Riad Ouarzazi – Homemade Happiness #3
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The hosts of "The Father's Day Show" discuss various virtual reality (VR) stories, including a missing dream for a woman named Sharla, a man named Nadia, and a man named Kari. They also talk about the importance of staying where we are and the importance of having a good father to support one's family. The speakers emphasize the need for parents to partake in disciplining and raising their children, fixing housing problems, and sharing principles with them. They also give advice on wake-upping the father and offer a presentation on the upcoming weekend event.
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I have a poem about fathers today.
I had a I have a poem about fathers, which I'd like to share with you today.
Because today, inshallah butanna. I want to talk about the dreams, I'm going to share with you a couple dreams, and then talk about the role of the Father. And then in sha Allah, I have a little qasida spawn poem to share with you about fathers. And in fact, if you've if your fathers, those of you whose fathers are still with them, call them, call them. Let them listen, because we have few sessions just about fathers. And then we're going to talk about mothers of course in Sharla huhtala but first we want to start with the fathers. So call the parents call the fathers call the moms who would like them to share to come to participate Listen, call the children God in fact, everybody
called everyone and let everyone come in and you know and participate in Sharla how to add a message to the fathers today message Yeah, fathers we're gonna focus on
on the family, but today inshallah tada would be about, you know, it would be about fathers. So I would like to, as I said, in the beginning, I have handled a poem about fathers, I'd like to share with you inshallah, Tada. And that will be towards the end of shala. Towards the end, I will share with you this little poem about fathers in Sharla. Before I start,
because today is session number three, about homemade happiness right session number three hamdulillah or episode number three today and hamdulillah. So, we started this episode about what, a few days ago, three days ago.
And this came right after the end of time right once we finished the sessions or the episode of the series.
On the end of time, we started a new session or the new series called homemade happiness that will take us in Sharla. Who to Anna for another month or so Bismillah inshallah Tada, so
the end of time was more about the hereafter. And this homemade happiness has both dunya and the hereafter it combines both. So Pamela right. The homemade happiness has little bit about both and shallow data so this is why it is special very special, right? Very special.
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This is just a little teaser about my poem about the father in Charlotte. And this is just a preview about what's to come in Sharla with data though so this is just a little one. This is very small. So my brothers and sisters before I start
How is everyone doing? How's everyone doing? How's everybody doing? Everybody doing great and shout out to Anna Let me check on you. It's taking this
I don't know what's going on because normally Mashallah we have you know, a lot more viewers. People are taking their time joining I guess you know, Saturday beautiful day Okay, I got it. I understand.
So, by the way, I'm just asking again, how's everybody doing? The handle an hour now what How are you feeling?
Now one has trouble I hope you're feeling better. You're still fire. We're still fast in here. How's it goin and how's Nadia Nadeem doing? How's Mariana? One Allah one love Shazia. How's everyone doing those? Jose Ali rasmalai doing okay. sabots doing okay. hamdulillah Al Hamdulillah didomi
Charlemagne How can hamdulillah Your husband is watching today because it's about fathers so we're brought the husband to join okay hamdulillah
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clean as can be. So my brothers and sisters that are stuck with him allowed him to love Santa Santa sorella
I want to start with with a dream.
I want to start with a dream in Sharla I want to share with you my dream All right.
Maybe we could all share the same dream.
But this dream um, it's it's
it's a it's a it's like a reality. So let me share with you my dream. Couple of dreams. Maybe two or three dreams I've had long time ago.
Alright, so you guys ready for the dream? You guys ready for the dream?
Ready Charlotte? Dinah You guys ready? So now I can start. So stopping sending messages to each other so we can start inshallah
Dream and then talking about fathers. Right talking about fathers in Charlotte. All right, yeah.
So this dream happened long time ago. Right. And in this dream, I saw a father.
I don't know who the father was, but some guy, some father,
he had a girl and the boy,
the girl was about maybe five years old. And the boy was that seven, eight years old. Right.
And the father was busy, very busy in his work. In fact, he just started, you know, in this new business he had, and he is building his new company. So he comes in home really late.
And then he leaves home when his kids are still asleep.
I saw him in that dream being very busy.
So one day, in that dream, some heights and dreams like a movie home, but it's a dream as he so he was driving with his daughter, right? on that dream one day. And then the daughter asked, as the Father that, that, where do you live?
You told her I live in the same house you live in?
