Wael Ibrahim – Halal Intimacy #01 – Introduction

			Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh Brothers and Sisters in Islam and everyone who is following
the AWARE Academy YouTube Channel Welcome back to this new series, which will start today in sha
Allah Allah titled Halal intimacy.
		

			This series in sha Allah will be based on a book that I just purchased from Tao bookstore in
Malaysia, those who don't know, Tao bookstore and brother Fareed and the entire team mashallah in
Malaysia. I will include the link in the description below this video in sha Allah but this this
book is amazing. It started Halal intimacy from the Islamic perspective strictly for married and
prospective couples. I don't think that single people shouldn't read the book or shouldn't watch my
video series. But I think the author is worried about the language of the book which is so
descriptive and could perhaps lead the imagination of single people to participate in any
		

			inappropriate sexual activities. Nevertheless, the book is an amazing initiative that I congratulate
the author for actually taking such a step such a courageous step dealing with such a taboo topic in
a very open manner that is absolutely needed for our guidance because I've been dealing with couples
married couples who will come after a year of the marriage or two years or the like complaining
about few things that they have discovered after marriage some of them related to * addiction,
sexual dysfunction and they didn't know they didn't have any guidance on dealing with these
situations prior to their marriage and as a result sometimes the entire marriage would be collapsed
		

			and end up either in divorce or infidelity and the like May Allah subhanaw taala protectors today's
episode I'll just run you through the content the Table of Content First of all, I tried to reach
out to the author himself to seek His permission to discuss the content of his book on my YouTube
channel I couldn't reach him unfortunately I sent a couple of messages on a few pages that I found
on the internet so if you know the author directly, kindly contact him and advise him to be in touch
with me Inshallah, perhaps we can collaborate and and maybe invite him or one of those episodes to
interview him on the idea of Halal intimacy in this amazing book. Once again, the title of the book
		

			is halal intimacy from the Islamic perspective strictly for married and prospective couples and
mashallah Tabarrok Allah the foreword of the book was written by Dr. Abu Amina Bilal Philips, which
means he had endorsed the idea endorse the whole project of speaking and talking openly about this
subject. Of course, Dr. Abu Amin, Abdullah Al herps does not need any introduction is the founder of
the Islamic online university also I will leave a link to his online university inshallah and video
in the description of the video and also had written plenty of books. One of them is my favorite
book of the hate the fundamentals of the hate, go and look it up in Charlottetown. But let's get
		

			into the table of contents of Halal intimacy and see what the author is discussing, and inshallah
inshallah we will dedicate an episode for each chapter. Perhaps, if there are chapters that need
further elaboration, we will extend it as much as we can. Let's see how the entire series will go on
videos. Hopefully, I will do justice to what the author had compiled and Charlotta. So let's get
into the table of content first. So after the foreword of the Bill Phillips then an introduction to
the entire book comes a chapter dedicated to marriage in Islam, the importance of marriage in Islam,
and then the author started to list down things about marriage in general, like the importance of
		

			early marriages and how can we prepare our young generations and educate them about the importance
of marriage so that they can have it in mind instead of having the idea of premarital sexual
relationship and the like boyfriends and girlfriends relationship which is prohibited in Islam and
then sexual hygiene is another chapter. Now this is after marriage so when you get married inshallah
Tada it's very important for couples to take care of their hygienic habits. That is also outlined
within the life of the prophet saw Selim and within Islam in general * and communication, how can
we communicate our desires to each other. Many times couples will be shy to speak about their sexual
		

			preferences and moves and the like. With their own spouses. A husband would be shy to express his
desire to his wife and likewise the wife would be shy to express herself Subhan Allah Allah, Allah
subhanaw taala described that we are the closest to each other who nearly bears on Lake Como and to
leave us alone. They are your garments and you are their garments, and garments are the closest to
our body. So wives and husbands should be open about communication when it comes to sexual
relationship seduction, a chapter dedicated about seduction. Now the language will get a little bit
tough here and I will
		

			Want you to bear with me that everything now from now on is only related to a husband and wife,
which means it's absolutely permissible for a husband and wife to for example, dress sexy for one
another dress in a manner that can seduce their husbands or their wives sexually to attract each
other to the relationship of the this intimate sexual relationship, because it's part of the package
of being married to one another. There is also a chapter about erotic talk, like how can you talk in
a manner that can attract your husband or your wife to that relationship? There is a chapter about
sexting. I didn't read it yet. I'm telling you, I read it yet. I will be reading it, commenting on
		

			anything that perhaps I may not agree with. Because I've been in the field of dealing with *
addicts and the like, and sometimes even a husband and wife were living far from each other and 16
meaning showing each other on cameras in seductive way could lead to a lot of harms than benefits.
So you read it in sha Allah honestly comment and review the book. There is also a chapter on
massage, massages for one another, there is a chapter about kissing our oral * about *
* all these things are mentioned in the context of dealing with your Halal spouse. I believe
wholeheartedly that there are many actions that could be labeled by scholars as Haram as prohibited.
		

