Sadullah Khan – 11th Post Witr Talk Ramadaan 14442023

Sadullah Khan
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The speaker discusses the idea of passive acceptance of money and how it benefits everyone. They explain that people's generosity and charity increases their blessings and that good deeds are of greater value in estimation. The speaker also emphasizes the importance of caring for one's health and being contented with what they have.

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			Hello, Akram.
		
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			Hello, Akram.
		
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			Aloha.
		
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			My.
		
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			I love my.
		
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			A long walk around.
		
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			A long walk around.
		
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			Moral
		
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			guidance from everyday experiences.
		
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			Jean Paul Getty
		
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			was senior, was an American born British
		
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			Petroleum Industrialist.
		
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			He founded the well known Getty's Oil Company,
		
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			and he was considered the richest man in
		
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			the world
		
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			in the 19 fifties.
		
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			Despite his vast wealth,
		
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			Gatti was infamously frugal. In other words, very
		
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			tight with his money.
		
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			And he disliked the attention that his wealth
		
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			brought him,
		
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			not because of humility,
		
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			but because he did not want people to
		
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			request donations from him.
		
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			In fact,
		
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			he despised what he called
		
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			passive acceptance of money. You want money, you
		
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			work for it. Don't take money from me.
		
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			This is the idea, passive acceptance of money.
		
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			And he was thus known not to be
		
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			generous at all unfortunately.
		
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			In 1973,
		
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			he delayed paying the ransom for his grandson.
		
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			In fact, he refused to pay any ransom
		
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			for his kidnapped grandson,
		
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			and he was
		
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			course, we are against kidnapping, obviously. But the
		
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			point was, he could afford to pay something.
		
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			He paid nothing for 6 months until
		
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			they cut off the ear of the grandson
		
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			and sent it and then he even paid
		
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			a fraction and then negotiated.
		
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			In his book, his autobiography
		
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			titled as I see it,
		
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			he wrote pages about why he had a
		
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			payphone
		
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			installed in his house. When you go to
		
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			his house, you're gonna call somewhere, you must
		
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			pay. He's a pay phone.
		
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			He had a pay phone installed in his
		
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			house and in his autobiography. You know, couple
		
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			of pages, not a paragraph,
		
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			couple of pages
		
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			justifying
		
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			why he put a pay phone in his
		
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			house that if you come to his own,
		
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			you use his phone, you pay for
		
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			it. Such kind of stinginess
		
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			is a kind of a disease, a disease
		
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			of selfishness.
		
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			In fact, the Rasul
		
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			You see, in Islam, we believe
		
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			that generosity
		
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			and being charitable
		
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			increases your blessings.
		
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			You see, Rasool said
		
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			in a hadith document in Sahih Muslim,
		
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			your wealth
		
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			does not become decreased by charity. When you
		
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			give charity,
		
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			your wealth does not decrease. Your blessings, in
		
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			fact, increases.
		
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			So people of means who are around the
		
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			prophet, say the Khadija,
		
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			Say Abu Bakr, say,
		
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			were wealthy, and their wealthiness
		
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			spurred them on to the generosity.
		
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			Their wealthiness
		
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			spurred them on to generosity.
		
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			In fact, the faithful who are wealthy and
		
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			generous
		
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			are well aware
		
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			of the verse in the Quran.
		
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			These are but adornments of this world's life
		
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			or the life of this world. But the
		
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			consequence of good deeds
		
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			endures forever. It benefits you in this world
		
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			and, of course, eternally in the hereafter.
		
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			Good deeds are of greater value in the
		
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			estimation of Allah,
		
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			and it's much better for you to depend
		
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			upon that than depend upon the material wealth
		
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			in this world.
		
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			And those who are stingy,
		
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			due to fear
		
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			that their generosity
		
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			will deplete
		
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			or decrease their wealth,
		
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			we need to pay heed to the words
		
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			of
		
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			Whatever you eat, you consume it and it
		
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			digest and it passes up from your body.
		
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			Or you wear clothing and you adorn yourself
		
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			and eventually, it becomes unfashionable and it wears
		
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			out,
		
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			or
		
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			you use the wealth to give charity
		
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			and that charity benefits
		
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			the people whom you help and continues to
		
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			benefit you in this world and the hereafter.
		
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			The rest,
		
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			you leave behind when you depart this world.
		
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			It's a good thing, by the way, to
		
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			note
		
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			that Jean Paul Getty's son
		
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			junior,
		
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			his name is also Jean Paul Getty,
		
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			he inherited
		
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			part, but still a couple of 1,000,000.
		
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			Yet, unlike his stingy father,
		
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			he freely gave 1,000,000 in charity. And he
		
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			said,
		
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			I am privileged
		
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			to be the heir to a huge wealth,
		
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			and I regard myself
		
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			as a custodian of that money for the
		
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			benefit of people who need it more than
		
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			I do.
		
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			So as people of faith,
		
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			we need to heed the advice of Rasulullah
		
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			sallallahu alaihi wa sallam documented in the
		
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			There are 2 characteristics
		
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			that can never combine in a true believer.
		
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			Stinginess
		
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			and bad character.
		
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			So together from all of this, what we
		
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			always say it's not really important how much
		
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			we make, but how much good we do
		
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			with what we have. The joy of wealth
		
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			is not so much in merely having,
		
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			but more in caring through sharing because we
		
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			make a living by what we get, but
		
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			we make a meaningful life by what we
		
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			give
		
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			and how contented we are with what we
		
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			have. And as said,
		
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			wealth is not how much you have, it's
		
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			how contented you are with what you have.