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			knowledge and wisdom but Imam I
believe in Allah will her dad, may
		
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			Allah preserve him and benefit us
through him and
		
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			chapter 25 rights of the house of
prophecy. No person of any
		
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			consequence should revere or
praise an ignorant man, even if he
		
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			is of noble birth and virtuous
ancestry, for to respect and
		
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			praise such a person to his face
may have been an adverse effect on
		
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			him, religiously speaking, by
deceiving him as concerns God and
		
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			rendered him indifferent to good
works, and oblivious of gathering
		
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			provisions for the hereafter.
		
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			The one who has revered and praise
Him, will have been the cause of
		
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			this temptation and illusion. And
it will be as if he was trying to
		
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			destroy him. Okay, so just very
briefly before we read further,
		
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			chapter 25, that Dr. Mustafa
offers the title, rights of the
		
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			house of prophecy, and he will
eventually speak. He does
		
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			throughout the chapter speak about
the family of the prophets, the
		
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			licen. But he also speaks about
praising and praising people, and
		
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			that one of the things that we
need to learn is that how to
		
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			understand praising people in
relation to the dean.
		
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			And what he begins by saying is,
we have to be very careful about
		
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			who it is that we praise. And
there is no doubt that we certain
		
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			types of praise, if not outright,
being amazing, outright unlawful
		
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			is that they could be on the verge
of being sinful, as as a result of
		
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			that not doing so in the right
way. And in general, the vast
		
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			majority of human means, are
harmed by praise. Now, it's
		
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			important that we give a complete
picture.
		
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			When it comes to that. On one
hand, yes, you're supposed to
		
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			think people when they do good
things. One On another hand, on
		
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			one hand, you're supposed to
acknowledge people when is that
		
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			they do good, especially that when
you raise children, is that you
		
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			correct them when they're wrong,
and you acknowledge the good that
		
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			they've done when they do things
correctly and right. However,
		
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			everything has to be balanced, is
that we want to praise at the
		
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			right time, and we want to praise
the right person, and to the right
		
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			amount, we want to put everything
in its proper price. And just as
		
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			it's excessive, not to praise the
right person at the right time, to
		
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			the right degree, that another
degree of access is to that go to
		
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			extremes, and praising the wrong
people at the wrong times for the
		
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			wrong reasons. And so some of
those types of praise can
		
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			eventually be sinful. And our
Prophet warned, that are taught
		
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			off he will do handmade Dehaene,
throw dirt in the faces of those
		
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			who that praise too much. And what
we want is a balanced amount of
		
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			praise. And what he begins this
chapter by saying is,
		
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			if someone that is ignorant, and
men, and what is understood here,
		
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			is is that they are not living up
to a noble lineage that they hail
		
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			from, or a noble birth that they
have received. Is that what it's
		
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			not just about their ignorance,
but also the behavior that goes
		
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			along with it. And this idea is
that we just praise people, for
		
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			certain reasons, is what Obama had
that is really trying to correct
		
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			that our notion of is that we we
need to praise for the right
		
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			reasons, not simply because that
someone is of a noble birth, do we
		
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			necessarily praise them? And that
one of the reasons is the adverse
		
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			effect that this has on them
religiously speaking, and that it
		
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			is oftentimes leads to deception.
And people are such that, even
		
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			though they might have absolute
certainty that they don't have
		
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			certain traits. If enough people
praise them for those traits, they
		
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			will become deluded thinking that
they're actually in them. People
		
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			are amazing. That praise is
actually very dangerous. And that,
		
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			especially if it's imbalanced, and
if enough people praise you, then
		
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			you oftentimes internalize this
sense of oh, I'm actually very
		
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			special.
		
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			which is that contrary to the way
that we should be on the spiritual
		
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			path is that we need to that
constantly take ourselves to task
		
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			to progress in the spiritual path,
not just think about how special
		
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			we are. And this is not just in
the spiritual path is what they
		
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			tell us for mastering any craft.
		