			We'll bring all these opinions as we discuss the book in sha Allah. I also believe that any action
which is considered to be halal, but one of the partners dislike such an action, they should not be
forced to proceed to participate. We will also talk about that in sha Allah, and what for saying
could lead to in a relationship like this, the author is also courageous enough to discuss chapters
about sextiles and positions which are also very very important sometimes to break the boredom of
such a relationship. The timing of sexual intimacy is also discussed and then talking about the full
key matters of sexual intimacy in the nights of Ramadan. There are two chapters dedicated to
		

			fertility and pregnancy sexual intimacy during those time, there are also chapters dedicated to
sexual performance. And if the performance wasn't good enough to please your partner, what should
you do about it? And there are two chapters dedicated to *, and *. I'd like to
see what the author mentioned about the full key opinion or the verdict about * and
* in Islam. And also what are the possible solutions if you discovered or found out that
your husband or your wife being addicted to such intense addictive behavior, also a chapter
dedicated to sexual dysfunction erectile dysfunction and or an * for ladies and sometimes
		

			they do not experience the necessary pleasure during sexual intimacy with their lawful spouses and
that could be related to their prior addiction to * or *, a chapter dedicated
to boosting one's libido sometimes in such a relationship, the bodies they say the bodies become so
accustomed to one another so they don't feel the same attractions as before. So how can we boost our
libido and our appetite for sexual intimacy when we experienced that cold feelings to each other
there are also chapters dedicated to * and stress. I don't know what the author is trying to
discuss here. We're gonna get into the book and discuss it on videos later on. Shala there's also
		

			one chapter here on * and polygyny and how Polygamy In general bothers our sisters a lot in
sometimes it caused a lot of anxiety in a relationship when the husband usually threatened the wives
that if you don't follow my lead if you don't do this if you don't perform like this, I will get
another wife I have a right and so on and he used to use this as a tool to threaten their wives to
comply with anything so we will discuss inshallah in great details when we come to that chapter.
There is love in sharing I don't know what the author meant by this we will get to that chapter and
inform you Inshallah, to Allah size issues also discussed sometimes people who are addicted to
		

			* because of the images they see whether a male will be watching different sizes,
different bodies and, and then compare them to his wife and as a result, they lose such husbands
they lose interest in sexual intimacy with their spouses, but likewise women who are watching or
addicted to *, they started also comparing organs and body parts to what their husbands
already have * starvation again, I don't know what the author meant yet I didn't come to the
chapter yet but we'll get to it in sha Allah Allah * and cuddling is also discussed. That's why
perhaps you now know why the author on the cover said strictly for married and prospective couples
		

			because the issues of marriage and intimacy are discussed in a very brave manner and in a very
descriptive way because I believe the author is wise enough to understand that these things the
sexual urges the sexual desires that Allah had created and built
		

			within our system absolutely necessary and part of our existence just like food and water and other
necessities, so we need to describe them in a manner that does not leave any room for confusion
because Islam is a complete way of life and * and marriage is part of this life. So we need to
also be guided according to the method the methodology revealed to our beloved Prophet Muhammad
Awesome, so I congratulate really the author for taking that brave step there are also chapters
dedicated to holding or reciting the Quran while you are in the state of Geneva. So after having
sexual intimacy with your spouse, can you read Quran before bathing? Can you recite the Quran before
		

			taking that required shower we will get to that in sha Allah Allah how to perform Janelle but these
are very important topics that sometimes we look at them trivially and we don't pay much attention
or importance to them, but they are part of our religion. We have to pay attention to them,
especially those who are about to get married Inshallah, you need to educate yourself on these
issues before marriage also chapters on water for hosts how to bathe purification with Tammam or
dried ablution and this is the last chapter actually in the book so I am so looking forward to start
reading, preparing my talks and videos and posting them perhaps once every few days or once every
		

			week. I hope and pray that it will benefit the Muslim ummah at great length I advise you to grab the
book it's available from our bookstore in Malaysia can be shipped they ship it mashallah within four
days or five days, I got my copy here and bunch of other books that perhaps we can inshallah
dedicate series of videos to discuss the values and bring these benefits to a greater number of
Muslims around the world in sha Allah Allah that was it for the introductory session of this amazing
book Halal intimacy by Ofsted, Abdul Latif Abdullahi and in sha Allah Tala the next episode, I am
planning to discuss the foreword of Dr. Bilal Philips. And then we can take it one bit one step at a
		

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