Suhaib Webb – Rest for the Hearts wImam

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The importance of learning from the heart of Muhammad's family, holy eye, and holy holy holy holy holy holy holy is emphasized. forgiveness and apologize for mistakes are also emphasized. The speaker provides advice on forgiveness, avoiding regret, and embracing the holy holy holy holy holy holy. The importance of being generous with people, community, and knowledge is emphasized. A full-time seminary and webinar about a full-time seminary are also mentioned.

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			We praise Allah.
		
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			We send peace and blessings upon
		
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			our beloved Messenger Muhammad Sallallahu
		
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			Alaihi Wasallam upon his companions, his family, and
		
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			those who follow them until the end of
		
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			time.
		
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			To our brothers and sisters.
		
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			Welcome back to our explanation of the bookrahatu
		
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			alarwa, which is a poem
		
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			about the good prophet
		
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			and the miracles of the prophet
		
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			And last
		
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			time we talked about his miracles. And now
		
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			we're moving on to his character.
		
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			And before we start to talk about his
		
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			character,
		
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			we know that character is divided into different
		
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			components.
		
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			And the prophet peace be upon him, he
		
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			is the best
		
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			in all components of character,
		
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			but specifically with Allah
		
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			That's why Allah
		
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			says about him peace be upon him,
		
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			that indeed, oh, Muhammad, peace be upon him,
		
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			you are on the highest level of character.
		
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			And we know that the prophet, peace be
		
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			upon him, he said,
		
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			indeed, I was only sent to reform and
		
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			complete
		
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			good character.
		
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			So the first is his character with Allah.
		
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			How he interacts with Allah. What we call
		
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			his interactions with God, his creator,
		
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			are the best.
		
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			And that's why when Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala
		
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			talks about the prophet, peace be upon him,
		
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			he recognizes him as our example.
		
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			As Allah says in the 33rd chapter of
		
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			the Quran verse 21,
		
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			Indeed in the messenger of Allah, you have
		
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			the best example to follow.
		
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			And Allah who
		
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			commands us to
		
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			obey the commands of the prophet
		
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			and to distance ourselves away from his prohibitions
		
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			when he says,
		
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			whatever the prophet has brought to you, take
		
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			it.
		
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			And what the prophet has prohibited for you,
		
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			you must avoid it. So the first is
		
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			the character
		
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			of the prophet with Allah, how he engages
		
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			his worship.
		
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			And that's why often in the Quran,
		
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			Allah
		
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			describes the prophet as what Abba did,
		
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			the ultimate servant,
		
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			the greatest to worship
		
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			Allah. But that being no contradiction
		
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			in his incredible character with Allah
		
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			and his his incredible character with others.
		
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			For example, say to Aisha, the wife of
		
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			the prophet peace be upon him, when people
		
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			ask her, how was the prophet in his
		
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			home?
		
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			She said,
		
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			which means he used to serve us.
		
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			And she would talk about his prayers at
		
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			night
		
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			and how the prophet, peace be upon him,
		
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			at home, his worship was even more intense
		
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			than in public.
		
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			To the point that one time she said
		
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			to him, like, Allah has forgiven you.
		
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			Why are you, like, so hard on yourself?
		
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			And he said, not be thankful,
		
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			devoted to Allah. So first is his character
		
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			with Allah. 2nd is his character with his
		
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			family,
		
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			peace be upon him. As he said, one
		
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			time, even his wife, she was riding on
		
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			a bumpy in Sahibuhari, like a bumpy path.
		
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			So he said,
		
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			like, take it easy. Be easy with the
		
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			crystal. He compared his wife, Sayida Aisha, to
		
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			crystal.
		
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			And
		
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			he
		
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			to show his empathy, his mercy,
		
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			and his care.
		
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			With his own daughter, Zaynab,
		
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			when her son was very ill, the prophet,
		
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			peace be upon him, visited her,
		
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			and he cried when he saw her ill
		
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			son, and he made dua for her ill
		
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			son. So when you talk about the great
		
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			character of the prophet religiously,
		
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			there's no contradiction between that and his family.
		
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			The third is the character of the prophet,
		
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			peace be upon
		
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			him, with those community members,
		
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			whether they were successful or whether they were
		
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			struggling,
		
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			whether they were rich, whether they were poor,
		
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			whether they were Arab or not Arab. Or
		
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			the prophet he
		
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			is
		
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			as the Hadith of.
		
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			He said that we begin to argue which
		
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			one of us does the prophet love the
		
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			most because they were generally confused
		
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			because there is no stratification between how the
		
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			prophet treats people. He treats all people the
		
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			same
		
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			in his community.
		
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			And so he said, I went to the
		
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			prophet, prophet, and I said, Ayunes, I have
		
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			who do you love the most?
		
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			And the prophet said, Aisha.
		
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			Say to Aisha. And he said,
		
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			from the
		
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			her father, peace be upon him. So the
		
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			prophet
		
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			were talking now about his good character
		
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			with Allah, but then it's not enough to
		
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			be a religious person,
		
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			but also with his family,
		
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			with his community.
		
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			And then with non Muslims.
		
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			So for example, the Jewish neighbor of the
		
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			prophet in Sahih Bukhari,
		
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			when his son was ill, the prophet went
		
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			to his home.
		
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			In the sunam at Nasai, when the Jewish
		
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			funeral
		
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			passed by the prophet,
		
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			he stood up and the Sahaba said, you
		
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			stand stand it up for a Jewish funeral.
		
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			He said, it's a soul.
		
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			So the prophet
		
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			even with others, the Bedouin Arabs who used
		
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			to live around him, he would be so
		
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			generous to them that some of them would
		
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			go back to their people and say, like,
		
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			there's no one more generous and
		
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			kind than the prophet.
		
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			So the point here, when we talk about
		
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			and neawi,
		
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			the the the.
		
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			We're talking about comprehensive
		
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			character.
		
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			There's no dichotomy between
		
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			the masjid and the home,
		
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			the masjid and the streets,
		
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			the masjid and the school.
		
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			Subhanallah, I remember there was years ago, a
		
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			brother, he he his father would drop him
		
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			off at at the school, and he would
		
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			be dressed a certain way. And then brother,
		
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			he will go change his clothes after his
		
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			father drops him off, and he dressed completely
		
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			different,
		
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			like, in ways that are unbecoming of a
		
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			Muslim man.
		
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			That kind of dichotomy,
		
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			the prophet doesn't have it. So
		
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			now after talking about numerous miracles
		
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			of the prophet,
		
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			we're gonna talk about his character. And one
		
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			of the best examples of his character is
		
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			what we should be doing on these 10
		
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			nights.
		
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			As the prophet said, whoever stands in praise
		
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			in these nights will be forgiven.
		
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			Whoever stands in these nights with fear and
		
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			with hope and faith will be forgiven.
		
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			And one of the beautiful dua that we
		
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			learned from the heart of the prophet, sallallahu
		
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			alaihi wasallam, that we should all learn.
		
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			And if somebody can write the transliteration in
		
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			the comments, it's gonna be really helpful to
		
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			people.
		
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			Is the dua that when say to Ayesha
		
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			ask him, like, what should we be seeing
		
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			on these nights?
		
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			What should we be seeing in these last
		
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			nights of Ramadan? And the prophet said,
		
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			Allah. The word
		
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			Allah,
		
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			it doesn't just mean oh Allah.
		
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			Oftentimes in the Arabic language, we have a
		
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			letter mem, and the letter mem,
		
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			it is used to show plurality.
		
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			I'll give you an example of what I
		
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			mean. If you speak Arabic, it's very easy.
		
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			Cat is singular.
		
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			Is plural.
		
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			Is
		
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			singular.
		
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			Is plural.
		
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			Is singular.
		
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			With
		
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			is plural. So you can see here a
		
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			pattern that the letter mem in ancient Arabic,
		
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			it carries with it the meaning of plurality.
		
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			So when
		
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			Muhammad says,
		
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			we understand there's plurality here.
		
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			So it means more than Yeah Allah.
		
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			When you say Allah,
		
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			when you raise your hands,
		
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			you beg
		
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			Allah. You say, Allah,
		
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			you're calling on Allah by all his names
		
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			and attributes that you know.
		
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			All of the names and attributes that Allah
		
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			has revealed to us. SubhanAllah.
		
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			So it's not just you Allah, it's Allah.
		
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			In
		
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			is used when someone
		
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			doubts. So, like,
		
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			if, say, someone came to visit you
		
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			and and
		
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			your, you know, your parents or your husband
		
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			or spouse said to you, such and such
		
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			is here.
		
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			You might be like, I don't know. But
		
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			if they said, you
		
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			know,
		
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			If they said it,
		
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			this is meant to remove your doubts.
		
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			So but what it means, the word
		
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			it's oftentimes, it's context can either be to
		
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			remove doubts if you think the person doesn't
		
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			believe you
		
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			or to increase the certainty
		
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			of someone who believes.
		
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			SubhanAllah.
		
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			So now when you say Allah,
		
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			you call on Allah by all his names.
		
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			The Quran says Allah has the best names,
		
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			call him.
		
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			And sometimes when I talk to generation z,
		
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			they tell me, like, I feel far away
		
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			from Islam.
		
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			I feel like I don't really know
		
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			Islam. If you wanna know Islam,
		
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			learn the names of Allah.
		
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			Subhanallah, the names of Allah will be your
		
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			best friend.
		
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			Wherever you go in life, you'll find his
		
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			names with you.
		