Just Where do you live? Where? Really? Where do you live? So he tried to prove to her, but he tried to prove to her that that
that I really live in the same house. But it was very difficult because she hardly season. Right. But what made it worse in the dream was the father was in the house that week, the weekend that he was really looking for something he was looking for, for something that has to do with his business, like a piece of paper. And that paper that you know, document, that document has names of his business partners, right for people that he needs to contact, you know, and strike some deals with. So he's looking looking and looking and then came his son now, cane him son and asked him Dad, what are you looking at? What are you looking for? He says, I'm looking for this, you know, document,
he's got names of people, very important people, I need to speak to very, very important people. So the son told his dad that am I on that list?
Am I on that list?
You said you have a list of very important people that you want to talk to right? Am I on that list?
As if he slapped him on the face?
Even me, I was having the dream and I was saying what's going on.
But the dad realized you had to change.
He realized he had to change. So he started, you know, he started in fact,
changing his habits.
He started you know, changing his habits and spending more time with his family at home. You had to sacrifice you had to make some sacrifice, because initially he thought that, you know, I'm sacrificing. I'm sacrificing for my kids. All this work. And this business that I'm trying to build is for my kids, right? He gave them everything.
But he did not give them time. Right. So in that dream, I saw the Father,
I saw the Father, you know, changing his habits, and spending more time with his family with his kids.
And slowly and slowly the relationship became stronger and stronger,
stronger and stronger.
And then
so much so that now his kids, the daughter and the boy, they would not go to sleep until the death comes. And he would tell them a story to put them to sleep.
He realized that that in that dream I saw he realized how much he was missing.
He realized how much he was missing. And indeed he was missing out on a lot. Right? Because he was working so hard thinking that I'm trying to, you know, facilitate a better life for my family. I'm trying to make a better life living for my family. And all the
of course all of us dads think the same way. We work we work hard hard, we work we have obligations and then because in our mind
As dads, we want to provide a better living for our families. But then somehow to law, that Father, he realized how much he was missing. But then when he spent more time with his kids, right when he spent more times with his kids, and now his kids, they cannot go to sleep until he goes to dad, and tell them a story. And that I saw in that dream, you know, instilling that dream that the relationship became a lot better and hamdulillah with his kids. That was dream one, number one.
In dream number two,
my dreams are amazing. I just so you know, my dreams, I like movies.
I saw a husband and the wife in that dream.
I saw husband and the wife in that dream,
who are living together, but they like not living together.
I saw husband and the wife living together, as if they're not living together. The idea of divorce, the idea of divorce came in so many times.
to both of them.
Also, the man he thought about maybe having affairs,
I saw that in that dream.
He's they're always arguing. He I think they're just living together. As if they're not living, there was no affection. There was no love, there is no peace. They just live in living.
He wondered the husband, he wondered, what is going on with this relationship?
What is going on with this relationship? You know,
he says the husband.
I'm going to
I'm going to try to do something about this.
So
he started slowly.
started slowly.
He comes from work. Because in that dream, I saw that the wife
she exerted a lot of efforts initially, she tried and tried and try. But the husband maybe he was in a different world.
Thought I'm working. I'm busy. I'm trying to provide. So she tried, but then maybe she gave up in that dream. I felt that she gave up.
So the husband realized, and then he started with small things very little, you know, trivial things. Right? What did he start with? He says, whenever he comes home, he made this intention. I'm gonna say send them and smile. That's it. Very small, very trivial, but very effective. Very, very effective. He says, You know what? Let me start with baby steps. I'm just gonna come home and say Salaam Alaikum. And start with a smile. That's what he started with. So he comes home.
Assalamu alaykum
kiya Holly.
She says Oh, TK here, hon. Hey, TK, Ki hon. Hey, TK, Kenya. Hey, t didn't know he didn't do that. I'm just doing it for him. You know, because we were just saying Santa Monica.
But, you know, if I were him, if I were him, and my wife was was Indian, Pakistani Bangladeshi. Although speaking, I will say key Han. Hey, TK, Kenya, hon. Hey, TKPTKP Hey, TK, you know, that would be that would be amazing. Yeah, I mean, amazing. But it wasn't right. So he would say Sarah Monaco. kayfun. Han, how are you? How are you? She says hamdulillah he would say How was your day? Then she goes, and hamdulillah and then she starts talking she started because she has so much stored so much right? Now she's such stock in my day goes like this and my days go like that on my day. gola. She started talking just because he started with Southern welcome giver. And then he's
forcing himself to smile is forcing himself. You have no idea. Yeah.
