Sikander Hashmi – Making Marriage Easy Friday Message

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The COVID-19 lockdown has impacted people, particularly those preparing for wedding celebrations. It is important for strong and healthy families to avoid cultural differences and to find a suitable partner. It is crucial to avoid bringing too many guests to a wedding, create pathways to earlier marriage for children, and work towards a way to get married without bringing too many people. The importance of working towards a marriage is emphasized, and finding suitable partners is emphasized.

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			Respected elders, dear brothers and sisters, my young
		
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			friends,
		
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			We begin by praising Allah
		
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			the Lord of the universe,
		
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			our creator, our designer, our nourisher,
		
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			and that of the entire universe.
		
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			And we send peace and salutations upon his
		
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			beloved messenger,
		
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			Muhammad, the son of Abdullah,
		
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			sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.
		
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			I hope
		
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			and pray that you're all well by the
		
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			mercy of Allah
		
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			my brothers and sisters.
		
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			The lockdown
		
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			is now over,
		
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			at least here in Ottawa, and, the stay
		
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			at home home order is over as well.
		
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			And,
		
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			we are once again open for public,
		
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			Friday prayers.
		
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			Not totally back to normal, of course, because,
		
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			as you probably remember,
		
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			we normally used to offer, at
		
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			the witchcraft preparation complex, which is still not
		
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			available,
		
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			to us,
		
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			to use, for Friday prayer. But we are
		
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			open at our own location,
		
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			with registration though, of course. And we have,
		
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			of course, capacity limits 30% of capacity
		
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			and masks is required and, physical distancing required
		
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			and prayer mats, required, to bring with you
		
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			as well. Now,
		
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			globally
		
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			and in Canada,
		
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			we find that the COVID,
		
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			numbers
		
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			are dropping.
		
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			That is, a great sign.
		
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			It's the mercy of Allah combined
		
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			with
		
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			or through manifested through, for example, perhaps vaccines
		
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			or
		
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			the efforts,
		
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			the the, measures that everyone was trying to
		
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			practice during the lockdown,
		
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			whatever the means may be. But at the
		
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			end of the day, it's from Allah
		
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			and we can't thank Allah
		
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			enough for his blessings in all circumstances.
		
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			But sadly, my brothers and sisters, even with
		
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			the the positivity
		
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			and the the proverbial,
		
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			light at the end of the tunnel being
		
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			becoming apparent,
		
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			we are hearing of more and more cases
		
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			of loved ones,
		
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			and friends,
		
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			of members of our community,
		
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			of our brothers and sisters, succumbing to the
		
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			disease.
		
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			And some of whom are in very serious
		
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			condition.
		
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			So we ask Allah to
		
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			shower His mercy and forgiveness,
		
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			His, Makfah, His Rahma upon those who have
		
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			returned to Him.
		
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			We ask Allah
		
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			to elevate their status in Jannah, to grant
		
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			them the best place in Jannah to fill
		
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			those, and we ask Allah
		
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			to grant a speedy who come and complete
		
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			recovery
		
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			to those who are ill.
		
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			Now my brothers and sisters, believe it or
		
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			not, we are now 1 week
		
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			into the month of Rajab,
		
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			which means that we are just
		
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			7 weeks away from the month of Ramadan.
		
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			And this, the month of Rajab, is the
		
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			time to start planning,
		
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			to start getting, mentally prepared,
		
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			because, you know, once again this year, we
		
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			don't know what Ramadan is going to look
		
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			like,
		
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			what it's going to be like this time
		
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			around. But what we can do,
		
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			and, of course, that's something that we can't
		
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			control. So we don't know, you know, what
		
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			the situation is going to be 7 weeks
		
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			from now. We don't know what type of
		
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			restrictions are gonna be in place for, Sela
		
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			Salawy, for example, and if stars and things
		
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			like that. But so, I mean so those
		
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			are the things we can't control, but the
		
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			thing that we can control
		
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			is our mindset and our attitude. Right? So
		
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			we can develop a positive attitude, a positive
		
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			mindset,
		
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			and we can make God, of course, and
		
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			ask Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala to grant us
		
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			another blessed Ramadan,
		
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			one that so many have not been able
		
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			or will not be able to experience,
		
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			this year.
		
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			And subhanAllah, you know, speaking of Ramadan,
		
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			we noticed that time flies
		
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			and it's soon going to be a one
		
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			complete year
		
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			since
		
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			COVID restrictions began and our lives changed. Right?
		
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			So we've gone through all the seasons. We've
		
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			gone through Ramadan, Yared, the tour aid,
		
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			and, we find ourselves now in almost the
		
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			same place as we were last year when
		
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			all of this started.
		
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			So it's been, almost one complete year now.
		
