Suleiman Hani – The Blessing of Time #04 – Begin with the Final Destination

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The speaker discusses the importance of setting goals for one's life and how it can

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			There's a link between your time and your goals. And it's very interesting when we talk about this,
a lot of people are perplexed at first, but then they come to a realization that's very important.
There's a very crucial link between how you use your time today and the goals that you set for
yourself or you imagine our goals that you desire for the future.
		
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			I want you to think about the mastery of time for that what you consider to be good and good here, I
hope for you means the goals that you set, what are your goals for the next five years, for example,
for the next six months, for example, or for the next 20 years, the philosophy panel data grants you
20 years of life, these goals, let's call them destinations that you see, these goals or these
destinations have to be made clear to before you start using your time for other things. So today,
if you have habits that are distracting you from your five year goals, your six month goals, your
three month goals, you're wasting your time, not doing the thing that you know is a priority. Let's
		
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			take a step back even further. Before you set life goals, which is what many people do, you're
supposed to start with the final destination in mind and I don't mean 20 year destination, your
final destination in mind. As a Muslim your worldview is one of iman, you believe in Allah subhanaw
taala you believe in the angels you believe in life after death, you believe there are only two
possible final destinations and that your destination the one you seek is Janna by the will of
Allah. If you start with your final destination first, as a Muslim, you're starting off with a
belief and the desire to make it to paradise eternally. Then you work your way backwards to this
		
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			life to a dunya what are the goals that you need in this life that all add up to and accumulate to
and build up to the final destination that you seek? What are the goals that you're setting that are
tied to your purpose in this life. And so when you take this stuff back, you realize that perhaps
some of the goals that you've set, maybe are due to pressure from society, maybe from parents, maybe
from friends, maybe from other people, but they might not be the goals that actually will add up or
build up to the destination that you seek at the very end, which is Paradise and the pleasure of
Allah subhanho wa Taala when you start with your destinations, 20 years, 10 years, five years one
		
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			year, you have to align them with the purpose of life. Your worldview is one of the EMA you believe
in Allah subhanaw taala you believe in a purpose of life. So if your goals are taking you away from
the purpose of life, then you're choosing something of low priority over something of high priority,
your existence, why you are created, what Allah subhanaw taala commanded you to do. reassess your
goals, start off with your final destination and write it down as an activity for yourself. My final
destination that I seek, for example, is an you might write paradise, you might have high standards,
I pray to Allah subhanaw taala. To grant us all high standards. My final destination that I see is
		
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			the highest level of Jen, then work your way backwards. Therefore in this life, my goals are as
follows. Write down your goals, then make them quantifiable. When do you want to accomplish? For
example, this goal? How long will it take? When you set a one year goal? From today you have 12
months, you have a one year goal? What do you need to do on a monthly basis in order to accomplish
this goal? And most importantly, do you have a strategy in mind? Do you have clear motivations for
why you want this thing? Is it clearly tied to gender is directly linked to your desire to make it
to paradise. Now, a person might become confused and say, Well, I don't understand how as a Muslim,
		
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			I'm going to balance out my worldly goals with my desire to make it to paradise. But the reality is
for the believer, all of your goals, even if they seem worldly, can be tied to agenda. For example,
if one of your goals in life, let's say for the next four years is to study or to graduate with a
degree or one of your goals in life is your job for you to continue sustaining your family with an
income for example, or to start a business to invest whatever it might be. You might think these are
purely worldly things. What if you set your intention? Yeah, Allah, these are acts of worship for
your sake. And I'm genuinely studying for the sake of Allah. Why so that I can get an income or
		
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			understand something better or give Dawa to other people or I'm working for the sake of Allah so I
can take care of my family. That's an act of worship. So now the 40 hours you're spending a week
working or studying, raising your children doing anything else that might seem worldly. Now it is
intended as a form of worship. Now it is tied to the final destination that you seek. What many
people do is a seemingly interesting separation between the two, they seem to separate what they
want as a goal for this life. And then they set one small pie of everything else, one small slice of
the pie for religion or faith or spirituality in a very secular way. But for us as Muslims, we know
		
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			that the entire pie itself is our faith. Everything is tied to the afterlife. Everything is tied to
religion.
		
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			And for us, Dean or our rabada is everything. And so all of the other goals that you have your
exercise, your health, your relationships, your money, your income, your job, your studies, your
education, all of these things, including they're here. But the rituals to all of these are acts of
worship. Therefore, your 20 year goals, 10 year goals, five year goals, your six month goals,
they're all tied to paradise. So write down your goals, write down the purpose and write down how
this goal is tied to my destination, or the destination that I seek in the next life. And if you
find yourself writing something down, that clearly does not link you to the agenda and there's no
		
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			way to connect it to a loss of panel Italia. It is not an act of worship, and perhaps reassess the
amount of time that you're spending on this habit, or this goal for it might be taking you away from
not necessarily from a specific, let's say, general goal of Jana, but it might be taking you away
from an opportunity to do something better. So sometimes people see their habits and their goals.
Let's say it takes up an hour everyday, two hours, three hours, for six months, a year or two years.
They might see this as non problematic because it's not haram. It's not sinful. It's not prohibited.
And I have other things that I'm doing that are good. But what you're losing out on is an
		
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			opportunity there's an opportunity cost and opportunity last to to do to do something better to do
something more fruitful with that time and with your efforts.