The importance of the Prophet sallama's guarantee in shaping individuals to express themselves is discussed, including the use of the tongue in shaping behavior and deeds. The need for everyone to forgive others and not let something come off is also emphasized. The importance of protecting one's private parts is also emphasized, including not looking at others' behavior and dis obligation. The use of technology to prevent unwanted behavior and measure one's speech is also discussed.
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Alhamdulillah
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Allah HeMan Surya fusina Marina
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Mayor de la ilaha illallah
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wa May you live in a hurry Allah
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was hadwen La ilaha illallah wa sallahu la sharika
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wash Hello Ana Mohammed Abu rasuluh
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Akuma, Moroccan oil filler cuando Nova con woman you to allow Rasulullah who has a hose and alima
and my back. We praise along we seek his assistance and his forgiveness and we seek refuge in a law
from the evil of ourselves and our bad deeds. Whoever Allah guides, there's none that can lead him
astray and whoever he leaves to stray than there is no guide for him. And I bear witness that there
is no deity and truth except for a loss of Hannah who was at he was alone and he has no partners and
I bear witness that Mohammed Abdullah Saleh it was some of them is his slave and messenger.
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The Swanee brothers in Islam.
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Any of you who have lived in this society, for any period of time,
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will have learned the word of Bowman. When a person goes to buy a product, he asked, Does the
product have a woman, this is something that is very common in this society, but man meaning a
guarantee, or a warranty on this particular product.
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And as a matter of fact,
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most people in any society
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around the world would prefer to buy a product that has a warranty
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whether it is a car or appliances, or anything else that a person wants to buy, they usually prefer
the product that has some type of guarantee with it or some type of warranty some type of domain.
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Even though there are great differences as it relates to the domain itself, to the guarantee, or to
the warranty, and some of them last for many years, some of them only covered certain parts. When a
person buys a product.
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And this is why when you find someone that you trust, or a company that you trust, you prefer the
product that they have to offer, even if it costs a little bit more why because you trust that
individual you trust the company.
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What if the one who is offering you a woman
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is offering you a guarantee is the Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
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The one who is described as being a sodic, alumnus, Duke, the one who is truthful in everything that
he says, and who is believed salani was the one whom Eliza Joe described by saying, Well, our young
people and in our in our in our you have, he is the one who does not speak from his own desires.
Rather, it is only revelation that is revealed to him.
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So if the one who was guaranteeing you something is the Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi
wasallam then you don't have to think twice about what he is guaranteeing you. And what if the thing
that he's guaranteeing you is an agenda.
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That which the that which is more expensive than the heavens and the earth. That was the province of
the lohani was seldom said in it is that which no AI has ever seen. the bliss of gender is something
that has not been imagined. It's unimaginable
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by the
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Human.
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So, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam
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if he is the one guaranteeing you something
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and the thing that he is guaranteeing you his agenda,
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then is there something that should come between us and that guarantee? Especially if what the
province of the lohani was Selim is saying is required of us is something that is not too difficult
to do. Think about and consider this hadith that is collected by an Imam Bukhari Mahima Hello,
China, on the authority of silence
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or the Allahu taala and who, who said that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said
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men young men Li muy bien Allah gay he would each name of the manga Hall Jenna, the Prophet
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, Whoever young man from a woman, whoever guarantees for me what is
between his jaw bones and his legs. Then I will guarantee for him Elgin,
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the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and this Heidi. He guarantees Jenna for the one who protects
the chastity of his private parts and his mouth.
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And most of the scholars when explaining this hadith are discussing this Heidi, they specify the
tongue but the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said Matt Bane Allah, ye Jani that which is
between the jaw bones, meaning the mouth, in its entirety, because others from the scholars of Habib
mentioned that this hadith also includes the consumption of alcoholic beverages,
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or any other intoxicating for that matter. But in shallow Tana, we're going to restrict the speech
in this happy to deal with the tongue with the lighter.