Yeah. Hey, TK.
You know, he's smiling. And he's smiling. So she says hamdulillah I'm doing okay. How are you? How's your day? You know, this. Slowly, slowly just said, I'm very celebrity
No, no, it didn't I tell you it's an amazing dream. I see this amazing dreams. I see them I'm sharing them with you. I'm staring at right. So, slowly, slowly, slowly sisters and brothers, feelings and emotions got get got stirred up again. Slowly, slowly, slowly these emotions and feelings right started and hamdulillah you know, got got stirred, stirred again, you know, so I saw him in the dream, he goes to work, and then he picks up the phone.
And then he makes a call. He calls her. You have not done that for a long time. He hasn't done that in a long time. So he calls just to say, listen, listen, listen, sister sisters, this this is sisters. This is sisters, you're going to like this. The sisters gonna love this one. The sisters, they're going to love this one. He picks up the phone. And he tells her Salaam Alaikum. Welcome Sarah, what happened? And he says, No, no, nothing. I was just thinking of you. And I called to check on you. Oh, I
just this just this What? What What happened? Nothing. I just called to check on you. I was thinking about you. And I call to see how you're doing.
Oh, holy, holy, holy, holy. Hi. And you know what that did to her? What that did to her. It just like,
in a nice way. She started my shop. And now she goes, you know, she makes the best things. She before he comes home. She goes in front of the mirror. And she takes all the paints that she has all the paints, all everything, she paints her face, she paints it everything. And then she been Oh, and so she started putting more stuff. And then she started to work before we go, you know, I'm just gonna I want I want to appear beauty.
Just that little thing. Santa Monica was just thinking about you. And I'm just calling to see how you doing.
I miss you.
I miss you.
Something he hasn't said for ages. Because he made that intention, I need to change.
I don't want to lose my family, I need to change.
And that did it for him. So I saw them in that dream. I saw them in that dream. Have you ever seen somebody sleeping and smiling? I was sleeping. And I saw myself smiling.
I was sleeping. And I saw myself smiling. How? Because I was happy to see them happy. I was happy in my dream, seeing them becoming happy. They're happy now. They have more they talk more. Yes. Maybe sometimes I saw in the dream in the dream. I saw them some time, you know, having these little arguments. But but but what happened? He would go and he would text her. He would text her. And he would say I'm sorry.
And then she would text him back with with tears, you know, saying I'm sorry to. And then she would take a selfie of her picture of her selfie picture selfie. And then she will do as they I'm sorry to I'm sorry to write, you know, and then things will become amazing how much I saw them being happy together in that dream, you know, because
I saw the husband making certain decisions that changed his life forever with his wife.
That was my secondary.
That was my secondary.
I saw a third dream long time ago. Long time ago.
I saw another dream. In the dream. There was the father the dad. I mean the father and the husband, the wife.
And they have two kids, a boy and a girl.
And the grandparents. They also lived with them in the same house. Right?
They live in in this house.
And then in my dream
I saw
an earthquake.
An earthquake in the dream. Yes.
And what happened in that earthquake that house got split into
into islands. I saw that that that, that that house or the place where they used to live that family got split into different islands.
And in my dream I was thinking what is going on I got scared the dream, you know, the shaking, and then the, you know, islands hidden there. So I saw in my dream that in one island, the dad
and the mom alone in the one island, and I saw the son
and his brother, and your sister in one island.
The cha cha the Chachi, the grandfather, the grandmother in one island, everybody is in the island.
In my dream, I was thinking What is going on?
They were living together.
All of a sudden this xinzheng earthquake happened, shook them split the house into separate islands.
So they stopped communicating with one another.
The the Father, the mom told his her husband, let's go visit the kids. He said, Well, where are the parents? They're the ones who should be coming and visiting us and asking about us.
And then I saw in the dream,
the the, the guy with his sister and his other brother. They said, Let's go visit dad and mom. And the elder son. He says, Why should we go? Why should we go visit them? We're happy here. We're happy where we are, aren't we? We can have all the time we want on our phones we can have all the time we want on our Xbox, we can have all the time we want on our PlayStation we can have all the time we want on the TV. Why should we go and visit them? We're happy where we are. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, let's just stay where we are.
