Wisam Sharieff – Righteousness In A Bottle Part 2

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The importance of finding time to spend on family members' needs and experiences, rather than just spending money on them, is emphasized. The transition from community service to a large facility creates a need for prayer and a desire for everyone to pray. The importance of patient mentality and embracing the shades of peace is emphasized, along with the need to be patient and not give up on promises. It is essential to achieve a father's job and society, and everyone should be conscious and fearful of the situation.

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			And where we left off was the transition between community service and the establishment of the
prayer. We didn't just say that we need to start praying but alas pantalla used the word or revealed
unto us. What are Bama slon
		
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			zanka one remove una de him either
		
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			was reading I feel bad.
		
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			the nouns are down Who? What?
		
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			Whoo tunku
		
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			hamdulillah al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil alameen wa Salatu was Salam O Allah Rasool e nebia, Karim. A
salaam aleikum, wa rahmatullah brothers and sisters in the Irvine community.
		
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			Today's goal is to really wrap up our conversation on righteousness in a bottle, part two. So let's
take a quick recap of where we were. We started with the main point of the main thesis, that
religiosity being a righteous being a religious person couldn't be put into a bottle of well, he
prays a lot, or he looks religious, or he does community service, or he pays or he has a good
relationship with the people around him, but it needed to be a complete and total package. So you
might not be perfect in one section, you might not be perfect in your relationship with all your
family members, but it's something that you're striving on in order to become connected with a less
		
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			parent Donna. So what we've done thus far is i a 177, of Surah Baqarah. And it has been termed and
deemed it to be or the idea of righteousness. And what did we see a Lost Planet Allah told us lacell
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			malady boo. Oh, Alan King, Bill ramen man, man I've been.
		
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			I've been so lucky. Tyler pointed out to us that righteousness was not only was not merely turning
your face from right to left, but righteousness was an entire package. While lacking and not
contrary, righteousness was a complete package. The person who believed in Allah who believed in the
Day of Judgment, the angels, the Prophets, and the books brought by those prophets. And not only did
they believe in Allah subhanaw taala with their tongue, but their belief manifest into a huge part
of their life being community service. Now, look at the words together. And if you have the
opportunity, I want you to follow along, what I tell man and they spend their wealth. Now this is
		
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			not just their financial wealth, their time, their energy that which Allah subhanaw taala has given
them well, I tell Matt, specifically, we can say their finances specifically, but not exclusively.
So they spend their money Allah hope be heed this despite the fact that they have love for it. Now
think about this, when you donate something that's torn and ripped, when you give your extra time,
to your family members, then sometimes you're giving the cheapest part of your time. But when you
take out of your wealth, your time, your energy, for the categories that are less pantalla has given
its despite your love of it. So you might be able to sleep one more hour, but you could get up early
		
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			and spend time with your wife. Or you could get up a little home early from work and you could have
made a little bit more money but you get home and you spend time with your kids. You ask them what's
going on with their homework. Um, remember, it's spending out of those facilities. Allah gave you
time, energy wealth, it could be your ability to explain things. What did Allah give you? If Allah
gave you a cool heart, if Allah subhanaw taala gave you you don't have a short fuse. It's done that
talk to your kids. So I hope that we will run out of time I want my son key. What my Sakina Wabi
Sabi. So Allah subhanaw taala told us that we're not only going to spend it on just our family, but
		
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			our near relatives are going to get that from that which we love, our wealth, our money, our time,
our energy, our smile. We love sometimes just our dignity and sometimes our
		
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			Ego. But we put that and say, You know what, I haven't seen this family member in a while I've been
arguing with them, I'm gonna kind of step back and have a little humility we spend on our family
members, the near relatives, the orphans, the needy, and the wayfare. And the one who asks, so think
about this, your family members who are near your spending on them anyway, those who you're talking
to or not talking to, you're definitely spending on them. Now, look at this, the orphans, they
deserve your rights. But then it's not just the orphans, but it's the needy. And it's not just the
needy, but it's someone who is a wayfare, someone who's traveling in the path. And then it's the
		
