Salim Morsy – Jumuah Prayer 9212018
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The importance of following the footsteps of prophet Muhammad's first condition for marriage is emphasized, along with the need to be clear and logical in pursuing desire. The speaker provides advice on being kind towards one's wife and handling behavior in a professional way, as well as suggestions to reward later. The message is reiterated for the next day and the speaker offers a free parking lot for those who choose to pay with a credit card or cash. The message will be closed for the next day and the speaker is CCeler for Monday Tuesday.
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With your marriage.
How to be happy in your marriage?
It's easy way
for the one who choose to follow the
footsteps
of prophet Muhammad
The first condition
to make you happy in your married life,
to ask, alhamdulillah,
to make supplication to Allah,
to fix
the relation between you and your wife
and to correct your wife. Ask Allah to
correct your wife
and to make her
a righteous
and a pious
wife for you.
When we
had intention to
to get married,
what is the intention that we had?
Just to have a very beauty wife
or a very
rich wife
to help us with her wealth
or to
increase our reputation
because of the limitation of her family
or because of her her religion.
She is a religious woman,
and this is a very important
choice.
When we ask Allah,
for sure, Allah will respond to our supplication.
Like, he mentioned about
prophet
Zakaria,
Zedri,
peace be upon him. And
Allah says,
It's very important
to have
a righteous wife,
a righteous woman
because they used to say,
heavy wife,
heavy life,
which is true.
When you walk all days outside of the
house,
but finally you have to go back to
your house.
And if you do not feel comfortable
staying at your house, something wrong with you.
Because Allah
described the relationship between husband and wife.
Second,
If you do not
feel that you
you're not happy at your wife at your
house,
Something wrong
in your relationship between you and your wife,
and you have to find the solution.
You have to resolve the problem by yourself.
We were talking last week
about the relationship between
husband and wife,
and we will continue in the same topic
to touch
some some details
in this amazing
relationship.
And we have to have sincere intention
for our merit. Why we get married?
Why?
To be pleased with Allah
to protect myself and protect my religion,
and also to protect my wife, in the
other hand,
to be a good obedience to Allah
both of us,
and to create a
new house
according to Quran's teaching.
And to have children, our of his friends
will be raised
as a good Muslims.
If we have the intention,
trust me, Allah will
give you whatever you ask for.
And the third condition which is very important
for all of us, we have to follow
the footsteps
of our beloved prophet Muhammad,
peace be upon him.
We claim that we are the followers of
prophet Muhammad,
but reality,
most of us are not
because
we said by our tongue,
but we did not
confirm it
with our lens and our hearts.
We have to do it
actually
in the actual
action,
to follow the footsteps of prophet Muhammad We
have to learn about his wife,
about his characteristics
in his life,
how he used to treat his wives,
peace be upon him.
The mother of Grimas,
she narrated a lot of a hadith
from prophet Muhammad salallahu alaihi wa sallam.
And she is the most
person
knows about prophet Muhammad
He
used to live his own life
inside his house.
If you'd like to figure
out anything about the husband, ask his wife.
She will tell
us, is he good or bad?
Because
if he if if he tried to cheat
other people outside, he cannot cheat his wife
because she lives with him
247.
She knows
if he can
deal with the people with the 2 faces,
he cannot do it
all his life with his wife
at once.
And prophet Muhammad told
us how to be kind,
how to be nice
to your wife. And he says,
the more the most superior
among you,
the one who is nice and kind toward
his wife.
And he
says,
I am the most kind person toward his
wife.
If you would like to to look at
yourself,
are you among
the good people or not? Look at your
relationship with your wife,
and you can
measure this relationship by yourself. You do not
need help from anyone
because you know
every single detail in your life,
between you and your wife.
And if you act
a good way,
kind way,
for
sure, she will respond back to you in
the same way even more because our Quran
told us,
When you greet somebody
in in any certain way, you have to
when somebody greeted you in the same way,
you have to return it back more,
at least
even way.
When you treat your wife in kind way,
she will return back more than what you
treated her.
And our beloved prophet Muhammad sallallahu alaihi wa
sallam
taught
us how to be kind and nice to
your wife.
He used to ask,
do we have
food?
If they said yes
and he ate some of our.
If they said no and he said, I'm
fasting.
I will stop fasting.