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Our tongues are a blessing from Allah Subhana, who would add the tongue is a blessing. And you know
how much of a blessing it is, when you see someone else with a type of speech impediment, when
they're not. They don't have the ability to speak like others. So they're looked at in a different
kind of way. Because they don't have the ability to express themselves, like others. When you burn
your tongue, for example, and you can't taste food the next day or four days at a time, then you
realize that Nima have this tongue. And Eliza Jim says in the Quran mentioning the favors that He
has given to his servants, he says alumna janela, who I named, when he said OSHA 14, well, they know
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nothing, have we not given him two eyes, and a tongue, and lips. And we have shown him the two paths
that is the path of good and the path of evil. So it is with this tongue,
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that we are able to express ourselves. We are able to call to the Dean of a larger German national
called him and dying alone. Who is better in speech than the one who calls to Allah, we are able to
taste food. I mean, just imagine eating and not being able to taste you simply eating for the
nourishment of your body, but you don't have the ability to taste. So this tongue is a NEMA from
Allah subhanho wa Tada. And if you want to know the value of something to you, because it's
important sometimes to take a step back a lot of times, a person may complain about what they don't
have. And forget about the things that they do have that aligns with john has blessed them with. So
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if you want to look at the value of something that you have, think about what you would sell it for
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your tongue, how much would you put it on the market? How much would you sell your tongue for it?
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Exactly. No one is willing to sell their tongue for anything. If someone offered you 1,000,002
million, 3 million, you're not willing to sell your tongue because it's priceless. The value of this
Nima that Allah Subhana who would Tana has given you is priceless? This tongue but if it is not used
in a manner that is pleasing to Allah subhanho wa Taala then it can destroy that it could destroy
the servant of Allah subhanho wa Taala and it can be dangerous because the tongue moves without
energy.
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And in most sins that a person commits, it requires him to exert some type of energy
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to go out and do something, but with the tongue,
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most speech comes out effortlessly on a person for example, you'll find him effortlessly lying. And
lying is a disgusting sin in Islam. It's not something that any believer should ever do.
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And it will destroy your deeds. Think about the reward of fasting in Ramadan.
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Elijah Joe said the reward of fasting of Ramadan in the song for in the Julio nsdap. The fasting is
for me, I'm the one that rewards for you, it is be multiplied more than 700 times for certain
people. All of that can be destroyed by one lie in the daytime while person is fast. So lying
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is a sin that is destructive. It destroys a person's good deeds. And it's done with what it's done
with the tongue. And usually effortlessly a person just does it.
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mocking others cursing someone with a foul mouth.
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Which is not again not not from the traits of the Muslims, a person praising himself a person
insulting others. Now imagine someone says something bad to you?
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Do you not want your rights from that person or yamaki? me think about this because Aquinas
important point here. If someone insults you, and you are patient, and you say to yourself, I will
get my rights from that person or Yeoman piano. That's if you don't forgive them. Do you have the
right to say that? Do you have the right to do that? Absolutely. Because Eliza does Aladdin he is
just
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and if a person insults you, you have a right to get that back from them on yo pm.
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What about people who with their tongue and salt entire nations of people, entire nationalities,
entire ethnicities. Black people are this.
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Beware Abdullah, do not let something like that come off your tongue. White people are like Saudis
are like this. Sally is such and such.
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And that's easy. Because the majority of us who are living in this society may have faced some type
of difficulties living here or some type of oppression or something like that. So it's easy to
generalize. Saudis are like this. Or as some people say, you want me to do what you want me to
clean? What do you think I'm a Bengali.
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You see, insulting an entire nation of people. And as some of the scholars have mentioned, just as
one person has the right to get his hat from you to get his rights from oil, milk, even if you speak
about an entire nation, you will face that nation on your mukim all of them requiring their rights
from you.
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That's done with what that's done with the tongue.
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This tongue is dangerous, if it is not used for the pleasure of Allah subhanho wa Taala. So watch
your mouth. Allah subhanahu wa tada says in the Quran, my young Roman coaling in the day hiraki
bonati.
