Shadee Elmasry – Mothers’ Hour, Being Mom 1

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The speakers emphasize the importance of learning from prophetic words and practicing with them to build one's own character. They also discuss the importance of family in Islam, including praying fasting and giving confidence to children. The speakers emphasize the importance of preserving family relationships and values, including working with children and parents, and the reward of individuals maintaining them. They also touch on the idea of working with parents and their families, emphasizing the importance of preserving them and working with them.

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			A lot of parents don't have that.
		
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			That Islamic knowledge. So they
send their kids there to know what
		
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			they can teach them. They don't
specifically implement what they
		
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			want them to hear them say it
started. Okay, we're good.
		
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			Alright, so, okay, so inshallah
alright so starting Shalom does
		
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			not matter Haman sha Allah so are
you going to Nebraska to my last
		
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			panel Dallas peace and blessings
be upon you. And inshallah today
		
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			we're going to start our series
about raising children in Islam.
		
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			And we're going to try to learn
from the prophetic way from Satan,
		
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			Mohamed Salah Salem, and try to
apply as much as we can as we go
		
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			along. But in order to be able to
raise Muslim children, as I said,
		
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			we have to start talking about
ourselves. First as Muslim parents
		
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			just I was just telling you, you
can't you can't expect to send the
		
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			child to home from school. And
they're going to be perfect if
		
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			they don't come back and you apply
or imply the same thing that
		
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			they're being taught at school. So
we have to start with ourselves
		
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			first. If we want our kids to come
out in a certain way, we have to
		
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			be that way ourselves first.
Because we could talk all the
		
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			talk, but they kids listen, and
they see. And they actually
		
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			imitate what they see not what
they hear Subhanallah so in order
		
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			for us to do so, or to know the
value of family, we have to really
		
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			sense the importance of what
family is, we're talking about
		
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			something that's very, very, very
valuable. Okay. And I'm sure
		
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			you'll tell me of course we know
family, something really valuable.
		
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			It's important and we you know,
people just like yeah, of course
		
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			family comes first and so on and
so forth. But if we knew if we
		
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			started off by knowing how
valuable it is to Allah subhana wa
		
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			Tala family in general, right, the
heavens in the earth, we check for
		
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			that. That's how dear or important
or valuable a family is that was
		
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			Pano to Allah. And Allah subhanaw
taala would reward you or be
		
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			pleased with you and w you know,
reward you double the norm just
		
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			for putting towards that family or
keeping that foundation going the
		
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			way he would like it to. Alright,
but why am I saying this? Because
		
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			unfortunately, as you know, today,
we've become very reckless about
		
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			family, and its values. And the
amount of divorces that we hear
		
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			these days is just ridiculous. And
if you look at reasons why people
		
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			were divorced, you know, after
being married for six years, or 10
		
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			years or six months, even the
serious the silliest reason
		
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			SubhanAllah. And when you ask
either spouse after they, you
		
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			know, they separate from each
other, why did you do so? They,
		
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			you know, they say we don't know,
we were just stubborn over silly
		
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			things. SubhanAllah. But you
really, if you think about it, why
		
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			is that? So it's because the value
of the family has become minut
		
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			it's become very small, people
don't understand what it is
		
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			SubhanAllah. And when you ask a
child who is dearer to you, your
		
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			family, or your friends, and you
find him silent, not knowing what
		
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			to answer, because they don't want
to embarrass you, you know,
		
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			they're not gonna say, Oh, my
friends more important, but you
		
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			know, for certain that all their
secret is with their friend and
		
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			not with you, then you know, what
has happened to the family values.
		
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			And when you find a father asking
his son to do something for days
		
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			and days, and it's not being done,
and the instant his friends tell
		
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			him to do the same thing, it's
done right away, then you know
		
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			that the family value or the value
of the family has come down to
		
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			this nothing SubhanAllah. And we
are a part of doing this because
		
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			we don't emphasize this meaning to
our own children. We don't show if
		
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			we don't act it out in our daily
lives, that they are number one
		
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			that the house and us together is
number one, they're never going to
		
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			get that Subhanallah alright.
		
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			When you find in another
situation, siblings not talking to
		
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			each other. Because you know,
after their parents died, they're
		
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			fighting over inheritance or
forbidding their children to talk
		
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			to each other, or contacting each
other. And, and you see all of
		
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			these things. And these are life
things that we hear about, you
		
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			know, cousins haven't been talking
to each other for 10 years and 50
		
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			Because I don't know my mom and
her mom, and they have nothing to
		
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			do with it. Subhan Allah. So if
you're seeking a las pantallas
		
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			pleasure, if you want the gates of
heaven to be opened for you, and
		
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			those of hellfire shut, your
family has to be the most
		
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			important and the most valuable
thing to you before anything else.
		
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			Because it's the most valuable
thing to Allah subhanaw taala The
		
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			Lord of the heavens and earth.
Okay, so this is where we want to
		
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			start off. And where would we
really start? Let's go from the
		
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			very, very beginning, okay, from
the beginning of humanity, if we
		
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			look at the very beginning of
humanity, who was it, the
		
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			beginning of creation, was Adam
and Howard Allah himself right?
		
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			One family, just one family. You
see Allah subhanaw taala could
		
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			have started with what many men
and many woman and who created
		
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			them? Allah subhanaw taala and
then they get to know each other
		
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			and then you know this marries
that and this would marries that
		
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			and they could have started like
that, right? But no, this earth
		
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			had to be built upon one family,
Adam and Eve, and she's created
		
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			right from him. From the same
clay, not from a different clay,
		
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			not two different types of clay.
The Earth had to come from one
		
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			uterus one Rahab SubhanAllah. You
see the idea? The first seen
		
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			humanity, the entire humanity. The
very first thing is what humanity
		
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			equals what a family. This is how
it started. We as humans have
		
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			built many organizations and for
		
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			foundations bile and you know
different things. But the first
		
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			organization that was founded by
Allah subhanaw taala, was the
		
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			family. And as if it's an order
for the Earth to function, its
		
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			core that it's structured upon, is
the family societies and tribes
		
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			and nations all founded on the
concept or the aspect of having a
		
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			family. And if we look at the
bigger scope of the family or the
		
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			extended family as a lot, hon like
your uncles and your aunts and
		
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			your grandparents and so on, so
forth, it's all based on the
		
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			family how, when Allah subhanaw
taala created creation, and before
		
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			Adam was sent down to earth, okay
era him or Siliconera him right,
		
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			keeping your relationship with
your family was embodied, or a
		
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			soul solidified and it clung to
the Throne of Allah subhanaw taala
		
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			and they said, Oh, Lord, this is
what who seeks refuge refuge with
		
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			you from cutting Family
Relationship Status looks like you
		
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			know I'm clinging on to you, your
Allah I seek refuge in you that
		
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			they're going to tear me apart.
We're not going to have that
		
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			relation. You see a parent not
talking to their child because
		
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			they don't know they married who
or daughter not talking to her mom
		
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			for I don't know what reasons
Subhanallah So, or harm, it just
		
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			got embodied and equivalent to the
throne sign. Yeah, well, this is
		
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			what I look like, I'm seeking
refuge in you, they're going to
		
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			tear me apart. So last 100 Sally
replied, would you accept that I
		
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			keep in touch with those who keep
in touch with you and Ocilla
		
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			masala and to abandon who abandons
you? And while I'm on Cuttack,
		
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			subhanAllah replacing what, then
that will be free? She said, Yes,
		
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			yes, you're alive, except that. So
he said, then I will accept that,
		
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			then that's for you. And this is
before we even came down to earth
		
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			as a SubhanAllah. This Subhanallah
relationships or a him knew what
		
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			would happen, knew what the human
next would be like and how we
		
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			would be with each other
Subhanallah and how the, you know,
		
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			we have that ego in us, it's me
before anybody else, I don't care.
		