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			And, subhanAllah, you know, even decades
		
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			seem to fly by. Right? Because we've become
		
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			so occupied in our lives and we're so
		
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			busy
		
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			and, you know, we don't have time to
		
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			think about the past which sometimes is a
		
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			good thing because we don't wanna think about
		
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			things which are gonna, you know, hold us
		
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			back or put us down.
		
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			But, subhanallah, you know, even decades seem to
		
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			fly by fly by, like, for myself personally,
		
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			I will soon, Insha'Allah,
		
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			will
		
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			be starting my 8th year in Canada. So
		
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			it's been 8 years. It's funny because sometimes,
		
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			you know, brothers and sisters will approach and
		
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			say, okay, you know, how long have you
		
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			been here? It's been 2 years. It's been
		
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			3 years. You know, it's been 5 years,
		
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			but, subhanallah,
		
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			7 years are gonna be over, very soon,
		
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			and inshallah, it'll be the 8th year. May
		
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			Allah bless you, and increase you all in,
		
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			your goodness and your love.
		
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			Kids, you know, who I saw,
		
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			as young children, you know, are now teens.
		
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			And it's actually very interesting because once in
		
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			a while, you know, a parent
		
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			will share on Facebook, you know, a memory,
		
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			a picture of their children from some years
		
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			ago.
		
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			And, it's like, subhanallah, you know, it was
		
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			just like it was just yesterday when they
		
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			were looking like that.
		
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			So children who are just I saw, you
		
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			know, as young kids when I came, they're
		
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			now teenagers,
		
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			Those who are teens or who were in
		
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			their teens, they're now getting married or have
		
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			already, you know, are already married, masha'Allah.
		
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			Subhanahu wa
		
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			ta'ala protect them and bless them all.
		
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			Now, speaking of which, one of the things
		
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			that we've been hearing
		
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			over and over again during the pandemic
		
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			is how much money was saved by getting
		
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			married during the pandemic.
		
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			That is actually very interesting,
		
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			because, of course, the celebrations
		
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			have been toned down,
		
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			severely during the lockdown, of course, or stay
		
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			at home, or even
		
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			not during stay at home order but before
		
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			the stay at home order. You know, with
		
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			limits of only, 10 people, actually you technically,
		
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			you could have still got married during the
		
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			stay at home order as well in a
		
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			place of worship or a public facility. Well,
		
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			the limit of 10 people.
		
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			And, no doubt it must have been difficult,
		
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			you know, for the people especially who had
		
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			planned to get married during the winter break
		
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			long before or they were planning to get
		
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			married in the summer and then they pushed
		
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			it to the to the winter break thinking
		
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			that things may have been, you know, will
		
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			be,
		
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			will have opened up by then and instead
		
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			another lockdown came and they had to rush
		
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			it. So no doubt it must have been
		
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			difficult to be separated from loved ones, you
		
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			know, during that special occasion not being, able
		
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			to have, you know, all your family members
		
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			with you for that special moment,
		
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			or even for the * because only 10
		
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			people. Right? So I mean, if there's 2
		
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			families, obviously,
		
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			when a couple are getting married then there's
		
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			not very many people, even close relatives,
		
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			who are able to join.
		
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			And especially for those, you know, who had
		
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			plans and dreams of a particular type of
		
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			wedding, you know, sort of a grand,
		
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			event something that, you know, they've been dreaming
		
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			about or thinking about or planning for for
		
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			some time.
		
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			Of course, this must have been very difficult.
		
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			But on the other hand, my brothers and
		
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			sisters,
		
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			consider it to be
		
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			another, perhaps, another one of the
		
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			corrective
		
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			side effects.
		
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			What do I call it? The corrective side
		
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			effects
		
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			of this pandemic.
		
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			Giving us a practical real life immersion
		
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			into how things
		
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			perhaps should be.
		
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			Uh-huh. Because a lot of times we think
		
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			we hear, okay, yes, this is what is
		
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			better. This is how it should be. This
		
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			is how it was in the time of
		
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			the prophet salallahu alayhi wasalam. This is how
		
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			it was, you know, this is how the
		
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			Sahaba used to do it. This is how
		
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			things should be ideally, but, you know, today's
		
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			times have changed and we can't do it
		
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			anymore and it's difficult and this and that.
		
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			Then all of a sudden, boom, we're pushed
		
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			right into it. Right? All of a sudden,
		
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			we're pushed right into it.
		
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			The prophet sallallahu alayhi wasalam
		
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			has said that
		
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			that the best of marriages
		
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			is that and it's translated in different ways.
		
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			That which is, you know, the one that
		
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			is most easy or the one that is
		
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			most
		
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			affordable.
		
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			Right? And we know, my brothers and sisters,
		
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			that
		
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			strong,
		
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			healthy families
		
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			are the foundation of a strong and healthy
		
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			society.
		
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			Right? Strong, healthy families are a foundation of
		
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			a strong and healthy society.
		