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			The foundational principle is Adam
Modan enough's, this is what they
		
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			say in the spiritual path. And
this is also what they say is to
		
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			master any craft, that whatever it
is that you want to master, if you
		
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			think that you've learned enough
or done enough, how are you going
		
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			to get any better. It's only in
not being content with what you've
		
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			attained, in putting in more
effort to reach a higher degree of
		
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			mastery, that will you actually
that move to the next level. And
		
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			that even if you've mastered some
craft, you can always get better
		
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			at it. And also, this relates to
self mastery, mastering the
		
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			spiritual path, there is no limit
to the degree of mastery that you
		
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			can attain, you can always put
more work in but the prerequisite
		
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			of that prerequisite of that is to
not be content with yourself in
		
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			what you've achieved, you can
always do better you can always
		
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			that put in more effort. And so if
and when people praise others too
		
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			often, sometimes the result is for
them to become complacent. And
		
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			then they put less energy in to
doing acts of goodness and so
		
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			forth, which is needs to be done
to draw nearer to Allah subhanho
		
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			wa taala. And so you can
oftentimes really hurt people by
		
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			praising them too much.
		
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			It's me that
		
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			he made us deserve the wrath of
God, His Messenger, sallallahu
		
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			alayhi salam and those virtuous
ancestors of this ignorant man
		
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			from whom he derives his nobility.
How can anyone be deceived by a
		
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			noble lineage in the absence of
rest rectitude, or depend on it
		
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			when the messenger of God May
blessings and peace be upon him
		
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			and his family has said, Oh,
Fatima, daughter of Muhammad, I
		
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			can avail you not against God, as
in the authentic hadith where he
		
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			calls all sons of the mortality,
oh, so and so? Call on upon his
		
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			kinsmen in general, than in
particular, so he includes the
		
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			entire Hadith, and the margin, the
prophets I seldom addressed his
		
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			tribe thus, oh sons of Cobham in
no way save yourselves from the
		
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			fire Oh, sons of Musa ibn Khattab
save yourselves from the fire, oh,
		
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			sons of Abdus ships, save
yourselves from the fire, oh, sons
		
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			of abdomen F save yourselves from
the fire, oh sons of Hashem. Save
		
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			yourselves from the fire, oh,
Fatima, save yourself from the
		
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			fire, for I can avail you not
against God. However, there are
		
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			bonds of kinship between us which
I shall uphold. And what is the
		
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			profit teaching here is that
everyone despite their lineage,
		
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			that has to strive to have the
proper belief and to have proper
		
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			action. And the prophet is setting
a principle here even with his
		
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			close family members, he begins
with his broader family and then
		
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			he hones in on the most beloved to
him person to him, which is the
		
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			the faulty mobile tool is Zara.
And by her mentioning her last
		
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			like that, it's similar to the
other Hadith where the Prophet
		
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			wanted to also that state of
principles that if this would
		
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			happen, even work to be the most
beloved person to me, I would have
		
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			done it he mentioned say the fall
tema, and how Shah had that she
		
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			would ever do something that was
mentioned that particular Hadith,
		
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			this indicates her closest to him.
She was the most beloved of people
		
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			to our Prophet salaallah it but it
was Savio Salam. And so the point
		
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			here being is even in relation to
his own family,
		
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			and we know that there were people
from the family of the Prophet
		
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			that disbelieved in him, when he
said Allah Tada, Osama what Alfia
		
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			now
		
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			the horror of of praising the
ignorant is immense and so is the
		
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			temptation is subjects him to
Allah man once looted another in
		
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			the presence of God's Messenger,
salallahu Alaihe Salam, and was
		
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			told Woe to you, you have cut your
brother's throat where he to hear
		
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			this, he would never succeed
because of the way that he praised
		
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			him. And he said Salah lies, and
he said salatu salam, it is better
		
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			for one of you to chase his
brother with a sharp knife than to
		
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			praise him to his face. And
actually this is not saying that
		
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			we should chase them with a sharp
knife this is making a point is
		
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			that the danger of that improper
praise?
		
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			praises and flattering remarks
will harm the self deceiving
		
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			ignorant man who lacks religious
priests capacity, knowledge and
		
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			certitude but not the scholar
endowed with discernment and
		
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			knowledge of his Lord and of
himself. And so he does
		
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			acknowledge is that there are
certain people
		
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			Of course, that are that not
harmed by other people's praise.
		
