Taimiyyah Zubair – Taleem al Quran 2012 – P05 058C Tafsir Al-Nisa 37-42
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The importance of sharing knowledge and experiences to avoid wasting money and giving things without them is emphasized. The concept of branding advantage is discussed, along with the difficulties of studying and the potential cost of giving things without them. The importance of small deeds and small deeds in people's lives is emphasized, along with the need to avoid missing the Day of Judgment and avoid embarrassment and humiliation. The speakers emphasize the importance of avoiding missing the Day of Judgment and avoiding small deeds.
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Hello, I'm Dr. Alfonso Alladhina, yerba Halina, those who do boggle who are stingy from Bellcore? Lamb
seam of alpha who arrogant is who? The one who shows off his Who's the one who is stingy, who doesn't give to the others who doesn't share, cannot even afford to give a smile, cannot even afford to glance at someone. mean really? Are we that poor that we cannot even look at another person? Are we that poor that we cannot even stretch our muscles and just give a smile? We can talk for hours. But why is it difficult to smile at another person
Alladhina Yamaha Luna, Booker is basically to withhold what is necessary to give something that you have to give but when you withhold it, what is that bullet. And bone is not just with regards to money, that for example, the person should give money, but he does not give money. For example, he has to give us a cap he doesn't give us a cat. So that's bull, no bull is being stingy in the matters of wealth.
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Well, first of all, that a person must give some money somewhere, but he does not give it. Secondly, or ill he has knowledge, he must give that knowledge you must impart that knowledge must share that knowledge with someone, but he does not do so, Jah the honor the status that a person has with that status, he can do Ersan on others, he can help them and he must, he should, but he does not. You know, for example, Jeff, for example, a person has a certain position in a company. All right, and they know that somebody is looking for work. And they know that this person is qualified, they are capable of doing the work. So they say Okay, give me a resume. Let me give it to my boss, hopefully,
you'll hear back something good from them. So he can help him get a job. There's nothing illegal going on over here, no bribery, nothing like that. It's just about passing on the resume. Because it'll be faster, it will be quicker, it may be more effective. So a person can do that. But he says no, I'm not going to. I'm not going to this is what
and then fourthly, I'm a an action that should be done, but a person does not do it. So the examples of Buckler word, such as concealing knowledge,
hiding a part of the book, like the bunny is right yielded, not requesting for someone when one can not giving the cat not helping another one, he is dying when he's burning when he is sick when he's drowning. You can help him or her. This is all kinds of bull. Likewise, you know when the name of the Prophet sallallahu wasallam is mentioned and what is necessary that we do some armor. What is that armor that we say sallallahu alayhi wasallam. And a person who does not say that who is the heart of the prophets of Allah doesn't describe him as a bogey. Someone who is stingy, who is miserly. He is so stingy, he cannot even say sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, how long does it take? How
hard is it? Not that hard? Not too long. But still, if a person doesn't do it, this is bull.
So Alladhina, Yamaha, Luna. And remember that one kind of bottle is regards the duties that are obligated on us. So for example, Allah has told us to give the cat if a person does not give us the cat, what is that?
It's obligating us to do this, if we don't, that's bull. Likewise, if there is a guest who is living in your house for the first three days and nights, you're supposed to entertain them? Well, this is what something that the shittier has imposed on us. So if a person does not treat the guest Well, for the first three days and nights and what is that? Well,
but remember that Booker is also with regards to matters that are maruf, meaning matters that are expected from a person, it's understood that they should do it, for example, paying the fees?
If a person is enrolled in a course, they're studying, they're using the resources, then what is their obligation? They have to pay the fees. But if they don't pay the fees, isn't that
because what's the definition of withholding what is necessary to give? Likewise, not buying course books? If you don't buy a course book, if you don't have the course book, then how can you study in class? How can you be an effective learner? How can you sit for the exam? How can you study well? Buckle is what? Withhold what is necessary to give you have to buy those books if you don't get them. If you don't have them, then how can you study effectively, likewise, smiling at someone? Because I mean, they're your neighbor. They are sitting next to you, they're another Muslim. So what's necessary that you smile at them use SLM to them, right? Likewise sadaqa it's not mandatory,
but it's expected that a person should give and people are raising money for a noble cause. You have the money what
Should you do give something at least there is a person who is asking you for help, you can help what is necessary that you help them if you don't, that's beautiful. Likewise, you have so much colored paper your brother asks you for one colored paper, and I know mine. This is something that children do, right? But we become very ill even when it comes to paper and pens and markers and pencils, isn't it don't we?
