Shadee Elmasry – NBF 134 Affairs of the Umma

Shadee Elmasry
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The investigation into Miss Lee's murder during a radio show and the aftermath of Mr. Sayid and the Supreme Court over Mr. Sayid's new trial have contributed to the investigation into the investigation into the murder of Miss Lee. The importance of finding the right answers to mental health issues and finding the right answers to hate speech and privacy measures is emphasized. The importance of praying for a lesson and not just giving things is emphasized, as well as the need to protect oneself and learn to handle one's life.
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We're on Smilla Rahmanir Rahim Al hamdu lillah wa Salatu was Salam

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ala Rasulillah while early here was Sufi women, well welcome

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everybody to the Safina side. Nothing but facts live stream. And

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today it's now

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the timing of the Hora Nasir getting so tight that we're

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actually going to do

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our due portion first

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and we're going to write recite from the DUA which is a prayer of

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the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam which he may be have

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referred to as draw a note

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really doesn't have any official title but that's what we will

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refer to Why Why don't you put it straight in the middle so the

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Instagramers can see

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I prayed to him already so while we after we do this you can just

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give me a break

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get ready

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some load of man that oh hey

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ally Nora was salam ala Sayidina Muhammad Anwar

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and he also be here with

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shallow stop here for two minutes of draw and differential remember

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this is the time where dot maybe more jab the light Allah

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You

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Let's

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see phone soon I'm gonna learn warzone and 109

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Today is of course our day on

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affairs of the OMA and I've been wanting to read this for a while

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what's going up

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oh yeah. For the first time

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I've I've wanted to share with everyone the story of Adnan Sayed

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because

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it's a really interesting story.

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Right? And it's to me, it's a tragic, it's tragic story,

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obviously manlet lost like years of his life.

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27 years in 1999, down in Maryland,

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this young man, I'd say, he had a girlfriend. So he's a Muslim guy,

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but he has a girlfriend. And

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I guess we all know that people are not always able to live up to,

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you know, what we expect as a Muslim, but so he had a

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girlfriend, okay. And this girlfriend was at home and Lee.

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Well, one day 1999 She was found dead.

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And apparently, there was the relationship with him and her had

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ended.

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So he became the first suspect. Alright. And this is all while

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they're high school students, literally just in high school.

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Okay. In 2000, he was found guilty. Now his lawyer was

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literally terrible. Like his lawyer had not

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done in DNA investigation, like how do you not do a DNA

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investigation? The prosecutor really relied heavily on the

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testimony of a front his own front and said that he helped

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a nun bury the body.

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Right? You ever done child care before?

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He helped and then bury the body.

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Why don't you go sit with Ryan's chair. Right as a nice chair that

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goes around and around and around.

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Right.

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They presented a cell phone tower records that they said put Mr.

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Sayed near the park. Right when Miss Lee's body was found.

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A jury found a nun say it who was 17 That's it. He was just 17 years

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old. I think she was 18.

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guilty of murder, robbery, kidnapping, false imprisonment,

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and he was given a life sentence. Get now fast forward 14 years, a

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long time. Serial is a podcast

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and this podcast, Sara kainic. She's she's the one who did the

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podcast. This podcast. Round two for 2014 was like fire everybody.

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Everybody that you know, was watching this podcast and

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listening to this podcast and episodes would come up every

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Thursday. Right? Every Thursday at five o'clock, which is a very

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weird time. I guess we'll maybe it's drive people are driving

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home. Thursday, five o'clock, the episode comes out.

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Sarah Kay Nick, I think she thought she was like she she hit

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the thing. And she became great. She never did anything else again.

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Right? You never heard her name. Again. No offense to her or

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anything. But this podcast, hit like was a Grand Slam. Because of

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the story. Had nothing to do with the actual production of it.

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Production was good. But it's the story. It's not the narrator

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because she went around she went to tonight show and she went to

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all these late shows and everything.

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Nothing was produced after that. Right? That was really that good.

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No offense to the to her. But she did a really great job on this

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one. It but it was the story that made it. It was 12 weekly

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episodes. I'm telling you some of these episodes are like an hour

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and a half, almost two hours. You listen to every single minute of

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it could not was on the edge of your seat like our community and

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Muslim community.

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And everyone got like even non Muslims were into this. So it's

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not just us.

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So over the 12 weekly episodes, the podcast revealed that there's

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an alibi witness. Okay. And she says she was with him at the

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library. At the time in which Miss Lee was supposedly killed. That

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witness is Asian McLean.

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She said she was she had been willing to testify. But Mr. SADES

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lawyer, this is the woman who really shouldn't be sued, but

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she's dead. Maria guitarras never even contacted her. Miss guitarras

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was disbarred in 2001 after a series of client complaints

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emerged

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So when we say that she was a terrible defense attorney, it's

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not at a nothing it was because she had many cases where she was

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just a terrible lawyer.

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The series also questioned the credibility of the cell phone

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tower records. So it's attacking now their evidence

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and revealed that physical evidence gathered in 1999 was

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never tested for DNA. How and we had OJ, literally the guy has

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every reason to to commit this murder OJ Simpson. There's nobody

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else in the picture for motive, because you got to look at motive,

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like who wants these people that who's angry with these people?

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Right? OJ Simpson, how does he get off? DNA? Right? That forensic

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scientist, that nerdy guy from Harvard, and he's now like a

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defense lawyer, if you remember, I watched that footage when I come

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home from school, I would turn it on. And because they were

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California time, you get a big chunk of it. Right? It was three

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hours behind. So if they started at nine, that was like, 12 for us.

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And if they finish at five, that's like eight for us. Or let's say

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they finish up for that 7pm for us. So we came home internal.

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That's what you did in 1995 9494 95. I can't remember

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well, 94, the Knicks were in the playoffs, game three against the

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Houston Rockets. And then OJ takes off with his white Bronco. And

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they cut the game, the NBA game, the finals, the cut the NBA

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Finals, and they show the white Bronco ride for like 30 minutes or

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something. Everyone was furious. So

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they did this 9095 Your life was everyone. You came home the first

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thing you did you turn the TV on, right? Because the only place

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you'd get the case was on TV. There was no streaming there were

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no apps, right? It was not on it wasn't on the radio, Eastern.

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That's what every household in America did.

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And then you followed this case, which was for some people a

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complete slam dunk, and for other people, it was essentially payback

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for Rodney kick. Right 1992 In LA Rodney King, just a regular old

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driver. He gets pulled out and beaten the lights out of them by

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four cups. Okay, and a guy had an old you know, those old VCR

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recording devices and recorded it then would make copies sent it to

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all the media channels. Alright.

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And LA was just so they they prosecuted the four cops. And they

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all got off. I don't know how they got off. I think they got off that

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maybe the identity they couldn't get their identity pin down

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exactly who they were. I think that might be how I don't know how

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they got up but la just blew up.

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And Reginald Denny a white guy, poor white guy, like they almost

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like chose him. And they beat the pulp out of that guy. As payback

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for Rodney King. Now Reginald Denny hadn't done anything either.

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I think I almost died. So that was the LA riots of 1992. Now OJ after

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that.

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That was basically like a payback for that. Right? Because there's

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only one reason there's one thing that would make me say that OJ I

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don't know maybe he didn't do it. Right, is that they claim that

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there was a data blood on his steering wheel on his door handle

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of his Bronco. There was a data blood

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of his wife's blood in his bathroom. Now, a juror she said

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something that makes sense. Explain to me

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how you kill two people. And only a data blood shows up wouldn't

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there be a trail of blood on to the to the white Bronco, and a

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trail of blood all the way upstairs? Like how would there be

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exactly one duck. So that did actually make sense. But

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nonetheless, they still by the way, nobody there is no possible

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person that they have on the radar that killed that did the OJ

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killings. Whereas here, as we'll see, we're gonna see the reason

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that I'd say got out was like they found the real guy through DNA. So

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that's always always the case when you try to make someone innocent.

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It's you try to make them innocent by showing who actually did the

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murder. It's impossible to retake a trial and

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and basically just poke holes at the evidence. It's not enough.

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Once you're found guilty, the only way out is to find the real person

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who did the case. So we're on affairs of the OMA and we're

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talking about I'd say it his lawyer Miska Tara's

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she doesn't look for any DNA.

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Like this lawyer is just terrible. I guess the parents didn't know

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how to assess a lawyer. Okay.

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The podcast was downloaded more than 100 million times in the

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first year. Imagine that Muhammad Get your hands off the computer

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and

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In

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bringing widespread public attention to the case, it won a

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Peabody Award for compelling drilling account of how guilty

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truth and reality are decided.

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In 2015,

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Mr. Sayid gets a new hearing.

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Write a Maryland court agrees to hear an appeal from Mr. side.

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Okay. granted him a new hearing that would allow the introduction

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of new evidence in 2016. So the hearing just to see if there is

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enough evidence to have a new trial in 2016, a judge grads a

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neutral now, you know, these courts are, they're busy, regular

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people, they don't have time for moving quick. They don't move

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quick. It's their job, they're gonna move at their own pace,

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right? They're not gonna rush because you're in a rush. These

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things take so long, it's just killer. Now in the hearings, he

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has a new defense team, of course, argued that the original defense

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team was grossly negligent and presented the testimony of Miss

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McLean or and failed

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to present Miss McLean's evidence. The team also asked why the

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original lawyer had not questioned the reliability of cellphone Tower

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Records, nor asked for DNA discovery.

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A judge in Maryland granted a new trial in June. And the state

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appealed the ruling misleads family express pain and outreach.

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Why express pain and outrage where the case is basically they're

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saying they might have gotten the wrong guy. So why are you assuming

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he's the right guy?

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All right. They say continue to believe justice was done when Mr.

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Sayed was convicted of killing Hey

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Mr. side's lawyer asked for him to be released on bail in this motion

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was denied. All right now, how long before

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the new case starts? It's now 2018. The Maryland court of

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special Appeals upheld the decision to grant him a new trial

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because the state said no. And now, the special appeals court

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said yes. And they vacated his conviction agreeing

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that he had received ineffective legal counseling, but he will

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remain incarcerated.

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2019 Maryland's highest court denies the new trial. So the state

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appeals Eve higher up and they reversed the decision.

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The Court of Appeals ruled in a four to three decision that while

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the original defense lawyer had been deficient, Mr. Sayed was not

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prejudiced by that deficiency. In other words, he was not

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mistreated. Your lawyer stunk. That's what they're saying.

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Not our problem that your Why should the state every time

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someone's lawyer stinks, you get a new trial. That's their

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perspective. Right. So they denied him a new trial. And they

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reinstated the conviction.

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Finally, in November, United States declined to hear the case.

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The Supreme Court they don't even want to hear the case.

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Then a four part HBO documentary so I missed this one actually, I

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didn't see this because I don't have HBO. The case against Adnan

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Sayed, reveal, does anyone have an HBO these days?

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revealed that DNA tests performed at the request of Mr. Sage, new

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lawyers did not find anyone else's DNA on misleads body or

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belongings. That's terrible, terrible news.

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They did not find anyone Well, terrible news. Sorry.

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Terrible news, if you're looking for another criminal, but they

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found there was his DNA or was not on her body that day. And that's

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the basically the news. So if you look at these things,

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it's all these documentaries. It's the citizens who go after these

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cases, the Serial podcast now the HBO documentary, and they revealed

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that

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there was no DNA. So there wasn't another guy's DNA, but there

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wasn't also advance aids DNA. So in 2022, that conviction is

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overturned completely. Look how long it took before it exploded.

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So 14 years he sat rotting in jail, well, not rotting in jail,

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but we have to say, like, not feel there's like no hope, then 2014

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and explosion. And he's a household name and some

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communities and the cases everyone knows about this case, worldwide.

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And then it takes seven years after that, right eight years. The

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conviction is overturned in March, prosecutors agreed to new DNA

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testing, saying that it was merited because of advances in

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genetic profiling. A new Maryland law gave prosecutors the

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discretion to modify the sentences of offenders were under a

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Teen at the time of their crimes and had already served at least 20

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years. So basically your life has done with you committed this crime

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when you're under 18, you spent 20 years in jail, those people can

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get

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the DNA check checked again. So on September 14, prosecutors asked

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the judge to overturn Mr. Say it's conviction. They said

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investigation had uncovered the potential involvement of two

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alternative suspects. That's what I'm saying here. Like, it's not

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going to get overturned, because your defense did a bad job. Or

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because of something you only way that you can really overturn these

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cases is when you find the real killer, right. That's why poking

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holes in the prosecution's case is useless. poking holes in how bad

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your defense was, was is useless, you just got to find the real

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killer. And that's how there's an organization called the Innocence

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Project.

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And what they do essentially is they just do DNA testing

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everywhere, where the case where there's a case and they find the

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real killer, right?

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Once they find the real killer, you have to vacate the other gun

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and overturn that conviction. So they said investigation had

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uncovered the potential involvement of these two

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alternative suspects key evidence that prosecutors might have failed

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to provide to miss say Mr. SADES lawyers, and significant

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reliability issues regarding the most critical pieces of their

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evidence presented at trial. They asked that he be granted a new

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trial at a minimum and released on his own personal recognitions Rick

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cognizance After a nearly year long investigation, reviewing the

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facts of this case, say it deserves a new trial where he is

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adequately represented. And the latest evidence can be presented

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says Marilyn Mosby, the state attorney for Baltimore City. On

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September 19, Judge Melissa Finn of Baltimore City vacated the

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conviction in the interest of justice and fairness. Mr. Sayed is

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now 41 years old, he was picked up I have no clue why he was picked

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up. When he was 17 years old.

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He comes out

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at the age of 41.

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But this is the path that Allah has chosen for him, he came he

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goes in just a regular American kid, he's coming out now

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Mashallah. He's devout, he, I think he memorize a good portion

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of the Quran, he became very pious in jail. He turned to Allah Tala.