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			If families are weak and are unhealthy, then
		
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			society is going to be weak and it's
		
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			going to be unhealthy.
		
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			If families are strong and are healthy, then
		
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			automatically,
		
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			society will also become strong and will also
		
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			become healthy as well in different ways.
		
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			So this is an issue.
		
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			Right? When we talk about marriage because, you
		
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			know, you may be thinking, well, my yeah.
		
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			My kids are very young right now or
		
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			my children are already married. So whatever, you
		
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			know or I'm not married yet or, you
		
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			know, or I'm already done. So, you know,
		
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			this is an issue that should be of
		
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			concern to all of us because it affects
		
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			us all and we all have a role
		
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			to play. Either you have children who are
		
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			gonna get married at some point or you
		
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			have grandchildren who are gonna get married at
		
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			some point or, you know, you have friends
		
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			and relatives who have children who are gonna
		
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			get married. You have people in your community
		
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			who are unmarried who need to get married.
		
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			So this is an issue that impacts all
		
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			of us and therefore it should be of
		
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			concern to all of us and we all,
		
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			should know that we have a role to
		
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			play. Now marriage, of course, is a sunnah
		
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			of the Prophet
		
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			and indeed pretty much nearly all of the
		
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			prophets
		
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			that we know of. You know, hardly you
		
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			will hear
		
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			of a prophet
		
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			who, you know, did not get married or
		
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			of, you know, the great Sahaba,
		
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			companions of the prophet
		
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			who did not get married. So it is
		
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			a tradition, an established tradition,
		
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			which shows us that it is something that
		
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			even the pious of people
		
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			not only practice but also
		
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			encourage as well. The prophet,
		
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			you know,
		
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			was very clear in his advice that he
		
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			had given, you know, to the young companions.
		
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			So Abdullah ibn Mas'ud, radiAllahu anhu, he narrated
		
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			that we were with the prophet sallallahu alaihi
		
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			wasallam.
		
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			Well, we had nothing. We were youth, and
		
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			we had no wealth. It's not like they
		
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			were rich and they were established and all
		
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			of that. Right? They said we were we
		
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			were young, we were youth, and we had
		
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			nothing. We had no wealth.
		
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			And the messenger of Allah sallallahu alaihi wa
		
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			sallam said
		
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			that, Oh, young people,
		
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			that whoever among you can marry, has the
		
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			capacity, has the ability to marry, should marry.
		
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			For for it is effective in lowering the
		
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			gaze and
		
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			and guarding one's chastity.
		
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			And whoever is not able to marry so
		
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			the prophet
		
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			gave both solutions.
		
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			Said if you're able to, you should. Okay?
		
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			So he encouraged it. But he also said
		
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			perhaps someone is not able to get married,
		
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			who does not have the ability, so whoever
		
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			is not able to marry should fast
		
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			for it will diminish his desire. It will
		
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			act as a shield. The prophet, Abu Huraira,
		
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			also
		
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			related from the prophet
		
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			you should marry him. If you do not
		
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			do so,
		
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			tribulations in the earth and proliferation
		
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			of corruption.
		
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			Right? If you do not do that so
		
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			the prophet
		
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			gave a simple formula. So if somebody comes,
		
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			proposes
		
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			and religion is good, character is good, the
		
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			2 things that you should be focusing on,
		
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			then go ahead and complete the marriage.
		
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			If you do not do so, there will
		
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			be tribulations
		
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			in the earth and the proliferation of corruption.
		
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			Right? There will be facade. And, subhanAllah, you
		
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			know, we look around the world and once
		
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			again the word of the prophet salallahu alayhi
		
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			wasalam
		
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			ring absolutely
		
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			true. Now this, my brothers and sisters, these
		
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			2 hadith that I mentioned, you know, these
		
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			two pieces of advice, this was at the
		
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			time of the prophet salallahu alayhi wasalam. Right?
		
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			This is the prophet salallahu alayhi wasalam himself
		
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			advising the companions
		
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			radiAllahu anhu. Now you can imagine how much
		
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			more relevant these advices are in today's times
		
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			with the rampant,
		
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			you know, and open immorality
		
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			and, and and and zina and everything else
		
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			that is around us in today's world and
		
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			especially in today's society. Right? So for today's
		
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			young people, you can imagine how much more
		
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			pertinent and how much more serious that advice
		
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			is when that was the advice of the
		
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			prophet
		
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			during his own time.
		
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			So marriage is important and strong healthy families
		
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			are important as well. But the creation
		
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			of new families, because at the end of
		
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			the day, how does a family created? Of
		
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			course, it's through marriage.
		
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			That appears to be becoming more and more
		
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			difficult.
		
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			Okay. So at a time when we need
		
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			marriage more,
		
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			at a time when that is what is
		
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			desperately needed,
		
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			that is the time when it's actually becoming
		
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			more and more difficult as well. Now, you
		
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			know, if we dissect the issue,
		
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			we discover
		
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			that it is multifaceted.
		