That's beautiful. You can't say that. Oh, it's never it's nowhere as I mentioned the Quran and Sunnah that I have to give color paper to my brother. Okay, but isn't this model isn't something that's expected that you should do? How difficult is it? How hard is it? How much is it gonna cost you? You understand? So bookfull is worse in both cases, whether it's with regards to matters are obligated or matters are expected of an individual. Olivia Baca Luna such people Allah does not like them, because they don't do your sun were maroon and NASA will Bulkeley Moreover, they also command people to do boho they do boho themselves and they tell others to do boho why. Why does it tell
others not to don't pay your fees? It's okay. Not a big deal. Who's gonna find out? I never bought the book. Why should you? Why did they do that they don't look bad, so that they have more people who are rebelling
so Alladhina ever calluna Morona NASA Bill Buckley, way back to Munna and moreover, they hide from Katana, they conceal Maatta Humala, him and fugly that which Allah has given them out of His Bounty. The things that Allah has given them, what do they do? They hide them? Behind them, why do they hide them? Why? Because they don't want other people to find out that they have them. Because other people find out they're going to ask for it.
They're gonna expect you to give.
Allah tells us to do your sun and Air sign means you do good without expecting anything in return. You expect from WHO? Allah azza wa jal. So they hide what Allah has given them out of His Bounty. And hiding Hitman is of two types. One is through fair
that, for example, Allah has given them well knowledgeability opportunity to do something good the time to do something good. But what do they do? They don't use the blessing properly. So the effect of the blessing is not visible on them. A person has money, they have money, but they dress like an extremely poor person. They have money, but the drive a car that's broken, that's rusted, that barely drives properly. All right. And if you think about it, bull leads to this, that a person keeps all of their money were in their bank account.
And they show to others. I'm so poor, I have nothing. Why? So that people don't expect anything from them. If there's any gathering, if there's any party, if there's any gift giving occasion, people don't expect anything for them. They say oh, you know, poor guy, look at his car. I mean, look at the kind of clothes he wears. Some people do this deliberately.
They demonstrate poverty when they're not actually poor. And second kind of kid man is through coal that a person has a lot, but he says he has nothing.
Like for example, you have shoes, good shoes. And you said your mom, I have no shoes.
I have no shoes.
Because there's poverty in the heart, right? You think that three pairs of shoes are not sufficient. You need five you need 10 You need 12 Because you heard from someone that so and so has 12 pairs of shoes, so you want more. So caveman coli. So both of these things are prohibited. Because when Allah has given a blessing to a person, that Allah loves to see the effect of their blessing on him. And if a person does not use that blessing hides it, whether it's knowledge, okay? Or well, then this is something that's not right. So for example, when Allah has given you knowledge of the Quran, and if you feel that there's someone who needs to know, then what's your obligation that you tell them?
Likewise, if you have that knowledge in the heart, but it's not coming out in the actions, then this is actually concealing the blessing of Allah. You know what total Fatiha means you know what triple Bacara means, but when you're standing in prayer, it's as though you have no idea about what you're doing. Because you're constantly fidgeting or you you're rushing through your Salah. I mean, if there's knowledge but no action that is also hiding what Allah has given to a person.
Well Lavina you and Fiona and those people who spend what do they spend and why Allah whom their wealth?
Aren't the stingy first of all, Allah said they're stingy. Now Allah says those who they spend because sometimes they do spend but how do they spend in what way the air and to show off to people from raw Hamza? Yeah, you see, so the app to make a show, to be seen
To the other see, to do some things with the eyes of other people can see that action, that deed. So they spend, why to show off. First of all they don't spend when they do spend they spend to show off. First of all, they don't pray when they pray, they pray to show off. First of all, they don't recite Quran but when they recite their recite to show off first of all, they don't read their oath card but when they read, they read to show off to see what I mean. So boho McDowell for whoever read, all of these things are connected. Whether you mean on a Billahi when I believe will hit and they do not believe in Allah nor in the last day, because such a person actually lacks faith who the
one who shows off because the one who shows off is expecting reward from who from people. If he wanted reward from Allah, if He wanted reward on the Day of Judgment, then would he show off? No, he wouldn't show off. Showing off means the faith is lacking. Allah says Romania Kony shaytaan hula hoop Karina, whoever person chiffon becomes his Corinne Shavon becomes his close companion for Sir Karina then what an evil chlorine he is bardenas from the root letters call for unknown and call them is to join. Chlorine is such a friend who was constantly with a person.
You know, they're attached to him through Facebook and through Twitter and through text messages and through email and through the cell phone. And through the work and through the studies and through whatever they're doing. They're constantly attached to their friend this is Oh, Corinne.