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			person who asks, and sometimes they're like, why should I give this person they're, they're asking
for a handout. Sometimes people don't have their trust in Allah subhanaw taala, as much as you do.
So when you give to any of these categories, don't think that you're doing a favor, give it to them,
knowing that you are doing what Allah subhanaw taala asked, and then with that kind word, or that
little gesture, or whatever they need to, you know, should also have trust in the last panel, Donna,
was sat in, in and those who asked what fills your cup, and freeing the next from slavery. And you
can see the part one of this video what we talked about there. Now we're going to transition from
		
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			this huge sector of community service. I'm worried about the orphans, I'm worried about everyone in
the community, my family members who are wealthy, or who are not wealthy, I have a nice word for
them, I have a kind word for them, I have a gift for them. I ordered an edible arrangements for
them, but they're rich. So unless you're near relative spend on them, it brings family ties
together. And it's the unit of the society that is the family and extended relatives. Now we're
going to transition here to the third element. So we had those who believe in the facets of belief,
those who are concerned about community welfare spending on all these different levels of the
		
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			community. But then the last part of our data says, what, famos sligh lanto zanka What a Bama, and
they establish the prayer, I want you to get make a transition here. When I say religious, you think
the guy who prays a lot, and is always wearing white, but we don't think about the person who's
striving to establish that prayer. It could be the brother who is establishing a Masjid, it could be
the brother who, in a gathering, you're sitting with your friends. And you're the one who says guys,
it's time to pray. We really should pray. Even if we're out at playing basketball, we're out at the
theater, we're out at the mall, we really have to establish the prayer. So on the internal level,
		
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			you're establishing your own prayer, when you're with your friends, you're establishing the prayer,
but then think about on a grander scope. Those people who are putting their efforts into building
the true facility of a mustard, and those who are giving effort into building a facility where not
only the prayer can happen, but the prayer can be established. Let's have a discussion about that
when we have the opportunity, I want you to think about a place where young people can come and
maybe do some sporting events, and they're naturally then at the mosque to pray to see how we
establishing the prayer doesn't just mean putting up walls and say okay, now we have time and prayer
		
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			for time. But even a daycare, or even a food bank, these things when they're connected to the
mustard. It establishes the prayer. And it puts a medical clinic connected to the mustard
automatically the needs of the people are being fulfilled. So they're there to make the prayer will
Obama salado.
		
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			And they give zeca. Now, here's the tremendous part, you might be saying, but I just spent them five
categories of people on top of spending on the five categories of people on top of buying and
gifting something to the people around you to your neighbors to the orphans. Now at that once and
twice a year, you're giving that allotted amount of Zika so that the community can flourish under
the eight categories of Zika. The internet, I'd like you to look those up what are the eight
categories of Zika and what has the lowest pantalla asked from us. Now, we have three components, I
am believing in God and all of the units around that means I'm believing in the Day of Judgment, the
		
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			angels I'm believing in the prophets and the books that they brought. And that belief manifests in
me spending on the community and acting and giving time to the community building a high school
giving energy for a battered women's shelter, these are all spending on a hobby, then I am not only
an internally being spiritual so I'm building the prayer from the individual level. But now I'm
building the blocks to have a facility where I can pray and under greater scope. Not only am I
building that building, but when I'm at the park and it's time to pray I established the prayer and
I don't feel shy to tell my friends Hey, it's time to pray we're gonna go ahead and print
		
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			now spending of this aka A lot of us are faulty A lot of us know people who are not spending as much
time calculating theirs aka we can look into this together as a community. Now the fourth component
tremendous while mu foo and IV D him is
		
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			that those people
		
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			people when they make a covenant, or when they make a contract, or they make a promise, what move
foreigner they are those who fulfill that contract, I want you to split the concept of fulfilling a
promise into two. What's the first promise that we have between ourselves and the last part of
Madonna, he and Ghana,
		
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			Ghana starin. You alone, but we worship and You alone will be asked for help. That's promise number
one, you might fall out a few times on your promise to Allah. But get right back up. And remember a
lot I told you were the only one I was going to worship and the only one I was going to ask for
help. The second that we make are with the people around us. The covenants are if you're a teenager,
you're sitting there and you told your parents that you're going to spend this much time studying,
that's a promise, the covenant to the people who are your gateway to God. And we talked about this,
if you can make a promise to the parents who gave you life and you can see them, then you'll be able
		
