Better Behavior – I’tikaaf
Tahir Wyatt – Book of fasting #4
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The segment discusses the importance of fasting during the month of Easter, as it is a means to achieve Islam and avoid negative health consequences. The speakers emphasize the need for consistent fasting every day to avoid overwhelming the system and the importance of fasting for achieving goals. They also touch on the topic of theostat and the importance of staying in a certain area for a period of time to develop one's potential. The segment also touches on the use of " rad centers" in the Bible and the importance of staying in a certain area for a period of time to develop one's potential.
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we're going to continue inshallah we'll finish today with keytab Cm the book of fasting for men hedges Sadie King, by the men remove unnecessary the rahimullah to add it. And in this part of the book, this is towards the end of the chapter on fasting. He mentions 15 Hadeeth in a row.
We finished the first five I believe we did mennomedia colas or whoever does not abandon false speech last week. I think it ended out
we did do that right. All right.
All right. So we have
a Hadeeth sixth through 15.
to cover today, and I'm just gonna mention in the very beginning,
that most of these ahaadeeth are taken directly from Beluga Moran by have been hijacked by him or Lolita, Anna. And the way that I
figured that out is because
and have them and had yet
rarely, but sometimes he does this in blue.
He may
sometimes do like a summary of the wording like if the Hadith in Bukhari and Muslim for example, sometimes he doesn't take the wording of Buhari or the wording of Muslim and sometimes there's some kind of they call it dmg which is like
mixing if you will, of the two narrations which is not there's not a problem with that. But the point is, the point is, say it does it exactly the way that have them unhedged does. So as you go, if you go back to the to the school, Hardy and Muslim, you'll find that that's not the exact wording that's in either one. So he took it straight from a blue which which is
it's not ad because the from from the time of after having them and heads up. I mean, it was the the practice of many of the automatic memorize and blue anyway. So in any event, I'm just mentioning that as a preface most of that had even Bukhari and Muslim anyway, and we'll look at that as we go along. inshallah. Now, another thing to note is that
these are handy or when we talk about the book of fasting, when we when we looking at books, or even in books of Hadith Bukhari Muslim and tournament the all of them have keytab Cm wiki tables, so the book of fasting, it's not restricted to Ramadan, still with fasting as a whole because fasting is one of the greatest acts of a bed, in fact even allowed to address it, there is no to toe work, there is no voluntary activity bed that you can do that is close to fasting. There's nothing that is like fasting. Caliendo hilarya Effie he said because there is no showing off in it there's no real and fasting so fasting is a great actor a bed in and of itself. So the study of fasting should not
even in our minds be restricted to Ramadan like we should be studying fasting outside of Ramadan it's just that normally because the act associated with Ramadan primarily is the is the fast then we study fasting as Ramadan approaches so that we can get ourselves ready We'll then move on Cody will and having knowledge about something is comes before you acting according to it or before you saying something about it. So
that's why
I'm just bringing that up because as you'll see as we go along and shallow that I had these that are that are mentioned, the majority of what we're going to be covering
doesn't exactly have to deal with with normal life. Alright, fine. So the first thing that we're going to cover is the six Heidi Hadid, number six, the B and then the via salado Scylla macabre, mattawan ECM sama and who will you telekinetic prophets a liar with some said whoever dies while owing some days of fasting in a
should fast on his behalf. And this is collected by Bukhari and Muslim.
And the promise I sent him said will lead you here on his way early. But But what is meant by the word lead in this particular Hadith is the air the person who is already through the person who is going to inherit from him after he dies. And actually, some of the scholars mentioned the car in the Philippines the legal Maxim, which is a loan alone mobile home, and he that profit comes as a result of taking risk. In other words, here says you're the one is going to be profiting from this person after they die, then you need to pay their debt. Right. And so this is why the best person that can perform Hajj on behalf of somebody is a is a relative, the
prophet is allowed to sit him several times actually the different occasions where people came to him and said to the Prophet, I'd like to send him
methods on me or matter matter, every now and then my father died, my mother died, and they made a an oath or a vow to make the Hajj or they died, and they didn't, you know, complete the hi Should I perform Hi, john Abraham. So the Prophet sallallahu wasallam said that they know law and the that which is owed to Allah is a hacker and yoga, and it has more of a right to be fulfilled, and even then what is owed to people. And this is why if somebody did not perform hajj,
and they had the money to perform hajj, when they die, that money has to be taken out to pay somebody to make Hajj on their behalf that has to be taken out from their inheritance, because that's the right of data loss and data has has over them. So before that money, so for example, let's just say somebody died and $50,000 cost $10,000 to make hedge before to before that money is split up amongst the heirs. And you know, according to whatever they supposed to get a third or half or sixth, or whatever it is supposed to get. Then
the 10,000 has to be taken out first. So as somebody performs hij on the other hand, because that's the last pantallas right, so here, when we talking about when somebody dies, and then they owe some days of fasting.
