Taimiyyah Zubair – Taleem al-Quran 2010 – Juz 28 – L289D

Taimiyyah Zubair

At-Talaq 1-12 Tafsir 4-12

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The speakers discuss the concept of "willing" to expect more, as it is the consequence of a period of a cycle. They emphasize the importance of providing a comfortable living environment to avoid difficult situations and avoiding difficult situations. The conversation also touches on the topic of divorce and the importance of following laws and regulations. The speakers emphasize the need for everyone to follow laws and regulations and avoid bad behavior.

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			Blaming the ship on your legitimacy in
		
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			Lesson number 289 sora talak.
		
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			Willa iya is nominal. multilumen Nyssa eco. And those women who no longer expect menstruation among
your women,
		
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			Allah IE those women who Yeah, isn't it? Yeah, it's there from newsletters. Yeah Hamza saying yes,
to give up or to have no more hope. So they have given a pope of what men and Mahela have monthly
period, meaning they no longer expect to menstruate.
		
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			And why is that so? Because of menopause. Because of menopause. It's not necessary because of age,
remember, because sometimes, women who are young, even their ovaries go into early menopause, it
happens. So they're yummy. They're perhaps in the 30s, but they don't have their period anymore.
Similarly, a woman could be in her late 40s, and she's still menstruating. So it's not necessarily
with age. So Allah Islam and Rahim, those women who no longer expect the monthly period magnesite
come from your women, which women, the believing women, are those women who have been given divorce
in if tapetum if you are in doubt, about what about the rule in such a case, about their waiting
		
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			period? That How long are they supposed to have their adult for? Because they don't menstruate
anymore. Or for example, they're going into menopause. So their, their menstrual cycle is very
irregular. You know, it happens sometimes with women, that they will have their menstruation after
several months. Okay. It's not that they don't menstruate at all, but their beard will come after
several months. So select that means you have to wait for three periods that might take three years,
it might take more than that, it may take less than that. So in this case, Allah says ferried the
tuna. So there it is, how much selesa to assure three months, which one's three lunar months, their
		
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			waiting period is how much three lunar months.
		
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			Now, this includes those women as well, whose spirit is irregular.
		
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			Because sometimes some women, their period is extremely irregular,
		
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			not because of old age. Sometimes people cannot figure out why their period is irregular, but it's
very inconsistent, irregular. Sometimes it's five days, sometimes seven days. Sometimes it doesn't
come for a month. Sometimes it doesn't come for three months. Sometimes it comes after 15 days. So
in that case, what are you going to do?
		
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			Three months in Northampton ferried Donatella to Asher?
		
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			Well, he lemmya Hebner and those women who do not menstruate who do not have a monthly period,
meaning their waiting period is also how much, three months, three lunar months.
		
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			And this will be in the case where a woman, for example, is extremely old, she hasn't had any
menstruation for years, many, many years. Or, for example, a girl is extremely young, she got
married even before her period started. It's quite possible. So in that case, how long will it be?
Three months, you're not going to wait for her to start her period, but rather, three months
		
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			will lead to a family and the pregnant women oullette Laura love Li Amal plural of hammer. So the
pregnant women are genuine, they're appointed term. And what does it mean by the Agile over here,
the conclusion of their waiting period. They're agile, meaning when is your waiting period going to
come to an end and your learner hamlen that they deliver their burdens, meaning until the end of
their pregnancy.
		
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			So when their pregnancy is over, when they have delivered the child, then there It also comes to an
end. Now this could be one hour,
		
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			this could be five days, it could be five months even. You understand.
		
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			In the case of a pregnant woman, until When is she interested?
		
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			Until she delivers. say she delivers after one hour or a day is over. If she delivers after five
days, hurry those over if she delivers after five months or it does over you understand
		
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			whenever she delivers that is when her ego will come to an end and you'll learn a hammer one
		
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			woman you have tequila and whoever fears Allah yadgir Allah whom in me he you saw, Allah will make
for him in his matter, ease. Allah will make matters easy for him in this world and also the
hereafter. This is the benefit of what
		
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			Following the commands of Allah,
		
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			what does it show? Following the commands of Allah does not make your life difficult and
complicated, rather, it makes your life easier. We think it will make your life difficult but rather
it makes your life easy.
		