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			Right? There are, of course, different angles like
		
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			many complex issues. There are multiple angles to
		
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			it. There are multiple considerations and factors.
		
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			So this is, like, in no particular order,
		
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			in random order, but some of, the issues
		
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			that we notice. So for example, number 1,
		
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			our choices
		
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			have become
		
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			more,
		
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			more defined and essentially we become more pickier.
		
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			Okay? So
		
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			everybody wants
		
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			mister perfect,
		
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			missus perfect. Every woman wants or every girl
		
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			wants mister perfect and every, man, every boy
		
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			wants missus perfect.
		
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			Okay? And, of course, there are dreams
		
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			and this is
		
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			partially caused by, I would say, by the
		
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			effects of culture in society because whichever culture
		
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			we live in, whichever society we live in,
		
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			you know, the norms and of of that
		
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			culture, of that society are going to impact
		
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			us. Right? Because we're human beings and we
		
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			have hearts and we have feelings and attitudes
		
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			and we are hard, you know, and we
		
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			get affected and we get impacted.
		
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			So we can't live in a vacuum, or
		
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			we could try, but we can isolate ourselves
		
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			totally and therefore we get impacted by the
		
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			good and by the bad as well. Okay?
		
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			So, you know, those particular,
		
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			you know, dreams about what sort of, you
		
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			know, particular,
		
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			you know, person that we want, that we
		
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			envision as our spouse. And I'm not suggesting
		
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			that, you know, this is only today and
		
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			didn't happen in the past. I'm sure it
		
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			happened in the past as well. But the
		
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			the type that we find right now is
		
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			particularly impacted by today's culture in today's society.
		
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			To the point that is, you know,
		
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			marriage and your potential spouse
		
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			essentially is romanticized
		
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			almost to an unattainable degree.
		
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			Romanticized
		
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			to almost an unattainable
		
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			an unattainable degree. So people have, a lot
		
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			of times, an image of what they want,
		
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			expectations of who they want and what they
		
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			should be like and, you know, what type
		
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			of how they should look and, you know,
		
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			what type of background they should have and
		
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			what their occupation should be and how much
		
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			money they should earn and all those things.
		
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			But it's unattainable.
		
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			Right? Because there's hardly anyone who lives like
		
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			that or who who exists like that, you
		
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			know. So,
		
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			the reality is, as we discussed previously as
		
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			well, you're not gonna get a perfect angle.
		
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			Yeah. You're not gonna find someone who's perfect.
		
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			Everyone has weaknesses. Everyone has shortcomings. So start
		
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			your search.
		
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			Ask
		
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			Allah for help.
		
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			Ask Allah for help.
		
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			Don't be
		
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			fixed on who you believe
		
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			is the type of person you need or
		
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			you want. You know, you try to find
		
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			someone suitable. They don't have to be perfect.
		
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			If you come across someone who who matches
		
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			maybe some of your criteria, not all because
		
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			it's gonna be very difficult to match everything,
		
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			you know, do istihara. You turn to Allah
		
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			subhanahu wa ta'ala for guidance
		
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			and you go for it. Okay? And this
		
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			is not a talk on istihara but istahara
		
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			doesn't mean dreams. It doesn't mean, you know,
		
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			getting up on the wrong side of the
		
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			bed and feelings and crystal balls and this
		
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			and that. It's not what istahara about. Okay?
		
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			Essentially, what you're doing is when you make
		
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			the tahara is you're asking Allah
		
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			for guidance and help and facilitating that matter
		
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			if it's good for you and stopping it
		
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			if it's not good for you. As simple
		
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			as that.
		
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			So you go, you start, you make the
		
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			tahara and you see, is the matter getting
		
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			easier than expected
		
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			Or is it becoming more difficult than expected?
		
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			Okay. Is it going smoothly? Is it or
		
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			or the roadblocks coming up? Okay. And if
		
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			it's going smoothly, Ismaila, you go,
		
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			it works out and accept it as who
		
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			Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala has willed for you
		
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			and you love them with all of your
		
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			heart.
		
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			You accept the will of Allah
		
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			instead of trying to impose
		
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			your own will. Okay? So that's number 1.
		
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			Number 2,
		
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			we find
		
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			generational and cultural differences on compatibility.
		
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			What do I mean by that? Okay? So
		
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			culturally,
		
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			who is acceptable or who is compatible can
		
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			be different
		
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			and that can differ generationally as well. Right?
		
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			So somebody who my grandparents, you know, your
		
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			grandparents or your parents may have thought would
		
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			be compatible
		
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			may not be someone that you think is
		
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			compatible and vice versa. Okay.
		
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			You know, the the, the the definition or
		
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			perceptions of what constitutes beauty, you know, this
		
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			can can vary,
		
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			from, from culture to culture, from generation to
		
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			generation.
		
