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The speaker discusses the importance of self-reflection and self-reflection to deal with one's own self and past failures. They emphasize the need to be aware of one's own limitations and acknowledge the weight of one's life. The speaker also emphasizes the importance of rebuilding one's relationship with God and rebuilding one's relationship with oneself.

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			Peace be with you.
		
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			We talked yesterday
		
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			about this,
		
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			notion
		
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			of repair,
		
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			what we need to understand when it comes
		
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			to our own self. When we got
		
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			and we get this consciousness
		
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			with our own heart, with our own destiny,
		
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			with our own relationship to God and relationship
		
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			to ourself.
		
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			And at that point, we understand that, yes,
		
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			yesterday, we were
		
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			an innocent baby, and with time, things are
		
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			changing. And with our consciousness,
		
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			we understand that we have to deal with
		
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			our own self, and it's not always easy
		
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			to deal with our,
		
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			weaknesses, to deal with our,
		
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			failures,
		
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			with our
		
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			setbacks, and even with our mistakes
		
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			during our life.
		
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			And the point is that when we deal
		
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			with
		
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			many of the scholars and the olema, when
		
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			we are talking to them,
		
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			they are right with one thing. They are
		
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			telling us this is the way. This is
		
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			where you have to go, and this is
		
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			what you have to do. You have to
		
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			pray. You have to fast. You have to
		
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			give zakat
		
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			and so on and so forth. We know
		
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			that we have to do all this. The
		
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			point here, and this is what is missing
		
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			very often in the spiritual discourses that we
		
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			have,
		
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			is not only to know where we have
		
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			to go, because this could be obvious,
		
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			but what are we bearing?
		
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			What is the burden that is on our
		
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			shoulders, and in which way we have to
		
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			deal
		
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			with it, and no one on earth can
		
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			know it except God
		
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			and yourself.
		
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			Because this is
		
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			something that you have to deal, and you
		
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			have it in the Quran when you have
		
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			to come. And and when the the weight
		
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			are going to be heavy,
		
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			they are going to be light. This is
		
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			what we have to deal with during our
		
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			life. So, yes,
		
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			know
		
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			the way,
		
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			know
		
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			where we you are heading, but know also
		
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			what we you are holding,
		
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			what you are bearing in your heart and
		
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			in your life. Meaning that
		
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			you have to deal with your relationship with
		
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			god, but your relationship with your parents,
		
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			the legacy that you are,
		
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			holding, the legacy that you are,
		
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			bearing, the legacy that is,
		
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			in fact, educating you and helping you and
		
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			sometimes being a herder, being an obstacle in
		
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			the way you are going to deal with,
		
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			the Islamic principles and with your own faith.
		
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			So
		
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			when you deal with this, you understand that,
		
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			as I said, life is a pilgrimage. And
		
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			during this pilgrimage, you come back to yourself.
		
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			And with this awareness, this consciousness,
		
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			you are dealing with yourself and you know,
		
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			okay.
		
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			This is where I have to go. I
		
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			know that god is expecting from me to
		
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			follow this path, but at the same times,
		
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			he's expecting
		
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			from me. If I want to deal with,
		
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			the principles,
		
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			if I want to be faithful to the
		
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			rituals, if I want to
		
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			be an a man or woman of faith,
		
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			I have to deal with
		
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			everything
		
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			which is an
		
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			obstacle between me
		
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			and
		
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			my heart,
		
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			me and the purity
		
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			of my life. And at one point,
		
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			if you know where you are heading,
		
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			you should start
		
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			to be,
		
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			aware,
		
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			to be and to have this kind of
		
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			lucidity
		
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			with your own
		
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			personal,
		
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			intimacy, your own heart in order to repair
		
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			what should be repaired and fixed
		
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			today, tomorrow,
		
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			and for the time to come. Don't forget
		
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			to tell the people you love that you
		
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			love them. Life is fragile.