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			to fulfill the promise with the one who you cannot see a lost pinata. So if you can't be humble and
have servitude and fulfill the rights and just do what your parents say, how are you going to do
what Allah subhanaw taala says you can't even see him. And then on the parental level, when you and
your spouse are sitting together, and you told yourself, I wasn't going to yell at her, I wasn't
going to, I wasn't going to get lose my cool just because I'm going to use my spouse goes either way
husband to wife, wife, the husband, that I'm not going to just take my aggression out on them
without any control. So these are promises we make. But let's take this up to a society level now. I
		
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			mean, a lot of times we look at business, and we realize, you know, get into business contract with
anyone except a Muslim. Why? Because Muslims won't keep their word. Muslims won't keep their word
when doing a business contract. So we'll move on. And the idea here is to religiousness
righteousness, split it into two, on the fourth level, keeping your promise to God. And if you break
that every once in a while you falter, don't break it. You falter on your promise, with the last
time that I get right back up, make up that prayer, get right back up, ask for forgiveness for that
sin. And the second component is when you make a promise, whether it's business or financial
		
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			transactions, when you make that promise of a * of marriage, stick to that. And every time you
falter, go back to the to the words, when you took the hand of your wife and you told your father in
law, I will take care of her, I'll make sure that she's happy. And do that when you took the promise
from your mom. And your mom said, you know, be respectful to your husband, fulfill his rights be
available, so that you can share lovely moments together. Think about that, I would like you to be
isn't allowed to remember that. We make a lot of promises. And a lot of times we forget that those
promises have the opportunity to be the covenants can be re filtered, the covenants can be rebuilt.
		
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			So remember the promise to Allah, and the promise of the creatures around us, the human beings and
the environment around us. Now all of these things will move forward beyond the means to do so I've
labeled four levels of religiosity for different bottles, if you will, looking religious acting
religious speaking like your religious spending, like your religious praying, like your religious
and keeping that covenant with the people around you. And now you at home. It's amazing how les
panda puts these words with he knows he says and this is not going to be easy. So Allah subhana wa
tada says, and after you have believed, done righteous actions, encourage the good on multiple
		
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			levels, we'll slow it down
		
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			and have patience. and patience. Alas, pantalla doesn't just leave it leave it open and ambiguous,
okay, just be patient, be a nice person. And if someone attacks you just be patient, Allah subhanaw
taala is giving us this chance. And he's saying, Look, there are going to be three bottles in which
you're going to need to be patient. First, wasabi, Diem, be patient feel the best.
		
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			In times of suffering, and a lot of times we think it's not fair and we're not in a good position.
But unless practicing in order to truly be righteous, know that you're going to need to be patient
on multiple levels, when the going is tough, and you cannot react back. Okay? When the going is
tough. And you see someone talking about the dangers of Sharia law and Islam is being put down, then
you can't do anything against that. Yes, you can strive and work with organizations, but overall,
we're not in this in a state of power. Have patience in that part, one long war and during times of
hardship, so when you're not in a position to reach
		
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			have patients then when you are in a point or a place of difficulty and hardship, what love war. Now
I want you to think about this, if you're in charge of anything, you're a parent, you're a father,
you're a mother, you're a husband, a wife, an employer, you're the president of an organization.
Remember this much, you have power. And something someone on a lower level might be disrespecting,
you have patience, then have patience during a time when you have the upper hand. And now Allah
subhanaw taala takes us to a next the next stage. And in this stage, he says, what he
		
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			backs and at times of stress, I want you to think about this. If you're being patient, when you're
the oppressed, one, you can't fight back if you're being patient when you're the strong one. And
you're in times of difficulty, think about in times of stress. Now, what are these times of stress,
when you have the ability to fight back and the other person is in the wrong as well, and you're
actually fighting a jihad, you're struggling against an opponent? Have Slava have a limitation in
how much you retaliate? Now, these things are going to take a lot of time, these steps of sub are
going to take different facets. And if Allah Allah wills, after keeping our covenant with Allah, and
		