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			And we know that as the next
sentence states is that our
		
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			Prophet Salah license and praise
some of his companions, and that
		
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			there is a Hadith that states is
that when the believer is praised
		
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			to his faith face, Faith blossoms
in his heart. And what we
		
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			understand from that is, is that
these are people of a higher
		
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			degree that know what to do when
people praise them. And one of the
		
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			very helpful things that we can do
if someone praises you, because
		
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			you have to be careful. If someone
does praise you, there's an
		
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			etiquette that goes along with it.
What are you supposed to do, if
		
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			indeed that that trait is in you,
you have to immediately give show
		
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			gratitude to Allah to Allah. In
that moment, when someone praises
		
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			you, you can go one of two ways,
it could cause you to be impressed
		
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			with yourself, and have the trait
of a job where that you have self
		
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			conceit, and think that you're
special as a result of having that
		
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			particular trait. Or you could
direct it, to showing gratitude to
		
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			Allah Subhanallah data, which is
what we should do. However, if the
		
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			trait is not in us, as one of the
Scholars has said, is that it is
		
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			sheer stupidity for us to leave
the certainty that we have about
		
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			our own selves, for the good
opinion of other people.
		
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			And so when people praise us, is
that we need to really think we
		
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			know our own selves. We know our
hearts, we know what we think
		
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			about we know what we do. We know
how much we really concentrate in
		
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			prayer. We know what we do when
we're alone. We all know our own
		
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			selves. We know our past, we know
our struggles, we know the things
		
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			that need working on. And so just
because one person praises us one
		
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			time, is that we're going to leave
that certainty that we have about
		
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			ourself, for the praise of a
particular individual that
		
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			stupidity to leave certainty for
conjecture is a sign of
		
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			unintelligence is that we all know
ourselves. So if it's really not
		
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			in us, we have to be honest. And
what did that say? Know what kind
		
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			of Sadiq say, when people praise
Him? That Oh, Allah do not take me
		
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			to account for what it is that
they are saying.
		
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			Do not take me to account for what
it is that they're saying.
		
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			And make me better than they think
that I am.
		
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			Okay, and because is that if
people say certain things about
		
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			you, and they're not true, how is
that going to benefit us?
		
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			How is that going to benefit you
if that's really not your state.
		
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			And so, these are things we have
to think about. And this happens
		
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			regularly, sometimes it happens
daily, it happens weekly, it
		
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			happens regularly in our lives. So
we have to be very careful with
		
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			how we act and respond towards
other people praising us. And one
		
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			of the helpful things that we can
do, as you remember her dad said,
		
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			is that this was a technique that
he used to use that if anyone ever
		
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			praised him,
		
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			he would say, all good traits, in
anything that is worth being
		
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			praised, is ultimately that
perfectly manifested in the
		
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			Prophet Muhammad Salah lie down.
		
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			So if indeed, they're praising me,
		
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			in something that I have for
something that I have, is that in
		
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			reality, that it's from the
blessing of the Prophet sallallahu
		
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			sallam, he said, so I take their
praise, and I deflect it, and I
		
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			throw it into the ocean of praise
of the Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu
		
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			sallam, because in reality, if
they're praising anything that I
		
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			do have, it's from Allah, the
means is Rasul Allah, so I sent
		
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			him and that it's imperfectly
manifested in me perfectly
		
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			manifests in him. So it's as if
that they're really praising
		
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			rasool Allah, that's a way to just
think real quickly, deflect it, so
		
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			that it doesn't become lodged in
yourself. And that one of the
		
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			things Subhanallah
		
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			that is really one of the most
beautiful traits of the true
		
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			scholars of this deen the true
people of Allah.
		
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			They have an incredible sense of
humility. They are so humble,
		
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			incredibly humble.
		
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			And you could list a long you
could give a long list of names of
		
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			people that are like this, but
this is consistently what I've
		
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			always seen great scholars, some
of the great scholars of our time,
		
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			and that when that you go and see
them and you spend time with them,
		
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			and you're with them
		
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			Subhan Allah, that they don't see
themselves as anything, that they
		
00:30:06 --> 00:30:11
			see themselves as just being a
small fish in a big ocean,
		
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			even though for our time, they're
great scholars, because they know,
		
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			the people that came before them.
		
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			They know the true people of
knowledge.
		