And very far was the grandfather and the grandmother in another island all by themselves. Misaki they're just counting the days. They're counting the days.
I got scared.
I woke up.
Because before I woke up
the island where the father and the mother used to live in together it gets split into two separate islands. But they were very close to each other.
The dad is in his own world. The mom in her own world.
He would text her he would text her and he would tell her
leave the food my breakfast, leave it in the in the fridge. Give the breakfast in the fridge and wake me up at 10 o'clock.
He woke up late that day in the dream he woke up late. Told her Why didn't you wake me up? Didn't I send you a text that said wake me up attend. I said I did. I texted you back and I said it's 10 o'clock wake up.
Right? you texted me telling me wake me up at 10 I texted you at 10 I said it's 10 o'clock Wakey wakey
and I left you and I said it in the text as well. I've left you the breakfast as you requested in the fridge. It's all in the text.
They were texting each other
I woke up and I got scared.
And I said huh these are not dreams. These are realities.
I don't know if your brother and sisters are living with me here or not. Do you get what I'm trying to tell you here? Brothers and Sisters Do you sense while I'm going with this? these dreams
you sense what I'm going with this with these dreams?
these dreams do you do you sense
what's going on here?
I mean are they really dreams or what are they
don't don't they seem like realities.
Don't they feel like it's a reality in a lot of houses today.
You know these dreams. They feel like dreams but at the same time they really feel like it's a real it's a scary reality is scary reality in the life.
Households today I'm talking about Muslims. Not even not Muslims.
And this is why sisters and brothers foundation number four,
foundation number four, what's foundation number four, your family is a blessing from Allah. Write it down.
Write it down. This is foundation number four I shared with you three principles, three principles. This is Principle number four. Principle number four. Your family is
your family is
your family is a blessing from Allah subhanho wa Taala. Right? Remember, who can remind me of the very first principle I shared with you?
Who can remind me of the very first principle I shared with you
sisters and brothers.
Who can remind me of the first principle I shared with you
huh?
Did you forget
pray together worship a lot together Exactly. Samia the man worship a lot together.
Worship a lot together. Principle number two was Principle number two. Remember Principle number three.
I said worship a lot together pray.
Principle number two light spread. What's Principle number two.
value your family is ecological value your family value the family. Principle number three was Principle number three.
Principle number three.
Yeah, but what's Principle number three? Number three. Number two is very your family was Principle number three.
Number three, mercy is that come along and live with mercy. Number three, Principle number three, live with mercy living with the law in your home live with Merci de la Shima principle. That's number three. Principle number four. Your family is a blessing is NEMA from Allah. Your family is a blessing from Allah subhanho wa Taala. Your father is a blessing from Allah. Your mother is a blessing from Allah. You will not know the value of your father and enter the day he's gone. You will not know the value of your mother until the day she's gone. You will not know the value of your children until the day they're gone. your your your your your your wife, she's your your husband is
Nima. Your daughter is now your son is now your family is NEMA from Allah subhanahu wa tada and listen to what Allah subhana wa tada says in the in solid in verse number 72. So verse number 72, Allah subhana wa Taala says, I don't want to be Amina Shri paniagua ji one more who jolinar come in. forsaken as well.
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Allah subhanho wa Taala says, And Allah Xhosa has come he has blessed you from your own selves.
Bless you with what with as well as with spouses, and he made from your spouse's Benny now I have other children and grandchildren Allahu Akbar, Allah subhana wa tada has blessed you, you know with, with with spouses and from the spouses, Allah blessed you with children and grandchildren, ones that are coming up by the bed and he has blessed you with by events with lots of good than Allah subhana wa tada says, do they believe in false deities? Or did I deny the favors of Allah? If I mean badly, I mean on Mattila alone, do they believe in false barfing in false hood? And they deny the blessings of Allah? Yeah, anyone Allah says about the children and the grandchildren he's telling you and I
that these are blessings from Allah, how can you deny these blessings from Allah subhana wa Tada. This is why he said Your family is a blessing from Allah subhanho wa Taala
Family is a blessing
for Bill Burton, you know, we've been here I met him
in Armenia my means a blessing we've been.
So your family is in there. And you and I, we should take a lot from this near man. You know why sisters and brothers Listen to me very well because those of us who are not grateful and thankful to Allah of Allah subhanho wa Taala will remove that name and take it away from us.