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			Woman yet tequila, Hydra woman, Emily, you saw their liquor umbrella, that is the command of Allah,
what is what is mentioned over here of the prescribed waiting period, that with regards to those
women who do not menstruate anymore, or those who still haven't started menstruating are those who
are pregnant, this is their, this is the command of Allah, this is his ruling. And this ruling and
zenner who alaikum Allah has revealed it to you. And not that you just read it you recited you
memorize it, no, Allah has revealed his ruling to you Why? So you follow it? You observe it, you
implement it.
		
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			Because sometimes when it comes to the commands of a lot people just like to learn them, and discuss
them and recite them. And that's it. But why has Allah sent down these accounts, so that we follow
them? And zela who eleiko the purpose is not just mental exercise, but the purposes that we
implement them? Why am I here tequila and whoever fears Allah, you can fear and who say it. Allah
will expiate from him his sins, meaning Allah will forgive him for his mistakes. He will save him
from the evil consequences of his sins you can fit on mousai TV, where your alumna who Angela, and
Allah will magnify the reward for him, for who, for the one who has fear of Allah.
		
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			Because if you think about it, when it comes to divorce, the matter of divorce, it's so tricky, so
complicated, sometimes, that no matter how careful the person is, he ends up being rude, being
harsh, isn't it? No matter how careful the person is, he ends up doing something wrong.
		
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			But if a person is careful, he has fear of Allah, he's careful at every single step, then what's the
benefit Allah will forgive him for his say yet,
		
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			and Allah will also magnify the reward for him, he will increase the reward for him, Allah will
prevent what he fears and multiply his reward, even for the little good that he does.
		
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			Now, again, these verses are about Pollock, and the benefits of the court. They are general whether
that the hook, a person applies the metro phone app or in any other scenario, in any other situation
in life. But in particular, when it comes to family life when it comes to family issues. If a person
has fear of Allah, look at the benefits, look at the reward, ease, risk. Similarly, forgiveness,
similarly, great reward.
		
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			And again, we see that with the law, what has been mentioned repeatedly, taco taco taco, because,
yes, you're going through a difficult situation in life, but it doesn't mean you disobey Allah.
		
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			Because sometimes it happens that when a person is going through a difficulty in life, what does he
forget what Allah has commanded? And because of that, he also suffers with regards to his or her
know, if this difficulty has come in your life, remember it was decreed from before Allah allowed it
to happen. And you're being tested that in this situation, what do you do? Do you consider what
Allah has commanded? Or do you just follow your own desires? You understand this is also a huge
test.
		
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			So when a person follows the commands of Allah, then look at the benefits you can fit on who say it
when you're alumna who.
		
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			Then Allah says, S, Keanu Unum and Hazel second,
		
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			large them of where you dwell as Keanu Han Aquino from iscan St. Catherine sukhna. What does that
mean? home? So as you know, the addresses to the man that you provide residents, you lodge who
women, your wives, were men, Hazel, second, Tom, wherever you live. What does it mean?
		
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			that a man is responsible to provide accommodation for his wife? This is in general, and this is
also after the luxury divorce during her
		
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			You understand?
		
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			So as a new one I'm in Hazel Santa Where's a woman to live?
		
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			When she's married, with her husband, and where she to live doing her
		
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			again in the house of the husband and which he does is after the revocable divorce the luxury
divorce, as can only mean hi susanto mean would you decal according to your means out of your means.
		
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			Wood, this is from the newsletter as well Jean that What does what does that mean?
		
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			To find and wood is that which is present that which a person has that which is mo jute, what is
available,
		
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			some in wood or the comb, meaning according to whatever is available to you, according to your
ability, according to your financial capacity, meaning whatever you can afford, that is what you are
to offer to your wife.
		
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			So, as Keanu Hannah, min Hazel santam, me, Woody, come on, provide them a place to live in
accordance to your means. So, what does it show? If a person can afford a comfortable place to live
for his wife, then he should provide that to her? If he can afford bigger and better he should
provide that to her? And if he cannot, then what should he provide? whatever he's able to?
		