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			If in that the examples that I'm
thinking about right now, because
		
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			I just came back from Turkey, and
Turkey happens to have a, that
		
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			large number of Syrian scholars
that may Allah to add to that
		
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			great relief to the suffering of
our brothers and sisters in Syria,
		
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			and all throughout the Muslim
world.
		
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			And subhanAllah, there are so many
great scholars there. And you see,
		
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			this person is like, subhanAllah,
is anyone more knowledgeable than
		
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			this person, this person has
amazing knowledge. But they in of
		
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			themselves, despite their great
knowledge, know, where they really
		
00:31:01 --> 00:31:05
			are in the hierarchy. So it's not
pretentious, it's real humility,
		
00:31:05 --> 00:31:10
			they really don't see themselves
in comparison to those who came
		
00:31:10 --> 00:31:15
			before them. And even those in our
time, as that being something that
		
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			is really great. They have deep
humility. And that comes across
		
00:31:22 --> 00:31:26
			when you interact with them. And
it comes across and how they dress
		
00:31:26 --> 00:31:33
			and how they speak. And the lack
of expectations. And the danger,
		
00:31:33 --> 00:31:38
			though, with scholars that are
very humble, is that you can get
		
00:31:38 --> 00:31:44
			yourself in trouble by stepping
over the bounds. Because that,
		
00:31:45 --> 00:31:48
			even though that their humility is
in its place, and they're doing
		
00:31:48 --> 00:31:52
			what is that they should do is
that it's not a prerequisite for
		
00:31:52 --> 00:31:56
			someone to have more knowledge
than the person that came before
		
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			them, for them to be beloved by
Allah.
		
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			And so yes, they have their
humility, but you have to be a
		
00:32:02 --> 00:32:07
			little bit careful. Because is
that when the guard is down, which
		
00:32:07 --> 00:32:13
			oftentimes happens when people are
very humble, is that you might do
		
00:32:13 --> 00:32:15
			something that you actually
shouldn't do, we still have to
		
00:32:15 --> 00:32:19
			maintain a deep level of respect.
But it's something that is just
		
00:32:19 --> 00:32:26
			beautiful humility. And if you
compare that to the celebrity
		
00:32:26 --> 00:32:34
			culture in which we live, and that
other manifestations of elitism,
		
00:32:34 --> 00:32:37
			when people rise to the top,
whether it's a company, whether
		
00:32:37 --> 00:32:42
			it's in the that some type of
academic department, or whether
		
00:32:42 --> 00:32:46
			it's in politics, or whether it's
in Hollywood, and you compare it
		
00:32:46 --> 00:32:50
			most of the time, the way that
people carry themselves, and how
		
00:32:50 --> 00:32:54
			they treat other people, and the
sense of entitlement that they
		
00:32:54 --> 00:33:01
			have it, you know, you could write
a book, if you travel a lot, seen
		
00:33:01 --> 00:33:04
			the difference on how people act
based upon where they sit on the
		
00:33:04 --> 00:33:05
			plane,
		
00:33:06 --> 00:33:08
			and just the insensitive
entitlement that they have.
		
00:33:09 --> 00:33:15
			Especially if, you know, they're
on the top tier of their loyalty
		
00:33:15 --> 00:33:19
			program of their particular
airline. And they're in first
		
00:33:19 --> 00:33:22
			class and not even even business
class and the business class
		
00:33:22 --> 00:33:26
			people in relation to those flying
economy or coach and those that
		
00:33:26 --> 00:33:30
			are like any economy plus compared
to those who are just any economy.
		
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			And you have to be very careful.
Because once that you're exposed
		
00:33:34 --> 00:33:39
			to privilege that you feel this
sense of entitlement. And I think
		
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			I've mentioned this before, but
it's worth mentioning again, I
		
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			remember one time when I was
catching a flight out of New York,
		
00:33:47 --> 00:33:49
			and was a bit late at night so
		
00:33:51 --> 00:33:54
			that usually they have all these
different lines. You know, they
		
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			have economy and then they have
that I fly united and lots of them
		
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			economy and then they have
Premier. And then they have that,
		
00:34:02 --> 00:34:06
			you know, United Polaris, and 1k
and these types of things. And
		
00:34:06 --> 00:34:07
			then they have the
		
00:34:09 --> 00:34:11
			these all these different lines.
And
		
00:34:12 --> 00:34:15
			so all of the lines were closed
except economy.
		