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He said an interesting thing that he said that you all think I'm

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like, in jail. I'm actually like, I have a life here. It's it's a

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very different life. But I'm busy. I do have a life here. So I

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believe that Allah helped us this young men, and took him from a

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life that he was going to live and gave him a life that was very

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painful,

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for the last 30 years, and is still going to be because this

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thing just doesn't go away. But he really should become a millionaire

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from this. He really needs for every year that he lost at least

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$2 million.

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That's how it works. That's not like a rule, but it's a rule of

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thumb. In other cases, that's what they said $2 million. And the

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judge awarded that $2 million for every year that you were wrongly

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convicted. We'll see if he gets anything, but that he really

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should. And, and we'll see how he's going to use that money

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because he's somebody that has, from his appearance, and from his

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words, he's transformed completely.

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It's really awesome. And like, I was reading yesterday,

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you've ever had to devise the life and film these different periods?

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Yeah, it's like he skipped the whole the whole youth. It's like

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he was almost protected during 100%. It's almost like that a

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madman had dead when he says like, from maturity to 35. Like, that's

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where people get in trouble. That's where people mess up in

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life. And it would seem to be that Allah just totally protected him

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from that. Right. And he was just in the jail. I wonder what he was

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doing in the jail. He has access to a library, they have jobs,

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things like that.

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He says Now, prosecutors on October 11 Forget no new trial,

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they dropped the charges altogether. Okay. They dropped the

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charges because the DNA evidence excluded Mr. Sayed like he could

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not even be the killer. His DNA will be strangled someone, the DNA

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would be there somewhere.

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And appeal before the Maryland court of special appeals in which

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Miss Lee's family sought to pause proceedings remain pending. Like

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Miss Lee's family what they have to get here is that how does this

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change anything?

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Right? It doesn't change anything. You believed the wrong thing your

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whole life. It doesn't take away anything from like the the people

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like this. No one's disrespecting your daughter's situation. Right?

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Nobody's disrespecting that. So this is something that like it's

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almost like I think

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think they got it all wrong in that respect.

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In imagining that, you know, you're disrespecting our daughter,

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blah, blah, blah.

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Not a disrespect, I they, if you're gonna have any anger have

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anger at the at the at the state who screwed it up.

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Yeah What is your question to read it for me? How does wrongful

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conviction work in aesthetic court?

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How does wrongful conviction work? Well, we have to see what the

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punishment was

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wrongful conviction. It's a terrible thing, obviously. And it

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would basically essentially

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the DIA money would have to be returned and that person would

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have to be

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compensated for the loss of life that he received that we don't

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have life imprisonment anyway. You might have some years in jail.

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Good.

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And

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that there should be compensation.

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All right, let's

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read another story. Attorney General Brian frosh blasted

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Marilyn Mosby his handling of Nan say its case. In a court filing.

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frosh said his criticisms of Mosby don't demonstrate bias against say

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it and they do not disqualify his office from an appeals case

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against SADES release Sayed 40 Mosby as a judge, I think, say it

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41 was sentenced to life after he was convicted for the 1999 murder

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of Haman leap his ex girlfriend, the case first received national

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attention. Okay, we said all this last month Mosby filed a motion to

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have the conviction toss. Okay, so that's his lawyer

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after an investigation

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conducted by prosecutors, and SADES defense revealed previously

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undisclosed evidence pointing to two other suspect monitors to play

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with.

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Representatives of Yong Li Haman Lee's brother filed a notice of

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appeal like that here are the here they go again, okay, against the

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this gut where they should really just worry about maybe open your

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mind. Maybe you did get the wrong guy. What does that change? Which

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you shouldn't be like, wait a second, if we got the wrong guy

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well, who is the real killer?

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Lee's lawyer argued circuit court proceedings should be paused until

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the appeal is heard the Attorney General said in a Tuesday, Tuesday

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file and most of these actions raised red flags about the

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integrity and neutrality of the proceedings for us said Moseby

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office gave the leaf family two days notice of intent to file a

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motion calling for states convictions to be thrown out his

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office arguably should be allowed to make the case. Most of these

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office violated the Maryland Declaration of Rights mandate to

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treat victims with dignity, respect and sensitivity. Why not?

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I mean,

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they gave them notice it's not enough. What do you want? a month?

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Who knows? Mosby issued a statement about frosh is filing on

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Twitter. In the statement she defended her actions and said it

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was extremely troubling. That frosh was clearly biased and

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operating in self preservation mode.

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Attorney General Brian frosh and his office mishandled, she says,

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and sat on exculpatory evidence for years, and his recent attempts

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to save face is a complete disservice to the family of Haman

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Lee and Tad Nancy, who was wrongfully jailed for 23 years

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incarcerated. She said, We stand by an investigation and our

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ultimate finding that there is no credible evidence that Mr. Sayed

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was involved. Mosby alleged that frosh was trying to protect

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himself and the original prosecutor and postconviction.

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Attorney, and everyone involved in the same case by legally assert,

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yeah, because you're gonna get sued. That's why by legally

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asserting that prosecutors don't have to disclose.

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Okay, so don't have to disclose to the defense an alternative suspect

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that threatens to kill the victim because the person reporting the

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threat was not sure if the threat was serious or not.

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So let me read that again, legally, certain prosecutors don't

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have to disclose to the defense at OCA and alternative suspects. I

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see. Our office has always and will continue to treat the family

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of family with respect. Most of you said we didn't we not only

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notified the family. prior to filing the motion, we provided

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them a copy of the motion explained the reasons for the

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decision offered counseling provided personal cell phone

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numbers for multiple invitations to call or text at any time. Blah,

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blah, blah,

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blah, blah, blah.

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Baltimore's prosecutors dropped sates charges. So Mosby is

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basically working for defense aid. And the court agreed they dropped

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the case.

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And they denied the motion. And they gave these representative 15

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days to say why their appeals should continue. Right? Why should

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we have an appeal? Now if we have no evidence that would make say it

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even involved in this case? In light of the public comments made

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by frosh on the case, I'd Nan's defense made a motion to strike

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the Attorney General's office as party to the appeal, saying to the

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prosecutors, the prosecutor that prejudged this case, I know that

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it's always easy to talk about this stuff. But my thing is that

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you got to go on the offensive.

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You always have to be on the fence, there is no there there's

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no success. If you're on defense, it's got to be Attack, attack,

00:31:01 --> 00:31:04

attack, and they got to attack and start suing these people left and

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right lawsuits left right and center.

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She said that all they do is seek to represent not the state of

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Maryland but itself. Right. The prosecutor's office is basically

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playing defense in defending itself. They'll go down the steps

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Mamadou no steps.

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frosh said the motion would prevent the Office of the Attorney

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General from performing its constitutional duty to represent

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the state of Maryland. The Attorney General's decision to

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call attention to the unorthodox and questionable conduct of Miss

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Mosby, and her office throughout the reinvestigation and dismissal

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of the convictions was in service of that interest.

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Okay,

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so they're basically fighting

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okay,

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this guy No offense, he looks like a cartoon character.

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So

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I want to see now I'd say go on the offensive.

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Suing by name everybody.

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Everyone. Miss Gutierrez does she have any money left over after she

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died? Sue for it because she's the one who really messed you up

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really messed you up. So that's essentially the case of Adnan say

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it

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and that is our first segment of the affairs of the OMA right

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anyone have any questions? I know you're busy actually doing

00:32:31 --> 00:32:32

childcare today but

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not related only to Adnan said Remember, we're not we're not

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doing

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q&a You're gonna have to repeat your q&a again when we start

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because I don't want to scroll up

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nothing no specific questions about this

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alright, this is funny.

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The Qatari officials have stopped a protest staged by British LGBTQ

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rights.

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This protests consisted of one man

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he flew out to Qatar, okay to protest that they're anti gay.

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Listen, you have your own beliefs. Other people have their own

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beliefs. Your belief is not universal.

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But the thing is, people say that people don't need religion. We

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don't need beliefs. These people

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they fight day and night for their beliefs. Whether it's global

00:33:39 --> 00:33:42

warming, right then when vaccinations comes around when

00:33:42 --> 00:33:44

COVID comes around, they become

00:33:46 --> 00:33:52

you know, like, crusaders for that then it's for gays right? It's

00:33:53 --> 00:33:57

they they'd love to be activist for their religion. Okay.

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So Daydream of autumn, a coward compensation work. It would be

00:34:04 --> 00:34:08

decided by the by the people, the judges would decide what is the

00:34:08 --> 00:34:09

right compensation

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I don't really want to read any of this news to be honest with you.

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The news on five pillars.

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Salman Rushdie has lost sight in one eye and the use of one hand.

00:34:47 --> 00:34:51

Imran Khan barred from public office for five years.

00:34:53 --> 00:34:56

They love him over there. That's going to be overturned because

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they love him too much. Doctor Who asked Muslim woman to remove

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Vail suspended for nine months.

00:35:04 --> 00:35:09

Dr. Keith Wolverson 56 Like why would he do this? So let's see if

00:35:09 --> 00:35:13

he has a case. Why right? Why is this thing the timer keep turning

00:35:13 --> 00:35:13

on.

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And I wanted to shut this off. I'm freezing.

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I'm trying to shut it off, but I don't know why it's not shutting

00:35:20 --> 00:35:21

off. We're listening.

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Alright, so a doctor from Derby he asked a Muslim woman to remove her

00:35:27 --> 00:35:29

Ville and it was not deemed necessary.

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Keith Wolverson he's 56 he was deemed by medical tribunal that's

00:35:36 --> 00:35:41

a pretty big word to have committed several serious acts of

00:35:41 --> 00:35:45

misconduct so a tribunal to me if you're found guilty by a tribunal

00:35:45 --> 00:35:48

you'll get shot right? Isn't that isn't that what

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that's what like a tribunal. Zoom a firing squad waiting at the end

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of the tribunal.

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Well, that's the image that it gives anyway.

00:36:02 --> 00:36:08

So they included repeating his request to the Muslim woman who

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were calling Mrs. Q. Obviously Mrs Qureshi, right. What else what

00:36:12 --> 00:36:13

other

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Desi name is going to end with a start with a que it's got to be

00:36:17 --> 00:36:21

Miss Qureshi term and then by the way, why do you even need to hide

00:36:21 --> 00:36:23

her name? Do you know how many million Qureshi is there? Mrs.

00:36:23 --> 00:36:26

Gracious. You could even put her whole name Daya Qureshi, salejaw,

00:36:26 --> 00:36:31

Qureshi, sadiya, qurayshi, it's all going to be there's 13 million

00:36:31 --> 00:36:32

of each of those names that I just said.

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You ever tried to look up your a desi friend on Facebook, you're

00:36:37 --> 00:36:38

not gonna you're gonna find

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20,000.

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Okay, so all this happened during 2018. In other incidents, he wrote

00:36:47 --> 00:36:51

in the notes of 15 patients criticizing their English speaking

00:36:51 --> 00:36:57

skills, and that of their relatives, saying among things

00:36:57 --> 00:36:59

that it was unacceptable, and not good enough.

00:37:01 --> 00:37:04

Alright, he's an old fashioned racist, we are familiar with these

00:37:04 --> 00:37:08

things. Right? And to be honest with you to a degree, I tolerate a

00:37:08 --> 00:37:12

lot of it when you're old fashion. And you're past 61, guys. 56.

00:37:12 --> 00:37:15

Right. At a certain point, and you grew up and the whole world was

00:37:15 --> 00:37:19

one way then a world switched. You just got to look at where there's

00:37:19 --> 00:37:23

real harm. That to me, I'm actually very tolerant about these

00:37:23 --> 00:37:26

things to be quite honest with you. Like an old fashioned guy

00:37:26 --> 00:37:30

who, who just is not used to all this. But you just have to look at

00:37:30 --> 00:37:34

is there really harm going on here? This is a medical note. The

00:37:34 --> 00:37:37

guy's blown off steam. They can't speak English. Do you know how

00:37:37 --> 00:37:40

many times we all blow off steam about people that bother us? I got

00:37:40 --> 00:37:45

that neighbor whose dog poops on my lawn. Every week. He has no

00:37:45 --> 00:37:48

respect. Okay? He does not know how to walk a dog. This is America

00:37:48 --> 00:37:52

here. You pick it up. The white guy comes around and he puts on

00:37:52 --> 00:37:56

the gloves. And he picks it up and he puts the glove off in the bag.

00:37:56 --> 00:38:02

Oh, shameful. Pathetic. Pathetic. Allah has caused you now to be

00:38:02 --> 00:38:04

cleaning poop of a dog. SubhanAllah.

00:38:05 --> 00:38:08

Yeah, they just take wrap it up. And he's got the gloves and

00:38:08 --> 00:38:12

everything. But this Indian guy, he comes in and I'm not against

00:38:12 --> 00:38:15

all Hindus, because I have at least one Hindu person that's

00:38:15 --> 00:38:20

like, I consider him not a friend, but someone I'm friendly with. But

00:38:20 --> 00:38:22

this guy, he doesn't know the rules of how to walk dogs in

00:38:22 --> 00:38:28

America. So he bothers me, so we got to just look at it. Is this

00:38:28 --> 00:38:32

really harm here? Alright, so he writes nasty stuff about them

00:38:32 --> 00:38:35

about their English is really not the end of the world that does not

00:38:35 --> 00:38:38

require a tribunal with a firing squad.

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Anyway, let's keep reading. Duncan Toole, chair of the tribunal set.

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The Tribunal went on to consider the public interest in this case

00:38:48 --> 00:38:52

and the need to uphold public confidence in the profession. It

00:38:52 --> 00:38:56

had found Dr. Wilson's actions to be deplorable, which had the

00:38:56 --> 00:38:56

ability

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to undermine the public's confidence in the profession.