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			Differences in ethnicity. Right? Having a strong, you
		
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			know, preference for having the same cultural, same
		
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			ethnic background. Yes. This was something that exists
		
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			and there are benefits of compatibility
		
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			or for compatibility when the cultures are the
		
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			same. It is helpful.
		
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			But we are seeing more and more intercultural
		
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			marriages
		
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			between Muslims. And this is really, you know,
		
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			not a big deal anymore. You see more
		
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			and more and more people doing that. Is
		
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			it difficult
		
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			to accept if we are not used to
		
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			it? If it's something used if it's something
		
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			new to us, yes, it is going to
		
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			be difficult. But at the end of the
		
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			day, it is not something which is a
		
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			long, Islamically
		
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			and the focus should be on the deen
		
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			and the character and we are going to
		
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			start seeing more and more of that. Okay?
		
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			So that is something to consider.
		
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			Number 3, we find another factor that there
		
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			is difficulty
		
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			in finding spouses, right, in finding suitable matches,
		
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			or finding matches in general.
		
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			And,
		
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			what are we finding? That the old methods,
		
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			which don't mean that they were bad, they
		
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			were just previously the methods that were used
		
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			previously,
		
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			don't work as often anymore.
		
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			Okay? They're not working in the same way.
		
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			So the connection why is that? Because the
		
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			connections that we had as families and as
		
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			communities,
		
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			perhaps in our, you know, previous trees,
		
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			back home as we would say, they don't
		
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			exist anymore or they don't exist in the
		
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			same way. And the new ways, perhaps, we
		
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			find are awkward
		
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			or perhaps they are difficult to navigate
		
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			or to to accept. And this is a
		
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			reality that is facing, actually a lot of
		
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			families, you know, who have children who want
		
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			to get married but they're like, where do
		
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			we turn? Right? And a lot of times
		
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			they'll come come to the imam and unfortunately,
		
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			I'm not a great matchmaker because, you know,
		
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			I I don't I know a lot of
		
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			people but I don't know them, you know,
		
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			super well. So it becomes a bit of
		
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			a challenge there as well.
		
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			So
		
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			what can we do? You know, it would
		
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			be good to,
		
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			build
		
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			network,
		
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			you know, build social circles, build connect build
		
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			connections
		
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			with good people,
		
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			get involved in the community.
		
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			Right? Get involved in the community. So if
		
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			your extended family is not here as you
		
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			as it used to be before, that would
		
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			often facilitate these,
		
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			connections,
		
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			then you can get involved in the community
		
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			and that can at least replace it to
		
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			some
		
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			extent. You know, learning
		
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			about other cultures,
		
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			mixing together with other cultures, with people who
		
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			are, any Muslims but they are from different
		
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			cultures and ethnicities,
		
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			that can also help because it removes, you
		
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			know, the the, the the the fear of
		
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			the unknown. It removes,
		
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			stigmas. It it removes, you know, preconceived notions,
		
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			all of those things that exist.
		
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			And also for those who are looking to
		
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			get married and not able to, I would
		
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			say, you know, don't be so firm
		
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			on insisting that you absolutely have to marry
		
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			someone here. Maybe who Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala
		
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			has written for you is not in this
		
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			country.
		
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			Maybe they are, quote unquote, back home. Right?
		
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			So don't make up your mind and say
		
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			be so stern and firm that no, this
		
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			is absolutely the way I want it and
		
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			I'm not gonna accept anything different but rather
		
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			explore. When you try your best to what
		
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			to get your ideal and you see it's
		
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			not working then you have to expand, broaden
		
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			your horizons
		
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			and be open, to accepting the fact that
		
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			perhaps Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala has written someone
		
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			who does not fit in your ideal and
		
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			perhaps what you're considering that is going to
		
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			be not good for you will actually be
		
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			end up going for you because Allah knows
		
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			best at the end.
		
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			Another consideration, another factor
		
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			is the cost of marriage.
		
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			The cost of marriage. And this is a
		
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			problem that we find, here but maybe perhaps
		
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			even more so than some Muslim majority, cultures
		
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			as well or countries as well. Okay. And
		
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			what we find is when we break it
		
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			down, you know, first of all, you know,
		
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			the the number of just the the complex
		
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			the complexities
		
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			surrounding marriage. Right? Like the rituals that are
		
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			involved,
		
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			that, you know, maybe cultural and there's nothing
		
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			wrong with celebrating in different ways as long
		
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			as it's halal, you know, there's nothing wrong
		
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			with that. But considering it to be mandatory
		
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			that you have to absolutely do it. And
		
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			if you cannot do it and if you
		
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			don't have the money to do it, then
		
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			you can't get married. Okay? So those rituals,
		
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			which many times and the spending also has
		
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			partly I'm not saying this is always the
		
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			case, but many times you find it has
		
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			to do with showing off as well,
		
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			or trying to, you know, make the event,
		
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			super,
		
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			memorable,
		
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			you know, thinking, you know, that this is
		
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			a once in a lifetime event,
		
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			which hopefully it is, Insha'Allah.
		