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			See, she said this about me or he
said that to me, then, you know,
		
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			no, I'm not going to speak to
them. Subhan Allah, how about in
		
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			heaven, it's still the family. We
entered heaven, but you're in one
		
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			level and your parent is in the
lower level, or you're in the
		
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			level and then your son or your
child is in a higher level. You
		
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			want to see each other, you miss
each other. Intercession of family
		
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			comes in here Subhanallah we're
Allah subhanaw taala gathers you
		
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			all in one level just because of
the family intercession Shafaq
		
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			what a surah when Allah subhanaw
taala says what will Latina M and
		
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			Winterbottom Duryea to the Iman,
Al Hakuna became the reality
		
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			meaning what, and those who
believed and whose descendants
		
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			followed them in faith, it didn't
see a lot of faith, but they just
		
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			followed they had some faith, we
will join with them their
		
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			descendants and we will not
deprive them of anything of their
		
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			deeds. And this is only for family
this intercession only comes for
		
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			family. So whilst hundreds 100
shows you here, how do your family
		
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			is, you know, Allah does this just
for the families, nobody's going
		
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			to be separated from anybody, just
for having the faith in your
		
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			heart. Subhanallah so enough
separation enough going into homes
		
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			and finding everyone in their own
room with their door shut enough
		
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			of husbands and wives, you find
them they could be in the same
		
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			room in the same bed but each one
of them is on their own isolated
		
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			island Subhanallah because of this
isolation and the separation
		
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			stops, the family problems whether
it's with your child with your
		
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			husband, it will be minimal, and
we wouldn't please Allah subhanaw
		
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			taala the day you strengthen your
family ties, you strengthen your
		
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			society you strengthen your Islam,
you strengthen your OMA you please
		
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			the Prophet Muhammad Salah Salem
you please Allah subhanaw taala
		
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			and you did something great
according to the scales in the
		
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			scales of Allah subhanaw taala.
		
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			And I want to bring your attention
you realize when we signed you
		
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			know how we signed many contracts
in life, the car, the mortgage,
		
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			the rent the I don't know what
leasing whatever so many
		
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			contracts, we go open a credit
card, we have to sign a contract,
		
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			right? So many contracts. But the
only contract that Allah subhanaw
		
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			taala calls a firm or a settlement
covenant. Right. It's a very tough
		
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			a firm, act or contract. He
doesn't even call the articles it
		
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			what meetup right meetup that the
heavens and the earth shakes for
		
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			it's such an intense are such an
important. It's such an important
		
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			topic. Okay. To the point how
serious is the nation's use this
		
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			term mythique when they have an
agreement between each other to
		
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			show the importance of what they
agreed upon. They don't just say
		
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			we have a contract we have a meter
Okay. Listen to what Allah
		
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			subhanaw taala says when he talks
about a husband and a wife. He
		
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			says what we're hunting them in
commit alcoholism, and we've taken
		
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			from you a solemn covenant. The
minute a man puts his hand and his
		
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			father in law's hands and says I
have married you my daughter upon
		
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			Allah subhanaw taala spoke and
according to His Messenger,
		
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			Muhammad sai Salam, this is a very
and the husband says I have
		
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			agreed. This is a very, very big
word. And for men, the day they go
		
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			and get married and start this
family, don't be little they
		
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			cannot be little this word Okay,
holding out your hand and saying
		
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			that you agree upon this according
to Allah subhanaw taala the minute
		
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			you hurt your husband or the
minute you hurt your wife or hurt
		
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			their feelings, then you have
betrayed Allah subhanaw taala
		
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			spoke
		
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			because this is a meetup Allah
subhanaw taala didn't just call it
		
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			a normal contract. It's something
that the conditions in it, this is
		
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			what you have to follow. Subhan
Allah, okay, so basically it's not
		
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			what you
		
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			just down to the person in front
of you, it's what you've done to
		
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			yourself you got yourself into
trouble with the loss of hundreds
		
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			Anna and we need to have this
concept and we go on Insha Allah,
		
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			we have to teach our kids this
concept as well. They have to
		
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			understand what how important
marriage is and you know when they
		
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			go to older age Inshallah, what
they're going into and what
		
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			they're promising Allah subhanaw
taala to be doing, okay. And by
		
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			the way, this word mythical, this
was only used to address three
		
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			things in the Quran, just to show
you how important it is with the
		
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			prophets. When Allah subhanaw
taala tells the prophets in the
		
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			Quran and we took from you like
what, like we took your word or a
		
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			compliment that had inimical
without kind of a reason. And when
		
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			he addresses in another point, he
addresses Bani Israel and he tells
		
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			them you're responsible for the
formation of Earth and we're
		
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			taking upon you the same What's
your word again, meet our
		
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			colleagues. And the third time is
on the day of marriage mica
		
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			collies Subhanallah, cc with the
prophets with Bani Israel, and
		
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			when you get married, okay, now,
after hearing all of this, can you
		
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			find yourself hurting your husband
again, or belittling him, or
		
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			making fun of him specially if
it's in front of your children?
		
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			SubhanAllah. Because if you do
that in front of your husband, or
		
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			in front of your wife, in other,
you know, other situations, you're
		
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			teaching the kids that, you know
what, no big deal to make fun of
		
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			him. Family is nothing. So how are
they going to respect you again?
		
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			How are we going to respect your
father, the father, again, you
		
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			know, whatever differences you
have, keep it on the site, not in
		
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			front of the children, because
they watch and they Subhanallah
		
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			they have like recording devices,
nothing goes away, they remember
		
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			very well. And I'm sure if you
were you know, growing up in a
		
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			house, and I'm sure you have a
memory of one day your parents
		
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			were arguing and certain things
just don't go away, you know, you
		
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			have that, you know, memory of one
fight they had or whatever, these
		
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			things don't go away. So we have
to be very careful what we do in
		
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			front of our children. Shala Okay,
so this is all beautiful talk yet,
		
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			right? But there are theoretical,
it's just theories, nothing
		
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			practical. And my question is,
wouldn't it have been enough that
		
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			Allah subhanaw taala, you know,
just told us these things for us
		
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			to be convinced this is a mythical
is and this is what you have to do
		
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			and family is important. And then
we would have just obeyed, right?
		