Look at yourself.
When you finish your work and go home,
in the end of the day, ask your
wife,
Did you prepare some for today?
I'm so sorry because I was sick. I
had some.
What is your reaction?
Look at yourself in this moment.
You claim
that you are good followers of prophet Muhammad
salallahu alaihi wa sallam. Look at your
action
in that moment.
You will say, you know, I know you
are busy, Miya, Lord. You you you you
you did a lot of things for us
at house for the children, for She's
cooking. She's cleaning the house. She's doing a
lot of good stuff for you. And most
of us did not appreciate that,
and this is not good way
of treatment
for our our wives.
Prophet Muhammad when
he has a time to drink or eat,
he swear
that Aisha will drink before him.
How come? He said, by Allah, you will
drink before me. And he looked at the
place that she put her lips on it,
And he choose
this certain place, and he put his lips
in the same way.
It's a romantic way.
When your wife really feels
that you are treating her in very nice
way like this,
do you think she will return back
to you in very rude way?
Absolutely not.
But we need to stop. We have to
stop from ourselves.
Allah
You have to teach them in very nice
way, the same way that you wish.
She will teach you.
And the the same way.
And
one day,
prophet Muhammad sallallahu alaihi wa sallam,
just to learn
how to be
kind
and how to deal with your wife,
We came from our countries.
We hold in our money
some certain cultures.
Absolutely,
it's not from Islam.
This is from the background and from the
cultures.
Has no relation with Islam.
And they feel when you treat your wife
in good way, you know, will
come to you to say, how come that
you treat her in very nice way like
this? You know? She will abide you later
on.
When you treat your wife
in very generous way,
you are teaching your children,
the young children,
how to be respectful
for others.
When you raise your children inside your house
with the very nice environment like this,
respect to call toward each other.
Wife should respect her husband and the husband
should respect his wife.
This
is big task
for children
to learn how to be respectful.
But when you abuse your wife in front
of your children,
do you think your children will be respectful
for you
or for her?
Never ever.
And don't complain
later on that your children are not
respectful for you because you did not give
them the chance and the good environment to
be raised
as a pious and righteous.
This is my advice for myself and my
brothers and my sisters
today. We have to fear Allah
We have to treat
our
ourselves
and our spouses
in very nice and very kind
way
to be awarded,
first of all,
and to be
successful in your life,
and to be rewarded
in hereafter
with
families, their children, their wealth, and their wealth.
But I will suggest
we still have
the gate
open for anyone
really wish
to participate
in the world.
We have a lot of of
spots at the masochist.
We might say, you know, each spot will
cost at least $100.
If you would like to sponsor
1 spot or 10 spots or a 100
spots, it's up to you, you know, just
to to have continuous,
you know, donation
for your
dad, for your mom, for your brother, your
sister,
any member of your family, you know, who
passed away. You can do that. Even you
can choose for yourself.
You know? Osama Khattanjariya,
the person
made it by themselves or herself.
The door is open. If you would like
to participate,
one spot
of the the carpet to be
or 5 spots or 3 spots. It's up
to you. We had the last the the
the first
We had almost
30
spots
sold the ark for the sake of Allah
Whatever you will donate, it will be for
the the hours of Allah
We have brother
Allah,
him. He he sponsored 3 spots, and his,
son-in-law, brother
Waseeb Waseeb. He he sponsored 3 spots also.
How many left? We have brother Shamali, sponsored
5 spots,
I will sponsor 1 spot or 10 spots
with Rahi?
5 spot.
You know, brother, I mean, 5 spot. May
Allah bless all of you. On whose ears?
Brother?
Two spots. $200.
Who's ears?
You know, to make it easy, brother, one
spot.
2 spots. Brother Hamid, 5 spot. I I
see Marwan's hand make 5 like this.
Brother, how many spots? 5. 5 spots.
Would like to pay with the credit card,
we have a credit card machine. If you
would like to to pay the check, if
you would like to pay cash, it's up
to you. See doctor Ali
or see brother Hamid or see iman after
after salah inshallah
inshallah. Is that
And we're gonna pray in the next masjid
over there. I'm CC Behar
for
Monday
Tuesday.
Monday after Fetch
until Wednesday Fetch, the message will be closed.
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parking lot. They will throw the straw outside
the cabinet to have nice
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