Your father is Nima from Allah Your mother is near Emma from Allah, your your spouse, Nana from Allah Your husband is Naima from Allah, your daughter on Sunday Nima from Allah your grandfather and grandmother than them from Allah if you are not grateful for that. Allah was taken away.
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The more you think Allah, Allah will give you the more you think him of anything, the more Allah Subhana Allah will give you and bless you. So kinda What are
you, those of you who have families, those of you who have mother is still alive, those of you whose father is still alive, those of you who did not lose a loved one, maybe in this pandemic, or other than this pandemic, those of you who are living with your families, while law he you are living in a net ama.
You don't know the value of it. The only one who knows that video, is Allah subhanho wa Taala.
When was the last time you gave a mother a hug?
When was the last time you gave her a hug? Or your son a hug or your daughter hug?
Or your father a hug?
As those as those who have lost their father? As the as those who have lost their mother ask them? What would you wish to see? What would you wish?
What would you wish they would say if my father was to come back to life, I would just wish to just touch him one more time just to hug him one more time. I would wish if my mother was alive. I would wish just to see her one more time just to see her just to see her smell her and give her a hug 111 more time.
Imagine imagine May Allah forbid
your father goes to sleep at night angry at you.
Or your mother goes to sleep at night angry at you
imagine
and they die they don't wake up in the morning.
How can you live your life?
How can you live your life knowing that your dad
went to sleep?
At night? angry at you because you broke his heart or you broke her heart? He didn't wake up he died angry at you.
How can you survive after that?
How can you even pray after that? You broke her heart. She went to sleep crying. You send her to sleep crying.
You sent her to sleep crying?
How many of us may Allah forbid And forgive us do that.
So that's what I'm trying to tell you my brothers and sisters. Your family is NEMA from Allah subhanho wa Taala uphold that NEMA value that NEMA cherish, cherish the NEMA cherish the love before that NEMA comes out and
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I got my phone. I wish I wasted so much time. I wish so my brothers and sisters that was Principle number four. cherish the love. Your family is near Matt is a blessing from Allah subhanho wa Taala. Cherish that NEMA from Allah Xhosa. What was your sisters? I want to move to another principle another foundation foundation number five. But before I move to foundation number five, let me one more time check on you, my brothers and sisters, my beloved ones, as well. How are you doing? Fifi? How are you doing? How are you doing? How is Mujahideen doing? How is most hmil cabildo doing? How's the SEMA doing? How is zoja ly doing? house? How are you guys? How are you guys? Tell me how are
you? How's everyone? Huh? Huh? Vanessa, how are you? How's everyone? How y'all doing? Great. hamdulillah huh? Yes means sister. Yes, man. How are you? man doing okay, so Mejia. Samia is in town today. Should I talk to him? Okay. I found the husband for Somalia. I bet I found the husband for Somalia men. All right. So they don't shout out right after Ramadan. We will do the Nika inshallah. hutan All right, inshallah. And sumaiya. She agreed. She agreed. It was Ali. How are you have is how are you? Diane Kean? How are you? How is Milan? How are you? Yeah, hello, all good. hamdulillah Amen. And hello. All good. Right? You know, it. See, you see, you know, as soon as she's trying,
she's not even responding. She's saying she's shy. And that shows because she's shy and she's quiet. She agreed. when when when the girl she's shy, and she does not speak a word. Yeah. And he know that she agrees. She's okay. Anyway, he asked her you tell her you want to marry this guy. And she says
their silence is her agreement. Her silence his her agreements. So those are everybody's doing great. Alhamdulillah Allah hamanaka Alhamdulillah nasima My world is bright and beautiful. Longmeadow Yes, yeah, you have to speak to him. You speak to me first. Right? You speak to me first, and then I send you to him inshallah. Tada. So Maria, she's Myskina now becoming all red. She's all right. She's not even talking. She's not even talking. She's not talking. Right? She's not talking because she knows. Ah, ha, ha, exactly. That anyways, my brothers and sisters.
Number five. What's number five? Principle number five. That Principle number five, I will not have to mention it to you. I'm going to talk about
the role of the Father.
The core role of the Father, this is Principle number five, the core role of the father.
My brothers and sisters, let me start this with like a movie again.
Long time ago,
the father was like, I mean, things have changed a lot.
A lot, lot, lot.
Right.
Long time ago. The father was like the foundation of everything.
He was he was involved in everything the father a long time ago. Right.