00:39:02 --> 00:39:05

It reminded itself that Dr. Wolverson had responded

00:39:05 --> 00:39:09

dishonestly to patient complaint, repeatedly questioned the removal

00:39:09 --> 00:39:13

of a face veil and made offensive remarks in medical records. Okay,

00:39:13 --> 00:39:16

so he's a jerk towards everybody towards Muslims. So he got

00:39:16 --> 00:39:20

suspended with pay or without pay. That's the question. If he got

00:39:20 --> 00:39:24

suspended with pay, that's a vacation. Right. However, it

00:39:24 --> 00:39:28

balanced with the public's need to have good doctors and there were

00:39:28 --> 00:39:32

no patient safety concerns in this case, and that Dr. Wolverson had

00:39:32 --> 00:39:36

provided 25 plus years of service as a doctor. It determined that

00:39:36 --> 00:39:39

the public's trust would not be undermined if Dr. Woodson was

00:39:39 --> 00:39:43

allowed to return once he had gained sufficient insight into his

00:39:43 --> 00:39:47

action. The Tribunal therefore determined that a sanction of

00:39:47 --> 00:39:50

suspension would be appropriate and proportionate.

00:39:51 --> 00:39:56

I told you that when I was in England, and my wife and I would

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walk past the guy who sells the evening standards. This is all

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Right are like literally a old British dude. Probably never

00:40:05 --> 00:40:08

passed the fifth grade and he's selling these standards. Every

00:40:08 --> 00:40:12

time we pass by he's a Harry Krishna Hari Krishna, right to

00:40:12 --> 00:40:15

bed. You don't read English, you can't buy my even if it's us.

00:40:16 --> 00:40:19

He doesn't know what he's saying, right? I'm not gonna be offended

00:40:19 --> 00:40:21

by that I just don't get offended by these things, right.

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I saw the guy two years later, after I had moved, we're sitting

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at the bus. We're looking at him like, we know that guy. Where's he

00:40:32 --> 00:40:33

from us two years later.

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And his Hey, you guys from arch when you moved? He's talking to us

00:40:39 --> 00:40:43

like we're old friends, right? Because he got used to us and we

00:40:43 --> 00:40:48

got used to him. That's how life works. I really don't want us to

00:40:48 --> 00:40:51

become this this community that gets offended by everything. If

00:40:51 --> 00:40:56

there's real harm than inflict real Hornback. Right. But if

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there's just a guy

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with what he writes in his notes that people's English is not good.

00:41:03 --> 00:41:05

And he's annoyed by niqab.

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That to me is all right, ignorance and insensitivity fine. I really

00:41:11 --> 00:41:14

don't want the Muslims to become one of these annoying minorities

00:41:14 --> 00:41:15

to be quite honest with you.

00:41:17 --> 00:41:21

Because really, honestly, the Wiis? Yes, minorities, they

00:41:21 --> 00:41:25

deserve all this to be treated. Well, everyone does. I don't want

00:41:25 --> 00:41:28

to go that route. Right. I do not want to go there. When I was at

00:41:28 --> 00:41:33

school. This stuff didn't exist. Everyone made fun of everyone. And

00:41:33 --> 00:41:38

we enjoyed it. To be quite honest with you. I had a blast. There was

00:41:38 --> 00:41:40

a Jew who got made fun of for being a Jew. There was an Indian,

00:41:40 --> 00:41:43

he got made fun of being Indian. I was Muslim. I got made fun of for

00:41:43 --> 00:41:46

being Muslim. And they said they would walk I would walk by and

00:41:46 --> 00:41:49

they would make a bomb sound. I'm like, how was that offensive to

00:41:49 --> 00:41:50

me? Right?

00:41:51 --> 00:41:55

How that doesn't offend me at all. Right? They say, Oh, you got

00:41:55 --> 00:41:58

prayer mats. Where's your praying mat? Like, these rugs are

00:41:58 --> 00:42:01

gorgeous. I'm not offended by this. Like, it's very hard for me

00:42:01 --> 00:42:06

to get offended by any of this stuff. Right? Okay, oh, I saw your

00:42:06 --> 00:42:09

mom at the mall. She's wearing a hijab, so as the Virgin Mary,

00:42:09 --> 00:42:11

right? And you're Catholic.

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So I never, I don't want us to go that route, to be quite honest

00:42:16 --> 00:42:17

with you.

00:42:18 --> 00:42:22

If the left and the liberals and the woke have convinced you to

00:42:22 --> 00:42:28

jump and to look for or how to be offended at every turn, and we're

00:42:28 --> 00:42:32

victims, and blah, blah, blah, change your mentality. That's a

00:42:32 --> 00:42:34

losers mentality. I gotta be honest with you. It's a losers

00:42:34 --> 00:42:35

mentality.

00:42:40 --> 00:42:44

Dr. Wolverson said in a written submission. Obviously, he's going

00:42:44 --> 00:42:48

to write the right thing. He's not stupid. I no longer request the

00:42:48 --> 00:42:51

removal of a face veil because you're suspended and would not do

00:42:51 --> 00:42:55

so. Save in very particular circumstances. An example would be

00:42:55 --> 00:42:58

where necessary to inspect a facial injury, perhaps

00:42:58 --> 00:43:02

necessitating the suturing of a wound and I love how he brings

00:43:02 --> 00:43:05

something so common sensical. Right. Obviously, you're not going

00:43:05 --> 00:43:10

to suture a wound under the niqab. Anyway, the could ask for another

00:43:10 --> 00:43:13

doctor or a female doctor. However, alternatives such as

00:43:13 --> 00:43:18

consultation with a female doctor, or sending a photograph could be

00:43:18 --> 00:43:23

considered Dr. Wolverson, who now works as a locum in out of hours

00:43:23 --> 00:43:24

shift. I don't know what that means.

00:43:25 --> 00:43:30

in Warwickshire, and Cornwall, that's probably a punishment in

00:43:30 --> 00:43:34

itself to live in those places, said he planned to appeal the

00:43:34 --> 00:43:37

ruling and said the suspension risks robbing the public have an

00:43:37 --> 00:43:40

experienced doctor now I don't think anyone worries about you.

00:43:40 --> 00:43:43

There's plenty of doctors in the UK. Some of them are even like

00:43:43 --> 00:43:47

barely they can't find jobs. But anyway, is he getting paid or not?

00:43:47 --> 00:43:49

That's the question. That is the question.

00:43:53 --> 00:43:56

All right, what else do we have in the news?

00:43:58 --> 00:44:03

So they gave up to this guy. You bother the Muslim women suspended

00:44:03 --> 00:44:07

for nine months? I'm fine with that. But I'm not fine. If like

00:44:07 --> 00:44:09

we're just bunch of whiners and complainers. Get the guy

00:44:09 --> 00:44:14

suspended. And he learns his lesson may be fine, because you

00:44:14 --> 00:44:15

have to use force at some point.

00:44:16 --> 00:44:22

All right. Here's another thing the Muslims have a anti Zionist

00:44:24 --> 00:44:25

on the BBC,

00:44:26 --> 00:44:34

and Israel asked are Zionists lobbies. lobbyists have asked for

00:44:34 --> 00:44:36

Abdullah Betty Antoine

00:44:38 --> 00:44:39

to be removed from the BBC.

00:44:40 --> 00:44:44

Because of his anti Israel commentary.

00:44:46 --> 00:44:49

Zionist organizations such as there's Jewish Chronicle the board

00:44:49 --> 00:44:55

of deputies for British Jews, and the Jewish leadership council, the

00:44:55 --> 00:44:59

JLC they've asked and demanded the removal of Antoine

00:45:00 --> 00:45:01

a regular guest on the BBC.

00:45:03 --> 00:45:04

They say he supports terrorism.

00:45:06 --> 00:45:10

Tim Davey said we do not ban contributors for good reason. But

00:45:10 --> 00:45:14

nor do we give them a BBC platform as your letter suggests, he's just

00:45:14 --> 00:45:16

a guest. We question them. And when they hold her and express a

00:45:16 --> 00:45:20

controversial view, we should always aim to challenge them. This

00:45:20 --> 00:45:23

is not the provision of a platform, it is part of an

00:45:23 --> 00:45:27

independent editorial process that helps us to meet our obligations

00:45:27 --> 00:45:32

of impartiality. No, you can't be impartial with. With the the Jews,

00:45:32 --> 00:45:34

you have to support them 100% There's only one way with them.

00:45:35 --> 00:45:40

The alternative, I'm afraid will lead us down a dangerous path,

00:45:40 --> 00:45:44

which is one that would allow others to decide, such as

00:45:44 --> 00:45:49

lobbyists. How however, that find their motives, and whatever area

00:45:49 --> 00:45:54

of coverage who is and who is not a fit and proper person to appear

00:45:54 --> 00:45:56

on our channel.

00:45:57 --> 00:46:00

As our editorial guidelines state, this means we will sometimes

00:46:00 --> 00:46:03

include in in our output people whose views which may cause

00:46:03 --> 00:46:08

serious offence to many people in our audience, but where we do so

00:46:08 --> 00:46:11

the potential for offence must be weighed against public interest.

00:46:11 --> 00:46:15

So BBC is trying to be neutral here. such judgments should be

00:46:15 --> 00:46:18

made carefully in this case I was about out to one appeared on a

00:46:18 --> 00:46:21

Dateline London primarily to give his view on Saudi Arabia's

00:46:21 --> 00:46:24

dealings with Trump. But it was also important to cover the attack

00:46:24 --> 00:46:26

on so Salman Rushdie remember Salman Rushdie was stabbed by the

00:46:26 --> 00:46:32

Shia. The Shia got good. Mr. Antoine reflected the views of

00:46:32 --> 00:46:37

many in the Muslim world who view the Satanic Verses as blasphemous.

00:46:37 --> 00:46:39

And that's a key aspect of the story.

00:46:40 --> 00:46:45

Mr. Davies. So now, he lost an eye. So he looked like the

00:46:45 --> 00:46:49

degenerates his friend. So now you look like him. Mr. Davies response

00:46:49 --> 00:46:54

came after the pro Israeli groups and individuals wrote to the BBC

00:46:54 --> 00:46:58

last month saying Mr. Antoine is not a right and proper person to

00:46:58 --> 00:47:01

be given a BBC platform. It's shocking that the corporation

00:47:01 --> 00:47:02

continues to invite him.

00:47:04 --> 00:47:08

So be shocked. signatories include blah, see what I tell you. It's

00:47:08 --> 00:47:11

everyone's whining, whining, whining, whining. signatories

00:47:11 --> 00:47:18

included Bob Blackman, and all sorts of other Jewish lobbyists.

00:47:19 --> 00:47:22

Our alarm was heightened this month when the BBC invited the

00:47:22 --> 00:47:27

controversial commentator at Swan onto Dateline. Okay, where he

00:47:27 --> 00:47:29

expressed sympathy for the man who attacked Salman Rushdie in New

00:47:29 --> 00:47:30

York

00:47:35 --> 00:47:35

did he?

00:47:38 --> 00:47:42

On the very same day as Mr. Antoine express these views

00:47:42 --> 00:47:47

unchallenged on air, he wrote an online article in which he wrote I

00:47:47 --> 00:47:51

support Mahmoud Abbas and his refusal to apologize for the

00:47:51 --> 00:47:55

killing of 11 Israeli participants in 1974, in Munich, in the

00:47:55 --> 00:48:00

Olympics, and his use of the term holocausts to describe the many

00:48:00 --> 00:48:03

massacres to which Palestinians have been subjected, subjected by

00:48:03 --> 00:48:07

Israeli forces. This rhetoric is characteristic of Aswan

00:48:09 --> 00:48:13

who in the past praises terrorists as murderers and their attacks as

00:48:13 --> 00:48:13

miracles,

00:48:15 --> 00:48:17

Antoine is one of the most prominent journalists in the Arab

00:48:17 --> 00:48:21

world and reaches millions through his social media platforms. He's

00:48:21 --> 00:48:23

the editor in chief of a new website called

00:48:26 --> 00:48:31

El Yom. In English, it's really hard to read and is a staunch

00:48:31 --> 00:48:35

defender of the Palestinian cause and a fierce critic of Israel.

00:48:40 --> 00:48:46

And of course, some Jewish people are commenting on the posts trying

00:48:46 --> 00:48:49

to sway our opinion to be against at one

00:48:55 --> 00:48:56

all right.

00:48:58 --> 00:49:03

Last item of the news, what I tell you, everyone's whining, Hindu

00:49:03 --> 00:49:07

organization, community is under siege, living in fear.

00:49:09 --> 00:49:13

Would you stop? Does everyone just whine incessantly? Is that what

00:49:13 --> 00:49:15

being a minority now is

00:49:16 --> 00:49:20

180 British Indian and Hindu organizations and temples. They

00:49:20 --> 00:49:24

wrote to Prime Minister Liz truss was out now requesting her to

00:49:24 --> 00:49:27

intervene and protect them. They're being targeted and feel

00:49:27 --> 00:49:28

threatened.

00:49:29 --> 00:49:32

Gosh, two people aren't embarrassed to write this stuff

00:49:32 --> 00:49:33

about themselves. Right.

00:49:37 --> 00:49:38

The open letter was signed by

00:49:39 --> 00:49:43

a whole bunch of organizations into organizations which I'm not

00:49:43 --> 00:49:45

saying go around offend Hindus.

00:49:46 --> 00:49:47

Okay.

00:49:49 --> 00:49:49

Just

00:49:51 --> 00:49:54

the letter does not mention violence or intimidation

00:49:54 --> 00:49:58

perpetrated against Muslims in Leicester. Like it doesn't mention

00:49:58 --> 00:49:59

what you guys did.

00:50:00 --> 00:50:03

I'm not a for like, obviously this this type of stuff, but

00:50:05 --> 00:50:10

you're a guy, you're gonna write a letter, we fear, violence,

00:50:11 --> 00:50:14

no embarrassment and saying that, alright, maybe like people are a

00:50:14 --> 00:50:18

different breed these days, I don't know, I personally would be

00:50:18 --> 00:50:19

embarrassed to say something like that.

00:50:20 --> 00:50:23

The letter reads we write to draw your attention to the recent

00:50:23 --> 00:50:27

disturbances in Leicester, Birmingham, and other towns, which

00:50:27 --> 00:50:30

have greatly distressed the Indian Hindu communities, I thought this

00:50:30 --> 00:50:33

thing was over, by the way, hatred towards the Hindus is at an all

00:50:33 --> 00:50:34

time high.

00:50:36 --> 00:50:39

It could get hired to the point where there has been open

00:50:39 --> 00:50:44

violence, intimidation and abuse level that Hindus through physical

00:50:44 --> 00:50:47

assaults, I say could get higher because what they do in India to

00:50:47 --> 00:50:51

the Muslims would request it's gonna get hit Mohammed, Mohammed,

00:50:53 --> 00:50:54

play on the rug, so it doesn't make so much noise.

00:50:57 --> 00:51:00

But I'm saying it could get higher. I'm not saying that that's

00:51:00 --> 00:51:02

like we're promoting this type of thing. But it could get higher

00:51:02 --> 00:51:05

because what you're doing in India, you what's your guy Modi is

00:51:05 --> 00:51:09

doing. The Hindu community has made UK tone for the past half

00:51:09 --> 00:51:15

century, we are less than 2% of the population really no way.

00:51:15 --> 00:51:18

Looks like you. There's Hindus everywhere. It's gotta be way more

00:51:18 --> 00:51:21

than that. Yet our contribution of which you no doubt are aware is

00:51:21 --> 00:51:23

significantly higher.

00:51:27 --> 00:51:29

In terms of socio economic contribution to the British

00:51:29 --> 00:51:33

economy and by way of social integration, as well as upholding

00:51:33 --> 00:51:36

our progressive British values. The Hindu community is one of the

00:51:36 --> 00:51:42

most law abiding as evidence of buy of imprisonment statistics,

00:51:42 --> 00:51:45

yet today, we feel like a community that is under siege. As

00:51:45 --> 00:51:48

a last resort, we write to you to draw your attention to our plight,

00:51:48 --> 00:51:49

you have a plight

00:51:51 --> 00:51:54

as the long term consequences of what is unfolding, you must be

00:51:54 --> 00:51:57

aware of the violence in Leicester and aggressive protests outside

00:51:57 --> 00:51:59

the temple in Birmingham.

00:52:01 --> 00:52:05

He's not celebrating I don't know if you heard that. But just as a

00:52:05 --> 00:52:07

disclaimer, he's not celebrating the aggressive protests outside

00:52:07 --> 00:52:08

the temple.

00:52:10 --> 00:52:13

Although causes of what happened in less there are many and complex

00:52:13 --> 00:52:17

the bottom line is that a marginalized Hindu community, you

00:52:17 --> 00:52:20

know that I think it's a type of divine punishment. When you take

00:52:20 --> 00:52:23

on a mentality of loss threat fear,

00:52:24 --> 00:52:26

it must be part of the punishment. This Hindu community now lives in

00:52:26 --> 00:52:27

a state of fear.

00:52:29 --> 00:52:32

While some families have already left the neighborhood, many more

00:52:32 --> 00:52:34

are preparing to relocate.

00:52:35 --> 00:52:38

It is worth noting that a small but highly organized band of

00:52:38 --> 00:52:42

radical Islamists took full advantage of the community

00:52:42 --> 00:52:45

tensions that existed between the marginalised Hindu community and

00:52:45 --> 00:52:48

the Muslim neighbors which had previously lived in peace. They're

00:52:48 --> 00:52:50

small, so deal with them then.

00:52:51 --> 00:52:55

A Storm of misinformation was created on social media. With open

00:52:55 --> 00:52:58

incitement to violence against Hindus as a consequence of this

00:52:58 --> 00:53:01

vicious campaign, numerous Hindus were physically assaulted. I'm

00:53:01 --> 00:53:04

telling you, if Muslims wrote this, I would be upset if Muslims

00:53:04 --> 00:53:07

wrote this type of article. We're afraid our communities this, that

00:53:07 --> 00:53:11

and the other, I wouldn't be upset. I mean, what did the guy

00:53:11 --> 00:53:13

some of those Muslims do the other day?

00:53:14 --> 00:53:17

After this, they went off there and they just watched walk in the

00:53:17 --> 00:53:18

streets, not writing some

00:53:19 --> 00:53:21

weak letter like this.

00:53:22 --> 00:53:25

And I think it was done with they went off and walked around the

00:53:25 --> 00:53:29

streets. Bunch a bunch of dudes, and nobody messed with them again.

00:53:31 --> 00:53:36

Hindu homes targeted cars, which showed Hindu symbolism vandalized.

00:53:36 --> 00:53:40

Okay, we're against all that right, while but once you put

00:53:40 --> 00:53:44

together your own community Taskforce. While the media widely

00:53:44 --> 00:53:47

reported as a class of two faith communities, it failed to explain

00:53:47 --> 00:53:50

why the damage suffered was almost exclusively by Hindus.

00:53:51 --> 00:53:54

It is frightening for the beleaguered Hindu community of

00:53:54 --> 00:53:57

Leicester to see that the perpetrators of these crimes are

00:53:57 --> 00:53:58

still walking freely.

00:54:00 --> 00:54:04

The letter makes the following appeal, investigate, give

00:54:04 --> 00:54:07

financial support and make a commission to investigate anti

00:54:07 --> 00:54:10

Hindu hate and its causes, asked Modi, what the causes are.

00:54:12 --> 00:54:16

Recognize the threat of British homegrown extremists, help fund

00:54:16 --> 00:54:21

teachers to basically identify and deal with anti Hindu hatred in

00:54:21 --> 00:54:25

schools. So now I guess, let alone though last Jedi Killer is going

00:54:25 --> 00:54:29

to be hate speech. To mark my word, they're going to make it

00:54:29 --> 00:54:31

hate speech. The satanist I'll develop Minnesota and the regime

00:54:31 --> 00:54:32

will be hate speech

00:54:34 --> 00:54:37

to ensure that sufficient security is provided to the Hindu community

00:54:37 --> 00:54:42

both in the short term and long term right during including during

00:54:42 --> 00:54:43

the celebration of Diwali.

00:54:46 --> 00:54:51

Razi Ashraf says comments. This is classic example of the thief

00:54:51 --> 00:54:56

shouting thief. A true example of playing the victim. The names of

00:54:56 --> 00:54:59

the Hindu organizations. There's an ad in the way here

00:55:01 --> 00:55:02

To close this ad up

00:55:05 --> 00:55:08

five pillars, it's not lab. It's not iPad friendly. The names of

00:55:08 --> 00:55:11

the Hindu organizations are clear proof this fascist Hindu

00:55:11 --> 00:55:14

organization do propaganda. That's all it is. That's what he's

00:55:14 --> 00:55:16

saying. I don't know if it's propaganda or not, I'm just saying

00:55:16 --> 00:55:19

that the tone is the tone of losers, the Hindu RSS of India

00:55:19 --> 00:55:22

known for its fascist agenda, blah, blah, blah.

00:55:24 --> 00:55:27

So he's basically saying there it's a fascist agenda. That is

00:55:27 --> 00:55:31

concludes our time here in terms of the

00:55:32 --> 00:55:33

affairs of the OMA.

00:55:35 --> 00:55:39

And now let's go to your questions. First, we will take if

00:55:39 --> 00:55:43

you have any questions, but the questions here again, because I

00:55:43 --> 00:55:44

don't want to scroll up again.

00:55:47 --> 00:55:48

But your questions here

00:55:51 --> 00:55:54

we'll take things that relate to the topic first, and then we'll

00:55:54 --> 00:55:57

take things that are

00:55:58 --> 00:55:59

what's going on right.

00:56:04 --> 00:56:05

Oh, all of us man's

00:56:10 --> 00:56:13

will this subject be reoccurring, since we discussed it last week to

00:56:14 --> 00:56:18

the subjects? The subject of today is the affairs of the OMA and we

00:56:18 --> 00:56:21

do this every Wednesday as well as a DUA, which this time that we did

00:56:21 --> 00:56:24

the drop before the beginning of the stream?

00:56:35 --> 00:56:38

Abdulhadi I got called ISIS when praying in public. I'm like,

00:56:38 --> 00:56:41

ma'am, is the Taliban you need to worry about?

00:56:42 --> 00:56:44

Good one. Right. That's very good.

00:56:45 --> 00:56:51

So well, one time por el Yan. He got a Moroccan white Moroccan job.

00:56:51 --> 00:56:55

And he prayed with the hood up, right. And some African American

00:56:55 --> 00:56:58

women came by and they were like, Excuse me, and they had their

00:56:58 --> 00:57:01

phone out. And they're about to like record. And like, excuse me

00:57:01 --> 00:57:03

why you were in that hood, bla bla bla, they turn around to see a

00:57:03 --> 00:57:06

brown guy, right? And they're like, nothing is a Moroccan hood,

00:57:06 --> 00:57:09

what's going on? And then he realized that it looks like a Klan

00:57:09 --> 00:57:10

outfit.

00:57:12 --> 00:57:14

I'm telling you, this mentality

00:57:20 --> 00:57:24

this mentality of looking for a way to be offended as a minority,

00:57:24 --> 00:57:26

it seeped into people's heads without them realizing it.

00:57:28 --> 00:57:31

You know what, you're a minority. Why are you a minority because

00:57:31 --> 00:57:35

your country stinks. That's why fix your own country and go live

00:57:35 --> 00:57:37

back home where you're the majority. Like look at the

00:57:37 --> 00:57:41

realities of things. You're not a minority for some good some

00:57:41 --> 00:57:44

innocent reason here. Maybe we are, we're born here, but I will

00:57:45 --> 00:57:47

put it back to our grandfathers why are we here and I'm in a

00:57:47 --> 00:57:51

vulnerable position because our grandfathers lost wars. That's why

00:57:51 --> 00:57:54

you don't like it. Okay, your grandfather's lost wars, fix it

00:57:54 --> 00:57:59

now. That's the only reason why you're here. They messed up.

00:58:00 --> 00:58:04

Yes, we respect individually all of our grandparents, as the

00:58:04 --> 00:58:07

generations of the past.

00:58:08 --> 00:58:12

The grandfather's of the French and the British defeated the

00:58:12 --> 00:58:17

grandfather's of the Muslims. Simple fact. Losing stinks. Right?

00:58:17 --> 00:58:20

But you lost. That's why you're in this business. And so stop

00:58:20 --> 00:58:24

whining. Pick yourself up as soon as possible. Because this this

00:58:25 --> 00:58:26

approach of just like,

00:58:27 --> 00:58:31

being totally removed from the actual realities of history, and

00:58:31 --> 00:58:35

then expecting some, some fairness or something. There's no fairness

00:58:35 --> 00:58:36

in life.

00:58:37 --> 00:58:40

Like political life, there's no fairness. You're lucky if someone

00:58:40 --> 00:58:46

has any. Okay? You're lucky if Muslims have have any.

00:58:47 --> 00:58:49

Any one's fair to them?

00:58:59 --> 00:59:02

Is it Is there a special holiday for high schoolers something?

00:59:03 --> 00:59:07

Because suggest to is saying, can we have an enemy girl and Jen? So

00:59:07 --> 00:59:11

the high schoolers are out. High School Israel. That's the only way

00:59:11 --> 00:59:11

to

00:59:13 --> 00:59:16

Hanifa for us says every day there's at least one enemy

00:59:16 --> 00:59:20

question what is going on? I've never watched one second of an

00:59:20 --> 00:59:21

enemy cartoon.

00:59:22 --> 00:59:26

Are they even called cartoons? Obey daddy. No, it's not gold. It

00:59:26 --> 00:59:29

looks at the colors Gold, of course, but we don't know unless

00:59:29 --> 00:59:32

we're good. We're like watching shows. Sheikh Hassan was

00:59:32 --> 00:59:37

suggesting a show yesterday. It's called the Ruby or Cordoba, Ruby

00:59:37 --> 00:59:40

or Cordula. Like it's just a show by the shoe or an Arabic while you

00:59:40 --> 00:59:43

do it. That's good. It's about Cordova. Yeah. It's an Arabic and

00:59:43 --> 00:59:47

you learn Islamic history and stuff like that. It's really good.

00:59:49 --> 00:59:50

Yeah, yep.

00:59:51 --> 00:59:55

Allah has does not create any disease, but he also creates with

00:59:55 --> 00:59:57

it it's cure. That's correct. Except

00:59:58 --> 00:59:59

death.

01:00:00 --> 01:00:04

Is this for physical, emotional, etc? And who has knowledge of

01:00:04 --> 01:00:06

these spirits? Will these cures have to be sought by the humans?

01:00:06 --> 01:00:10

That's the deal. For every disease, which we mostly bring on

01:00:10 --> 01:00:14

by our own creations, we invent things and they cause diseases.

01:00:15 --> 01:00:17

There's a cure Allah promises, there's a cure, you have to go

01:00:17 --> 01:00:18

find them.

01:00:19 --> 01:00:22

Isn't it you who invented this stuff, right? You invented the

01:00:22 --> 01:00:26

plastic, you invented all these sugars, refining these sugars, you

01:00:26 --> 01:00:30

did all that stuff. So you also go find the cures. So we have to find

01:00:30 --> 01:00:31

the cures Okay.

01:00:34 --> 01:00:37

Does that involve emotional? I believe the emotional

01:00:39 --> 01:00:47

Okay, the emotional and spiritual sicknesses. Mainly the majority of

01:00:47 --> 01:00:49

those cures are also going to be non physical.