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			That's the way it is the Sahaba
when Allah subhanaw taala told
		
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			them something right away, they
would do it. They didn't have to
		
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			say anything practical, but then
it wasn't enough for us. It's not
		
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			always enough. Allah subhanaw
taala had to give us something
		
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			practical things that would remind
us of our family. And as we're
		
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			doing them or applying them, we
will get rewarded for doing them
		
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			as well. So he's remembered making
us reminders or sorry, reminding
		
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			us with these with something
that's practical. And it's
		
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			something that we have to do and
I'm going to come to to it in a
		
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			minute. And at the same time,
we're not just remembering but
		
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			he's also rewarding for it for us
immensely. And what is this
		
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			something? It's a kind of worship,
okay, one of the most life types
		
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			of love types of worship for Allah
subhanaw taala. That reminds us of
		
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			family. Any idea what it is?
		
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			No, I know, I was like thinking
what is it? Okay, Hush. Hush.
		
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			Let's break it down. Okay, now,
		
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			it's all about if you look about
Hush, it's all about family
		
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			relationships. How? Let's look at
this. Allah subhanaw taala
		
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			commanded us to do something
practical, which is harsh. And
		
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			every step and heist reminds us or
reminds you of your family have a
		
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			look at the first thing someone
model. Alright, what is it? Wasn't
		
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			it a mother's eagerness and
worrisome over her son, the mother
		
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			of a smile that was running back
and forth back and forth looking
		
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			for water to quench her baby's
thirst so that he doesn't die in
		
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			this desert with no people
whatsoever around. So she had to
		
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			be running, you know, keep running
between the two mountains suffer
		
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			model seven times each time, half
a kilometer, right? What is this
		
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			effort exerted. And when she would
come to a certain part where she
		
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			could hear her baby's cries, she
would start running okay? And
		
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			that's what we do today. When we
go to that, you know, fight if
		
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			you've been to San Manuel, there's
that green lighted area when you
		
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			come to it, you have to start
running because that's where it's
		
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			mine was near. So she could hear
her baby's crying. But when she
		
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			moved further away, she wouldn't
be be hearing him so she'll be
		
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			walking. But every time she heard
her baby's cry, she would start
		
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			running again. And there's if
Allah subhanaw taala is telling
		
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			you when you go to do hush or
hombre and you start suffering
		
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			Madhwa remember your mom, remember
your mother? Imagine a mother's
		
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			emotions embodied into a form of
worship Subhanallah he's reminding
		
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			you of your mother. I wonder how
are you with your mother? If you
		
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			think yourself or you like being
doing better with your mother
		
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			making sure she's okay if she's
around she's not around whether
		
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			she's alive or not, you know
making job for her asked me about
		
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			her making sure her needs are even
if you're far away with a phone
		
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			call or sending him maybe a gift
over you know, once in a while
		
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			something surprising her dinner
with the parents if she passed
		
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			away, then you're you know,
visiting her grave, you know,
		
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			keeping in touch with her friends
making Solokha for her. They're
		
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			remembering your mother. Okay. And
if you were a father, you know,
		
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			who's listening to this and ruin
Safa. And Marwa, how could you
		
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			deprive a mother from her son or
deprive a son from their moms?
		
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			Subhanallah you know, did you even
perform harsh because if you did
		
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			suffer more when you didn't have
that concept Subhanallah in your
		
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			head then did you really perform
your hash? Did you understand what
		
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			you were doing and why you were
doing it? Subhan Allah alright.
		
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			And you understand now why we
imitate
		
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			harsher, hallelujah. You know,
that's Alana and will continue
		
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			till the Day of Judgment because
there is something called a family
		
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			that is very, very valuable to
Allah subhanho wa taala. Right.
		
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			And if you're a mother who
assigned to her kids to the
		
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			babysitter, where are you from
harsh feelings? How do you think?
		
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			How do you feel about this? You
know, this lady was running in a
		
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			desert. And we just like, oh,
yeah, babysitter, okay,
		
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			babysitter, babysitter, there's
babysitter that, you know, who
		
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			where are we? Who are we living
leaving the kids with? You know,
		
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			what are these babysitters selling
our kids? Are they on the same
		
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			page as we are? Are they teaching
them what we would like to teach
		
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			our kids you know, are we
entrusting them upon somebody who
		
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			we know, you know, is worthy of
giving them what we would like to
		
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			give them okay? Or and if you're
on the other side, a child that
		
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			ignores their mother or
disrespects them How can you go
		
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			into hydro hombre after that when
you grow older when you're acting
		
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			that way? Subhan Allah, will you
even have the ability to do so
		
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			thank you so much between Safar
Manuel and feel and comprehend
		
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			what you're doing, how does it
work? It's upon Allah.
		
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			Unfortunately, we've come as
Muslims we start doing things just
		
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			out of routine. We don't even
think we pray here. Let's just
		
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			pray. Okay, so let's download it.
Let's fast fasting is done. We
		
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			don't sit and contemplate we have
to think what we're doing and why
		
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			we're doing it and why Allah
subhanaw taala asking us to do
		
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			these things. There must be
something behind it. It's not just
		
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			do so I can do some things are
just out of obedience to test this
		
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			to see if we're going to listen,
even if we're not convinced, but a
		
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			lot of the things you have the
chance to contemplate and think
		
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			why is Allah subhanaw taala asking
you to do that. Okay, now let's
		
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			look at another part of the Hajj.
This is just the first part you
		
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			have zamzam the next one, right.
What is them zum zum zum is the
		
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			prayer for father that was
answered. Ibrahim alayhi salam, he
		
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			left his wife and his son in the
desert, and he scared but Allah
		
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			subhanaw taala ordered him to go
back where to Palestine, okay. And
		
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			here and he's obeying Allah
subhanaw taala. So as he is
		
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			writing, you know, on his horse or
his camera leaving back, his heart
		
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			is burning inside. He's leaving
his wife and his baby in a desert.
		
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			There's nobody there. So he raises
his hand up and he prays, but the
		
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			Indians can tune into the Yeti b
word and hi disease era and the
		
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			vertical haram Rabanal up masala,
the fragile determiner Nesta who
		
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			lay him, what is it? caminata
Marathi la la mia Quran, oh Lord,
		
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			I have settled some of my
descendants in an uncultivated
		
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			Valley, near your sacred house,
our Lord that they may establish
		
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			prayer. So make hearts among the
people inclined toward them and
		
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			provide for them from the fruits
that they may be grateful. And the
		
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			gates of Heavens are opened Subhan
Allah to fulfill a father's diet
		
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			or request, and Gibreel
Alehissalaam descends himself from
		
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			heaven, and strikes with his wings
at the foot of Abraham's infant is
		
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			my Alehissalaam and zooms and
flows out and drink and drink and
		
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			drink till the day of judgments of
how long do I have the Father, we
		
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			always think about, you know, oh,
the mother's diet is always
		
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			accepted. Tell your moms to make
that for you. And when you think
		
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			about it, the father's dies also
except to tell your father to go
		
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			and make that for you. Go and call
your father today. Tell him I need
		
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			your dad make dot for me meet up
for my family, right. Everyone who
		
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			takes a sip from zamzam must know
it's due to a father's prayer.
		
