Shadee Elmasry – Career or Family

			career is the enemy of family, the
way I look at it, both men and
		

			women have to take that but women
have taken even more, because they
		

			are the physical bearers of
children, and they have a bigger
		

			obstacle. So they have to have a
greater belief that having a
		

			family is more important than
having a career. Guys have to have
		

			that. Because when they don't
raise their kids or kids turn out,
		

			right, he mostly will say, well I
got in my career is so important.
		

			I helped so many people in my
career, very few people say no, I
		

			don't want to have kids because
they want to indulge, most people
		

			will justify it to themselves. And
they keep postponing marriage, all
		

			of us can say the same thing. What
would I have done if I didn't have
		

			to have a family and I could work
12 hours a day, seven days a week?
		

			What kind of career would we all
have? You? Yeah, but you'd also be
		

			very miserable to and what kind of
old age would you have? What kind
		

			of middle of life would you have?
On top of that? That's all about
		

			ourselves. Imagine then the whole
community. If we all did that,
		

			what kind of community would we
have? We'd have no community left.
		

			So everyone's got to realize that