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			Because sometimes what do people do they keep their money in their bank, and they tell the wife live
simple.
		
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			And out of simplicity, she's living in a very difficult situation where she doesn't even have the
place to keep her clothes where she doesn't have the place to keep her stuff. She's struggling. It's
very difficult. It's not like he cannot afford he can afford but he says no, we should be simple.
And we have to make do with this. Whereas all the money sitting in the bank, is that fair? It's not
fair. What does Allah say? Us Keno hold'em in Hazel's economy, where do they go? What kind of
residents is the husband responsible to provide his wife with whatever he can afford, the best that
he can afford.
		
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			And this also shows to us that the status of the husband is the status of the wife. Meaning if the
husband can afford luxury, then he should provide the same to his wife. Because sometimes it happens
that a man he will buy expensive stuff for himself. He will wear nice clothes, he will wear nice
shoes, but what is the wife wearing? Whatever she got at her wedding? Is that fair? No. The status
of the husband and the status of the wife is the same after marriage. He is to provide to her
whatever he is able to afford, not that he saves all the good stuff for himself. And for her needs.
He only waits for the sales. This is not right.
		
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			So ASCII no hoonah mean Hazel second to me widget eco.
		
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			And this also shows to us that the husband and wife How are they meant to live? together?
		
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			mean Hazel's account, what does it show together in the same house in the same place? Not that the
wife is living in one place and the husband is living somewhere else.
		
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			Because when there are distances, then this creates problems as well, isn't it? If you're living
away from one another, how are you meant to understand one another? You're supposed to live
together? That's the objective of marriage.
		
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			But remember that in the case where a man has multiple wives,
		
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			then how is he going to keep them in the same space? No. Each has her private place. Remember? The
houses of the wives of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam? How are they heard you like they were not that
huge. They were not that luxurious, but each had her private place. And they were not connected from
inside. isn't until all of them had their separate doors. Which shows that yes, the man is to
provide accommodation to the wife But how should it be? According to his means, and it should be
hers exclusively? So asking you wanna men hate Osaka gentlemen, would you come? well as to the
ruhuna and do not harm them little by Yoko la hiner so that you make it difficult upon them led to
		
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			La ruhuna from the rotators but raw, meaning don't harass them in the matter of residents don't make
their life difficult in the matter of residents. How would a person do that?
		
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			by restricting by tightening the muskan the house and then Africa upon the wife while he can afford
other ways.
		
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			So for example, he is able to provide her good house but he says no we are only going to live in
this one bedroom apartment. Although we can afford a bigger one but we are only going to live here.
This is not fair landlord ruhuna little by Ukrainian and little by yuku from newsletters badea
Coffee leak.
		
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			What does that mean? narrowness tightness, and Leah Carla is to harass someone deal harshly with
them.
		
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			So when you can afford to provide better than provide better, don't make things difficult upon them
in order to harass them, just to harm them for no reason. Because sometimes men do this Why? So that
the woman will leave, she will ask for divorce and when she will ask for divorce, then that means
she has to give back the money that he had given. And if he gets divorced, then he has to give motor
as well.
		
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			So what do men do? Sometimes? They are unjust to the wife. So Allah says, led to the ruhuna Little
De Ukranian.
		
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			And many times, we see that the problems between husband and wife, what do they begin from these
issues? The husband can afford but he doesn't treat the wife well. He can afford a better place. But
he does not provide that to her. He can provide her with the things that she needs. But he doesn't
anyway, just being tight * just saving the money. But what good is your money going to bring to
you if it's just sitting in the bank and you're not spending it on your family? Is that going to
bring you happiness? No, it's only going to lead to many problems.
		
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			We see that sometimes the husband and wife they have no problems with one another. The only issue is
money. It's one of the biggest issues.
		
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			So when you can create ease for each other, then why don't you do so led to the ruhuna? who
		
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			were in control? And if they were meaning the women are not the Hamlet. They are the possessors of
Hamlet, what does that mean? They are pregnant.
		
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			So if the woman is pregnant, for unfaithful Elena, then spend on them, how dare you learn the home
loan until they deliver their burden meaning until they deliver the chap.
		
