Sadullah Khan – Positive presence

Sadullah Khan
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The speaker discusses the importance of finding one's emotional signature in social interactions and how it affects one's attitude and perception. They stress the need to ask oneself what they say and what their personal brand is by which they are recognized. The speaker also emphasizes the importance of finding one's true self in order to achieve their spiritual goals.
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As we imbibe

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lessons from the life of our beloved Prophet

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Muhammad

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we realized that his personality,

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his character,

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and his engagement with people was positive

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and always pragmatic.

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We claim to be followers of his, but

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we need to ask ourselves.

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When we look at ourselves

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and our relationship with the world around us,

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as individuals,

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as a community, as a global community,

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What is the dominant attitude

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that we display?

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When we are passionate about something,

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whether it be political or religious, whatever it

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may be,

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what emotion comes to the fore?

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Is it love?

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Is it hate?

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Is it anger?

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Is it revenge?

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Is it compassion?

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Is it confrontation?

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Is it something beautiful and attractive?

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Or is it something negative and obnoxious?

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What is the dominant characteristic

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in our social interactions?

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Adeen

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Deen is about social

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interactions.

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In other words,

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the question is, what is our effective presence?

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When we come,

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what do we inspire in other people's minds?

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What do they perceive? What do they feel?

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What do they sense?

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We should realize that

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the way we are

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has an emotional signature.

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It affects the people around us.

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Our emotions

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and our attitudes

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create an aura,

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create an atmosphere.

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And that atmosphere, that order has an impact

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on those who are present and those who

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are around us.

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Character wise and in attitude,

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what we have is what we give,

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And what we receive,

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what we portray.

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We get what we give.

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And

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we receive what we portray.

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Sometimes people are negative towards us because of

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the negative

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energy that we exude. Not always, but it

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could be that.

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And since our attitudes are reflections of ourselves

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in the matter

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of life, we need to ask ourselves,

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what do we reflect?

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And what lasting impression do we leave on

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people?

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What is our personal brand

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by which we are recognized?

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When you say to people, Islam, what's the

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first thing that comes to people's mind? When

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they say Muslim, what's the first thing that

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comes to your mind? If I say, 'olama,

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what's the first thing you think of? Don't

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say it loudly.

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Do realize that some people consider what you

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think,

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others reflect on what you say,

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many judge you by what you do. But

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believe me,

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most people relate to you according to how

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you make them feel.

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Most people relate to you according to how

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you make them feel.

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He was easy going.

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He was a people's person.

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Basamun Bahaqah,

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pleasant.

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Let us go to the left of Rasulullah

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A snapshot

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documented in the muslimat of Imam Ahmad ibn

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Hanbal.

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Anjabi bin Abdullah, radiAllahu

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alaihi wa sallam, muhari bil kasafa.

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A tribe of Muhari Bil Khasafa were fighting

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the Muslims.

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And the Rasulullah

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was present when that attack took place.

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So one of the people from the opposition

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who were attacking the Muslims came.

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You you call

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Khawrath bin al Harith. His name was Khawrath

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bin al Harith.

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And he came in such a way that

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eventually he came and stood over the Prophet

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with a sword.

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And there he was, he had the sword

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over the Prophet and he said,

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Mayyamna'uk

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minyah Muhammad.

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Who will save you from me, O Muhammad?

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Who will save you from me?

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Now, the fellow shuls said, Allah,

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Allah.

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The man was so shocked.

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Maybe he didn't explain the Prophet to say

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what he said in such a calm manner,

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or maybe the Prophet said it in a

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stern way. But nonetheless, you have a sword

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over a person, and he is still so

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confident to say, Allah will save me.

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And then, fasakadah saved me nyedi.

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The sword fell from his hand.

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Fa akhadah Rasul salallahu alaihi wa sallam. Fa

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akhadah. And the Prophet picked up the sword

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and he picked it up. And he said

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to the man, Mayyam na'ukminmi?

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Who will save you from me?

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The man said,

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be better than the one who attacked you.

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He said, be better than the one who

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attacked you. In other words, be better than

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me. I came to attack you. Don't you

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be like me. So then a sword said

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to him, with sword in hand,

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Do you bear testimony that none worthy of

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worship but Allah, and that I am the

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messenger of Allah?

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So Ghauras Bilhari said, no. I will not

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do that. I'm I'm not gonna do that.

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On the battlefield, attacking the prophet with a

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sword, sword fell. Prophet has it in his

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head. He asked the man, read the shahada.

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The man said, no. I'm not gonna read

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the shahada.

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But I guarantee you one thing,

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I promise you I will not fight you.

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And I also promise you, I'll never join

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people who fight against you.

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The Rasul then,

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He went back to his people after this

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incident and he said,

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I've just come back to you to the

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best of human beings.

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Such

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was the beautiful example of the prophet

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cool,

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calm,

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confident,

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and considerate.

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His effective presence

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was a reflection of divine compassion.

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His effective presence

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was a reflection of divine compassion.

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Indeed, he is the personification

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of the Quran, as we say.

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The Quran is certification of the proof of

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his prophethood,

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and he was the Quran in action. He,

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the personification of the Quran, and the Quran,

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certification

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of the proof of his prophethood.

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His effective presence was a reflection of divine

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compassion.

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A personification

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of the Quran,

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and indeed,

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an embodiment of mercy.

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And with that,

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we conclude our series for this Ramadan.

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Duroos aamikah bin nasiratinabaawiyah.

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Profound lessons

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from the life of our beloved Prophet Muhammad

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