He was the source of the family values.
He was the source of peace and and and security at home. Still any but not like before a long time ago.
And Father cannon rugby he was the one who's really used to educate and discipline the Father. Because who disciplines today, social media, who displays today, Facebook and Instagram and tik tok and, and, and, and YouTube. You know, that's what you know, disciplines are kids today, but long time ago, Don who used to really discipline and educate was the father the Father.
But unfortunately, a lot of fathers today what they have done, they have written a statement and they have passed that statement to their wives. In that statement they wrote as of today. I my role is the Minister of Finance. My role is to pay the bills. My role is to pay the bills.
Everything else
is yours. The responsibility of the kids the responsibility of the house, the response of the cocaine response or whatever it is. It is yours.
responsibility, my responsibility lies in paying the bills.
He's working hard, working hard.
But my brothers and sisters, what some fathers do not understand is, and please let me know if I'm wrong or right.
What some parents what some fathers don't understand is this, that a mom, she cannot discipline or educate or raise the kids alone. And also the father, he cannot raise the kids alone.
They have to partake in this endeavor. Raising the kids together. The mom, she cannot play the role of the dad and the dad cannot run or play the role of the mom, they cannot pray to play the role of one another. The mom has her role, and the father has his role. But they have to both partake in the disciplining and raising the kids. It is not man's job, it is not that job.
It is everybody's job to raise the kids together.
Right. So some parents, they got it a little bit wrong in their mind.
Right? Yes, some parents, some fathers, they have provided one main thing.
The two things here, they have provided
they have provided physical stuff, tangible stuff, they have provided materialistic stuff to their kids. They have provided materialistic stuff to their kids, but they have missed out on one very core element. And that core element is time. Time.
And what I say Time, time does not mean we send it together. The kids are on their phone, the daughter on her phone, the mom on her and the dad is looking at his magazine or the TV. That's not time together. That's not time together. Now. That's not what I'm talking about. When I say time together, I means quality time together. Not everybody is on their phone. They're eating together yet they're not together. That's not that's not together. You know, that's not what I'm talking about. So some of the parents they got it wrong. They say I am doing I'm working for my kids. Yes, we all are
providing so much for the kids, providing them with materialistic things, but they have missed out on one core element, which is time time.
Matan shocked, he didn't give them a lot. That quality time.
Even the kids now which are smart. So Pamela, they come to the den because I'm focusing on the dads now I'm going to talk about moms that are wrong. I'm focusing about dads. They just they whatever they want something from the dads they go to him. They only go to the dad whenever they want something. They don't go to the dad to spend time with the dad to see how he's doing to sit down to remember the remember the dream I shared with you the dream Exactly. It is like the dream. They only go to bed whenever they want something from the dead. But not to check on the dad's unfortunately, how he's doing or spending time together. How's your day? How's this house school? Never fish
whenever they want some money or want to go out? I want something that that.
Look.
Even prophets who are dads, they were busy. You cannot be as busy as a prophet. Huh? You cannot tell me the dads who are here and I'm dad to ha I'm a dad, I'm a father to you cannot tell me I'm a dad. I'm very busy. You cannot busy. You cannot be busier than profits. profits were the busiest they had this they had they had the mission, the mission to to raise nations and to convey the message of Allah subhanho wa Taala.
There wouldn't suit a man.
So the man the father,
there would
How is their relationship?
How is the relationship with Ibrahim and he's married?
Well, when he said that, oh, that's what he said. Oh, that's really man.
That's why I'm saying bring everybody that then listen to this. I cannot fix like I mentioned in Episode Number one, fix everybody's houses problems, but I can share with you principles.
I'm going to now today I'm going to talk to the fathers.
A bohemian is made
by Barack Obama who sat on a boy night when he started walking because he was a kid right? But now he's a little bit younger, right and he's walking and the father can play by him.
My my son alized ocean has ordered me to build the cabinet to build the house. Would you help me? Would you help me?
And the census? Yes That of course I will.
And then Allah Subhana Allah Allah says Allah, Allah, verse number 127 or less pianos that is what is the other phone? He bought along he mukalla domina
What is your phone he bought? he emailed
me a lot better than me.
In the semi on Annie, what is the other final a ball here Monica domina. Baby do what you smell in a lump burner.
