Salim Morsy – 292018 Jumuah Khutbah and Prayer
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The speakers discuss the negative impact of Sayid's actions, including being unlawful, grams, and forgive. They stress the importance of maintaining a relation with the person who caused harm and learning to forgive and avoid future mistakes. The speaker also touches on the anniversarying actions of Sayid and the importance of testing oneself and preparing for difficult situations. The history of Islam has impacted people, and people react to difficult situations and forgiveness is a key part of Islam.
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Dear brothers and sisters,
I will be talking today in the same
topic that we had last week.
The topic for last week was talking about
how to respond
to the one
who did wrong against you.
It is 4 different ways
to respond
for the one who did
bad actions
against you.
The first one is
unlawful
way, which is Haram way. The
second one is
permissible
way to return back in the same way.
And the third one is good,
to forgive.
And the 4th way, which is the very
recommended
from Allah
and his beloved
prophet Muhammad,
peace be upon him, to forgive
and to forget
what he
did against you.
And these different
ways,
how to respond?
I'm just proof
to understand the situation.
The first way is haram,
unlawful
way
if you increase
the words
or the descriptions
that he described to you
because you will become
a
prisoner.
After your was was born, you will be
the body.
You will turn the table.
You will owe you will owe
him your good
deeds, and this
is not recommended recommended at all.
And the second
way which is
permissible, Allah knows that we cannot
hold
our grudge.
Just he give us permission
to return back in the same way, exact
way.
If somebody did wrong against you, you it's
permissible for you. You are able to return
back to him
in the same exact way.
And Imam al Hassan al Basri said, how
do we know that we will return back
in the same way? Means do not apply
this way. Just
forget it. Do not return back to them
in the same way because
we are not sure we will return back
in the exact way or not.
And the third way, which
is recommend
which is good,
to
forgive them.
But you cannot
maintain the same relation that you had with
them before,
which is a third level. The 4th level,
which is the very high, you know, commandment
from Allah
and from his beloved prophet Muhammad, peace be
upon them, to forgive them and to forget
what they have that have done against you.
It's
peace of mind.
It's good for your health. It's good for
your body. It's good for your mind. It's
good for your heart
to forgive
and to forget what they did against you.
And this is how
Allah
says, always react
toward people with the nice way, with the
kind way.
The one who used to be your real
enemy,
he will be
a best friend for you.
Will you treat him in very nice way?
And Allah
also mentioned in other verse in the Quran.
The man,
whosoever forgives
and maintain the relation with
his
people.
And
Allah will grant him a big reward
from Allah.
Your reward will be about Allah.
And he is the most generous one, almighty
Allah.
And
today, just I would like to clarify some
more details
about this topic
because it's not easy way.
I will repeat it. It's not easy way
when somebody really treated you in very rude
way, and you will return back in very
kind way to him.
It's it's a difficult situation,
and we need to be trained.
We need to train ourselves how to re
return back in very nice way even for
the one who abused us or who did
something wrong against us. And this is very
simple way. It's good for your health,
and it's good for your heart. It's good
for your body to release all illness
from your heart and to be
free.
And Allah
told us in the Quran.
And prophet Muhammad,
he is the real example
how to forgive.
And one man, the bad woman, came to
prophet Muhammad.
And last Friday, we was we were talking
about
about Sayyidina Lusuf,
prophet Joseph.
How will he forgive
his
or his brothers?
They had planned to kill him.
And when he has a chance
to forgive
There is no harm among you today.
Allah will forgive you.
And
our beloved prophet Muhammad sallallahu, he had the
same sentence
the prophet Muhammad, he had the same sentence
in the time of Fatima when he conquered
Mecca.
And he gathered all these believers in one
time, and he asked them, what do you
think? What should I treat you today?
And they said, you are good brother and
the son of good brother,
of us.
And he said, I will not say anything
except what Yusuf alaihi salaam said to his
brother.
Let the 3 go.
You are free.
And the other story happened to prophet Muhammad
There is a badabian man came to him
asking for the blood money to pay off
the blood money for a member of his
tribe.
And the prophet Muhammad helped him out a
little bit. And he asked him,
are you happy? He said, no. You didn't
do anything for me, subhanallah,
on front of the companions of Rasulillah,
subhanahu wa a sallam. And
the companions really were
angry. And this they told the prophet Mohammed
said,
leave me alone with him. Just
relax,
be quiet,
remain silent. And he took the man into
his house, and he increased him. And he
increased him.
And he said, are you agree with me
now? He said, may Allah bless you. May
Allah bless your family. He will destroy you.
Subhanallah, the man was so happy. And he
said, could you please come out again and
say what you said for me right now
on front of my companions?
Because I don't like to leave them with
something in their hearts toward you.
And the man came back and he said
what he described, prophet Muhammad SAW Salam, on
front of his companions,
almost to leave. And he told him, wait.
I will teach my companions a lesson.
And he said,
my example
My example and the Bedouin man
as the example of the owner of she
camel.
And his she camel run away. And the
people tried to catch her.
And they scared her.
And the man or the owner of the
she camel, he told them, just please leave
me alone with my she camel.
And he
got
his she camel
and returned back again. And the prophet
Mohammed looked at his companions and he said,
if I follow your opinion,
the man will be among the people of
hellfire in the day of judgment.
He was
so kind, so nice. Even toward the people,
they did wrong against him. And the famous
story everybody knows the story in
the script
the Islamic history
when he went to
Ataf and they treated him in very bad
ways. And he came back again in here
in the middle of his way to Mecca,
and he stopped during the night praying and
crying for the sake of Allah Subhanahu wa'ala.
And he used to say,
To Allah, I
ask you
to
make me strong
because people did not respect me. And he
tried to find the excuse for the people
that they abused there.
In the end of the story, the
mountain.
If you ask him to destroy them, he
will do that because of you.
And what did he say? Subhanallah. Just put
yourself
in the shoes of your beloved prophet Muhammad
Muhammad in the same situation? If somebody abused
you,
how will we will respond back to him?
Subhanallah.
And this we we claim that we are
the followers of Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alaihi wa
sallam.
Is this reality?
Just we need to control ourselves and we
we we need to test ourselves.
Are we really the followers of Prophet Muhammad
sallallahu alaihi wa sallam or not? And
prophet Muhammad
told Gabriel, peace be upon him, and the
angel
of mountains,
leave them.
May Allah break from their backs
or from their offspring.
The one who will worship Allah Subhanahu Wa
Ta'ala.
And this is exactly what happened.
Most of the companions, most of the the
sons of those
disbelievers in the time of prophet Muhammad SAWS,
they became
as companions
and they
Yeah. They spread the news about Islam.
They convey the message of Islam everywhere after
that.
And we have to to be more wise.
When somebody did something wrong against us,
we have to
be very careful
not to return back right away to see
because we might lose the world. It's not
only losing world, but we might become
oppressors.
We'll become zalini,
and we will give
him
our good deeds
on the plate of gold or silver.
And this is
the the story that really I would like
to conclude my speech today.
Even the story has
some weakness of the relay relation.
It happened between Sayidullah Abu Bayb the Surbayer
and Sayidullah Abu Bayb.
Sayidullah Abu Bayb, he was the writer of
the Wahi
revelations.
He was very high status
among the companions, and he was very, very
nice and very kind
person.
He was a Khalifa in Dimash.
Dimash.
And he has a a garden next
the garden of Sayyidina Abdullahi Abu Zubay.
And his employees,
every time
they pass by the garden of Sayyidna Abu
Mahi al Zubay and they ate some fruits.
And Sayyidna Abu Bak
become angry.
And he wrote a letter to who? To
to Muawiyah,
the son of the eaters of the lovers.
You know?
Sayyid al hid. It was before Islam. And
al Islam
You know? She ate the lepers of Sayyid
al Hamza in the Battle of Uhud
when she encamped Washi,
you know, her her her servant or her
slave to kill Hamza and to bring his
heart and his liver to her.
And she tried to eat it, but she
couldn't.
And she
spit it out again. Anyway
and he said, from Abu Mahi al Zubayr
to Muawiyah,
the son of the eater of levels,
the son
of a miracle at bat.
If you do not
tell your employees to stop passing in my
garden.
I will do I will do so and
so and so. And he threatened him.
And when Sayed Namawawi received the letter from
Sayed Namawawi,
he called his son Yazid.
And he said, oh, Yazid,
sent a letter for me
to describe me that I am the son
of the atark of Lebanon.
What should I respond to him? And Yazid,
he said, you have to send the army
for him to cut off his head and
come back
again. The beginning of the army, it will
be there. At the end of the army,
it will be here in the mosques.
They said, no. I will teach you a
lesson today, subhanallah. This is the wisdom of
old people when they really have experience
in their life how to deal with the
hard situations around them. And he told his
son, I'm I'm gonna teach you
a good lesson today.
And he asked for a paper and a
pen, and he wrote,
by the name of Allah,
from Muawi and the Abi Subiyan
to Abdullah
ibn Asma. That to Abdullah,
the son of Asma. Asma, which is the
daughter of Abubba al Usidih,
when Abba revealed down
for women to be covered
and she did not have anything to cover
her head except
the piece of cloth
she surround around her back.
And she took it off and she split
it twice and she put one of them
to cover her head. And the other piece
she put around her waist again.
SubhanAllah.
Now he did not return back in the
same way.
And he is the Khalifa
and he can do whatever he wants because
he
is in powerful.
But he return back in a different way.
When Sayyidina Abu Bair
you will join my employees and my guardian
to your employees and your guardian. It will
be yours.
By Allah,
if the whole world in in between us,
I will give to you.
Subhanallah. I just need to understand
how to control your anger
in the
hard situation,
how to deal with
And he kissed the head of Sayyidina Mu'awiya.
And he said, please forgive me. I did
wrong against you. And Sayyidina Mu'awiya said, they
Allah forgive all of us.
And this helped me with the situation like
this.
You know, every single person among us, we
might have, you know, people bothering us or
abused us or threatens us.
But how to react
toward them? How to show them that you
are much better
than them.
And this is the whole concept
of forgiveness.
To forgive them and to forget what they
have done against you. And this is the
highest level
in Islam.
May Allah
help all of
us out to to be forgiven and to
forgive our brothers and our sisters in Islam
and to forget what they have done against
us.
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