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			In the previous ayat, we learned about the over here we specifically learn about what who is going
to spend on the woman while she is inheritor.
		
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			Generally, the husband will until the end of data in the case of a pregnant woman who will spend on
her in her. Again, the husband will until when until she delivers the child. So this expenditure
includes the house where she needs to live, her clothing, her food, delivery charges, all of that,
who's gonna take care of it, the husband will have to learn hamlen
		
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			for in order analytical, then if they cycle for you, meaning the divorced woman, she was pregnant at
the time when divorce was given to her, the man spent on her until the baby was delivered. Now he's
no longer responsible to spend on her, especially if he didn't reconcile, okay? He didn't reconcile.
That's it, they're separated. Now, divorce is completely effective. But if the husband asks that
woman, please nurse the baby. And she agrees to do that, for in medical, then what's going to happen
for 200 euro on them, give them their wages, meaning again, who is going to take care of the woman
until she's nursing the child, the father of the child, you understand?
		
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			Because once she has delivered the child, he is no longer responsible for her. If he did not do the
job, I mean, they're separated. That's it. He's no longer responsible for her. But if you want her
to nurse the child that he has to provide for her.
		
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			What Tommy Robaina come be my roofing and consult one another in an approved manner. It Tell me from
the root letters Hamza. Meanwhile, what does anger mean? affair command issue. And edema is the
shower it is to suggest one another to consult one another.
		
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			Because in a consultation, what's what's happening? A person suggests and this is what you should
do. The other says this is what you should do. So each person is suggesting is right. So what is it
the shower? So what dummy Robaina can consult one another concerning disconcerning? What concerning
the child that what's going to happen? Who is going to nurse the child?
		
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			Is the mother going to nurse the child is a wet nurse going to nurse the child, this matter is going
to be decided how with mutual consultation.
		
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			Not that the Father decides everything leaving the mother out completely, or the mother decides
everything leaving the father out completely? No. The child is who's
		
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			of both of them. Therefore both of them decide together, how the child will be raised. Who will
nurse the child? Where will the child be? Who will he spend his time
		
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			With what
		
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			this is mentioned in sort of Bukhara, as well as number 233, that worldwide data you'll learn that
oladipo nihalani cameleon mothers, they should nurse their children for how long, two years, not
more than that limit or the annuity model dar, where Ireland mo Lu de la who this woman in our case
were to live in Morocco and the father he is responsible to provide for the food as well as the
clothing of who are the mother of the child, if she is nursing the child led to can live on Epson
Illa de la to la vida, de vida de when mo ludum. Dare to be wealthy, neither the mother should be
harmed because of the child, nor should the father be harmed because of the child.
		
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			So who beno can be maruf, discuss this matter amongst yourselves, and come to an agreement. And
remember that when the mother is nursing the child for the sake of the Father, and the Father has to
spend on her, take care of her clothing, take care of her food, and also give her a wage, you
understand, also give her a wage, because nursing is something that's not easy. It is difficult, it
takes a lot out of a woman she needs to eat, then her clothes also, she needs to keep changing,
right? Because if the child is of that age, typically children, they throw up a lot, isn't it sort
of the need to change constantly. So more clothing needed,
		
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			then similarly, a wage is also to be given to her. And all of this will be decided how with mutual
consultation, what dummy lubaina come tomorrow.
		
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			Not the man says you have to nurse. And this is how much I'm going to give you. That's it? No, the
mother has to agree.
		
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			So the mother has to agree. Similarly, the mother cannot say, I'm going to nurse the child. And this
is how much you have to give me and the husband is forced to give that no, both have to come to an
agreement.
		
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			We're interested to NFU create difficulties for who for one another thoughts often from newsletters,
I'd seen raw versus opposite of use. So if you make things difficult for one another, regarding the
sapling, that the child is being used.
		