All right. So shaitan if he becomes a Korean to a person, what does that mean that chiffon is constantly with him, doesn't leave him.
Then what an evil friend Shavon is why, because she upon will whisper evil and the person will listen Shavon will corrupt the intention and the person will accept that corruption Shavon will suggest something wrong and he will accept it. So what an evil friendship on can be. So in other words, such people who are stingy, who are arrogant, who show off who hide what Allah has given them, what does it mean that Shavon is their friend?
She THON is their friend. So if you feel in your heart, that your intention is not sincere, that you don't do what you're supposed to do, you don't give what you should give. Then there's a bigger problem that you're actually facing. So seek refuge with Allah from Shetland. You know, in the Quran, we learn whoever turns away from the remembrance of Allah than Shavon becomes his companion to the problem is shaytaan is able to overcome you because you have turned away from Allah's remembrance. Check your Earth God morning and evening, check your recitation of the Quran, check your Salah, what's missing, the children has overpowered you. Allah says well, Mother I lay him and
what is with them? Muda or lay him and what harm would come upon them? Mao what there is that? Or lay him upon them, low em and obey Allah he will you will ask him if they had believed in Allah and the Last Day. Meaning if such people had believed in Allah, if they believed in the last day, what would they have suffered? Anyway? Notice that hasn't been said that what would they have suffered? If they did Ersan towards the parents, towards the relatives towards the neighbors and the friends know what has been said? What would they have suffered if they believed in Allah and the Last, because if a person believes in Allah and the Last year, then he will definitely do your son.
So when mother or lay him low M and obey Allah, He will Yeoman him will unfuckable and if they had spent Mimoza, Kamala out of that which Allah has provided them, meaning those who think too highly of themselves will show off who are stingy, and who spend only to be seen, who lack faith, Allah says about them reproaching them that what would they have suffered? If they had done things the right way? Meaning they would have suffered nothing. When you do assign to someone? Do you really have to spend too much money? Smiling at someone? How expensive is that? Tell me, how expensive is it to stretch your muscles and produce a smile on your face? How much do you have to pay? How much
energy are you consuming of your body? How much? Hardly anything.
You know, a smile, it's free. It's not difficult to do that. You don't have to pay anything. So what's the big deal? In other words, why are this stingy? What's stopping them from your son? What would they have suffered? Because sometimes we don't do our son because we feel we're going to become small. We're going to become low compared to the other then we will lose our all you know people will not be impressed with us anymore. You know, right now they fear us then they won't fear us anymore.
Right now I am dominant because my brother asked me for paper and I said, No. If I give him the next time, he will ask me again, I will not have the superiority over him anymore.
In other words, they feel they will lose a lot if they give in the way of Allah. But the fact is that when you give, you don't lose, what do we learn? How does Bootsy or son of Adam spend, so that you can be spent on give so that you can be given when you give Allah who will give you sadaqa does not reduce wealth. When you smile at someone, you get a smile in return, isn't it so when you help someone in need, tomorrow, Allah will help you when you are in need, Allah will send help to you. So the fact is, one person is the one who gives is generous in his giving in his actions. And Allah subhanaw taala enriches him makes them richer. The other is a person who believes he's poor, he has
less. So He's greedy, he doesn't share. He doesn't give anything. So what happens his poverty consumes him.
His poverty consumes him, he's never happy. Never at all. He's poor at heart. He's suffering from discontent. So these are two kinds of attitudes. And we have to check what we are like that, you know, when children is overbearing you what's what's one thing after the other, then all you have to sometimes just say, No, I'm not going to listen, I'm not going to do this.
You know, for example, there's someone, you know them from work, you see them in a gathering, and you want to go greet them. But chiffon says no, no, don't
let them come to you. You know, your senior, they should come to you. You're older, you're more pious, you wear hijab, and she doesn't wear hijab, she should come to you, why should you go to her? But at that time, all you have to say is no, I am going to go.
How much effort does it take to be good to someone? It doesn't take much of an effort. If someone's stressed out, giving them a hug. How difficult is that? If someone's quiet, having a conversation with them, how difficult is it? How much do you have to suffer? You don't have to suffer much at all. She said that her work deserves a lot of stress these days because of the work that they're doing. So she wrote on her desk smile. It's a charity. So everyone who passes by, they end up smiling and the word goes around and everybody relaxes. How difficult is that to write something good and post it up? How difficult is it? How long will it take you? How much will your hand have to
suffer? Or how much will your printer have to suffer because you're printing those sheets out? How much not much at all. So those people who are stingy. Allah rebukes them over here that look at you.