01:00:50 --> 01:00:54

They could be possibly physical, but possibly non physical. And I

01:00:54 --> 01:00:58

do testify that there is extra external things that could mess up

01:00:58 --> 01:01:00

your emotional state. There was once a guy who was given a

01:01:00 --> 01:01:01

vitamins.

01:01:02 --> 01:01:06

So I took the vitamin, right? It was a curcumin vitamin.

01:01:07 --> 01:01:11

When I I started feeling depressed, and I would wake up to

01:01:11 --> 01:01:14

like, why am I down? There's no reason for me to be upset but I

01:01:14 --> 01:01:17

was just down right? And then I was talking to my friend

01:01:19 --> 01:01:21

and he happens to oh man, I took that stuff and made me depressed.

01:01:22 --> 01:01:24

I was like, oh, that's what it is because we both took the vitamin

01:01:24 --> 01:01:25

from the guy at the same time.

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And as soon as I stopped taking that I stopped feeling down. So I

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start I do actually believe that there is external things could

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enter your body and pick you up or bring you down. I mean, coffee

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makes people happy all the time.

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So

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alright, glitter. It has a comment about Adnan Sayed and then seeds

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and red and as she was given from Sudha to use IV to read 100 times

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and he will come to her in 90 days.

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All right, he will come back home

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in 90 days is there anything to this? Why not? Why not?

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Will stream stay or at the same time after the time changes? Yes,

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it'll be 1:30pm

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is not feeling attracted to your spouse anymore grounds for divorce

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in the Cydia?

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First of all, from the man or from the woman, the man is taking on

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the responsibility of his wife, by law. If we marriage is not just by

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law, there's law and there's emotions and there's other things.

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But if you ask him about the law,

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as soon as he does not want to have

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his wife anymore, he doesn't have to write if she can't fulfill his

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duties, okay, then she tells him I can't fulfill your duties anymore.

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obligations towards you anymore. So please release me from this

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marriage. He said okay, give me my dowry back. If he agrees to that,

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then they go their own ways. But as as in real life know, in real

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life that's not the say normal face that in his time, he said is

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everything just love is his responsibilities to

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how do we answer atheists has been a who argue that it is better to

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be good because of the goodness of your heart and not because of the

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promise of Paradise and the fear of *.

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That have they say that so much? Right?

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And the our answer to that number one is firstly, you can't even

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define goodness, number one, number two, it's a lie that people

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don't have a motivation. Ask them what's your motivation for that?

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Okay, number three.

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We are human beings are known by their creator the best and our

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Creator knows that humans are of different states. The highest of

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all states is he does the good for the love of Allah subhana wa Tada.

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There is no such thing as doing the good for the good. Because the

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good is only defined by Allah so therefore you do the good for the

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sake of Allah. Allah is our focus, not the good.

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Something was good today. It's bad tomorrow, like what? Moses married

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two sisters. That's haram for us. It was good for him is bad for us.

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The first generation of humans, you couldn't marry your twin you

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could only marry one of your sisters that was not a twin. That

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was good for them is haram for us. So good for us is me is nothing we

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don't have. It's not a standalone thing. It's only what Allah tells

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us is good. And of course their details can be determined by our

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intellect, our gut instinct, our fitrah the details, but primarily

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something is good because Allah says it's good.

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All right. So there is no such concept of the good for the good

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itself. As if it's a standalone thing in the universe. No. So our

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focus is upon Allah

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We do something for the love of the Creator.

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That's the highest motive. But sometimes our soul drops in its

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strength.

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Our spiritual strength drops, we need a personal motive, Allah

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says, have any personal motive you want.

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As long as you know it's coming from me. That's what if losses is

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to seek rewards solely from Allah. Sometimes we're even weaker than

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that and we succumb to our temptation. Allah says, I'll do

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you a favor, if you can't succumb to our temptations, all attach

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pain to these temptations, so you stay away from them.

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So these atheists who claim and say it's better to be good, just

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for its sake, it's okay, you do that be good for its sake, and

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then go to jahannam. Right, and I will avoid jahannam. And you you

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can think you're better than me all you want. All I need to is to

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avoid him. So you don't believe in John. That's why. So

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I think it's a nonsensical statement. Everyone has to have a

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motive that connects to themselves.

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Just a reminder, regarding the time change this weekend.

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Alright, so how is it affecting Europe now? Is the class later for

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the Europeans? Or is it earlier? I'm really thinking that we're

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going to need eventually when we when as we grow, we're eventually

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going to have a European track for classes. Right? So ArcView

01:06:24 --> 01:06:28

classes, there will be some mid day ArcView classes that would be

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in the evening.

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For the European times.

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How do we pass trials and tests in life?

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Mrs. S, is asking this question. We should get Nancy

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to talk about that, because he just went through the biggest one

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that we could probably, you know, in our community on the east coast

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here, but

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when I say our commute, I mean the east, the broader east coast,

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because he's about four hours away from us three hours, Baltimore,

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but I believe the best way is always to have

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a really good dream in front of you. Okay?

01:07:11 --> 01:07:15

A really good dream in front of you something that it would it

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would be big enough of an invent of an incentive for you to climb

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up mountains and work nonstop and worship along nonstop. You got to

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keep that in your mind. You got to be working towards that goal.

01:07:30 --> 01:07:33

Because sadness, anger, grief, these things are never pushed

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away, they're displaced. I have a bigger thing I'm thinking about

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that's the only way that I that's the only piece of advice I have

01:07:39 --> 01:07:43

for this sister. How do we get through these hardships you got to

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have some bigger dream in your head

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it the more you say stuck to something to a feeling or an

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emotion or a pain the more attention you give it you focus

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everything there you got to put your focus somewhere else

01:08:11 --> 01:08:14

Allah does not use ANGER Yes he has the word of God and the love

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of Allah means the absence of His mercy the withdrawal of His mercy

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Okay, random user an ad blocker might help maybe

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right you saw all these chats that it's whatever the bots again

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that's what they said

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are the podcasts are being posted on SoundCloud or Spotify? Yes they

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are

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the difficulty now says Lily our subliminal messages people don't

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realize yes subliminal messages are very common and very heavy.

01:09:07 --> 01:09:11

Mustafa Al shaking hand after Salah is bitter. I was sold you

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should shake hands of someone you just met in gym out.

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It's a bit that is

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Yeah, nice. It's not going to be a bit of that is sinful. It's not a

01:09:22 --> 01:09:25

sinful innovation, but it is an innovation. It's not a sinful

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innovation. If it becomes perceived by people that it's a

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sunnah that they have to do. That's the problem not the shaking

01:09:33 --> 01:09:35

itself. The belief that this is something they actually have to

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do.

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zemer * Can I have what kind of wives going to have in Jannah?

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All right, you can just get there first.

01:09:47 --> 01:09:51

Suzie Bella Rahim. What are the characteristics that women but you

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can have? What you want to be quite honest with you if that's

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what motivates you? And, and by the way, there's nothing wrong

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with that. What's wrong with that? There's nothing wrong with the men

01:10:00 --> 01:10:05

wanting women he loves right now with that might bother if you're

01:10:05 --> 01:10:08

married to one woman that's gonna bother but you're just gonna say

01:10:08 --> 01:10:13

at least you want when I'm saying in general man loves woman as a

01:10:13 --> 01:10:18

fitrah, right? Man Loves woman. Woman loves men. We don't have any

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problem with that.

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And you have like a teenager here. Who is just thinking about that in

01:10:24 --> 01:10:24

Jana?

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No problem.

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Sue's Ella Rahim says what are characteristics that women should

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work on to be good wives. I see a lot of breakups in the community.

01:10:36 --> 01:10:39

I think that both sides, husband and wife, there needs to be

01:10:39 --> 01:10:43

marriage coaching, to be quite honest with you. Really, they

01:10:43 --> 01:10:48

should be marriage coaching. Because I personally believe that

01:10:49 --> 01:10:52

seeking sacred knowledge and learning the adab of the Sahaba,

01:10:52 --> 01:10:56

the adab of the sheath, in the seat on the summit of the Prophet

01:10:56 --> 01:11:01

is 90% of it. And then maybe 10 20% of it

01:11:03 --> 01:11:07

is going to be like general advice that everyone gives, right? But I

01:11:07 --> 01:11:10

really believe that Shema at Sierra, worship Allah together

01:11:10 --> 01:11:15

study knowledge, learn how, look at how Fatima Zahra lived, she

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lived said I should say to Khadija for the women.

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These are the examples now you're gonna have contemporary issues.

01:11:23 --> 01:11:28

Look at don't we have shoe out of their wives live? Like, look, if

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you have tension, you look at how their wives and daughters live.

01:11:32 --> 01:11:33

Because if that's like

01:11:34 --> 01:11:37

a total of let's say 20 women, wives and daughters of sheep,

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they're going to reflect the truth.

01:11:40 --> 01:11:43

The majority of them maybe want to be you know, there's some

01:11:43 --> 01:11:46

extremes. But there's going to be a broad middle.

01:11:47 --> 01:11:49

How do we learn how to what is

01:11:50 --> 01:11:53

like the dab of, of Islamic scholarship and it's that dab of,

01:11:54 --> 01:11:59

of life with a dab of these things from the Living sheath? Yes, you

01:11:59 --> 01:12:02

read from the books, you study knowledge, but also the living

01:12:02 --> 01:12:07

shoe. And the observation of them talking to them getting advice for

01:12:07 --> 01:12:11

them is a type of education for you. So I would say bring them in,

01:12:11 --> 01:12:17

okay, and learn these things. But it's got an end the end, the best

01:12:17 --> 01:12:20

thing is to get from a lot of people, not just one person

01:12:20 --> 01:12:23

because one person has limited experience. And they have the

01:12:23 --> 01:12:26

temperament that may be different than yours, a husband that may be

01:12:26 --> 01:12:28

different than yours, children that are different than yours.

01:12:29 --> 01:12:34

Right? So everything's different. So you're gonna need 510 1520 25

01:12:34 --> 01:12:37

That's why Samba is so important and life in the massage is so

01:12:37 --> 01:12:39

important. Chepstow had recently released a photo.

01:12:42 --> 01:12:47

Or it's like a footnote in a book that he's writing, where he says

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the misogyny is the only place for people to learn Islam, especially

01:12:51 --> 01:12:55

in the Western countries. So women need to be in the Senate. Right?

01:12:56 --> 01:13:01

Because in the old days, the Feds were the ruling is that young

01:13:01 --> 01:13:05

ladies who always go to the masjid is not good. And it's Makoto for

01:13:05 --> 01:13:10

them to do so. Whereas he's saying now that there are women out

01:13:10 --> 01:13:14

everywhere so that ruling when you apply it now to the masjid while

01:13:14 --> 01:13:18

she's everywhere else, it doesn't make any sense. She has to be in

01:13:18 --> 01:13:20

Masjid because it's the only place you're going to learn the only

01:13:20 --> 01:13:24

place you're going to see pious he said to meet pious people to see

01:13:24 --> 01:13:25

pious people and meet them.

01:13:27 --> 01:13:29

Right that's how we're going to learn. So we need

01:13:30 --> 01:13:36

coaching is not just an official coaching class coaching is also a

01:13:36 --> 01:13:38

meet someone to ask them a one word of advice how do you do this?

01:13:38 --> 01:13:41

How do you do that? Right and you watch them and you observe them

01:13:41 --> 01:13:44

What do you think of this what do you think of that? You learn a lot

01:13:44 --> 01:13:45

just by

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observation.

01:14:01 --> 01:14:05

Abdullah is not tolerating these youth

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who are calling him bruh

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br u h.

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Is I'm not I'm not bruh you can say brother

01:14:23 --> 01:14:26

can a chef use a gin to cure a person who is sick? It is

01:14:26 --> 01:14:29

permissible to use the Muslim gin

01:14:31 --> 01:14:38

the most of them Gen. To remove evil gin, or just annoy newest

01:14:38 --> 01:14:42

instance because not all gyms are SELTENE some gyms are but there

01:14:42 --> 01:14:46

are gyms that can be just a nuisance. And you're allowed to

01:14:46 --> 01:14:48

use a Muslim Jen but that's a whole nother world don't get

01:14:48 --> 01:14:50

involved in it. Just don't get involved.

01:14:54 --> 01:14:57

A whole discussion, you know on the word bruh and it's one of

01:14:57 --> 01:14:59

these certain things that

01:15:00 --> 01:15:05

you are new to me is you know it's new to me this expression that I

01:15:05 --> 01:15:09

hear you guys sometimes saying and I'm at it saying and stuff is no

01:15:10 --> 01:15:11

feeling some type of way

01:15:15 --> 01:15:18

Did we lose all sorts of vocabulary? Right? Is the

01:15:18 --> 01:15:20

vocabulary have been so limited now?

01:15:23 --> 01:15:25

In their fields feels

01:15:28 --> 01:15:28

oh my god,

01:15:30 --> 01:15:30

wow

01:15:40 --> 01:15:43

Are we a quote required to have hosting the vision of non Muslims?

01:15:43 --> 01:15:48

Good question by Abdulhadi hosting the ven is in a matter that is not

01:15:48 --> 01:15:49

your business.

01:15:50 --> 01:15:53

If a matter is your business, and you can be harmed by it, or

01:15:53 --> 01:15:56

someone else can be harmed by it, then you do not have hosted been,

01:15:57 --> 01:16:01

you have two of them. Such as what you're going to hire somebody, a

01:16:01 --> 01:16:04

person is going to live with you. A person has gun, for example,

01:16:05 --> 01:16:09

become your roommate, your person wants to come into your home. No,

01:16:09 --> 01:16:12

you have to have fun. So you protect yourself first. Okay, you

01:16:12 --> 01:16:14

protect yourself first.