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			The Quran says Allah has the most beautiful
		
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			names.
		
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			Call make dua to him by those names.
		
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			So imagine when you say all
		
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			the names of Allah.
		
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			In and you say indeed. The question is
		
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			like, you said in
		
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			it's for someone who doubts
		
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			or
		
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			is to increase someone's certainty.
		
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			Because maybe some of us, we came into
		
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			these last 10 nights, we have a lot
		
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			of mistakes.
		
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			And what I notice most people,
		
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			their mistakes aren't that bad, but their insecurities
		
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			amplify their mistakes.
		
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			Or maybe they have people around them
		
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			who
		
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			reinforce their mistakes in ways that are unhealthy.
		
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			So they become overcome by their sense of
		
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			guilt. Man, the whole month of Ramadan,
		
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			I didn't do this. I made this mistake,
		
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			you know, and that person begins to doubt.
		
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			Maybe Allah will not forgive me.
		
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			Maybe Allah will not not accept me. So
		
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			what do you say?
		
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			In the you, so that Muslim
		
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			who comes into that dua,
		
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			who pushes into that dua
		
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			and feels no hope,
		
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			that inner is meant to remind you,
		
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			don't give up.
		
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			Don't give up on Allah.
		
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			If you gave up on yourself, don't give
		
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			up on Allah.
		
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			If you fear your sins, find hope in
		
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			his mercy.
		
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			If you think he won't forgive you,
		
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			indeed you.
		
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			And
		
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			somebody
		
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			who already has that Yaqeen,
		
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			the in there is meant to strengthen you.
		
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			To strengthen the iman of the people. So
		
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			imagine,
		
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			subhanAllah, how beautiful is this dua that
		
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			the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam taught us
		
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			to
		
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			say,
		
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			Allahumma
		
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			Inaka.
		
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			Oh Allah,
		
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			without a doubt you you what?
		
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			The word
		
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			The best way to understand the meanings of
		
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			dua and the meanings of the Quran is
		
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			with the Quran.
		
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			One of my teachers used to say, Al
		
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			Quran
		
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			That's a Quran is a dictionary for someone
		
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			who doesn't have a
		
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			dictionary. People ask how to learn Arabic,
		
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			be with the Quran.
		
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			So this word
		
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			Oh Allah you are Afu.
		
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			The word Afu, we find its usage in
		
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			the Quran is Yes.
		
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			They ask you what should they spend? Say
		
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			They
		
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			should spend. You know what means?
		
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			Means extra.
		
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			The word
		
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			it's it's meaning in Arabic
		
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			is meaning it's
		
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			beyond the norm.
		
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			It's added to the norm.
		
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			So what does it mean when we say
		
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			Oh Allah, you are
		
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			We're asking Allah.
		
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			We're asking Allah for extra. What is the
		
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			extra?
		
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			Extra
		
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			rama.
		
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			Because the Afu
		
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			is the one who has the right to
		
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			punish
		
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			but forgives.
		
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			He extends
		
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			his forgiveness.
		
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			So I deserve to be punished.
		
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			I've made mistakes,
		
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			but you're a full moon.
		
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			You're the one who
		
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			pardons mistakes.
		
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			So when you push into this this dua,
		
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			you're pushing into something very powerful, man,
		
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			Something transformative.
		
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			You love
		
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			to pardon.
		
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			You love to forgive.
		
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			So he said,
		
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			the word means to add.
		
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			Yes.
		
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			So I'm asking Allah for an increase in
		
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			what?
		
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			Think about it, brothers and sisters.
		
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			Think about all the mistake we made this
		
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			month of Ramadan.
		
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			Think about all of the the shortcomings that
		
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			we fell into,
		
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			and think about how we fear the sins
		
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			waiting for us after the month of Ramadan.
		
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			So we flee to Allah.
		
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			And we ask Allah,
		
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			give me more than I deserve.
		
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			That's actually what means.
		
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			Giving me more than I
		
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			deserve. More of what? Your forgiveness.
		
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			You love
		
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			You love to do that.
		
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			You love to pardon.
		
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			You love to forgive.
		
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			So pardon us.
		
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			That the prophet
		
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			taught us to
		
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			say,
		
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			on these nights,
		
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			it's so powerful.
		
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			Allah, all
		
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			of Allah's names.
		
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			In Nakka, to reassure myself.
		
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			Don't
		
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			don't doubt it.
		
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			In Nakka, indeed you.
		
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			You are the one who gives an increase
		
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			more than I deserve in parting pardoning and
		
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			mercy
		
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			to and
		
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			you love to do it.
		
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			So forgive us.
		
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			This is from the beautiful character of the
		
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			prophet
		
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			I just want to stop for a moment
		
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			and tell you guys a lot of people
		
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			don't say to yourself,
		
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			full term seminary program
		
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			with, like, students that really wanna study in
		
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			a religious way.
		
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			So we ask Allah to make it easy
		
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			for us. But if you want to translate
		
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			your,
		
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			affection for me and your appreciation for me,
		
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			coffee.
		
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			That takes us now to the poem that
		
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			we've been reading and we reached the section
		
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			on the character of the prophet, peace be
		
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			upon him. And we said the character of
		
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			the prophet is very important because sometimes we
		
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			run into religious people
		
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			who
		
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			are are eerily they treat us.
		
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			And especially online, man, people just be taking
		
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			off people's heads, man. Even in Ramadan, I
		
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			don't understand it. I didn't I wasn't
		
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			subhanallah, I wasn't,
		
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			I wasn't raised that way in my Islam,
		
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			you know, to be going at it like
		
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			that. I was raised to to study and
		
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			try to be good to people
		
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			so that we study the character of Sayidu
		
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			Muhammad sallallahu alaihi wa sallam. So
		
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			who
		
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			has bad character,
		
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			but
		
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			is, like, religious, religious acting, you know, and
		
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			they hurt you.
		
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			They're mean or harsh.
		
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			So the sheikh, he says.
		
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			The first character he talks about is the
		
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			generosity of the prophet
		
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			We know that the prophet is the most
		
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			generous of
		
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			people. That's why said
		
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			the prophet is generous like strong wind. Meaning
		
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			his generosity blows everywhere.
		
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			It has no limits.
		
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			So the sheikh, he starts with generosity because
		
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			this is one of the most important qualities
		
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			of religious workers and teachers.
		
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			You know,
		
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			you have to be
		
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			generous to people if you wanna be an
		
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			iman,
		
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			if you wanna be a sheif,
		
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			if you wanna be a teacher,
		
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			if you wanna be Islamic studies teacher, if
		
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			you wanna teach the Quran, if you wanna
		
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			be
		
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			an influencer teaching people religion, you have to
		
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			be generous. You have to be generous with
		
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			your time,
		
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			you have to be generous with your health,
		
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			and you have to be generous with your
		
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			humility.
		
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			You know, you you have to be with
		
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			the people.
		
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			You can't allow your
		
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			religious accolades
		
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			to take you away from the people. This
		
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			is a trick of Shaitan because the people
		
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			are what made you.
		
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			And the people, your fellow Muslim brothers and
		
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			sisters, they're the ones making dua for you.
		
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			So the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam when we
		
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			talk about his generosity,
		
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			it's in the following areas.
		
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			Number 1, with Allah,
		
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			with Allah. Meaning the prophet doesn't do any
		
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			haram,
		
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			There's no selfless self selfishness in his soul.
		
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			Everything is for Allah.
		
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			For Sayyidina Muhammad salallahu alaihi wa sallam is
		
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			generous with his life, with his breath, with
		
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			his blood, with his
		
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			feet, with his time,
		
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			everything is for Allah.
		
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			Even when he sleeps, his heart doesn't sleep.
		
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			Sallallahu alaihi wasallam. He's with Allah,
		
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			so he's generous. Some of us we're not
		
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			generous, because
		
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			we do we do evil. And when we're
		
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			evil, that means we're bukhala, we're baheel.
		
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			The prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam which means a
		
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			miser. The prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam said the
		
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			one is miserly who when they hear my
		
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			name, they don't say
		
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			A miser to who to themselves because of
		
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			the rewards, the tremendous rewards when we hear
		
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			the prophet's name, we say
		
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			Whoever sends salawat upon me,
		
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			Allah
		
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			will send
		
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			tin. Subhanallah,
		
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			tin.
		
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			Salawat's
		
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			upon
		
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			them. So the prophet, Alaihi salatu was salam,
		
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			his generosity
		
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			first with Allah
		
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			Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.
		
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			He doesn't do any evil.
		
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			Everything is for Allah. The prophet said, whoever,
		
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			when my name is pronounced in front of
		
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			them, if they don't send salawat upon me,
		
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			this person is a miser
		
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			because they kept themselves away from the rewards.
		
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			Also, the prophet said
		
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			the one who steals from his salah,
		
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			the one who steals
		
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			the the they're not generous with
		
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			themselves. How does someone steal from his or
		
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			her prayer? They don't pay attention in prayer.
		
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			Their mind is all over the place. They're
		
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			not functioning on the on the teachings of
		
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			the prayer. They're functioning on thinking about other
		
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			stuff,
		
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			not focusing on Allah
		
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			Allah not focusing on the prophet
		
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			not focusing on not focusing on not focusing
		
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			on iman.
		
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			So the first type of generosity is with
		
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			Allah
		
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			The second type of generosity, of course, is
		
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			with people that I talked about earlier,
		
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			service
		
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			means you're humble.
		