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			Understand your religion, right
family, family, family Family is
		
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			very important guys. Another one
part of again, off hash, okay. And
		
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			remember, when I said it was a
worship again, it's not just the
		
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			worship, it's one of our five
pillars of Islam. This is
		
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			something that you know, if you
have the money, you have to go do
		
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			it. You can't just say oh, I don't
feel like doing I'm gonna go to
		
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			vacation to France or a Disney
cruise. Once you have the money,
		
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			you have to go do it. It's just
like, you know, praying fasting is
		
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			a cat, whatever it is. So it's one
of the five pillars. And the whole
		
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			idea of it is these are founded on
family Subhanallah if you think
		
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			about it, just to show you how
important family is okay, now, the
		
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			sacrificing or the Otay have died.
It's a very simple story of a
		
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			father and his son did have an
unbelievable level of
		
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			understanding between one another
a father telling his son, Oh, son,
		
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			I see myself story in you in the
dream. What do you think?
		
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			Well, the from the mother Tara,
now who treats their children like
		
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			that? Right? We feel like we have
the authority. Okay, you're going
		
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			to the school, you're going to go
to the school, you're going to eat
		
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			this, you're going to eat this.
This is what I pick for you to
		
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			work, this is what you're going to
wear. No but Satan Ebrahim is
		
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			talking to I'm gonna, I'm being
ordered to story. What do you
		
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			think? He's taking his opinion? Do
you see the importance here? You
		
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			have to understand that the
Prophet Muhammad Hassan, even when
		
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			he was dealing with kids, he never
ever just said, Okay, this is how
		
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			it's done. This is what you have
to do? No, what do you think, take
		
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			their opinion, even if their
opinion doesn't matter to you? You
		
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			know, tell him do you think should
we go here first, if we go hit
		
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			there first. Just ask them always
encourage their kid, the kids to
		
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			use the muscle called the brain
and to think for themselves. Don't
		
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			just always, you know, imply
things. This is what you have to
		
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			do. This is how you have to do it.
Let them do it their own way. It
		
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			can't be just our way or the
highway because that's what we all
		
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			tend to do. We want things to be
done perfect. It has to be done
		
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			this way or it's no way. Let the
kids express themselves the way
		
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			they need to as long as they're
not doing anything wrong and
		
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			they're still learning. It's a
process. You know what I'm saying?
		
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			You have to give them that space
and that confidence as well.
		
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			Because when you tell them what do
you think you're giving the child
		
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			the confidence? Even if it doesn't
matter to you what they think, you
		
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			know, should I wear pink or purple
today wear pink mummy, okay, I'll
		
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			wear pink, no big deal. Choose two
things that you want to wear
		
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			though. So don't end up wearing
something that you don't want to
		
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			wear, you know, but I'm just
saying always give them that
		
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			confidence and their choice to
choose Make them feel that they
		
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			can choose not always, this is
what you have to do. And that's
		
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			it. Okay, now, look at this, if
this male had said, I'm sorry, you
		
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			can do that. This is what I don't
want you to kill me, you know, and
		
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			this is God or Allah subhanaw
taala is command to bring him out
		
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			of his cellar. You know, the brain
could have suddenly come from
		
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			behind the smile, and just did
what he did, right? He's just
		
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			following an order from Allah
subhanaw taala. But no, because
		
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			he's not used to treating his son
like that. We are friends. I take
		
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			his opinion. That's the way Satan
everyman Islam was with a smile.
		
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			Now, if we look again, for look at
the small freeze funds, or mother
		
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			Tara, what do you think books
could be written about it from the
		
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			impact of it on a child, giving
confidence? Making them that know
		
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			that they have a choice, making
them build their own character?
		
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			And think and maybe discuss maybe
they chose something that wasn't
		
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			right, let them do it is as long
as it's not haram. It's not
		
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			something you know, just let them
do it. Try it out. And then after
		
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			that, do you think that was a good
choice? I think it would have been
		
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			better if we did that. But they
could strive for themselves. Don't
		
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			just always tell them what to do.
Don't dictate them what to do.
		
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			They'll never build their own
character. And then we'll never
		
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			have, you know, great figures like
you've seen, you know, I leave
		
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			maybe Taalib or all these people
like we're going to talk about
		
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			them in sha Allah. We see how they
were and how the Prophet Muhammad
		
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			wa salam entrusted them upon
certain things as little
		
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			children's seven and five years
old. We're not talking about older
		
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			kids, if you look at our lives,
and we told him he was what he was
		
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			maybe 10 years old, when the when
the why he came to the Prophet
		
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			Muhammad sai Salam and you walked
in on the Prophet Muhammad, wa
		
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			salam and Khadija and they were
praying. So he started watching.
		
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			It's like what is happening? And
when Satan in Muhammad finished,
		
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			he told him, you know, follow me.
You know, this is Islam, and I'm
		
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			the prophet or the Messenger of
Allah. And then he said, and you
		
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			cannot tell anybody. He said, No,
let me think about this. This is a
		
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			10 year old speaking, this is how
they will rate he let me think
		
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			about this matter. He said, but
okay. He said, I'm not going to
		
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			tell anybody, I promise, like, I'm
not going to tell anybody. And
		
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			Hollywood every time sits up the
practice, he stays up all night,
		
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			thinking, you know, thinking to
himself, this little child
		
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			SubhanAllah. And then in the
morning, he goes back to the
		
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			Prophet Muhammad, I send him and
he says, repeat to me what you
		
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			said last night again. You know,
so the Prophet told him, You know,
		
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			I'm the Messenger of Allah Spano.
Tata and Islam is the religion and
		
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			and, and so he said, Okay, and I
bear witness that you are the
		
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			Messenger of Allah subhanaw taala.
And I will keep your secret, a 10
		
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			year old.
		
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			You give the child the confidence
when you give them the choice.
		
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			When you make them feel that you
can trust them upon something, you
		
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			make them become more calm, you
build their character, you make
		
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			them feel responsible, and then
they really become responsible.
		
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			Because later on, you'll see how I
live in every time I send them a
		
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			house I send them assigned him as
a 16 year old teenager. He was the
		
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			one who was in the Mohamed was
like under attack from Croatia was
		
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			hiding in the outcome. And
basically what was happening, he
		
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			assigned people were becoming from
other places looking for the
		
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			Prophet. I didn't know because he
was assigned to sit by the Canada
		
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			and sit and study the people and
see who really was looking for the
		
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			Prophet Muhammad and wanting to
learn about Islam. 16 year old
		
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			little kid, can you imagine? And
you would sit and watch the people
		
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			and you want to just go delete
anybody to the Prophet Muhammad, I
		
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			send them No, you wouldn't do
that. You would sit and wait on
		
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			them. And you would actually
invite them over to their house to
		
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			his house. Until you know, okay,
what are you here for sit, eat
		
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			sleep and you watch him go and he
finds a man. And he tells him to
		
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			connect the Comm. He wouldn't tell
him anything. Until the third
		
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			time. I remember one of the Sahaba
can remember his name right now.
		
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			He asked him Why are you here? He
said, You know, I'm looking for
		
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			the Prophet, you know, and he
said, but what are you looking for
		
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			him? So he wasn't just like naive,
you know? Oh, you're looking for a
		
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			doctor. Okay, come let me take
him, you know, take you to him.
		
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			Know, these. These kids were
taught how to use their brains and
		
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			their mentalities. They were given
the responsibility and therefore
		
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			they became responsible
SubhanAllah. Okay. Now, if you
		
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			look here, do we go back again to
the story of Ibrahim Ismail, and
		
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			you look at the response of the
obedient son. And this is because
		
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			he was raised like this, again, he
was raised that I'm going to ask
		
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			you, I'm not going to just force
you. And we'll discuss, you know,
		
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			maybe I will, maybe you'll
convince me maybe I'll convince
		
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			you, right? And he says, What, oh,
Father, do as you're ordered, and
		
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			inshallah you'll find me from the
patients, okay? This is how our
		
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			home should be like control, I
pray that we can have these kinds
		
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			of relationships between parents
and their kids. He takes his son
		
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			of his son's, you know, opinion,
and he's obedient to His Father.
		
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			And the result was that was a
sacrifice every year to the day of
		
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			judgment. And remember the value
okay? Or the valuable relationship
		
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			between a father and his son
SubhanAllah? No. And in another
		
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			sense, now we kind of understand
when we do the shahada, we why we
		
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			say Allahumma Salli ala Muhammad
Ali Muhammad camera so later Allah
		
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			Ibrahim, Allah, Allah, you know,
have your peace and blessings on
		
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			Abraham and the family.
		
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			of Ibrahim, okay, because the fact
this family is a great family and
		
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			the Prophet Muhammad says Helens
family is a great family, okay? A
		
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			family that while you're praying
you're trying to remember the
		
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			concept of family every single
time you're doing with the
		
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			shareholders, you're making solid
on this family, because they
		
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			taught us a lot Subhanallah Okay,
now look at the Prophet and their
		
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			families look at one of the
prophets mentioned and tell me how
		
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			many of them do you know that were
mentioned without mentioning
		
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			something about their family?
		
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			Every single prophet, there's no
prophet just like by himself like
		
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			that. There's either a mother or
father or sister or husband or
		
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			something to go quickly through,
you'll find one out of five things
		
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			either piece of $100 tells you
about profits in the form of
		
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			founders, you have Adam and
Howard, Ibrahim and Sarah or the
		
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			human Hydra later on, Musa and his
marriage story from you know, the
		
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			old man who had two daughters.
Then you see stories of fathers
		
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			and their children like the wooden
Sulayman or Ibrahim Ismail
		
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			siblings, Musa and Harun relatives
ASA and his his cousin Yahia. Then
		
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			you find stories of mothers and
their caring hearts for their
		
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			children like Musa and his mother
are marrying the daughter feminine
		
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			and her Isola history, and stories
of fathers and their son how they
		
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			get along so well, like they
wouldn't say men, then you see the
		
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			opposite. When a son does not know
how to deal with his father, like
		
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			in the story of Ibrahim Al Azhar,
or the caring father and his
		
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			disobedient son in the story of
Noah hunt, his son, or the
		
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			siblings that betrayed their own
brother in the story of Youssef
		
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			are the sisters that love their
brother in the story of Musa
		
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			alayhis salam and his sister who
saved him from the householder
		
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			frown. Bottom line, every kit kind
of scenario you want to find for a
		
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			family, you have reference to it
in the graph.
		
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			If you really think about it, it's
all about family relationships.
		
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			Father, mother, mother, father,
sister, brother, even daughter, so
		
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			it's all about family. This is how
important if you think about this
		
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			is the book that you know, this is
the seal of all books. And the
		
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			majority of the things is going to
be talking about is about what
		
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			family you know, subhanAllah if
you ever think about it, every
		
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			single story of the Prophet has to
have somebody with their family
		
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			member. It's not because by their
own or just them with their with
		
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			their tribe. Yeah, some of them
with your tribe, but still, the
		
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			family members involved in it.
Subhanallah okay. For example, if
		
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			you look at the relation between
siblings, how's it these days? You
		
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			know, everyone is there an old you
know, they're all worlds you're
		
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			here, she's there, you know, we
don't ask about except each other,
		
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			except tonight. Oh, I can work it.
Okay. And if the you know, phone
		
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			call goes a little bit longer, you
don't even find anything to talk
		
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			about Subhan Allah, you know,
		
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			you know, which sister these days
says, you know, I'm gonna stand by
		
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			my brother and support him. Very
few. But when you look at Musa
		
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			alayhis salam, you know, and when
his mother had to place his
		
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			sister, right, sorry, when his
mother had to place him in the
		
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			basket and throw him into the Nile
right as she was ordered, or Allah
		
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			subhanaw taala how highly he you
know, gave her the right and what
		
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			his sister followed him till he
landed in France castle. And she
		
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			was the one who brought him back
to his mother by recommending her
		
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			as a wet nurse that Grant says,
And when the mother of Musa said
		
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			to her daughter, follow him walk
on the clock to see for the search
		
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			for Vasa and Jim wahome lair,
Sharon, and she saw him and to the
		
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			waters around and she entered
following her brother risking her
		
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			own life. Because, you know,
imagine trout, he's not a very
		
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			friendly guy who was killing every
single baby boy that was born. So
		
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			she's risking her own life, this
little girl. So she watched him
		
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			aside and no one could see her.
Then Allah subhanaw taala says,
		
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			and we made all the wet nurses
forbidden, right? We prevented
		
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			from him all nurses before she
said, Shall I direct you to a
		
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			household that will be responsible
for him for you while you are
		
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			there, you know and be up, you
know, make it sincere to him.
		
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			Okay, so basically the last panel
Johanna, you know, honors the
		
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			sister of Musa by mentioning her
you know, she's like, you know,
		
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			she like she steps out and he says
his story to show her importance
		
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			is Subhanallah and then what
happens Allah subhanaw taala makes
		
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			the screw of the cause of what
having Musa returned safely again
		
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			what to her and she's the one who
raises her own son as a witness,
		
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			but he's actually what her son
Subhanallah right. And another
		
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			story again you look at the two
brothers and Allah subhanaw taala
		
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			is ordering Musa to go to frown.
So Musa says, My Lord, expand my
		
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			chest for me with assurance and
ease for me my task and untie the
		
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			knot from my tongue because you
know, saying the Musa listen used
		
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			to stutter except when he was
preaching Subhan Allah. And I
		
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			never understood that until the
other day, somebody was sharing
		
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			this video clip of a boy, he can
only sing but when he talks he
		
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			stutters Subhanallah like he
doesn't know how he can talk. He
		
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			has some some disease or
something. But when he sings, he
		
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			sings perfectly so Paula, you
reminded me like I never
		
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			understood how could Satan was
like, when he spoke to his own he
		
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			could speak you know, but in
general he had he was stuttering.
		
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			So that's why he says what was the
lock determine lasagna for Korean
		
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			and tie the knot from my tongue,
that they may understand my speech
		
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			and a point for me a minister from
my family, Aaron or Harun my
		
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			brother, increase through him my
strength and let him share my task
		
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			that we may exalt you much And
remember You much. He didn't say
		
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			Give me a good friend that I, you
know can be my support and we're
		
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			buddies because usually it's your
best friend. It's not your best
		
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			sister, you know, with handleless
some of us have sisters or your
		
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			best friends, but it's usually
your best friend. Okay? And you're
		
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			going to tell me but you know,
these stories are not very
		
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			realistic, right? You know, these
are prophets and this was how they
		
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			were I'll respond to you look at
their same story again, when Satan
		
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			and Musa argues with Haroon
unwholesome by his beard when he
		
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			left the people of Israel was with
him. And they started worshiping
		
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			the cough. And, and they asked him
How could you you know, let this
		
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			happen? He says Carla, no letter
could be the Haiti oh son of my
		
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			mother. Do you see when Haroon
responds to save the movies a year
		
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			if not, the first thing he doesn't
say Musa is old son of my mother.
		
