Taimiyyah Zubair – Taleem al Quran 2021 J04-048D Tafsir Aal-e-Imran 118

			Yeah Are you her Lavina ama no all you who have believed let the toughie do built on a 10 Min Dooney
calm do not take as intimates those other than yourselves here ALLAH SubhanA wa Tada cautions the
believers and Allah subhanaw taala alerts them warns them and He does that by first addressing them
in the best way by saying yeah uh you Alladhina amanu or you have believed any your Eman
necessitates and it is because of your Eman that Allah subhanaw taala is cautioning you, Allah
subhanaw taala wants to protect you. So, what is it that Allah subhanaw taala is telling us that led
the Tofino butanna to Mindy Unicom do not take butanna Those other than yourselves now what is
		

			Bikaner Bikaner is from the root letters bow pa noon, and Bettina is basically the closest thing to
a person's body okay. So, the butanna of a garment is the lining the inner side that is closer to
you than the outer lining, okay. So, the clothes have a butanna and a li hora butanna is the inside
part okay, and then there is the outside part. So, this is butanna. Now, Bettina is also used for
such people who are very close to an individual, okay, any the closest people to a person, and when
they are closest to a person, it means that they are the people of his city. And he they know his
secrets, they know his very private and confidential matters, right? They are his confidence. And so
		

			they advise him, he complains to them, and he shares his concerns with them. He shares his
innermost, you know, secrets with them anything about it, you don't share your personal details or
your personal situation with just any friend. Right. In fact, there are friends who you hang out
with a lot, but they don't know a lot about you. But there are some people whom you do confide in,
you do share with them, maybe your past mistakes, right? Maybe your horrible past, or maybe some
things about you that you wouldn't tell others, like maybe a health condition that you have, or
maybe the kind of relationship that you have with your family. Right. So you don't go on telling
		

			everyone about everything. There are people who are in the inner circle, right, who are very close
to you who are closest to you. And then there are people who are yes, they're close to you, but
they're not as close as some others. Right. So bepanah are who those friends have a person who are
very, very close to him. And as a result of that, they know his sit, they know his secret matters,
his private matters, because he confides in them. He shares with them. He seeks their advice. All
right. So you know, for example, people know about your life from the outside. But then there are
some people who know about your life from the inside. Right? So this is the baton to Roger, those
		

			who know the inner matters of a person, the private affairs of a person. Okay, they know the ins.
So, yeah, are you here Lavina Avenue. Let the turkey do butanna tambien do Nico. You know the
Prophet sallallahu already said and said about the unsought that unsolved share out on when NASA
dethrone Subhan Allah He said that the unsolved our share out and share out is also used for an
inner garment, okay, because it touches the shower the hair, okay, it touches you. And he said the
InSAR or Cheryl, and when NASA default the people the rest of the people are an outer garment. And
he expressed his love for the facade that they are close to me than others. So let that the hero
		

			Bitanga min Dooney come now what does it mean by Min Dooney comiendo. Nico means, lady come any
other than you and you means those who believe so do not take other than you other than the
believers as your intimate
		

			So as your close confidants as you're very close, confidential friends, okay? Meaning your butanna
should only be believers. Why? Because the believers have the same worldview as yours, and they are
most sincere to you. Right? The believer is more sincere to you, because for the believers sincerity
is part of religion, right? So in both religious matters, and in worldly matters, your batana should
only be those who believe, not those who disbelieve. So for example, if you have a personal life
coach, okay, or you're considering, you know, getting some coaching for your career, you know, in
general, you feel like you're under a lot of stress, you feel like you're not able to manage your
		

			life well. So you got to make sure that this person is actually a Muslim, not just that they are
qualified, yes, they have to be qualified, all right. But you should also make sure that they're
Muslim. Why? Because you're going to tell them about very inner private matters, maybe about how
much you earn, and maybe about how your relationship is with your spouse, and how you think about
your children, et cetera. Any you need a Muslim life coach, okay. Why? Because a Muslim will not
just advise you that okay, this is how you can manage your time. And this is how you can reduce
stress, they will actually help you think not just about the dunya they will help you think about
		

			the agora, they will give you a bigger goal to work towards. And they will help you incorporate DHA
in your life they could in your life, they will help you use the tools that Allah subhanaw taala has
given us already. Right? So your butanna should only be believers. Likewise, if a person is going to
marry someone, then that someone should be a Muslim. Right should be a believer. Yes, permission has
been granted for men to marry women from the people of the book. But the same permission has not
been given to Muslim women, the permission is only for the men, okay, because the man has the colon,
any a lot of times it happens that men are not as emotionally attached to their wives as wives are
		