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			You have to be with the people. You
		
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			have to serve the people. You can't let
		
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			it get to your head. You can't let
		
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			your knowledge make you feel like you can
		
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			look down and mistreat the Muslims.
		
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			You have to be generous with your patience,
		
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			generous with your forgiveness,
		
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			generous with your care,
		
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			generous to the the hearts of those who
		
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			are part of the ummah
		
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			of Sayidina
		
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			Muhammad The third, of course, is generosity with
		
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			our wealth.
		
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			That what Allah has given us,
		
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			we generously spend it with others.
		
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			And then finally,
		
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			is to be generous with our knowledge.
		
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			The prophet said
		
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			whoever has asked about something and they hide
		
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			it.
		
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			Allah will bridle that person with a bridle
		
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			made
		
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			from. So the sheikh, he says
		
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			he never said no to anybody.
		
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			He knows anybody.
		
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			And for those of you on Instagram, it
		
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			looks like my
		
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			my phone was overheating. So
		
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			he said his generosity,
		
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			the generosity of the prophet,
		
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			first his generosity with his soul,
		
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			that he stays away from everything because he's
		
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			Masul,
		
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			no disobedience to Allah and his life is
		
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			for Allah. Us, are we generous with our
		
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			soul or are we miserly with ourself? Are
		
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			we generous with our hereafter
		
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			or are we miserly with our hereafter?
		
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			The prophet
		
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			said,
		
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			the one who hears my name and doesn't
		
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			say salawat upon me, that person,
		
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			is a miser.
		
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			The one who steals from his or her
		
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			prayer by not focusing on the prayer, that
		
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			person is a miser. So here we see
		
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			what I mean by generosity with
		
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			The second type of generosity is to
		
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			be generous with the people, with the community
		
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			of the prophet.
		
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			As we talked about earlier, religious worship or
		
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			religious leadership, you have to be with the
		
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			people, accessible, humble, and you have to be
		
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			patient with people. It's not an easy it's
		
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			not an easy thing. It's not an easy
		
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			thing. The third we said is to be
		
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			generous with our wealth.
		
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			And Allah says there's
		
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			nothing you spend
		
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			except Allah will give it back to you.
		
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			He's
		
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			the best of providers.
		
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			And then finally, we said to be generous
		
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			with our knowledge,
		
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			not to hide our knowledge from the people.
		
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			Again, those who go on Instagram, sorry. My
		
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			phone,
		
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			my phone overheated, man.
		
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			Too much,
		
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			too much
		
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			upon the prophet. So the phone overheated, man.
		
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			So the Sheikh is a man,
		
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			So he said, the first
		
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			good character of the prophet is that he
		
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			never says no to anybody. And if those
		
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			of you on Instagram, if it goes off,
		
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			you can go to the Swiss
		
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			Swahibur
		
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			Institute Instagram page. It's also
		
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			there as well.
		
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			May Allah bless your parents and bring peace
		
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			to your household. Yeah, Allah.
		
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			May
		
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			Allah bring so much peace and in your
		
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			household. And
		
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			the state of the prophet, meaning his internal
		
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			state. So his external state is he never
		
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			says no to anybody, unless, of course, there's
		
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			something wrong. He says no. So the first
		
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			line, it talks about the character
		
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			externally of the prophet. The second line
		
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			is his heart.
		
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			The excellence of his heart,
		
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			That when he would say
		
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			yes to somebody, they will feel it from
		
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			his soul.
		
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			So beautiful. They'll feel it from his heart.
		
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			The prophet is the cure for meaning when
		
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			he's around people, he makes them feel good.
		
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			Even when he disciplines them, they will feel
		
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			good.
		
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			And he forgives people when they make mistakes.
		
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			And whoever, like, sought the prophet's companionship, whoever
		
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			needed like, maybe somebody ask you as an
		
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			imam or a sheikh, they come into your
		
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			DMs, like, I really need help with this.
		
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			Or maybe someone contacts you at your work.
		
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			Whoever reaches out to the prophet sallallahu alaihi
		
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			wasallam,
		
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			he'll be there for them.
		
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			So these two qualities, number 1, he's generous
		
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			in his words and in his
		
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			number 2,
		
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			if people need him, he's there to help
		
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			them.
		
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			And finally, the last one.
		
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			And this is the 4th quad. The prophet
		
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			is not a sellout.
		
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			That the prophet cannot be bought.
		
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			So his principles and character
		
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			refused
		
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			a meld. I mean, no one can sell
		
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			him out.
		
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			No one can offer him something that will
		
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			cause him to sell out the hat,
		
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			even if it's a mountain of gold.
		
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			Because his protector, his lord gave him Isma,
		
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			gave him what we call al Isma al
		
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			Masu.
		
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			The next line,
		
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			And that the prophet was sent by Allah
		
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			to everybody,
		
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			to all people as a guide and a
		
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			mercy.
		
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			To all creation
		
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			and all communities. We're gonna stop here inshallah,
		
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			and tomorrow night we're gonna finish up.
		
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			And then hopefully by next week, maybe Tuesday,
		
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			Wednesday before 8, we'll finish the entire poem.
		
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			Again,
		
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			you know, we really need your support and
		
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			help to maintain our school and to grow
		
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			enjoying our teaching and our style of teaching,
		
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			come and be one of our students, alhamdulillah,
		
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			and in the summer, we plan to start
		
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			our full time seminary.
		
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			You can visit suheibweb.com.
		
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			We have a number of classes starting soon.
		
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			May Allah
		
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			bless you and give you good in this
		
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			life in the next. Always a pleasure. My
		
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			apologies to the Instagram folks. The phone overheated,
		
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			man. Too many.
		
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			Too much iman from the people watching.
		
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			We praise Allah.
		
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			We send peace and blessings upon
		
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			our beloved messenger, Muhammad sallallahu
		
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			alaihi wasallam, upon his companions, his family, and
		
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			those who follow them until the end of
		
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			time.
		
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			To our brothers and sisters. Welcome back to
		
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			our explanation of the bookrahatu
		
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			alarwa,
		
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			which is a poem
		
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			about, like, the prophet
		
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			and the miracles of the prophet
		
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			And last time
		
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			we talked about his miracles. And now we're
		
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			moving on to his character.
		
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			And before we start to talk about his
		
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			character,
		
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			we know that character is divided into different
		
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			components.
		
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			And the prophet, peace be upon him, he
		
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			is the best
		
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			in all components of character,
		
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			but specifically
		
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			with Allah
		
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			That's why
		
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			Allah says about him
		
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			peace be upon him that indeed, oh Muhammad
		
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			peace be upon him, you are on the
		
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			highest level of character.
		
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			And we know that the prophet, peace be
		
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			upon him, he said, indeed, I was only
		
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			sent to reform and complete
		
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			good character.
		
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			So the first is his character with Allah,
		
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			how he interacts with Allah. What we call
		
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			his interactions with God, his creator,
		
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			are the best.
		
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			And that's why when Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala
		
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			talks about the prophet, peace be upon him,
		
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			he recognizes him as our example.
		
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			As Allah says in the 33rd chapter of
		
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			the Quran verse 21,
		
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			Indeed in the messenger of Allah, you have
		
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			the best example to follow.
		
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			And Allah who
		
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			commands us to
		
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			obey the commands of the prophet
		
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			and to distance ourselves away from his prohibitions
		
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			when he says,
		
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			whatever the prophet has brought to you, take
		
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			it.
		
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			And what the prophet has prohibited for you,
		
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			you must avoid it. So the first is
		
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			the character
		
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			of the prophet with Allah, how he engages
		
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			his worship.
		
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			And that's why often in the Quran,
		
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			Allah
		
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			describes the prophet as what Abba did.
		
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			The ultimate servant.
		
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			The greatest to worship
		
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			Allah. But that being no contradiction
		
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			in his incredible character with Allah
		
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			and his his incredible character with others.
		
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			For example, say to Aisha, the wife of
		
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			the prophet peace be upon
		
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			him, when people ask her, how was the
		
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			prophet in his home?
		
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			She said,
		
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			which means he used to serve us.
		
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			And she would talk about his prayers at
		
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			night
		
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			and how the prophet, peace be upon him,
		
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			at home, his worship was even more intense
		
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			than in public
		
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			to the point that one time she said
		
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			to him, like, Allah has forgiven you.
		
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			Why are you, like, so hard on yourself?
		
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			And he
		
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			said, not be thankful,
		
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			devoted to Allah. So first is his character
		
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			with Allah. 2nd is his character with his
		
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			family,
		
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			peace be upon him. As he said one
		
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			time, even his wife, she was riding on
		
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			a bumpy and
		
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			like a bumpy path. So he
		
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			said,
		
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			like, take it easy. Be easy with the
		
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			crystal. He compared his wife, Sayida Aisha, to
		
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			crystal.
		
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			And he to show his empathy, his mercy,
		
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			and his care.
		
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			With his own daughter, Zainab, when her son
		
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			was very ill, the prophet, peace be upon
		
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			him, visited her, and he cried when he
		
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			saw her ill son, and he made dua
		
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			for her ill son. So when you talk
		
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			about the great character of the prophet religiously,
		
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			there's no contradiction between that and his family.
		
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			The third is the character of the prophet,
		
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			peace be upon him,
		
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			with those community members,
		
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			whether they were successful or whether they were
		
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			struggling,
		
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			whether they were rich, whether they were poor,
		
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			whether they were Arab or not Arab, or
		
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			the prophet
		
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			he
		
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			is
		
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			as the Hadith of.
		
