Shadee Elmasry – NBF 141 The Perfect Character of the Prophet Muhammad
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Al hamdu lillah wa Salatu was Salam ala Rasulillah while early
he was a happy woman who Allah welcome everybody to the Safina
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means it is a day in which we cover the soma of the messenger of
allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam on this cold and dark and dank
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degrees outside and we need some fireplace and we need to eat and
we need to go Alright
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with my socks. I oil I oil up the bottom of my coat because
otherwise it rips up if the leathers not good, but this is
good luck even good leather it's gonna rip up so you
Yeah, you oil it up. Yeah
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my sandals I don't even wear like shoes because I'll ruin the show.
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let's get to the Hadith here that we're we left off on
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and Hashem ignore wannabe Aisha Radi Allahu Anhu Scarlet Madaba
Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa, he was selling Via de che and got
a new Jada visa vie la he will about about her demon will umbra.
The Prophet never struck anybody. Except in battle. He only struck
in he never struck a servant nor anyone in the family and he never
raised his hand to a woman. Let me tell you a story first, before we
go on, this is an amazing story. I think I told you, Brian, you may
have heard me tell this before. Okay.
There was a man, an imam in Egypt. He's a very popular Imam. And he
privately told the story to people that he had a flight
very early in the morning 6am Flight, which means you gotta be
in the airport.
Around that time, a little bit before 6am. Okay. So he he's far
away. He's like three hours away. So he calls up his friend. And he
has another shift. He says, I know your Masjid is literally right
next to the airport. Can you keep the door open for me? I'll go in
and I'll sleep in the masjid. I'll pray for you right away and then
I'll go and I'll be very close to the airport. So he said fine, no
problem. So he tells the people leave the door open for the Sheikh
and leave a light on.
So most masajid in Egypt they close after Aisha
but this man he left the masjid the door open. And the servant
they left the door or the worker in the mosque left the door ajar.
Right meaning open a little bit of the mosque. So the show he has his
dinner he packs up his bags and he drives all the way up or it takes
a cab all the way up. And then he takes the and he arrives at
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at the masjid, when he goes to the masjid all the lights are off
except for one light in the front of the mosque. And he puts his
bags down and he hears like weeping, crying.
And then he goes up and he sees a regular man sitting right in front
of them
saying, Oh Allah, I don't have anybody else. The operations
tomorrow, I need this money. I have nothing. And he's crying and
crying and crying, and he's making dua, and he's sometimes lifting
his hands up like this, and sometimes crying and talking in
common Egyptian language, saying, there's nobody else. My mother
didn't have anything. My brothers don't have anything. Nobody wants
to lend me anything. And my wife has to do this surgery, and he's
crying and he's making this drop.
Then he hears the Imam come in, so he stops and he gets up to leave.
Right? And Imam, he says, What is this dua that you're praying
Subhanallah you like you broke my heart just hearing you. And he's
weeping. So the man he cleans his face, he's, he's, he's a, like an
adult. Like, he's not some youth. He's an adult. And he's an older
man.
And he says,
My wife has an surgery tomorrow. It's unnecessary surgery, we keep
delaying it because we don't have the money. And I went, I spent all
night going to look out trying to get loans from everybody trying to
patch together 5000 From you, 2000 from you. Nobody will give me a
loan because his job isn't really strong enough. They don't think
they're gonna get paid back. Nobody will give them a loan. He
said then on the way home, I saw the message, open the door, the
mosque, I said, Okay, maybe this is for me to ask ALLAH SubhanA wa
Tada. So I came in. And I began to ask my Lord,
he said, How much do you need? So the man says, I need 15,400
pounds, 15,400 pounds. So he said, Well, I don't have that kind of
money. But I will leave you to go back to the one who's going to
answer you. So the man goes back and he spends the rest of the
night all in Doha until Feb when the Imam sleeps on the side. When
everyone starts coming in for so lots of veg and then goes off and
the shape of the mosque comes in, he insists that his guests lead
the prayer. So he leaves the prayer now in this in this masjid,
the prayer is actually there's a little loudspeaker. So the
apartment building next door can all hear the prayer.
And he's a famous Imam. So he's praying. And if he prays a long
prayer, because February should be pretty long prayer to make sure
that people would come down.
He turns around after the Salah, and he sees a man get up right
away and start approaching him that man, it looks like a very
rich guy, like with a scarf, polished, really clean looking
guy. And he's smiling, and he's so happy. He's like, I watch you
every day on TV. And we listened to your Quran and I couldn't
believe that you're reciting in our Masjid. He said, Yeah, it was
a coincidence as Subhanallah that I had to take an airport of
flight. And this message is right next to the airport. So I spent
the night here in the masjid and it made me pray. So that's why I'm
here. He then says that, like, what can I do for you? Right? And
he's he just talks about himself. I own factories, anything you
need, you have any? And you know, most mache they have these
initiatives. They got initiative, they feed the poor, they have
students, he's at whatever you need, your students need money.
Your institution needs money. You just tell me what you need. So
he's a No, everything's good. hummed it up. But thank you so
much, and we will keep in touch.
As the man is leaving, he remembers the other men is oh,
wait, hold on, hold on a second. He said,
I do have a need for you. There is somebody I came today I found him
praying, we crying his eyes out. He needs money. He said, Okay,
well Subhanallah my wife just today, as I was coming down, she
had
compiled the Zika. And she said unload the Zika because we don't
want this to get in our house. unloaded all today. So I have a
bag of Zika. He said okay, good. How much is it? So he says it's
15,400 pounds. Now the sheriff at this time, he can't believe what
he's seeing. And he his eyes start to well up and he starts to just
ease in shock. He calls he looks for them and he's like, Oh, I hope
the men didn't leave. He finally founds the poor man. He says Come
Come quick.
And then he says in front of the rich man. He says to the poor man,
tell me what happened tonight. He said, Well, as you know, I was
looking for these loans. I couldn't get a loan. My wife
surgery is today at 9am
and I saw the mustard door open. I came in and I just
begged to Allah for help. He said, How much do you need? He said, as
I told you 15,400 pounds. Now the rich man began to, to weep. He
couldn't believe what he's hearing. Right. And he's like this
is HCA had been piling up because I wanted to give it to one person
who was in dire need. Allah is my witness every he says, Every year
we give this a kettle as it comes in, like whatever money we just
give out envelopes to the people downstairs. And he said, This time
around, I wanted to give out the Zika to one person who was in dire
need. So I kept compiling it up in a drawer.
And this time around this morning, my wife said, if you're gonna go
out, take this money with you. I don't want this much money in the
house as it gets. It's not it has to be given up. So she made me
take it today. And I will usually he just like, I usually don't pray
in the masjid. But when I heard your recitation, I wanted to come
and meet you myself. That's why I'm here.
So he said, Subhan, Allah, Allah, the Indus min, Allah has driven
three people. He drove him, the Imam himself made him to come to
the mosque and spend the night there, the rich man to hear the
recitation come down to the mosque and the wife of the rich man to
something moved inside of her that she does not want this account
anymore. Right? She doesn't want this to get in the house anymore.
Unloaded today.
All three of them were crying. Right? And they couldn't believe
what they were seeing. They're seeing the job of Allah right in
front of them.
And now the entire Masjid is watching at this point. And the
poor man, he just breaks out. And he starts saying,
My Lord, I love you. I love you. And he starts screaming, he has
the money in his hand. Now he's I love you. And he starts
he's losing his mind.
But that's what it's like when Allah Tada, answer somebody. It's
literally people say, Why don't we see miracles we do all the time.
Right? This stuff is happens all the time. If you got your eyes
open, and you're either yourself or in a person and da, you're a
person of draw or you know people who are people of draw.
And when we say draw, it has to be there is really no difference
between emotion.
A spirituality and emotion cannot be separated. You could be an
emotional person, but not it has nothing to do with spirituality or
Dean.
But you cannot possibly be a spiritual person and have nothing
to do with emotion.
That's the difference. You can be an emotional person has nothing to
do with, with with Islam or Dean, but you the other way can't be and
the stronger the emotion in the dot meaning the desperation, the
need the desire, and the brokenness, the faster that you
job.