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That he does not utter a word, except that there is a watcher by him, ready to record what he is
saying. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam mentioned in the Hawaii the tsunami,
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that when he was raised, and Islam was alive when the Prophet sallallahu wasallam was raised up to
the seven heavens,
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and jabril accompanied him. He said that he saw people whose nails were made of iron, and they were
scratching their faces and their chests. And the Prophet alayhi salatu was Salam ash jabril Who are
they who are those people jabril is Salatu was Salam said to the prophet SAW the light it was
Southern woman Latina, yet coluna luminous warrior para una de out all the him. They are those who
eat the flesh of people, that is they backed by them.
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And you're gonna find out all the him and they disgrace them. They talk about they dishonor them and
insult them.
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These are those people and this is their reward on the Day of Judgment.
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The honor of a Muslim f1 is sacred.
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And this is why when it comes to the tongue,
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the Muslim has to follow
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the Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu it was setting them when he said made Cana you know biLlahi
when a young man Cana you know Bella, he was young
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We'll ask him, failure cool. Hi, Ron. Oh Leo Smith, whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day, then
let him say that which is good. Or let him be quiet. This hat is collected by Bukhari and Muslim.
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So the mo of the Muslim
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is to either say that which is good or to be quiet that is the one who believes in Allah and who
believes in the last day believes that he has a creator
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that is a life of a gel and believes in the last day that day when he will stand in front of Allah
subhana wa tada and answer for every single thing that he has done, and cluding his speech,
including his speech, failure, cool Haven, this is the one who believes in Allah and the Last thing,
then let him say that which is good, or let him be quiet. Talking about the deen of Allah, without
knowledge is not good.
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And so if you find yourself in a predicament where you're about to speak about the deen of Allah and
you don't know what you're talking about, then Be quiet, spreading other secrets Is that
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Is that good? Then don't do it. If someone has entrusted you with information, keep it to yourself.
These are all sins that come off the tongue. The purpose of life is seldom guaranteed Jenna, for the
one who protects his tongue. These are things that we need to avoid complaining about Eliza Jo's
decree something that has happened to you some type of calamity that has befallen you, it's from
your own hands anyway.
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And then you go and complain about your situation to whom you complain about a lung to the creation
of Allah. Is that good for you? Is that good speech? Absolutely not. Allah azza wa jal, the purpose
of the law it was seldom
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also said
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when he was asked about
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the speech to the person, or the speech of an individual is it counted from his actions? The
prophets a lot It was some said well,
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Allah will do him for now in the Hassan II to elsina to him okay. makalah salado, Salah Is there
anything that is going to drag the people on their faces in the fire, except for the harvest of
their tongue that is the fruits of their their speech. That was they have said off of their tongues.
So beware of backbiting and slandering other Muslims beware of belittling other Muslims and
spreading rumors. The This is as it relates to protecting the tongue then the Prophet sallallaahu
Selim also mentioned this Howdy, the importance of protecting one's private parts.
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As the prophet SAW you saw them said in this Huggy WOMAD bayonet, it's late that which is between
his legs because of a person doesn't do so. Then the evil sin of Xena will spread in the community
and this is something that destroys communities brings about children who do not come up in proper
homes who do not know who their fathers are, it spreads diseases and all other types of destruction
to one's honor and to one's lineage. And Allah says in the Quran, cada f lahan meaning
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that the believers are successful. He goes on to describe who those believers are. And lettino home
VSA lighting him Cossio, those who have who should. And there's a lot who stand with humility, in
front of Allah subhana wa Tada. A lot goes on to say, well Edina, whom leave Fuji him happy doing
those who protect their private parts Illa Allah as well to him, oh man malakut a man whom, for whom
a woman woman except for with their wives, or their spouses, and those whom their right hands
possess because there is no blame upon them. And doing so. For many reasons, Vol one ah danika for
hula, eco Humala Dune, whoever goes beyond that, that is their wives and their right hand
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possessions, then those are the transgressors. So unless of how it's added here, in this in these is
the first is sort of to let me know, is mentioning to us that the one who does not protect his
private parts is not going to be successful. And he is blameworthy and he is from the transgressors.