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			He said that we begin to argue which
		
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			one of us does the prophet love the
		
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			most Because they were generally confused
		
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			because there is no stratification
		
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			between how the prophet treats people. He treats
		
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			all people the same
		
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			in his community.
		
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			And so he said, I went to the
		
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			prophet, and I said,
		
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			who do you love the most?
		
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			And the prophet said, Aisha,
		
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			Say to Aisha. And he said,
		
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			from
		
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			the
		
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			her father,
		
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			peace be upon him. So the prophet
		
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			were talking now about his good character
		
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			with Allah, but then it's not enough to
		
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			be a religious person,
		
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			but also with his family,
		
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			with his community,
		
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			alaihi salatu salam, and then with non Muslims.
		
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			So for example, the Jewish neighbor of the
		
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			prophet in Sahih Bukhari, when when his son
		
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			was ill, the prophet went to his
		
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			home. In the sunam and nasei, when the
		
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			Jewish funeral
		
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			passed by the prophet,
		
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			he stood up and the sahaba said, you
		
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			stand stand it up for a Jewish funeral.
		
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			He said, it's a soul.
		
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			So the prophet
		
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			even with others, the Bedouin Arabs who used
		
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			to live around him, he would be so
		
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			generous to them that some of them would
		
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			go back to their people and say, like,
		
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			there's no one more generous and kind
		
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			than the prophet.
		
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			So the point here, when we talk about
		
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			and
		
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			the the
		
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			We're talking about comprehensive character.
		
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			There's no dichotomy between
		
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			the masjid and the home,
		
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			the masjid in the streets,
		
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			the Masjid and the school.
		
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			SubhanAllah, I remember there was years ago, a
		
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			brother, he he his father would drop him
		
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			off at at the school, and he would
		
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			be dressed a certain way. And then a
		
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			brother, he will go change his clothes after
		
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			his father drops him off, and he dressed
		
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			completely different, like, in ways that are unbecoming
		
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			of a Muslim man.
		
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			That kind of dichotomy,
		
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			the prophet doesn't have it.
		
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			So now after talking about numerous miracles
		
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			of the prophet,
		
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			we're gonna talk about his character.
		
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			And one of the best examples of his
		
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			character is what we should be doing on
		
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			these 10 nights.
		
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			As the prophet said, whoever stands in praise
		
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			in these nights will be forgiven.
		
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			Whoever stands in these nights with fear and
		
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			with hope and faith will be forgiven.
		
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			And one of the beautiful du'a that we
		
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			learned from the heart of the prophet, salallahu
		
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			alaihi wasallam, that we should all learn.
		
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			And if somebody can write the transliteration
		
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			in the comments, it's gonna be really helpful
		
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			to people.
		
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			Is the dua that when say to Aisha
		
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			ask him, like, what should we be seeing
		
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			on these nights?
		
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			What should we be seeing in these last
		
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			nights of Ramadan? And the prophet Allah, the
		
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			word Allah,
		
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			it doesn't just mean oh Allah.
		
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			Oftentimes in the Arabic language, we have a
		
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			letter mem, and the letter mem,
		
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			it is used to show plurality.
		
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			I'll give you an example of what I
		
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			mean. If you speak Arabic, it's very easy.
		
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			Cat is singular.
		
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			Is plural.
		
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			Is singular. Is
		
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			plural.
		
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			Is singular.
		
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			With
		
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			is plural. So you can see here a
		
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			pattern that the letter mem in ancient Arabic,
		
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			it carries with it the meaning of plurality.
		
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			So when say Muhammad
		
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			says,
		
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			We understand there's plurality here.
		
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			So it means more than, yeah, Allah.
		
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			When you say, Allah,
		
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			when you raise your hands,
		
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			you beg Allah,
		
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			you say Allah,
		
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			you're calling on Allah by all his names
		
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			and attributes that you know.
		
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			All of the names and attributes that Allah
		
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			has revealed to us. SubhanAllah.
		
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			So it's not just you Allah. It's
		
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			Allah.
		
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			In is used
		
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			when someone
		
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			doubts. So, like,
		
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			if say, someone came to visit you
		
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			and and your,
		
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			you know, your parents or your husband or
		
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			spouse said to you, such and such is
		
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			here.
		
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			You might be like, I don't know. What
		
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			if they said, you
		
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			know,
		
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			If they said it,
		
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			this is meant to remove your doubts. So
		
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			but what it means, the word
		
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			it's oftentimes,
		
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			its context can either be to remove doubts
		
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			if you think the person doesn't believe you
		
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			or to increase the certainty
		
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			of someone who believes.
		
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			SubhanAllah.
		
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			So now when you say Allahumma,
		
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			you call on Allah by all his names.
		
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			The Quran says Allah has the best names,
		
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			Call him.
		
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			And sometimes when I talk to generation z,
		
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			they tell me, like, I feel far away
		
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			from Islam.
		
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			I feel like I don't really know Islam.
		
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			If you wanna know Islam,
		
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			learn the names of Allah.
		
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			Subhanallah, the names of Allah will be your
		
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			best friend.
		
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			Wherever you go in life, you'll find his
		
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			names with you.
		
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			The Quran says Allah has the most beautiful
		
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			names.
		
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			Call make dua to him by those names.
		
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			So imagine when you say
		
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			all the names of Allah.
		
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			In, and you say indeed. The question is
		
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			like, you said in,
		
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			it's for someone who doubts
		
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			or in is to increase someone's certainty.
		
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			Because maybe some of us, we came into
		
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			these last 10 nights, we have a lot
		
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			of mistakes.
		
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			And what I notice most people,
		
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			their mistakes aren't that bad, but their insecurities
		
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			amplify their mistakes.
		
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			Or maybe they have people around them
		
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			who reinforce their mistakes in ways that are
		
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			unhealthy.
		
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			So they become overcome by their sense of
		
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			guilt. Man, the whole month of Ramadan,
		
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			I didn't do this. I made this mistake,
		
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			you know, and that person begins to doubt.
		
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			Maybe Allah will not forgive me.
		
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			Maybe Allah
		
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			will not not accept me. So what do
		
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			you say?
		
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			In the you,
		
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			so that Muslim
		
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			who comes into that dua,
		
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			who pushes into that dua
		
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			and feels
		
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			no hope,
		
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			that inner is meant to remind you,
		
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			don't give
		
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			up. Don't give up on Allah.
		
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			If you gave up on yourself, don't give
		
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			up on Allah.
		
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			If you fear your sins, find hope in
		
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			his mercy.
		
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			If you think he won't forgive you,
		
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			indeed you.
		
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			And
		
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			somebody
		
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			who already has that Yaqeen,
		
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			the in there is meant to strengthen you.
		
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			To strengthen the iman of the people. So
		
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			imagine
		
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			how beautiful is this du'a
		
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			that the prophet
		
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			taught us to say,
		
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			Allah Oh Allah,
		
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			without a doubt you you what?
		
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			The
		
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			word
		
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			The best way to understand the meanings of
		
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			dua and the meanings of the Quran
		
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			is with the Quran.
		
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			One of my teachers used to say, Al
		
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			Quran
		
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			That the Quran is a dictionary for someone
		
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			who doesn't have a dictionary.
		
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			People ask how to learn Arabic,
		
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			be with the Quran.
		
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			So
		
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			this word, Oh, Allah, you are Afoon.
		
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			The word Afum, we find its usage in
		
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			the Quran is.
		
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			Yes.
		
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			They ask you what should they spend. Say
		
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			They
		
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			should spend. You You know
		
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			what
		
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			means? Means extra.
		
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			The word
		
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			it's it's meaning in Arabic
		
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			is meaning it's
		
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			beyond the norm.
		
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			It's added to the norm.
		
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			So what does it mean when we say
		
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			Oh
		
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			Allah, you are
		
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			We're asking Allah.
		
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			We're asking Allah for extra. What is the
		
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			extra?
		
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			Extra rama.
		
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			Because the
		
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			is the one who has the right to
		
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			punish
		
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			but forgives.
		
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			He extends
		
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			his forgiveness.
		
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			So I deserve to be punished.
		
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			I've made mistakes,
		
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			but you're a full moon.
		
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			You're the one who
		
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			pardons mistakes.
		
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			So when you push into this this dua,
		
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			you're pushing into something very powerful, man,
		
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			something transformative.
		
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			You love
		
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			to pardon.
		
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			You love to forgive.
		
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			So he said,
		
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			the
		
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			word means to add.
		
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			Yes. So I'm asking Allah for an increase
		
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			in what?
		
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			Think about it, brothers and sisters. Think about
		
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			all the mistakes we made this month of
		
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			Ramadan.
		
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			Think about all of the the shortcomings that
		
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			we fell into,
		
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			and think about how we fear the sins
		
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			waiting for us after the month of Ramadan.
		
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			So we flee to
		
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			And we ask Allah,
		
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			give me more than I deserve.
		
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			That's actually what means.
		
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			Give me more than I deserve.
		
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			More of what? Your forgiveness.
		
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			You love
		
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			You love to do that.
		
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			You love to pardon.
		
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			You love to forgive.
		
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			So pardon us.
		
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			That the prophet
		
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			taught us to
		
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			say, on these nights,
		
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			it's so powerful.
		
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			Allah,
		
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			all of Allah's names.
		
