Sulaiman Moola – Echoes From The Cave – Part 1

			mean the beginner Muhammad Ali he was happy he Amanita Viva de Vaca de una de la Yomi. de.
		

			So inshallah, in this short and brief session we are going to endeavor to unpack some of the
chapters of the book. And as we do know that the seal of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is
relevant and is contemporary to every time and error. It is comprehensive, it is all embracing he
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was a son to parents, he was a spouse to a partner. He was a father to
children. He was the son in law to in laws, he was a leader to the oma. He was a Navy to mankind. So
there's every dimension, there's every dimension that a person would live through or experience in
his social life, in which he will find direction, guidance and navigation in the life of the Prophet
		

			sallahu wa sallam. It's quite daunting to select a particular chapter. But chef Najib suggested to
me and perhaps that was something that he enjoyed more particular, to speak on a mother's love. So I
think we're gonna try time is very short and brief. But I'm going to touch on this chapter and then
move on to some aspects of parenting as well. And likewise, husband and wife relation and I think
these are the key issues and these are the social challenges, by and large we are experiencing and
we need guidance in. So Bismillah R Rahman r Rahim, those of us that have the book and that are
following along with me, we are looking at a mother's love it is on page 130. In the book, we've
		

			endeavored it's obviously a series of some of my lectures that we have adapted to book format. But
we've tried to make it interesting for both the learner you know, presenting with relevant
references as well as the academic minded with some quotations, some relevant extracts as well. So
it's for easy reading, but hopefully inshallah it would give some adequate stimulation into the life
of the seer of the prophets, Allah will send them and encourage the reader to go deeper into the
life of Muhammad Sallallahu wasallam. So a mother's love every morning before leaving his house, the
giant in Hades, Abu Dhabi, Allahu anhu, would say to his mother, now we need to know the accolades
		

			of Abu huraira villano, a man who narrates 5374, a hadith from the Prophet sallallahu wasallam, whom
the scholars of Hadith refer to his theory in a Hadith, those who enjoy the privilege of narrating
the most amount of Hadith from the Prophet sallallahu wasallam so you are speaking of a person with
great knowledge, great, you know, connection and proximity to the messenger sallallahu wasallam.
However, every morning routinely, he would say to his mom Assalamu alaykum warahmatullahi
wabarakatuhu yamatai jazak Allahu hieron, Kamara Beatty, news of the era. May Allah have mercy and
peace be upon you. Oh my dear mother, may Allah reward you with goodness just like you raised me
		

			with kindness as a child. If you look at the phrase in the Quran, Allah says that the pious are
those who pray for their parents and what do they say up there? Hama, Hama Kamara?
		

			This is very amazing. What do they say, Oh, my Lord, have mercy on my parents, as they nurtured me
as they molded me as they groomed me when I was a little kid. And Allah uses the word rub. Rub in
its true sense is used for the Almighty, metaphorically It is used for our parents. In that there
are two dimensions the scholars tell us a we understand how much our parents have done for us. That
alone has used the word rub in the Quran for parents be it makes parents understand the colossal and
mammoth responsibility on their shoulders, that it's just not being the father of a child or just
not being the mother of a child. And I don't say that in a trivializing context, because obviously a
		

			mama bears a child and she goes through enormous pain and agony, but there's much beyond it, in
nurturing in caring in feeding in providing and so on. Board, a lot of Yolanda would commence his
day acknowledging his mother for her hard work and care in having reared him. Then only when he
engaged in his other chores. So can you imagine the goodness the blessedness of the day as the
Prophet sallallahu wasallam said, when a person starts his day would further then us by hand Nashi
upon neffs. He stands up bright, he stands up focused, he stands a vigilant, he stands up active,
and if he does not offer his future, then he would be sluggish and lethargic, lame and inactive for
		

			the whole day. Now, can you imagine with further prayer, and then
		

			earning the blessings of your parents how sacred how blessing this would be. And I stress upon the
fact that he was the giant in Hadith, he wasn't lacking anything. He had all the blessings of the
Prophet sallallahu wasallam with him, he was the closest In fact, often when he would narrate
Hadith, people would say to him, How strange we seen the messenger sallallahu sallam, we don't have
a recollection of this Howdy, how is it that you have it, and you would say, my good friend, you
would know better, that after the morning discourse, you would return to your business and return to
your field. But I would take what the prophet sallallahu wasallam and it was in those hours where
		

			you were absent, I remained present when I acquired this knowledge. So notwithstanding the fact that
he had so much knowledge, yet he felt the need and it was his duty to earn the blessings of his mom.
Today, we spend much of our time and efforts expressing our feelings of appreciation to our friends
or partners, which person is good acknowledgement, appreciation this is, this is a golden principle,
to secure and procure the good of someone and increase it. If you learn to mutually acknowledge. If
you look at the books of Hadith, you will be astounded to discover there are dedicated chapters
where the Prophet of Allah sallallahu wasallam, only confers or speaks in in those books or in the
		

			chapters of Hadith about the lavish praises and acknowledgement that he made of his spouses. So he
said my eyes like this, my Khadija is like this, my Sophia is like this, my Julia, and it's so rich,
that it actually formed a compilation of Helene bubbleman after the Ico bubble monotony, meaning
just just lavish praises. So it's vital, it's integral, it's pivotal, it's of paramount importance,
that we mutually acknowledge and compliment one another. However, we should not be falling short of
expressing gratitude to the being who was the apparent source of our arrival in this world.
		