And I've heard some of the ODS say one tear does the job with Allah
subhanaw. That's his mercy. His compassion is that one tear will
do the job. It's upon a lot of them. So this was an amazing,
amazing story. It's widely known in the Arab countries. Because
this Imam is apparently widely known. I don't know him
personally. But the when Imams narrate this, they always say one
of our colleagues who's on Egyptian, he's very popular in
Egypt. And they tell the story, mandala the Imam himself didn't
tell the story in public he told it in private That's why no one
knows his name. But that's not the important part. So it's an amazing
story and an amazing amazing example and demonstration. This is
like in our time here. This is not some ancient times, somehow.
Alright, next Hadith says dinosaurian Ottawa Anna, Aisha
Radi Allahu Allah and her godets Mara Ito Rasool allah sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam Winchelsea Ron min mud la Metin a volley Maha
caught, I never saw the Prophet peace be upon him seeking
avenging his own self.
He never tries to get back something that was lost for
himself. Mal immune tak min Muharram Allah He che as long as
the acts of disobedience of ALLAH SubhanA which are no prohibitions
of Allah to Allah were were observed. There's nothing haram in
it.
For even to Hey, come in my atom Allah He Shaitan gurnam In Esha de
him fee there Lika kebab. But if something haram
if the rights of Allah subhanho wa Taala were broken, or were
transgressed I should say. Then we did not see anyone more angry than
him.
Well, not who you're obeying I'm Ronnie Electra SRO, Houma, Mala
Mia couldn't mathema and he was never forced to choose between two
things. Except he chose the easier one, as long as it was it was not
sinful. And we said about this. This is not in a bad debt and
while I'm at at this was in the daily routines of life, meaning
Should we take one route and take another route, things like that.
This was not in the deep what's the
proof of that is because the Prophet was not given choices in
matters of Deen, matters of Deen have come down to us. That's why
this is not the Azul here of if I have a question in FIP, that I
look at all the Muslims and I choose the easiest one.
That's this is not a hadith, of methodology of upright deriving
our religion
just to keep that aware because I knew a friend and I knew somebody
who that was his methodology
couldn't be a citizen without him. That was his, that was his
methodology in his religion. Now, we're not saying that that is your
going to be invalid, but it will lead to a path that is not right,
and is not good. Why because your whims and your desires and your
own opinion is the chief. Whereas the right way to do things is to
choose the methodology or the mm, and then follow that forever. And
then that becomes your households method that becomes your family
method, your life method, and you can transmit that to the next
generation. Whereas take the easiest of opinions means well,
easiest, to me is one thing, easiest to use another thing,
easiest in 20 years as a different thing, easiest in five years is a
different thing. Easiest to a woman is a different thing,
easiest to a child is a different thing. So we have no social
cohesion, if we all take by the easiest of the methods.
So that's it.
Now next, starting next Monday, there's an organization a group of
youth
on Instagram, I'm going to be doing presentations on the medical
method. And it's going to be really good it's going to be based
upon
chef Matata Yen's introduction to the Maliki method. So I'm going to
make a PowerPoint and we'll right we'll just do to do it right here
if you are you free Mondays after after this
but Monday after this you have class after Oh you do okay.
Okay, then we'll have to have Habib so you have to show Have you
had to do a PowerPoint? Yeah.
All right, next Hadith.
We read some of these so mesu Allah rasool Allah He sallallahu
alayhi wa Earley was ALLAH mercy and cutover call Allah. The
Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was in a type of MACOM or
state in which he is never says no to something he was asked.
He's never asked for anything and says no.
That's his motto. No, what if he, he couldn't afford a loan or
something. He took a loan and gave the money up like that.
And one time a man came to the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa
salam. And he asked for a loan
to buy some goods. So the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said,
go buy what you need, buy what you want to buy. And tell them it's on
my tab.
And the said, No matter interjected and he said, Oh Master
of Allah, this isn't necessary. You don't have to do this.
So a Bedouin heard this. And he says, mtpl Rasool Allah wa ala
attack Sherman DollarShaveClub, Allah and the Prophet was really
happy about this. The Bedouin said, Give O Messenger of Allah
and don't fear from the from the owner of the Oddish any deficiency
does. Allah has the wealth that Allah has,
has created in this world to be distributed has no limit. Another
man time the prophets I said them promise 70,000 of his OMA will
enter Jannah without haste up.
So a better one came in and he said LM
has dead Moravec Have you not asked an increase from your Lord?
Allah Nam?
He said yes, the Prophet said yes. And the veteran said Fuck him. So
how many is it now? He said, liquidity liquidity Mina, Sabina
elf Sabina elf for every one of the 70,000 Another 70,000. So it's
squared now.
And so the Bedouin says, Adam does Dedman Arabic. Have you not asked
more from your Lord?
So now said no modern ricotta came and he put his hand on the mouth
of the Bedouin enough.
Now this was an older man, and he knows armor. So he pushed the hand
of all modern katabi He said, he can you know, cut up, your hands
off me sort of cooked up. He says. I thought Dini min min basico and
Ben Beatty avec? He says, Am I asking something from your house
or from your dad's house?
I'm not asking you to give me anything so why are you so upset?
I'm asking Allah subhanaw taala not asking you.
So the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, Tao who you know
the Elmer, let him go, let him ask. And then the Prophet, he
said, yes to the veteran, yes, I have asked Allah subhanaw taala.
And then he gave me three bunches with his own hint. In other words,
a large amount that cannot have a number, right?
Of how many people from this OMO intergender, without he said,
So the prophets I sent him when he gave and they can we contemplate
numbers, and we contemplate wealth. This is such a huge
difference between us and Cofer. And if you get this right or
wrong, it's going to change everything is once you believe
that the resources out there in the world are limited, your
behavior is going to change, you have to change drastically. And
really, you become miserable. And the word miser and the word
miserable are from the same word essentially. Right? And that
society becomes a miserable society, a society that has like
complete stinginess, when the prophesy centum said, when you
give give up if there's no bottom to the pot.
So we have a situation where if we get this, if we trickle down or
octina properly, there is no limit to the wealth and to the risk of
the world. There's no limit to it, which doesn't mean we could be
wasteful at the same time the prophesy centum said in our
behavior, if you're making we'll do at the ocean, don't waste
water.
It's an ethic not wasting is an ethic. It has nothing to do with
just with the belief of miserliness. So we don't, we're
not wasteful, out of fear that there's not enough money. We're
not wasteful as an ethic to be wasteful is to be from the
brothers of shaytaan.
Alright, it's rough, can require a shout in, right to be wasteful,
and to be abusive, to nature to the world. Like we did the way we
use trees were meant to use trees.
We got kids now and kindergarten they want to give kids education
on laptops. Why?
These kids their eyes are red all day. Their excess. They're afraid
of the trees. I don't believe we have a shortage of trees anymore.
I don't know if it's a lie. There's plenty of trees wherever I
drive around. There's trees.
There's trees everywhere, right? And Allah will supply more trees
go grow some trees, instead of putting kids one year old, two
years old first grade, second grade all day on the computer. So
we can have a paperless office, a paperless school. I don't buy it.
To be honest with you read from a book it's It's better. It's common
for your eyes. It's better for you use the paper what stinginess? Is
this. Right, as long as you're using it, right? Use it a lot.
I'll provide you more. I used to be one of those kids found a lot.
Just forget myself many people, right?
When they buy the new sneakers, they walk like this. They don't
want to ever been you see kids who get the new Air Force ones. They
don't want to walk with them. They don't want to crease it that
sometimes they keep in Egypt. You go to the grant you go to your
your your your your aunts and your uncles. Nice furniture. I wouldn't
know the plastic is still on the furniture. Why is the plastic
still on the furniture? Oh, it's so valuable guy. They don't even
want to take the plastic off the furniture. Right? This is
Brooklyn. And I used to see people say use it. Finish it. We'll get
you another one. All right. There's no shortage of money here.
I'm telling you. It's a mentality of cover. Its cover not in the
sense of this believing in Allah but disbelieving in in a certain
element that Allah will provide its lack of Amen. So wastefulness
is something that where is forbidden for us on the one hand
of use is forbidden for us.
But use is allowed for us use and have no fear.
Scrap paper, use it as long as it's being put to good use. If
it's done with discarded a loss. If the shoes are finished, discard
a loss use it to walk right you don't think there's a shortage
there's a shortage of shoes, there's shortage of money. The
stingy mentality
was the difference of why chef Hashem who we had last week
entered Islam, the generous mentality he sought with toa tour
across North Africa, from Morocco, to Algeria, to Libya, to Egypt to
Sudan to Ethiopia, six countries, he went to
six countries, who did he meet regular common people just at that
time in the 50s and the 60s, and the 70s. The man was in the people
and they just shared everyone sharing but
I share, eat, no questions asked. He's like this is that's the truth
right there. That's the truth. When he got to the Christian
monks, that was his original destination.
He's like, these people have nothing compared to the regular
guy. Like they're mean looking, they're depraved. They don't share
they're not smiling, they're not happy. That's nothing
fitrah no intellectual thought here fitrah instinct of a human
being.
So this is the key that the prophets of Allah when he was
salam had reached a MACOM and a level he never met. So ILA and che
in got
for Karla, he was never asked to think good. He was never asked to
think except, and said no.
It's not a lot of them
won't obey the law and if not best, and Radi Allahu Anhu
malerkotla Khanna Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa alayhi wa
sallam Edward the nurse, he was the most generous of people. Now
there's there is one
exception. Now this is extremely important pay very close attention
to this. What's the difference between knowledge?
This is the biggest port aspect of knowledge is the specification of
the general and the qualification of the general. And the
generalization of the specific
if you go into knowledge and Hadith shot should have hearts of
Hadith tafsir. And even the commentary of the
followers of the witch Ted Imams, even what they say is that
understanding is always surrounding the concept of
qualifying general statements. And generalizing specific statements.
That means this is a general statement that was never asked
about anything except said no. So is that our position? Yes, but
there is a condition is that in the MACOM of tuttavia, this
doesn't apply. That is extremely important.
Whether you're a teacher or a parent, this does not apply. Okay.
So that doesn't mean I'm a teacher. And in the middle of five
minutes into class, a teacher can have a break. Yes, because the
Prophet never said no. That doesn't mean in every single macam
macam like a position. You're not in the position in the position of
data via this doesn't apply. There are many times where you're you
can and must say no.
When you're trying to train somebody, employee can have
arrays. Yes. Can I have arrays? Yes. Can I have arrays? Yes, then
you go bankrupt, right? So yeah, so that's why knowledge is
qualifying the general statements.
Right. I cannot tell you how many people are in confusion when they
take a general statement and apply it to every single situation.
All right. Let me give you another example in which medically
qualified a general statement the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam said try as much as possible to decrease the Hadith on
our Oma. This is the
the general gist of that hadith of many Hadith the prophesies do
and who do the Bishkek try to block off the Hadoop punishments
by doubt. Right, try to find some doubt to downgrade the punishment.
Okay, but we find Maddix approach towards Hadoop to be totally
different. He said when you punish, punish to the severest
because his interpretation of welcome Philippi saucy higher, you
have in the main punishments you have life. What does that mean? It
has two meanings. One meaning is there's a chance of forgiveness,
there's a chance of swapping out punishment for blood money.
But medic read it differently. He said no life for the rest of
society, when they see somebody get punished. When one guy gets
punished, there's life gets is for the rest of society because all
the other potential criminals back off. So medic always saw that
punishment should be able to severest and he was bought as a
judge all the time, he wouldn't be brought by a governor he brought
bought by the Khalifa. And he'd be brought criminals and he would sit
and the criminals will be brought forth and their portfolio will be
read to him. He did such and such. He did such and such He did such
and such and magic would say lash cut, slice, boom, punished and he
would come out happy. He says lecom Welcome filthy, saucy. Hyah
the society the community has life because all the criminals are
afraid now. Anyone who had a thought a child who witnesses this
will never think of doing that crime again. Because all of these
things they must be done in public. There have to be
witnesses. The more witnesses the better. So that a person who's
who's in need and he's thinking of
committing a crime
when he sees somebody being taken away in chains that doesn't do
anything, but when he sees blood, who back off
seeing someone get taken away in chains that's going to make the
petty criminals may be afraid, the weak, but a strong fear of care
about going to jail, jail time, what do I care about jail time,
right? But when he sees blood, and when he sees limbs rolling down
the street,
and heads, he's gonna think twice. Right? So that's the idea. That's
what so that's the concept of qualified the general and specify
and generalize the specific because there may be one thing
that's completely specific. But it's meant to be general. It
applies to everybody.
Right? So that's, that's what knowledge is, when you say
qualify, you mean like, specify limited? Yeah, it's a general
statement, but it has exceptions. Everything has exceptions. And the
exceptions should only be few. If we take that from Abu Hanifa. He
says a rule with many exceptions is not a rule. Right? So
exceptions should always be few. They shouldn't be many. This is so
important. And this is the difference between where l Hadith,
they just take a hadith and run with it. And then they make a mess
in society. And the alien mother had that what is the mother had
the truth, the truth, the correct understanding of the Hadith? Is
the correct understanding what the prophet meant by this, how do they
get that correct understanding from their whims know, by looking
at all the other narrations and what the Sahaba said? And how the
Tebah in explain what the Sahaba said, which is an explanation of
the prophets, Hadith, then they come to an understanding of, of
what is the ruling?
Alright.
You ever hear anybody here ever hear that? The this this, this
statement about the breastfeeding of an adult?
This and you heard about this festival and narration?
Yeah, but and people say, Oh, how could you have a religion where
you breastfeeding and drinking the breast milk of another woman, we
don't have this. Now. There is a narration. It's a hadith, but not
from the prophet from one of the sahaba. None of them are that have
apply it. They all say it's nothing, no antibiotic after two
months,
two years, and a couple months, one or two months.
There's, there's no more no law, there's no more adopt means
breastfeeding, in the sense of the application of breastfeeding
doesn't apply. Because in our religion, breastfeeding, if you
breastfeed a different baby, that baby becomes just like your baby
in the rules of gender, and marriage and things like that, and
touching and all that he becomes a sibling to your children. But
there are conditions the first the three conditions are that that
baby is no older than two years. And there's a two month cushion as
well. Number two, that baby still needs to be breastfed. If he's
weaned off of breast milk doesn't matter. Number three,
that baby should just take a gulp is enough, what what's the limit
of gulp is enough? What else how else it could be by a syringe, it
could be the breast milk could have it could come into the body
in any way that benefits the body. It could be powdered up into a
tablet and drink and eaten. It could be in any form, it can be
frozen for five years doesn't make a difference. And then he goes
takes a gulp, boom. That's how we adapt if you want to adopt a
child. And the foster child, of course is not going to be there's
no adoption in Islam, but you can take a foster child and that will
have his own father's name.
And let's say it's a boy, but I have a daughter, what do I do? So
if if if my wife had breast milk that was frozen,
and five years later I want to adopt, I'm going to adopt a boy,
that boy takes just a gulp before the age of two. And while they're
still
relying upon milk and not weaned my phone what's called
that beat that boy becomes to my wife like a son and to my
daughter, like a brother, they can go in no hijab is necessary they
can touch they can be in Halawa, and they can never marry.
So these are some rules.
What's going on with you people? Crazy fatawa of people who to who
you're not the first person to read the Hadith.
Go look at all the other Imams who read the Hadith. And they found
this is not enough to be evidence. All the action of the Sahaba is
contrary to that and they
Observe the conditions. Right? I'm off to them. What are they?
Are they on virome of them? He's already meaning is in year two,
up to year two and cushion of two months extra. Why? Because back in
those days they are sometimes don't know exactly the exact age
of a baby. So they put a cushion of two months no more than that.
And he's not there. He still relies upon that bottle.
Ryan was making basically was saying imagine these people who
take this fatwah and an adult go in for breast milk Spatola
put this phone on vibrate.
Because that was a Fetzer that went around at some point, sort of
absurd.
Kana sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Eduardo may Hakuna fishery Ramadan
he was most generous in the month of Ramadan.
Khadija Asif is asking me about how much it has to be one gulp is
enough. That's it. One gulp. If it's a syringe, if you put a
syringe in the baby, however you have it, if it's if the milk has
been frozen, dehydrated and mashed up and made into a tablet, right?
Or he looks some of it as a powder. It's all good. If the milk
was frozen for years, it's all good. As if the milk was mixed
with anything else, as long as it's still milk. And it's not less
than 51%. So in other words, the majority of it can be mixed mixed
with water mixed with something else, right, but it should still
look like breast milk. And it should be the majority of which
must be breast milk.