The the scholars look at this from different ways. I mean, there's difference of opinion amongst the scholars on this particular issue. This any fasting, meaning? Is this too fast. For example, let's say somebody died and they were supposed to make up five days of Ramadan because they were sick or they were traveling
does in Ramadan past and they had time to make up the day. So maybe it's for example, it's hatch time now that time in two months to make up the fast
does an air have to fast on their behalf because they missed days and Ramadan? Or is this specifically dealing with
those fast that a person obligated upon themselves?
Even though lost friends it didn't make it an obligatory fast? What's that mean? How does somebody make a fast obligatory by himself?
Right.
Right. So right so that's called another which is to which is to make an oath.
Like what was just mentioned where a person says For example, if Allah Subhana Tada, cures me of this disease, then I will fast for a month. If Allah Allah blesses me with this new job, you know, then I will fast for two weeks, right. So now, when Allah Subhana Allah cures that person would have lost fantatic gives them a job that they have to fast according to whatever it is that they made the oath for.
The
majority of the scholars
and even will claim that I am allowed to Anna was was also of this opinion is that this is
specific to another
but this hadith is specific to another and when a person makes makes an oath
and
they say that this has nothing to do with the whadjuk be a slow shutter any which means
that
if it is wedges in the first place, that is the last pen to add
made this an obligation that nobody else can make that up for you just the same way that nobody else can pray on your behalf. Okay? So nobody else can fast on your behalf because that's something that you specifically owe to a loss of Hamilton and it has to come from you because it was your obligation and nobody else can do that for you. Okay, whereas with the with the nether because of the fact that a loss mentality didn't initially make it an obligation upon you, but you made an obligation upon yourself, then somebody can make that up on your behalf meaning your heirs.
That is that excuse me, that's the mother of a V ma'am. And this is what it will take him a long time to argue for the majority of the scholars, I find the majority of the scholars the three mother hips, they say that there is no making up the fast and how they deal with this hadith is different from for men hebdomadaire. But it is pretty clear
that there is some type of fast that needs to be made up for a person if they if they die. And that seems to be the correct opinion seems to be that it is restricted to the fast that is a nother
shake of a standard Tamia by Him alone tada
was when a different route able to pay him didn't agree with shapeless sandwich. So shaker stamp set that is all the fast
any fast that this old, to a loss of habitat or whether it was an obligation upon that person like like hedge, for example, as an obligation planet person. And this was also the author of our book, which
came along He also took the opinion of shaker today,
even though it wasn't any of the opinions of the methods, except for the diarrhea and even hazmat that they said that any fast that a person owes and people you know about it, you know that this person had five days left for Ramadan, that they have to make that up. But
once you go back and forth, and you look at the the evidences of all the sides, it seems that the that the correct opinion is that it is restricted to another that the oath that a person makes, that has to be made up
by an air. And again, you know, there'll be a whole lot of back and forth to go through that.
The point here is to raise awareness because first of all, the nether by itself, making an oath by itself is not something that is Mr. hub industry, it is not something that a lot fantana wants us to do in the first place. The profit idea is to lie to them, in fact said that it is a way by which
a bad Yani is brought out from somebody who was otherwise stingy with a better another words.
Why does there have to be a trade off with Allah Oh Allah, if you you know, you give me this Good job, then I'll fast for two weeks. But otherwise, I'm not gonna fast for two weeks. Like why does it need to be that trade off in the first place? So it's, it's that type of, that's not something that's Beloved, you know, from the beginning, but once a person does it, then they have to fulfill it. And that is something that is good, obviously, fulfilling a person's oaths because that becomes a wedge of abundance.
For you, the next Hadith, the prophet alayhi salatu, says the hadith of Abu Qatada and I'm sorry, although China and who the Prophet sallallahu wasallam was asked about fasting on the day of alpha.
And he replied, You can't feel a sanitary malviya well bath here, that is that it exploits the sins of the preceding year and the end the following year and the year to come. Perhaps I was also asked about fasting on the day of Ashura. And he replied, You can feel the senate tell Malia that it exploits the sins of the preceding year and the private ideological. Sadam was asked about fasting on Monday. And he replied, this is the day on which I was born. And on end, the day on which I was sent with two feet, I was sent as a messenger owns Elijah fee or when the revelation first came to me this is collected by an email Muslim and there's several issues that we'll deal with in this
hadith. First of all, when is the day of alpha the day of alpha is the ninth of the hedges. He is the 12th month on the Islamic calendar. This day, by each man of the scholars of Islam is the best. They have to work too fast. The best voluntary fast, is on the day of alpha by his mouth
The scholars and that is for the one who's not making Hajj which would be obviously the majority of the oma. Because if 2 million people make Hydra 3 million people make Hajj or 50 million people make heads, the other 1.7 some odd billion and not making Hajj. So for the majority of the woman, they're not going to be making highs. And that is the best day. For them to fast out of fat is the name of the day and out of fat is the name of the place. So you go to out effect, and you fast on the day up out of her. So there's a there's the distinction between alpha and outer effects.