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			But, you know, splurging,
		
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			thinking that, you know, it's my it's it's
		
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			my only chance to please my son or
		
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			my daughter or, you know, this is my
		
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			only chance and it's my dream and I
		
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			want to, you know, go all out, you
		
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			know, having, excessive, number of guests especially if
		
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			you're not able to afford it. But even
		
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			if you can afford it, I'm gonna ask
		
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			you to think about something. That if someone
		
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			is able to afford and there's nothing wrong
		
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			with spending the blessings of Allah Subhanahu Wa
		
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			Ta'ala, especially in a measured way, in a
		
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			good way,
		
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			but think about the impact it also has
		
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			on the norm and the expectations that are
		
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			reinforced in society.
		
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			Right? Because
		
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			people shouldn't be competing but at the end
		
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			of the day, you know,
		
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			we tend to look around us to see
		
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			what is the norm.
		
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			And we are sort of we gravitate towards
		
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			what we believe is is most acceptable or
		
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			what the norm is.
		
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			So, you know, therefore,
		
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			even if, masha'Allah, you are able to afford
		
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			it and there's nothing wrong with with having,
		
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			you know, doing something nice for your son,
		
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			for your daughter, but at the end of
		
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			the day also consider,
		
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			you know, what impact it's gonna have on
		
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			others and how it's gonna make them feel
		
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			and what sort of, standard it might set
		
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			in the community, in society. So
		
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			the best advice is keep it simple. You
		
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			know, there is more barakah and simplicity. It's
		
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			the way of the prophet
		
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			Don't make it a burden on yourself,
		
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			you know. Don't make it a burden for
		
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			your guests. How many times have you heard
		
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			of someone saying I've got another wedding to
		
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			go to? I'm tired of going to weddings.
		
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			You want people like that attending your wedding
		
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			in your happiness? Your your child's wedding in
		
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			your happiness? Yes. Maybe you know them, they're
		
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			acquaintances. You don't have to invite everyone,
		
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			you know. Invite those who are who truly
		
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			care or who are truly gonna be happy
		
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			and excited,
		
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			at the same time be inclusive. Right? So
		
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			invite people who are actually gonna benefit from
		
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			the food or who need it,
		
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			and instead
		
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			with the savings, the people who are got
		
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			married during the pandemic, so we saved so
		
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			much money. Right? So instead, you save that
		
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			money and you gift it to your child,
		
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			to the new couple
		
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			for the nikah, you know. You can have
		
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			a simple nikah, invite the people you want,
		
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			do it in the masjid, give them sweets.
		
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			You don't have to feed a dinner, you
		
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			know, that's,
		
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			that's not from the sunnah.
		
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			So you don't have to have a, you
		
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			know, a huge banquet. Yes. The woleema is
		
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			the sunnah of the father
		
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			So then you have the woleema and you
		
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			feed people and that's it. You know, we
		
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			we we learn about Abdul Ahmed
		
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			who came who migrated from Makkah to Madinah.
		
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			And,
		
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			he, you know, he got married in Madinah.
		
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			And the prophet
		
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			saw that he had some yellow stains on
		
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			his clothes.
		
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			Okay. He noticed the prophet noticed
		
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			that he had some yellow stains on his
		
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			clothes. So he said,
		
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			what is that, oh, oh, Abu Rahman? And
		
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			he replied
		
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			that,
		
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			he said that I have married an Ansari
		
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			woman. And the prophet said how much Mahar
		
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			did you give her? He replied the weight
		
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			of 1 date stone of gold. So the
		
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			prophet said offer a banquet
		
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			even with 1 sheep.
		
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			Okay. What's inter now most people would just
		
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			read that and even say yes, we should
		
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			offer a banquet and it it proves that,
		
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			you know, that this the Wodiman should happen.
		
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			Well, what's interesting here is that Abid Khman
		
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			al A'raf
		
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			who got married and the prophet
		
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			didn't know about it. And it was in
		
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			Madina.
		
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			It's a small community. So he actually didn't
		
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			invite the prophet and the prophet didn't even
		
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			know about it. K. He didn't even get
		
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			him to to perform his nikat.
		
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			The prophet asked him afterwards, well, what is
		
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			this? And then he told him, did the
		
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			prophet get offended? No. It doesn't look like
		
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			it. Right?
		
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			So, you know, if somebody doesn't invite you
		
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			for their son or daughter's wedding or for
		
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			their wedding, there's nothing to get offended about.
		