00:34:16 --> 00:34:21
			And so all the people had to go
through the economy line. Oh, my
		
00:34:21 --> 00:34:26
			goodness, you should have seen the
reactions of the people. It was
		
00:34:26 --> 00:34:32
			unbelievable. Acting like they
were having temper tantrums, like
		
00:34:32 --> 00:34:37
			babies, like little children that
didn't get the toy that they
		
00:34:37 --> 00:34:42
			wanted, when they're two or three
years old. And these poor ladies
		
00:34:42 --> 00:34:46
			who that were just that, that
operating the lines and telling
		
00:34:46 --> 00:34:48
			people where to go, you should
have seen the way they were
		
00:34:48 --> 00:34:53
			treating them. Oh my goodness
gracious. Just the language that
		
00:34:53 --> 00:34:54
			they're using and
		
00:34:55 --> 00:35:00
			pacing back and forth and and then
you know how people that work in
		
00:35:00 --> 00:35:04
			Beside the airport, they can go to
the front of the line. Oh, when
		
00:35:04 --> 00:35:06
			some of them would like, cut in
front of them and go to the front
		
00:35:06 --> 00:35:11
			of the line, people would become
hysterical. And like someone would
		
00:35:11 --> 00:35:14
			start yelling, and everyone's on
their phones calling united. This
		
00:35:14 --> 00:35:19
			is unbelievable. Right? Just like
yell a thief, right? Is it that
		
00:35:19 --> 00:35:23
			big a deal to stand with people or
in the economy, you're gonna get
		
00:35:23 --> 00:35:26
			through the line, just be a little
bit patient. It isn't that big of
		
00:35:26 --> 00:35:27
			a deal.
		
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			But this, this is, you see what's
in the knifes, it all comes out.
		
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			It all comes out. And so what a
difference what a difference when
		
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			you've been around people that are
genuinely humble, genuinely
		
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			humble. And
		
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			the across the board, from all the
different places I've studied it
		
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			this is and I especially remember
in Mauritania, how incredibly
		
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			humble, they were incredibly
humble, they don't even want you
		
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			to call them shave.
		
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			They actually prefer that you just
call them by their first name,
		
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			right? Not even use that word. And
it's almost like odd if you get
		
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			super close to them. Because it's
like, they don't do that. So when
		
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			you get really close to them, you
kind of got to deal with them the
		
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			way they like, otherwise, you
won't get close to them. Because
		
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			then that if they have to put on a
persona, you know, around you,
		
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			they're not going to feel
comfortable around you. And you'll
		
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			get the sense like, Okay, I don't
really, you know, you get the
		
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			sense that he doesn't really want
to spend time with me. Anyhow.
		
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			This is a very, very beautiful
trait. And so we have to just know
		
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			where it is that we're at, we have
to know our reality. And as it
		
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			said, in the land of the blind,
the one eyed man rules, is that
		
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			really, we need to know ourselves
is that we, I don't even think we
		
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			can really call ourselves
students.
		
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			We're trying to be students.
There's no claims here whatsoever.
		
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			A lot of these terms that they use
to refer to people,
		
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			you know, it's a topic in and of
itself, what should be used and so
		
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			forth. And arguments can be made
on both sides, however, is that in
		
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			and of our own selves, is that
I've never seen that my teachers
		
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			sign, share code, and they always
signed by their first name. Oh, my
		
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			bin Muhammad and Salomon Hafeez
even though when we speak of them,
		
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			we speak of Habib al Alam, El
Morro Bay. Have you ever been
		
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			homeless, but they sign their
names. Abdullah aka the least
		
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			servant could Dakka Dakka in their
first name. They don't use all
		
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			these Appalachians and that's how
they do it. Because this is the
		
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			way that we should be.
		
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			Missing.
		
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			The Messenger of God sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam prays some of his
		
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			companions and others also praised
them in his presence. But this
		
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			only increased him in religious
knowledge and discernment and
		
00:38:12 --> 00:38:15
			resolution and eagerness and
obedience and worship.
		
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			A Hadith states that when the
believer is praised to his face,
		
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			Faith blossoms in his heart, so
that's on one side, but this is a
		
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			certain type of person. This is a
believer that is mature
		
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			spiritually and religiously, and
knows how to deal with that praise
		
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			and that can become diluted by it.
		