Now,
question
here says you can't follow zenitel malviya. Well back here, so expiate the sins from the previous year. And for the coming year.
The scholars say that
you can't have your sins forgiven in the future.
That that's something that is specific to the prophet Isaiah salatu salam in the people of better
not the people who live in but that is the companions who would the Prophet is allied with Sudan and participate in the Battle of butter. That's That's it. So what does that mean? That when you fast the day of alpha x b x the sins from the previous year, in the year to come?
I'm waiting for some HD head.
Okay.
All
right. So, so one, one interpretation is that a lot of hands either will give you the trophy to avoid since in the in the coming year. And the other interpretation, which
seems more of what actually happens is that
you this is that you commit you will be given to faith to repent from them without a woman has them become and lead them better. And the one who repents is like the one who does not have sins in the first place. All right, so but the point is that fasting is a is a great is a great virtue in doing so. The The other issue here is what sins are forgiven.
every sin that a person commits, is it the minor sins or we'll say the lesser sins and as opposed to the the major in the in the movie Kartini those great sins, that the that a person may commit
those major sins. The reality is, is that through looking at the text, it becomes very clear
that good deeds in general
cancelled out the lesser sins that a person commits,
and not the major centers. major sins require what Toba?
And what is Toba? And I want to stop at this point for a minute because even when we get down and we say whoever fasts the month of Ramadan, right? All of his previous sins are forgiven. What does that mean? Some people Subhana Allah, they come into Ramadan
having a sin that they are committed, it's a major sin.
They stopped for the month of Ramadan, but they don't make Toba. And what does it mean that they don't make Toba? They've just stopped. They don't really feel bad about the fact that they have been committing the sin. And in fact, even if they feel bad, they still have every intention. That as soon as they hear that the next day is their eat. They go back to whatever that sin was. Which means that the reality is their heart throughout Ramadan is attached to is attached to that sin. So there is no Toba there, and there is no forgiveness for that sin simply by fasting the month of Ramadan, there has to be Toba and some people do the same thing on Hajj. They pay a whole lot of money
because they feel like they can buy their way to gender. I can just pay this money and I'm going to be forgiven for all my sins. Some people in some countries that it's actual at Cod, it's a creed that they had. We're gonna I'm gonna wait until I'm 60 this was a panelist sometimes you go to hide from particular countries. You always
see people it's not just because of visa restrictions. They actually believe that they can commit a life of sin.
Get to the age of 60, pay for Hajj. And all of that stuff that they were doing before will be forgiven.
So it's it's a misconception that we have to draw attention to and it's not to take people away from the virtue of Ramadan, and they're striving around I know trying to make Toba, like Toba is not Toba is nothing is that you feel bad about the fact that you have disobeyed the one who created you. You feel bad about that. And you don't have any intention to go back to that disobedience, it doesn't mean it's not going to happen again, doesn't mean that you might not slip up and make a mistake, but means you don't have the intention to do that.
And so a lot of people should handle it. They just hear about the virtue of Ramadan. They really feel and this is why you see that Ramadan rush, because they actually think that all I have to do is fast for 30 days. I don't have to make Toba. I don't and then I can go back to doing exactly what I was doing beforehand of sins and transgression. So
the point here is that what the prophet Isaiah sides are saying and what I mean several I think they make it clear but we'll just mention one approximately Steinem said,
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The, the, from one job to the next, your five daily prayers from Ramadan to Ramadan is expiation for what was committed in between them as long as one avoids the major sins? What do we get from that? So if one does the major sins, then that is not expiated by those good deeds, they have to initiate tober fasting did they have alafair on nobody scale is better than July
or nobody scale is better than Ramadan, these are. These are, these are your obligations. And there's not going to be a voluntary act that is more important and more weighty than your obligation. So here when we get that you're out of the fast thing of out of XP, it's the sense of the previous year in the year to come. It's not talking about the major sense, okay, it's talking about mindset. Likewise, when the Prophet alayhi salatu, Salam was asked about Ashura natural laws, the 10th of Muharram which is the first month How long is the first month on the Islamic lunar calendar? Okay. So whoever fasts are actual law, then that is an explanation for the sins of the
previous year. And what was said about our first set of Ashura?
Yes
So that's not necessarily referring to the person who doesn't have their sins forgiven based off like I want to say a deficiency like in their family
Well, what because the Heidi The Heidi is an encouragement that a person strives for forgiveness in the month of Ramadan because it's the it's the month in which the doors of gender open the doors of Johanna mclaws and Sophia to shouting and the devils have chained up
all of them
they still get phone calls, they still
collect CEUs they get collect calls though, it's not like the normal time they can just call work you got to accept that call when it comes around that now it's not just a Korean language suffer the your personal
shape on
it is not is not locked up.
How do you know that?
Now, listen, we can't This is not actually stuff it's not based on rationalization, this is the world of the unseen so we need to kneel for it.
I take you far and then we come back and then I when I get the inshallah
the Prophet sallallahu wasallam said this is Sophia.