Are you that stingy? Are you that small hearted? You can't even spare a little bit you can't even give a little bit what can Allah will be here I NEMA and the fact is that Allah is Knowing them, Allah knows them, whatever they're doing whatever is in their art. And the thing is that anything done for Allah is never wasted. Even if you print one sheet out on your printer, you are rewarded for it. Even if you stretch your smile your lips a little bit pass a smile to someone even that is an effort that Allah will appreciate because in hola hola yo limo myth Allah. Because indeed, Allah does not do injustice. Even Miss Paula de la what is mythical, it is from third of Lambeth all is
the weight weight of something. So the weight of the atom even how big is an atom?
Rather, the question should be how small is an atom, you can't see it with the naked eye. That's enough as a description of how small an atom is. It's unnoticeable. The word Allah in the Arabic language is also used for dust specks that you find floating in the air in a beam of light. You won't see them otherwise you won't notice them at all. But only when there is a beam of light then you will see those dust specks floating in the air. That is what the law is. Some side the law are like small ants or the head of a tiny ant. A part of an ant. In other words, how small is that? So small, you don't even notice it. But Allah does not do injustice even that amount. Meaning if you've
done something good, and it's that noticeable that small people disregard it. Allah is not unfair. He will reward you He will appreciate you for it. In the Lucha lay of limbo with Carla, Dara, we're INTERCO Hassan, and if it'd be a good deed what that Zara if it's a good deed, then you bar if her he will multiply it both are in for he will multiply it many, many times. Meaning in reward he will give you much more than what you did. You gave a smile and it's written as sadaqa as charity. You give a hug to someone
and relieve them of their stress. And Allah who will reward you more than what you did to that person you'd like to refer he will multiply the reward when you Timmy lagoon who and he will give from himself or Jonah or Lima, a great reward, a great reward. So the fact is, that for a person who is seeking Allah's pleasure, for him, every little good deed is worth it. Every little good deed is valuable, because he knows that even if people don't see, even if they don't acknowledge, who will acknowledge Allah who will, who will see it, Allah will who will reward for it, Allah will. So then it's not hard to put the shoes on the shoe rack instead of the floor, then it's not hard to put
their dirty plate in the dishwasher, instead of the sink. You understand? Then it's not hard to do little little good deeds, it becomes easy it becomes second nature, because a person is expecting a reward from Allah. Then it doesn't make them hard for a person to pick a tissue paper that someone left behind on the floor and throw it in the garbage. It's not hard then to pick lint off of the mustard carpet. You know, there's some people who will literally go about picking up lint that from people's socks and their bags and their clothes from the mustard carpet. Because the mustard should not look dirty.
Apparently it's something very small, isn't it? Something very small. But who has seen it? Allah will and Allah is not unjust at all. He gives a great reward. Let's listen to the recitation
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So someone who is generous, he tries to earn good deeds in different ways. How by benefiting everyone, even if it means benefiting them in the smallest way possible. But helping people you know, you're standing out at the grocery store and you see someone's going through their purse looking for a quarter and they cannot find it and you hear their conversation they don't have a quarter they cannot find it. They're not poor I'm sure they can afford one. They just don't have that right now. And there you are standing with your card and you will go push it in and you will press it and you will take your quarter put it in your bag and walk away what should you do at that
time? What is their son?
What is their son? You have so much money 100 Allah Allah has given you and even if you don't have much
giving your quarter to them or giving your car to them because you're done is also a sadhaka you help someone and Allah will help you
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because a quarter what is its value? You know sometimes children eat it
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yeah that when you're doing something good to someone helping someone you're earning Jenna dollars, right? You're getting Jana points. So little good deeds matter a lot as well. So we should not belittle them.
Sometimes you don't need something or you don't have the wish for the desire for for example, you have the food but you're not hungry. So at that time, what should you do waste it and throw it don't give it to someone who might want it. So every little good deed matters. In a removing a rock from the way now that it's summer you're walking outside. You see your branch on the walkway, you see a rock what should you do? Move it aside, put it aside, nobody will see it. It's the wrong but who knows. Allah knows and on that day, little little good
deeds will matter when the deeds will be weighed. And some people will need just a few more to get agenda, just a few more, but they won't have them. So, every little good deed matters today, it seems small, but on that day, it matters a lot in the sight of Allah, it's really very meaningful.
Sometimes it's something as small as wiping the counter dry after using it, putting the Slippers of the washroom where you found them or in the proper place so that the next person who comes to the washroom will actually be able to use them.
Right? So this is not a small, small deets, every little good deed matters. And a person who neglects such deeds ignores them. And what happens he ends up ignoring greater deeds as well.