			And I say this in gratitude to Allah, she always said this to be repeatedly impressed upon me the
following Oh, my son, there are many people in this world who do not have children, either because
they are unmarried, or perhaps the union does not enjoy any offspring. However, every human has
parents, either alive or late. Hence, the topic of servitude to one's parents is applicable to all
whoever is on this earth, his parents, and his belief is the duty to parents does not see his post,
the demise late continues beyond the Prophet sallallahu wasallam he said, one act of kindness to
your late father, and I want to make a two hour for my good friend, brother Rios, who's originally
		

			from South Africa and easier from Bolton to participate in our program and today his dad had passed
away. So I asked you also to pray for him. May Allah give him a lofty abode in paradise in sha
Allah, the prophet of Allah said one of the greatest act of kindness to your dad, his post his
demise, to befriend those with whom your dad was close, Abdullah Omar, the olana was riding on his
conveyance, and he met an associate of his father. So he called him and he said, Are you so and so?
He said, Yes. He then dismounted from his convenience, gave him what he was wearing in additional
clothing. And then he offered him that convenience as a gift. And he said, This camel is a gift to
		

			you. So someone said to him, he said, You know, this is a villager. He's a bad one. You know,
something small would appease him and wood supplies. Why did you go the extra mile and give him your
convenience. He said in about a week and a wooden Dr. Maria Lohan who his late father was very close
to my father, and my duty to my late father is to be friend and and maintain and sustain the
relationships that he had with Subhana Allah, would we take that time and pride intelligence, to to
connect, to be in touch to visit to share a gift with those people? When the Prophet sallallahu
wasallam lost his wife or the Dalai Lama and then whenever he would receive a gift, he would become
		

			emotional. And then he would say, I'm thinking of my wife, or the alarm on her, and then he would
take that gift and pass it on often. To the Friends of hers or the loved one I would pass it on to
the relatives. The associates are Khadija Leah LaWanda. And one day our mother our Sharia law,
Mohammed, Allah be pleased with them both. She said, Oh prophet of Allah, you keep on reminiscing,
and you keep on cherishing and you keep on reflecting over these memories. Is it not time to move
on? And he said, I cannot possibly forget the good memories of Khadija the loved one has to be if
kefalonia nurse was cottony if the bunny and nurse was certainly be mad at her in harmony and nurse,
		

			she believed in me when the world doubted me. She supported me when others were reluctant to support
me, and she trusted me when others had doubt in me for that I am obligated to her forever. So
Pamela, these are the rich teachings of the prophets, Allah
		

			selam
		

			however, every human either alive or late
		

			hence the topic of Soviet servitude to one's parents is applicable to all. Furthermore, our duties
towards parents do not see that the demise but rather continue beyond reverting to the dialogue of
the alarm on who and his mom. She would reciprocate these sentiments by saying what Jessica Lange
romney hire an attorney Kabira And may Allah be pleased with you, oh, my son, Abu hurayrah. Can you
imagine the honor of being the mother of a
		

			gay you know, you just become green with envy to imagine your son features in media. He takes an
award he has some accolades. He has
		

			some you know what event and you feel honored and elated and ecstatic. And the mother Imagine you
are the mother of Abu Dhabi, Allahu anhu, that when I age you also diligently served me, Amanda
hubiera toolani beautifully summarizes the gratitude that mothers deserve in the following couplets
in his Kitab al Kabir. So he says the Omega hakuin Loma Linda Kathy row, Kathy Roca de se row, you
owe your mother in abundance, If only you knew. However, your abundance of serving is not all that
difficult. It's just what I want to do is just what I want to do. We take our time, we discipline
ourselves, we bring in our life, so many other things despite our commitment, we want to follow
		

			sports, we're passionate about it. We want to know the latest bulletin, we create we slot we engage,
and we do what we want to do. It's a matter of disciplining our life. It's a matter of creating a
timetable in our life, and we need to strike the fine balance. Having said that we owe this to our
mom, I am not for a moment suggesting that we do not appreciate the rights and the kindness we owe
to our spouses and our children. But Islam is all about striking the fine balance Islam is all about
striking the fine balance for come late in birth visit Lika Tasha k la min Java and Neptune was the
Pharaoh. How many nights did she not spend carrying your weight in her womb? She suffered pain,
		

			difficulty and discomfort. The Quran says is very amazing. harmala 201 and
		

			his mum carried him pain upon pain, weakness upon weakness, difficulty upon difficulty. Every
pregnancy sets a woman five years back if not more medically, as they would say what will work very
low.
		