So mixing is not a problem. Now if it's a drop in a big cup of
chocolate milk then no because it's has no effect. Now, any
breast milk drink by anyone who is Matome or Goradia has no impact. I
came in and this is haram by the way, it's haram for us, because
it's considered nudges. Take a look up a glass of some woman's
*. McCann, glug, glug, glug, glug, glug, glug, glug has no
impact, except after drinking the Jessa. Right? Why is it permitted
for a baby it's permitted for a baby because he's, he's of the
mother for two years. He is composed of the mother so it's not
just for him. Right? A baby for two years in the Cydia is deemed
of the mother. He's nourished by her.
Right?
But we cannot eat a human right? Likewise, we cannot drink their
milk. We can eat a cow. We can drink its milk. We cannot eat a
pig. We cannot be pigs milk consumed pigs milk. So whatever
milk we can drink takes the ruling on the animal.
So lion milk mcru Because eating lion is mcru
sheep no color because eating sheep sheep is hella human milk
haram.
Just because it's haram for us to eat. So I cannot believe some of
the things that I see because people who have no deen and no
sense and
what would we know? We would know nothing if we didn't have this
revelation, let's be honest. But it's out there. That breast milk
is a is a thing though, that people do.
And it's illegal. But they go on Facebook.
And they meet up with people and they and they drink breast milk
and there was a I saw an interview with a bodybuilder he's like all
this has made me so much better. Right?
A bodybuilder drinking women's breast milk.
It's a fat. But if someone says oh now we're all brothers and
sisters. No we're not. And if you're past the age of two, it
doesn't make a difference. It says you did something haram that's it
for either lucky Oh Gibreel look at this if Gibreel whenever
Gibreel had just met the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
can Eduardo will Heidi mineralia Helmore Salah. So whenever he was
near to having met Satan a Gibreel. It's as if the prophet
was just closer to the heavens at that moment. So he was even more
generous than his usual self. more generous than the wind that bright
takes everything with it. Good.
When mother's lactate and it gets on their clothes, is it in a
Jessa?
No, it's not not just and human breast milk. Maybe we can say the
human isn't that a lot if we can say it's not just it's a good
question. Maybe I'll go back on my saying that
It was not just and just say It's haram
it's from the overlook things. Okay, good. Brian just told us
it's from the overlook things because of how much I guess that
it happens. Okay.
Thank you for that answer.
Where's your where's that anomalously? Good, I Love Lucy.
Now that I have my copy
and have a copy of that 20 years ago,
her death and I could save of Northside, her death and Jennifer,
Edna Sulaiman and service and Ennis of numeric La Jolla, who I
know Carla can interview Salalah when he when he was salam lay a
decade with Che nd that he never saved things for tomorrow. He
give, give, give, don't worry, give, give give. It's from an act
of, of octina an amen when you give, because it's not fearing
that there's going to be something like loss tomorrow.
It's from our weakness that we save and save and save us from our
weakness. not haram, but it's from our weakness.
P 6061. We're going to answer your question
about your 18 year old son who wants to move out, I'm going to
answer that. But in general, if he can survive on him, I'll answer
that and I don't know if I have an answer because it might need some
specifics and I don't like to give a general answer to a situation
that might not be your situation.
The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said to a man who asked him
for sadaqa Allah met in the shade I don't have anything we're
lacking. If to Allah for either journey shaitan could die to
go and buy and sell in my name. And then when I get something I'll
pay back.
For God Almighty Allah Sula, but Arteta who fell Amma Khalifa for
Mac AllAfrica Allah who may Allah tuck the Rue La. Allah hasn't
commanded you to do what you can do. On messenger of Allah for
carry has sallallahu alayhi wa sallam cola over. The Prophet did
not like what almost said he hated the statement stinginess in the
statement
for Karla Raja luminol unsought a man from the unsalted said Ya
rasool Allah MPEP, Allah azza wa jal Kaufmann, dlrc UCLA Allah
give and don't fear of from the owner of the Oddish any decrease,
there's no decrease. Look at how much is out there in the world.
Why are you worried?
furtiva Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam will refer which
feet were already for watchI he'll Bish
he laughed, he smiled and we could see the happiness in his face.
The COVID on Saudi for makalah behead that Olmert than the
Prophet said with this I was commanded that's how we live.
Don't be stingy.
doesn't leave no Hodge
and burner shriek and Abdullah
and Muhammad Ivanov de la Robbia been to my within it now for our
call it a day to Nebia sallallahu alayhi wa early was salam pinner
and Murata. I came to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
with a bushel of dates with adjutant Zubin. And another thing,
let's see what is an Agilent zalben?
Agilent zalben How does that translate?
To 339 engines overburden
cucumbers, small cucumbers
for Al Thani mill Caffee. Holy and weather hubba. So he gave me he
get grabbed jewelry and gold and put it in my head. Is that is that
the value of some dates? No, of course not. Profit was being
generous.
It's being generous.
Yeah, read, get punished for this. The this is in the chapter of
removing a Jessa from the place of prayer or the clothes or the body.
And it's
the one who has difficulty avoiding headaches on the garment
like the breastfeeding woman who is diligent. So yeah, the breast
milk is, is notice
and it's overlooked for the person who's diligent. overlooked for the
one who's diligent. Good. Thank you very much.
One I shot an interview said Allahu Allahu alayhi wa sallam
McKenna, he Caballo el Hadiya
where you will see why later. He used to accept gifts, and he used
to reward people for it.
biller was asked how did the Prophet said the villa was asked
how did the Prophet spend his money? He did not keep anything
says biller.
Until the end, I was responsible for handling his finances. It was
his noble habit, that when a person accepted Islam and came to
him, and if he saw the person, this person was unclothed or poor,
he commanded me to spend upon him and clothe him, and I would obtain
a loan from somewhere. And I would purchase clothing and food for the
outfit I would host What did I tell you guys about hosting? It's
so important. It's part of our religion. If we don't do this,
we're not fulfilling the Sunnah properly.
We got people, students, we have to host them. And it's Annamma
it's a blessing. And I gotta tell you, it's a lot of fun to to have
guests yesterday, we had two people from Virginia, right?
Brother, Amina sister for hot Yes. Remember when Sheikh Hashim was
given the talk mbyc. And he was like, What's this thing like the
sheikh comes and you throw them in a hotel and have some little
volunteer just throw the take them in the car and throw them in a
hotel? Right? Like there's no personal, or what is the happiness
of life other than human interactions, right. And that's
why really, we want to get this apartment going. Right? We want to
eventually have an apartment here.
Sheikh Khalid HRSA, he has a, they just bought an apartment. And they
use that as a hotel for anyone who wants to come.
Yeah.
And they pay like half the price, right? And it goes to the
foundation,
his foundation, and at least they don't have to pay the price of a
real hotel, and they get to cook for them and be there and supply
them with food and have some human relations.
Once a person from the machine came to meet, and began saying
that I have a lot of wealth, whatever loan you may need to take
it from me and it is not necessary to take a loan from anyone else.
So I started to take loans from him. One day I perform will do and
was preparing to call then I saw this pagan coming with a few
merchants. Upon seeing me he said Yeah, Habashi I sent him here. He
started yelling at me. He said how many days left until the end of
the month, so you can pay the debt.
I said there's still a few days before the day the debt is over.
All right, is due. He said four days are left. And if you do not
pay your loans at this time, I will make you a slave. And you in
lieu of this debt. The way you are grazing sheep before when you are
a slave. Okay? Say the Beloved said whatever becomes of a person
as a result of such threats. The same overtook me.
In other words, I became really angry whatever, whenever when you
get threatened whatever anyone else would get upset I became
extremely angry. After I came to the messenger of allah sallallahu
sallam, I told him what happened.
And I said, there's no way to pay the debt so quickly. Right? We
don't have anything. So the prop, the setting the Beloeil is
essentially he's handling this, this the hosting of the new
Muslims.
And he's saying there's no money, and this man has gone crazy. He
wants to debt. So the Prophet sighs and so he says, I have to
hide because I don't want to be right have issues with this, this
powerful men.
When you pay the debt, I'll come out. Otherwise, this Mushrik is
going to he's going to be after me he's giving me a headache. This is
what Satan did. I said to the Prophet, before the morning prayer
person came running to me
and said that Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was
calling you so I came to the messenger peace be upon him.
And he said Allah has freed you from all these deaths. He says Is
there anything left from the goods from the gifts or not are applied
a little is left Oh, so he came back?
The these four camels are standing filled with with gifts, okay, from
a ruler,
a governor, a chief. So I went to the man I gave him everything from
the debts. Then the province I said and said Is there anything
left over from this and after the debt
and the biller said only a little bit is left. So the prophesy said
and distributed so that I can rest. There was a personal gift
from one government to the prophets. I said no.
So the prophets I seldom just distributed. The evening fell yet
there was some left there was a little bit left after Aisha, he
asked, Is there anything left?
He said there weren't that many poor people today. So there is
some left
right
Message, messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam will not go home.
He spent the night in the masjid. The next day after Isha, he
inquired again. Right? And I replied, Allah has freed you from
its responsibility. Everything has been distributed. Then the Prophet
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam thanked Allah and he went home.
They did not he didn't profits, I said it did not want anything on
his account, not want any kind of
wealth, leftover two,
amazing concept, this gwy this concept of generosity. Anytime
that I hear people talking about
I hear people talking about
the economy, I shut the radio off right away. I never ever, ever
listened to anything. These people have to say they don't have a God.
They don't have a creator. And the wealth will come. I don't believe
in any of what they're saying.
They don't have any men.
Questions and Answers last time last week, so you guys didn't get
any questions and answers. We'll start with the question from
Instagram about peace. She asked. Or her name is peace, something.
The account name? My son is 18 years old. He's being selfish. He
wants to leave. What do I do?
I can't answer this question. It's there's a lot of specifics.
involved. It's too general. So unfortunately, I can't tell you
whether that's right or not. It could be a situation where his
leaving would cause more fitna to him.
And it could be a situation where it's better for him.
I can picture both in my head.
So I can answer the question you should you should see the local.
You should see your local leaders and ask them question q&a Before
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with the time change? So we got we got the youth class
536 57 Don't
go so mad you forgot 630
Yep.
630 We'll start Medicare.
This shot is of you know, we are a muslim was taken mostly
formalities. Yeah. Kalia. Yeah, yeah, yeah. In most of the
chapters of Arpita and non FIP. Basically, yeah. Carlo cardio,
cardio, cardio. Cardio cardio. Yeah, who else was in our nursery?
Who was the other man that was it was to Mackey man's
other one called there yet all over the place? Yeah.
I wish I could be in that class. Yeah.
What's the difference you know, shiny metal digital automatically
or eyeshadow, Neff or mentally do chef Aya are also a shadow.
If someone goes I'm gonna chef any majority community but reads and
listens to the majority Maliki chefs and scholars? Should one
just switch methods you might as well
so
yeah,
so he didn't you come to his he's studying. He's still seeing which
mother? That's the right way to do things.
Yeah.
Next question.
How can I improve my English, listen to lectures, listen, listen
to lectures, listen to people, and read books.
Watch the news sometimes.
With the ArcView Arabic grammar course how should we structure the
readings? Should we do one of the readings after learning the topic?
So read it first yourself. Then listen to the lecture
with my explanation of it, then read it again. Then do the same
for the next lectures. Then go back
and do it again. Language is about repetition. It's all repetition.
Repeat. Repeat, repeat, repeat, repeat. Keep doing it over and
over and over and over and over and over.
And even if it's like one
one passage until you, you become an expert in what that passage
says, go.
I'm sorry, I have to eat this banana
as well remember we're in Mecca, and we were going, you know for so
hard walking around the Hudson Yeah, I mean with the roll up on
this group of Somalis Yeah. Biryani with bananas in it was in
a plastic bag that's forcing it out. I thought
he was eating the whole thing. That is really weird.
Lily Rose says I'm feeling very sad about a boy who died from
mold.
It should be corporate manslaughter. I didn't hear about
it Muslim family.
Okay.
Am I obliged says Kasun to pray Juma when traveling and visiting
parents who are an hour away. I
know you're a traveler. But we don't pray traveler in the house
that we grew up in either
grew up in your parents house when you got to your parents house.
Pretty normal
in the sense that it might hurt them. Right, that you're you're
not praying normally with them. If that's the case,
had enough is inviting us to St. Louis.
Can you do an episode on optimal coverage? Jay Leno said no,
because he genuinely is I think he was born and died in Erbil. Thani,
which is the month that we're in right now.
But I couldn't Yeah, I could. Pretty sure we did one
about that.
Is it permissible to breastfeed in more than 24 months?
No, she should not breastfeed beyond 24 months.
Because the Quran says
30 months
and the pregnancy, it's 24 months of breastfeeding. And then six
months, three months of the pregnancy is like unknown that
she's pregnant. So that's six months of pregnancy, and 24 months
of nursing. And then it's good to stop there. I never saw that It's
haram to continue breastfeeding. But I think you should stop there
is gelatin Halal through St. Hala? Yeah, there is some comments
saying that some some works of FIP or fatawa and FIP saying that it
is through is to help so many people
have changed. So many people have said this, that it's completely
structurally changed. But we have to go I have to get the fence on
myself and read it to you.
Who is it that fed half a million people? The Prophet salallahu
Salam Subhan Allah
subhanaw taala.
Someone was sitting here like they did a calculation over the process
on his lifetime, how much wealth he gave? Yeah, it was in the
billions. I think that's insane. Because the amount of conquest
wealth he had, and he gave it all away, he would have been the
richest men in Arabia, there's no doubt about it beyond anyone
else's imagination. He gave it all the way. What about
his salah, I had a calculation one time from a lecture that I heard
that he was in Salah one quarter of his waking time, Adam basil.
And you wonder how is the prophets I send them in Sakina?
How can I explain what the four schools of thought are in simple
terms? Good. The four schools of thought are
very simply this is a great question. What are they in simple
terms? They are the answers to questions not explicitly answered
in the Quran or Hadith.
They are the answers to questions not explicitly answered, neither
in Quran nor in the Hadith. So,
what does not renew the myth hub? An absolutely explicit verse
where all the words cannot have multiple meanings. The word has
one meaning only.
That's copy we call that copy explicit. We don't need a method
for that.
Let's Acropolis Zina Don't come near as in. Do you need a method
for that? No, don't come near committing fornication and
adultery.
But sometimes the Quran speaks with a word that may have
different meanings. Which one is
okay?
or a new matter comes along?
That is not a question comes along in the time of the second
generation, or the third generation or until our generation
that has no direct answer, you know, Quran and Hadith.
And we need an example. Write an answer. The meth hubs will answer
that. How when why are they different? Because they determined
they develop a methodology by which to answer such questions. So
the answer to a loaded question is quite simply, that meth hubs, they
exist to answer questions that are not explicitly
answered by the Quran, Hadith.
That makes sense. I hope that answers your question.
Evening,
okay, is it okay to pick and choose from the Format hubs seeing
they're all Allison.
In the sense that you're a bad that would be valid,
it would be valid, but that's not the right way to do things, the
right way to do things is not to look for the answer that you like,
and then work backwards.
The right way to do things is to choose a method.
And stick with that method, you choose a method once, and you
stick with it forever.
This is like logic and thinking and common sense.
Because if you put your own mind and your own desires as a filter,
then your own desires, and your own mind grows and grows and
grows. And your own mind and your own desire is something
subjective. And relative, when you now have a family, or you lead a
community, they don't, they don't have to agree with your own mind
and your desires. So you can never have a social cohesion with how
your family practices religion.
Okay, and your own mind and desires can change. And you will
end up with a religious package that nobody else has on the face
of the earth.
Because on socks, I agree with him and him but on making up prayers,
I agree with that commitment. But on seafood, I agree with medic,
on wiping over whatever on this, that and the other I agree with
Shafi.
You can't even keep track, you will never have a book for this.
So it's not the right way to do things that he had the use of
brain. We're all smart. Just because you're not a scholar
doesn't mean you're not smart. And you can't study the use of the
intellect by the non scholar
is to to to study the Imams and their methodologies.
And then to pick one
and choose who the question is, which of these methods and Imams
is most worthy of following.
And I'm doing introduction on the Maliki method. And everything
about Imam Malik and his approach and everything.
It's going to be starting next Monday and it'll be probably three
or four sessions.
And I'm probably going to repeat this right over and over. Because
once I get the PowerPoint done, it's going to be extremely
valuable probably do it every year.
Khadija Aasif says
if you are someone that moves every few years, should we change
methods to the country we move to know once you solidify us. Like if
I moved to Turkey.
If I ever had to move to Turkey, yeah, if I'm raising my kids, it's
okay. Go be Hanafis. But then again, the world now is different.
Right? The world is so different. To get access to everything now. I
can be at humbly wherever I want right now. And I guarantee within
a few years I'll learn the humble method. Because we got the
internet, a one or two trips to see the shoe myself.
I highly advise if you study with somebody online, make the effort
to try to go and visit that chick and see them face to face. Like I
see a lot of names here over and over and over and over.
Yeah, come come through at one point. Make it a vacation you go
check out in New York City. I live in New York City, right? I just
watched a video of Protestant who thinks that it's the seat of the
Antichrist, or like No, it's not the scene that the antichrist.
Oh,
how about the nonprofit's I sent him say he's gonna come in
Jerusalem, right. He's going to try to make his happy bomber son.
I want to students said I don't want to go back to America. So
landed the jet. He said What are you talking about the jets coming
in the east, not the West. Yeah, the West may be doing that.
all the legwork for the Antichrist culture and the completely non
spiritual materialistic atheistic culture. But the jettison the East
anyway, make it a vacation you come check out New York City.
And then you come
and then come to
swing dad's only 40 minutes out of New York City. It's amazing. And
Newark Airport is 19 minutes from us.
Newark Airport. Yeah. From my house Newark Airport is like a 19
minute drive.
I love Newark Airport. United, I have to say it's an it's a united
hub.
I have to say that united must be the number one worst airline of
all time. Like, this is one of the worst airlines, although I fly
united all the time, because it's the United hub.
Right? But it's the worst, they're the worst, right?
But
you try to meet the person that you're going to study with.
And you're not going to study with one chick FIP you're gonna study
with many and you're gonna read many books. If you're studying,
let's say Maliki,
you buy every Maliki book that you see
right. So that you have a library and you take every Maliki course
that you can take you view will become marinated in the method and
you will truly understand right what is the dominant opinion in
the method and what is maybe a different one issue. Same goes
with the Hanafi is in the shaft phase in the HANA villa, what is
the rightly guided path that has never failed? You follow the
maturity of your method to the best of your ability and you study
your Ashati or your metric Dr. Peters and you are here to solve
is much Salah on the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa salam much
Jah attend every gathering that you can. And if Allah bestows a
link between you and especially a shape that is special then that's
from Allah subhanho wa taala.
What should one do when they have a lot of needs, but they've hit
rock bottom and have lost hope that their diet will be
manifested?
Okay, this is a very important question. We talk a lot about DHA.
And the precondition of DHA is belief that Allah will answer you
what if my belief itself in the.is fading away that belief is fading
away for no reason other than sins? And lack of a better so
leave off sins?
The reason that you don't have faith in the DUA anymore is your
sins. Leave off your since fight sins and recite Quran recite a lot
of Quran recomb obsessed with reciting Quran every five minutes
recite a page or two
every break you get recite five pages recite yes seen all the
time. This will solidify the recitation of Quran will solidify
your iman once you've solidified your foundation now you will have
hope again
and your your belief in the dot will come again alive again the
only reason that we we lose faith in our prayer being answered is
because our Eman is down and our Eman is down because sins are up
recitation of Quran is not
for to Hashem that's attributed to Imam walk it is their authentic. I
can't remember
which one you're talking about them.
This hadith of voodoo Hashem
is it necessary to follow a mother? Yeah, if you're taking
your deen seriously you're going to eventually choose a methodology
and stick with it forever.
Do you know if is Takata is positive? Yes Is Takata is an
excellent Iboga to do in order to see and to know
to know exactly
where to get more strength in my decision making
that is Takara to get more strength in my decision making
that I'd ask Allah subhanaw taala to show us to show us a sign and
that sign is ease ease make it easy. Okay.
Make my path easy and remove obstacles now if Allah places
obstacles, then you know that it's not time yet. It doesn't mean no.
Just means not yet.
Okay.
And if it's a choice of two and one has obstacles and the other is
clear, and I have to make a decision that I go
and I take that decision off the man says he clearly you have not
flown Spirit Airlines yet. No, I haven't.
Ryan Airlines is that in America, England. That's here. That's an
England Run.
What do you have to do to compromise you got to notify us
and your arrival will be Thursday. We will take care of you from
Thursday to Sunday three days of the offer. And we have programs in
the masjid Kadima day. And sisters in our the welcoming crew, such as
in will take care of the place, she will make sure it's stocked.
She will make sure your bedding and your sheets are nice and
clean. Right? She and her daughters will put the room
together, okay, in a way that I want to spend the night here,
right? And there will be coffee.
And what do we call those things? electric kettles and tea and sugar
and honey and eggs, and a pen and olive oil. Okay. And then Kareem
is the one who will make sure the doors open for you. And he will
bring you to the masjid if you need. So this is our welcoming
group. So you need to inform us right? So right you can send an
email to info at Safina society dot orgy. There's a full bathroom
here. Now when you come Thursday night, we have all classes in the
masjid. Then Friday we have gym up and then we have lunch after gym.
And then we have usually there's something going on Friday night.
Saturday, nothing goes on. You want to hang out with the guys if
you're a guy you want to go check out New York City, we can take you
to the to the to the NJ Transit, right, which is 14 bucks, you get
a
train to New York City. Get into Penn Station right under Madison
Square Garden. Spend the day in Midtown. Look at it. It's really
nice. There's some highlighted restaurants there.
Come back Sunday classes all day. And then you pack up your bags.
And you you leave and then that's it. Right so hamdulillah that's
that's our intent and that's what we do here.
Slave King says When do you think LML hammer is going to happen? Or
the arrival of the digital who allow them to be quite honest with
you only Allah knows these things
will be in said Would you ever come to visit South Africa I would
love to visit South Africa like that Pacific and Indian Ocean area
is really interesting to me. Like from Australia to South Africa.
That's that's the Pacific Ocean and then goes all the way to the
Indian Ocean. To me that's like amazing stuff.
What would you suggest says Shakira
as a good starting point to study Islam. I have completed the
standard mother's education here in the UK Hanafy reciting Quran
DUA and Sera so I would say if you completed a madrasa education
good then I would highly recommend you take more rods of data in
depth detailed Aki, the course on arc view dot orgy
that's the website, arc view dot orgy
go in there you sign up. The classes are on Sundays. But the
recordings are all there and start studying with detail his class and
nakida highly recommend that and if you can find a teacher teach
you off to either where you are in UK, I would advise that too. I
missed the UK to be quite honest with you about it. And our weather
today is resembling the UK and when it gets cold like this
and gloomy. Last I checked.
I actually spent five hours in Heathrow airport the other day.
Terminal B gorgeous terminal. I love Terminal B I've never been to
Terminal B before but it's got a masala
it's really a nice terminal. Magnum comes in at 250 was like
wow 250. So that's another unbelievable
but you couldn't get used to it life in the UK. You can get used
to it.
Chief Latif wants to come when there's a MOBA event, keep your
eyes peeled a monster mawatha playlist is going to come out with
all the questions that we answered
on the mawatha
initiative, Melinda is the matrimonial event which is nbc.org
forward slash
Melinda
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matrimonial, the way it works is you put a you fill in an
application. They are constantly reading different applications.
And the people who are reading them are dotted FET students.
They're constantly reading these applications and they match people
and then they send you an application and they take your
permission just to send you exchange emails. After that you
take it on yourself
Okay.
Here's a question.
Hello.
Hello.
Oh, very good. Very good. Let me call you right back. Let me call
you in an hour.
Okay.
I appreciate it. Thank you very much, sir.
Thanks.
All right, a woman says
I don't have to cook or clean the house as per the chef or emailed
him.
What do you say about this? I say nothing.
All of this theory, go live lived life. Nobody practices that.
So nobody practices, right.
In real life, we all contribute. Especially when we love somebody.
We all help out. Is it my job to clean up?
Anything, right? No. But if I live in a house, and I want other
people to be happy in that house, I clean. Right? I help out. All
that's theoretical. Go actually and live with human beings.
Everyone is you'd be embarrassed not to contribute. Everyone wants
to contribute. That's the way it is.
Does it have to be an obligation because we need everything spelled
out that you have to do this? Marriage is a contract that's
based upon generosity. It's not, it's not based upon?
It looks like I got my magnet up time.
Oh, I see. I see. I see. I must have my phone must have not
updated from the previous timezone that I was in. So that's why it's
a 253 for my group
in the UK, so it's more like 453. Okay, fair enough.
So not everything in marriage is by law. It's by generosity. It's
by common sense. So I say whatever, don't even bother. When
humans live with each other and the rubber hits the road, then
everyone changes, then common sense prevails.
And love prevails too.
What about the statement that Imam asuci says the OMA will not pass
1500 years? What is that all about? Okay.
There is a weak Hadith.
Okay, there is a weak Hadith that says that.
Allah subhanaw taala promised if my OMA obeys, he gives them one
1000 years, but if they disobey, he only gives them 500 years.
So a CLT said that a CLT said that we obey it Allah for 1000 years,
then we disobeyed Allah. So the time of the Omo be 1500 years.
That's purely his speculation on it.
It's purely speculation. So there's no ruling on that there's
no nothing serious about that.
Did IGNOU Josie and Abdulkadir Jayla Annie meet Yes, they did
meet and live at the same time I believe.
Lily roses asking husband has to either pay someone or everyone
pitches in her duty is just to help raise the children.
Yeah, let's not forget now that she is going to live in the house
to she's wants to live in a clean house to write and it's not
practical this way of living where we only go by the letter of the
law by the letter of the law. I only have to provide you with a
cup of rice
every day to eat a loaf of bread and a cup of water. If are we
going to live like that? That's not how anybody lives. I guarantee
you it's not how anybody lives. But is it one of the Sunon and,
and the formula is for a man to make life easier for his wife.
Yes, it's also a Sunnah felida for a wife to make life easy for her
man.
Right? I'm telling you feminist discourse, careerist discourse for
men and women, career ism.
It's all about your career. Well, isn't that taking time away from
something else? I've never seen a careerist man or woman except that
it affects their family badly. So be very mindful of careers
discourse.
And then either both feminist and red pill attitudes. I don't know
what they're saying to say in all different things. Some of its nice
some of its not. But the attitudes are always negative. They're never
good. And they always start
promote hate, and fighting and argumentation. dump it all in the
toilet and go with the seal of the prophets of Allah when he was
Saddam and go look at how the righteous people live. That's it.
That's it
can I take my time studying different mother hip? Yes, you can
and then choosing one yes, yes, you have no gun to your head.
Take your time study a method and live your religion by that method,
your life by that method
I should l or Islamic Inc, or their Islamic English speaking
education type organization do recommend for a North American
female who will be in Turkey
only for a few months.
There is you need to go look up, I can get you the information. It's
Shrek Moogerah hottie.
But I don't know if there's English there.
But it's a woman school.
Headed by Sharon woods,
one of the Syrian Allamah
if you find a way to communicate with me, I can get you names of
people who can help you connect you up. And you can spend time
with them.
How long is the Quran Thursday, about an hour less than that.
In the Islamic tradition, the husband worked, provide the house,
paid the bills, wife cook clean and looked after children. In
general here the general thing of human beings and in Islam as well,
where there is danger.
And, and the heavy lifting, whereas there's there's danger.
And there's a burden, the burden of financing the burden of
maintenance, protection. That's the responsibility of the men.
Where there is caring compassion is generally the abode of the
woman. This is these are general, this is not even Islamic. This is
human. Right. In all human cultures. I believe that that's
the case. And that's a reality that
when the Prophet came here, there was no objection to that. In fact,
it confirmed the man's responsibility of protection and
maintenance. Let me just repeat this, as I said this many times,
we have absolutely no connection to any of these secular ways of
living. They don't know how to live. I'm telling you.
My day growing up, liberals were sort of cool people, right?
They're freaks now. The whole lot of them.
Go look at this news stays thing where a guy
who needs to lose weight has just won. He's not handsome. He's not
he's overweight, and he just won Miss New Hampshire.
Miss New Hampshire, it's a dude who's big. Right? He would he
wouldn't make any sports teams. Right? He wouldn't be able to run
the mile in six minutes or seven minutes like you need to do in
gym. He can't run a mile period. Poor women now It's haram right?
There's beauty pageants. But the poor woman who How about the woman
who exercised who dieted
like even within the Haram, you feel bad for them. Right? Like,
they try they put effort. This kid is eating Twinkies. And he's a guy
and he went into the women's pageant or the main products of
the really, it was it was good yesterday. Yeah. Because we were
talking about this after class. And he was like, you know, like
from the adab. Of like, discussion. Yeah. Like you don't
even debate on something that is intrinsic knowledge. Yeah. Like
any, anybody can get this person and say this is about the beauty
pageant where they're like, it's like, you have to be deluding
yourself to the fullest extent to say that this person is worthy.
Unbelievable. It is unbelievable. The emperor has no clothes, folks.
The you all know the story. The emperor has no clothes, where the
Emperor issued an edict. Okay, that his clothes for this outfit
is see through. He's wearing clothes, but it's transparent
clothes. And he comes out naked, like with his underwear on and a
crown on his head and a stick. And everyone said, wow, amazing
clothes by the Emperor. Right? And there's a little kid he says, what
is an emperor's naked? The emperor has no clothes.
I'm telling you, right? That guy would not even have gotten the job
as a presenter of the award. Right?
He wouldn't have been an extra in a movie with that image. And they
given him the award for Miss New Hampshire. It's like you don't
even have to debate it like if somebody says like this person
deserves to win the award. Just be like I'm sorry man. Like no,
there's no debate. He went to a hospital if this is what you think
if there is good
Vincent's society, we don't debate them, we don't even try to provide
proofs for them. And in the books of Monty, they say the hardest
thing to prove is the obvious, like, prove to me that my hand is
up. It's obvious, right? I can see like, you make fun of somebody if
they're saying your hand is not exactly and like, are you crazy?
We have mental disorder has taken over the liberals.
Right? Absolute utter mental disorder has taken over. So
anything that they tell you that has anything to do with life,
dumping in the garbage, or listen to it, and probably the opposite
is more true than than what they're saying. So if someone's
come up, and they have any of these notions in their head, you
need to go empty your head into the toilet and flush the toilet,
right? And all of this stuff and
support a lot of them.
What does Allah say about people of wimps? What is the Quranic
argument against people of wimps? Allah simply says in the Quran, fo
Atia mana taka Ido Hawa. Have you seen them? Have you seen the one
who taken his wins as a god? That's the argument? Have you
looked at it? Have you seen it? On a log? All you have to do is see
it.
I don't have to tell any more. I don't have to convince my kids.
What's wrong anymore? My teacher wrote on the board yesterday.
Yeah, Montesquieu, the downfall of democracy is ignorance that people
Yeah, he's like LGB. And he's liberal. Whenever I was about I
was about a risk my whole college career, raise my hand and ask that
question.
Right. I'm believable. Some French political theorist, right. Yeah.
He's like this. He's like, if you learn anything from college, learn
this. Oh, my God, like you're crazy. Maybe it's true, but we're
experiencing it. We're living in it. Everyone knows deep down that
these liberal views are a load of rubbish. People are just too
scared to speak out because there'll be live as homophobic or
transphobic is their word for trans disgusted? I'm not. I'm not
I'm not afraid of you. phobic. I have no phobia towards you. But I
have a disgust Am I allowed to be disgusted anymore? Like, where's
my freedom to be to like and not like, right?
Yeah, like, what? That's that's how that's who I am. Like, you say
you're born with this attraction. I'm born with this repellent.
Right? I'm born hating this stuff, and being disgusted by it. So
we're gonna have to have a society where people can't even say that a
guy is not a pretty woman.
Oh,
it's a freak show, folks. It's lost. And I'm glad to be at least
lost with these wonderful people here on YouTube and on Instagram.
At least we could feel like we're together in this. That's the
beauty of this live stream.
Because you you see it, you think about it, but at least now we have
100 Other people agreeing with us here.
Did you see the documentary? What is a woman by Matt Walsh? No, I
haven't seen it. I probably shouldn't see it, but I haven't
seen it. Like that's what, like it was a big thing when the man said
that yesterday because like we're taking this intellectual approach
trying to say like, oh, this and this. It's just a joke. Like, it's
a joke. You think there's a third gender? I would just laugh at
that. It's not even like you cannot enter the discussion. Yeah,
if you enjoyed the discussion, you insult your own intellect. Like
someone's saying up is down. Yeah, I throw something up and up is
down. This is *. Tell me something. Why can't my if my
gender could be different on my license? Now, which the state of
New Jersey has allowed? Why can't my color be different? So why
can't I have a license plate? That's a shadow muscley blue eyes?
six foot three 200 pounds? Female? Why can't I have that? Why? Why
can I change my birthdate? April 6, what am I want to make it?