			to their husbands. Alright, so your butanna should only be those who believe likewise, if you're
going for therapy, right? Even for that, make sure that you get a Muslim therapist because they're
going to help you think properly about Allah subhanaw taala they're going to help you think properly
about your parents about yourself even so your butanna should be Muslims should be believers. So in
both worldly and religious matters later the video built on a 10 Min Dooney calm layer Luna calm
Kabbalah. Why is it that you should only take believers as bepanah Allah subhanaw taala explains the
reason. The reason is liat Luna Kabbalah first is that LA Natya Luna come they will abstain Ilhabela
		

			en la luna come they will not abstain in regard to you from Kabbalah. Cabal is ruin. Now let's look
at the word liar Luna calm Yeah, Luna is from Hamza lamb well, okay and L is to neglect in doing
something to fail, okay. So Laya Luna co means they will not fail they will not fall short. They
will not spare okay comb any in regard to you Kabbalah any ruin, meaning they will not spare any
effort in causing you ruin. They will not fall short in causing you some kind of ruin. They will not
fail in causing you ruin. Now what is Kabbalah? huvelle is from ha Balamb and Hubble is corruption
okay ruin basically Lebel is the facade it is the corruption of body okay. And off reason of Arkell
		

			of one's opinion RAII thinking and also one's action. Any think about it How bad is when the body is
ruined when a person's mind their thinking, their beliefs are ruined, and now their actions are even
ruined. And hobble is any slow deterioration. Okay, slow deterioration. So for example, it is said
Hubbell, who's new Arklow any Hosen grief has ruined him. Does it ruin a person in one day
		

			You know, it slowly gradually ruins a person destroys them. So, this is what's going to happen. It
begins with friendship, it begins with sharing one issue seeking advice regarding one matter, and
they will sow a seed of doubt may be inadvertently, okay? And what's going to happen the more you
spend time with them, the more you bring them closer and closer to you. You're going to become
doubtful of your religion, you're going to become slow in your religion, you're going to end up
losing your religion, Leia Luna calm Kabbalah. So, you will suffer if you make them your batana and
batana is also any you share your secrets with them, right? That means that you are trusting them,
		

			you're trusting them. So Leia Luna Kabbalah means you will suffer if you trust them.
		

			He, if you tell them about your inner secrets, they're going to use that against you. And they will
exert every effort to cause you distress, to cause you some kind of difficulty, some kind of
embarrassment, some kind of confusion. The thing is that your close friends do influence you. So if
you make your butanna Those who disbelieve then you will go astray as they are. And you know the
state of a person by seeing who they're surrounded by who they're hanging out with. And Allah
subhanaw taala told us and suited hood I have 113 that will add or cannot eat Alladhina Allah Allah
mu, Fatah, Masako? No, do not incline toward those who do wrong in those who commit Shik lest you be
		

			touched by the fire. Because when you inclined to them, and you become very close to them, then
you're going to think like them, you're going to talk like them, you're going to behave like them,
you're going to do like them, you're going to live like them. And you're going to be living a life
of disobedience to Allah, La luna come Kabbalah, you know, or model de la Horne who, when he was the
Khalifa, he was very particular about who he would seek advice from, he would call in different
groups of companions. All right, he would call in the Maha jurien. He would call the unsought, he
would call the people of knowledge among them in the elders among them, but he would consult the
		

			Companions before he made any major decisions. He wouldn't just go and ask anyone. And even though
at his time, a lot of you know, conquests had been done, there were a lot of non Muslims now who he
was in contact with. And these non Muslims had been in his specially if you think about it, the
Romans, any they were people who had power for many, many years. But one of the Alomar I know did
not consult them, he would consult those who believe Allah Subhana Allah says in surah Al monta Hana
verse number one, that yeah, a human Latina M and o letter Dahiru are the we were the work on
earlier, or you have believed do not take my enemy and your enemy as close friends? A they're not
		

			just an enemy to Allah, they're also actually an enemy to you. How do you know that they're an enemy
to you? Because Allah subhanaw taala explains in the next Daya sudomotor Hana verse to that in yeska
for Camilla como la Camarda. If they gain dominance over you, they would be to you as enemies way up
sootel la como idea home and they would extend against you their hands were elsina, to whom and also
their tongues Bisou with evil. And if they get a chance, they would actually physically harm you,
and they would verbally abuse you also, they would say disparaging things about you. Well, what do
Latok for own and they wish that you would disbelieve? Now, of course, all those who disbelieve are
		

