Tamara Gray – Types of Troublesome Tongues Lying

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			Alright, what kind of tongue is
the tongue? What kind of type of
		

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			tongues are the tongues that are
troublesome? Well, the first is
		

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			the lying tongue,
		

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			the tongue that lies with ease.
		

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			Subhanallah Abu Huraira, who tells
us that there are three signs of a
		

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			hypocrite,
		

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			and one of those signs either had,
if he speaks he lies,
		

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			the sign of hypocrisy.
		

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			So what kind of lies might come
out of our mouths?
		

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			They might be lies we tell out of
fear we don't want to be found out
		

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			for what's really, really doing.
		

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			They might be a lie that comes out
because we're in the habit of
		

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			lying. We're not in the habit of
truth telling.
		

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			Might be a lie that comes out as a
joke.
		

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			It might be just a flat out lie.
		

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			And I think it's difficult to face
ourselves in this thing might be
		

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			an exaggeration.
		

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			Where you you're not intending to
lie, but you end up exaggerate.
		

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			You exaggerate so often that it's
almost as though lying is
		

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			happening. So we
		

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			have to ask ourselves, What am I
afraid of? Because very often, one
		

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			of the reasons we Subhanallah on
this religion, it's just so much,
		

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			one of the reasons we often do
things that are wrong is out of
		

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			fear.
		

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			Like we lie because we're afraid
of someone's reaction,
		

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			or we lie because we're afraid of
conflict, or we lie because we're
		

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			afraid of our image,
		

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			and yet, if we know the reality of
what lying does, we will be afraid
		

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			of the lie instead of afraid of
the result of of what we of the
		

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			truth. And so we want to think
about that. We want to make sure
		

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			that we we fear being a person who
is a liar more than we fear the
		

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			results of the truth and hold on
		

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			to that truth. Now, if we see
ourselves in the past having been
		

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			people of lies or people who lie
or having exaggeration or all of
		

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			this, what can we do to fix it?
		

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			Well, one thing is use we'll call
it the Dhikr Allah soap,
		

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			the law soap,
		

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			to wash away stuff for Allah sak,
for Allah sakula, to wash away
		

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			what was there.
		

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			And instead of a lie in the
future, to truth, to choose truth
		

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			to just make sure we're choosing
truth or silence. It's okay to
		

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			choose silence.
		

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			It's okay to choose silence. There
is a strength in silence.