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			keeping our covenant with the people on keeping my covenant to you, to make this second part of the
video, that's digestible. The difficult part to digest are these three levels of patience, I'd like
to open these up be isn't Allahu taala and separate them into categories so that we, as the urban
community can sit down and say, Well, what are practical action items I can do to become more
patient? When my wife irritates me when my husband is losing his temper with me? What are actual
things that I can do? And I'd like to pick that up. Now, once we get there, but it's not we're going
to be practicing and knowing that being religious is going to take time, being truly righteous is
		
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			going to take energy, and having patience is going to go through levels. But Allah subhanaw taala
says one that flower blossoms, and when the petals of the rose open up, and the belief the man in
Allah, Allah and all of the things that he's asked us to believe in the spending on that which we
love, and all the categories of the community, and the establishment of the prayer and the giving of
the Zakah, and the keeping of the covenant to Allah and to his creation, when all of that is
fulfilled, and the shades of patience are seen on the skin tone of that believer, Allah, he can levy
nose or down poo, those are the true. Those are the ones who are wearing the true perfume of
		
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			righteousness. Those are the ones who are truly, truly beautiful, and truly have the fragrance, the
color, the texture, the thorns, and the body of the beautiful rose. they encompass all things, not
just one.
		
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			Whoo,
		
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			whoo, Turku. And those are truly the one and those are the ones who are surely that goon who are
righteous, who are really religious, who are really fearful of the punishment of a lot hopeful in
his promises and and his mercy and conscious and aware of Allah subhanaw taala. Those are the people
who have done.
		
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			Now before we stop, I don't want you to just see this as the completion of the lecture, I want to
continue. I want us as a community to develop this concept, that religiousness each person's going
to have strong feet, someone's going to be good in community service, someone's going to be good at
punctuality of the prayer being there for all five prayers. I want us to now see the shades of
religiosity, I want us to see it as this is the strong point of somebody. And we don't see someone
as less religious or more religious. We see someone as all of us are striving towards religiosity
striving towards being conscious, aware and fearful of the punishment of a law in different facets,
		
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			but all of us are struggling in all these parts. Before we end though, I want you to look at this
word with our Eagle Latina. sodoku Next time you say that guy is really religious. Think about this
ayah does he truly embody all of these things? What would I eat Gohan with the spoon. And is he
amongst them? Is she amongst the Mottaki? Why do I want you to see this word? Where do you remember
this word coming up before you remember earlier?
		
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			me, Danny Can you kita
		
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			he who doesn't mean mood
		
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			and Islam mean this is the book that has no doubt in it. The book that is with Allah Subhana Allah
that has no doubt in it for those who are mortality. For those who are next time you you're like you
read the definition you're like okay mucked up the God conscious, fearful of God's punishment
hopeful and his mercy know that this ayah encompasses it. So if we truly want to be healthy, be
isn't Allahu taala we're gonna try and I really mean it like a workout plan. We're gonna try to hit
all these facets. Let's start talking about Emma, let's start talking about Amina sloty had
righteous actions. Let's talk about let's start talking about dough. So we help though I see bill
		
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			help encouraging the good And lastly, the slump and encouraging righteousness. But if you look at
this ayah Do you not see it kind of reflect one surah no cron Illa Vina
		
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			the belief that we looked at the beginning, why me new slon
		
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			and the righteous deeds spending on the people in the community. One
		
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			long been how and encouraging the good by establishing the prayer, one
		
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			slow bill slump,
		
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			and encouraging and being steadfast in patience. There's great wisdom in the eyes and the Quran. We
need to spend a little time and realize it isn't. Let's look at it together. I will speak to
everyone soon. I'm hoping that you're staying up with the homework from the last part one homework
now I want us to start getting out there. Go to your neighbors and Juma. maybe buy them some flowers
or go to your neighbors and buy them a little basket of something that is representative of sweet
say, hey, today's Friday, you know it's a day it's a festival for us. We go for prayers, and maybe
see the scene a little bit more clean on Fridays. Make your Islam public without making it in
		
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			someone's face without giving them you know, hey, you should become Muslim. Let them see your son
first. So let's try to stick with the four things we had last time. Cut out one day a week where
you're not involving yourself with inorganic spiritual food, music, ESPN one day a week. Just one
day a week we talked about it. You'll see it from the last clip and be isn't that I'm looking
forward to meeting everyone again, if Allah wills we'll spend some more time together. This is Ira
177 of Surah Baqarah jacquela. Heron was Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah