Saif Morad – Get curious instead of judging your spouse

Saif Morad
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The speaker suggests that instead of just judging partners for their behavior, they should become curious to understand what excites them and what it means to them. This will only enhance the relationship and allow the partner to see their perspective. This will only enhance the relationship and allow the partner to experience some of the things that make them feel amazing.

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			One shift to make in your relationship is
		
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			to move from judgment to curiosity.
		
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			Many times, we end up judging our partner
		
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			because we don't understand why they find something
		
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			so fascinating, why is something such a big
		
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			deal to them. So instead of judging them,
		
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			which makes us feel bad actually, we should
		
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			become curious to find out that what is
		
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			it about that that excites them so much.
		
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			Why is something so important for them? What
		
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			does it mean to them? And actually go
		
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			and experience some of the things with them
		
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			to see their perspective.
		
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			This will only enhance your relationship.