			not like that. Right. There are those who disbelieve who are neutral, or who are honest with you,
who appear to be sincere to you who do not hate your religion who do not oppose you in regard to
religion. But even the them do not make them your Bacana. Yes, you can be on good terms with them.
Absolutely. But they should not be your inner inner circle. And he, maybe you're friends with them
at work. Maybe you're friends with them at school, but then keep it there. It shouldn't be that now
they're always coming over and you're always going over, or that you are hanging out together for
hours and hours, or you're going on a trip with them and that you are, you know, spending days and
		

			days with them. Why? Because what's going to happen? You're going to feel odd about the fact that
you're eating halal. You're going to feel weird about the fact that you're dressed differently.
You're going to feel weird about the fact that now you're getting up to pray again.
		

			Your relationship with Allah is going to get affected because they don't have a good relationship
with Allah so when they don't have relationship with Allah, then you hang out with them what's going
to happen your relationship with Allah is gonna get affected. So yes you can be on good terms with
them but do not make them your butanna and then Allah subhanaw taala says what do Mara need another
reason why you should not take them as your close friends is because they wish that you should
suffer they want that you should be distressed now what do this is from while dal dal and wood is
more than just hope it's a more stronger form of love. So they love they desire they really wish
		

			that you should I need them. Now our net dome is from I noontime Okay, and Alana it is distress.
Okay, Allah's pantherella says Valley calaman Hershey, Alana tam income the allowances for the one
who fears Alana among your Annette meaning Masha, severe difficulty, his severe difficulty about the
Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa salam, Allah Subhana Allah says in surah Toba Iowan 28 that disease and
Our Lady Marinette dome that you're suffering is very hard on him. He doesn't want you to suffer.
Okay? So what do I need them, they want the opposite for you, they want that you should suffer. Look
at how Allah subhanaw taala cautions us that first of all, they're not of you. They're mean Dooney
		

			come. Secondly, they will not spare any effort to cause you ruin in your deen and duniya. And then
third, they love to see you suffer. They want hardship for you. They want suffering for you. They
want difficulty for you, in your body, in your mind, in your wealth in your health. They don't want
good for you, because they're enemies to you. And especially think about the time when these verses
were revealed. And he the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and the Sahaba he they had many
enemies among disbelievers and the disbelievers did not want good for them, they wanted that they
should suffer. And then it was pantherella says God better tilba hooba omen of where he him woman to
		

			feel so the room Akbar for the in fact better till Ba ba ba da has become a parent. Now ba ba is
from Bell high and laude and it is not just bolt. It's not just hatred, it is extreme hatred,
intense hatred. Okay. So it has revealed it has become clear, bad and well, but that mean of why he
came from their mouths of where is the plural of from okay or far for any mouth. So from their
mouths, intense hatred has already appeared. How through their words, any the kinds of things that
they have said about you in the past, or the kinds of things that they say about you right now.
These words show very clearly that they don't like you. They hate you. Okay, in truth Mohammed II
		

			authority, Allah subhanaw taala says regarding the hypocrites that what authority for no fee like
Nicole, you will surely know them by the tone of their speech. Any, someone could come and say to
you, very openly, overtly, they express their animosity towards you. Right, they make it very
obvious. And then there are those who don't overtly show their animosity, it just slips out. They
don't intend to show their hatred, their animosity, but it comes out accidentally. Okay, how in the
form of slips of the tongue. Or when a person really has hatred in their heart for another than no
matter how much they try to hide it, what will happen, that hatred will become visible. The reality
		

			of a person the true traits of a person come to light, even if a person tries hard to conceal them,
even if a person tries really hard to pretend so but bear that in both dark omen of where he him,
hatred has already appeared from their mouths. Woman toffee Sadhguru Akbar and what their chests
conceal is even greater Subhanallah so it as if we are being told that Don't you get it and that are
kiloohm any? Are you going to be so naive? That when someone has said such harsh wrong words, about
you, about your Prophet about your religion, how could you ever think that they're your friend? And
how could you make them so close to you? What do such words demonstrate these words demonstrate that
		

			they're not your friend?
		