Isn't a tool when you don't notice little things than a point comes when you don't even notice big things? Correct. Now, give me an example. When you don't notice little things, you don't even notice big problems. That for example, if your kitchen counter is not stone, all right, and there's water always over there and you don't wipe it. You don't wipe it clean. You don't see the water over there, you ignore that, then sometimes what happens? This is actually fungus growing over there. There is you know, icky stuff over there. But you don't even notice that.
Sometimes people don't see how if their window has been made wet. They don't dry it up. And then what happens it grows fungus and never even notice that fungus
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So then a person who is stingy who ignores little leads he ends up ignoring bigger deeds, this is what happens and for such people, Allah says for K for either now, then how will it be when we will come? Meaning we will bring min Cooley Oh Martin from every nation, we Shahidan a witness on the Day of Judgment. What predicament will such stingy, Miserly people will be in when witnesses will be brought from every nation who is this witness? This witness refers to their messenger, this messenger will be brought to testify against the people that yes, the message was conveyed. Did the Prophet salallahu Salam not teach us? Did he not instruct us about South Africa about the benefits
of South Dakota rewards of South Africa that it does not reduce wealth, that even smiling as a charity that even removing a harmful thing from the way is a charity that he now teaches that yes, he did. So if we did not take advantage of such opportunities, then whose fault is it our fault? So on the Day of Judgment, if we lack the Janna dollars, then for Kiva, how will it be either jitna min Coolio Mateen bisha, Eden, what jitna bigger and we will bring you Oh Prophet salatu salam ala hula a upon these meaning upon your nation, Shahidan as a witness, meaning then such people will have no excuse. No excuse the records are there, the messenger is justifying that he conveyed. So if someone
does not have the donor dollars that day, then whose fault is it? It is his fault. So Yo Ma e then on that day, you're What do Lavina Cafaro those people who disbelieve they will wish they will desire they will yearn. Whereas someone was Sula and they also had disobeyed the messenger from inside. Yes, Leon, those who disbelieve and those who disobeyed the messenger, what will they wish that day low to somewhere be human if the Earth would be leveled with them too. So we're from seeing where we are the sweetest level to smoothen to make plain. So they will wish that somehow the earth is leveled on them. Because they'll be so embarrassed. They will be so humiliated that they were
stingy with regards to Linlin things.
They were stingy with regards to little little things. They were too arrogant to smile, too stingy to give one posted. Yeah, too stingy to give one pen to share one chip to give one sip of juice really that stingy. So when that stinginess will be brought forth, then embarrassment and humiliation will cover such people love to so webbing will up while I act Moon Allah Hadith, and they will not be able to hide from Allah Hadees any speech meaning nothing at all, they will be able to add Hadees Harada means speech. So this ayah tells us that those who disbelieve and those who disobey the messenger will be utterly humiliated and embarrassed on the Day of Judgment,
disobedience the messenger is not something small. If the messenger SallAllahu sallam said he told us to do something and we don't do it, this will actually lead to great humiliation.
Let me give you an example. Performing the Sunnah prayers, performing the Sunnah, prayers to sunnah before the fajr right? Do so now after
Mahara. These are what Sunnah prayers right? And if a person does not pray them despite the fact that the prophets all Salam prayed them always always he performed them even when he was traveling he performed the Sunnah record offered
if we don't do that this is what disobedience to the messenger right? This will actually cause humiliation on the Day of Judgment embarrassment on the Day of Judgment. Tell me how long does it take to reduce the card qualia you will go through the first chakra kulula had in the second occur How long does it take you for many of you probably takes two minutes or three minutes maximum five minutes maximum.
How hard is that? How hard is that? Is that physically exhausting to the car? Are they physically exhausting? They're not physically exhausting. So what is stopping us then? It's our own stingy pneus today it stinginess tomorrow it will be creating embarrassment and humiliation recitation is okay for either
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Who's telling you that you don't want to do it at that time it says on it may be hard upon you to do it. But you can get up and do it still. You can have a rush of energy and still do it. Even when you're tired. There's some things that you have to do.
Right? For example, your homework for school, you have to do it. You can't get out of it. You're at work, you're exhausted. You want to go sleep but it's work you have to do it otherwise you're not going to get your paycheck. Don't you make yourself do it. You make yourself do it. Why? Because you tell yourself I have to do it. So likewise, there are certain good deeds, many good deeds that we have to do for our own good. And at that time, you have to tell yourself I have to do it. I have to do it. Too bad.
Too good. In fact, not too bad, too good. I have to do it.