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			However, people have discernment
and good counsel counsel to
		
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			themselves are few, especially
these days, while people of
		
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			ignorance and delusion are many.
So let believers be aware if they
		
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			are God fearing and wish to
protect their religion from
		
00:38:50 --> 00:38:54
			anything damaging to themselves,
or any of their brother Muslims.
		
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			Were told that such and such a
person although from the house of
		
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			prophecy, debate, commits
transgressions or mixes good with
		
00:39:02 --> 00:39:06
			evil. Some people answer that he
is one of the people of the house
		
00:39:06 --> 00:39:10
			of the Messenger of God. So Allahu
alayhi salam, and the Prophet as
		
00:39:10 --> 00:39:13
			well and the Prophet sallallahu
Sallam will intercede for them,
		
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			and that perhaps their sins will
cause them no harm.
		
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			This is an atrocious thing to say.
And whoever utters such a thing
		
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			harms himself and other ignorant
people. How can anyone say such a
		
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			thing when in the lofty book of
God, there are sufficient
		
00:39:29 --> 00:39:33
			indications that if the people of
the house are rewarded doubly for
		
00:39:33 --> 00:39:38
			their good works, they are also
punished who for their sins, as in
		
00:39:38 --> 00:39:43
			God the Exalted, says, wives of
the Prophet, whosoever among you
		
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			commits flagrant indecency for her
chest for her the chastisement
		
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			shall be double.
		
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			So also the next verse his solo
isn't wise are of his his wives
		
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			are from a debate. So his wives
and his
		
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			Only
		
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			whoever either claims or simply
thinks that neglecting obedience
		
00:40:05 --> 00:40:08
			and committing sins are not
damaging to people have noble
		
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			lineage and virtuous ancestry has
slandered God and gone against the
		
00:40:12 --> 00:40:17
			Muslim consensus. However, those
who belong to the house of the
		
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			Messenger of God so Allah Selim
are nevertheless noble, and he
		
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			takes particularly good care of
them. He repeatedly exalt exhorted
		
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			his community to look after them,
and encourage it to love and
		
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			befriend them. So too does God in
his book when he says, say, I
		
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			asked for no reward from you save
the love for his kinfolks.
		
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			Therefore, all Muslims must have
love, friendship, respect, and
		
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			reverence for them without
extravagance, and avoiding
		
00:40:47 --> 00:40:52
			excesses. So he's giving us that
the scale and how we understand to
		
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			do this, to say things like, oh,
that acts of disobedience won't
		
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			harm someone and things like that.
That's excessive, we don't do
		
00:41:01 --> 00:41:04
			that. And he made his case for
that convincingly, and that is the
		
00:41:04 --> 00:41:08
			Adam that we have to have in
relation to that. And at the same
		
00:41:08 --> 00:41:13
			time that we know that our Prophet
sallallahu Sallam that asked us to
		
00:41:13 --> 00:41:19
			take care of his family, and so
that it were encouraged to love
		
00:41:19 --> 00:41:22
			them and to befriend them. And he
mentioned the verse in the Quran
		
00:41:22 --> 00:41:26
			called Local Mali, Algernon Ilyn
what Dr. Phil Cordoba, I asked for
		
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			no reward from you save love for
kinsfolk and so that loving a
		
00:41:33 --> 00:41:36
			helpmate, respecting them showing
reverence to them without
		
00:41:36 --> 00:41:39
			extravagance and avoiding
excesses. This is an obligation.
		
00:41:40 --> 00:41:43
			And this has come from the book of
Allah and the sunnah of our
		
00:41:43 --> 00:41:48
			Prophet sallallahu CIBJO send them
in so that the way that our
		
00:41:48 --> 00:41:51
			scholars always explained it, is
that if you have someone from the
		
00:41:51 --> 00:41:53
			family of the profit center,
		
00:41:54 --> 00:41:59
			who does something wrong, and
don't know that situation, can you
		
00:41:59 --> 00:42:04
			that say that that Wrong is Right,
the wrong is wrong. But still, you
		
00:42:04 --> 00:42:08
			always respect the fact that they
are from the family of the Prophet
		
00:42:08 --> 00:42:13
			Salah license. And if they do acts
of goodness, is that your love and
		