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			And maybe they just, you know, for whatever
		
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			reason they weren't able to, to give them
		
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			the benefit of the doubt. And alhamdulillah, you
		
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			know, it's it's it's all good. You keep
		
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			it simple. You know, Anas radiAllahu anhu said
		
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			the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam halted between
		
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			Khaybar and Madina for 3 days, during which
		
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			he married Safiyyah
		
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			I invited the Muslims to his wedding feast
		
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			in which there was no bread and no
		
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			meat.
		
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			There was nothing except what the prophet
		
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			commanded Bilal
		
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			to spread out
		
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			of leather mats.
		
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			Okay. No table shared nothing, leather mats on
		
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			which dates,
		
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			clarified butter, ghee and dried yogurt were placed.
		
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			That was the menu.
		
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			Okay. There was no meat. So even when
		
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			he said, you know,
		
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			offer banquet even with 1 sheep, many of
		
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			the scholars say, okay, that based on this
		
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			or based on what the prophet did, you
		
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			don't even have to offer meat.
		
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			I'll listen to CBC radio once and people
		
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			are talking about weddings some years ago. There's
		
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			a couple who called in. They said, yeah,
		
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			actually we just got married in our apartment
		
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			and we didn't have anything so we just
		
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			gave chips to the guests.
		
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			That was already. They're happy.
		
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			Yeah.
		
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			Instance like that as well, you know. Boy
		
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			and girl got married. Was done. We went
		
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			to their house. The mom put food. We
		
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			had the food. Exchanged some gifts. That was
		
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			it. They're happy. I'm happy. Everyone's happy. You
		
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			know, so the amount we're gonna spend
		
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			is not going to determine happiness for the
		
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			couple. Actually, you might do the opposite.
		
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			Okay? So please think about this and take
		
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			it to heart. Consider it.
		
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			The higher cost of living, you know, lacking
		
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			skills
		
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			is, of course, another
		
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			factor which acts as a barrier sometimes
		
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			to getting married. This is something which is
		
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			important, of course. So we want to try
		
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			to create pathways
		
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			to earlier marriage for our children, for children
		
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			in our community. You know, guiding them on
		
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			what to study so they don't end up
		
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			wasting time, for example.
		
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			Helping them plan ahead, you know, so that
		
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			they have the foundation to start families early.
		
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			Even lowering their standard of living or expectations,
		
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			you know, of what we need to have
		
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			in order to be able to to get
		
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			married. You know, you start early as a
		
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			couple, you go through, you grow together, you
		
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			go through hardships together, you live through the
		
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			hard times and then inshallah Allah will bless
		
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			you and that will prove to be a
		
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			stronger rule and that will, you know, prove
		
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			to be, a means of of of joining
		
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			the hearts and coming together because when you
		
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			go through difficulty with someone and then, you
		
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			know, you are blessed, then there's a special
		
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			sweetness to that as well, you know. So
		
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			don't just write it off because you feel,
		
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			okay, I can't afford it and because you
		
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			have a certain type of lifestyle, in mind,
		
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			may Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala make it easy.
		
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			So my brothers and sisters, as a community,
		
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			we need to make it easier for our
		
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			young people to get married.
		
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			When we have stable, healthy families,
		
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			inshallah, the entire community and eventually the entire
		
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			society will benefit from that. Yes. It will
		
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			come with the challenges. Okay. There's no such
		
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			thing as a perfect marriage. Yes. It will
		
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			come with the challenges,
		
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			but the solution
		
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			is not to leave the institution of marriage
		
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			and say, no. It's not working. It's too
		
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			difficult. But rather the solution is to work
		
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			towards
		
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			making it the way it's supposed to be.
		
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			Okay? So our way is not to give
		
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			up the another parceles of the al Saddu
		
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			and say, no. It's not working anymore. We
		
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			we don't do it. But rather we try
		
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			to create the condition so that we can
		
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			do it and we can do it properly.
		
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			So look at it as something positive,
		
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			promote it to your children,
		
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			you know, talk about it positively,
		
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			celebrate it, of course, within halal limits,
		
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			resolve
		
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			or try to help to resolve challenges,
		
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			Try to make it easier. Try to help
		
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			those who are not married yet. You know,
		
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			don't be annoying and just like nag them
		
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			and say, oh, you're not married yet. Oh,
		
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			I think I know someone for you. You
		
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			know, so don't be that annoying person. But
		
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			rather, you know, sincerely try to be someone
		
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			who can facilitate,
		
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			marriage, for them. It is a great act
		
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			of virtue,
		
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			sunnah of the prophet
		
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			of
		
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			the prophet
		
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			and a means of protection from Haram, And,
		
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			insha'Allah, you will be rewarded
		
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			greatly if it is done sincerely by those
		
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			who are getting married and also those who
		
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			are trying to facilitate marriages and those who
		
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			are trying to resolve issues in marriages. Allah
		
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			says,
		
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			And whoever is mindful for of Allah, he
		
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			will make a way up for them.
		
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			And provide for them from sources that they
		
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			could never imagine.
		
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			And whoever puts their trust in Allah, then
		
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			Allah alone is sufficient for them.
		
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			Certainly, Allah achieves his will.
		
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			Allah has already set a destiny for everything.
		
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			Let us meet
		
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			Oh, Allah, we thank you for all of
		
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			your blessings.
		
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			Oh, Allah, we thank you for allowing us
		
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			to gather once again for Surah Al Jumah.
		
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			Oh, Allah, we thank you for all of
		
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			your blessings.
		
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			Oh, Allah, please forgive us. Oh, Allah, please
		
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			forgive us and purify us from all of
		
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			our sins and its effects, You Rabbil Alameen.
		
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			Oh, Allah, please unite
		
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			all of the families and all of the
		
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			couples in love and unity, You Rabbil Alameen.
		
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			Oh, Allah, please facilitate
		
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			easy marriage for all of our children and
		
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			coming generations, You Rabbil Alameen. Oh, Allah, make
		
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			it easy for those who are not able
		
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			to find spouses. Oh, Allah, please grant everyone
		
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			a suitable and best match for them, You
		
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			Rabbil Alameen. Oh, Allah, please remove hardships for
		
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			all from all of those who are experiencing
		
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			hardships. O' Allah, o' Allah, anyone who is
		
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			suffering from pain and anxiety,
		
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			depression, stress, o' Allah, please remove remove it
		
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			from them and grant them peace and ease.
		
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			O' Allah, o' Allah, we ask you to
		
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			protect us and all of our fellow human
		
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			beings. O' Allah, forgive us for all of
		
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			our sins and our shortcomings and guide us
		
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			toward guide us all towards that which pleases
		
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			you most, You Rabbi Alameen.
		
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			O' Allah, please protect our seniors and our
		
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			elders. O' Allah, please grant them good health
		
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			and well-being with imani, You Rabbi Alameen. O
		
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			Allah, please reward them for all of the
		
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			good that they have done and forgive them
		
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			for any mistakes and shortcomings, You Rabbil Alameen.
		
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			O Allah, please remove the hardships and the
		
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			pain and suffering that the many are experiencing
		
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			at this time, You Rabbil Alameen. O Allah,
		
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			please shower your mercy and forgiveness upon all
		
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			of those who have returned to you. O
		
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			Allah, so many of our brothers and sisters
		
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			have lost loved ones. O Allah, please make
		
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			it easy for them. The uncle of our
		
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			brother Khaled and sister Rabia, the aunt of
		
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			our brother Farooq, the father of brother Faisullah
		
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			Faizi, the father of brother Ashfaq Sunu, the
		
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			cousin of our brother Abdul Haq, o Allah,
		
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			the father-in-law of brother Huram Khan, brothers Sajjad
		
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			Ahmad Khan Yazi who just passed away as
		
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			well.
		
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			O Allah, please cure all our brothers and
		
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			sisters who are ill. O Allah, please grant
		
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			them relief. Remove everything harmful from their bodies,
		
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			especially
		
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			this virus, COVID 19, all our cancer, and
		
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			all other harmful creations that you have created,
		
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			o Allah. O Allah, especially our brothers, Eshan
		
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			Iqbal. O Allah, another cousin of our brother,
		
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			Abdul Haqq, who is in life threatening condition.
		
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			O Allah, our elder doctor Habibullah Rahman, our
		
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			elder doctor Hanan, who is recovering from surgery,
		
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			our brothers and sisters who are suffering from
		
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			long term pains and injuries. O Allah, our
		
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			brothers and sisters who are in extreme pain,
		
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			and all of those who are ill who
		
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			are ill or at risk of becoming ill.
		
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			Oh, Allah, you are the protector. Oh, Allah,
		
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			you are the shafi, the healer. Oh, Allah,
		
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			grant them all speedy recovery. Protect them from
		
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			all illnesses and pain and suffering through your
		
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			power and your might. Remove the hardships, oh,
		
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			Allah. We are helpless in front of you.
		
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			Oh, Allah, protect us and all of our
		
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			fellow human beings, especially the frontline workers, the
		
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			health professionals, the first responders,
		
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			the teachers, the school staff, all others who
		
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			are on the frontline serving others. Will, please
		
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			open the doors of halal sustenance for all
		
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			of those who are in need or in
		
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			debt, especially at this time. Will, please grant
		
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			us a good return to you during this
		
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			life, at the end of this life,
		
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			and at the on on the day of
		
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			judgment.
		
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			Brothers and sisters, all of those who have
		
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			registered for Friday prayer, please come at your
		
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			assigned time. Those who are praying at home,
		
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			please go ahead now for 4th cause of
		
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			the heart prayer. May Allah
		
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			bless you all. We look forward to seeing
		
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			you soon, Insha'Allah.