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Whoever goes beyond his wives, and those whom whose right hand possesses which we don't have in this
day and time.
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Whoever does that goes beyond that any kind of way.
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For example,
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homosexuality, * in Islam is from the most immoral of sins, and it is beyond one's wife,
likewise. And for the sake of the young people here, I'll say it like this likewise one pleasing
himself by himself. This is haram in Islam.
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This is not something that can be done. This is not from the protection of one's private parts.
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Whoever goes beyond that, then they are the ones who are transgresses. And so
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Alonzo gives us some of the ways to remedy the situation, because usually one goes and transgresses
beyond the bounds as it relates to his private parts because he is looking at that which is haram.
And that's why Allah subhana wa tada tells us in the Quran, we're calling me Nina, your look do min
Abba sorry him wait for the Buddha say to the believers to lower their gaze do not look at that
which is haram
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and protect their private parts. Because by looking at that, which is haram, it will lead to one not
protecting his private parts. So do not look at that which is haram. And unfortunately,
unfortunately, with all of the technology that we have today, they could be used for that which is
good. Unfortunately, many people use it for that which is hon and they go onto the internet and they
look at that which is haram and they use their cell phones to look at that which is haram. So beware
of looking at that which is haram. And remember the guarantee of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam for the one who protects that which is between his jaw bones and between his legs. A poodle
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kolyada was stuffed with aloha Lee welcome,
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Rahim.
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hamdulillahi Rabbil alameen wa Salatu was salam o bada cannon Amina Mohammed while early he was
actually me and my back yeah fighting for lung there is no Muslim except that he wants to gender
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is non Muslim that will tell you that he wants to go to the Hellfire non Muslim because we
understand what happens after death. We know that there is a fire and that there is gender
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and every Muslim wants to receive a wants to be from the inheritance as a parent to Allah describe
them in the Koran like
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they want to be from those who inherit gender.
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And the Prophet alayhi salaatu wa sallam
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informed us and this hadith that we are talking about today,
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informed us that gender is guaranteed guaranteed
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from the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam himself he guarantees for the person who protects what
is between his jaw bones and between his legs that he will be from amongst the people of gender
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as it relates to the private parts.
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Then for those who are not married and have the ability to get married, then they should as the
prophets of the law it was sent them say Mashallah Chabad. Minister time in common bat affiliate so
much? Whoever Yeah, Mashallah Chabad. Oh, young people in Islam, oh, Chabad. Whoever has the ability
from amongst you to get married, then let him do so for me who have a Boolean buzzer because it
helps him to lower his gaze or axonal infant and helps him to protect his private parts for those
who do not have the ability to do so. Or it's impractical then let him fast. This is the
prescription that was given to the Muslim by the prophet sallallahu. It was in them. Lowering the
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gaze is another very important point and not looking at that which is haram. The other thing is that
every Muslim who is about to do something that is haram, what someone whom it is haram, for him to
do it with that let him think about this young woman that he is approaching. Would he be pleased
with this for his mother? Would it be pleased with this for his sister? What about his daughter?
Would a person be pleased with that? For someone who is his close relative? That likewise this woman
is someone else's daughter? She is someone else's mother, perhaps someone else's system.
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And so a person has to think about these things before
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embarking upon something that will destroy him.
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Someone else.
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Another important point here and the last point that we'll mention as it relates to protecting the
bribery parts is the issue of controlling your thoughts.
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And if we have the ability at some point we'll go over the tip zero sorta ness shallow data because
it deals with the aspect of the whispers of shaping. Do not allow a passing thought, to turn into an
ardent desire. Do not allow Satan to whisper something to you. And then you follow that whisper up
until it become too you become determined to do the thing that started out as just an evil thoughts.
