Riad Ouarzazi – Your Ramadan 2012 #23

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coming here to another episode of Rocky Ramadan, 2012.
		

			Day 23
		

			I hope and I pray that you all are enjoying these final moments of Ramadan. And fortunately Ramadan
is taking his final breath. last breath, it's only but you know, 77 days left.
		

			So I just hope that you are really, really benefiting from this Allah heimat his blessings that
descend on this final, you know, days of Ramadan.
		

			I've got to be honest with you, you know, when I've seen a lot of people Subhanallah even in these
last days of Ramadan.
		

			And some people are complaining about things. And I feel sorry sometimes to see people complaining
about things.
		

			We often complain about things that we really don't have. And we forget things that we have. And I
was thinking about, you know,
		

			some headline on the law of attraction, you know, when you're complaining about let's say, your
husband, or you complain about your children.
		

			What happens here, you know, like psychologists, they say they don't when you keep on focusing on
the bad,
		

			you get the bad and we have that in our Islam somehow in our religion, in our faith. But when you
concentrate on your focus on the good, you attract the good. So I want you to count the blessings,
instead of complaining. Because the more you complain about something
		

			that's what you In fact, are attracted to yourself. My kids are bad. My kids are my kids don't
listen to me. My kids, they don't pray my kids, they this my kids, my kids, my kids, they don't get
good grades. My that's what you keep on attracting to yourself. But if you concentrate on the good
		

			weather hamdulillah I mean, my kids are healthy.
		

			hamdulillah my kids, they listen to me, although I mean they are giving me a hard time but compared
to others are like you know what? They do? Listen to me. My kids are this my husband?
		

			My husband? Yes, he you know, think of what's the bad thing. It may be something that you complain
about all the time. I complained that he's stubborn. Okay. Hello, take stubborn out. He is.
		

			He gets angry, gets the anger out. And then focus on what good does he have
		

			I did talk about the good luck there, you know, some time back but now I'm talking about the near
the blessings that you have, which you don't even see. So when you talk about or think about, okay,
the good. He You know, he is generous. My husband is generous. My husband Mashallah he, although
he's, you know, maybe sometimes stubborn, but in fact, he does. Listen, he does help he does, you
know, so you concentrate on the good, you focus on the good. That's what you In fact, that's what
you will get.
		

			You focus on the good, you will get good at Ohio law, did you think positively the Prophet Muhammad
also said that he said thing, good of Allah, you will find good, you will get good. Just you have to
think good. You have to be positive. If you think you're good, you know, if you if you think if you
know that my kids are, are. They're amazing, they're great. They're amazing that you keep on
thinking like that in shallow data, they'll be outstanding. But if you always keep on, you know, my
mother is not you know, is this and my a complaint about about that. In fact, that's what you're
attracting to yourself. There was somebody who was complaining about the fact that, you know, my
		

			children, they're this and that, and they just complain so much about the children. And there's this
other woman who told them, and it was somehow like, I really get so touched by this. She says, You
know what, if people are complaining about you know how bad your kids are to you. And for me for the
past three years, all we want is to just have one healthy baby.
		

			That's all I've been asking Allah for. And I know people myself will be asking Allah for to bless
them with a kid for more than 17 years.
		

			They only want one healthy kid. So this lady's you said so Pamela. He says, I've been going to the
hospital with my husband, and we've seen top notch doctors. We even went to a procedure that a month
procedure every day, I was getting injections.
		

			Using the you know, her husband's
		

			set of liquid. I mean, I'm not talking about halal haram here. I'm just talking about what this lady
was doing.
		

			You know, though, so they were doing this fertility process. So they were doing it to injection. But
again, the water is coming from her husband. They're taking her off holding on her egg, and then
they're trying to do this fertility process. She says, For three months, they've been injecting me.
		

			And we've been praying and praying, all I wanted is just one healthy baby. Then the doctor came to
her and says, Listen,
		

			after three months, if this procedure does not work, it will never work.
		

			And if it doesn't work, they said,
		

			Can we get somebody else's liquid and do this fertility thing? And she says, No, no, that's Haram, I
can do that. The doctor says, Do you know how many Muslim families have come to our office? And they
have done that?
		

			How many Muslim families they've come? And they went to that procedure?
		

			She says no, that is how I'm in my faith in my religion. I will not do that. Although these Muslim
people have done it, I will not do it.
		

			And it didn't work for her.
		

			But her fate is so strong, and Hannah will die.
		

			Instead in fact of complaining that she can't have kids. Now she focused her thinking into thinking
about the blessings that Allah blessed her with
		

			and that's what she's getting.
		

			So I learned so much from this some Hamlet story of this woman amazing.
		

			Instead of us complaining about things we could focus our thinking just think about how good things
are
		

			thinking about you know
		

			it's always rainy in the UK it's always muggy here it's always you know, foggy here it's always Oh
my shot LA I get to have a job here. I get to work here. I get to own a car here. I get to have my
own place here.
		

			I get to Mashallah, you know, have food and buy them and have children and you know, and break my
fast I know people in Cydia you know as you are breaking fast with your dates and milk and, and and
and some more size and whatnot, people ncdr they are breaking the fast with blood.
		

			May Allah Subhana Allah alleviate he's been upon them and and give them an haston His nosler His
victory for them and shout louder.
		

			So think about the good focus about the good focus on the Nam that Allah surgeon has blessed you
with and thank you for those near him. Weather in Chicago stone that as he then nutcombe Allah
subhana wa Dionysus if you are thankful to me, I shall give you more
		

			just focus your thinking
		

			move a little bit switch it and focus on the good, you shall find good inshallah. hota is what we
call positive thinking.
		

			So why don't you insha Allah tala focus on these remaining days of Ramadan
		

			if there's anything bad that you're thinking about or complaining about, I know sometimes sisters
they meet in all together and all they talk sometimes is about company about their husbands. That's
all it's
		

			complaining about. The husbands have complained about kids have complained about how tough life is
and how this and how important that and I'd like in Charlotte in his final days of Ramadan, focus on
the good
		

			and then you will see inshallah
		

			you will see a difference in your life. I guaranteed the evening
		

			until tomorrow for another episode of Rocky Ramadan. 2012. I say
		

			Assalamu alaykum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh