Part 12 of an amazing series by Shady Suleiman
Shady Alsuleiman – 40 Hadith Nawawi Series Part 12
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The speakers discuss the importance of gathering for prayer and elevating people to live with the great of manners and ethics. They also emphasize the importance of being strong and avoiding privacy concerns. The speakers stress the need for leaders to avoid confusion and disrespect, and emphasize the importance of faith in Islam.
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all praise be to Allah azza wa jal omoton glory and peace be upon His Beloved Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam justify that there's no god except a lot. And I justify that Mohammed is the Prophet and the Messenger of Allah.
Brothers and sisters in Islam.
Thank Allah azzawajal for gatherings of knowledge, these are the gatherings that Allah subhanho wa Taala
is pleased from these other gatherings that live xojo looks at. These are the gatherings that lots of Hannah hautala sends His angels to get around the looking for. For these gatherings, these gatherings are great for the must be given a great respect.
From those respect, all the tickets of gatherings is always sit down with tranquility. sitting down with focus and tranquility. And not having a mind everywhere. ie to learn something about your deen something to get closer to Allah azza wa jal which is something that
we should always have intention to every single day that how can I get closer to Allah subhanaw taala because that's what I'm created for. Allah azzawajal put me on this world for the sake of me pleasing Him getting closer to him, and keeping away from any part that takes him away from him.
Just got to complain about the cars downstairs so those brothers and sisters have locked the car. Please remove the car. handlers becoming a sinner. I think the lesson doesn't sound normal. If like a car doesn't look like a strange.
You know there's something wrong in the lesson today. hamdulillah
one of also the etiquettes that when you hear the name of the Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, you should always say sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said that the selfish or the stingy is the one that my name has been mentioned in Proverbs and that did not praise or do not not make the Salat on me. So this is the Sunnah that whenever you hear the name of the prophets are seldom whether you're in the gathering whether you are speaking to someone whether you're just listening to an audio, when you hear the name of the profile is Salatu was Salam always say sallallahu alayhi wa sallam when the be use on the law they will sell me said that anyone
that makes a lot of me once a lot zoa jello makes a lot on him 10 times. So this is a great reward that we all need
a Hawaiian ohata inshallah continuing with the foot habito Amendment No way. And those 40 Hadith the amendment no Rahim Allah Allah, Allah and Islam. He came in above the eighth century of the his rock. mm and now 40 Hadith that from his
from his conclusion from his opinion that there's a hadith will be the most essential Hadith in Islam. Salah today will take one Hadith, Hadith, the 12th Hadith, which be narrated on Abu Dhabi alota Allah no call Allah Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam minister in Islam in Turku melayani
narrated by Timothy Amara, the alota Allah I know he says the Prophet Muhammad SAW Selim said that it's a good of Islam. It's from the good of the Islam of someone is to live with it, what does not concern them? There is short Hadith, but somehow Allah about this, Dave has a great meaning that has a great impact on the life of a Muslim in the valley salatu wa sallam, he came from Allah subhanho wa Taala to people to elevate people, not just to elevate them from the side of just the worship, to worship Allah subhanho wa Taala to correct their way of worship and to correct the word of arcada and to correct their way of belief, but nobody saw Salah mana to elevate people's manners wanted to
elevate the standard of the People's manners. He wanted to have the believers and always teaches the believers to have the best of manners. They have the best of morals, to have the best of ethics to have the best of luck. They have the best of characters to have the best of
role models. This Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam does adopt the believers adopt the old ambassadors of Islam, the old the representatives of Islam, the old representing Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wasallam, the old representing this great Deen and these great religion, obviously must be in the best and the greatest character, and they have to be in the greatest of manners, and they have to be in the greatest of ethics and they have to be in the greatest of appearance and they have to be in the greatest of figures. And that's why unofficial Allahu alayhi wa sallam he came as he says, boys to the otomi mama Karim, Allah Allah, Allah azza wa jal to the important mission with an
important task. This task is what he said about himself. I was sent along to perfect and the complete end to complete the noble menace. This is the mission of the profilers salatu wa sallam. This is the task of the profiler is Salatu was he came to people, not just to teach them how to worship Allah, not just to teach them how to get closer to Allah, not just to teach them how to live their life, but he came to teach them how to be the best of people from others, how to be the best of people in front of how to deal with other people how to
how to speak to other people how to learn from other people, and that's why nobody sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.
From his great teachings. He always taught the companions to be in the eyes standard of mentors. And that's why he says in this Hadith,
Allah sallallahu wasallam, from the best of Islam, one of the best of characters in a Muslim, one of the best of qualities in a Muslim is to leave What does not concern them
is to leave What does not concern them. And this is the character of a Muslim, the Muslim, the Muslim, as we said, he is representing the deen of Allah, His representative representing the deen of Islam, he must be in the highest standards of character must be in the best of qualities. And one of those great qualities that he should have is not to involve himself in things that does not concern them, not involve himself and things that does not concern him not to put himself in things that does, there is no benefit back to him. And that's when they'll be sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he says that the person from this heavy to understand that leaving What does not concern you is a
great character of a believer is a character of Islam. It's the character of Eman is the character that the Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wasallam wants the believers to be on to leave things that does not concern you not to put your nose in things that does not concern you not to always ask about things that does not concern you. And there's a lot of things in this life, that concerns us of there's a lot of things that do not concern us. And those things that concern us because there is harm or benefit that comes back to us. But those things that do not concern us, there is no harm or benefit. And then whether we know better than that's why we should not put a nose or should not put
or involve ourself in it. And this is a good character of a moment he does not ask foolish things, he does not put himself in situations or does not put himself in matters, that does not concern him, he does not ask things that it does not benefit him. The moment always looks with the benefit is with a benefit to himself as a woman, and whether it's a benefit to his family as a Muslim. And whether it's a benefit to the oma and Islam as the notion of Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and this character is a character of people is a character people who have weakness. Usually those who put themselves will involve themselves in metals, that does not concern them, others who have
weakness in the character. They have that weakness in the character and they just want to really build that character or they want to make up that weakness but asking about things that does not concern them for that lovely sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he taught the companions do not and he taught the Muslim nation is teaching us Do not ask about things that does not concern did not involve you solving things that do not concern you do not speak about things that do not concern you. Do not put yourself in situations that do not concern you. Because when you put yourself in that matter, there is more harm that's coming back to you than benefit. When someone asks someone
about things that does not concern him. First of all, that even if the answer comes back to him, this answer is no benefit him. Secondly, a lot of people have privacy. So you can't break the privacy of people by wanting to know what's behind that barrier of privacy of people. People have privacy. And sometimes people want to break the privacy of others by want to know what's behind the privacy. And this is something that Islam rejects Islam, cares and respects the province of people for that Islam tells you not to get over that line of the province of people, people have privacy. Do not get over the limit of that. Just ask what concerns you put yourself in what concerns you and
benefit you besides them for yourself. involve yourself in things like that. And unfortunately, it's became a habit of a lot of people that want to ask Allah sometimes people come and ask so many questions about you that you use some Don't even ask yourself
What's your name? What's your father's name? What's your grandfather's name? Not even not my grandfather's not even ask about it. You want to ask me about it? And I mean, what's the switch to come because a mother and people keep a Christian, Christian, Christian, and too many questions sometimes people get, it makes people walk away. And you as a Muslim, you want people to be attracted to you, as the Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam told us in LA Salatu was Salam used to send out a caravan of believers to call to allies origin, he's to tell them, clean your clothes, clean your garments, clean your luggage, clean, your camels, become like a birthmark and
the sorts of people let people just get attracted to you. The Muslim is like a magnet. Everyone wants to be attracted there and everyone wants to be around. That's how the Muslim, the Muslim people want to be around them. The Muslim people want to be around him, the one sit with him, they want to take from him, they want to learn from him, they want to speak to him, they want to open up to him these the Muslim is like a magnet that attracts everyone. But when someone has this quality of interfering in other people's effort, then people walk away from him. And this is the nature of mankind. When you realize that someone talks a lot. And he asked him any questions and interface
into your personal life. This person when you see him goes one way you go the other way. And that does not suit the attribute and the quality of a Dyer.
As a preacher as a Dahlia that goes to Allah, do you want people seeing you going one path, you want everyone to go behind you. But having this quality of interfering in affairs or interfering in issues that does not concern you? This quality will make people walk away from you not get closer to you. So there's a conflict. There's a conflict in the purpose of the daiya for that and a lot of people that gritman this is handled law.
These matters something like this. Probably no one had ever mentioned that to people never saw Salaam. Again it is to show you the great and the great minds of the profile a salado sir and the revelation to the profile a Salatu was Salam on how he used to teach people.
He taught people he perfected people sallallahu alayhi wa sallam completed the great manners and alayhi salaatu wa Salaam taught people that great manners. No one before the history of the prophet SAW Selim, or before the time of the prophet SAW Selim knew about those matters, or thought of those matters, especially someone like the Prophet Allah. Allah, who never sat in front of a teacher into the school
will never mix with other people. So many other people span a line he's so so aware of those matters. He's so aware of those matters that Allah is salatu wa sallam picks on him. And he tells the companions how to live, and SubhanAllah. It's one of the greatest things well, like wanting, if the Muslims understand this concept of not interfering in matters that do not involve or the matters that do not relate to them on issues. That's not of their concern or law here, the Muslim nation will be so organized. But one of the most organized matters in our nation when people start in differing issues that does not concern them. Like for example, let's take this mosque for example.
This mosque has its organizers and has its people but everyone wants to put their nose in every matter then what happens to this Muslim chaos. Everyone wants you know, everyone wants to interfere. For example, one person wants this clock this way, the other also the other side. And then the person who doesn't look at this way wants it this way. Another person will lie doesn't love the timing of this a lot of the time he wants to 20 minutes after five minutes. Everyone wants to put their two cents worth everyone wants to interfere in matters that do not concern them. And what happens always a fitna comes out of it. And it's not a small matter. It's not a small issue, but
it's a major issue that in the visa lottery or sell a Mondo for even some of the lower they will sell them.
Even a B la salatu wa sallam said about someone that one of the companions passed away. And then another companion said that he is enough. Jenna Sana la salatu salam he said, what makes you know, he told you what do you know? Maybe he's to speak about issues that do not concern him Subhana Allah? In other words, because of that bad quality and had he probably not into the paradise probably get punished in the Hellfire then into the paradise because he's to involve himself or he's to put his nose in issues that do not relate to him or do not concern him. Allah. Allah subhanaw taala model punished him for the this man I companion boys. Another one says glad tidings for him
for the paradise. So maybe some licenses and what do you know? Maybe he's to involve himself in issues that they're not concerning. Or he's to be selfish when it's when he's when he had the opportunity to give in this for the sake of a lost soldier. So how am I wanna
be involving ourselves in matters that do not concern us is a very important thing in Islam. Oh,
Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he said,
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enough Seaway to kill off melayani that one of the worst of evil is the human being is the son of Adam, to involve himself to involve himself or one of the worst shadow evil on the son of Adam, is to speak out of ignorance or to involve himself in issues that do not concern him to involve himself and he's just done a custodian is an evil. It's an ugly attitude. It's an ugly attribute. It's an ugly quality. It's a disgusting quality and evil quality for people to have that quality of interfering or involving themselves in issues of do not concern them. As a Muslim, I should always think where is the benefit, where the benefit is I put myself in it, where the benefit is of putting
myself in it, where there's no benefit or harm or always keep away from it. Because once again, we're all here, representing the deen of Allah azza wa jal.
We're all here representing Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam we should always look and to be in the best of appearance, we should always look and appear in the best of figure. People want to look at us and say, we just want to become one of these people. We should be like a magnet, as I said, and having a quality of these people run away from you. People run away from people that speak too much, when they'll be some of them suffering from this and they don't talk too much than us too much. It's not the quality of a moment. It's not the quality of a Muslim, and the previous habito spoke about one of the things that destroyed the nations before us as the Prophet alayhi salaatu wa
sallam mentioned is the too much questioning, too much questioning. The moment that the believers are the followers of the prophets before the province of Salaam is the question the Prophet so many times is the question the prophets, too many questions why this why the why is this this and why is that this or why isn't this acceptable? Why is that acceptable? Now we don't love this we love that we love that with unlock these four lines, those are destroyed because of the terminal Christian. Allah subhanaw taala demolished him because of the disagreement over the Prophet for the woman is obedient to Allah subhanho wa Taala the moment has the quality of settings Amanda wattana not So
Amanda Cena. The woman has the quality of saying or lowered her ability. Now I had heard and disobeyed. One of the great moments and stands of the companions of the Allahu Allah know, is when Allah subhanaw taala revealed to his prophet muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, the third largest verse in Surah Al Baqarah Leela Hema somato muffle Oh, well in toto Murphy ambu Tsukamoto for your handsome company La,
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la, la la la la condition. Allah subhanaw taala says to Allah, what's in the heavens and what's on earth, and then a lot of zoa just says, and if any one of you, if any one of you does an evil or haram or conceals,
have consumed the evil harem in them, Allah says will judge them. What does that mean? For example, if someone thinks of heroin thinks of stealing, and he commits that theft, then Allah azzawajal will judge him over the
over the action. This is something everyone understands. But in that verse, Allah azza wa jal is saying
that even if they do not commit the theft, even they do not commit the action, like for example, someone thought of committing theft, and he did not come in allows origin in that verse, he says, that Allah who will judge him and punish him as accumulate theft.
So Han Allah,
Okay, first one understood that if someone thinks of him, then he does it, Allah will judge him for it. But if someone just thinks of it, and he does not even do it, a lot of soldiers gonna judge him for it. That means if this person just looks at this woman going and the one just comes to his mind colors he had committed that he had committed the Haram and Allah will judge him for it. So when this verse was revealed to the companions,
the companions said the Prophet alive or this about you, and if you've been in things on us, and we've kept away from it, but this was too hard on us, what is just thinking of the haraam? We're gonna get we're gonna, who will be judged for it will be accountable for not just thinking of it. So Allah Subhana hota so the Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, then she ever become love those who used to be before you they used to say Samantha Cena was hurt and disobey but say Samantha wattana so the companions of the Allahu taala and forced themselves to accept the aura of Allah azzawajal and force themselves to accept that statement from Allah xojo
in which the wind the whole day
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For anaka well Allah will ask you here forgiveness, like mercy Oh going back to you.
So the next day Allah subhana wa Taala revealed the abrogation of that verse in which Allah subhanaw taala says, Now you can live alone often in Lhasa. Allah does not ask from a soul or Allah subhanaw taala does not ask for enough so I can't handle or work well, it's not April Fool's. So a lot of xojo will only judge us for only what we do. And if we intend to do something, how long and we don't even do it, then Allah xojo give us something in return for some hamama one, Allah Subhana Allah, this the companions and tested the faith of the companions and the man of the companions, and the stance of the companions are the alota Alana with firm and indeed the firm and indeed there was
strong believers that they said are lower than obaidul. Allah will do what you want us to do, even we think now we can do with what will force us to do it. This is the tree man. This is when the man speaks. This is the true faith. This is the true taqwa This is the true love. This is the true love to Allah. This is the true love of Allah and the Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
for Sahaba the Allahu taala radi Allahu taala and Omar bomb. They were indeed true believers who found the problem homosassa them and they were indeed on a high standard of mentors and they were indeed on the highest end of Allah. radi Allahu taala from being the wisdom people on earth by the teachings of the Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and by then obey the Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and by them being taught by the prophet a Salatu was Salam. Good manners like this had it before us that from the good qualities of Islam and good qualities by Muslims delivered does not concern them. And I'll be alone Thailand, him from being the list of
people on earth and to being the best of people on earth. From being the worst of people on earth to be the best of people on earth from being the followers of all people civilization to being the leaders of all people in to be the leaders that are the Allahu taala. No, this is because of the teaching of the profile a Salatu was Salam in the basal Allahu alayhi wa sallam his success was not building a state. His success was not expanding from the east to the west. His success is not building governments. His success is he built many sallallahu alayhi wa sallam built characters sallallahu alayhi wa sallam built men sallallahu alayhi wa sallam built warriors. Some of Allahu
alayhi wa sallam built souls, some of the lohar they were selling them building the foods. These are the men that the Prophet alayhi salaatu wa sallam he built, and the other men that we should look up to and take as an example of the Allahu taala Adam was great representatives of Islam. They represented Islam in the greatest and the best of manner, radi Allahu Allah Adam, and for that we follow them and take them as an example. for that. We follow them and take them as leaders, as Allah subhanho wa Taala had opened the path of Allah been pleased from anyone the way he was pleased from them.
As Allah subhanho wa Taala, he says, what the Allahu anhu model do and
this is for anyone that feels a loss of Hannah hautala sonobuoy sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he says, Minister Islam and Mati tulku melayani. From from the best of the character of Muslim, and the best of actions of a Muslim is to leave What does not concern them. And one of the great words of a wise man he says that I've never regretted on a word that I did never say, never said, I've always regretted on would have said, and also said, I'll control the word before it comes out of me. But once it comes out of me, it controls me. So this is the character of a Muslim. He's got control over himself. He's got control over what he says, when the beast Allahu alayhi wa sallam, he says,
Whoever could guarantee what's between these done and what's between his thighs, I could guarantee you the paradise send the tongue, the tongue my brother's a thumb. The thumb as American grabbed his tongue, he said this was destroyed me, this was destroyed me. This was destroyed me for Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he warned us of the tongue. And one of the diseases of the tongue is to ask issues that does not concern him. And one of the diseases of the tongue is to involve itself in tissues that does not concern. And one of the diseases of the heart is for someone to look for things and put his nose in things that does not concern him. And these one of these qualities are
more of the qualities of the magnification that always used to look for metals, just for the sake of thickness. Now, now, they've got a lot of spare time on their hands. They don't want to occupy the time with the worship of Allah azza wa jal. They don't want to occupy the time for what pleases Eliza's origin. So the occupy the time for things that does not concern them, they want to know what's this document? What's that? They want to know what's about this, and no one knows about that. And so Pamela, and who has more of these bad qualities in the Bissell Allahu alayhi wa sallam he said that also most of the people of the Hellfire are females. Why? Because of what they say a lot
of what they end in what some of the scholars say, is because of them interfering in issues that
does not concern them sitting down and speaking about this lady sitting down speaking about that law. Look, one lady, she went to the shopping mall. What's the two that I got up? While I look how she got married, and she's got $10,000 as a rink, what? To some
people in deferring other people's affairs? Just so Pamela, what leads to that? Jealousy, and then envy. And these are one of the worst qualities, a Muslim has interference of Panama sometimes you sit down and say, Look, he bought this, what do you let them buy? He sold the water to you let him so there is some out of your pocket that are born out of your bank account. What's it two peoples of Panama. When you involve yourself in other people's matters, then you start looking down at people. You start looking down at people and then jealousy plays a big role, and then you become envious you then you start envying other people and will not be something Allahu Allah wa sallam he warned us
some Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he warned us that has to do do not envy one another, do not envy one another. And of course shaitan works hard credo works out to build jealousy between the Muslims work so hard to make, to put jealousy between the believers and work so hard to make envy between the believers. Why? Because he does not want to see the Muslims together. For my brothers and sisters. Once again, keep this hadith in mind. sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he said from the good of Islam of someone deliver does not concern them. Of course, what concerns me is what benefits me or what harms me. What concerns me is what benefits me and what tells me what harms me, or what
benefits my nation or my community or harms my nation or my community. Besides that, anything that will lie does not concern me what this guy sold what this guy bought, where he went, where did it take his wife on a holiday, how much money is going in his bank account what law which is, who's his grandfather and so on. These things do not concern me or keep away from it as a woman, as a Muslim, as a recent representative of the Nation of Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam I should have as good and great qualities that Allah is Salatu was Salam. Salam, O Allah wa salam to us, ask Allah subhana wa Taala to make us from among those who listen and act upon what they listen and act upon
what they learn. So hanok alum hamdulillah shadow Allah Allah Atlanta stuff like