No, you have to repel that thought when it comes to you and seek refuge in Allah Subhana who was
added as it relates to the tongue and how we protect it. Then the first thing that I'd like to
mention is that just as easy as it is, for someone to use his tongue for the disobedience of Allah
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subhana wa Tada. It is just as easy to use it for the obedience of allies of each other. And in the
same way that someone says something that is evil is the same way that he can use his tongue to say
Subhana Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah will love. The most beloved speaks to Allah azzawajal are
these four as the prophets of the lives of them satisfy Muslim Subhana Allah Alhamdulillah Allah
Allah and Allah Allah Akbar, you can say it while you're walking down the street, you can say it
when you're at work you can say it while you're driving while you're cooking while you're doing
anything that you do, use your tongue for the obedience of Allah subhanho wa Taala the prophets of
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the law it was seldom said and another heavy man and Muslim and yes Allah has generated a lesson in
the quality Jenna Allahumma absolute Jenna, woman a Muslim yesterday woman and Narita lesson in LA
Cala t na Allah gentlemen and not Oh come upon an abuse of the law. It was enough. There is no
Muslim who asks a lot for gender three times. Allah India sonoko Jenna Aloma India silica Jenna la
mania silica agenda, except the agenda says Oh Allah enter him into agenda and there is no Muslim
that seeks refuge in Allah from the fire three times except that the fire says Oh Allah protect him
from the fire. This is easy for the Muslim to say. So the same way that one uses their tongue and
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disobedience of Allah subhanahu wa Tada. Then they need to use their tongue for the obedience of
Allah azza wa jal likewise, likewise, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said and this is a
prophetic remedy,
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men samata Naja, whoever is silent that has it doesn't speak about evil Naja, he will be successful.
He will be saved from the fire whoever is silent, and he does not speak about evil, then he will be
successful that is he will be saved from the fire. So we need to be conscious of the things that
come off of our tongue. We need to measure the speech is what I'm about to say something that is
beneficial. Is it something that will gain me some type of reward from Allah subhanho wa Taala or is
it other than that?
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One time?
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Oh my god, Allahu taala. And
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he saw Abu Bakar he said, when he was the Khalifa
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sorry.
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He saw him by himself. And he was sticking out his tongue.
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And I don't want all the low tide and who said yeah, honey butter muslimeen Oh Khalifa of the
Muslims. Yeah. kalibata Rasulullah. He said, Oh halifa of the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam,
what are you doing?
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And Abu Bakar the low tide and who said to him had the lady. Oh, Ronnie Alma. Well, this thing here
my tongue. This is what has caused me so many problems. Indeed, I heard that this is gonna be a long
time and Hussein. Indeed I heard the Messenger of Allah sallallahu I think he was sent him saying,
Lisa shavon minal jsat in Yesh, qu e la la in the sand, there is nothing from the body, except that
it complains to Allah about the tongue Subhana Allah. So it quani as it relates to this tongue, then
we need to use it for the obedience of Allah subhanho wa Taala making decode of Eliza gel making
reading the Quran calling to Allah subhanahu wa tada encouraging others to do that which is good
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forbidding them to do that which is evil. And I'll end with the advice of Omar. Abdul Aziz, the
great halifa of the Muslims, Rahim Allah who Tana, who said in them and Xsara the current multi
radhiya minute dounia when you see whoever thinks about death a lot, then he will be pleased with
just a little from the dunya
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Because he knows that it's all going to go away. Woman at the kalama who Menominee he, kala Kala
mucho el FEMA, Annie, and whoever, whoever considers his speech to be from amongst his actions that
is that they will be weighed on the Day of Judgment then his speech will be little except for that
which concerns him.
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We asked allies
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to make us from amongst those who protect their private parts and protect their tones, but then it
never been you're gonna have a laugh here but he has an Okinawa Vietnam War Aki masala