In order Heidi
Yes, Sheila
He said this is Sofia. time
he was walking. Oh, okay with his wife.
And the two men saw him to her companions. And the prophets, I send them and they caught they look, they kind of and it wasn't the wife that they know.
And so, the prophesize told them Hola. This is Sophia, my wife
has their prove that
it was an 80 cat. Right? I would say sounds me gay to get
was walking her to her home.
And they saw so in the prophecy, Sam told them what in the shape on yejide? Right, the shape pine runs through the veins of Adam, like blood when in Ramadan
in Ramadan. So if it was if it wasn't an issue of that, them having their carnitine that that that if it was locked up, it was somewhere else then that would have been issue. The other problem is all the shouting from the Middle East get locked up and sent to Central America.
So we could always say out here, no, but but but on a serious note, on a serious note, the 13 that there's evidence from that Hadith, that the shape plan is still there even even in Ramadan, but but muddled it's a shell team because in some of the narrations where it's like the most evil of the devils, that those are the ones that are that they're chained up. So that's why
evil, you know, decreases, you know, and it's not, it's not at the same level, and especially, you know, when we start talking about most of Muslims themselves, so that that being said, this, this is a month of forgiveness, it's a month of forgiveness. So the Prophet sallallahu wasallam is saying,
in that particular Hadith when he said, I mean, I mean, I mean, right jabril came to me, he said,
for the hula, and whoever
reaches the month have not reached the month of Ramadan. And it's not forgiving about the whole meal option. Because what could you possibly be doing in this month when you're fasting the days and, and praying the nights and everything in terms of the bed of last Pantheon is made easy for you, then this person may have lost mentality, this is jabril making this metal I'll push him away. I'll push him away because he's What is he doing? What is he doing in this month when everybody else is really striving to draw closer to Allah subhana wa Tada.
The Prophet is allowed to say I was also asked about fasting on Monday. And he replied, this is the day on which I was born.
And the day on which I was sent and worth two feet, or the day, which is the same, I mean, one necessitates the other, or the day in which revelation came first came to me. And it was also the day obviously in which the which the Quran was real. Right. So the and Mondays and Thursdays, the prophet is live from San was asked in another Hadith about why he fans on Mondays and Thursdays, he said, these are the days in which the man one's actions are raised to a loss of Hannah what's added or shown to a loss of hematite, if you will, and I love to be fasting on that day. Monday is better to fast then Thursday, the Heidi, that talk about the virtual fast on Monday are much more and
number
then than the I had to deal with fasting on on Thursdays.
And so really, I mean, when we look at, well, what's a practice that we can put into place
you know, that would be very beneficial. And for a person for example, who started out and this is this is also important that when we look at embed, is
should be done gradually, otherwise is feared that a person is going to cut it off. So they're going to be real gung ho about it at one point and then they're not going to be able to continue and this was actually the way that the Prophet sallallahu wasallam instructed his companions You know, when I believe and I'm a came to him and he said look over my shoulder like and fast like this I can do a pro se someone was telling him take his time and take take your time and then he stopped at a place and then later on down the line he said you know I wish I would have taken the books of the Prophet it was him concession that he gave me not that it was even Wagyu beef at that point. But once you
start something that contains understood this very well, once you start in a bad that you shouldn't stop it and you should you should stay with it until you die. That should be a companion so
So the the issue of, for example, for a person who just is trying to figure out well, you know, what, when should I fast if I want to continue fast after Ramadan, Mashallah within five days and I've lost count, but the point is, I mean, you start to see that, Mashallah, and this is doable. You know, I can, I don't I mean, I don't want to fast a whole year. And that's not the sort of the profit, I think. But can I fast three times out the month as we will cover, inshallah I can do that, when would be the best time, okay, the best time would be a MLB, for example, 13 1415, the lunar calendar. But barring that any three days, because there's several other, you know, I had to talk
about just fast and three days out the month, because if you fast three days of the month is lightning fast the entire month, right. So if you take three, Monday's out the month, and that's what you do. But the point is to try to find something as doable for you. And I'm saying, if you just did it every Monday, you know, so that would be like four days out the month, but that would be a consistent thing, you know, that every Monday, this is what I want to do. And then if you need to take a break, it's only gonna be one Monday, you know, but the point is that you you get those three in every month, you know, and sometimes the reason why I mentioned is because some people find it
difficult to do the 13 1415 for two reasons. Number one, the stringing of the fast sometimes it's difficult for them so doing it three days in a row is difficult. And sometimes because they don't even know when the 13th 14th 15th of the month or so, but everybody knows where Monday is. So you know that's something that a person can, you know, can implement. The point is here, the prophecy some use the fast that day for several reasons. One of them is that it was on the day in which he was born. And I mentioned that because he did not fast when his birthday. He fasted on the day he was born. She's different. And and because people try to use the Oh, we can celebrate the birthday
projects and he celebrated his birthday and celebrated with cake and candles.