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			In
		
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			to reassure myself,
		
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			don't
		
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			don't doubt it.
		
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			In indeed, you are.
		
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			You are the one who gives an increase
		
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			more than I deserve in parting pardoning and
		
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			mercy
		
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			to and
		
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			you love to do it.
		
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			So forgive us.
		
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			This is from the beautiful character of the
		
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			prophet
		
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			That takes us now to the poem that
		
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			we've been reading, and we reached the section
		
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			on the character of the prophet, peace be
		
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			upon him. And we said the character of
		
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			the prophet is very important because sometimes we
		
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			run into religious people
		
00:47:02 --> 00:47:04
			who are are eerily treat us.
		
00:47:05 --> 00:47:07
			And especially online, man, people just be taken
		
00:47:07 --> 00:47:09
			off people's heads, man. Even in Ramadan, I
		
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			don't understand it. I didn't I wasn't
		
00:47:12 --> 00:47:13
			subhanallah, I wasn't,
		
00:47:15 --> 00:47:17
			I wasn't raised that way in my Islam,
		
00:47:18 --> 00:47:19
			you know, to be going at it like
		
00:47:19 --> 00:47:21
			that. I was raised to to study and
		
00:47:21 --> 00:47:23
			try to be good to people
		
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			so that we study the character of Saydna
		
00:47:25 --> 00:47:27
			Muhammad sallallahu alaihi wasallam.
		
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			So when we run into people that may
		
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			not live up to the prophetic character, it
		
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			doesn't impact our iman. Because
		
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			impact our iman. Because sometimes nothing can hurt
		
00:47:36 --> 00:47:40
			you more than a Muslim who has bad
		
00:47:40 --> 00:47:41
			character, but
		
00:47:42 --> 00:47:45
			is, like, religious, religious acting, you know, and
		
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			they hurt you,
		
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			and they're mean or harsh.
		
00:47:50 --> 00:47:52
			So the sheikh, he says.
		
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			The first character he talks about is the
		
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			generosity of the prophet We
		
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			know that the prophet is the most generous
		
00:48:06 --> 00:48:08
			of people. That's why said
		
00:48:11 --> 00:48:12
			the prophet is
		
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			generous like strong wind, meaning his generosity blows
		
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			everywhere.
		
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			It has no limits.
		
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			So the sheikh, he starts with generosity because
		
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			this is one of the most important qualities
		
00:48:24 --> 00:48:26
			of religious workers and teachers.
		
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			You know, you
		
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			have to be
		
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			generous to people if you wanna be an
		
00:48:32 --> 00:48:32
			iman,
		
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			if you wanna be a shayef,
		
00:48:35 --> 00:48:36
			if you wanna be a teacher,
		
00:48:36 --> 00:48:38
			if you wanna be Islamic studies teacher,
		
00:48:38 --> 00:48:40
			if you wanna teach the Quran, if you
		
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			wanna be
		
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			an influencer teaching people religion, you have to
		
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			be generous. You have to be generous with
		
00:48:46 --> 00:48:47
			your time,
		
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			you have to be generous with your health,
		
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			and you have to be generous with your
		
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			humility.
		
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			You know, you you have to be with
		
00:48:55 --> 00:48:56
			the people.
		
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			You can't allow
		
00:48:58 --> 00:49:00
			your religious accolades
		
00:49:00 --> 00:49:02
			to take you away from the people.
		
00:49:03 --> 00:49:05
			This is a trick of Shaytan because the
		
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			people are what made you.
		
00:49:07 --> 00:49:09
			And the people your fellow Muslim brothers and
		
00:49:09 --> 00:49:11
			sisters, they're the ones making dua for you.
		
00:49:11 --> 00:49:13
			So the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam when
		
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			you talk about his generosity,
		
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			it's in the following areas.
		
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			Number 1, with Allah.
		
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			With Allah. Meaning the prophet doesn't do any
		
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			haram.
		
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			There's no selfless self selfishness in his soul.
		
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			Everything is for Allah.
		
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			For Sayyidina Muhammad salallahu alaihi wa sallam is
		
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			generous with his life, with his breath, with
		
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			his blood, with his feet, with his time,
		
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			everything is for Allah.
		
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			Even when he sleeps, his heart doesn't sleep.
		
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			He's with
		
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			Allah, so he's generous. Some of us were
		
00:49:52 --> 00:49:53
			not generous
		
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			because we do we do evil. And when
		
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			we're evil, that means we're
		
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			or
		
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			The prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam, which means a
		
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			miser. The prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam said the
		
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			one is miserly who when they hear my
		
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			name, they don't say.
		
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			A miser to who to themselves because of
		
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			the rewards, the tremendous rewards when we hear
		
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			the prophet's name, we say.
		
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			Whoever sends
		
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			upon
		
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			me, Allah
		
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			will send
		
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			tin. Subhanallah.
		
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			Tin.
		
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			So the prophet Alaihi Salatu Wasallam,
		
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			his generosity
		
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			first with Allah
		
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			Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.
		
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			He he doesn't do any evil.
		
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			Everything is for Allah. The prophet said, whoever,
		
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			when my name is pronounced in front of
		
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			them, if they don't send salawat upon me,
		
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			this person is a miser
		
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			because they kept themselves away from the reward.
		
00:51:03 --> 00:51:03
			Also, the prophet
		
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			said the one who steals from his salah,
		
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			the one who steals
		
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			the the they're not generous with themselves.
		
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			How does someone steal from his or her
		
00:51:13 --> 00:51:16
			prayer? They don't pay attention in prayer. Their
		
00:51:16 --> 00:51:18
			mind is all over the place. They're not
		
00:51:18 --> 00:51:19
			functioning on the on the teachings of the
		
00:51:19 --> 00:51:22
			prayer. They're functioning on thinking about other stuff,
		
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			not focusing on
		
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			Allah not focusing on the prophet
		
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			not focusing on not focusing on the iman.
		
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			So the first type of generosity
		
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			is with
		
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			Allah
		
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			The second type of generosity,
		
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			of course, is with people that I talked
		
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			about earlier.
		
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			To be in
		
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			service
		
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			means you're humble.
		
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			You have to be with the people. You
		
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			have to serve the people. You can't let
		
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			it get to your head. You can't let
		
00:51:50 --> 00:51:51
			your knowledge make you feel like you can
		
00:51:51 --> 00:51:53
			look down and mistreat the Muslims.
		
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			You have to be generous with your patience,
		
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			generous with your forgiveness,
		
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			generous with your care,
		
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			generous to the the hearts of those who
		
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			are part of the ummah
		
00:52:05 --> 00:52:07
			of Sayidina Muhammad
		
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			The third, of course, is generosity with our
		
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			wealth,
		
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			that what Allah has given us.
		
00:52:14 --> 00:52:15
			We generously
		
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			spend it with others. And then finally,
		
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			is to be generous with our knowledge.
		
00:52:23 --> 00:52:24
			The prophet said,
		
00:52:26 --> 00:52:29
			whoever's asked about something and they hide it.
		
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			Allah will bridle that person with a bridle
		
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			made from.
		
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			So the sheikh, he says
		
00:52:47 --> 00:52:49
			from the generosity of Sayna Muhammad
		
00:52:53 --> 00:52:54
			is that the prophet
		
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			he never said no to anybody.
		
00:53:03 --> 00:53:05
			He never said no to anybody.
		
00:53:12 --> 00:53:14
			And for those of you on Instagram, it
		
00:53:14 --> 00:53:15
			looks like my
		
00:53:15 --> 00:53:17
			my phone was overheating. So
		
00:53:18 --> 00:53:20
			he said his generosity, the generosity of the
		
00:53:20 --> 00:53:21
			prophet,
		
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			first his generosity with his soul,
		
00:53:25 --> 00:53:27
			that he stays away from everything because he's
		
00:53:27 --> 00:53:30
			my soul. No disobedience to Allah, and his
		
00:53:30 --> 00:53:33
			life is for Allah. Us, are we generous
		
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			with our soul, or are we miserly with
		
00:53:35 --> 00:53:37
			our self? Are we generous with our hereafter,
		
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			or are we miserly with our hereafter?
		
00:53:40 --> 00:53:40
			The prophet
		
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			said, the one who hears my name and
		
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			doesn't say upon me, that person,
		
00:53:46 --> 00:53:48
			subhanAllah, is a miser.
		
00:53:48 --> 00:53:50
			The one who steals from his or her
		
00:53:50 --> 00:53:52
			prayer by not focusing on the prayer, that
		
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			person is a miser. So here we see
		
00:53:54 --> 00:53:55
			what I mean by generosity with Allah.
		
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			The second type of generosity is to be
		
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			generous with the people, with the community of
		
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			the prophet.
		
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			As we talked about earlier, religious worship or
		
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			religious leadership,
		
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			you have to be with the people, accessible,
		
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			humble, and you have to be patient with
		
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			people. It's not an easy it's not an
		
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			easy thing. It's not an easy thing. The
		
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			third we said is to be generous with
		
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			our wealth.
		
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			And Allah says,
		
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			there
		
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			is nothing you spend
		
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			except Allah
		
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			will give it back to you.
		
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			He's the best of providers.
		
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			And then finally, we said to be generous
		
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			with our knowledge,
		
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			not to hide our knowledge from the people.
		
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			Again, those who are on Instagram, sorry. My
		
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			phone,
		
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			my phone overheated, man.
		
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			Too much,
		
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			too much
		
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			upon the prophet. So the phone overheated, man.
		
