Suzy Ismail – #12 Alkhaliq

astronautical, it's nice to see you again as we continue to

journey into an understanding of how we can bring the Divine Names

of Allah subhanaw taala into our daily lives, to improve our

relationships with our spouses and with our children. The name that

we're going to discuss today is alcoholic. The meaning of

alcoholic is the creator of the most perfect creator.

When we look at the Quran, and we look at the words that Allah

subhanaw taala uses to describe our marriage relationship uses to

describe how He has created us as individuals, we see that in Surah

two room the verse in the Quran, which is most often referred to as

the marriage verse, describes to us how Allah subhanaw taala has

created the male and the female so that they can be husband and wife

to one another, and so that they can dwell in tranquility with one

another. But when we look at Allah subhanaw taala as an Horlock, it

also applies to us on an individual level in understanding

that Allah subhanaw taala in his wisdom, as a Holic has created us

in the most perfect form that he can create one and he has created

us perfectly, despite the fact that we may look at ourselves

sometimes and see our flaws, but he is a Holic, and there is

perfection in all that exists within us. as husband and wife,

sometimes we can be very quick to criticize one another, to point to

the other person and say this is what's wrong with our relationship

and that wrongness dwells in you. We tend to do the same with our

children, where we may instead of praising them or being afraid to

overly praise them, we may find ourselves criticizing and for

children in particular will find that there is a lack of self

esteem or lack of self confidence that can sometimes develop when we

consistently criticize in that fear of not overpraising. We go in

the other direction. Since Allah subhanaw taala is a Holic, the

most perfect of creators, we know that even our children have been

created perfectly for us, for our family, just as our spouses have

been created perfectly as well. Now, are there times where that

relationship that marriage relationship may not be a perfect

complementary union towards one another? Yes, of course. And in

those moments, recognize that the flaw is in the relationship, not

necessarily in the person. Allah subhanaw taala has created us to

continually strive to strive towards improving to be better and

better. So even if we do notice that within ourselves, there are

those elements that need to be perfected, we can consistently

work towards becoming better and better, and with our children,

encouraging them to understand that they are beautiful

individuals, that they are creations of Allah subhanaw taala

will give them that encouragement and that enthusiasm to build their

own self confidence to love themselves and to love Allah

subhanaw taala who is a Holic, the Creator. So I pray that Allah

subhanaw taala blesses our families, our homes and our

children. I pray that Ilhan continues to grace us with the

beauty of consistently striving to be better and better and better.

Does the Komodo here and I look forward to seeing you again

tomorrow as we continue to discuss the names of Allah subhanaw taala