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			The mother says if you want me to nurse a child and you better give me this much money, the father
says if you really want to nurse the child, then you have to agree to taking only this much. And
because the mother loves the child she wants to nurse so that's why she compromises she accepts a
little wage. This is not fair, right. So if you create difficulties from one another, you cannot
come to any agreement faster to do the hoo ha then put an end to that argument. And some other woman
is going to nurse the child
		
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			as I told the ruler who
		
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			another woman is going to nurse the child settled their law daughter in an ultra feminine of her so
another woman is going to nurse that job
		
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			Leon foo sorority mentality Lee lamb over here is off. So Leon he should spend who should spend
those hours in the possessor of abundance meaning the affluent person, the affluent men, the one who
is wealthy, he should spend majority from his capacity meaning generously, on who on the divorce
woman or on the suckling woman on the breastfeeding woman. He should spend according to his capacity
meaning if he can afford a lot he should give more. Women could either lay here to school and
whoever whoever is risk was restricted upon him meaning he is tight in his means failure in fact,
then he should spend money matter who law according to what Allah has given him from that which
		
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			Allah has given.
		
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			Meaning there is no fixed amount that has to be given to the mother. for nursing the child. You
understand. The amount is not fixed. It's left to the individuals. Look at what you can afford and
give that much woman Cody Darla here is full value and fickman murder Hola.
		
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			law you can leave Allahu neffs and in lemma, Taha Allah does not burden a person except with what
Allah has given it.
		
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			Meaning only if a person can afford Allah then he is meant to spend a lot and if a person cannot
afford a lot, he is not meant to spend a lot. What is the person responsible for whatever Allah has
given him, meaning whatever he is able to do, sajer Allah who bear the burden, Yusra, Allah will
make after hardship is something very important that we learn in these two is
		
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			that first of all, the men and women who have divorced from each other, who's between them,
children. So just because they dislike one another
		
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			Just because you want to take revenge from one another doesn't mean that the children should be
harmed, the children should be made to suffer. No.
		
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			If you look at this the right of a child is worth that he should be nursed by the mother. And even
for that, Allah subhanaw taala has given rulings over here, whatever other rights, like for example,
being able to see the mother being able to meet the father is not the rights of the child. Yes.
Okay. The parents have divorced. But why should the child be separated from the mother? Why should
the child be separated from the Father?
		
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			Similarly, sometimes children's education gets compromised because of that. The father says, I'm not
going to take care of you, you decided to go with your mother. The mother says, How can I take care
of you, you are on your father's side. You understand? This is incorrect. Because many times people
forget in the enmity for one another. Those who are suffering, and especially the children, because
children are weak, they're innocent, they cannot speak for themselves. And sometimes they're
confused. They have no idea about what's going on. We were living together happily, perfectly all of
a sudden, Dad has left all of a sudden mom has left, what's going on? Children have no idea, isn't
		
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			it?
		
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			And people take revenge from one another. How? Through children? This is unfair. This is not right.
Yes, you don't like one another anymore. You don't live together anymore. But you are responsible
for your children. Children should not be abused in this process. their rights should not be
neglected in this process. Even the right of being breastfed.
		
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			And look at this Allah subhanaw taala says what dummy Robaina can be merggle that discuss amongst
one another, do shuara when it comes to the breast feeding of the child, the father and the mother,
they are to discuss with one another? What's going to happen? What about the child's marriage? And
what about the child's education? Should they not discuss these issues? Yes, they should. You are
separated. But the child has a right on both of you. You understand?
		
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			Because sometimes, you know the father, if he has given the custody to the mother, he will not have
any role in the child's life at all.
		
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			Similarly, if the mother has given the custody to the Father, she will never go see the child
where's my child? where she's studying? Where she growing up? What school is she going to Who is she
going to marry no interest whatsoever, just because of dislike for the Father. This is not right.
you dislike the person the other, but don't neglect your child in the process. main responsibility
is of the father's because he is to look after because whoever is custody, the child is in there
going to be looking after the child right. So mainly it is a father's mainly it is the fathers.
However, if they decide amongst themselves, then it can also be given to the mother. So for example,
		
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			if the decision is that the mother keeps the children until, let's say the age of seven, for
example, until the age of four, then who is going to take care of the child who is going to spend on
the child. The father will okay because the father is responsible.
		
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			And over here at the end of the day we see saya Allahu Akbar, they're sitting Yusra, Allah will
create ease after difficulty. Why? Because everything has its appointed time. Difficulty will soon
be over. And if you follow the commands of Allah, then very soon after this difficulty will come
ease.
		