And he didn't celebrate his birthday. Right? Whenever that might have been because there's difference of opinion about when his birthday is in the first place. But he didn't celebrate whether it was the 12th or beer or whatever. He didn't celebrate that He fasted on on Mondays the day he was born which is
okay
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Next Howdy. Howdy, calling abusively to sama sama Ramadan Islam its battle system in Sha one Kanika cm it down well Muslim, per se Some say whoever fast the month of Ramadan and then follows it with 60 days of show Well, it will be as if
he had should say the English is messed up.
It will be as if He fasted the entire year. All right now several issues is collected by the Muslim the majority of the scholars of Islam say that this is a pseudonym or academic and he that it is an emphasized Sunnah
Imam Malik Rahim Mahalo to Allah and his followers did not think that it was
a good thing too fast. Well, they didn't see that to be from the Sunnah of the prophet is allowed to sit and that's because he made Malik mo law say he didn't find any the people of Medina doing it right in front of the bar. Tada, who was
the most famous of those who explain the what part of the mathematic and that explanation is amazing, he has to actually attend hedonistic comm both of them are amazing terms of the extra explanation of what he said had this Have you reached the mathematic he would have, he would have fasted. So that was his excuse for his event. The mathematics behind it. The point is, we had a Hadith of the Prophet it assigned to Sam sufficient for us we don't need in majority of the scholars of Islam hold those fast, no six days to be from the sooner that we should, that we should race towards In fact, many of them say that it is best to start immediately after they eat. So and when
and when is the lead by
the first of show when and that's it. I don't I don't know. I can't tell you how many times I've seen in western literature, where they say the evil fits of this three day celebration either fits up is one day. That's it. In fact, there is no eat this three days. The eating up has four days. I mean, you look at the celebration because either love has been the days of tissues, which which are the three days after the eat. So that's four days. So that the concept of three days even though I'm aware some of the scholars say that I am officially they actually you may additionally they say it's only the 11th and the 12th. The 13th is not included but corrected
Is that the 13th is included point being is that the kind that the idea that either fits it is a three day celebration we need to erase that from our minds because actually it might make a person delay making up their fast
so I mean the best if you have two days left from Ramadan you know the best day to make those up is right after the he is right and he right but now let's say a person fasted one day he said I'm gonna make up my day from Ramadan
fast fast is not bad. So now that we get to inshallah so the point point here is what however fast the month of Ramadan and then finals it was six days or so while it will be as if He fasted the entire year. All right six days of show well so you can start from the second day of chawan which is the day after either fitter and you have up until a while is over you can fast six days in a row and confess to and then leave to doesn't doesn't really matter fast them all together or separate but it's all in general in general from our Deen is better to race to do the good deeds are savvy dilemma realty Mama.
So you want to race to the forgiveness of your lowest parents and then the other thing is from handle of Allah blesses, you will help in the beginning of show while there's no guarantee that you're going to have that same health at the end of show while is no guarantee you're gonna make it to the end of show up, right. So to raise to do those good deeds is a good thing. Okay, and the problem sorry, someone said it's as if he fast the entire year as the scholars have already mentioned here. That's because the fasting of Ramadan, every beat is at least rewarded 10 times over so the fasting Ramadan is like fasting 10 months, right, and then fasting the six days of chawan
it's like fasting 60 days or two months. So that's as if you fasted the entire year fast in the month of show Wow. And so, this is a
this is something that we should try and take advantage of. And it will push us to
make up our days from Ramadan. And that's because
the,
the method that this book was written on metal, aluminum, acmella himolla.
And this and many of them are happy at the you want to call us like the well grounded scholars that didn't necessarily follow any particular method that they would wish to add.
They hold they hold the opinion that it is not valid for a person to begin the fast of the six days of Shadwell until they make up the days from Ramadan. And their proof is this hadith. The Prophet sallahu wa sallam said well, whoever fast Ramadan and then follows it with six days, I'm sure well, and if a person has days left over from Ramadan, then they have not fasted Ramadan as a whole aligns with Joe says in the Quran when he took me to LA so that you complete the count, okay. So that you complete the count the completion of the count, according to all of the scholars of Tafseer 29 or 30 days. So if you haven't fasted 29 or 30 days, then it cannot be said that you have fasted Ramadan,
and therefore following up with 60 majority of the scholars however, disagree with that opinion. And they say look,
the prophet It is so odd to sit in. So whoever fast Ramadan follows it up with the six of show Well, if this person fasted 25 days in Ramadan, you're saying that they didn't fast. They saying that whoever fast in Ramadan, right? Not fast, the entirety of Ramadan, and then they say what's left is what they call them WhatsApp. And in other words, you have all the way up until Shaban to make up the fast. So if you owed somebody if you owed somebody $20,000, but it's not due until 10 months later, can you give southern Canada meantime?