01:16:15 --> 01:16:18

And then you can let them in. So you question them and you ask

01:16:18 --> 01:16:19

about them all that stuff.

01:16:24 --> 01:16:29

Muslim women are feeling assaulted online by Muslim men? What is your

01:16:29 --> 01:16:32

advice to them? Certain channels, you have to click off. To be

01:16:32 --> 01:16:35

honest with you. They're out of control. They're out of control.

01:16:35 --> 01:16:37

I'm telling you, they're out of control. They shouldn't be in

01:16:37 --> 01:16:40

Twitter comments. Yeah, Twitter. These guys on Twitter are out of

01:16:40 --> 01:16:44

control. The guys the right. They're very right wing types. I'm

01:16:44 --> 01:16:46

telling you, they're out of control. I don't know what eating

01:16:46 --> 01:16:49

them up about women to handle my life.

01:16:51 --> 01:16:57

The women in my life have been very level headed. Right. So I

01:16:57 --> 01:16:59

don't know what allergy that they have. They contract to some

01:16:59 --> 01:17:04

allergy. They got some issues. I have no idea what it is. Yeah, the

01:17:04 --> 01:17:08

feminist stuff. I don't believe in any of that stuff anyway. Okay. I

01:17:08 --> 01:17:14

don't believe in all that feminist stuff of the anger. Okay.

01:17:17 --> 01:17:17

Right.

01:17:21 --> 01:17:22

The the anger

01:17:24 --> 01:17:27

about of that they're that they're instilling

01:17:28 --> 01:17:33

towards men and judgment towards men has just rebounded in a group

01:17:33 --> 01:17:37

of guys who are doing that back. Right. So that's essentially what

01:17:39 --> 01:17:40

is going on there.

01:17:41 --> 01:17:45

And I really don't want no part of it, because spiritually, it really

01:17:45 --> 01:17:48

ruins your heart. So I have no part of that, that crew.

01:17:49 --> 01:17:56

And while recognizing obviously, that what the sources, okay. And

01:17:56 --> 01:17:58

I'm not, I don't shy away from saying that that is a source. And

01:17:58 --> 01:17:59

that's something that

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like, a lot of hatred is created from the other side, too. And a

01:18:04 --> 01:18:07

lot of their beliefs are totally,

01:18:08 --> 01:18:12

you know, they're just beliefs. They're not anything that anyone's

01:18:12 --> 01:18:15

forced to accept. Okay, so.

01:18:17 --> 01:18:21

And I think they did a lot of destruction to society. Right? A

01:18:21 --> 01:18:26

lot of these a lot of these beliefs and positions are

01:18:26 --> 01:18:29

destructive to society. But what you're going to end up with things

01:18:29 --> 01:18:32

are going to swing the opposite way. So what I've tried to guard

01:18:32 --> 01:18:34

myself from is I stopped reading,

01:18:35 --> 01:18:39

looking so much at Wolken feminist stuff, because it'll get you

01:18:39 --> 01:18:41

angry. And I also stopped looking at the other stuff. I don't even

01:18:41 --> 01:18:44

look at it. People ask about agitate. I have watched literally

01:18:44 --> 01:18:49

60 seconds of a clip like two years ago of agitate I have not

01:18:49 --> 01:18:54

watched a single clip, right or longer form clip. I'm not getting

01:18:54 --> 01:18:58

sucked into this rabbit hole or that rabbit hole. Well, you know

01:18:58 --> 01:19:03

that I cut off the the woke side a long time ago, and the liberal

01:19:03 --> 01:19:06

side, but I'm not getting sucked up in that other side, that that

01:19:06 --> 01:19:08

crew that has went the way the opposite way. And they're

01:19:08 --> 01:19:13

essentially right wing Muslims. I am not going that way. Right? Red

01:19:13 --> 01:19:16

Pill Muslims, I'm not going that way. And I've said it many times

01:19:16 --> 01:19:17

because it's not going to last.

01:19:18 --> 01:19:22

Right? The middle is what's going to survive. Just the deen keep

01:19:22 --> 01:19:25

your focus on Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa salam keep your focus on

01:19:25 --> 01:19:27

the automa that's why I want to keep my focus. I didn't want to

01:19:27 --> 01:19:30

look at that stuff. You're gonna get affected. You're gonna get

01:19:30 --> 01:19:34

affected by anger on one side. Now the women are the opposite, right?

01:19:35 --> 01:19:39

They're gonna be angered by the red pill stuff and may be

01:19:39 --> 01:19:44

influenced by the feminist stuff. Males may be influenced by the red

01:19:44 --> 01:19:47

pill stuff and angered by the feminist stuff. I'm not going

01:19:47 --> 01:19:51

either way. Right because it's it ruins your heart. Don't touch the

01:19:51 --> 01:19:51

camera

01:19:58 --> 01:19:59

they're still going on on

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For up

01:20:08 --> 01:20:09

what is the meaning?

01:20:10 --> 01:20:13

That the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said Allah will gather

01:20:13 --> 01:20:17

his affairs, whoever focuses on Allah subhanho wa Taala Allah will

01:20:17 --> 01:20:22

gather his affairs what does that mean? It means that your family

01:20:22 --> 01:20:27

life will be good your financial life will be good your physical

01:20:27 --> 01:20:31

health will be good your dean will be good Your job will be good your

01:20:31 --> 01:20:34

tech your children will be collected that's what it means the

01:20:34 --> 01:20:37

opposite All right, I'm gonna have to divorce my kids astray. I'm in

01:20:37 --> 01:20:42

debt. I'm about to get fired blah blah blah. What to shut it okay.

01:20:45 --> 01:20:47

Someone wants to talk about

01:20:51 --> 01:20:52

the spiritual

01:20:54 --> 01:20:59

origin are the two so with and the f1 This is from Tasneem search.

01:21:00 --> 01:21:05

Okay. Would it be possible to do an NB F about this? We can show no

01:21:12 --> 01:21:15

that is doable. Why not? Maybe someday.

01:21:16 --> 01:21:18

Timing might be hard to bring her as a guest but

01:21:20 --> 01:21:24

Allah says in the Quran, question from Muhammad Allah says and we

01:21:24 --> 01:21:27

reveal of the Quran that which is a healing and a mercy to the

01:21:27 --> 01:21:30

believer. The main problem is that our lack of Eman otherwise we can

01:21:31 --> 01:21:33

easily get cured through the Quran. That's true.

01:21:37 --> 01:21:41

Does listening to the Quran get us the same reward as reading it?

01:21:45 --> 01:21:47

The Prophet sallallahu sallam said yes.

01:21:51 --> 01:21:54

Is it impossible to have a man like the Sahaba

01:21:55 --> 01:21:59

it is not impossible. It Yes, it is impossible to have the exact

01:21:59 --> 01:22:01

amount of Saba because they saw the Prophet with their eyes.

01:22:02 --> 01:22:07

But we can have a lot of goodness. And we can see our shoe her

01:22:09 --> 01:22:12

mountains of stability and he met

01:22:18 --> 01:22:21

let's get a nun in here and invite him

01:22:25 --> 01:22:26

now not yet,

01:22:27 --> 01:22:29

but let's get started. You know

01:22:33 --> 01:22:34

Karen Akena

01:22:39 --> 01:22:41

Okay, let's go down now.

01:22:49 --> 01:22:49

All right.

01:22:50 --> 01:22:53

It keeps the comments keeps moving up and down. So anyway.

01:22:57 --> 01:22:59

When choosing a spouse as an equal,

01:23:00 --> 01:23:04

people look for all sorts of things, especially a degree and

01:23:04 --> 01:23:08

secular education qualifications. They want a doctor why for it or a

01:23:08 --> 01:23:13

doctor guy, stuff like that. But nobody bothers about Islamic

01:23:13 --> 01:23:17

knowledge. Well, it's mostly most people don't they look for the

01:23:17 --> 01:23:22

dunya they look for stability here and enough Islamic knowledge is

01:23:22 --> 01:23:25

enough but I'm telling you if you want to be happy in life, live

01:23:25 --> 01:23:29

domestic life live the knowledge life lived the life of massage and

01:23:29 --> 01:23:35

see you because the older you get in it, the better it gets. Right.

01:23:37 --> 01:23:41

Missus Mrs. S I was advising him to ask questions that matter okay,

01:23:41 --> 01:23:42

they're just having a discussion.

01:23:53 --> 01:23:57

Abdulhadi Is there less punishment for people who may falter in their

01:23:57 --> 01:24:00

Islam due to mental health conditions? Yes.

01:24:03 --> 01:24:06

Oh my Mariam says I love the saying by a scholar men and women

01:24:06 --> 01:24:09

are mutually superior to each other. That's

01:24:11 --> 01:24:13

you could probably argue that there would there are certain

01:24:13 --> 01:24:17

things a woman can get rewarded on and do in this world. And you

01:24:17 --> 01:24:20

absolutely have a need for no one else can do it. And the opposite

01:24:20 --> 01:24:21

can be said for men.

01:24:24 --> 01:24:28

Khadija Aasif says, I suspect many of them have had their hearts

01:24:28 --> 01:24:34

broken and it fuels their hatred, hearts broken or rejected. Right,

01:24:34 --> 01:24:38

like heartbroken. You might still that might be a bit of a generous

01:24:38 --> 01:24:42

term. Rejected might be that term might be the right thing.

01:24:44 --> 01:24:47

I don't know. Nobody says I don't think it's about Muslim women with

01:24:47 --> 01:24:51

modesty. I know Pakistan girl who threw a party. The day she took

01:24:51 --> 01:24:53

off her job. I think it's that these types of he's just given a

01:24:53 --> 01:24:54

comment here.

01:25:07 --> 01:25:10

It's very hard to actually get through the questions now. And

01:25:10 --> 01:25:13

Rhys doing jobs here. So I have to get through. I'm literally going

01:25:13 --> 01:25:14

through discussions and comments.

01:25:15 --> 01:25:16

Glitter.

01:25:17 --> 01:25:19

Yeah, give me some questions, because the comments, the

01:25:19 --> 01:25:22

discussions back and forth are a lot.

01:25:24 --> 01:25:28

I mean, is it possible to have non Muslim friends in the West? Have

01:25:28 --> 01:25:31

the same gender? Of course, they said no, of the same gender.

01:25:32 --> 01:25:33

So why wouldn't you?

01:25:34 --> 01:25:38

Yeah, you, you, you, you are on the religion of your best friends.

01:25:38 --> 01:25:41

So, so your best friends should be people that you are, would accept

01:25:41 --> 01:25:45

to trade their books on the Day of Judgment. So your five group of

01:25:45 --> 01:25:48

friends all put your book of deeds in a pot and everyone take a

01:25:48 --> 01:25:52

random one? That's how you should be. Write your book of deeds, you

01:25:52 --> 01:25:54

should be willing to swap them. If you're not, don't keep company

01:25:54 --> 01:25:55

with that person.

01:25:57 --> 01:26:01

Hamza J says, my sister is asking what is your favorite Hadith and

01:26:01 --> 01:26:05

why? Well, that's easy. I'm in the good opinion of my slave.

01:26:07 --> 01:26:10

And I ended the knob DV for in Bolivia, fairen. Fella, if he

01:26:10 --> 01:26:14

thinks good of me, he'll get that. If he thinks bad of me, he'll get

01:26:14 --> 01:26:17

that. That's my favorite one because it puts the matter in our

01:26:17 --> 01:26:21

lap. And it allows us to dream up a future for ourselves and live

01:26:21 --> 01:26:25

towards it. You can't not have a goal in life. You have to be going

01:26:25 --> 01:26:30

somewhere why people mess up, they get issues, and you can't give up

01:26:30 --> 01:26:33

on things that you wanted or that things are not going well in life.

01:26:34 --> 01:26:38

Giving up is not a rank. It's not a macam it's not a good deed. You

01:26:38 --> 01:26:41

rather just die trying at least you you're doing something with

01:26:41 --> 01:26:43

your time. Right? So

01:26:47 --> 01:26:50

is that Sunsoo? Oh, it's a hadith

01:26:57 --> 01:27:01

Oh, that state about I fear that you are either in beta or alpha.

01:27:01 --> 01:27:05

You're either in trial, or you're in protection from trial? Yeah,

01:27:05 --> 01:27:07

you're in either in the fewer the pupil of Bella.

01:27:08 --> 01:27:11

The people of Orpheus should think a lot that they're not people have

01:27:11 --> 01:27:14

built up. But the people have built up I mean, the receiving

01:27:14 --> 01:27:18

trials there. McCollum is going through the roof if they have

01:27:18 --> 01:27:19

suffered with those trials,

01:27:21 --> 01:27:25

a session on the fifth of polygamy. I gave my whole thing on

01:27:25 --> 01:27:28

the fifth of polygamy and the pragmatics of it. Right? I've said

01:27:28 --> 01:27:33

it a couple of times, but I'll say it again in a 62nd. Here, that the

01:27:33 --> 01:27:37

ruling is the ruling, it is valid for men to have multiple wives up

01:27:37 --> 01:27:38

to four.

01:27:39 --> 01:27:44

But the question is, when it hits the ground, you don't want to do

01:27:44 --> 01:27:46

and this is my advice. This is what I say.

01:27:48 --> 01:27:54

You don't want to do something to somebody else, like your children,

01:27:54 --> 01:28:00

for example, or your wife that you have you or your community has

01:28:00 --> 01:28:01

zero experience with.

01:28:02 --> 01:28:06

It's not fair. Right? It's not fair. And that's my opinion,

01:28:06 --> 01:28:10

personally speaking. So I would not allow for example, like the

01:28:10 --> 01:28:14

way I the way I raised my kids to live, I'm going to raise you the

01:28:14 --> 01:28:18

way I lived, I'm not going to ask you some I'm not going to push you

01:28:18 --> 01:28:22

harder, right? Or take something away from you.