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			That's the first thing he says is
what we are, you know, type either
		
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			or mother, okay? Do not see me by
my beard or by my head. Indeed, I
		
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			fear that you would say you cause
division among what the children
		
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			of Israel and you did not observe.
Right? So instantly Musa said what
		
00:31:00 --> 00:31:03
			when he heard it, I'm like, You're
the son of my mother. He said what
		
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			my Lord forgive me and my brother
Bill fairly well, yeah. So this
		
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			they were they were brothers
didn't have good relationships
		
00:31:10 --> 00:31:12
			with but they also had fun
together, you know. So there's
		
00:31:12 --> 00:31:14
			everything. You know, it's not
just something that's not
		
00:31:14 --> 00:31:18
			realistic, it's real life Subhan
Allah. And again, in another story
		
00:31:18 --> 00:31:21
			that shows things that happen in
our daily lives, not the perfect
		
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			siblings picture. Okay, the story
of Yusuf Ali Salaam and what and
		
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			his siblings and how the shaitan
enlarge something in their minds.
		
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			And that is what your father loves
your brother more than you. And
		
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			this is a very big thing here.
It's a very clear message from
		
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			Allah subhanaw taala. To every
parent, do not treat your kids
		
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			differently. Even if you know, you
know, the prime minister says
		
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			always says what you know, your
children, the dearest one of you
		
00:31:46 --> 00:31:50
			them to in your heart is dealing
the youngest until they get older
		
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			or the one that is sick, until
sizer gets until they heal, or the
		
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			one that's away until they return.
You know, don't make that an
		
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			excuse. Yet, of course, it's
understood that these are things
		
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			you're allowed to feel like if
your son is sick, obviously,
		
00:32:01 --> 00:32:03
			you're not going to be tending to
the ones that are healthy, you're
		
00:32:03 --> 00:32:05
			going to be like so worried or one
that is sick, or the one that's
		
00:32:05 --> 00:32:07
			farther away from you, your
heart's always going to be with
		
00:32:07 --> 00:32:10
			the more than the one that's here,
or the one that the youngest, he
		
00:32:10 --> 00:32:12
			still doesn't know how to eat. He
doesn't know how to do this. But
		
00:32:12 --> 00:32:15
			still, you always have to work you
always have to you can never favor
		
00:32:15 --> 00:32:19
			one over the other. Even if it's
putting up a photo in the house
		
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			for one of them more than the
other or hugging one more than the
		
00:32:22 --> 00:32:25
			other or kissing one more than the
other. You have no idea what it
		
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			does in the hearts of children.
Okay. The Qur'an here shows you in
		
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			every aspect of his how it's
important even in dealing with
		
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			kids, the tiniest things, okay,
because it ended up and doing what
		
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			Subhanallah they threw their
brother were in a well, right. And
		
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			then he was sold as a slave. And
then he was taken Subhanallah to
		
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			the house of the disease. And then
after that Allah Spano, Tala
		
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			again, you know, he has that, you
know, understanding and he says
		
00:32:48 --> 00:32:51
			what he says what the shaytaan he
didn't say, No, my brothers did
		
00:32:51 --> 00:32:55
			this to me. No, you know, they
said the shaytaan entered between
		
00:32:55 --> 00:32:57
			me and my brothers. This you tell
him was the cause of this, it
		
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			wasn't them it wasn't there
enough. Subhanallah that's how
		
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			Satan needs to proceed to be very
careful with the kids. We think
		
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			they don't realize to kiss one
make sure you kiss the other one.
		
00:33:05 --> 00:33:07
			If you hug one hug the other one
we bought something for this one
		
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			ring for the other one, even if
she doesn't need it, because they
		
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			compare Subhanallah they won't
tell you and it will come out in
		
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			another reaction you'll find her
acting up or having a tantrum or
		
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			whatever it is, or you know, like
getting back at you in some other
		
00:33:21 --> 00:33:25
			way by being you know, distant or
cold with you. The kids really
		
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			does affect upon a life seen it
and you know, most people are the
		
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			biggest prophets, the prophets,
you know the story of Sydney's
		
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			Holly Salem and the families
embodied in the story.
		
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			Going to try to wrap up and chop
off.
		
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			So basically, if we look at the
family, it's embodied in the story
		
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			of our Prophet Muhammad Salah and
you'll see him as the grandson who
		
00:34:41 --> 00:34:43
			sits initially wearing the shades
of the Kaaba and the care and love
		
00:34:43 --> 00:34:46
			of his grandfather. After
mortality. You'll see Him as the
		
00:34:46 --> 00:34:51
			Son who stands over his mother's
grave after 50 years 50 years and
		
00:34:51 --> 00:34:54
			he weeps and says I took my Lord's
permission to visit what my
		
00:34:54 --> 00:34:58
			mother's grave grave and he weeps
and the Sahaba all around him
		
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			weep, right? You'll see him as
		
00:35:00 --> 00:35:03
			The loving father with Fatima. And
the day he was dying, he couldn't
		
00:35:03 --> 00:35:07
			get up to kiss her on her forehead
as he was used to doing every
		
00:35:07 --> 00:35:11
			single time that he saw her. Which
parents do this nowadays? Do you
		
00:35:11 --> 00:35:14
			kiss your children? No, go home
and kiss your children today
		
00:35:14 --> 00:35:16
			please and hug them. And if they
like me or tell them come back and
		
00:35:16 --> 00:35:22
			talk to me, I'll deal with them.
Okay, so Subhan Allah, He knew he
		
00:35:22 --> 00:35:25
			was going to die. He never saw her
unless he can serve. And he never
		
00:35:25 --> 00:35:29
			left Medina to go anywhere. Unless
the last house that he stopped by
		
00:35:29 --> 00:35:32
			was the house of Fatima, his
daughter, not the house of his
		
00:35:32 --> 00:35:35
			wife. No, his daughter was the
last house he'd always stopped by.
		