In destiny on Annie Ibrahim a nice man together. They're raising that foundation of the Kaaba. And then and then they make in Doha together the they're making their act together what kind of a banner to have vermin in the cemetery. Imagine the Father, you know, he takes the rock, you know from his son. And then he puts it in the callback one right after another one break after another. He goes in and they're working together. And then the father goes back a little bit up into the stationary bar he he looks making sure the cabin is level and then he goes back and then they're working together making the banner above me now like except from us in the contest similar I mean, you are the most
hearing you are the most knowing szczepanik What a beautiful project between the Father and the Son.
So my brothers, I tell the fathers today, please cancel. Please No. and No that statement which you have written and given to your wives and knowledge, Carla's invalidate that statement and participate together because as I mentioned, this responsibility of raising the kids, it has to partake between you two, not pair, not you, but together. So cancel that and be there for your kids.
Because we don't want the fathers to come to us. As they did so many of them came to us crying. My daughter ran away. My daughter ran away. My son is in drugs. My son is in drugs. My son is sniffing My son is this my daughter she wants to marry well, like I'm serious. This is what I hear from people that came to me. My daughter wants to marry this Christian boy. What like, I swear, a guy came to me I was going to dimension. My daughter wants to marry this boy who's Christian? He's not even a Muslim is Christian.
In my mind, where were you dad's? In my mind, Where are you guys? Where were your mom? Your daughter didn't just come and round like that your son didn't just come and round like that your son didn't just come in and start you know, getting drugs. Where were you dad? Where were your mom?
Working hard? Yeah, definitely working hard. We all do. The kids, the children, the children, the air that we breathe.
The air that we breathe.
So here are three things to the fathers. I hope the fathers are listening to me that please listen to me. I'm a dad. And this is from that to that. Okay. This is from father to father. Any dads around here other than brother Hafiz Mohan.
Other than the other half is move on any dads around here because this has to happen between that to that. Listen to me. I want to tell you something. Three, advice.
Three, that's where are the dads?
Or the fathers?
Or the fathers here can mean that okay, three three advice. Are you listening to me? That's where are the dads there? No dad's here. Only our brother come in. Whereas Hafiz mobile.
You will have Soho
chameleon listening Mashallah you're the only dad here but how is mobile is listening as well as our cola head. cf Alan is there Okay. See if you're there. All right. Light spread is there are the are the dads? That's good. him too that dads are here. How is nobody is there? Somebody your daddy's asleep?
That's what we're talking about. The dad is asleep. Then please tell him to listen to this later on. All right. Tell him to listen to this. Right. Tell him to listen to this. So Maria, tell your dad to listen to this. All the dads three pieces of advice.
As he was listening, Nadia, Nadine as he was listening. All right, three pieces of advice.
Monday challah
Monday, I will share with you the advice golden advice for dads inshallah.
I got to I had to, I had to, I got to throw it in there somehow somewhere. I got to slip it in. I got a slipping in right slipping a cliff out there. And so, Meja, work your father up for next time Tell him to share hazard advice, right. So please wake up Wakey wakey daddy Wakey wakey Daddy, you know the dance they love this things from the girls. Maybe the the the boys, they won't do that to their dance. The boys they won't do that. But the girls the girly girly the girly. So you Semenya you pamper your dad. He loves to be pampered because he Pampers you. So wake him up, daddy. B you call him a d a b a boo. You may call him a boo, boo, boo. Boo jam. A boo boo Jamie says Betty
g g Betty g d, it will do this G Betty. It says a Bo Schaffer yard has an advice for you Please wake up wake up and you say TK TK and then you go like this with it right is how you do it in Charlottetown. So, Monday inshallah brothers and sisters Monday Charla, I will share with you my advice for the fathers in the lab and talk more about the father and Sharla horchata and talk about the role of the father
the role of the Father, I will talk about the father of the role model, I will talk about the father the friend, I will talk about the father Yeah, you know, how many roles I have for the Father, I have so many roles of the Father you want imagine?
So many roles, right? So inshallah tada right? That will be shared with you because the law Monday Monday inshallah hotel Monday, tomorrow is the day of tomorrow Sunday inshallah. But before you go before you go, remember, I told you my poem, The poem for those of you who came in late
for those of you who came in late
All right.
This is for the dads.
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Please be patient with me. I'm just kicking Instagram back to live again.
Those of you on Facebook. Give me a second.
All right, you're back with hamdulillah the back. Y'all love smilla they're back.