00:42:13 --> 00:42:17
			respect for them is twofold. One
because of their lineage and to
		
00:42:17 --> 00:42:22
			because of the good acts that it
is that they do. And I know that
		
00:42:22 --> 00:42:26
			there are many people that brings
up things like well, there are
		
00:42:26 --> 00:42:28
			people that claim that they're
from the family, the prophesy SEM
		
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			and all of these types of things.
And they're really not, we're not
		
00:42:31 --> 00:42:33
			going to really get into the
discussion this requires they're
		
00:42:33 --> 00:42:37
			actually entire books written
about love and respect of the
		
00:42:37 --> 00:42:40
			prophets family. One of the
greatest is a shut off by Sheikh
		
00:42:40 --> 00:42:44
			Yusuf a number honey, but there's
many, many books that were written
		
00:42:44 --> 00:42:47
			in the history of the OMA and
that's a topic that needs to be
		
00:42:47 --> 00:42:51
			studied in and of itself. So what
we're talking about is putting
		
00:42:51 --> 00:42:54
			everything in its proper place,
and that families that are known
		
00:42:54 --> 00:42:58
			to be from the family of the
Prophet, this is that how it is
		
00:42:58 --> 00:43:00
			that we should deal with them in
this balanced fashion.
		
00:43:02 --> 00:43:02
			Those among
		
00:43:04 --> 00:43:07
			those among the people of the
House who follow in the footsteps
		
00:43:07 --> 00:43:11
			of their virtuous ancestors, and
keep to their well pleasing way,
		
00:43:11 --> 00:43:15
			are leaders and people should be
guided by their lights and emulate
		
00:43:15 --> 00:43:19
			their conduct, as was done with
their rightly guided forefathers.
		
00:43:20 --> 00:43:23
			Among the latter were the earliest
leaders, such as the Commander of
		
00:43:23 --> 00:43:28
			the Faithful Imam Ali ibn Abi
Tala, Al Hassan, and Al Hussein,
		
00:43:28 --> 00:43:30
			the two descendants of the
Messenger of God so the lady
		
00:43:30 --> 00:43:35
			Salam, Jaffa altayyar, Hamza, the
Lord of the martyrs of Dalit had
		
00:43:35 --> 00:43:40
			been the best the nation scholar,
his father, Imam, Al Abbas, who
		
00:43:40 --> 00:43:44
			was the messenger of God's uncle,
Imam Zainul, Aberdeen Ali, the son
		
00:43:44 --> 00:43:49
			of Al Hussein, Imam Al Bukhari and
his son, Imam Al Jazeera Sadiq,
		
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			may peace be upon them, and those
who resemble them among the early
		
00:43:54 --> 00:43:56
			and late members to this pure
house.
		
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			Those who belong to this house,
but do not follow the way of their
		
00:44:01 --> 00:44:05
			unblemished ancestors, and who
because of their ignorance,
		
00:44:05 --> 00:44:08
			confuse things should still be
respected and revered because of
		
00:44:08 --> 00:44:10
			their relation to the messenger.
		
00:44:11 --> 00:44:16
			However, those qualified to do so
must never neglect to counsel them
		
00:44:16 --> 00:44:19
			appropriately and exhort them to
follow their ancestors and their
		
00:44:19 --> 00:44:23
			knowledge, good works, gracious
attributes and satisfactory
		
00:44:23 --> 00:44:28
			conduct. They must be told that
they of all people are more worthy
		
00:44:28 --> 00:44:32
			of this. And that lineage on its
own can be no benefit, nor can it
		
00:44:32 --> 00:44:37
			elevate in the absence of Taqwa
and presents an eagerness for the
		
00:44:37 --> 00:44:41
			world, neglect of obedience, and
allowing oneself to be sullied by
		
00:44:41 --> 00:44:45
			transgressions. Not only have
religious leaders and scholars
		
00:44:45 --> 00:44:50
			understood this, but some poets
also one of them said by your life
		
00:44:50 --> 00:44:55
			a man is but his religion son, so
never neglect taqwa, and depend on
		
00:44:55 --> 00:44:56
			lineage
		
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			upon him and
		
00:45:00 --> 00:45:04
			his family he became his closest
disciple of Imam Ali. May God be
		