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			Remember that no difficulty no grief, no sorrow, no complication in this dunya is eternal.
Eventually it comes to an end. Eventually, the wounds you have the heel, isn't it? Eventually the
cuts that you have on your skin, eventually what happens to them? They heal, isn't it so? Similarly
sajer Allahu Barbarossa Nusra just because the divorce has taken place. I don't think this is the
end of your life. A lot will create ease after difficulty.
		
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			recitation
		
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			Amina Murphy we mean Nisa.
		
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			One
		
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			second.
		
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			Oh.
		
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			And this is also show to us the importance of mutual consultation. That how if something concerns a
person, they should be included in the decision making? Because the man and the woman, okay, they
may be divorced. However, there's still something that concerns both of them. That is of common
interest and who is that child? So, yes, they're not together anymore. But when it comes to any
decision making with regards to the child both should have their input, you understand?
		
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			Both should have their input, because both of them have a right to the chat
		
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			is permissible during the day. And this is clarified from this asking Unum in hate was a concern
that during their data, make them live where you are living, not that the woman is living in the
house and the husband goes away? This is not right. They should be in the same house. Okay. Why, so
that there are more chances of ruder? If they're living separately, then they will be less chances
of virtue? The point is to save the marriage,
		
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			the status of Pollak
		
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			early what we learned that separate the beds, that is in the case of new shoes, in the case where a
woman is being extremely disrespectful, disobedient to the husband. So in the first case, what is he
going to do, he's going to talk to her advisor, if she doesn't listen, then he's going to separate
the bed from her meaning he's not going to sleep with her to get the message across that I'm upset
with you. I don't, I don't like this. And then if she doesn't listen, still, she continues with her
new shoes. Then in that case, he's also allowed to discipline her by hitting her slightly.
		
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			So that's another situation that's not divorce. That's not a part of divorce. It doesn't mean if a
man wishes to give divorce to his wife, this is Oh, he should give it that first. He should talk to
her and then he should separate from her and then he should hit her. No, that's not divorce, okay.
		
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			rujuta can be done any time during the Rita. Even one day after pronouncing divorce he can do on the
last day he can do to
		
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			see the thing is that wherever a person is whatever the laws of the land are there on one side, and
on the other hand, a lot of times it has given us certain rules as well. to actually make divorce
effective. What does a person have to do follow the Sharia
		
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			and other legal processes, they can go along afterwards even or along with the actual process as
well. Okay. But to really make the divorce effective A man has to follow the Sharia.
		
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			If a man gave divorce to his pregnant wife,
		
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			and let's say she delivered after five days, he didn't get a chance to do now later on is like I
didn't do I know it was a mistake. So what does he have to do now?
		
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			myka give my witnesses Well, he everything has to be there again. He cannot just go have relations
with her. Because her it is over when she's delivered the child
		
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			recitation
		
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			In autobahn Allah
		
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			Hello,
		
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			good morning,
		
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			Lee, and how many a city was incident to work the command of its Lord and His Messenger, Allah
subhanaw taala warns us with the example of the people of the past. So many people of the past so
many nations are that they were disobedient and arthritis from the root letters. I enter World War
Two, what does it mean? to disobey out of pride and arrogance that a person considers himself do i
do great, and he refuses to obey, he refuses to abide by the rules.
		
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			So there were so many people of the past who refuse to follow the command of Allah and also the
messengers, the messengers who came to them, because when it comes to the shittier, were to follow
what Allah has revealed and we are to follow what the messenger has also taught us. A person can
cannot disregard the teachings of the messenger, he has to follow the Sunnah of the messenger as
well. So the people of the past when they disobeyed Allah and His Messenger, what happened for her
77 shaddaa. Then we called it to account a severe account,
		
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			meaning we held those people responsible. We brought them to account we gave them their Recompense.
And this was his urban shadiness, a severe reckoning, and what was that in which there was no
Pardon? So they were punished in this dunya even were either Bonanza there been no claw, and we gave
it punishment, such punishment that was horrible, that was unbearable. What is the lesson in this
for us? That when people disregard the commands of Allah and His Messenger, then Allah punishes such
people in this dunya even?
		