01:28:23 --> 01:28:27

Because that's what's fair in my opinion. Like you we live a

01:28:27 --> 01:28:30

certain balance life what you consider balanced, that's what I'm

01:28:30 --> 01:28:31

going to transmit.

01:28:32 --> 01:28:35

I'm not going to go and push you to to something and put you in a

01:28:35 --> 01:28:38

certain world. Unless the situation forces me that's

01:28:38 --> 01:28:42

different, right? Or unless I learned something was bad. You

01:28:42 --> 01:28:44

learn for example, a certain chemicals bad you make sure that

01:28:44 --> 01:28:47

you don't eat it anymore, so I ate it in my youth. I don't eat it

01:28:47 --> 01:28:51

anymore. That's different. That's knowledge right? But a way of

01:28:51 --> 01:28:51

living.

01:28:53 --> 01:28:55

I don't want to experiment with them. Allah is going to ask us

01:28:55 --> 01:28:58

about this Amana that he gave us. So I want to give them your a

01:28:58 --> 01:29:03

baseline Toby upbringing, right? That is balanced. If anyone wants

01:29:03 --> 01:29:07

to be great, you can be great. I'm gonna push you to do a certain

01:29:07 --> 01:29:11

respectable minimum. Okay, there's no discussion, I'm gonna push you

01:29:11 --> 01:29:14

to do it. But if you want to go any further than that,

01:29:15 --> 01:29:20

right, that's really up to you. Okay, let let it come out of them.

01:29:21 --> 01:29:24

But to push them into a new way of living now where there's co wives

01:29:24 --> 01:29:28

and and all this stuff. Practically speaking. It's rare

01:29:28 --> 01:29:30

that we have no precedent for this. I don't know how to answer

01:29:30 --> 01:29:32

these questions for you. So why would I put them in that

01:29:32 --> 01:29:37

situation? So that's my answer on that. In a nutshell. It's more of

01:29:37 --> 01:29:38

like pragmatics than a ruling.

01:29:40 --> 01:29:46

It's not it's not that's what it is. It's no heard says it's no 95

01:29:46 --> 01:29:51

on Instagram says, Could something we continually make dua for be

01:29:51 --> 01:29:52

shutter for us.

01:29:54 --> 01:29:55

Judge it with your mind

01:29:57 --> 01:29:58

and believe Allah will give it to you

01:30:00 --> 01:30:03

with your with your mind with the shitty out with your common sense.

01:30:04 --> 01:30:10

Judge it if you want it, believe in it, go after it. Allah will

01:30:10 --> 01:30:14

make you happy one way or another. But you keep your eye on the goal

01:30:14 --> 01:30:17

because that's what the prophet commanded us. The Prophet

01:30:17 --> 01:30:19

commanded us. If you want something, keep your eye on it and

01:30:19 --> 01:30:22

have no discussion, you're gonna get it. If you start hesitating,

01:30:22 --> 01:30:25

well, maybe it's not good for me, maybe it is, then at that point,

01:30:26 --> 01:30:27

you're the reason that you might not get it,

01:30:28 --> 01:30:31

put you on it. Now, if Allah subhana has another plan for you,

01:30:31 --> 01:30:35

you will hit a wall, you will be turned in a different direction.

01:30:36 --> 01:30:39

Something will happen that will turn your heart away from it

01:30:39 --> 01:30:43

completely and will turn your heart to something far better.

01:30:47 --> 01:30:51

You understand, but you don't worry about Allah's knowledge. You

01:30:51 --> 01:30:55

worry about yourself the command of the Prophet, you want

01:30:55 --> 01:30:57

sallallahu alayhi wa salam you want something you keep your eye

01:30:57 --> 01:31:01

on it, go for it, ask Allah to start getting up for tahajjud

01:31:02 --> 01:31:05

get up for tahajjud do so lots on the prophets of Allah when he was

01:31:05 --> 01:31:07

said in 1000 a day have no hesitation

01:31:09 --> 01:31:12

What if the husband did not really lead and guide toward Islamic

01:31:12 --> 01:31:17

values? Well, you have to see your family situation if it is harmful

01:31:17 --> 01:31:21

or not to to to continue with him

01:31:33 --> 01:31:36

what is bidder and how to identify it says HMAS Alright, let me just

01:31:36 --> 01:31:39

give you another shell bidder is of two categories bidder of

01:31:39 --> 01:31:46

beliefs and bidder inaction, the in beliefs is to negate some and a

01:31:46 --> 01:31:51

text of Quran or Hadith that is explicit but not widespread. It's

01:31:51 --> 01:31:56

explicit but not widespread. Good. If it was and that person is an

01:31:56 --> 01:31:58

innovator, his good deeds do not count.

01:31:59 --> 01:32:01

Until he fixes his belief. Right?

01:32:03 --> 01:32:06

If it is explicit, and it is widespread,

01:32:07 --> 01:32:10

that person is out of Islam, like who the Qadiani is who believe in

01:32:10 --> 01:32:11

another prophet.

01:32:13 --> 01:32:17

If it is not explicit, its interpretive and he goes against

01:32:17 --> 01:32:21

the indramat the consensus of the Ummah I think I got too technical

01:32:21 --> 01:32:23

for the brother right here, right then

01:32:24 --> 01:32:28

that's Bidda FIFA, he is still a Sunni but on this matter, he's

01:32:28 --> 01:32:31

misguided and he's an innovator on that metal. Now, as for the bit of

01:32:31 --> 01:32:37

action, it is to do an act in salah or in hajj for example, that

01:32:37 --> 01:32:41

the prophets I send them did not do because Hajj and Salah in space

01:32:41 --> 01:32:46

NCM in specific are things prophesy centum said do it exactly

01:32:46 --> 01:32:46

as I do it

01:32:47 --> 01:32:51

as for the current da he opened the door so Bidda is so as to

01:32:51 --> 01:32:56

introduce something new in worship that has no basis neither in

01:32:56 --> 01:33:00

specific nor in general because the basis could be specific or

01:33:00 --> 01:33:03

general right there you could have a general basis for something

01:33:04 --> 01:33:09

so that those innovations they fall in of actions they fall in

01:33:09 --> 01:33:11

the category of obligatory permitted

01:33:12 --> 01:33:16

recommended permitted discouraged or haram based upon its

01:33:16 --> 01:33:19

relationship with the evidence that's a summary of innovation.

01:33:31 --> 01:33:35

suggests you said a girl left Islam because Intertape converted

01:33:35 --> 01:33:36

to Islam What do you think about that?

01:33:38 --> 01:33:40

I would question the facts to be honest with you.

01:33:41 --> 01:33:44

I would question that that's is that like a Twitter thing is that

01:33:44 --> 01:33:45

just

01:33:46 --> 01:33:47

tweeting

01:33:50 --> 01:33:50

actually becomes

01:33:53 --> 01:33:58

that's cool for but what if he corrects himself though? Like Wait

01:33:58 --> 01:34:02

a second, we are not going to are we? Are people static? Are they do

01:34:02 --> 01:34:07

they change? Right? The worst person can change. You can change,

01:34:07 --> 01:34:14

right? Again, I don't have much context of what he says. But he

01:34:14 --> 01:34:15

can change

01:34:23 --> 01:34:24

so now I'm from Melbourne.

01:34:25 --> 01:34:30

May Allah reward the whole team. My family and I benefit we put

01:34:30 --> 01:34:33

them on while driving in the car and listen as a family. That's

01:34:33 --> 01:34:37

really nice. I'd love to hear that. And I'd love to go back to

01:34:37 --> 01:34:38

Australia someday.

01:34:40 --> 01:34:44

It's 6:20am on Thursday in Melbourne. Wow.

01:34:46 --> 01:34:48

I didn't realize that time was that drastic?

01:34:54 --> 01:34:58

Is hap what's the shot of this hadith. A woman's prayer in his

01:34:58 --> 01:34:59

room in her room is better than her

01:35:00 --> 01:35:02

Prayer in the courtyard, and her prayer in the cabinet is better

01:35:02 --> 01:35:07

than the prayer in the room. The answer to that a low item is that

01:35:10 --> 01:35:13

the women in the time of the prophets of Allah when he was

01:35:13 --> 01:35:16

setting them would pray in the masjid. But then some of them

01:35:16 --> 01:35:22

begin to be bogged down by duties, so they could no longer pray in

01:35:22 --> 01:35:25

the masjid. So they felt bad, and they felt that they were missing

01:35:25 --> 01:35:28

out on the reward. And so the prophets of Allah who it was salam

01:35:28 --> 01:35:30

extended the place of their reward

01:35:31 --> 01:35:34

right to their homes, so that they would not feel that they have to

01:35:34 --> 01:35:36

leave their duties in the homes

01:35:38 --> 01:35:42

and go to the masjid, that is one of the Tafseer lots of that hadith

01:35:42 --> 01:35:46

and Allah knows best. Or it could mean that in the case that the

01:35:46 --> 01:35:47

masjid is like

01:35:49 --> 01:35:52

a very big Masjid filled with strangers, then it's better for

01:35:52 --> 01:35:53

her not to go alone.

01:35:54 --> 01:35:56

If it's like a neighborhood mastered and everyone knows

01:35:56 --> 01:35:57

everyone is a little bit different

01:36:03 --> 01:36:05

oh my gosh, you can spend all you want so

01:36:12 --> 01:36:16

what are the obligations says, Man Massoud have a son as opposed to a

01:36:16 --> 01:36:18

married daughter towards their mother the Son is the first line

01:36:19 --> 01:36:23

of defense of taking care of the mom. If the son fails to or he

01:36:23 --> 01:36:27

could not for some reason, then the son in law

01:36:28 --> 01:36:33

the wife's husband, it falls on his lap right to take care of his

01:36:33 --> 01:36:33

mother in law.

01:36:41 --> 01:36:44

Abdulhadi says I don't understand your answer to my question. Did

01:36:44 --> 01:36:47

you mean by her answer that yes, we have hosted version of non

01:36:47 --> 01:36:53

Muslims Yes. Yes you can have hosting have been in the sense

01:36:53 --> 01:36:57

that it's an attitude. You don't want to always think ill of

01:36:57 --> 01:36:57

somebody

01:36:59 --> 01:37:03

I don't think that that's it's not the way of our prophets of Allah

01:37:03 --> 01:37:03

when he was

01:37:04 --> 01:37:07

right to always think ill of somebody

01:37:08 --> 01:37:09

it's not our way

01:37:12 --> 01:37:13

okay

01:37:22 --> 01:37:23

lying to them is

01:37:24 --> 01:37:27

I guess the one thing lying in backbiting

01:37:30 --> 01:37:32

that's a problem well when you know that you have to be on guard

01:37:32 --> 01:37:36

so that's why I said if you have no business with them have Hassan

01:37:37 --> 01:37:39

if you have an interest with them like I'm dealing with them then no

01:37:39 --> 01:37:43

then you have to be very guarded with people. There's a hadith

01:37:43 --> 01:37:44

shikigami always says

01:37:46 --> 01:37:51

protect yourselves with suit oven. Yep. Now spinning thicket Is that

01:37:51 --> 01:37:54

a thing? It no it's not a thing for us. It's a bit out for us but

01:37:54 --> 01:37:58

we're in light of like youth and the stuff that they go through. If

01:37:58 --> 01:38:01

a kid says he wants to spin around and do thicker I'm not gonna like

01:38:02 --> 01:38:03

but it is for us it's a bitter

01:38:05 --> 01:38:08

and it's not respectful. So that could we don't say that we but if

01:38:08 --> 01:38:12

you want to spin around just spin right? And then do thicker later.

01:38:13 --> 01:38:15

How could you do it? Don't you get dizzy?

01:38:19 --> 01:38:21

Was wisdom it says

01:38:24 --> 01:38:28

he's basically being accosted by his neighbor. How can I have

01:38:28 --> 01:38:32

that's what I said when you have an interest then you don't you

01:38:32 --> 01:38:35

guard yourself but you have no interest. And you're just dealing

01:38:35 --> 01:38:37

with a person at work or something like that. Then you can have

01:38:37 --> 01:38:41

hosted done so obviously mazembe And Muhammad has issues with his

01:38:41 --> 01:38:41

neighbor.

01:38:43 --> 01:38:46

Yes, issues with his neighbor. Poor guy.

01:38:48 --> 01:38:51

Lily says this is how bad things have gotten the last 20 years

01:38:51 --> 01:38:52

people don't read books.

01:38:54 --> 01:38:57

I don't know if the new generation knows what a book is. The schools

01:38:57 --> 01:38:59

don't even give them books.

01:39:03 --> 01:39:05

Take pictures of it or somebody wants to take

01:39:08 --> 01:39:13

Wow. Because everything is now a PDF or whatever. Even all school

01:39:13 --> 01:39:18

like math. Math is now on the computer. How can I says do you

01:39:18 --> 01:39:21

have to retake your shot if you dance at Diwali celebration? First

01:39:21 --> 01:39:26

of all, this Diwali thing is had it with duallie Everything. These

01:39:26 --> 01:39:29

days it's almost as if like it just

01:39:30 --> 01:39:34

it just like exploded in our community. I guess the population

01:39:34 --> 01:39:39

of Hindus has grown in our area, okay. And their number of

01:39:39 --> 01:39:47

references of Diwali went from like zero for years to like one

01:39:48 --> 01:39:50

to select 2000.

01:39:57 --> 01:40:00

Man, you're the next time

01:40:00 --> 01:40:03

Come for lashes I told him Allah you know that's for Hindus right?