00:35:35 --> 00:35:38
			And when he came back, the first
house he would stop by would be
		
00:35:38 --> 00:35:42
			his daughter, not his wife, Subhan
Allah. You'll see him as the
		
00:35:42 --> 00:35:45
			father in law, who does the burial
for his daughter's mother in law,
		
00:35:46 --> 00:35:48
			right the mother of four of our
living avatar live and he covers
		
00:35:48 --> 00:35:52
			her with his own idea in respect
of his daughter and her husband
		
00:35:52 --> 00:35:56
			and even a Vitaly. You'll see him
when he says I entered heaven in
		
00:35:56 --> 00:36:00
			the trip of Israel and Mirage, and
I heard a hustle going upon, you
		
00:36:00 --> 00:36:03
			know, going on and the servants
going and coming and castles. So I
		
00:36:03 --> 00:36:07
			said, For whom is all of this?
They replied for heritage, Abner
		
00:36:07 --> 00:36:12
			Norman, for he took care of his
mother can abhorrent to Me. So I
		
00:36:12 --> 00:36:15
			said, this is better. This is
delicate, but this is what you
		
00:36:15 --> 00:36:18
			know, this is what taking care of
your family is or your parents
		
00:36:18 --> 00:36:21
			okay? You'll see him when he and
Prophet Muhammad Salim says I
		
00:36:21 --> 00:36:25
			entered Jana and I saw Musa lay
him and I said to her, you beat me
		
00:36:25 --> 00:36:29
			to Jana. So it was said to me, she
used to please her husband and
		
00:36:29 --> 00:36:33
			support him. See, it's all about
family relationships a lot. Family
		
00:36:33 --> 00:36:36
			is very, very, very valuable.
Which of us is now ready after
		
00:36:36 --> 00:36:40
			hearing how important family is to
Allah subhanaw taala. And you see
		
00:36:40 --> 00:36:44
			from how dear it is to him. He
rewards those who maintain these
		
00:36:44 --> 00:36:47
			relationships in a way that no
other kind of worship will give
		
00:36:47 --> 00:36:51
			you a reward. Listen, for example,
he subhanaw taala says Allah
		
00:36:51 --> 00:36:55
			subhanho wa Taala has a mercy on a
man who woke up from his sleep in
		
00:36:55 --> 00:36:58
			the middle of the night and woke
up his wife and they pray to
		
00:36:58 --> 00:37:02
			rockers. And you could wake up on
your own. Right. You could pray on
		
00:37:02 --> 00:37:06
			your own and you can pray all
night. tahajud right. You could
		
00:37:06 --> 00:37:11
			pray all night, but no, to rock us
with your wife. Okay, so what's
		
00:37:11 --> 00:37:15
			the reward? Then they are written
amongst those who mentioned their
		
00:37:15 --> 00:37:19
			Lord continuously meaning their
kids when you wake up in Kouvola
		
00:37:19 --> 00:37:21
			had I'm not telling you to recite
total Bacara Okay, get up, pray
		
00:37:21 --> 00:37:24
			with cola hug, go back to sleep
again. You are written amongst the
		
00:37:24 --> 00:37:27
			deck colors you register your
written and when Allah Spano Tala
		
00:37:27 --> 00:37:30
			writes you so you won't take it
back again from you. He writes you
		
00:37:30 --> 00:37:32
			amongst those who remember Allah
subhanaw taala continues to which
		
00:37:32 --> 00:37:36
			is a very high rank Subhanallah
the highest ranks of Vic, okay, so
		
00:37:36 --> 00:37:39
			basically, I'm telling you, when
you love your wife, or you love
		
00:37:39 --> 00:37:42
			your husband, your levels are
higher in heaven. Of course,
		
00:37:42 --> 00:37:45
			especially at retirement, we hear
about betrayal. And we hear about
		
00:37:45 --> 00:37:48
			all these, you know, different
kinds of, you know, weird things
		
00:37:48 --> 00:37:51
			going around to Subhan Allah, the
Prophet Muhammad Salim says, an
		
00:37:51 --> 00:37:55
			act of worship in a time of
pandemonium or fooling around. And
		
00:37:55 --> 00:37:58
			disobedience is like making
history to me, the one who
		
00:37:58 --> 00:38:01
			worships Me, in other words, the
one who worships Me, when all
		
00:38:01 --> 00:38:05
			those around are fooling around
and losing themselves is as if
		
00:38:05 --> 00:38:08
			you've made his euro to me from
Mecca to Medina, can you imagine?
		
00:38:09 --> 00:38:11
			Like, sometimes you're in a place
and suddenly find things going on?
		
00:38:11 --> 00:38:13
			Do they remember and always
remember, you know, it's the
		
00:38:13 --> 00:38:16
			reward for it. It's just what
like, going for him or for the
		
00:38:16 --> 00:38:18
			Prophet Muhammad says, Salah, you
know, sometimes you find yourself
		
00:38:18 --> 00:38:20
			caught up in a place like, Oh, my
God, what's going on? You know,
		
00:38:21 --> 00:38:24
			and so apologies do take right
away. And I know, you could ask
		
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			me, but why is family so valuable?
And so important to this extent?
		
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			Why are we trying to stress so
hard on this meaning? You see,
		
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			there's a very big idea behind
this. Why did Allah subhanaw taala
		
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			create Earth? Right? You'll tell
me so we can reform it. So what's
		
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			expected of us, you know, descend
on earth reform it it sounds
		
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			simple, right? It's not a big
deal.
		
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			But no, it isn't. The heavens and
the earth and the mountains refuse
		
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			to take this what this task, a
summary will argue, well, Japan,
		
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			what a shock nemenhah They said,
No, we don't want to take it. But
		
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			who accepted this task? Mankind?
What can that incentive would like
		
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			it was out of his ignorance,
right? When Allah subhanaw taala
		
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			offered it to them, they refuse to
carry this burden. reformation is
		
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			a very difficult task with shaitan
and Iblees. playing along and all
		
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			the heart diseases and the
temptation, it's not easy. It's
		
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			not an easy task. It's a difficult
task. But along with this
		
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			difficulty, Allah subhanaw taala
sends a mercy. You know, when
		
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			someone jumps just like your son
was saying, he jumps out of the
		
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			crib. So in order to make you
know, the hits a little bit
		
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			softer, when he falls, you put
what a mattress you put a pillow
		
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			to do, what to absorb the you
know, to absorb the heat when he
		
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			lands. And the same thing with
humans, they need compassion. You
		
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			can be on a mission of performing
earth when there is no quote,
		
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			compassion. So Allah subhanaw
taala a lot created along with
		
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			this difficult task, a mercy that
produces compassion and affection
		
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			automatically called the family
because the minute you know your
		
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			child is born, unless you already
have the love. You don't have to
		
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			go make yourself love your
daughter or your son, right. And
		
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			he created this within a structure
the structure within a group of
		
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			affections just as I was going to
say
		
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			affection between a man and a
woman. And it's a very special and
		
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			warm relation that he placed in
the form of marriage. So they were
		
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			brought together through Allah
subhanaw taala Allah's law for
		
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			life journey in reforming
together, right? And then another
		
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			form. You guys want to pray or
should we finish? Finish?
		
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			Okay?
		
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			No, I'm good. I'll finish them.
Alright. Okay, so basically, they
		
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			were brought together and then any
other form for this affection ends
		
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			up Subhanallah being messy and
nasty in some way. Okay? And look
		
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			at those who have betrayed us
around right? Now. Then they have
		
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			kids. So another affection is
created motherhood is Palma
		
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			something Allah subhanaw taala
plans in your heart, whether you
		
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			like it or not, you love your
kids, right? Then the affection of
		
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			fatherhood, then another affection
is created. And that's when the
		
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			child starts comprehending, and
they love what their mother and
		
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			their father. So there are four
types of affection, right? A man
		
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			and a wife loving each other, a
mother loving her kids, a father
		
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			loving his kids, and the kids
loving their parents. And from
		
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			these four basic affections, all
other kinds of affection,
		
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			subhanAllah branch outs, but these
are the four main ones, Mother
		
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			Father together to each other, and
then or husband, your spouse, and
		
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			then you have the mother to your
children, Father, to the children
		
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			and the kids to their parents.
That's the base. That's, that's
		
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			how, you know, everything is built
up on this panel, okay. So this is
		
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			where it comes, the idea of the
family being valuable, because
		
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			this mission cannot be
accomplished without a family, you
		
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			can't reform, you can't do a
salon. And without having this.
		