I will try. Yeah, I will. I will. I will inshallah give you the translation as well. I will. I will translate it at the end. It's in Arabic, but I will translate it in Sharla with Allah in the end, I will give you the translation as well. All right. I will give you the translation once I'm done Shabbat.
Yes, I will give you the translation. So I'm going to share with you a poem about
adds in Arabic and then give you the translation at the end of the shallow tag.
Alright, here we go. There we go.
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It says
the house cannot be built unless it has a foundation. And you my dad, you are the foundation of our home.
You are the foundation of our home.
Regardless of how old we get,
and how grown up we get or that
you're a man that is on our shoulder until the end of time, we can never be able to pay you back.
Or my dad
regardless of how grown up we get, or our that
you're a man that is on our shoulder and we can never pay you back until the end of time.
If it wasn't for you, and Allah, that if it was not for Allah, if it was not for Allah then knew that we will not be where we are today.
If it was not for Allah, they knew that
we will not be where we are today.
Or how many times you struggled and made so much efforts
and how many times you had restless nights
restless nights
Trying to think on how to provide for us
or your River. You either river
overflown with its Hannon with its tenderness, or that you are a river, which overflown with his tenderness.
We did not forget all that. We did not forget your your prayer rug. At the time when you wanted to make your Salah.
We did not forget your prayer rug. We used to come and bring it along to you the day when you wanted to, you know, offer your setup. And you shared so many tears on your rug. Oh Dad, when you were praying making the offer us.
We did not forget all that. When we were kids,
when we used to wait for you,
in the end of the day, coming back from work.
You were so excited, waiting for you that
when you were coming back in the end of the day from work, we did not forget.
So your vein, your name, your Amana is on our shoulder until the end of time, and we can never pay you back. Oh that
this is for the dads out there.
This is for all the fathers out there.
anybody whose dad is alive, cherish that moment.
And anybody who's that has passed away.
The only thing you can make for him right now is to
make lots of data for your parents. And for you. That's my brothers and sisters. This was zazzy
episode number three from homemade happiness. Talking about the dreams and talking about the role of the dads. ask Allah subhana wa attallah to bless our dads ask Allah Subhana Allah to bless our fathers. I ask Allah Xhosa to cherish them subhanho wa Taala and to bless them with the best of this dunya in the best of the era. I asked Allah subhanho wa Taala to show his mercy upon those that were passed away. I ask Allah Subhana Allah to grant them and for those that Allah I ask Allah subhanho wa Taala to grant them the ability to see his face in China. They asked Allah Subhana to make them the neighbors of the Prophet Mohammed and Jenna, my brothers and sisters, the other zazzy one more
time saying is that Kamala hair, thank you so much. Thank you Kadima. Thank you, man. Thank you Now we're thinking as well. Thank you, Justine. Thank you, Nadia. Thank you, me. Thank you. One other one love. Thank you. Mariana. Thank you have his heart. Thank you, Laila. Thank you. Thank you, Mama and ahref and sumaiya mirage. Thank you. Thank you for joining Anisha thank you all is that Kamala hair? This is it. I'm done. No. Next time we'll be on Monday inshallah. hota. Thank you so much Amanda Callaghan this way again, all of you out there may Allah bless you all Nadia Nadeem Zakouma hair, please send them to your husband for me inshallah to Allah nassima is a cola head. Thank you
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May Allah bless you as my eyes I come alive. Hello. Hello FICO man. The oddity Sam, thank you so much for being here. So me Yeah, as I come to Russia, Sunday is a day off Sunday's a day of preparation. So come back Monday inshallah. Tada Camille is Aquila falabella Coffee comm thank you for joining Diane Kean. Thank you for joining Diane. Diane keen. I like your name. Thank you for joining me, Allah bless us Kamala hair. Thank you again. metallisation except you're fasting. May Allah subhanaw taala accept your your, your your,
your breaking of the fast and you that you bet that in Ramadan. Thank you Fifi and Kadima. Thank you so much by the kilo. feeco You know, this is an odd night tonight the night of the 23rd is an odd night. No, no, no, no. Today's the 24th is it? 2014 Yeah, today's 24th you know, so tomorrow's an odd net. Don't miss out on any opportunity in Sharla who tada is that Kamala Harris Baraka Luffy calm Thank you so much. We'll see you Monday in Sharla Monday Chaga Tara Baraka Luffy comm Santa Monica, Santa Monica, Santa Monica
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