01:40:03 --> 01:40:03

Yeah

01:40:05 --> 01:40:05

okay

01:40:07 --> 01:40:09

you all heard of this politician in the mosque

01:40:13 --> 01:40:17

if I share you something on your phone can you

01:40:18 --> 01:40:21

can you put it up? It's just like a funny

01:40:22 --> 01:40:23

email to you sure

01:40:46 --> 01:40:49

one second people were doing something here I'm getting

01:40:49 --> 01:40:50

something hilarious for you

01:40:54 --> 01:40:57

alright, it's compressing and sending to you right now. In the

01:40:57 --> 01:40:58

meantime,

01:41:00 --> 01:41:04

sincerely Salam says, Can Allah grant us something we are

01:41:04 --> 01:41:06

passionately praying for just to teach us a lesson? No, Allah does

01:41:06 --> 01:41:08

not do this. Allah does not do this.

01:41:10 --> 01:41:14

When Allah Tala grants us teaches you a lesson through something,

01:41:14 --> 01:41:18

okay? It's when you're like sarcastic about it.

01:41:20 --> 01:41:23

Oh, I would much when you don't give it much thought or piety.

01:41:24 --> 01:41:28

When you say something, for example, like, oh, I would much

01:41:28 --> 01:41:31

rather anybody live here except that guy. And you keep saying

01:41:31 --> 01:41:36

that? Well, maybe Allah will give you anybody. Okay. So but when you

01:41:36 --> 01:41:39

are piously praying for something and it's answered.

01:41:41 --> 01:41:45

I haven't hear from Habibullah directly yet, Jim. Yeah, Jim.

01:41:45 --> 01:41:47

Yeah. Jim, you must believe it is good. Allah does not play tricks.

01:41:48 --> 01:41:51

Allah does not play games. He does not take a pious person.

01:41:53 --> 01:41:54

And do this to them.

01:41:55 --> 01:41:59

He does not take piety from you, and use it as a trick against you.

01:42:00 --> 01:42:05

If your prayer is answered, and you find some hardship, in the

01:42:05 --> 01:42:07

thing that you prayed for, that's due to some sense that you had.

01:42:09 --> 01:42:13

Right? That's used to some sense. If you prayed for a car, you got a

01:42:13 --> 01:42:17

car, and now you don't know how to drive? Well. That's because you

01:42:17 --> 01:42:20

don't know how to drive not because of the car, right? So we

01:42:20 --> 01:42:24

have to when we make a DUA, you better worship Allah will have a

01:42:24 --> 01:42:28

good heart and all that stuff. purify yourself so that you can

01:42:28 --> 01:42:31

enjoy your blessing as much as possible.

01:42:32 --> 01:42:35

Good. I can't tell you how important it is.

01:42:37 --> 01:42:40

That's part that's not just even hosting the lung biller that's the

01:42:40 --> 01:42:44

truth about Allah subhanaw taala it's the Huck

01:42:45 --> 01:42:49

Welch's that will certainly let Sn is not the reward of a good and

01:42:49 --> 01:42:53

sincere person. Anything other than goodness. No tricks with

01:42:53 --> 01:42:57

Allah Tala Iblees is the one who does tricks. Well, I hypocrisy

01:42:57 --> 01:42:58

will be only

01:42:59 --> 01:43:00

a bad trick

01:43:02 --> 01:43:05

does not come except from someone who does bad tricks. When Allah

01:43:05 --> 01:43:09

tricks a person how does he trick him with his own plots? His own

01:43:09 --> 01:43:14

schemes? Get well located make it in how was ALLAH a mecca? With

01:43:14 --> 01:43:18

what does Allah trick people with his tricks with the plot that you

01:43:18 --> 01:43:21

made for another Muslim or you made for an innocent person?

01:43:21 --> 01:43:24

That's how Allah will trick you with your plots. So as long as

01:43:24 --> 01:43:28

we're honest, sincere, clean hearted, then we must believe

01:43:29 --> 01:43:29

that

01:43:31 --> 01:43:33

Yeah, and we need volume for this. It's hilarious

01:43:38 --> 01:43:42

Ibrahim SUNBORN says can I make widget with gel can my son make

01:43:42 --> 01:43:43

would do with gel?

01:43:45 --> 01:43:48

As long as the Yeah, you wipe over your head

01:43:50 --> 01:43:51

Alright, go

01:43:55 --> 01:43:56

bye, volume up

01:44:03 --> 01:44:04

there you go

01:44:11 --> 01:44:16

and we are here to provide you hopefully with some understanding,

01:44:16 --> 01:44:20

or even just answers moving forward as you make your

01:44:20 --> 01:44:26

decisions. But also just thank you once again. And best wishes we

01:44:26 --> 01:44:31

wish you all the best for your upcoming celebration. Oh good.

01:44:33 --> 01:44:37

A for effort. All right F for the diversity training

01:44:38 --> 01:44:41

for whoever that politician is unbelievable. Hilarious,

01:44:41 --> 01:44:46

hilarious. See, here's the thing. If it was any other minority, you

01:44:46 --> 01:44:50

know what they would do? We're offended blah, blah, blah. What

01:44:50 --> 01:44:51

are Muslims doing? We just laugh at it.

01:44:54 --> 01:44:58

Unbelievable. Some this is some random politician visiting a

01:44:58 --> 01:45:00

masjid and then she congratulate several

01:45:00 --> 01:45:04

And for developers hilarious. I'm trying to open on my Safari here.

01:45:05 --> 01:45:10

Just to get like what? What is the Wally's aiming to celebrate? Do

01:45:10 --> 01:45:13

you know Right? Right here it is Diwali festival.

01:45:14 --> 01:45:17

Yeah, they throw up pain and I remember in yell I had like a

01:45:17 --> 01:45:19

really good students. And you know,

01:45:20 --> 01:45:21

he was

01:45:23 --> 01:45:25

he told me about Diwali and they take like powdered paint and they

01:45:25 --> 01:45:28

throw it up and it's just like a Hindu. I don't know if it's, it's

01:45:28 --> 01:45:32

if there's direct religious religion, and of course,

01:45:32 --> 01:45:35

obviously, we don't practice it, or celebrate it. But

01:45:38 --> 01:45:42

it's just like the references of Diwali just went like this.

01:45:44 --> 01:45:47

So I guess it's time for me to look it up on Wikipedia.

01:45:48 --> 01:45:50

We never even studied it in

01:45:52 --> 01:45:54

comparative religion class and I had a Hindu professor.

01:46:14 --> 01:46:17

NECA says the powder paint is holy.

01:46:19 --> 01:46:21

H O Li. Is that another holiday?

01:46:26 --> 01:46:30

Oh, Holly, is about powdered paint. Diwali is another thing.

01:46:33 --> 01:46:36

Yeah, it's different. All right, folks, let us wrap up here.

01:46:37 --> 01:46:38

Okay.

01:46:46 --> 01:46:50

Thank you all very much. And remember, we now do the vicar of

01:46:50 --> 01:46:54

the Wednesday vicar between her and us. We do it at the front of

01:46:54 --> 01:46:57

the stream now because the time has changed. And now Austin is

01:46:57 --> 01:47:02

basically coming in very quickly. So, ladies and gentlemen, thank

01:47:02 --> 01:47:06

you all very much. Do you often get people in your community

01:47:06 --> 01:47:09

wanting to get married but are stopped because of culture or

01:47:09 --> 01:47:14

money? It hasn't really happened a lot, I have to say maybe once or

01:47:14 --> 01:47:16

twice that there is a

01:47:18 --> 01:47:25

cultural difference that parents they can adjust. And I've been

01:47:25 --> 01:47:28

trying to I can't handle that. I can't tell a parent to get

01:47:28 --> 01:47:31

flexible. I can't force it down their throat.

01:47:33 --> 01:47:34

Yeah, for them.

01:47:36 --> 01:47:41

To do that. Yeah. Yeah. So I don't push. I don't try to bend the man,

01:47:42 --> 01:47:47

the family, the father and the mother. But what I do tell is I

01:47:47 --> 01:47:51

tell the youth, please, you know, your family is involved in your

01:47:51 --> 01:47:53

life. You know that right?

01:47:54 --> 01:47:57

Don't fall in love with someone that you know that they're not

01:47:57 --> 01:47:57

going to accept.

01:47:59 --> 01:48:02

And then come to you know, other people and try to,

01:48:03 --> 01:48:05

to get them to change your parents. No one can change your

01:48:05 --> 01:48:09

parents. They're just independent human beings. And don't force feed

01:48:09 --> 01:48:13

them a marriage that they're not going to accept. Because you do

01:48:13 --> 01:48:16

have a life. Yes, you're gonna be living with your wife, you will

01:48:16 --> 01:48:21

need both parents in laws at some point. You live together and not

01:48:21 --> 01:48:25

physically but you live in life, right? You can't have this bad

01:48:25 --> 01:48:29

blood. In such an important thing like marriage is going to exhaust

01:48:29 --> 01:48:32

you it's going to exhaust everybody. So I say to them, don't

01:48:32 --> 01:48:35

just don't fall in love with someone who's outside the scope.

01:48:35 --> 01:48:39

And the scope is whatever it is, you don't like it this. It doesn't

01:48:39 --> 01:48:42

matter what you don't like, right? Okay. You don't like it that my

01:48:42 --> 01:48:45

parents are saying Arab are busts. Okay?

01:48:46 --> 01:48:48

There's a lot of limitations in life, but

01:48:49 --> 01:48:53

I don't see another way out for you. Okay, don't get married. Wait

01:48:53 --> 01:48:57

till they die. I don't see a way out to force your parents to

01:48:57 --> 01:49:02

change. Okay, try. You try. But do try before you fall in love with

01:49:02 --> 01:49:06

someone. Alright, try to say listen, we need to change this

01:49:07 --> 01:49:12

condition of yours before you fall in love with somebody. Right?

01:49:14 --> 01:49:19

Rather than you fell in love with someone now call us. It's Romeo

01:49:19 --> 01:49:20

and Juliet.

01:49:21 --> 01:49:25

And now you have to call up the masjid called the sheikh. I never

01:49:25 --> 01:49:27

even seen you before in the masjid. Now it's an emergency you

01:49:27 --> 01:49:32

have to see me. Right? But I never even met you before. Okay, and

01:49:32 --> 01:49:36

what are you asking me to do? Change your parents? What? No, it

01:49:36 --> 01:49:41

doesn't work like this. Right? So, if you will, if you don't like

01:49:41 --> 01:49:44

that condition that your parents are set, try to get them to change

01:49:44 --> 01:49:47

it beforehand. And you have the right to do that. It's your right,

01:49:47 --> 01:49:52

right. It's your right to marry who you want to marry. But I'm

01:49:52 --> 01:49:55

telling you, you still have to live with your parents. So make

01:49:55 --> 01:50:00

sure your parents are in line with it with no force, no compulsion.

01:50:00 --> 01:50:05

And nobody shouldn't be upset or awkward or have homage in the

01:50:05 --> 01:50:08

wedding. Everyone should be there with an open heart and an open

01:50:08 --> 01:50:12

chest and willingly having this you know, these these two peds

01:50:12 --> 01:50:16

these two families meet come together in marriage. So that's my

01:50:16 --> 01:50:20

advice to you do that before so let's preempt. Rather than coming

01:50:20 --> 01:50:25

after the fact. I can't help you after the fact preempt, before

01:50:25 --> 01:50:28

you, you go off in that in that world, you don't like that

01:50:28 --> 01:50:30

condition of your parents. Talk to them now.

01:50:32 --> 01:50:33

Okay, talk to them now.

01:50:35 --> 01:50:39

This business I'm already in love and then I need your help. So I

01:50:39 --> 01:50:43

can't really help you because you're already a runaway train.

01:50:44 --> 01:50:46

Like you're a car now with no brakes. And you're asking me to

01:50:46 --> 01:50:49

help you drive through a brick wall.

01:50:50 --> 01:50:54

It's a lose lose for everybody. Why? Because you did the cart is

01:50:54 --> 01:50:56

before the horse is in front of the horse.

01:50:58 --> 01:51:02

You went off you got yourself in a romantic relationship. And now you

01:51:02 --> 01:51:06

want to work it out? No, work out the conditions first.

01:51:07 --> 01:51:11

So this speech I'm giving right now is you know this advice I'm

01:51:11 --> 01:51:15

given is like for the 18 and 17 year olds, bring it up now with

01:51:15 --> 01:51:17

your parents. If you live with your parents, some people don't

01:51:18 --> 01:51:20

maybe conference maybe they don't have relationship with their

01:51:20 --> 01:51:24

parents like everybody else. But if you live with a parents with

01:51:24 --> 01:51:28

your parents, talk to them from now and ask them what are the

01:51:28 --> 01:51:33

preconditions and you tell them they say he has to be of this that

01:51:33 --> 01:51:35

of the other culture if you don't like that discuss it with them

01:51:35 --> 01:51:36

right?

01:51:37 --> 01:51:40

How can we come bring it in the middle somehow? What if he learns

01:51:40 --> 01:51:45

what to do? What if he learns Arabic? What if he has been Muslim

01:51:45 --> 01:51:46

for five years?

01:51:47 --> 01:51:49

Discuss it with them from now

01:51:50 --> 01:51:53

and that I that I believe okay

01:51:55 --> 01:51:57

that's the right way forward and that's the only way I could help

01:51:57 --> 01:52:03

is pre empting can't help you when you're ready fallen head over

01:52:03 --> 01:52:07

heels. But then now you have in your mom's crying right when you

01:52:07 --> 01:52:10

want me to do for you. Sorry, not gonna work.

01:52:11 --> 01:52:15

Some Hanukkah whom obey Him they said no Allah Allah illa Anta the

01:52:15 --> 01:52:20

stuff we're gonna do, like whereas in an insane Allah Fucus Illa de

01:52:20 --> 01:52:27

una mano y mano CIDA heard what it was so but Huck, what's soba Sabra

01:52:27 --> 01:52:31

was Salam alaykum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh.

01:53:14 --> 01:53:14

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01:53:19 --> 01:53:19

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