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			Yes, there is punishment in the hereafter. But there is punishment in this dunya even this is a
severe warning.
		
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			Because many times when it comes to matters of divorce, family life, people just follow their own
desires. They don't follow what Allah has commanded. A person should be afraid of that time, unless
punishment can discern.
		
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			And sometimes, a person becomes very arrogant, and he's committing injustice against his children
against his wife against his family members thinking that he has the right to do it. He has the
power to do it. But for how long does he have the power of luck and take it away anytime?
		
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			For her 77 shanita where are the Venetia? I'd have a new claw further Courtois Bella, I'm Leah, and
it tasted the bad consequences of its affair. Were in this dunya even the people of the past that
are here the people of that town, they suffered the consequences in this dunya where can people to
Umbria hustla and the outcome of its affair was utter loss. The end result was what? utter loss
failure destruction. A person disobeys thinking he will take all the good for himself. He will take
advantage out of the situation. But we see that eventually when the last panel data vanishes the
volume then what's the outcome of the volume after loss? Whatever he had, he doesn't even have that
		
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			left with him. Bad de la hola whom are the Urban shahida Allah has prepared for them a severe
punishment were in the hereafter the punishment of the dunya they have already suffered
		
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			in the Hereafter, there is much more severe punishment for de la jolla or lil Al Bab than fear Allah
or possessors of intellect, or people who have some mind. take a lesson from this, and who are those
people who have some reason, who have some intellect and Latina, amanu, those who have a man, so
people who have a man, or people who have some sense, have fear of Allah, and don't disobey Allah in
these matters are the ends and Allahu la convict, ah, Allah has certainly sent down upon you, they
call a reminder, and what is this reminder, the scripture the Quran,
		
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			so Allah has sent out this Vicar upon you, not just that you're very proud about it, but rather that
you follow it. So when Allah has sent it to you, then observe it, follow it. You see, many times, we
see that in family issues, people don't follow the commands of Allah, they know what the rules are,
but they will not follow them. Or they will pick and choose and they will select only what suits
them only what's in their favor, isn't it? So but and this is a huge warning that when the commands
of a law are there, then if you are sensible enough, if you are a believing person, then you are to
respect those commands and follow them properly.
		
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			And it's the responsibility of those who believe to make one another follow those rules properly as
well.
		
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			For example, if your brother is doing something wrong, is it not your responsibility to advise him
to stop him? If he's being unfair with his wife? Should you not stop him? Should you not do that? Of
course you should. Because as we learned earlier, that the family is a small unit of the society,
but whatever happens in the family affects the society on large as well.
		
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			So if you don't stop him now, would it not affect you later? Yes, it will.
		
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			This is why Allah says and sort of on fire 25 what the whole fitness thing led to so even a Latina
woman comparsa and fear a trial which will not just strike those who have wronged among you
exclusively. Know, who did it affect other people as well. So when other people are doing wrong,
don't just let them do wrong, stop them.
		
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			rasuna and meaning we're also narrow sulan and we have also sent a messenger Firstly, Allah mentions
what the Quran that he has revealed. Then he mentions the messenger whom he has sent, and this
messenger yet Lu aleikum. wa Taala. he recites upon you the verses of Allah and these verses, how
are they mobile Gina explaining everything very clearly. It's not that these IRAs are confusing,
they're unclear, know, the rulings that Allah has revealed. They're very clear. And secondly, Ally's
even sent a messenger who further clarifies the rulings, isn't it so Allah revealed to Robo caller
first later on serrata Pollock and then with that the guidance of the messenger Rasulullah and yaku
		
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			Alaykum Ayatollah bobina Leo alladhina amanu Armando solly heart mina lumati in a new so that he may
take out those who believe and do righteous deeds from where from darknesses into the light. So
those who believe and do good, it is their responsibility to follow the guidance of the messenger to
follow the rulings in the Quran. If they want to be rightly guided
		
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			women you remember Larry, we are most silent and whoever believes in Allah and does righteous deeds.
What's the result? You the * who Jannati that dream and title and Hello, Allah will admit him
into gardens underneath which rivers flow just imagine all of these either telling us about what
divorce and if a person follows this property even What does Allah promise Jenna Holly Dena, FIFA,
abiding there in eternity for the US and Allah, hula, hula ska, in fact, Allah has perfected for him
provision in gender, Allah will give him beautiful provision, perfect provision in abundance.
		