January 3 1972. I want to identify as being older or younger.
Isn't age a lot more fluid? Like you look at me, you don't know
what my age is? Right? You do you have an idea what I'm not. I'm not
20 And I'm not 60? Right? Somewhere in between? I'm not 30
I'm not 25. I'm not 55. Somewhere in between.
Age is a lot more fluid than than gender. But you can't look at a
guy and say and not know he's a guy right away. So why if we're
going to play games with that, why don't we play games with age? How
about colors? Right? What what color skin? Am I what do I qualify
us? Right? What if I want to qualify as Asian?
Unbelievable.
I don't think I'm ever, ever going to get used to this thing. I don't
want to get used to it. Probably 90 years old flipping up. If
they're still alive, these people are going to die off.
Here's something I work in healthcare says soap hate. And I
attend had to attend an hour seminar about different genders
flags, fetishes. What is his business with fetishes and weird
things?
I studied eight years to be a healthcare professional. And
they're teaching me this stuff that's basically from Reddit,
essentially.
Unbelievable.
Mohamed says, Can you please recommend a teacher I can study
Montek with, hmm. inning English. Good question, I have to get back
to you on that. I have to get back to you on that.
Unreal.
So when it comes to when we talk about our families, and we say,
Yeah, we have two genders. And we have roles and responsibilities
and ways of living for each one. And this is comes like a shock to
anyone who's been in public schools or just came up in the
general mono culture. Right? Well, we have to tell them like, listen,
we're totally different from you. Who would want to be like you?
Right? You guys have gone off. And on the other side to Christian
Crusaders. They are similar to us in this but they also want us dead
too.
So the middle of the country of America. I don't know if you have
this in England. But the hardcore Protestants, the evangelicals,
like vit we're in agreement on the basic logic of life. There's guys
and girls, there's angels and demons. There's good and bad, we
agree on that stuff. But we're on total opposite ends within that,
within that these guys are crusaders they want, they hate us
right after they hate. Like, whatever else they hate. Like
we're right up there in the top five things they hate.
So they're not our friends either.
That's the problem we're in. So we're in Omaha that's got the
Crusaders on one side, and komoot on the other side. And we got to
find our wiggle our way through. That's our life essentially.
A lowly says I actually taught Muslim girl a few years ago, who
was transitioning into a boy I was lost for words and she's attending
an all girls school.
Now we have a question ask this Brian guy. He is He identifies as
a girl.
Oh Bucha. Patrick guy.
Are you telling me and he he has his male organs? Like he never
snipped anything cut anything? He still has testicles. And he's got
his male organs? Are you telling me he was in the locker room with
these women? Right?
Are you people dumb? What is wrong with you? He was in the locker
room or the changing room, whatever you call it, you know,
they have a massive changing room. And all the contestants come in
and they're half dressed and half naked.
What is wrong with you people? That's why everything that you
people have to say about life. I don't care how popular you are.
And it's the dominant discourse of the whole world now, right? Or
they're spreading it to the whole world.
Right?
Throw it all in the garbage. And like, I think we mentioned this
before, but it's the men who are winning there. They win it. Like
like, get this one. Like I told you about an insurance one. Yeah,
men's insurance policy is gonna be cheaper, women's is gonna be more
expensive. And the fees are saying yesterday that his job a woman
gets four months off for you know, Mother pregnancy, leave. And and
if the husband identifies as the one giving birth, he can get the
same form.
As the one giving birth, it was like I prefer my dignity over
money. That's not even in the movie Idiocracy. Did you guys hear
what Ryan said? That's not even in the movie Idiocracy.
You wouldn't have even passed in the movie, I didn't see the movie
Idiocracy. But it's about how everyone in the world is dumb.
Right?
Everyone in the world has the IQ is like dipped in the global IQ as
dipped.
From another perspective, guys, men have overcome the feminists by
saying we will do everything you do as women, we will become women.
And we will defeat you in beauty pageants, in swimming, in
volleyball, and we will get into the Olympics as women and we'll
get into college NCAA sports as women. And let's see now guy in
the G league in the NBA. Why doesn't he play in the WNBA? I
mean, these are the most liberal people right? The NBA is most
liberal League, right? Tell me exactly why a guy like who can't
get a spot in the NBA. Why doesn't he go sign up for the WNBA? Right?
It'd be Duncan all over them.
Where are they the feminists to put an end to this thing? Because
then we'll even when they had Spatola like, what was her name?
She wrote Harry Potter
JK Rowling, she's got cancelled when she she couldn't tolerate any
of this stuff. And she's like, the one of the worst of the liberal
thinkers, right?
Unbelievable. Like we're at a time now. Where we defend we're
defending JK Rowling and supporting her and the
participants of a New Hampshire beauty contest. That's how far it
pleases God
I can never get used to this. And we never should. And to me, it's
the biggest laugh. It's the biggest comedy.
It's great.
It's so absurd.
It's just not a good strategy for him. It's too crazy. Like Iblees.
Listen.
Listen, a couple years ago, the liberal was a normal family. But
they had like things that Muslims we couldn't do. Right. But they
were normal families, right? They had some girlfriends. Right? They
would. Drinking was never truly attractive. Right? To me. It's not
a problem. To avoid as a Muslim, consider no big deal. But the
liberal families were something that would tempt a Muslim.
Today, you spent two days in the masjid. You have 2% fitrah left.
You'd be disgusted with this stuff. You're not doing a good
job. At least you went way overboard.
You get an F for the 2020s. What year whatever years we're in 2020s
you get enough because it's too obvious. It's too stupid.
Here's secure says
it's tough times in the UK. The children are being taught about
this stuff from age four. Get your kids out of the schools make Hijra
Run for your lives. This is one thing I would make. I would say
Hijra is fought to take the Hijra out of the school. If that means
you have to go to another district go to another district, you got to
go to another place, go to another place. Run for your life from this
stuff.
Your let your kids sit in these lectures and these classes and
hang out with these people. You're Ethem
I had to assist a trans client who was staying at a woman's refuge as
part of my job before I left.
Okay, that was a first
Wait a second, a woman's refuge. And it's a dude.
The men one the men have defeated you. Oh, feminists wake up. You
guys. You've got guys. They've wiggled their way into the women's
locker rooms, the Women's Refuge. The women's prisons we had here in
New Jersey, a laughable article, a guy identified as a woman. He was
allowed into the women's jail.
A year later, he's got three women pregnant.
Zero brains.
The whole thing is a massive a real life comedy.
It's guys invented all these things Victoria's Secret invented
by guys transgenderism was invented by guys everything was
invented by guys
and they fooled women into thinking this is part of your
rights. * work is invented by guys it's pimping
and you have no women advocating this and Muslim women too
with with with their leftist slants
the liberals hate when religious people impose their beliefs yet
they're doing the exact same thing and completely, it's complete
imposition, and it's a complete Inquisition because the only way
that you can get many people to observe a completely subjective
belief is by force. And that's why pagans must always use force
Yep, complete insanity. Give me one more from Facebook before we
wrap up. This comedy session essentially is what
I'm gonna remodel. For now yarmulke has become a comedy
session commanding right and forbidding wrong. This is one of
the nemesis of today's day and age the blessings upon of Allah upon
us in this day and age. The tension is so high in the world
that commanding right and forbidding wrong. It's a comedy
session now. Because what's your command? You have to say what your
commanding right? What did you for bidding against what you're
bidding against is utter complete.
laughable. It's it's Arkham Asylum out there.
All right. Give me one more from someone on Facebook before we wrap
up.
Change the topic completely. Yeah.
I'm gonna close with this same thing from Mustafa Briggs This is
relates to us.
Good relay wisdom here. Ships don't sink because of the water
around them. ship sinks because of the water that gets into them.
So don't let what's happening around you get inside of you.
That's the only way to bring you down. Don't let it get inside of
you. In other words, don't be affected by it.
Don't let any of these ideas enter your brain. Right recitation of
Quran will put a hijab between you and that stuff. It will put a
barrier you'll see it you will know it exists you must know it
exists. But you it won't affect you won't be part of you. It's
very important. Very good.
All right, does that come lock in and everyone's Subhanak Allahu
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aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato.
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