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			So the Sheikh is a man,
		
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			So he said, the first
		
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			good character of the prophet
		
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			is that he never says no to anybody.
		
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			And if those of you on Instagram, if
		
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			it goes off,
		
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			you can go to the Swiss
		
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			Institute Instagram page. It's also
		
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			there as well.
		
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			May Allah bless your parents and bring peace
		
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			to your household. Yeah, Allah.
		
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			May
		
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			Allah bring so much peace and in your
		
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			household.
		
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			And the state of the prophet, meaning his
		
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			internal state. So his external state is he
		
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			never says no to anybody unless, of course,
		
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			there's something wrong. He
		
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			says no. So the first line, it talks
		
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			about the character
		
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			externally of the prophet. The second line,
		
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			is his heart.
		
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			The excellence of his heart,
		
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			That when he would say
		
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			yes to somebody, they will feel it from
		
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			his soul.
		
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			So beautiful. They'll feel it from his heart.
		
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			The prophet is secure for meaning when he's
		
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			around people, he makes them feel good.
		
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			Even when he disciplines them, they will feel
		
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			good.
		
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			And he forgives people when they make mistakes.
		
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			And whoever, like, sought the prophets companionship, whoever
		
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			needed like, maybe somebody asked you as an
		
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			imam or a sheikh, they come into your
		
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			DMs, like, I really need help with this.
		
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			Or maybe someone contacts you at your work.
		
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			Whoever reaches out to the prophet sallallahu alaihi
		
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			wasallam,
		
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			he'll be there for them.
		
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			So these two qualities, number 1, he's generous
		
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			in his words and in his song. Number
		
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			2,
		
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			if people need him, he's there to help
		
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			them.
		
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			And finally, the last one.
		
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			And this is the 4th quad. The prophet
		
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			is not a sellout.
		
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			That the prophet cannot be bought.
		
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			So his principles and character
		
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			refused a meld. I mean, no one can
		
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			sell him out.
		
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			No one can offer him something that will
		
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			cause him to sell out the hat
		
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			even if it's a mountain of gold.
		
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			Because his protector, his lord gave him Isma,
		
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			gave him what we call al Isma al
		
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			Masu.
		
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			The next line,
		
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			And that the prophet was sent by Allah
		
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			to everybody,
		
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			to all people as a guide and a
		
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			mercy.
		
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			To all creation
		
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			and all communities. We're gonna stop here
		
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			and tomorrow night we're gonna finish up.
		
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			And then hopefully by next week, maybe Tuesday,
		
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			Wednesday before 8, we'll finish the entire poem.
		
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			Again,
		
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			you know, we really need your support and
		
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			help to maintain our school and to grow
		
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			it and to scale it. And if you're
		
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			enjoying our teaching and our style of teaching,
		
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			come and be one of our students
		
00:58:09 --> 00:58:11
			at in the summer. We plan to start
		
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			our full time seminary.
		
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			You can visit suhayweb.com.
		
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			We have a number of classes starting soon.
		
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			May Allah bless you and give you good
		
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			in this life in the next.
		
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			Always a pleasure. My apologies to the Instagram
		
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			folks. The phone overheated, man. Too many.
		
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			Too much iman from the people watching.
		
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			We praise Allah.
		
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			We send peace and blessings upon
		
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			our beloved Messenger Muhammad Sallallahu
		
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			Alaihi Wasallam upon his companions, his family and
		
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			those who follow them until the end of
		
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			time, alhamdulillah.
		
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			Assalamu Alaikum Rahmatullahi
		
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			to our brothers and sisters.
		
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			Welcome back to our explanation of the which
		
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			is a poem
		
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			about, like, the prophet
		
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			and the miracles of the prophet
		
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			And last time,
		
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			we talked about his miracles. And now we're
		
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			moving on to his character.
		
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			And before we start to talk about his
		
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			character,
		
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			we know that character is divided into different
		
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			components.
		
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			And the prophet, peace be upon him, he
		
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			is the best in all components of character,
		
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			but specifically
		
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			with Allah
		
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			That's why Allah
		
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			says about him peace be upon him,
		
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			that indeed, oh, Muhammad, peace be upon him,
		
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			you are on the highest level of character.
		
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			And we know that the prophet, peace be
		
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			upon him, he said, indeed, I was only
		
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			sent to reform
		
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			and complete
		
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			good character.
		
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			So the first is his character with Allah,
		
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			how he interacts with Allah. What we call
		
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			his interactions with God, his creator,
		
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			are the best.
		
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			And that's why when Allah
		
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			talks about the prophet, peace be upon him,
		
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			he recognizes him as our example.
		
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			As Allah says in the 33rd chapter of
		
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			the Quran verse 21,
		
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			Indeed in the messenger of Allah, you have
		
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			the best example to follow.
		
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			And Allah who
		
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			commands us to
		
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			obey the commands of the prophet
		
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			and to distance ourselves away from his prohibitions
		
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			when he says
		
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			whatever the prophet has brought to you, take
		
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			it.
		
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			And what the prophet has prohibited for you,
		
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			you must avoid it. So the first is
		
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			the character
		
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			of the prophet with Allah, how he engages
		
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			his worship.
		
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			And that's why often in the Quran,
		
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			Allah
		
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			describes the prophet as what Abba did,
		
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			the ultimate servant,
		
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			The greatest to worship
		
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			Allah.
		
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			But that being no contradiction
		
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			in his incredible character with Allah
		
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			and his his incredible character with others.
		
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			For example, say to Aisha, the wife of
		
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			the prophet, peace be upon him, when people
		
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			ask her, how was the prophet in his
		
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			home?
		
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			She said,
		
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			which
		
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			means he used to serve us.
		
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			And she would talk about his prayers at
		
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			night
		
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			and how the prophet, peace be upon him,
		
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			at home, his worship was even more intense
		
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			than in public
		
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			to the point that one time she said
		
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			to him, like, Allah has forgiven you.
		
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			Why are you, like, so hard on yourself?
		
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			And he said, make sure not be thankful,
		
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			devoted to Allah. So first is his character
		
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			with Allah. 2nd is his character with his
		
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			family,
		
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			Peace be upon him. As he said, one
		
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			time, even his wife, she was riding on
		
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			a bumpy in,
		
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			like, a bumpy path.
		
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			So he said,
		
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			like, take it easy. Be easy with the
		
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			crystal. He compared his wife, Sayda Aisha, to
		
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			crystal, and he
		
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			said to show his empathy, his mercy,
		
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			and his care.
		
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			With his own daughter, Zaynab,
		
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			when her son was very ill, The prophet,
		
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			peace be upon him, visited her, and he
		
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			cried when he saw her ill son, and
		
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			he made dua for her ill son. So
		
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			when you talk about the great character of
		
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			the prophet religiously,
		
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			there's no contradiction between that and his family.
		
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			The third is the character of the prophet,
		
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			peace be upon him.
		
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			With those community members,
		
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			whether they were successful or whether they were
		
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			struggling,
		
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			whether they were rich, whether they were poor,
		
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			whether they were Arab or not Arab, Or
		
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			the prophet,
		
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			he is
		
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			as the Hadith of.
		
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			He said that we begin to argue which
		
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			one of us does the prophet love the
		
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			most because they were generally confused
		
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			because there is no stratification between how the
		
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			prophet treats people. He treats all people the
		
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			same
		
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			in his community.
		
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			And so he said, I went to the
		
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			prophet, and
		
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			I
		
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			said, who do you love the most?
		
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			And the prophet said, Aisha.
		
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			Say to Aisha. And he said,
		
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			from the
		
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			her father, peace be upon him. So the
		
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			prophet
		
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			were talking now about his good character
		
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			with Allah, but then it's not enough to
		
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			be a religious person,
		
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			but also with his family,
		
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			with his community,
		
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			and then with non Muslims.
		
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			So for example, the Jewish neighbor of the
		
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			prophet in Sahih Bukhari, when his son was
		
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			ill, the prophet went to his home.
		
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			In the sunnah and Nasai, when the Jewish
		
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			funeral
		
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			passed by the prophet,
		
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			he stood up and the sahaba said, you
		
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			stand it up for a Jewish funeral. He
		
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			said, it's a soul.
		
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			So the prophet, sallallahu alaihi wasallam, even with
		
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			others, the Bedouin Arabs who used to live
		
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			around him, he would be so generous to
		
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			them that some of them would go back
		
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			to their people and say, like, there's no
		
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			one more generous and kind
		
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			than the prophet.
		
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			So the point here,
		
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			when we talk about
		
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			and
		
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			the the
		
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			the we're talking about comprehensive
		
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			character.
		
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			There's no dichotomy between the masjid and the
		
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			home,
		
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			the masjid and the streets,
		
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			the masjid and the school.
		
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			SubhanAllah, I remember there was years ago, a
		
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			brother, he he his father would drop him
		
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			off at at the school, and he would
		
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			be dressed a certain way. And then, brother,
		
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			he will go change his clothes after his
		
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			father drops him off, and he dressed completely
		
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			different,
		
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			like, in ways that are unbecoming of a
		
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			Muslim man.
		
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			That kind of dichotomy,
		
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			the prophet doesn't have it.
		
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			So now after talking about numerous miracles
		
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			of the prophet,
		
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			we're gonna talk about his character. And one
		
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			of the best examples of his character is
		
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			what we should be doing on these 10
		
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			nights.
		
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			As the prophet said, whoever stands in praise
		
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			in these nights will be forgiven.
		