Yeah, you can suck. In the meantime, you will have to start
paying that person back first before you give sadaqa because you don't owe them until 10 months down the line. So they're saying, look, you can fast the six days of shanwa because that's like sadaqa that's the total. That's a voluntary act. And you still have time, a law gives you all the way up until shabang.
But no doubt, no doubt without getting into a whole bunch of technicalities.
There is no doubt that making up the days better is first is making up the days first is better. No doubt about because you get the liability out of the way. The same thing like if you owe somebody money
Get that out the way and then you can give as much as you like because you don't owe anybody anything at that point, right.
However, I feel comfortable with the, with the pain of the majority of the scars on this one as it relates to
many of the women who may find it difficult to make up the days and do the six of show while it's almost like they fast in too much straight because of the the menstrual cycle. So, I mean the point is, let them push themselves I mean even and shuttle the load data and sometimes you know, during the lifetime of the prophet Isaiah so I was saying she wasn't able to make up the facts until until Shaban
but
in any event, and if there is some leniency there it will be for you know it will be for women. And at the end of the day, we should push ourselves to make up the fast of Ramadan if we missed any of those days and then follow that with the six from shall while will Oh Allah type nine tidy it up, while the Allahu anhu said that the last message Salam commanded us to fast for three days, each lunar month, the 13th 14th and 15th conducted by an SAE and a tirmidhi. And this howdy there's some weakness in it. But there's several other ideas that indicate the
desirability if you will of fasting the three days.
The three what they call the white days, the 13th 14th and the 15th. And they're really they white knights every day is white, it's sunny outside, but they but it's they call it that because of the Knights because they follow right they they follow they follow those the Knights. So
the and they call them the white knights because the moon appears to be full on those three nights 13th 14th and the 15th of the lunar calendar.
Again,
and you're not to belabor the issue, but there are several other ahaadeeth as well like howdy them actually a long time and she said that the prophet Elijah was selling real fast three days of every month and I asked her when would those three days be and she said that the prophecy sort of let me warn you badly and he didn't really matter as long as he fasted three days. So if a person has the ability and they get into the habit of fasting 13 1415 times the law that's good for them their specific idea that I mentioned about that. And there are several other ahaadeeth from different companions, not just I shall be alongside In fact, I had either Eduardo De La Hoya and, and he also
Anika DDB said that my real meaning the Prophet alayhi salaatu wa sallam advised me with three things, and one of them was the fast three days of every month without specifying that they were 13 1415. So, point is that a person should strive to fast three days out of every month, and I'm saying that we should make this a goal. You know, if that's not something that you already do, make it a goal that you come out of this Ramadan. And it's fast three days out of every month, and there's other ID with a profit ID assigned to the same site with approximately Some say whoever fast three days out of every month in the mess, arm it down, then it's like he fast the entire year.
Right, similar to how we get with Ramadan and the six days of Shadwell because when you fast those three days the reward is like you fast it 30 she's so every, every month it's like you fast the entire month. So Pamela is a beautiful habit. And it's a build and it regulates you as well. I mean that the fact that you take that time once a week or three times a month and you just stop you stop your regular routine of eating at a certain time drinking coffee at a certain time and you and you just stop enjoying the normal things that you normally and you like like What's that like? What happens around with that you know, it is a it helps you to develop a different focus and so that
fast is very important and you know hopefully inshallah you know that's something that again, if that's not a habit that you already had it's something that we
we build in this Ramadan beating the nightside
Okay, we got 20 minutes until mother I'm gonna worry I'm gonna get there Don't worry 10th 10th Heidi humbler?
All right. We're going to deal with three a Heidi these three three Hi, Heidi all deal with when it is prohibited to fast when it is prohibited fast like that has a lot to do with cinema cm you'll mean Yeoman fitter or Yeoman not difficult it the prophet Isaiah select was said and prohibited fasting on two days.
The day of oil filter and Eagle filter and the day of sacrifice that they have announced any of her in this Heidi is agreed upon collected by alcohol a Muslim. What we get from this is that it is it is haram to fast on your on the two aides or even footer. And he the other hand.
And I mean, one thing that stands out here is that this is a last pantallas Dean.
He tells us when it's an obligation to fast, and we follow that and he told us when it's hard to fast, and we follow that, because we are slaves of Allah subhanaw taala is something that we have to constantly remind ourselves of Buddha, Hulu, facili, kapha, enter into Islam, in totality, be submissive
to a loss of Hannah, who was added into him alone. And when you submit to Eliza alone, then that keeps you from submitting to anything else. That is your freedom through submission to Allah. Samantha has also freedom from worshiping yourself. You decide you try to decide what's allowed and what's haram and so forth. Which is a big issue for us. I'm saying in terms of
American Islam, you know,
because we we overanalyze everything, we're programmed like that, to over thinking over rationalize things instead of following what the commands are. So it's haram to fast on those days. So if a person fast on those days, they're fasting is not only are they sinful for doing so, but the fasting is also invalid. It doesn't count no matter what it was for the person for example, in a person makes an oath you know if if Allah Subhana Allah you know, bless me, you know, pass this exam. I'm going fast on the east. There is no fast way to eat. It's another bill Massey, it's got to make an oath
of sin, which is unexpected type 11th Howdy. Prophet is want to say also say a young Tisha am Lachlan wish would have been with the creme de la he has a Muslim and in Sahih Muslim there is no, it doesn't say, Mila, he
just says with Declan lilla, by the days of tissue, our days of eating, drinking and remembering a law collected by Muslim
pine, the days of tissue
are the 11th, the 12th and the 13th of June.