			Cotton farming was awesome mean helpful to you? If only you knew of the difficulty that was upon her
while delivering you, you would have seen her heart pulsating with agony. And with all that she went
through with all that she went through. The Quran speaks about the birth of Mary. She was a mother
from amongst mothers and she was given birth to Maria to say it and it certainly is Salatu was
Salam.
		

			ala Mahal, and every woman can identify that labor pain broth beneath the trunk of a date bomb for
mahato Isla de la Cala de la Tony MiG tau Kabbalah. Kabbalah has awoken to nesea men sia and she had
this fear of the accusation of people regarding this child that was born for neither the HA Allah de
Zani. But the general or boo kita, the Caesarea Yup. And then a caller called out to her and it was
told to her Do not panic. Your birth is being overseen by your law. Your birth has been overseen by
Allah. And there is a spring of water that is gushing drink from it was the la cabeza inocula and
shake the date bomb that is above you to serve the party girotto ben geneia and fresh dates will
		

			fall from there. I'm just reminded of something that I read in the Tafseer while discussing this,
that while Allah provided for her dates, and from this, we learned that that's the most wholesome
provision. That's the most wholesome provision for a woman in childbirth and by and large. We know
the hadith of amber in Muslim Sharif. We have our VEDA in the Java hora de alano was the leader of
this campaign. And he said when we went out in this campaign, we were 300 odd in number and what was
the provisions we took the word nutjob aminta Marine we took a bag of dates. And that was it. For
Ghana, Abu Zubaydah, your Athena Tamara and tomorrow he would give us one date a day. Now moussaka,
		

			Maja Mousavi, we would suck on this date like a child would suck on a date. So while Allah provided
the dates, which is the most wholesome provision for Maria in her birth, a lot dole has shaped the
branch the scholars say that this is the system of Allah that although he provides for you in this
world, but the system of Allah is that you got to flex your hand. In English they say the almighty
provides you with the nuts but it doesn't crack it for you.
		

			The Almighty gives you the nut but it doesn't crack it for you. So that is the system that Allah has
adopted for us in this world and Allah
		

			Welcome to Uncle meanie Hama hydro Illallah de casa de oro. She continuously washed away impurities
from you with her Bay right hand and left was always a bit for you. She was never uncomfortable she
was never uneasy. She was easy she embraced you. With the D come in matters techie hippie naziha
woman de hacer una de Caen Emiru she sacrificed herself for your pain, your nourishing drink
Gosforth from her chest. Now again we learn and these are the details of the Prophet sallallahu
wasallam that a mother must take pride and passion in nursing and Sakhalin her child when Allah
speaks of the Yama not appreciate this, and Allah speaks of the civility and the supreme ahora and
		

			Allah says how each person will flee in his own direction y'all may have thoroughly man woman as the
man will flee from his brother won't mean he will be from his parents and his siblings. At that time
when describing Fiamma. Allah says, yo mactan the hydrocal no more BRT nama back when a nursing
mother will abandon her nursing child.
		

			And the reason for this, the scholars say that that's the strongest bond between two humans that
exists on this earth is between a mother and her nursing child, but the intensity and the gravity
and the severity and the supreme hora would be such that it would consume everyone in its embrace,
it would not even spay a nursing mother and her nursing child. But suffice to say from this profound
description of the parent about this bond, this mother with this relationship, and really today, we
need to cherish this motherhood, we need to cherish it, you can express the milk and transmitted to
the child, but the bonding that is happening with that child that is only in that period, and we
		

			need to take pride in this year. Welcome Martin, Jr. We're at Kakuta Hannon, and we're on the road.
How many times did she remain hungry given you her own food with love and gentleness while you were
an infant? You know, there is a narration where a woman came back in with her two daughters to her a
Chateau de la Mancha. And Alanna gave her three pieces three days, the mom gave one to one child she
gave one to the other child. And she was about to eat the third day, when the children looked at the
mom with the eye of envy. Like I need the second one. I need that second one. And I mean, I say this
as a father and whoever the father is like, go bother your mom move from me. I'm done. You know
		

			what, oh, if I'm a bit of a grandfather, I'll take 10 pound or five pound whatever and say go buy
something. But this is mine, some eating, but a motherly sentiment was activated. And mothers. It's
amazing. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, let me complete this hadith and help us move on to
the next one. So I shall the Atlanta says I observed and I was so moved to tears. The mother
resisted her own desire. She split the date in half she gave half to this child half to that child.
She did it and she moved on. When the Prophet of Allah return is or the Elena said Oprah facilities
and we had a strange practice today. A woman came with her two kids. I gave her three dates. She
		

			gave it to each one respectively. She was about to eat the third one. The kids looked with envy, the
mother was moved with kindness and affection. And she's split that data in half and she gave half to
this child and half to that child.
		

			With alekan Jana, Allah has confirmed her entry into gender because of this act of kindness.
		

			And really my mothers and sisters If only you appreciate what Allah has given you, what a great
opportunity