Rasul Suluki – Healing Through Salawat and the Remembrance of Allah

Rasul Suluki
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The speaker discusses how they were surprised to be part of a group of young people who were suffering from anxiety and depression. They explain that the focus now is on balancing one's thoughts and doing things to improve oneself, rather than just trying to get medication. The speaker also emphasizes that the focus now is on the importance of balancing one's thoughts and doing things to improve oneself, rather than just trying to get medication.
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Alhamdulillah,

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it's

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a real blessing to be here and

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to be in the company of young people

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who are here.

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We are

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very grateful to Allah

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that he has made us one of the

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people

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that he brings to gatherings like this.

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And,

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one of the things that I've been

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dealing with is

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the surprise that there are so many people

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suffering from

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anxiety and depression.

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And,

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I I was thinking

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when I was younger,

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we didn't have people

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in this proportion

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that had these problems.

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But then I had to rethink it.

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And

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instead of them getting medication from the doctor,

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they were getting medication from

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the liquor store or some other

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way to deal with their depression.

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And so

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we're looking to our deen,

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and we're looking to Allah

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to help us

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to overcome

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the difficulties in our life. Like the young

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man

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who said he,

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you know,

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had a illness that he's

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grappling with.

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And alhamdulillah,

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you could see by his mood

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that he had been blessed by Allah

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to

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overcome it.

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Even if it's still there, he's overcome it

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because

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his thinking about it is different from where

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it was.

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And this is the same case

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with us.

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I find that there's too much thinking on

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the self,

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And as a result of thinking so much

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about the self

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and this was

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the thing that I was told,

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you know,

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you want to

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improve yourself. And

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when we got to college, we wanted to

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find ourselves

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and

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all of these concentrations

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on the self.

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And it wasn't until coming into

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these gatherings

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like these

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that you find that

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the best thing to do is to lose

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yourself.

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The opposite of what everyone emphasizes

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in this society

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is

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you're the most important thing. You're the greatest.

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You're the this. You're the that.

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But really,

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the focus

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now is to

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forget yourself

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in the remembrance of Allah

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and the salawats on the messenger of Allah

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salawahu alaihi wasalam.

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And this is not an easy task.

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It is one that calls for

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real

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effort

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and real

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pleading with Allah, subhanahu wa ta'ala,

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to give us the tawfiq to be able

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to do it.

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But I find the less I think about

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myself

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and the more I think about Allah,

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the less problems I have.

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And I think that this is a real

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cure, but

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if you're looking for a medication

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or the liquor store, which whichever one you

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might think will help,

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you'll only find more depression and more anxiety.

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But if you

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come to remember Allah,

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and there's a beautiful statement by

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one of our sheikhs

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who said,

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remembering

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the messenger of Allah, salallahu alaihi

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wasallam, and making a solar wats on him

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can balance an unbalanced

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mind.

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That when you're

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when you're struggling with something

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mentally,

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depression and all these other, they got more

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titles now than they ever have. And

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what what's gonna cure it,

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is the balance that one gets by making

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the salawats on the messenger Allah Sallallahu Alaihi

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Wasallam.

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So it's not in the medicine bottle

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and it's not in,

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you know, any of these routines or exercise

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or

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hairdo change or whatever it is,

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it is in

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balancing ourselves

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through the messenger of Allah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam.

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So what are gatherings like this, where we're

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all singing together

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and making silhouettes on the messenger,

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it's

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balancing us.

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And so this is why these sessions are

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so important

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because

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I don't know about you, but for me

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it helps me to get through

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everything that I have to deal with.

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And when you go to the hospital now

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they ask you, are you blue and are

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you sad or are you, you know,

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planning to commit suicide?

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I can go in and check all the

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boxes and say, no. I'm happy. I'm happy.

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I'm happy.

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Like the young man said, he's happy. And

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that is

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because of this.

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So look forward in this. Don't look forward

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in anything else. Spend your time in the

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remembrance of Allah and making the salawats on

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the messenger of Allah and you'll be the

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most stable, peaceful,

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loving, kind, considerate person that there is. And

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we ask Allah

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to give us tawfeeq to be able to

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do it.

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