So the EAD is what they
either attack is the 10th of the ledger, the three days following that are called am a tissue. And those are the days also if you did not sacrifice on the 10th then you can sacrifice on any of those days as well. And those days are days of eating and drinking and remembering a loss of hammer to add it in as such, it is also not permissible to to fast. The only exception to that which was mentioned by actually a lot of talent, heavy the silent majority.
When she said that it was not the concession was not given to fast on day except for the person who left me he didn't Headey The one who was making hij and he didn't have a sacrificial animal. What does he have to do? The person who's making a tour or a person who was partying, and they don't have a sacrificial animal they can't afford the sacrificial animal, then their wagon is too fast. Three days during Hajj and seven when they return back to their families the three days during the Hajj
camp be before
they eat, it can be after it can be those three days, especially with those three days of tissue. Like
the profit is lots of saying 1200 call us a letter from Anna hydrocone Omen Joomla isuma, Yeoman Tato, Yeoman Bader whatever quantity agreed upon again this wording is not found in either Bukhari and Muslim but and the meaning is their prophecy. Some said none of you should fast on Friday unless he fast the day before or the day after the day before or the day after. And that's because July is eat of the week is the eat of the week. You remember know him Allah to Allah He says because Juma has a day of exertion and a bad day and the dhikr of Allah subhana wa tada and that is not normally done when a person is fasting. And normally when a person is fasting, they're taking the time the
pacing themselves there
You know,
even even in Ramadan when we fast, the push for the bed is when at night, it's not called Yeoman cutter. It's called Laila Takata. Right? That pushes during the night you got some something that, you know, something to, you know, give you some energy back. So,
similarly, on Juma because it's a, because it is the best day of the week. And it is the day when we should exert ourselves and worship of Allah Subhana, Allah and dickin and so forth, that it is not recommended to fast on that day. And the majority of scholars understand that this is a
little cut off that the Navy here that the prohibition here is a prohibition for cut off, meaning that if a person does fast on Friday, even if they don't fast the day before the day after is still valid, but it's not something that is desirable. But it's still valid. It's not like fasting, they eat where it is, it is VAT invalid. And
the
exception here is if a person has a regular fast that they keep, so a person Faster, faster.
For example, they're gonna fast on Fridays, every other week, right?
If a person
fast on the 13th 14th and 15th, they're gonna fast on Friday, but normally that's going to be preceded by a day or followed by day, but let's just say that Friday was the 13th of the month and then the next day, they just didn't feel well or they just didn't they decided you know what, I'm not Saturday, it's Saturday. I'm not gonna fast today. For example.
Nobody was saying that that fast on Friday was was hot. Okay, well, that is invalid, to say that it's invalid. But the the idea is that nobody should single out and that's the wording of radon when he mentioned it to the probability sent him here. Nobody should single out Friday is a day fast. In other words, the same way we single out Monday for fast and we should never do that with with Friday. Like there's no special occasion to make Friday a day of fast bite
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call us a liar. So this this head is about the virtual fast and praying Ramadan the Prophet is allowed to send SMS on the line, email and YT server will put on the home it's 100 Mb from a comma Laila telco that he meant and what he said to me, when a property is allowed to swim so whoever fast the month of Ramadan out of sincere faith hoping to attain the laws reward will have his past sins for given
and whoever stands later till cuddled out of sincere faith and hoping to attain the laws reward will have his past sins forgiven. This is collected by mojari Muslim we talked about this hadith several times.
Again, to highlight that the sins that are forgiven here are are the lesser sins that a person commits What are commonly called the minor sins.
But I want to point out here whoever stands Laila tilaka What does that mean stand Laila toccata
pray Tada, we're tight. Why is that called but that's praying. So why didn't prophecy Some say for example, men, Sala Laila Takata,
calm,
tight, man came to the prophet Isaiah slot to sit in. And he used to serve the Prophet sallallahu wasallam. In the process, I'm saying he asked me he asked me for anything. He says Luca maraca Tikka food agenda. I want to be your companion and gentlemen, the Prophet sallallahu wasallam saying, enough, sick, we catch a bit too soon. That means we got 10 minutes left.
He said help me to help you by making a lot of sujood
was a process I'm saying just you know, just as you casually just go make prostrations and we like making a lot of salad. Because many times many times, linguistically, I mean, we say it to but I mean, especially.
And in Arabic.