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			And establishing and it's not
something easy, but Subhanallah
		
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			with the one three child comes and
kisses you or give you a hug, or
		
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			they smile in your face, or they
come in you know, when they give
		
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			you give you a flower or something
it makes all you know all the pain
		
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			go away Subhanallah you know, it
makes a difference. It takes away
		
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			from our you know how tired we
are, you know. And here in the in
		
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			the in the West, if you look about
it, family is not as valuable.
		
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			Unfortunately, we can do without
family. That was the concept. But
		
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			why? Because when the industrial
revolution happened, and they
		
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			started development, they started
developing in many ways. They
		
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			found that sciences developed by
renewing, we take out what's old,
		
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			and we developed and we get what's
new, right? So they tried to apply
		
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			what worked in science on social
development, family relationships,
		
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			and so on. So it was concluded
what is not a must to have a
		
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			mother and a father, to men can
work. Two women can work. No
		
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			parents at all could work. 21 or
18. Okay, you can leave your
		
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			house, you don't need them. Right.
And this was done in a way where
		
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			there was no scientific researcher
comparing the old with the new
		
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			usually, if you're going to
develop something, you compare the
		
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			old with the new, okay, which way
was better? Let's see which way in
		
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			science you don't need to compare,
because the results of development
		
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			are very clear why from rotary
phones, you have cell phones from
		
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			no internet, then you have
internet from, you know, whatever,
		
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			I don't know from no computers,
now you have computers on your
		
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			iPhones and iPads or whatever, you
have these cards to travel, I
		
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			don't know how much from no flying
at all. Now we have rockets going
		
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			to the moon. So it's very clear,
there's no need to prove which is
		
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			better, because we know that it's
better, right? But the same method
		
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			out of mistake was applied to
family relations without comparing
		
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			the old with the new Subhan Allah.
And things got pretty messy. As
		
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			you see nowadays, you see, you
know, on TV now, every single show
		
00:43:07 --> 00:43:10
			you watch, there has to be a gay
cup. There has to be a gay couple.
		
00:43:10 --> 00:43:14
			Lucky there has to be somebody in
every single show that comes out.
		
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			And now it's bigger. Oh, it's
normal. It's okay. It's not the
		
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			norm and it's not okay.
Subhanallah All right. And the
		
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			message is clear, very clear.
Allah subhanaw taala says what?
		
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			You have to preserve a las Fidra
encroachment how how He created
		
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			us, that's the way it's supposed
to be. If Allah wanted to
		
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			interview with each other, he
would have created two men and two
		
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			women and then a man and a woman.
But Allah created Adam and Hawa.
		
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			And that's the way it started.
That's if you think about it, the
		
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			very first time the curtain opened
on Earth. It was just one family,
		
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			Adam, and how was Pamela right, we
have the best thing that we can
		
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			present to mankind, if the West is
ahead, and you know, from you
		
00:43:50 --> 00:43:52
			think about the third world
countries, the West is ahead of us
		
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			in so many ways that we have
things that were way, way, way,
		
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			way, way more advanced than and
that is the family, the family
		
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			values. Subhanallah between us
lies something that's extremely
		
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			valuable our family, our family,
our family. So I'm telling you,
		
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			I'm going to wrap on that today.
Inshallah, we're going to start
		
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			with that and then hopefully, I'm
going to try to bring it break it
		
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			down a little bit more and then we
want to go into how the Prophet
		
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			Muhammad Salam was specifically
you know, through narrations and
		
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			so on so forth. So and of course,
if you have any specific something
		
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			you'd like me to discuss or you
know, speak about
		
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			in your lives, make the Islamic
really available either die or die
		
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			it kind of like Yes.
		
00:44:36 --> 00:44:39
			Yes. You never think about it, you
never think what are going to do
		
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			stuff on Madhwa. And, and the
thing is, when I really thought
		
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			about spotlight, it's one of the
it's not just like you can do to
		
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			hatred or do Cleon Lille or if you
want to put you know, fast Monday
		
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			and Thursday. It's a pillar.
		
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			It's a pillar and every single
part of it is about family
		
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			suffering mother was the Debbie
has, it's all about family
		
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			Subhanallah and it's a reminder
but unfortunately, you see now the
		
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			people do have their money.
		
00:45:00 --> 00:45:02
			Mobile phone they were on their
cell phones talking and waving to
		
00:45:02 --> 00:45:05
			the camera like just try to focus
what you're doing. You know,
		
00:45:05 --> 00:45:08
			forget about the phone right now.
And that's what has happened to a
		
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			Subhan Allah but it really is
important you know and we just
		
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			have to try to focus on inshallah
up and make dua you know, myself
		
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			before you, you know, don't get me
wrong here. No, I'm no supermom or
		
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			vice versa for anything, you know,
I try to remind myself before you
		
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			and hopefully we can, you know,
try to, you know, support each
		
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			other and
		
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			we do we all do. I know, no, we
shouldn't we try to spend a lot
		
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			you know, try to see the best in
them. And, you know, and try to
		
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			work things out and hopefully
inshallah Well, next time we're
		
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			going to be talking about some
more stories. And again, um, you
		
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			know, I'm definitely going to be a
lot about kids, but I still have
		
00:45:40 --> 00:45:45
			to always bring us into the
picture because we are what our
		
00:45:45 --> 00:45:47
			kids are going to be, you know,
you know, you want your kid to be
		
00:45:47 --> 00:45:49
			something you have to be at first
I have to I keep saying that, you
		
00:45:49 --> 00:45:52
			know, people complain, you know,
our kids are not doing this and
		
00:45:52 --> 00:45:55
			kids are not doing this, like, are
you doing it? Yeah, because we're
		
00:45:55 --> 00:45:59
			not doing it. Yes. If you don't
show kids the input, for example,
		
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			you know, so Paula, sometimes I
found it very difficult to get up
		
00:46:01 --> 00:46:04
			and pray professionally or praying
on time as soon as you know,
		
00:46:04 --> 00:46:06
			sometimes you're in the middle of
cooking or you know, doing
		
00:46:06 --> 00:46:09
			something and you know, event
comes if you don't really get up
		
00:46:09 --> 00:46:12
			right there. And then as soon as
the event goes, and you go pray in
		
00:46:12 --> 00:46:14
			front of your kids, they will
think it's okay to delay the
		
00:46:14 --> 00:46:17
			player. Really, it's a long enough
someone say it's really
		
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			Subhanallah you're working more, I
look at it and you're actually
		
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			raising yourself to raise your
kids.
		
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			That's the way it is. It's not
something easy, but Subhanallah
		
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			with support, and you know, we eat
each other, we talk with each
		
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			other and inshallah hopefully
it'll been shown that we can
		
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			improve ourselves because there's
no way other than that we have to
		
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			is that or it's the highway.
That's not a very pleasant
		
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			highway. So