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			Because you see, sometimes it is selfishness that leads to being unjust. A person wants to secure
all the benefits for himself. But what do we learn from here? That if a person follows the rules of
Allah, and in that process, even if he has to give up something, later on Allah will give him
excellent risk in general. What's better? A little bit of risk in dystonia are much better risk in
general. In general, that's much better.
		
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			Allahu lydie Hanako savara semi wedding, it is Allah who has created seven heavens. Allah is the one
who has created the seven heavens. Women are the end from the earth, Midler hoonah like them,
		
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			meaning similar to the seven skies, Allah has created earth as well. What does it mean? That if the
skies are seven, how many Earths are there?
		
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			Seven as well. Some people say that mitla hoon over here means seven continents. But that's not
right. Why? Because how are the seven heavens? in layers one on top of the other? Isn't it?
		
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			Similarly the earth also how are they like the skies, one on top of the other in layers. And just as
there's a huge distance between two skies, similarly there's a huge distance between two Earths as
well. Okay?
		
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			There is the topmost sky and then there's the lowermost sky. Similarly, there is the topmost earth
and the lower most earth as well. The top most is which one, which one, where we are because above
us is what? The sky adonia So what does this I show to us are seven Earth just like there are seven
skies. And this is mentioned in the Quran and this is also mentioned in the Hadees. We learned from
our Hadith the Prophet sallallahu Sallam said, Whoever asserts the land of somebody unjustly, even
if it was a mere hand spent, then his neck will be encircled with it down to the seven Earths. His
neck will be encircled with it down to the seven Earths and behind his narration, he will sink down
		
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			to the seven Earth's me This is the punishment of that person.
		
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			So the seven Earths are mentioned in the Quran, and they're also mentioned in the Sunnah. Now, we
cannot say with our limited vision and knowledge that How is it possible? Where is it? Allahu Allah
about the reality of the seven Earths, isn't it? So? Because the scientists they discover one thing,
and the more they discover what do they say the more ignorant we are?
		
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			So will mean an earthly mithila hoon. What's the point of mentioning this over here that Allah has
created seven Earth's seven skies? That he has the necessary general Rubina Hoon, Allah He is the
one who descends who sends down the Command between the meaning he is the one who regulates the
affairs of the seven skies and the seven Earths he is managing their affairs, it's his command that
is implemented. Why is Allah telling you about this litella mo, and aloha, Allah, Alicia included,
so that you know from this, that Allah is able to do everything, or anila have a health of
equilibria in Allah and that Allah encompasses everything and knowledge. Why is Allah telling us
		
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			about this, so that we realize that everything is possible for Allah,
		
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			where he has created seven Earth's seven skies, and he is managing their affairs? Look at the
differences that exist in the earth that exist in the sky, but who is managing their affairs? Allah
subhanaw taala. So yes, you may have many differences in your family life, but Allah can manage your
affairs as well. Isn't it so?
		
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			And when a person hands over his matters to Allah, that is when he benefits because in the heavens
and the earth whose command is implemented, Allah subhanaw taala. And because his command is
implemented, this is why there is harmony. This is why people can live. This is why rain can fall
down from the sky. This is why so many creatures can survive. But if Allah's commands are not
implemented, then what will happen? chaos.
		
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			Similarly, if you don't implement a loss command in your life, what will happen in your life, chaos
as well. And remember that Allah knows about every single thing, even what's going on in your family
life, nothing is hidden from Allah. And when he knows he's the one who can guide you best. He is the
one who can take care of you best. And remember that he is the one who will give you recompense for
it as well. So no matter what situation it is, don't forget the commands of Allah. And don't forget
that you are accountable to Allah.
		
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			recitation.
		
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			Okay.
		
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			being
		
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			shady.
		
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			Dena fee
		
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			for the long haul, long haul
		
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			Lita,
		
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