You talk about the whole through a part. Right? So you talk about the entirety of something by talking about the the part of it. So for example, a lot as well just as an aquarium water can, murky and make record with those who make record events as they stand up, you know, stand up with him, saying pray with the people who pray, you know, help me to help you with a lot of with a lot of sujood in other words, pray a whole lot.
Because Salah has a lot, you know, there's two sujood and every record, so, so many karma laylat al Qaeda, whoever stands there and whoever prays because also when we talk about that particular prayer is known for its longer standing than the normal salaat it's known. So that's that's like a distinguishing distinguished feature of, of the prayer in Ramadan is that the standing is longer so that's why it's called men comma. So men commonly the terracotta is talking about who prays and later toccata but it also refers to other acts of a bad lpm attache is that you are diligent in doing something that you you know, you're watchful. So that night you spend you know, try in the
worship of the last Pantheon, it doesn't mean that you have to spend every waking moment in the worship of Allah subhana wa Tada, but
you should spend the majority of that time and even if you can turn a mundane x into x every bad, then you should do so. So for example, flavor to cut it is going to start by you eating because you're going to do a talk but that if part if you do it with dates, imitating the Prophet alayhi salatu salam and then with water imitating the Prophet alayhi salatu was in it doing it to give you energy so that you can worship a loved one at night not just because you like dates for example. You know all of these things are ways to turn mundane acts into actually bear that in is a way to train train the intention and to train that your either your willpower as well. Tight
14th Hadeeth and these two last two headed they were at calf
Cana salado somebody I talked to Phil Asheville our him Ramadan Hector to a further lower chakra as well women by the multifocal not a pro se deforming it to calf during the last 10 days of Ramadan until a law called him back then his wives perform at calf after his death. And this was collected by Bukhari and Muslim. The 80 calf means to stay in the messages for a specific or for a period of time with the intention of the worship of Allah Subhana who was added
many of the scholars say that a kalu Layla and he that the
least amount of time that a person can spend for the account is Etsy cash isn't it isn't night so in other words from McGraw Hill to fetch it, and that counts as, as erotica.
A lot of other scholars say even less than that. They say even less than that, in fact, find some narrations on a Tabby that are quite interesting.
You know, Carlo, Hector, Sam and
even just a
I mean, not that translate is an hour but just a small portion of time. Allah Subhana Allah knows best it seems like even from the definition of at Cafe and illuma Shea that you adhere to something that you stick to something that needs to be like a significant period of time can't be something that's you know, so quick lost friends out of
the private idea so it was finance at cap was for for 10 nights 10 days, right the days and the nights
in Ramadan, the one that he stuck to for a period of time we were looking at six minutes pipe
point being here is that the prophets I sent him a TK This is a sooner email acmella him are allowed to adder said that he doesn't know any he laugh amongst older men.
That that this is Miss noon. That is that is from the Sunnah of our Prophet, so it's on them to do so. And that it is not legit. So, but like so he said, Rahim Allah. And he, this was the son of the prophet Isaiah sides of Sudan from the time he got to Medina, it's not something that we should leave off. The benefit of at Camp is that
for a person to get,
for a person to develop to develop a real strong bond with the lowest payment data,
their heart has to be focused.
Too much talking too much mixing with people too much eating and too much sleeping are all things that divert the hearts attention,
takes it different places. It can allow somebody to leave off all of the affairs of the dunya in any of the extra, you know, eating and the extra drinking in the extra mixing with people because there is no mixing it again, and allows the heart to focus on a loss of Hannah horchata and that seclusion in a bed is something that a person should get used to in this life.
Because the grave is lonely, there's nobody with you
except for persons good deeds. And so it's the calf is from the son of the Prophet is life the same It has many benefits beyond the scope of what we have the ability to talk about the next four minutes. And then the last Heidi shala will end here so we can any pause before so I pause before the event the Prophet alayhi salatu salam said, led to shed do ugly Hallo La La celerity, massage and messy, messy, messy the Heather will miss the locks on top of con la. I'm sorry, Samson. And a journey is not undertaken to visit any message other than three and meshel haoran. And Mecca, this message of mine and it prophesies sounds messy and unless you're laakso
beta mock this in this hadith is much tougher on it. What does this have to do with anything that we just talked about? What does this headings have to do with anything that we use don't
have anything to do with fashion.
This Heidi is mentioned by the scholars in the end the book of at Cafe or in the section that deals with Etsy Caf because they say that anybody who makes a vow to do Etsy Kevin any Masjid other than the three messages here
and they have to travel to that Master, then that vow is not they don't have to fulfill that vow. And whatever message they were talking about, they fulfill it wherever they are, because the only messages that you travel to are those three. Merci luxan mesial Hara mentioned the BA salatu salam and that's why this hadith is mentioned in the book of a TK and with that we finished keytab a cm and we finished the book of fasting from minetta Sadie King. I mean, I left off a lot of the shots, but inshallah we got the intention behind the Hadith. And we only have two minutes left. Well 100 Let me never to eat too much solid. Well, no, I don't. of sun a lot of venum how many subhanak along
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