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			Whoever stands in these nights with fear and
		
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			with hope and faith will be forgiven.
		
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			And one of the beautiful du'a that we
		
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			learned from the heart of the prophet that
		
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			we should all learn.
		
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			And if somebody can write the transliteration
		
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			in the comments, it's gonna be really helpful
		
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			to people.
		
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			Is the dua that when say to Aisha
		
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			ask him, like, what should we be seeing
		
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			on these nights?
		
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			What should we be seeing in these last
		
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			nights of Ramadan? And the prophet said, Allahumma.
		
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			The word Allahumma,
		
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			it doesn't just mean oh Allah.
		
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			Oftentimes in the Arabic language, we have a
		
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			letter mem, and the letter mem,
		
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			it is used to show plurality.
		
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			I'll give you an example of what I
		
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			mean. If you speak Arabic, it's very easy.
		
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			Is singular.
		
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			Is plural.
		
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			Is singular.
		
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			Is plural.
		
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			Is singular. Whom with me is plural. So
		
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			you can see here a pattern that the
		
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			letter meme in ancient Arabic,
		
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			it carries with it the meaning of plurality.
		
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			So when say the Muhammad
		
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			says,
		
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			we understand there's plurality here.
		
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			So it means more than you Allah.
		
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			When you say Allah,
		
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			when you raise your hands,
		
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			you beg Allah
		
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			You say Allah You're
		
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			calling on Allah by all his names and
		
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			attributes that you know.
		
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			All of the names and attributes that Allah
		
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			has revealed to us. SubhanAllah.
		
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			So it's not just you Allah. It's Allah.
		
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			In is used
		
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			when someone
		
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			doubts. So, like,
		
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			if, say, someone came to visit you
		
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			and and your,
		
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			you know, your parents or your husband or
		
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			spouse said to you, such and such is
		
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			here.
		
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			You
		
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			might be like, I don't know. What if
		
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			they said,
		
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			you know,
		
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			If they said it,
		
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			this is meant
		
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			to remove your doubts.
		
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			So but what it means, the word
		
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			it's oftentimes, it's context can either be to
		
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			remove doubts if you think the person doesn't
		
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			believe you
		
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			or to increase the certainty of someone who
		
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			believes.
		
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			SubhanAllah.
		
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			So now when you say Allah,
		
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			you call on Allah by all his names.
		
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			The Quran says Allah has the best names,
		
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			call him.
		
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			And sometimes when I talk to generation z,
		
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			they tell me, like, I feel far away
		
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			from Islam.
		
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			I feel like I don't really know Islam.
		
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			If you wanna know Islam,
		
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			learn the names of Allah.
		
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			SubhanAllah, the names of Allah will be your
		
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			best friend.
		
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			Wherever you go in life, you'll find his
		
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			names with you.
		
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			The Quran says Allah has the most beautiful
		
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			names.
		
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			Call make dua to him by those names.
		
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			So imagine when you say
		
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			all the names of Allah.
		
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			In, and you say indeed. The question is,
		
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			like, you said
		
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			is for someone who doubts
		
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			or
		
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			is to increase someone's certainty.
		
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			Because maybe some of us, we came into
		
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			these last 10 nights, we have a lot
		
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			of mistakes.
		
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			And what I noticed most people, their mistakes
		
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			aren't that bad, but their insecurities
		
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			amplify their mistakes.
		
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			Or maybe they have people around them
		
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			who
		
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			reinforce their mistakes in ways that are unhealthy.
		
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			So they become overcome by their sense of
		
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			guilt. Man, the whole month of Ramadan, I
		
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			didn't do this. I made this mistake, you
		
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			know, and that person begins to doubt.
		
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			Maybe Allah will not forgive
		
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			me. Maybe Allah will not not accept me.
		
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			So what do you say?
		
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			In in the you. So that Muslim
		
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			who comes into that dua,
		
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			who pushes into that dua
		
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			and feels no hope,
		
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			that inner is meant to remind you,
		
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			don't give up.
		
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			Don't give up on Allah.
		
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			If you gave up on yourself, don't give
		
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			up on Allah.
		
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			If you fear your sins, find hope in
		
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			his mercy.
		
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			If you think he won't forgive you,
		
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			indeed you.
		
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			And
		
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			somebody
		
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			who already has that Yaqeen,
		
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			the in there is meant to strengthen you.
		
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			To strengthen the iman of the people. So
		
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			imagine,
		
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			subhanAllah,
		
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			how beautiful is this dua that
		
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			the prophet
		
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			taught us to
		
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			say,
		
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			Allah Oh Allah,
		
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			without a doubt you you what?
		
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			The word
		
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			The best way to understand the meanings of
		
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			dua and the meanings of the Quran is
		
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			with the Quran.
		
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			One of my teachers used to say,
		
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			That's a Quran is a dictionary for someone
		
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			who doesn't have a dictionary.
		
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			People ask how to learn Arabic, be with
		
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			the Quran.
		
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			So this word, Allahummaimnaqa'afoo.
		
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			Oh, Allah, you are Afu.
		
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			The word we find its usage in the
		
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			Quran is.
		
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			Yes.
		
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			They ask you what should they spend. Say
		
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			They should spend. You know what means?
		
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			Means
		
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			means extra.
		
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			The word, it's it's meaning in Arabic
		
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			is
		
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			meaning
		
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			it's beyond the norm.
		
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			It's added to the norm.
		
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			So what does it mean when we say
		
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			Allah Oh Allah, you are a woman. We're
		
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			asking
		
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			Allah. We're asking Allah for extra. What is
		
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			the extra?
		
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			Extra rama.
		
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			Because the is
		
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			the one who has the right to punish
		
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			but
		
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			forgives.
		
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			He extends
		
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			his forgiveness.
		
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			So
		
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			I deserve to be punished.
		
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			I've made mistakes,
		
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			but you're a full moon.
		
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			You're the one who
		
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			pardons mistakes.
		
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			So when you push into this this dua,
		
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			you're pushing into something very powerful, man.
		
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			Something transformative.
		
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			You love to pardon.
		
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			You love to forgive.
		
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			So he said,
		
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			the word means to add.
		
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			Yes.
		
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			So I'm asking Allah for an increase in
		
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			what?
		
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			Think about it, brothers and sisters. Think about
		
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			all the mistakes we made this month of
		
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			Ramadan.
		
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			Think about all of the the shortcomings that
		
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			we fell into,
		
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			and think about how we fear the sins
		
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			waiting for us after the month of Ramadan.
		
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			So we flee to Allah.
		
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			And we ask Allah,
		
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			give me more than I deserve.
		
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			That's actually what means.
		
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			Give me more than I deserve.
		
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			More of what? Your forgiveness.
		
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			You
		
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			love
		
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			You love to do that.
		
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			You love to pardon.
		
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			You love to forgive.
		
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			So pardon
		
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			us.
		
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			This dua that the prophet
		
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			taught us to say,
		
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			on these nights,
		
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			it's so powerful.
		
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			Allah,
		
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			all of Allah's names.
		
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			In to
		
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			reassure myself,
		
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			don't don't doubt it. In Neka, indeed you,
		
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			You are the one who gives an increase
		
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			more than I deserve in parting pardoning and
		
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			mercy.
		
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			To
		
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			and you love to do it.
		
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			So forgive us.
		
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			This is from the beautiful character of the
		
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			prophet
		
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			I just want to stop for a moment
		
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			and tell you guys, a lot of people
		
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			ask me, how can we help you? We
		
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			really appreciate you doing the work that you
		
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			Brothers and sisters.
		
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			Don't say to yourself,
		
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			I'm not a good Muslim. Don't listen to
		
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			those insecurities.
		
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			It's only $9.99
		
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			And in the summer, we're gonna start our
		
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			full term
		
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			seminary program with, like, students that really wanna
		
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			study in a religious way. So we ask
		
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			a lot to make it easy for us.
		
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			But if you want to translate your,
		
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			affection for me and your appreciation for me,
		
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			$9.99 a month is like 2 cups of
		
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			coffee, man. And that's cheap coffee. That's not
		
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			expensive coffee.
		
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			That takes us now to the poem that
		
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			we've been reading, and we reached the section
		
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			on the character of the prophet, peace be
		
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			upon him. And we said the character of
		
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			the prophet is very important because sometimes we
		
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			run into religious people
		
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			who are are eerily treat us.
		
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			And especially online, man, people just be taken
		
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			off people's heads, man. Even in Ramadan, I
		
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			don't understand it. I didn't I wasn't subhanallah,
		
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			I wasn't,
		
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			I wasn't raised that way in my Islam,
		
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			you know, to be going at it like
		
01:16:45 --> 01:16:47
			that. I was raised to to study and
		
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			try to be good to people
		
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			so that we study the character of Sayidina
		
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			Muhammad
		
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			so when we run into people that may
		
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			not live up to the prophetic character, it
		
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			doesn't impact our iman.
		
01:17:00 --> 01:17:02
			Because sometimes nothing can hurt you more
		
01:17:03 --> 01:17:04
			than a Muslim
		
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			who
		
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			has bad character,
		
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			but
		
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			is, like, religious, like, religious acting, you know,
		
01:17:11 --> 01:17:12
			and they hurt
		
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			you. They're mean or harsh.
		
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			So the sheikh, he says,
		
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			The first character he talks about is the
		
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			generosity of the prophet
		
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			We know that the prophet is the most
		
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			generous of people.
		