			once and you think about it, if there are people on the regular insulting the Prophet sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam attacking Islam in so many different ways attacking the different Shara of Islam,
the different symbols of Islam hijab or Halal any you see people getting paranoid over the fact that
someone's wearing hijab or over the fact that someone is eating halal food he What does that show
that they're not your friends they don't like you but but it will build up I mean FYI him and it
shows that women don't feel so the room Akbar that what their chests conceal is even greater to fees
from how far yeah if that is to conceal and salute is the Florida of southern so what their chests
		

			conceal is even greater. And below is what you have heard what you know, what they conceal is not
known to you. And it's actually much worse than what they have shown. But Allah subhanaw taala knows
what they conceal in their chests, because Allah knows where to fish so don't write the yarn and
Maha inital ru Numato FISU and you don't know what is concealed in their chests of extreme hatred
and jealousy and evil intent and the intention to deceive you and to destroy you to ruin you any you
don't know what evil is concealed in their chests. But Allah subhanaw taala knows. Now the question
is, why do they not reveal it? Why do they not fully reveal it? Because they're afraid. Now, who
		

			exactly are these verses talking about? There's a number of different opinions somewhere in MSA that
these verses are talking about the kuffaar Right, all those who disbelieve because men don't Nico
means those other than you believers meaning goes a disbelief. Okay. But then, when you read this
description, that Wilma Duffy saludo, aqua, if you think about it, the kuffar like the co founder of
maca, they expressed their hatred, their animosity to the Muslims very openly, they did not hide any
of their feelings, right? Their cover was la hid. They made it known by waging war against the
Muslims, they insulted the Muslims openly. They even insulted the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam
		

			they would come and attack the Muslims, they would come and capture them and they would kill them.
So then who are these verses about? So they're Aloma say that these verses are about the hypocrites
then whenever Kuhn because they're the ones who concealed their hatred for the Muslims, right? And
it was in tongue slips that their animosity towards the Muslims towards the Prophet sallallahu Urdu
center would become apparent. And then there are them. I also say that this is actually about them
in Africa among the yahood any, those Jews who outwardly accepted Islam only outwardly in their
hearts, they weren't Muslim. Okay? So they would come to the Muslims with one face, and they would
		

			show another face to others. So Allah subhanaw taala cautions the believers against such hypocrites
that beware of these people. I know what their chests hide, and I know what they do, and you don't
know because they don't reveal everything to you, but whatever they keep in their hearts, Allah
subhanaw taala knows that whatever they express in their gatherings, whatever they share with one
another Allah subhanaw taala knows that in certain African Iowan Allah subhanaw taala says regarding
the hypocrites that either jackal Munna Hakuna Paolo Nash hadoo in Nicola Rasulillah. When the
hypocrites come to you they say we testify that You are the messenger of Allah. Allah says Allah Who
		

			Yarlung who in Nicola Rasool, Allah knows that you are His messenger. Will Allah who your shadow in
Munna, Filipina Allah Kathy Boone, and Allah bears witness that indeed the hypocrites are liars,
they're liars, when they say that they believe, because what they say to you is different from what
they keep in their hearts in their hearts. They're cursing you. They're making fun of you. They're
ridiculing you, they're denying you. On the surface, they show that they believe in you. Allah knows
what their chests conceal. So Allah testifies that they are liars. Allah subhanaw taala says a yen
Naloxone will aid in quantum Turkey alone. We have certainly made clear to you the signs with signs,
		

			the signs that these people are your enemy, any the signs of your enemy, have been made clear to
you. So recognize the enemy by the signs of the enemy. Don't wait for the enemy to come and say to
you, oh, by the way, I'm your enemy, because not every enemy is going to do that. So be smart. Don't
be deceived by such people. Don't be so naive that you trust them. No, beware of them. Be careful
for the beginner locomole ayat in quantum Turkey don't if you will use reason. Any if you use reason
		

			Then listen to what is being said listen to the Command of Allah obey what Allah subhanaw taala is
telling you to do and in contempt Archelon if you use intellect, this is a way of encouraging
someone to do something. Right? If people say things like if you love me then do this. Alright, so
in contempt our pinion if you're truly someone of reason, then use reason. And he Do you understand?
Do you reason do you get it that these people are not your friends? Are you able to see the
difference between friend and foe? So at the begin Melaku will add in contempt or cologne, beware.
So basically, what's the message over here the message is that do not trust the hypocrites with your
		

			private news. Okay, any you don't have to share everything about you with them. And you have to be
careful with them. Just as you would not trust the enemy with your plans, right with your intentions
with what you intend to do. Likewise, do not share this information with the hypocrites either be
careful. And this teaches us that there are people around us who any of course we are not wants to
judge that someone is a hypocrite or not. We don't decide that if someone says they're Muslim, we
accept that we treat someone as Muslim if they say that they're Muslim, okay. But when you see that
there have been several episodes where you have suffered at their hands. Okay, where they don't seem
		

			to have your best interest in mind where they have said things which are extremely hurtful, okay,
then you do not be naive. Then you have to be careful. But to begin now locomole is in quantum
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