00:45:04 --> 00:45:06
			pleased with him and I just go to
that's the
		
00:45:08 --> 00:45:12
			so go on to the next point that's
the the next line of the poem for
		
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			Islam exalted the Persian Salmaan,
while idolatry of based in noble,
		
00:45:18 --> 00:45:19
			Abu Lahab
		
00:45:20 --> 00:45:25
			an element enemies said, if the
soul of a noble man is not as
		
00:45:25 --> 00:45:29
			noble as his ancestry, what good
will a distinguished position do
		
00:45:29 --> 00:45:35
			him? Another poet said, of what
uses Hashemite lineage, if the
		
00:45:35 --> 00:45:38
			soul hails from by healer.
		
00:45:39 --> 00:45:42
			The same applies to the
descendants of saintly people,
		
00:45:42 --> 00:45:45
			when they follow in their
ancestors footsteps, they are
		
00:45:45 --> 00:45:48
			equally virtuous and deserve to be
revered, and have their blessing
		
00:45:48 --> 00:45:53
			sought, when on the other hand,
they are ignorant and heedless,
		
00:45:53 --> 00:45:57
			they must be canceled and guided
to the right way. Nevertheless,
		
00:45:57 --> 00:45:59
			they should be given a certain
amount of respect for their
		
00:45:59 --> 00:46:03
			ancestors sake, why should they
not when God the Exalted says
		
00:46:04 --> 00:46:08
			about the two boys and the wall,
and underneath, it was a treasure
		
00:46:08 --> 00:46:11
			belonging to them, and their
father had been virtuous. So that
		
00:46:11 --> 00:46:15
			comes in sort of calf, what kind
of womb slaley Ha, and the father
		
00:46:15 --> 00:46:19
			had been virtuous. And that, you
know, my dad says it was said that
		
00:46:19 --> 00:46:23
			this refers to their seventh
ancestor on their mother's side.
		
00:46:24 --> 00:46:29
			So it wasn't their direct father.
It was their ancestor on their
		
00:46:29 --> 00:46:34
			mother's side, seven generations
back. And then that Allah Tada
		
00:46:34 --> 00:46:37
			that honored them by virtue of
that ancestor.
		
00:46:39 --> 00:46:42
			It was said that this refers to
the seventh ancestor on their
		
00:46:42 --> 00:46:46
			mother's side, for his sake, they
were protected in the worldly
		
00:46:46 --> 00:46:51
			affairs, let alone those of the
hereafter. No this understand,
		
00:46:51 --> 00:46:56
			place everything in its place,
give each his do seek God's help,
		
00:46:56 --> 00:46:58
			and you will be happy and rightly
guided.
		
00:46:59 --> 00:47:01
			The matter is entirely God's.
		
00:47:03 --> 00:47:07
			So that I think that's very
straightforward there after the
		
00:47:08 --> 00:47:13
			brief commentary in the beginning,
and that is one of the things that
		
00:47:13 --> 00:47:16
			you'll find in the scholarship, if
you remember, her dad, is an
		
00:47:16 --> 00:47:22
			incredible amount of balance. And
he treats topics holistically from
		
00:47:22 --> 00:47:26
			all different perspectives so that
we can put everything in its
		
00:47:26 --> 00:47:29
			proper place. And this is really
what we want to do as believers is
		
00:47:30 --> 00:47:34
			that not to have any tough Freeter
if wrought, we don't want to be
		
00:47:34 --> 00:47:37
			excessive in any way, nor do we
want to be remiss. We don't want
		
00:47:37 --> 00:47:41
			to go to any extreme on either
side, we want to remain right in
		
00:47:41 --> 00:47:44
			the middle. And that put
everything in its proper place and
		
00:47:44 --> 00:47:47
			we a lot of other aquatic givers.
Tofik opened up the doors for us
		
00:47:47 --> 00:47:51
			to benefit from these bloodwood
words and to put it into practice,
		
00:47:51 --> 00:47:55
			and less about aquatera buses to
receive the provision of Taqwa and
		
00:47:55 --> 00:47:59
			the provision of sacred knowledge
beneficial knowledge that prepares
		
00:47:59 --> 00:48:02
			us for the meeting of Our Lord was
sold a lot I seen him her maiden
		
00:48:02 --> 00:48:04
			ride it was 100