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			That's why
		
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			said the prophet is
		
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			generous like strong wind. Meaning, his generosity blows
		
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			everywhere.
		
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			It has no limits.
		
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			So the sheikh, he starts with generosity because
		
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			this is one of the most important qualities
		
01:17:50 --> 01:17:52
			of religious workers and teachers.
		
01:17:53 --> 01:17:53
			You know,
		
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			you have to be
		
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			generous to people if you wanna be an
		
01:17:58 --> 01:17:58
			iman,
		
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			if you wanna be a shayef,
		
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			if you wanna be a teacher, if you
		
01:18:03 --> 01:18:05
			wanna be Islamic studies teacher, if you wanna
		
01:18:05 --> 01:18:08
			teach the Quran, if you wanna be
		
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			an influencer teaching people religion, you have to
		
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			be generous. You have to be generous with
		
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			your time.
		
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			You have to be generous with your health,
		
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			and you have to be generous with your
		
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			humility.
		
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			You know, you you have to be with
		
01:18:21 --> 01:18:22
			the people.
		
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			You can't allow your religious accolades
		
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			to take you away from the people. This
		
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			is a trick of shaitan because the people
		
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			are what made you.
		
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			And the people your fellow Muslim brothers and
		
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			sisters, they're the ones making dua for you.
		
01:18:38 --> 01:18:40
			So the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam when you
		
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			talk about his generosity,
		
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			it's in the following areas.
		
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			Number 1, with Allah.
		
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			With Allah. Meaning the Prophet doesn't do any
		
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			haram.
		
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			There's no selfless self selfishness in his soul.
		
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			Everything is for Allah.
		
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			For Sayyidina Muhammad salallahu alaihi wa sallam is
		
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			generous with his life, with his breath, with
		
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			his blood, with his feet, with his time.
		
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			Everything is for Allah.
		
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			Even when he sleeps, his heart doesn't sleep.
		
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			Sallallahu alaihi wasallam. He's with Allah,
		
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			so he's generous. Some of us who are
		
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			not generous
		
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			because we do we do evil. And when
		
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			we're evil, that means we're bukhala, we're baheer.
		
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			The prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam, which means a
		
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			miser. The prophet said the one is miserly
		
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			who when they hear my name, they don't
		
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			say
		
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			A miser to who to themselves because of
		
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			the rewards, the tremendous rewards when we hear
		
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			the prophet's name, we
		
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			say
		
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			Whoever sends salawat upon me,
		
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			Allah
		
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			will send
		
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			tin. Subhanallah, tin.
		
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			Upon
		
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			them. So the prophet
		
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			his generosity
		
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			first with Allah.
		
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			Subhanahu wa ta'ala.
		
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			He he doesn't do any evil.
		
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			Everything is for Allah. The prophet said, whoever
		
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			when my name is pronounced in front of
		
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			them, if they don't send salawat upon me,
		
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			this person is a miser
		
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			because they kept themselves away from the reward.
		
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			Also, the prophet
		
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			said the one who steals from his salah,
		
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			the one who steals
		
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			the the they're not generous with themselves.
		
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			How does someone steal from his or her
		
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			prayer? They don't pay attention to prayer. Their
		
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			mind is all over the place. They're not
		
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			functioning on the on the teachings of the
		
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			prayer. They're functioning on thinking about other stuff,
		
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			not focusing on Allah
		
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			not focusing on the prophet
		
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			not focusing on not focusing on iman.
		
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			So the first type of generosity
		
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			is with Allah
		
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			The second type of generosity, of course, is
		
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			with people that I talked about earlier.
		
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			To be in religious
		
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			service.
		
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			Means you're humble.
		
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			You have to be with the people. You
		
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			have to serve the people. You can't let
		
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			it get to your head. You can't let
		
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			your knowledge make you feel like you can
		
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			look down and mistreat the Muslims.
		
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			You
		
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			have to be generous with your patience,
		
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			generous with your forgiveness,
		
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			generous with your care,
		
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			generous to the
		
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			the hearts of those who are part of
		
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			the ummah
		
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			of Sayna Muhammad
		
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			The third, of course, is generosity with our
		
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			wealth.
		
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			That what Allah has given us,
		
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			we generously spend it with others. And then
		
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			finally,
		
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			is to be generous with our knowledge.
		
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			The prophet said,
		
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			whoever has asked about something and they hide
		
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			it.
		
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			Allah will bridle that person with a bridle
		
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			made from hellfire.
		
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			So the sheikh, he says
		
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			from the generosity of Sayna Muhammad
		
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			Is that the prophet
		
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			he never said no to anybody.
		
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			He never said no to
		
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			anybody.
		
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			For those of you on Instagram, it looks
		
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			like my
		
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			my phone was overheating. So
		
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			he said his generosity,
		
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			the generosity of the prophet, salallahu alayhi wasalam,
		
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			first his generosity with his soul,
		
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			that he stays away from everything because he's
		
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			Masul,
		
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			no disobedience to Allah and his life is
		
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			for Allah. Us, are we generous with our
		
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			soul or are we miserly with ourself? Are
		
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			we generous with our hereafter, or are we
		
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			miserly with our hereafter?
		
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			The prophet said,
		
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			the one who hears my name and doesn't
		
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			say salawat upon me, that person,
		
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			subhanAllah,
		
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			is a miser. The one who steals from
		
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			his or her prayer by not focusing on
		
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			the prayer, that person is a miser. So
		
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			here we see what I mean by generosity
		
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			with Allah.
		
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			The second type of generosity is to be
		
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			generous with the people, with the community of
		
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			the prophet.
		
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			As we talked about earlier, religious worship or
		
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			religious leadership,
		
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			you have to be with the people, accessible,
		
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			humble, and you have to be patient with
		
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			people. It's not an easy it's not an
		
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			easy thing. It's not an easy thing. The
		
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			third we said is to be generous with
		
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			our wealth.
		
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			And Allah says,
		
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			there's
		
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			nothing you spend
		
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			except Allah will give it back to you.
		
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			He's the best of providers.
		
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			And then finally, we said to be generous
		
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			with our knowledge,
		
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			not to hide our knowledge from the people.
		
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			Again, those who go on Instagram, sorry. My
		
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			phone,
		
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			my phone overheated, man.
		
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			Too much,
		
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			too much
		
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			upon the prophet. So the phone overheated, man.
		
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			So the sheikh is a man, Judy
		
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			So he said, the first
		
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			good character of the prophet is that he
		
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			never says no to anybody. And if those
		
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			of you on Instagram, if it goes off,
		
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			you can go to the Swiss
		
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			Swahibur Institute Instagram page. It's also
		
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			there as well. May Allah bless your parents
		
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			and bring peace to your household, you Allah.
		
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			May
		
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			Allah bring so much peace and in your
		
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			household.
		
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			And
		
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			the state of the prophet, meaning his internal
		
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			state. So his external state is he never
		
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			says no to anybody unless, of course, there's
		
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			something wrong. He says no. So the first
		
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			line, it talks about the character
		
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			externally of the prophet. The second line
		
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			is his heart.
		
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			The excellence of his heart,
		
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			That when he would say
		
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			yes to somebody, they will feel it from
		
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			his soul.
		
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			So beautiful. They'll feel it from his heart.
		
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			The
		
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			prophet is the cure for meaning, when he's
		
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			around people, he makes them feel good.
		
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			Even when he disciplines them, they will feel
		
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			good. And
		
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			he forgives people when they make mistakes.
		
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			And whoever, like, sought the prophets companionship, whoever
		
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			needed like, maybe somebody ask you as an
		
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			imam or a sheikh, they come into your
		
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			DMs, like, I really need help with this.
		
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			Or Or maybe someone contacts you at your
		
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			work.
		
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			Whoever reaches out to the prophet sallallahu alaihi
		
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			wasalam,
		
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			he'll be there for them.
		
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			So these two qualities, number 1, he's generous
		
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			in his words and in his
		
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			number 2,
		
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			if people need him, he's there to help
		
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			them.
		
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			And finally, the last one.
		
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			And this is the 4th quote. The prophet
		
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			is not a sellout.
		
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			That the prophet cannot be bought.
		
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			So his principles and character
		
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			refused
		
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			a meld. And no one can sell him
		
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			out.
		
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			No one can offer him something that will
		
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			cause him to sell out the hack
		
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			even if it's a mountain of gold.
		
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			Because his protector, his lord gave him Ishmael,
		
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			gave him what we call.
		
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			The next line,
		
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			And that the prophet was sent by Allah
		
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			to everybody,
		
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			to all people as a guide and a
		
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			mercy.
		
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			To all creation
		
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			and all communities. We're gonna stop here insha'allah
		
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			and tomorrow night we're gonna finish
		
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			up. And then hopefully by next week, maybe
		
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			Tuesday, Wednesday before 8, we'll finish the entire
		
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			poem.
		
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			Again,
		
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			you know, we really need your support and
		
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			help to maintain our school and to grow
		
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			it and to scale it. And if you're
		
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			enjoying our teaching and our style of teaching,
		
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			come and be one of our students at
		
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			in the summer. We plan to start our
		
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			full time seminary.
		
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			You can visit suhayweb.com.
		
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			We have a number of classes starting soon.
		
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			May Allah
		
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			bless you and give you good in this
		
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			life in the next
		
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			always a pleasure. My apologies to the Instagram
		
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			folks. The phone overheated, man. Too many
		
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			too much from the people watching.